https://eggshelltherapy.com/podcast-blog/2026/05/26/grief/

This is one of my favourite conversations I have recorded for The Intense Mind. As I was researching mortality and grief myself, I came across Professor Cholbi's Grief: A Philosophical Guide as a reader. I loved the book so much that I annotated it heavily. To go from reading the book to sitting with the author feels surreal, in a really wondrous way.

Most of what we are offered when we grieve either asks whether something has gone wrong with us or hands us techniques to manage the pain. A philosophical approach does not try to diagnose grief. Instead, it gives us conceptual tools to understand and think about grief in a new way. It gives us tools to make the experience feel less disorienting without pretending to solve it.

Dr. Cholbi is Chair in Philosophy at the University of Edinburgh and the author of Grief: A Philosophical Guide. In this conversation we discuss:

— Why grief is better understood as a sustained form of attention than as a single emotion

— Whose deaths we actually grieve, and why intimacy and love don't fully explain it

— Ambivalent grief, and the relief that can sit beside sorrow

— Why the pain of grief is not a cost we pay but part of how we understand what we have lost

— His argument that we may have a duty to grieve, and that everyone is entitled to be grieved by someone

— Why he resists treating grief as an illness to be diagnosed and shortened

Professor Cholbi’s website: https://michael.cholbi.com

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