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Welcome to the Moth Podcast. I'm Dan Kennedy. Before we get started, we've got some exciting news on the tour front. The Moth is coming to Denver on March 7th and Chicago on March 28th. And that is part of the USA Characters Unite Tour to Combat Prejudice and Discrimination. Tickets are available now@smartticks.com the story you're about to hear by Marvin Gelfand was recorded live at the moth in 2006 at our annual members show. The theme of the Night was the Seven Deadly and it featured a story for every sin. Marvin took on anger.
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My father escaped his icy, neurotic Bronx Jewish family into the arms of what he thought was a welcoming, huge, warm mishpoch, Yiddish, I guess, for Mobile. And that was the Mastinski clan of Williamsburg in Brooklyn. Took him a while to learn what he'd gotten into. I, from my early youth, was planning my escape from this immigrant group who I thought was ghetto minded and insane. Backstabbing, petty fights, screaming. I just never Understood what these 12 brothers and sisters and the in laws were about. My escape was not particularly clever. First it was books, and it remained books for a long time. And sports. I wasn't a bad baseball player, not very good, but determined. And then, of course, education in general, which my parents would have loved. That was the way Jewish immigrants thought you'd go onward and upward. Going away to school helped as well. Little did I know that my deliverer would be a teeny Nisei woman, Japanese American who I met on the steps of the Columbia Library low Library in 1955. May Abihara had come from Portland, Oregon. She was teeny to begin with. Caught TB of the spine when she was in one of our concentration camps in World War II and had soliosis pretty badly. She was also a heathen, as she described herself. When an anthropologist says you're a heathen, you're a heathen, you know. And it was instant love for me, plus something from Chaucer. I forget one of the characters had a belt that said Amora winkit omnia. Love conquers all. I was the romantic of the two of us. She never expected we'd marry, that I could cut the apron strings. But when she went off to Cambodia to do her fieldwork, we corresponded and I realized I couldn't live without her. So I proposed and we came back and the family heard about it. And anger isn't the word. It was as furious as the World War Three that a lot of people expected to come around the corner. So the iron door slammed on us. I had my Jap. It wasn't that much after the Second World War. But no Jewish American princess she, anger or no. We went off to teach together. We had two beautiful sons that got her looks. Came back to New York. My wife finished her PhD. I did not mind, got into literary journalism and went to the ballet and the opera and plays. And on occasion that iron door would creak open at teens and in a meeching gesture of reconciliation we'd be involved to a bar mitzvah invited, excuse me, to a bar mitzvah or a wedding of which there were many. We were always seated at the children's table and I would go into tirades of fury, you know, my mean, small minded, yeah, relations. And May would just look at them with great generosity of spirit and an anthropologist eye. And she would ask me questions about my family that I never thought to ask. You know, nothing got to her, nothing could. There was one couple in the family, my mother's youngest sister, big hearted neurotic who married a Lower east side guy, World War II vet. And they were tough, no high school education and the rest, but quick street smart. And we would meet, talk amiable trivia, have a drink and then go to a restaurant that my uncle knew. He just was a genius about great restaurants in New York. And we did this for years. And one day they called and said, we're coming to town, we'll be shopping. I said, let's meet at Peacock Alley in the Waldorf. And I could sense on the phone he was thinking, these rare birds are going to come out and humiliate us. Now, the Waldorf didn't say it, but I knew it. And I said, no, great piano player there. It's not expensive. And you know, we'll meet. I meet them. The piano player, marvelous fellow named Jimmy Lyons throws me one of these and a big smile. And I looked at my uncle and he said, oh, it's going to come. They've gotten this in way over our cultural heads. They were so thin skinned and sensitive about that kind of thing. Well, in any event, May was late and very late. And being my relations, they got angrier and angrier because they thought she had been flattened by a taxicab or finally was standing them up. Jimmy is playing away on Cole Porter's piano. Huge Bosendorfer, beautiful sound and he shifts from a Cole Porter song into a Gershwin song. We could not see the entrance from where we were sitting, my uncle, aunt and I, I said, may is here. He said, how do you know May is here? You can't see the entrance. The captain pops her around the high and she says, hello, I'm sorry I'm late. How did you know she was here? Say, my relations. But the amiable trivia had begun. So I left them thinking that my Japanese wife had invested me with some Oriental mystery, you know, that we had something going, that I would know where she was. And she made. Well, for years and years, the amiable trivia lasted. The anger in the family never relapsed. And I guess I have to tell you what the song was our song that Jimmy knew. I can't remember all the lyrics, but some of them I do. It went I'm yours, you're mine and in our hearts the happy ending starts what a lovely world this world will be With a world of love in store for you, for me forevermore, forevermore for me and Mei Meiko Ebihara lasted close to 45 years. She died April 23, 2005. To be beyond. Oh hell, she was always beyond the mean bites of soul shrinking anger. Thank.
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Marvin Gelfand is a teacher, writer and political activist. Born and raised in Brooklyn. The Seven Deadly Sins show was presented with the Young Lions at the New York Public Library. The Moth is a non profit organization, so consider supporting our free podcast by going to our podcast contribution page or by becoming a Moth member and you can do that@themost.org Our podcast host, Dan.
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Kennedy is the author of the book Rock An Office Power Ballad. Learn more@rockonthebook.com thanks to all of you.
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For listening and we hope you have a story worthy week. Podcast audio production by Paul Ruest at the Argo Studios in New York Podcast hosting by PRX Public Radio Exchange helping make public radio more public@prx.org.