Shark Tank’s Barbara Corcoran Reveals All + Secrets to Success YOU Can Apply to YOUR Life Today!

Summary

The Jamie Kern Lima Show: Barbara Corcoran Reveals All + Secrets to Success YOU Can Apply to YOUR Life Today!

Introduction In this empowering episode of The Jamie Kern Lima Show, host Jamie Kern Lima sits down with real estate mogul and Shark Tank legend, Barbara Corcoran. With an inspiring journey from humble beginnings to building a billion-dollar empire, Barbara shares invaluable insights on overcoming self-doubt, harnessing intuition, and leveraging adversity to achieve unparalleled success.

Barbara Corcoran’s Remarkable Journey Barbara Corcoran's story is one of resilience and ingenuity. Raised as one of ten children in a cramped two-bedroom home, Barbara battled dyslexia and held numerous jobs by the age of 23. In a bold move, she borrowed $1,000 and quit her waitress job to launch a small real estate company from her living room in New York City. Despite early challenges, including eviction threats and unfounded accusations from her landlord, Barbara's tenacity led her to grow the Corcoran Group into the largest and most recognized brand in the brokerage business.

"From $1,000 loan to a billion-dollar business and now she's invested in more than 100 businesses to date." — Jamie Kern Lima [06:34]

Overcoming Self-Doubt and Insecurity Barbara candidly discusses her struggle with self-doubt and how she transformed her internal narrative. She describes her process of "changing the tape" in her head, replacing negative self-talk with affirmations that bolster her confidence.

"I started changing that tape little by little, declaring war on it." — Barbara Corcoran [01:13]

Addressing imposter syndrome, Barbara offers a refreshing perspective, viewing it as a sign of being worthwhile. She emphasizes that insecurity can drive preparation and excellence.

"I have never met a worthwhile person who didn't have imposter syndrome." — Barbara Corcoran [09:30]

Success Strategies: Grit and Intuition Barbara underscores the importance of grit over raw intelligence in business. She explains that resilience—the ability to recover from setbacks—is crucial for sustained success.

"I learned to do that within business. I believe that grit is far more important." — Barbara Corcoran [15:30]

Intuition plays a pivotal role in her decision-making process. Whether on Shark Tank or in personal life, Barbara trusts her gut instincts, which are a culmination of her experiences and knowledge.

"Intuition is a summation of everything you've learned to date." — Barbara Corcoran [16:59]

Innovative Business Moves: The Corcoran Report One of Barbara’s standout strategies was the creation of the Corcoran Report, a real estate ranking system that revolutionized the market. By compiling and publishing average sales prices, she positioned herself as a trusted source, outpacing competitors like Donald Trump.

"The headline was New York City Prices hit All Time low. That was the power of the Corcoran Report." — Barbara Corcoran [43:52]

Personal Life and Marriage Insights Barbara opens up about her unique approach to marriage, revealing that she and her husband Bill sleep in separate bedrooms—a strategy that has sustained their nearly three-decade-long marriage. This arrangement provides each of them with the personal space needed to recharge and maintain a healthy relationship.

"I have to invite him into my bedroom and it's like it's his birthday." — Barbara Corcoran [02:07]

She also shares heartfelt stories about proposing to her husbands, emphasizing the importance of intuition and mutual trust in her relationships.

"I knew, you know, it's something about... your intuition." — Barbara Corcoran [18:56]

Handling Adversity: From Eviction to Expansion Barbara recounts a pivotal moment when her business partner and boyfriend decided to leave her for her secretary. Faced with betrayal and uncertainty, she made the courageous decision to shut down the existing business and start anew. This bold move fueled her determination to succeed independently, ultimately leading to the sale of her business for $66 million.

"That was the founding of the Corcoran Group, and I named it the Corcoran Group because I knew I was going to need every ounce of my seven people's energy as a group to bring us through." — Barbara Corcoran [28:48]

Leadership and Team Building: The Power of Strategic Partnerships Barbara highlights the significance of building a strong team, particularly her strategic partnership with Esther, a middle-rung producer who complemented her marketing prowess. This collaboration exemplifies how recognizing and leveraging individual strengths can propel a business to new heights.

"She was great at systems... and I was great at the things that she wasn't good at. You know, marketing." — Barbara Corcoran [38:21]

Her ability to see potential in others and empower her team is a recurring theme, illustrating the impact of positive leadership on business growth.

Key Takeaways and Lessons for Success Throughout the conversation, Barbara imparts several key lessons:

1. Change Your Internal Narrative: Actively work to replace negative self-talk with affirming statements to build self-worth.

   "It takes a bit of dreaming and commitment to go from where you are to where you want to go." — Barbara Corcoran [07:15]

2. Embrace Grit: Persistence and resilience are more critical than innate intelligence in achieving long-term success.

   "Grit takes a lot of forms that are essential in business." — Barbara Corcoran [15:30]

3. Trust Your Intuition: Rely on your gut feelings developed through experience to guide your business and personal decisions.

   "You have to learn to trust your gut." — Barbara Corcoran [16:59]

4. Strategic Team Building: Partner with individuals whose strengths complement your own to create a balanced and effective team.

   "Together we were able to build that business because she was strong as a container and I was a strong expander." — Barbara Corcoran [38:21]

5. Transform Adversity into Strength: Use challenges and setbacks as catalysts for growth and innovation.

   "I have often thought, thank God I got that insult, because I don't even know if I would have really made it through all the tough times." — Barbara Corcoran [31:58]

Closing Thoughts Barbara Corcoran's journey is a testament to the power of self-belief, strategic thinking, and unwavering resilience. Her insights provide a roadmap for aspiring entrepreneurs and individuals seeking to overcome personal and professional obstacles. Jamie Kern Lima eloquently captures Barbara's essence, encouraging listeners to believe in their worth and pursue their dreams with determination.

"You are worthy. You are loved. You are love." — Jamie Kern Lima [51:14]

Final Inspiration Barbara passionately endorses Jamie's book Worthy, highlighting its potential to transform lives by empowering individuals to overcome self-doubt and embrace their true potential.

"This book is going to change lives. Jamie's book Worthy is a must read. It is going to inspire you, empower you, give you the hope that you need and the kick in the rear end that you deserve." — Barbara Corcoran [49:37]

This episode is a treasure trove of wisdom for anyone looking to elevate their personal and professional life. Barbara Corcoran's authentic and strategic approach to overcoming challenges offers listeners actionable insights to become unstoppable in their own journeys.

Transcript

[Jamie Kern Lima]

Empowered women empower women. And today we've got an empowered woman who's going to empower you on the show. You've heard her say you've got a deal on ABC's hit show Shark Tank for 16 seasons. Barbara Corcoran is an Emmy award winning shark and executive producer on the show. She's the founder of the Corcoran Group and her journey to this moment we're all sharing together right now is nothing short of remarkable. Barbara, I came.

[Barbara Corcoran]

You came home to me in New York. Thanks for having my town.

[Jamie Kern Lima]

Yes. Good honor to be in your town.

[Barbara Corcoran]

It's my town.

[Jamie Kern Lima]

This is your town. This is your town. I am so excited for this conversation. Barbara Corcoran, welcome to the Jamie Kern Lima show. You are such a badass. You are such a badass.

[Barbara Corcoran]

I don't kill myself.

[Jamie Kern Lima]

You're a business icon. You're a business legend. Walking arm in arm with you down the streets of New York City just felt like this. It's a moment I'll never forget.

[Barbara Corcoran]

I think I'm successfully insecure.

[Jamie Kern Lima]

That's such a cool perspective.

[Barbara Corcoran]

I actually started working on that tape that told me I didn't deserve to be there. I wasn't smart enough. I wasn't being heard. Why did I waste my time coming? I could be doing something better. Yet a million excuses why I made a mistake in putting myself out. But then I started changing that tape little by little, declaring war on it.

[Jamie Kern Lima]

In a way, you went to war with those thoughts in your head. You proposed to both of your husbands.

[Barbara Corcoran]

I should have thought about it.

[Jamie Kern Lima]

So you knew. You just knew.

[Barbara Corcoran]

I knew. You know, it's something about. Again, it's your intuition.

[Jamie Kern Lima]

You say one of the secrets to the success of your marriage. You guys have been sleeping in separate bedrooms. That is a secret for decades. Can you talk about this? Because maybe a bunch of us are getting it wrong. Right now.

[Barbara Corcoran]

I have to invite him into my bedroom and it's like it's his birthday.

[Jamie Kern Lima]

He knows. It's like a sure thing.

[Barbara Corcoran]

Yeah. And I like it because it's a sure thing. Not sure s u r e but s h o r t. Oh, my gosh.

[Jamie Kern Lima]

Can you share a little bit about the boyfriend turned business partner who then really liked your secretary?

[Barbara Corcoran]

He had believed in me. He was a businessman, older than me, and he knew what he was doing. And I felt like I would be nothing without him.

[Jamie Kern Lima]

He's your business partner. You're living together. I mean, your whole life is immersed with each other. And then he says, I'm now going to be with the secretary.

[Barbara Corcoran]

As I was leaving, he said to me, you know you'll never succeed without me.

[Jamie Kern Lima]

You had a landlord that thought you were a prostitute.

[Barbara Corcoran]

Yes.

[Jamie Kern Lima]

And then you end up turning that around.

[Barbara Corcoran]

It's one of my biggest accounts actually.

[Jamie Kern Lima]

Before we jump into this episode, I'd love to invite you to join this community to hear more interviews and one on one conversations with me and you to help you truly believe in yourself and trust yourself and know you are enough so that you can become unstoppable in living your best life. All I want you to do is click on the Follow or Subscribe button on the app that you're listening or watching this episode on. I love your support. It's incredible to see your comments and how many people you're sharing these episodes with and I'm so grateful to be here for you and I'm so excited to go on this journey with you. So thank you so much for subscribing and following the Jamie Cran Lima show. It means so much to me. Who you spend time around is so important as energy is contagious and so is self belief. And I'd love to hang out with you even more, especially if you could use an extra dose of inspiration. Which is exactly why I've created my free weekly newsletter that's also a love letter to you delivered straight to your inbox each and every Tuesday morning from me. If you haven't signed up to make sure that you get it each week, just go to jamiecurnlima.com to make sure you're on the list and you'll get your one on one with Jamie weekly newsletter and get ready to believe in you. If you're tired of hearing the bad news every single day and need some inspiration, some tips, tools, joy and love hitting your inbox. I'm your girl. [e-mail] or in the link in the show notes Jamie Kern Lima is her name.

[Barbara Corcoran]

Everybody needs Jamie Kern Lima in their life. Jamie Kern Lima Jamie, you're so inspiring. Jamie Kern Kern Lima.

[Jamie Kern Lima]

Empowered women empower women and today we've got an empowered woman who's going to empower you on the show. You've heard her say you've got a deal on ABC's hit show Shark Tank for 16 seasons. Barbara Corcoran is an Emmy Award winning shark and Executive Producer on the show. She's the founder of the Corcoran Group and her journey to this moment we're all sharing together right now is nothing short of remarkable. Barbara is one of 10 kids raised in a two bedroom home. She struggled with dyslexia, got straight Ds in school and had 20 jobs by the time she turned 23. She then borrowed $1,000 and quit her job as a waitress to start a small real estate company in New York City. She grew the Corcoran Group into the largest and best known brand in the brokerage business and Barbara became one of the most successful entrepreneurs in the country. From $1,000 loan to a billion dollar business and now she's invested in more than 100 businesses to date. She's also so sharp, quick witted and so, so funny. Plus there's something she did to me behind the scenes on Shark Tank that I'm going to share with you that made my jaw hit the floor and made my soul explode like a giant heart emoji. I am so excited for this conversation. Barbara Corcoran, welcome to the Jamie Kern Lima show.

[Barbara Corcoran]

I'm looking forward to it so much. Thank you so much.

[Jamie Kern Lima]

I'm so excited and I just love you and thank you for being here. This show is going to be, I already know, such a blessing and so inspiring to so many people. So I want to just right off the top ask you that so many of us get underestimated or we underestimate ourselves. And you and your journey have gone from like underestimated to unstoppable in so many areas of life and in your business. And what would you say to the person who is watching us or listening to us right now who maybe is feeling underestimated or they're underestimating themselves?

[Barbara Corcoran]

I think it's very natural to feel underestimated because who you have is what you've had so far. And so it takes a bit of dreaming and commitment to go from where you are to where you want to go. So you feel to yourself, I think most damaging that you, to use your phrase, not worthy or not going to be able to do it or I just don't have what it's going to take or I don't deserve it or all these things. But it takes, I think, the beginning of changing the tape in your head. I had to consciously do that growing up as a woman. Probably wasn't Until I was 30 years old, I already had my business seven years by then that I actually started working on a tape that told me I didn't deserve to be there. I wasn't smart enough, I wasn't being heard. Why did I waste my time coming? I could be doing something better Yet a million excuses why I made a mistake in putting myself out. But then I started changing that tape little by little, declaring war on it in a way. And it took me a number of years to really change it. And my tape that I listen to now are tapes that shore me up. Things like, you're incredible. You're beautiful, you're brilliant, you're incredible. This guy's really impressed by you. What else can you do? So it's a fooling yourself of sorts. But you fool yourself enough times repeatedly, and you start to fall for it yourself. And if you're falling for it, you're guaranteed that the next guy is falling for it, because people will judge you less harshly than you think they're gonna judge you. There's a self consciousness that doesn't need to be paid attention to, really. It just also gets in the way. What are they thinking of me? But the biggest battle is what do I think of myself?

[Jamie Kern Lima]

Mm. I love that you said you went to war with those thoughts in your head and did you just create your own new tape that played? So anytime you would hear that old tape trying to play, you would like, be like, oh, not today. And like, intention.

[Barbara Corcoran]

Yeah, I would intentionally do it to wipe out the noise in my head. Because you can't listen to your old self telling you who you're really supposed to be when you're looking for your new self. So I think it's impossible to have that tape going in your head and to fight against it. So you need to have a more familiar, more friendly tape, however short it is. Less damaging tape, I would say.

[Jamie Kern Lima]

Yeah, I love that though, because it's like you have the power to create your own tape. Like, right. You're the musician. So, so many people. It's like right now, 80% of women don't believe they're enough. 75% of executive women deal with imposter syndrome, and that comes from that tape. A lot of times that we're.

[Barbara Corcoran]

But also, I have a theory on imposter syndrome. I have never met a worthwhile person who didn't have imposter syndrome. I think the more you're self conscious about maybe, are you the real deal? Are you faking it? How did I really get here? And you're answering to your insecurities as an individual. I think that pushes you ahead in a way. What it does for me, it makes me over prepare. It makes me dead serious about what I have to do, even if I've done it 100 times before. I think to myself, oh, My God, I might not like preparing for this. Today I was thinking, oh God, what is she going to talk about? What do I do? And I had clear thoughts in my head of what I wanted to cover. And that comes from insecurity. If I was secure, I just walk into your set and say, hey, how you doing? What are your questions? But I'll do a better job because of the insecurity. So I'm all for insecurity. I think I'm successfully insecure, but definitely insecure. And I hope to be for the rest of my career.

[Jamie Kern Lima]

That's such a cool perspective. And I think sometimes people know they're insecure, so then they think somehow I'm not qualified to do what Barbara's done. I'm insecure.

[Barbara Corcoran]

They should only know.

[Jamie Kern Lima]

Do you deal with insecurity a lot but you just see it as a strength?

[Barbara Corcoran]

I deal with it all the time because I'm human and it's human condition. But I have to say, because of the changing of the tape in my head, it's helped me tremendously to be less insecure. I will usually approach any situation thinking, well, I've done it 100 times. I've prepared really well. I'm dealing with, with a nice person, I'm looking good, my makeup's right. So all the supports that you need to get your self confidence, they might sound trivial, but they all add up. But then when I sit in the seat, I'm about as good as I can get to go. Unless then I have a confidence that I'll probably it's going to go okay because I prepared so well.

[Jamie Kern Lima]

Yeah. I'm so grateful you're sharing this right now because you already know this too. You are such a badass. You are such a badass. I don't give myself a business icon. You're a business legend. Walking arm in arm with you down the streets of New York City just felt like this. It's a moment I'll never forget. And so what I appreciate so much is you're also sharing things that allow everyone else watching us and listening to us right now to go, oh, wow, okay. So Barbara feels the way I feel sometimes. And maybe my dreams are possible too.

[Barbara Corcoran]

Of course. But Jamie, I have to make a confession here. When I walked down the street arm and arm with you, I had one thought. I wonder if I could sell her an apartment. It's so in you a broker anymore? It's so much in me. I bet you would buy a good one. I'd make a lot of money.

[Jamie Kern Lima]

That's amazing.

[Barbara Corcoran]

I didn't say that to you. I said, nice to see you.

[Jamie Kern Lima]

That is amazing. I am on the topic of apartments. Oh, my gosh. Just reading your books and just learning about you firsthand. There are so many skills and instincts that you have. Success leaves clues, right? That famous thing, successful clues. I am so excited to dive into some of these things because I feel like these lessons you have learned on all of our behalf can really help us in so many ways in all areas of life, whether it is personal life or business. And I want to ask you especially because, oh, my gosh, people talk about now the glass ceiling and now the challenges, you know, being a woman in business, all of that. When your entire journey, I mean, do you. Do you think that being underestimated can actually. That you can use being underestimated to your advantage?

[Barbara Corcoran]

Of course. Listen, when I started my business, it was a men's world. All the businesses were owned by men. They were worked by women. There wasn't a woman in sight. So I felt initially that I had some disadvantage. Was not the case. I was invisible. There's a great power to being invisible and coming up from the rear and taking over. And that's exactly what I did. I was able to steal my competitors, which are much bigger than me, their positions in the market because I stole the limelight from them and they weren't getting media coverage. That's really what I used to build my business. But certainly being invisible is a wonderful, wonderful advantage. I can't say I ever thought of myself in business as a woman. I don't think there was a day I thought, oh, God, I'm a woman. It's a disadvantage. I'm a woman. Whatever. I just thought of myself as a competitor. If I sat next to a man who owned the biggest firm in town and I was a nobody and he was treating me as a nobody, I would just say quietly to myself, not very nice, wait till you see what I'm gonna do to you. I would dwell on it and really plot how I was going to get that guy. Because he showed me no respect, and I wanted to get his respect. Why did I care? I'm not even sure why. I guess it was because I was insecure again. But I needed to win the respect. And there was only one way to win the respect. And that was not by saying something clever or wearing the most beautiful suit or whatever. It was about being smarter and more aggressive than him. And so I made it my point to be smarter and a lot more aggressive than him to win the day. And I think that's important for a lot of women. A lot of women that I deal with at Shark Tank very often will say, what about me being a girl? Forget about the fact you're a girl, that you're a woman. Forget about it. Just think of yourself as a competitor, you know, just think yourself that way and it becomes part of you. Really. I think I'm almost like an animal. I would compete for things I didn't even want, which is really sick. I needed to shrink, but I got that. That whole thing going in me really good.

[Jamie Kern Lima]

Yeah. Do you. When you think about your success, do you think that smarts or grit played a bigger role?

[Barbara Corcoran]

Certainly grit. I mean, you need to have great judgment in business. You need to have a gut instinct. You have to need. You need a street smarts, not a book smart, kind of a headset so you can intrinsically feel this is the right move and trust your intuition that you're making the right move and you'd be wrong some of the time, but you have to be right most of the time. So I think I learned to do that within business. I believe that grit is far more important. And grit takes a lot of forms that are essential in business. The best grit in the world is when you knock down a punch in your gut and you stand back up. That takes a lot of grit, and certainly that can be part of life as well. But I've had personally unusually easy life. I'm very thankful for. But I think with your personal life, I think smarts is more important. And it isn't just the smarts of having answers, which I used to think I had for any situation. But it's the smarts of listening, the smarts of thinking you don't have the answers, the smarts of being curious enough to see if you open this door, what's going to happen. You don't always have to have that in business, but in personal life, if you want to develop yourself and be a better person, I think you have to be smart about how you're living. And I think for me, it's more holding back than giving forward. And in business, it's more blasting through doors and opening up and having a lot more grit about what I do, a sense of what I have to hustle out of this situation.

[Jamie Kern Lima]

What role does your intuition play in business? Also in your personal life as well.

[Barbara Corcoran]

Friendships, decisions, everything you know. What is intuition? I don't really know, but in my mind, I think intuition is a summation of everything you've learned to date. It just gets inside you and blends and mixes up and stuff. So I think if you're in a situation. I've been many situations where I've challenged my gut. Like, I can't really logically see what's wrong with this person or the situation. And everything sounds right and I go for it. Particularly on Shark Tank Boy, have I learned to ignore that. Now I ignore the businesses and just look at the individual. And if my gut says I trust the person and they're a winner, I go with it, even if I can't explain why. And when my gut says something's wrong here, I trust it and I don't go with it. Because you really have to learn to trust your gut. If you're half smart, you're learning as you go. So your gut tomorrow is going to be better than your gut today. And there's no sense in challenging whatsoever. I don't think.

[Jamie Kern Lima]

I think a lot of people second guess it, you know.

[Barbara Corcoran]

Oh, terrible. You even know on your SATs not to second guess.

[Jamie Kern Lima]

That's true.

[Barbara Corcoran]

It's usually wrong.

[Jamie Kern Lima]

Well, so many people refer to you as a strong woman. And when I think of a strong woman. You proposed to both of your husbands.

[Barbara Corcoran]

I should have thought about it.

[Jamie Kern Lima]

Can you tell me about that?

[Barbara Corcoran]

Sure. I proposed to my first husband, who was when I was 30. He was seven years younger than me, but he looked older than me. That kind of counted a little bit. But we were dating probably two weeks. When I said, what's your intention? I was close to 30. I wanted to be married by 30. I had that little deadline. He said, what do you mean? We just stayed. I said, you have a week to decide are we going to get married or not? I'd like to marry you. And the week went by. He was very nervous the whole week. But on the seventh day, he says, okay, let's get married. That lasted seven years. The lesson in that is, think about it.

[Jamie Kern Lima]

Wow.

[Barbara Corcoran]

Maybe being aggressive wasn't so good. Now with my second husband, yeah, of course. I just flat out proposed to him right away because I knew he was the love of my life and we were going to have a great marriage. We've been married close to 30 years. Yeah.

[Jamie Kern Lima]

So, Bill.

[Barbara Corcoran]

Bill.

[Jamie Kern Lima]

So you knew. You just knew?

[Barbara Corcoran]

I knew. You know, it's something about. Again, it's your intuition. Both husbands. Well, I was wrong on the first. Somebody was a lovely man and we had a happy six out of seven years, I guess.

[Jamie Kern Lima]

Yeah. Yeah.

[Barbara Corcoran]

You know, but it's something about the way someone holds your hand, immediately you read so me anyway. I read so much into that hand as to whether I trust that person. And I felt like I was going to be protected forever with both of my husbands who knew I had to do the protecting.

[Jamie Kern Lima]

Oh, my gosh. You're a great protector, though.

[Barbara Corcoran]

I am.

[Jamie Kern Lima]

No, you are.

[Barbara Corcoran]

Don't mess with my people.

[Jamie Kern Lima]

Yeah, yeah. I have to say, like, I walked on the set of Shark Tank and I didn't know what to expect. You know, I had no idea. I'll get into Shark Tank.

[Barbara Corcoran]

You didn't? Look at you. You looked like you were red at home. The minute you sit in that seat. You looked like you were at home.

[Jamie Kern Lima]

Oh, well, I knew I'd put in the reps. I knew. I knew I'd been through every phase of whatever entrepreneur is going to walk through that door. I know I've lived what they're going through, wherever they're at in their business. And also, I'm so respectful that it's your show, it's the Shark show, and the team there. And I'm walking onto the set and I have to say, you were the biggest surprise and blessing in the way.

[Barbara Corcoran]

How nice of you.

[Jamie Kern Lima]

I felt like you were the protector of me in a way, like.

[Barbara Corcoran]

Well, you were a woman. I had a woman on my team.

[Jamie Kern Lima]

Yes, yes. And you just. Oh, my gosh. Came right up to me. And when you handed me that list of questions that helped you 16 seasons ago when you started, you're like, you know, if these can help you in any way.

[Barbara Corcoran]

Cheat sheet. Cheat.

[Jamie Kern Lima]

Because you gotta hop in. You gotta get in there. And I was like, just looking at you, and I remember those words just kept going through my head. Empowered women. Empower women.

[Barbara Corcoran]

Yes, yes.

[Jamie Kern Lima]

And we don't always see that. And I just felt like you were this. Yeah. Like you wanted me to win. And that felt so good. So thank you for that.

[Barbara Corcoran]

And that is my actually natural secret sauce. And it wasn't just because you were a guest on the set, but I think what I do well, particularly with the people that care to follow me in life in whatever capacity, working, friendship, whatever. I think I do very well in empowering people because I really see the best in them. When you sat on that seat, I said, she's at home. She's pretty, she's confident, she's had enormous success. She's going to be a winner. I knew that right away. So how much empowering does that take? But you also see people in life who don't have all that Going for them, but I could see the light in them. I know what they do well. I know how to bring it out. That is my secret sauce in building businesses. No doubt.

[Jamie Kern Lima]

Yeah. And it's been fun. You know, as a viewer. So many people watching us right now are listening, will relate to this. It's fun to watch you see that light in people. I remember the pork belly pig barbecue sauce. And you saw that light in him. And yes, he resembled a really cute pig. But also, you saw, like that, and he got on board with it, you know, and that was fun to see. And. Yeah, so you're. That's.

[Barbara Corcoran]

So I called him a pig. That was an easy season. And my producer wouldn't. He said, you don't call people a pig on set. I said, he likes it. He likes looking like a pig, and he needs it for his brand. I had him write a letter to my producer and say, please let that comment stand. I love looking like a pig. And it went on air.

[Jamie Kern Lima]

And it went on air. And he's very trim. And it was more just. His face was so sweet. Like a baby pig. Like a baby pig. Got it. Oh, I totally got it. And I saw it right when you said it. I'm like, I see that. I get that. I see the brand. I see it. Just all of it. And so, yeah, you do see the light in people. You know, on the topic of husbands, with your husband Bill, now you say one of the secrets to the success of your marriage. You guys have been sleeping in separate bedrooms.

[Barbara Corcoran]

That is a secret for decades.

[Jamie Kern Lima]

Can you talk about this? Because maybe a bunch of us are getting it wrong right now.

[Barbara Corcoran]

Well, I think there's something to be said about your own private space. Yes, I would leave a very busy. I lead a very busy life. I have a huge family that I'm always entertaining. I have very sincere, active friends. And so what I need more than anything else is a respite. And my husband is not relaxing. He has more ideas on his head that make no sense. And for me to come up with the energy at the end of a day to listen to him and to nod and to contribute to the conversation, I run a little short. Better. I go to my room, and I have an hour to myself. If I go to the living room, my husband follows me. I go to my bedroom. He doesn't dare come in. I have to invite him into my bedroom, and I like it that way. He's never invited me back because he knows I'll never come into his bedroom. But I have to Invite him into my bedroom. And it. It's like. It's his birthday. How old are you, Bill? Come on in.

[Jamie Kern Lima]

Well, is. Yeah. Can you talk about that? Because does it make it, like, you.

[Barbara Corcoran]

Know, make sex better? No, but he thinks it does.

[Jamie Kern Lima]

Ah. Because he knows it's like a sure thing.

[Barbara Corcoran]

Yeah. And I like it because it's a sure thing. Not sure S u r e but S h o r T. Oh, my gosh.

[Jamie Kern Lima]

And I saw online that you dressed as Taylor Swift and him as Travis Kelsey. So. So. So when you guys invite each other. So I thought he invited you to One Way Street. Remember, It's a One Way Street.

[Barbara Corcoran]

One Way Street.

[Jamie Kern Lima]

Okay. Has he ever tried to invite each other? Yes.

[Barbara Corcoran]

And I said, no, thank you. That's why he hasn't come back.

[Jamie Kern Lima]

He hasn't come back. And so he waits for the invitation.

[Barbara Corcoran]

Yes, he does. It's less hurtful.

[Jamie Kern Lima]

And then is it like. Do you guys do, like, special nights or like, was the Taylor Swift thing one of those invitations?

[Barbara Corcoran]

No, I'm afraid it wasn't. Me looking like sexy Taylor Swift. Bill had no idea who she was. He wouldn't be turned on for you. He thought it was kind of odd. But I'll play along with you. No. My idea of a special night with my husband at this is a good game of Scrabble. He'll often say to me, s or s? And I'll say scrabble because at first S means sex. And I'll say, no, Scrabble. And I love beating him at Scrabble and he loves meeting me at Scrabble and that's a great night. That and a glass of wine for me. It makes a great night.

[Jamie Kern Lima]

That's a great night because I go.

[Barbara Corcoran]

To my bedroom because it's your bedroom.

[Jamie Kern Lima]

That's like the best night with a friend too. Scrabble and whine.

[Barbara Corcoran]

Yes. Did you play Scrabble?

[Jamie Kern Lima]

Yeah.

[Barbara Corcoran]

I could beat you. I'm sure.

[Jamie Kern Lima]

I bet you could beat me.

[Barbara Corcoran]

I know all the little cheat words, you know?

[Jamie Kern Lima]

I bet you do. I'm not, like, sharp on it. I've played with my husband and I'm telling you, he cheats at Scrabble.

[Barbara Corcoran]

Oh.

[Jamie Kern Lima]

So then I get mad. I know. And then he'll debate and I'm just like, okay. But I love Scrabble and I love wine. So there you go. I might knock on your bedroom door one night and see. Okay. So many incredible, relatable things that you've gone through that I feel like how you've handled them are so inspiring. And can you share a little bit about the boyfriend turned business partner who then really liked your secretary? There is so much more coming up in this episode. You are not going to want to miss it. But first I wanted to share this with you. In life you don't soar to the level of your hopes and dreams. You stay stuck at the level of your self worth. When you build your self worth you change your entire life. And that's exactly why I wrote my new book Worthy how to believe you are enough and transform your life for you. If you have some self doubt to destroy and a destiny to fulfill, Worthy is for you. In Worthy you'll learn proven tools and simple steps that bring life changing results like how to get unstuck from the things holding you back, build unshakable self love, unlearn the lies that lead to self doubt and embrace the truths that wake up worthiness, overcome limiting beliefs and imposter syndrome. Achieve your hopes and dreams by believing you are worthy of them and so much more. Are you ready to unleash your greatness and step into the person you were born to be? Imagine a life with zero self doubt and unshakable self worth. Get your copy of Worthy plus some amazing thank you bonus gifts for [e-mail] or the link in the show notes below. Imagine what you'd do if you fully believed in you. It's time to find out with Worthy. Imagine what would you do if you fully believed in you. My weekly free inspirational newsletter is packed with tips and tools to help you find out. It's called One on One With Jamie and it's delivered right to your inbox each Tuesday morning. It's a love letter from me to you, from my soul to yours, and I hope it brings you the words and messages you need at just the right moment. Plus, when you're a part of my free inspirational newsletter community, you'll be the first to get behind the scenes content, inspirational messages and be the first to learn about upcoming events and more. It's the place to be and I sure hope you'll join me there. So if you're not on the list yet, you can sign up for free at jamiecurnlima.com or click the link in the show notes below. And here's to becoming unstoppable together. And now more of this incredible conversation together. Can you share a little bit about the boyfriend turned business partner who then really liked your secretary?

[Barbara Corcoran]

Oh, he definitely liked Tina, no doubt about it. Yeah, well I had been in partnership with my boyfriend for about seven years when he came home one night because I was watching his three children. I was Mrs. Mom, sort of, but I came from a family of 10 kids that was nothing to me. It was quite normal. And he came home one night when I was making the pasta, and he said, I have something serious to discuss. I'm going to marry your secretary. And I immediately said, tina, the bitch, who was perfectly fine the day before, but my, my, you know. And he said, yes, but take your time moving out. And I took about a minute, grab my toothbrush, was out of there. That, for me, was a very tumultuous time, a negative time, a time when I questioned my very being. Because after all, he had found me in my hometown. After all, he had loaned me the thousand dollars to start my business. He had believed in me. He was a businessman, older than me, and he knew what he was doing. And I felt like I would be nothing without him. How I ever concluded that, I have never. I've never even wondered really how I got there. But there I was nonetheless. And then Tina was 10 years younger than me, had long blonde hair, was much prettier than me. That didn't help at all. And when they moved into my office together and they started giggling and holding hands and I had to wash that through the glass wall, I just thought my heart would break in 100 pieces. But I stayed with it for a good year. And then finally, one day on a Friday morning, I walked in and said, ray, we're ending the business today. We have 14 people. We're chopping them in half. You pick the first and I'll pick the second. We'll go right down the line. It probably took us eight minutes to divide the company. He was in shock and in shock. As I was leaving, he said to me, you know, you'll never succeed without me. And that was the gift of a lifetime that burned in my soul and stomach like nothing I had ever heard in my life. And I knew, as sure as I knew anything, that I would never fail. I just knew I would never fail. I thought I would rather die than let him not succeed. So if I die, I'm dead. So what are you going to talk about? You know? But while I'm alive, I was never going to let him see me not succeed because I was angry. Probably not the right place to come from insult, to gather your power from insult. I would like to think that I don't do that, but I do. If someone insults me or writes me off, it fuels me. It Just gets me really going, really going. And that's exactly what happened. And I. That was the founding of the Corcoran Group, and I named it the Corcoran Group because I knew I was going to need every ounce of my seven people's energy as a group to bring us through. I had so little resource. The odds were against me, but they were phenomenal. My people, they band together. They supported me, I supported them, and we became a powerhouse, like a company of girls that took over the boys network. You know, it took a while. It took me close to 15 years. But in 15 years, I realized he was definitely wrong. I did succeed with Adam when I sold my business for all that cash of 66 million. So I have often thought, thank God I got that insult, because I don't even know if I would have really made it through all the tough times, the obstacles you have to overcome in any business if he hadn't given me that insult.

[Jamie Kern Lima]

Really?

[Barbara Corcoran]

Isn't that weird? It's like, I need a good psychiatrist. Why do I need an insult to get going?

[Jamie Kern Lima]

Well, you know, I think about what you just shared. You said, you know, before that insult had happened, and, you know, he ends things. He's your business partner. You're living together. I mean, your whole life is immersed with each other. And then he says, I'm now going to be with the secretary.

[Barbara Corcoran]

But if they fell in love, you know, looking back, in hindsight, somebody fell in love, of course that was going to happen. They probably didn't plan it that way.

[Jamie Kern Lima]

Well, when you said, when you shared just now, you felt like you were nothing without him, I really did. I see so many people relate to that because they feel that way about their current partner or an ex or something like that. When you got to that moment, Barbara, where you made that decision that you're going to say, no more, we're going to split the business. We're going to part ways. How did you get. How did you get to that moment? Because a lot of people don't get to that moment. They stay in something where they know, like, oh, this relationship isn't good for me, or I'm not happy or somebody's not. Maybe it's a business partnership, this person isn't respecting me or a friendship. This person doesn't love me or treat like a friend the way I treat them. There's a lot of people that have this fear of, I'm nothing without them, and they stay in it. How did. How do you think that you got to that place where you made that decision, I'm going to. I'm going to part ways.

[Barbara Corcoran]

Not the best motivation, but I think anger got me to the decision because I always saw them having fun and having each other and planning their wedding. They were married very quickly, so I guess it was meant to be. And I had nobody. That's how I felt. I think I got tired of being a victim. I don't think I'm a type of personality that plays a victim, but I suddenly recognized the victim in me. That I was thinking, oh, poor me, that was so unfair and so fair. And I think I stopped looking for the excuses not to leave. It was like I felt that maybe he was right. I couldn't do it without him. Maybe I didn't have enough finances, which I definitely didn't. Maybe I owed too much money, which I definitely did. All the real reasons you don't do things, they're all real. The left brain was my brain thinking. And I knew it was just, should. I should wait it out and see where it goes. But then I just got tired of it. I got impatient. And you know what? Those are the best decisions. I think the best decisions are the ones where you do it from an emotional place of power. And I think I just got powerful in that moment. If I had waited till the following Monday, I'm not sure I would have done it. But I felt able, like, we're gonna do it. And when I gathered my seven people in the little foyer that we had, they said, yes, guess what? On Monday, we're moving. Where are we going? It's a surprise. I'll never forget that. And they were like, so we made it a good thing. And by Monday, we were open, a new space and up in business. I can't say it was easy to get going again when I thought I had a certain stride in the old company. But I kept thinking to myself, it's mine, it's mine. It's not 51% raise. It's mine. The 51% was never a problem until I knew I could get 100%. And then it was a big problem. I was happy to leave it behind.

[Jamie Kern Lima]

Yeah. When he said those words to you, you'll never succeed without me, what was that feeling like? Do you remember where you felt it or what it felt like?

[Barbara Corcoran]

Nausea. Nausea in my stomach. That. It's probably true. That was the bad part. That he was probably right. And then right after that, kicking in. I wouldn't say the word.

[Jamie Kern Lima]

You can't.

[Barbara Corcoran]

That was. That's what I said, you know?

[Jamie Kern Lima]

Yeah.

[Barbara Corcoran]

And Then the gumption came up in your chest. You don't know what you're capable of until you're put against a wall. None of us do. Yeah, you know, you don't know really how you're going to feel and how you're going to respond and what you're going to do until you're tested, your metal is tested. Shoved up against a wall, you know, it brings out good things in people.

[Jamie Kern Lima]

You know, you. In that parting of ways, you talk about a lesson about always give the other person the bigger piece.

[Barbara Corcoran]

Oh, yes, from my mom.

[Jamie Kern Lima]

Can you share a little bit about that? It was such a good.

[Barbara Corcoran]

When we were kids, we would have meals at our table every night at 6:00. My mother was a cook, not a very good one, but she always got us fed. Think of feeding 10 kids. Breakfast, dinner, and we had lunch at school, of course. But my mother would make her best dish, which sounds silly, was veal parmesan. And she'd have the pieces of veal under red sauce with little pieces of cheese on top. So when she put the platter on the table, which had 12 pieces in it, you only had a split second to decide which was the bigger piece. You were guessing with your fork. You wanted to stab the one where you got the most. You know, it's normal in a big family with not a lot to eat. So we would go and just as you stabbed. If you were first, my mother would say, barbara, or for your brother, the bigger piece. Okay, John, do you want this one? We hated it growing up, but what do you think I said to Ray on that Friday morning, not take the bigger piece, but you go first. You pick the best salespeople. Because my mother would always tell us after we gave away the veal or the hamburger, whatever it was, doesn't it taste better? Doesn't it really taste better? And we would chew a smaller piece and think, yeah, it tastes better. Like you got a reward right here on earth. So she instilled that in us. And so I always try to do that. You feel great about yourself, especially if somebody's doing you wrong. You just be sweet and turn and help them out. You feel like a million bucks. The easiest way to get happy.

[Jamie Kern Lima]

I thought it was so genius. Because you, I know you talk about in your book Shark Tales, you talk about how you knew that he knew there was one salesperson that, you know, produced more than everyone. He took her and he took her. You knew he'd take her, but that wasn't actually what you needed. You Needed the person who had the skillset to help you build next as a tester. Yeah. And so it was so smart and strategic because you gave him the bigger piece by saying you pick first and then he takes the top producer. He thinks he won, of course.

[Barbara Corcoran]

Expected.

[Jamie Kern Lima]

You get who you want.

[Barbara Corcoran]

And then from there he scratched his head wondering why. I picked Esther.

[Jamie Kern Lima]

Yeah.

[Barbara Corcoran]

As my first pick. She was a middle rung producer. It wasn't a superstar. I had other people that were producing a lot more than her. But in Esther, I found my opposite. She was great at systems. She was left brain all the way. Great at taxes, great at legal, great at the banks getting financing for me. She was great at everything I had no patience for. And I was great at the things that she wasn't good at. You know, marketing. I was super at that. PRs all the way advertising. I was great recruiting people I knew how to do. I knew all the stuff that she wouldn't touch if I forced her to. So together we were able to build that business because she was strong as a container and I was a strong expander. And we shot that business up. But I couldn't have done it without Esther. I was smart to pick Esther first. When I had Esther in my camp, right away I thought, well, now I have a shot. I have a shot.

[Jamie Kern Lima]

Yeah, yeah. And then you left it in a way where he thought he won.

[Barbara Corcoran]

Oh, he won.

[Jamie Kern Lima]

Which probably then made it an easier transition.

[Barbara Corcoran]

Short term, he won. I had the long term. The long term game plan.

[Jamie Kern Lima]

Yeah. And just how creative you were and resourceful and all of that. You had a landlord that thought you were a prostitute.

[Barbara Corcoran]

Yes.

[Jamie Kern Lima]

And then you end up turning that around.

[Barbara Corcoran]

Can you share one of my biggest accounts? Actually, I was only in business about six months. I didn't have an office, so I was meeting people in my living room on East 86th street, an apartment house I shared with my two roommates. During the day, a lot of men would come up because I had a great account that I went for and got, which was a Citibank account. Every new trainee was sent to me, which was a gold mine, really, for a new kid in business. And so my super saw me entertaining men. All day long. I see men come up and then I'd leave a half hour later with the man and he reported me as a prostitute. So I came home one night to eviction notice and I read it. It didn't say, you're for prostitution, but I realized I couldn't think. I paid the rent. We were quiet, we were Neat. I went through the boxes, and then I realized he probably thinks I'm doing something illegal. And Mr. O'Rourke said, we think you're a prostitute. But what was fortunate about that visit? I went to visit my landlord. I did not want to be evicted. And I told him, you think I'm a pastor, too? I almost was a nun. He was Catholic. I really wasn't almost a nun. But I told him that to make him feel secure about me. But I told him how much rent I was getting for his major competitor three blocks away, because I was smart enough to build a wall between the living room and the L of the living room and the living room, calling it a two bedroom versus a one bedroom. And I told him I was getting $30 more a month. His eyes lit up. And I got his whole building, his listings of like 35 apartments to rent. So it went from being accused of a prostitute, almost getting convicted evicted, and to him wanting more money. The same God that so many people follow. Can you get me more money, too? And that's exactly what I did. And that was my first real account.

[Jamie Kern Lima]

Yeah, it was so brilliant. Because there's people out there, too, that.

[Barbara Corcoran]

Think it's also lucky. I must say, a little bit of luck helps there.

[Jamie Kern Lima]

I think, like, so many people think maybe they watch, you know, Shark Tank or they whatever, and they're like, well, I don't have, you know, I haven't created a new product, but sometimes you can just improve on a product as well and be so strategic.

[Barbara Corcoran]

Generally the best businesses, I think.

[Jamie Kern Lima]

Yeah. And you taking even so many of the one bedrooms, adding a wall, and now it's a one bedroom plus den.

[Barbara Corcoran]

Now it's common in New York City.

[Jamie Kern Lima]

Yeah.

[Barbara Corcoran]

They call it a Junior 4. Legally, they weren't allowed two bedrooms anymore. But it's the same configuration. It's no longer a one bedroom, it's a junior four.

[Jamie Kern Lima]

That's amazing. It's amazing. And so you made something special and unique out of something that was there just by making a slight tweak to it.

[Barbara Corcoran]

Of course.

[Jamie Kern Lima]

Yeah.

[Barbara Corcoran]

Everybody wanted more space. In New York, you don't get any. Ooh, an extra space.

[Jamie Kern Lima]

Ooh, yeah, yeah. No, it's like, I think about, you know, if I were shopping for apartments, looking for a one bedroom, but then you have the same one bedroom floor plan. You put a slight wall in there. And this particular ad says one bedroom plus den for the same price.

[Barbara Corcoran]

Den. Yeah. Everybody called me.

[Jamie Kern Lima]

Yeah.

[Barbara Corcoran]

Why would you get a one bedroom for 320 when you get this one bedroom den for 320 also.

[Jamie Kern Lima]

Yes, yes. This is like a brilliant lesson, like a brilliant business.

[Barbara Corcoran]

I used the rest of my life in marketing and trying to make anything that was not saleable look saleable, anything that had obvious flaws to someone's eyes to make those same flaws look like an asset. I think you could do that with any product in life, any situation in life, if you just stop and really think about it. What do they want to hear? What do they want to see? What do they want to do? What do they want to have confidence in? And if you actually can slip yourself to the other guy's shoes, you could usually think very smartly about what you should deliver. And if you can't, think of it. I have used my staff my whole life, a generation of ideas. I do now. I don't think I have really anything original left in me. I don't know if I've done an original idea in years. But my staff, whether it be the real estate staff, the media staff, they always generate great ideas. And as long as you have people popping them out, you could always think of something. Always.

[Jamie Kern Lima]

What you just said about understanding what the other person wants, I understand, like, it's sales. Yeah, well. And it makes me think of no better example than when you say you out trumped Trump.

[Barbara Corcoran]

Oh, yes.

[Jamie Kern Lima]

So you were putting out the Corcoran Report.

[Barbara Corcoran]

The Corcoran Report.

[Jamie Kern Lima]

And then. And you were doing the top 10 condos. Condos for sale. And that was, by the way, so innovative, right, to be building your business like, well, you know what? I'm going to put out a report. So now here's the Corcoran Report. We're going to put it out there. We're going to show everyone the top 10 condos, you know, in all of Manhattan. And now all of a sudden, that's a thing that you created. Now it exists. And then Trump wasn't so happy that he. His condos weren't in it.

[Barbara Corcoran]

No, not at all. Do you know, my mother had taught me something very contrary, that if you really are nice, if you wait, you turn, the meek will inherit the earth. That was kind of like a Catholic thing, you know, I found in New York City, it wasn't that way at all. If you were meek, people ripped you off, they did whatever they wanted to do to your business. You had to be tough. But when I published the Corcoran Report, I learned another lesson of my own. It's not what you are, but how you appear. I took 11 sales, added them up, made an average sale and called it the New York City average sale price on 11 sales. That's preposterous. It wasn't like I was smart enough to even know what I was doing. And when I printed it up and sent it to a whole bunch of New York reporters at the New York Times, I never got a call. But two weeks later the headline was New York City Prices hit All Time low. That was the power of the Corker Report. I became a source in New York City. Anyone who wanted any numbers on real estate prior to the Internet, there were no numbers out. They called me first or only called.

[Jamie Kern Lima]

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[Barbara Corcoran]

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[Jamie Kern Lima]

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[Barbara Corcoran]

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[Jamie Kern Lima]

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[Barbara Corcoran]

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[Jamie Kern Lima]

Jamie's book Worthy is incredible. The gifts are going away, but they're all free right now on worthybook.com it's such an honor to share this podcast together with you. And please note, I'm not a licensed therapist and this podcast is not intended as a substitute for the advice of a physician, professional coach, psychotherapist or other qualified professional. If you love this incredible episode with Barbara Corcoran, I promise you you are going to also love this life changing episode of the Jamie Kern Lima show with Oprah where we talk about how to hear your intuition, tap into your purpose and ignite your best life. It's up next just for.