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Welcome to today's episode of the Mindset Mentor Podcast. I'm your host Rob. Dial. If you have not yet done so, hit that subscribe button so you never miss another episode.
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Week for almost 10 years now. So if you're ready to learn and grow and improve yourself, hit that subscribe button. Follow along it let's change your life. The first thing I think about when I think about success is this is what does success mean to you? And you know, when we're younger, when I was younger specifically, success was only viewed through I only viewed success through money, how much money I make, all of that type of stuff. Now when I see a successful person has nothing to do with how much money they make. I would say more than anything else, my definition of success is how free somebody is and how happy they are and how much joy and peace they have in their life. I know people that are worth billions of dollars that are stressed out every single day. I know people who are just getting by and paying their bills. And they're the most joyful, peaceful, happy people I know. I would not say that the billionaire is more successful than those people who have ultimate peace in their life more than anything else. What does it mean for you is what's important to think about when you look at success. A lot of people are like, I want to be successful. Well, what does that mean to you? That's the first thing that I think that you really need to figure out. The second thing I'll tell you is this is. Success is not really a destination. It is more of a journey. It is more of something that you decide to work on for a while. The way I like to think about it is like the story of the Chinese bamboo. If you're unfamiliar with the story of the Chinese bamboo, the older I get, the more I realize that the story of the Chinese bamboo is so true. It's so much how life is. It's so much how, quote, unquote, success is. The story of the Chinese bamboo is that you plant the bamboo seed and you put it in the ground and you water it. You give it sunlight, you get everything it needs. First year doesn't even pop out of the ground. Second year, you water, you give it sunlight, give it everything it needs. Second year doesn't pop out of the ground. Third year, fourth year, fifth year, none of those years, it pops out of the ground. And then the sixth year, it's the craziest thing. It grows up to 60ft. I'm sorry, it goes up to 80ft in six weeks. It just explodes. And so we've all heard of the phrase of, like, an overnight success. Oh, they were an overnight success. But really, most of the time, when someone's an overnight success, you don't see their 10 years of hard work and dedication and grueling practice to get them to have that quote, unquote, overnight success. When you see someone who's like a breakout actor and they start to win all of the awards, everyone's like, they came out of nowhere. Well, they were working and grueling and barely getting by for so long before you ever found out who this person was. And so we live in a world of instant gratification, you know, like, we are so trained to think that what we want, we can get immediately. Like, if I want. If I get hungry and I want groceries to my house, like, the other day I decided, you know what? I would like some. This is a true story, but two weeks ago, I was like, you know what? I Want to start making some fresh squeezed orange juice? Lauren and I are at a cafe. We got fresh squeeze orange juice. It was really good. And I was like, you know what? I'm going to go on Amazon. I'm going to get a juicer. Just a one, you know, it's like $30. Just an orange juice juicer, an electric one. And I'm going to see if I can get it delivered to the house. And I'm thinking it'll be here in a couple days, as typical with Amazon. And it was like, it'll be there in three hours. And we got home, we went and did a couple errands. We got home, it was a Saturday. It was already at my house. And then I was like, this is crazy, it's already here. I wasn't even expect to be here so quick. I was like, we need to order some oranges. So we order oranges from. It was like five pounds of oranges. We ended up ordering from Whole Foods. And it was at our house that night and I was making orange juice that day. I didn't have to. I'd already left my house, but I didn't have to leave my house to get the juicer. I didn't have to leave my house to get the orange juice. We're so trained to think that everything happens immediately. I want a juicer. I can have a juicer immediately. I want orange juice. I'm going to get oranges delivered to my house. I want, you know, someone to come. I want to. I want to be at the airport. Oh, I want someone to come pick me up right now. I'll just get an Uber sent to my house. I'm hungry. I'm going to get some sort of food delivery sent to my house. And we can get everything that we want almost immediately, right? Do you remember when, when movies used to come out or you wanted to see a movie, you wanted to rent a movie, you'd have to get in your car, you'd have to go to Blockbuster. You'd have to hope that Blockbuster had your movie that you wanted to see. Sometimes you get there and realize that somebody had rented it out and then you couldn't watch the movie and had to wait three or four days for them to get it in and they'd call you until your movie's finally in and then you could go pick it up. Now it's like, hey, I want to watch any movie. I can go to Amazon. I can go to YouTube on my phone. I can literally pay $4 for it. I can Watch the movie immediately. So we are so trained with how great technology is nowadays and how convenient our lives have become that when we want something, we immediately get it. But life, success, happiness, joy, everything that's great in this world takes time. And we have to understand that there is a retraining of ourselves that we kind of have to do. You know, like, you would never think that you could go to the gym one time and you would wake up the next morning and you would have a six pack. That'd be crazy, right? You know that it takes time and dedicated effort to get in the shape that you want. You can't just go one time and you have it right. You can't eat one salad and lose the weight that you want to. You can't save $20 and wake up and be financially free the next day. Right? You can't work 10 hours today and just be a millionaire. We all know that. But for some reason, we have this feeling of, why am I not there yet? I deserve to be there. I should be there. I've been working so hard in my business for three months. Why am I not successful yet? Because great things take time. You know, you can't work out once and be fit. You can't save $20 and be financially free. You can't work one really hard day and be ultra successful. But if you do it every day for five years, different world. If you work out every day for five years, different body. If you save $20 every day for the next five years, you put it into a good investment account and you just leave it for the rest of your life, different financial freedom. You work 10 hours a day or eight hours a day every day for five years or Monday through Friday. And you don't distract yourself. Let's say you just do eight hours, nine hours a day, Monday through Friday in your business from scratch, and you don't have any distraction. You're not on Instagram, you're not doing other things, you're not cleaning up around the house, but you're fully dedicated in your business. Five years from today, different life. Great things take time. I had one time, I was at an event and a lady came up to you and she's like, rob, I listened to your podcast and I love it. I just started a podcast. How do I get my podcast to millions of downloads a month? And I was like, can I be honest with you? And she's like, yeah. And I was like, do three episodes a week for eight years and I guarantee you'll figure it out. And she's like, well, what's like, the shortcut? And I was like, there is no shortcut. That's the thing is you just have to put the work in. And it's not me trying to flex on a lady or trying to, you know, disregard her question, but really what people are always looking for is, like, tips and tricks and how do I get to shortcuts? There is no shortcut for hard work. There aren't shortcuts for some of the greatest things in life. Like, when I look back at my podcast, my very first day of having a podcast, I put out three episodes the very first day, and I got 44 downloads. So if you divide 44 by three, I basically had 15 people listen on day one. And then the podcast grew and it grew and I kept putting in work and I didn't make any money off the podcast for four and a half, five years, and I just kept doing it because it was just a passion. Just. I love this. There's. I don't know if there's anything else I've loved more in my entire life than doing this thing and putting this message out and helping people. And it started growing because I was passionate about it. I wanted to put time into it. And, you know, the podcast. I'll give you numbers. Most podcasters don't give numbers. I don't know why. It's crazy, but, you know, literally, it was like it grew. It grew, it grew, and then within the first year, it got to about 80,000 downloads a month, and it stayed there. This is what's crazy. It grew to 80,000 downloads a month, and it stayed there for three years. I could not break past 80, 85,000 downloads a month. And we will be right back.
