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How to Attract Premium Clients by Speaking to Identity Instead of Pain Points
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Foreign. Welcome to Woman of Influence. I'm Julie Solomon and this is where high level women come to recalibrate their message, realign their leadership, and rise into the next era of impact. If you're ready to align your visibility with your true authority, if you're called to speak, speak to women at the level you now lead. If you're ready for your business to feel as elevated as the woman running it, this is your space. Because real influence isn't built in the algorithm, it's embodied in your identity. Let's get started. Hello, my friends, and welcome back to another episode. We're going to drop into something today that is very tangible, but also hopefully it shakes you up a little bit. And that is really in terms of how you are showing up and messaging and really the words that you are using and the energy behind that to actually call in your ideal client. Now, if you're anything like a lot of the clients that come through my door, if you've ever felt like you're saying all the right things, you're posting with intention, you're showing up with consistency, and you still feel like your best clients are watching but not buying, this one's for you because your message isn't wrong, your client isn't broken, and you, you're not invisible. This is not a visibility problem. But what if the message that you have been leading with isn't actually the one that she needs to hear? Not because you're out of alignment, not because you've been selling, you know, the wrong offer, but because you've been selling to the wrong part of her. So. So today we're unpacking the real reason that your dream clients are not moving to making a buying decision and how to refine your message so that it lands with precision, creates emotional demand and sparks self trust, which is the most important key that someone needs in order to say yes to you without you having to chase, to push or to prove. So let's go. So often when my clients come to me inside the revenue accelerator, they've already done the work, right? Like they have the offer, they're making sales, they've invested in past strategies. They most likely have some kind of either funnel or sales process in place. Not to say that they don't need refinement there, but they've gotten themselves here, right? But they're still saying things like, I'm tired of content that gets likes or engagement, but it's not helping me convert, or I feel like I'm just constantly repeating myself. No one's actually listening. I feel like I'm talking to a void or something along the lines of of I know the value of what I do. I am really good at what I do because I work with incredible women. But I can't seem to say it in a way that gets the consistent yeses that I need in order to scale. And this is what I always say back to them. You do not need more volume. This is not a lead problem. Because if I dropped a thousand more leads on your lap with you having the same challenge that you currently have, it's just going to create more problems. So it's not more volume. You need more resonance. You're not missing clarity, you're missing that connection. And it's not your fault because most messaging frameworks are built around speaking to the pain point or selling the result. But here is what elevated buyers in 2025 are actually responding to three things. Ready? Write it down, unless you're driving first, identity buying triggers, second, resonance, first messaging and third, identity mirroring. Not just result hyping. And I'm going to be breaking down what those three things are in a moment, but something that we need to get across first is that your ideal client is not sitting around thinking, how do I make $10,000 more dollars this month? What they're thinking is how do I actually attract clients who stay longer, who invest deeper, who see me as essential, not optional. She's not walking around asking herself, how do I get more visible? She's asking, how do I stop being overlooked? Even when I'm showing up every day, even when I am visible. So let me break you down with just sharing my own experience through this. A few years ago I hit just a weird season. And it was kind of a season that I felt like I was like in for a while. And it and it was interesting because yes, I was making money. Yes, I was able to fill my programs up. Sometimes I would hit my goals, sometimes I wouldn't. But it wasn't that. But the deeper connection. Like my engagement was kind of flat. My content felt flat to me, which I know if it felt flat to me, then it had to feel flat to her. And then I noticed something strange. The people that were engaging in my comments, they were not the same people on my checkout page. They would engage in my contents, they would download my freebies, they would show up to my free training. But when it came to actually invest, they were never there. Why? Because with the content I was creating at the time, I was attracting curiosity. But not people that came with a conversion Mindset. And that was the moment that I realized I wasn't speaking to the version of my ideal client who actually decides. I was speaking to the version of her who's curious, who scrolls, who's looking for inspiration, which, guess what that meant. That's who I called in. And the shift wasn't about creating more urgency. It wasn't about getting more leads. It wasn't about refining my offer. It was about sharpening the mirror in which she saw herself. So when I refined the message to speak to that internal trigger, not just her external goal, not just to her pain, but that internal trigger, that is when everything changed. She didn't just listen, she leaned in and then she moved and then she bought. And not because I sold harder or differently. It's because I saw her more clearly and she saw herself more clearly. This also meant that I was calling in a different type of person that was ready to see herself more clearly and ready to make a buying decision. So let me say the quiet part out loud to you right now. Pain point marketing works. I get it. I learned it in college in my marketing classes. It does work. But it takes so much flipping longer to work. Why? Because pain point marketing attracts people who need convincing and it takes a long time to convince somebody of something. Result driven marketing attracts people who are in this phase of kind of just collecting ideas. Right? Right. They're looking to see what options are available to them, what is out there. But identity based marketing, that is actually what moves the type of client who is already ready. They are actively looking for solutions to their problems and they are ready to invest. So when you understand the very micro specific, high value problem, high value transformation that she is currently living and breathing in and experiencing, you can say it better than she can even say it. And what this does is that it allows you to create emotional demand without any kind of hype, without any kind of pressure, without any kind of discounting. Because what this allows you to do, it allows you to position yourself as the only choice without ever needing to say, I'm the only choice. So let me give you a side by side. Typical messaging, right? This is how most people sound online is something like, learn how to get three new clients this week. Okay, so here, here we've got results, right? Three new clients. It's specific this week. It's also kind of tapping in on a pain point. Right? If you're looking to get three new clients this week, then you probably have a challenge with getting clients. But let me give you the opposite of that. So that is the old way of doing it. Resonance. First messaging that is tapped into the identity that I'm talking about would sound a little bit like this. Here's why the right clients are not currently saying yes to you, even though your offer is brilliant and your price is fair. Feel the difference. I don't even want to say, see the difference. Feel that difference. If I were to say to you, stacy, learn how to get three new clients this week. Or if I were to say to you, Stacy, here is why your most premium clients are not saying yes to you right now. Even though your offer is brilliant, your price is share and you're showing up every single day and you're visible, which one would make you lean in more? One is selling a surface level result, which is typically the way that most people message, and it's the way that most people sound. The other one was holding up a mirror to Stacy to the real friction that she is currently navigating in this very moment. This is what I call the identity buying trigger. Because here's the thing, she doesn't need more from you. She doesn't need to see you more. She doesn't need to relate to you more. She doesn't need to feel more of a sisterhood from you. She just needs to feel that you get what she's navigating. So this isn't about showing up more. This isn't about shouting louder. It's about tuning in sharper. Because conversion doesn't happen in the scroll. It happens in the moment that she feels. This is about me. This is exactly where I am. Because here's what your buyer actually craves. Not more information, but the message that gives her access to a next level identity that she already believes is possible. So that in and of itself means that you're going to be calling in people that already believe in that possibility, they're just actively looking for it, versus someone who doesn't believe it at all. Which is typically where pain point marketing and results marketing gets you. Because this type of person, she already knows she's capable. She already knows she's good at what she does, but she's tired of feeling like, why is this still so manual? Why does this still rely so much on me? Why am I still tweaking instead of scaling? And this is why, inside my world, inside the revenue accelerator, we don't just fix a funnel. We refine the root of everything. The messaging, the positioning, the offer flow, how you're meeting your client exactly where she is. We help her see that when your message finally speaks to the part of her that's already leading. That is when you start to collapse the friction around conversion. That is when you stop needing to spend six months to warm her up. She comes in ready, willing, able, sold and certain. Not because you followed a formula, but because you reflected back to her, her next level and you made it feel inevitable. So if no one has told you this lately, let me give you that reminder, my friend. You are not behind. You are not missing some secret script or funnel farm. You're not broken. You don't need to, you know, burn your business down. You just need to message to what your strategy can't. And that is mirror her brilliance back to her name. The things she didn't know how to say reflect her future self so clearly that she moves before you even get to the pitch. That is the power of messaging that makes her move without you having to push. And this is what I work with my clients on every single week inside my world. This is what I've built my business on. It's clarity that positions, it's content that converts and it's all leadership that lasts. Because when your message reflects her identity, not just her pain, not just her results, that's when she buys, that's when she stays. That's when your brand scales without you needing to be the engine behind every single thing in order to make a sale. I'll see you on the next one, my friend. If today's episode served you, don't forget to hit subscribe, leave a review and share it with a woman you know is ready for more. You can now watch every episode every week on Spotify and YouTube and continue to listen on the platform of your choice. And if you want behind the scenes updates on business, messaging, leadership, special promos, the first access to what's happening in my business, in my world. I would encourage you to join my weekly email circle@juliesolomon.com net newsletter. That is where all of this goes down. That is not normally shared publicly. This is where your next era begins and I'm so glad that you're here.