Happiness sounds simple… until it’s not. In this episode, Kim and Jake unpack whether happiness is a choice or a complex mix of biology, mindset, and circumstances. Featuring research on brain chemistry, gratitude, teen emotions, and even how happiness may extend your life — this episode is packed with insights and real strategies.

🎧 You’ll learn:

✅ How serotonin and dopamine affect your mood
✅ Why “just be happy” isn’t helpful — especially for people with depression
✅ Real strategies to rewire your brain for happiness
✅ How gratitude and optimism create lasting joy
✅ The science-backed link between happiness and longer life
✅ How teens’ emotional changes relate to brain development

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📚 References (with links)

Shawn Achor & Michelle Gielan – Is Happiness a Choice?
https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/spotting-opportunity/201705/is-happiness-a-choice
Hannah Owens, LMSW – Why “Happiness Is a Choice” Is a BS Concept
https://www.verywellmind.com/is-happiness-really-a-choice-8722216
The Jackson Laboratory – Happy or Sad: The Chemistry Behind Depression
https://www.jax.org/news-and-insights/jax-blog/2015/december/happy-or-sad-the-chemistry-behind-depression
Emma McAdam, LMFT – How to Be Happier
https://therapyinanutshell.com/how-to-be-happier
The Sensory Path – Teach Kids How to Find Happiness and Joy
https://thesensorypath.com/teach-kids-how-to-find-happiness-and-joy
Honey Lake Clinic – Is Depression a Symptom of Puberty?
https://www.honeylake.clinic/blog/is-depression-a-symptom-of-puberty
NIH – Happiness and Mortality
https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC4724393
Centre for Optimism – Optimism and Happiness Connection
https://www.centreforoptimism.com

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The Mother-Son Podcast shares personal stories and lived experiences. We are not medical professionals, and this episode is not intended as medical advice or a substitute for professional diagnosis or treatment. Please consult a qualified healthcare provider regarding any questions about ADHD or related conditions.

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