The Moth Radio Hour: "Who's Got Your Back?"
Host: Meg Bowles
Release Date: May 27, 2025
Description: This episode of The Moth Radio Hour delves into the profound and often unexpected relationships that provide support and strength in our lives. Through a series of heartfelt true stories, listeners explore the bonds that keep us grounded during challenging times.
1. Ryan Rowe: A Melody of Father and Son
Venue: Kimmel Cultural Campus, Philadelphia
Timestamp: [02:16]
Ryan Rowe opens his narrative by reminiscing about his early years in fourth grade, where his choice to play the trombone was influenced by his admiration for his father, a skilled trombone player himself.
“I felt like if I played trombone, that would make him proud.” – Ryan Rowe [02:16]
Despite his struggles with the instrument and the subsequent departure of his fellow trombone player, Gina, Ryan finds solace and unexpected support when his father steps in to help him during a school concert. This pivotal moment not only strengthens their bond but also transforms Ryan's perception of performance and vulnerability.
“I finally felt like this is a really special thing, I should cherish it.” – Ryan Rowe [10:30]
The story culminates years later during a road trip to New Orleans, where Ryan's appreciation for his father's unwavering support is reignited in a jazz club, bringing them full circle to their shared love for music.
2. Eldon Smith: A Father's Rescue
Venue: Aaron Davis Hall, Harlem
Timestamp: [13:00]
Eldon Smith shares an intense and emotional account of a family crisis that brought unforeseen heroes into his life. While navigating his role as a partner and a stepparent, Eldon faces a severe asthma attack that nearly costs him his life. The experience forces him to reevaluate his relationships and priorities.
“This is how we were all about to die.” – Eldon Smith [19:45]
During his hospitalization, Eldon's father steps into the role of protector, reversing their usual dynamics and highlighting the depth of their familial bond. The crisis not only strengthens Eldon's connection with his stepchildren but also emphasizes the importance of having someone truly "have your back" during life's most challenging moments.
“As long as I'm able, I always will be.” – Eldon Smith [21:15]
3. Zylke Need: Crossing the Danube for Freedom
Venue: St. Anne's in the Holy Trinity Church, Brooklyn, New York
Timestamp: [25:19]
Zylke Need recounts her harrowing escape from East Germany during the height of the Cold War. At the age of 14, she and her family embark on a perilous journey to flee an authoritarian regime, culminating in a tense swim across the Danube River under the cover of darkness.
“It was surreal, eerie, just like an experience I never felt before.” – Zylke Need [35:50]
Facing near-capture and the constant threat of arrest, Zylke's story is a testament to courage and the lengths one will go to secure freedom. The successful escape not only grants her family safety but also fulfills a childhood dream of walking through the Brandenburg Gate, symbolizing their newfound liberty.
“We are free. We are finally free.” – Zylke Need [34:20]
4. Brynn Durgan: Love Beyond Memory
Venue: Center Stage Theater, Mall
Timestamp: [38:47]
Bryn Durgan offers a deeply personal story of caregiving for her father, who battles early-onset Alzheimer's disease. Navigating the complexities of their evolving relationship, Brynn employs "therapeutic fibbing" to maintain a sense of normalcy and affection in her father's deteriorating mental state.
“I'm your daughter, so you'll always be with me.” – Bryn Durgan [49:30]
Through creative gestures and unwavering patience, Brynn sustains a meaningful connection with her father, illustrating the enduring power of familial bonds even in the face of debilitating illness. Her narrative emphasizes the importance of presence and love in sustaining relationships through times of profound change.
“Because I'm his daughter.” – Bryn Durgan [50:10]
Conclusion
In this episode of The Moth Radio Hour, the shared stories illuminate the various facets of support systems that individuals rely on throughout their lives. Whether through family, unexpected heroes, or enduring friendships, these narratives underscore the universal need for someone who "has your back" in moments of vulnerability and triumph alike.
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