With the Podcast “I’ve Had It,” Jennifer Welch Goes “Dark Woke” on Politics

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The New Yorker Radio Hour
Episode: With the Podcast “I’ve Had It,” Jennifer Welch Goes “Dark Woke” on Politics
Host: David Remnick
Guest: Jennifer Welch
Date: January 16, 2026

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Overview

This episode profiles Jennifer Welch, co-host of the hit political podcast I’ve Had It, exploring her transition from reality television and interior design into the world of unapologetically progressive, “dark woke” podcasting. Host David Remnick discusses with Welch the changing nature of political discourse, the rise of blunt and in-your-face media voices, and how Welch’s background and approach differ from both mainstream and left-leaning media figures. The conversation covers everything from Welch’s frustrations with corporate Democrats and MAGA conservatives to her thoughts on the future of the Democratic party and media’s evolving role in American politics.

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Key Discussion Points and Insights

The New Media Landscape

• Decline of Traditional Outlets: Remnick opens by noting the significant shift away from nightly news and newspapers to a more scattered digital media landscape, including podcasts and newsletters.
  • “Now, I don’t think it’s unfair to say that most of these outlets … are not exactly obsessed with fairness and accuracy in the way that the best traditional journalism outlets are or damn well should be.” (00:29)
• Rise of Relatable Voices: Podcasts now play a significant role in shaping political discussion, resonating with audiences through relatability and engagement rather than journalistic conventions.

Welch's Path to Podcasting

• From Reality TV to Political Commentary: Welch describes her trajectory from a Bravo reality show, which initially spotlighted her as a liberal in Oklahoma, to launching the podcast I’ve Had It with Angie Sullivan.
  • “My friend Angie and I were on a reality television show in 2016 to around 2019 … our politics seeps through a little bit, particularly mine … because that's what was the hook for the Bravo executives. Like they're liberals in Oklahoma.” (03:10)
• Initial Premise and Tone: The podcast began with everyday grievances—“I've had it with gender reveal parties, I've had it with over celebrating children”—offering relatable, humorous venting.
• “MAGA-Coded” Aesthetic: Both hosts appear stereotypically right-wing to outsiders, creating a “surprise factor” when their liberal stances are revealed.
  • “The blonde hair, some Botox from time to time and the southern accent. Right. So it’s kind of fox coded, I would say.” (04:30)

Distinguishing Features of “I’ve Had It”

• Shift from Petty to Political: The show evolved to tackle more political issues, with an additional news-focused spin-off, IHIP News.
• Speaking for the “Blue Dots”: Welch emphasizes representing progressives in red states, who often feel marginalized by both coastal elites and establishment politics.
  • “There is a part of Beltway politics that is too civilized, that doesn’t understand the grit and the fangs that will draw people in the middle of the country into the fight.” (06:03)
• Episode Titles and Attitude:
  • Notable titles—No country for MAGA men, Merry griftmas, Fascism but stupid—signal a more combative, irreverent style than podcasts like Pod Save America.

Defining “Dark Woke”

• Welch’s Stance: She introduces “dark woke” as a blend of progressive aims with aggressive, unfiltered tactics.
  • “This is the era of FU politics and dark woke … Dark woke for me is we are fighting for good … But we don’t mind saying F you, you have to know what you’re up against, and you have to be ruthless.” (07:18)
• Contrast with Purist Wokeness: Rejects excessive sensitivity and “policing,” echoing some of the left’s critiques of its own.

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Critique of Democrats, Centrism, and Media (09:26–12:01)

• General Disillusionment: Welch argues that centrism and corporate priorities in mainstream Democrat politics have alienated voters, enabling right-wing populism.
  • “The center left movement, the Hillary Clintons … are still lying to you because they prioritize corporate interest … that is what has left the vacuum for well meaning people to just vote against the status quo.” (09:26)
• Mistakes in Her Own Politics:
  • “The error of my way was probably voting for Hillary Clinton over Bernie Sanders. There’s a condescension to corporate Democratic politics with the very long answers.” (10:43)
  • Cites a tense moment with Cory Booker over Netanyahu: “I asked Cory Booker, do you think Benjamin Netanyahu's a war criminal? … it was a very long answer.” (10:56)
• Need for Ruthless Candor: Laments how complex, evasive answers damage the Democratic Party’s credibility.

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Joe Rogan, Podcasting Culture, and Media Critique

• On Joe Rogan’s Model: Welch argues that Rogan’s and similar conversational podcasts succeed because they match the public’s informal, intimate style of interaction—unlike stilted corporate news.
  • “The reason that Joe Rogan and a much smaller podcast, I've had it. Are taking off so much is because this is the way people speak … it feels intimate versus the presentation of corporate news.” (16:19)
  • Uses an interior design analogy: from formal kitchens “hidden away” in the 1950s to today’s open gatherings at the kitchen island—“As a culture, we become less and less formal. You see that in architecture and you see that in the way we consume news.” (16:56)
• Media Complicity and “Sane-Washing”:
  • She critiques mainstream outlets, including the NYT: “I do think they do really good work. There has been some sane washing headlines ... The media has been very complicit because of the corporate ownership of it and it's been the soft sell of this fascism.” (17:51–18:20)

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Style and Philosophy

• Direct, Cathartic Approach:
  • Welch is unapologetically confrontational, as in her interview with Rahm Emanuel (“That is such bullshit. That is total bullshit. That is buying into the right wing media narrative. ... I'm so sick of Democrats like you selling out and saying this.”) (20:03)
  • Compares her show to an Al Anon meeting—a space for catharsis, honesty, and community for those feeling “gaslit and abused.” (25:17–25:34)
• On Being Called a “Wine Mom”:
  • Critiques the gendered label but chooses not to center her own reaction as a way of modeling “dark woke” pragmatism: “Where this comes from is all the people that are pro democracy. I'm not going to pitch a fit and say, quit calling me a wine mom. That's sexist.” (23:40)
• Critique of “Wokeness” as Self-Defeating:
  • Accepts that left-wing excesses (“too woke”) prompted backlash but insists on a balance: “On the far left, it can go too far, too woke. Which is why I think we have to go dark woke. Don't get mired down.” (22:09)

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Democratic Politics and the 2028 Election (27:21–34:10)

• Welch’s Preferred Candidates and Litmus Tests
  • Praises Gavin Newsom’s style but flags problems with establishment Dems’ corporate ties: “He recently said he opposed a billionaire tax. And I think he's going to have a very hard time if he doesn't really get in the trenches with where the base has moved.” (28:07)
  • Lauds Ro Khanna and JB Pritzker for their populist or truth-telling qualities—wants Dems who directly address issues like Palestine and call out Netanyahu as a war criminal (29:12).
  • “You cannot gaslight people about it.” (29:15)
  • Considers economic populism and willingness to speak truth about sensitive issues as key differentiators for future Democratic contenders.
• On the Possibility of Change in Red States:
  • Believes Oklahoma and other red states could shift if Democrats focus on economic populism and honesty, not Republican-lite centrism.
  • “So if you take somebody who says, I'm going to fight for you, I believe now it might not happen the first election, but ... over a couple election cycles, I think you could see change.” (33:43)

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Memorable Quotes & Timestamps

• On “Dark Woke”:
  • “This is the era of FU politics and dark woke. … we are fighting for good … But we don’t mind saying F you, you have to know what you’re up against, and you have to be ruthless.” (07:18)
• On Media Complicity:
  • “The media has been very complicit because of the corporate ownership of it and it's been the soft sell of this fascism, I'm sure.” (18:20)
• On Democratic Weakness:
  • “The center left … are still lying to you because they prioritize corporate interest … that is what has left the vacuum for well meaning people to just vote against the status quo.” (09:26)
• On Policy Litmus Tests:
  • “If he can call what is happening a genocide, if he can call Benjamin Netanyahu a war criminal, he would be a credible messenger.” (29:12)
• On Democratic Strategy in Red States:
  • “They need a populist truth teller to go in to these places because here's the problem where the Democrats have messed up. They withdrew from a 50 state strategy. … If you take somebody who says, I'm going to fight for you … I think you could see change.” (33:43)
• Confrontation with Rahm Emanuel:
  • “That is such bullshit. That is total bullshit. That is buying into the right wing media narrative. … For the Democrats, we have to be the party of equality.” (20:03–20:25)

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Notable Moments & Segment Timestamps

| Timestamp | Segment / Topic | |-----------|-----------------| | 00:29-01:57 | Remnick on media changes and Welch’s rise | | 03:10-04:55 | Welch’s background, reality TV to politics | | 06:03-07:53 | “MAGA-coded” image and “dark woke” definition | | 09:26-11:07 | Disillusionment with centrist Democrats & corporate media | | 16:19-17:39 | On Joe Rogan, informality in podcasting | | 17:51-19:20 | Critique of NYT & mainstream media “sane-washing” | | 20:03-21:53 | Confronting Rahm Emanuel, defending trans rights | | 25:17-25:34 | Podcast as catharsis and community (“Al Anon” analogy) | | 27:21-29:32 | 2028 election, economic populism, Democratic realignment | | 31:50-34:10 | Can red states turn blue? Populist strategies |

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Conclusion

Jennifer Welch’s approach with I’ve Had It represents a new flavor of progressive media: brash, uncompromising, and attuned to the frustration of Middle America’s “blue dots.” Her “dark woke” philosophy splits from both performative wokeness and centrist self-soothing, favoring blunt honesty and clear moral stands—even at the risk of alienation. Welch’s critique of both right and left, her refusal of “wine mom” labeling, and her push for economic populism and truth-telling mark her, and her podcast, as distinctive voices in the post-traditional media age.

Transcript

[Jennifer Welch]

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[David Remnick]

Welcome to the New Yorker Radio Hour. I'm David Remnick. One of the big changes in our politics, and I don't think we've really gotten our heads around it yet, is the change in how and where people get their information. You know, the top line here, very real declines in people watching the nightly news and reading the newspapers. And in their places come a much more scattered, much more siloed universe of social media feeds, TikTok explainers, podcasts, newsletters, and all the rest. Now, I don't think it's unfair to say that most of these outlets, not all, but most, whatever their virtues, are not exactly obsessed with fairness and accuracy in the way that the best traditional journalism outlets are or damn well should be. And yet there's no denying the power, even the relatability, of many podcasts, whether it's Ben Shapiro on the right, Joe Rogan, wherever he might be on a given day, or. Or on the left, someone like our guest today, Jennifer Welch. Welch came to political podcasts in a kind of roundabout way. She had a successful career as an interior designer and she co starred in a reality show on Bravo. But since 2022, she and her co host, Angie Sullivan, have been pushing political buttons and getting millions of fans on the podcast called I've Had It. And that's Jennifer Welch's daily state of mind. Furious.

[Jennifer Welch]

I've had it with white people that triple trumped. Yeah. That have the nerve and the audacity to walk into a Mexican restaurant, a Chinese restaurant, an Indian restaurant, go to perhaps their gay hairdresser. I don't think you should be able to enjoy anything but Cracker Barrel.

[David Remnick]

Her frustration is not only with maga. Welch has gotten particularly contentious in interviews with establishment Democrats like Cory Booker and Rahm Emanuel. And she takes real advantage of a certain surprise factor, that a white woman in her 50s from Oklahoma has emerged as one of the most provocative voices on the left today. I spoke last week with Jennifer Welch, co host of the podcast I've Had It. So you have one of the biggest podcasts out there. And as you know, there are hundreds of thousands of podcasts Everybody and their uncle apparently has a podcast at this point. How did you conceive of this show? Where does it fit in? What is it?

[Jennifer Welch]

My friend Angie and I were on a reality television show in 2016 to around 2019, and our politics seeps through a little bit, particularly mine does in the show, because that's what was the hook for the Bravo executives. Like they're liberals in Oklahoma, right, where you're from.

[Unidentified Interviewer/Interjector]

Right.

[Jennifer Welch]

I'm from Oklahoma City. So the show gets canceled and I go back to being an interior designer and then I'm doing national projects. So that was great fun and I'm just booming. And then there was the post Covid boom where everybody comes out of quarantine wanting to redecorate everything. And my kids were like, you know, you still have a lot of people that follow you that are interested in the show. You should do a podcast. So I tell Angie this and we decide to do it. And the premise was during the Biden administration, which was I've had it. I've had it with gender reveal parties, I've had it with over celebrating children. Why are we going to kindergarten graduations? Why? So there were these relatable grievances that initially I think everybody likes trash talk. Right. And we look, my co host and I look somewhat maga coded.

[David Remnick]

You're maga coded because of where you're.

[Jennifer Welch]

From, the blonde hair, some Botox from time to time and the southern accent. Right. So it's kind of fox coded, I would say. And I've always been a die hard political junkie. I was raised in the Bible belt by two progressive atheists, which is a very, very strange upbringing.

[David Remnick]

Was political discussion a big part of your upbringing in Oklahoma?

[Jennifer Welch]

Yes, with my mother who was pretty left, Right, Very left. My mother is a voracious reader. She was a closet atheist for many years. Because if you came out of the closet as an atheist in a place like Oklahoma, it's about as bottom of.

[David Remnick]

The barrel, meaning it's social death for you.

[Jennifer Welch]

Total social death. And so she and I would have all of these conversations about. I remember the first time I ever asked my mother, what is gay? Why would somebody be gay? I'm like six years old. And my mother would say, well darling, all you need to know is nobody in their right damn mind would ever choose to be gay in the middle of the Bible belt. That would be insane. It is not a choice. So this type of critical thinking juxtaposed with the rigid evangelicals that I went to school with that were constantly Trying to recruit me was a really interesting upbringing.

[David Remnick]

You've got this podcast now with the background that you've got. What do you see as its distinguishing feature? What's it about?

[Jennifer Welch]

We moved on from the petty grievances, and we have an additional podcast now called IHIP News, which is short for I've Had It Podcast News. We have so many people in the middle of America, blue dots, if you will, that have a different worldview about American politics than, no offense, you coastal elites do or people inside the beltway do. And there is a part of Beltway politics that is too civilized, that doesn't understand the grit and the fangs that will draw people in the middle of the country into the fight.

[David Remnick]

And you're trying to give, at least as I listen to it, give voice to that sense of frustration. Some of your recent episodes on your podcast have these names, and not all of them will be able to make it on conventional radio. No country for MAGA men. New Year, Same assholes ring out the bullshit. Merry griftmas. Fascism but stupid. And finally, all the President's morons. I think that's a different mood, say, than pods. Save America.

[Jennifer Welch]

Yes, this is the era of FU politics and dark woke. This is what is dark woke. Okay? Dark woke is a reaction to. You have the purest woke people who are policing what everybody say up in everybody's business, which is similar a bit to conservatives being up in everybody's business. Dark woke for me is we are fighting for good and for equality and for social justice for everybody. But we don't mind saying F you, you have to know what you're up against, and you have to be ruthless.

[David Remnick]

Give me some examples and tell me who your allies are in that.

[Jennifer Welch]

Well, some examples would be we have to go after these MAGA men. One example would be Jesse Waters. This man talks incessantly about masculinity. Joe Biden is not masculine because he sucks on soup. What kind of man sucks on a straw? He goes on and on and on. So much about the idealized man, and that's a part of fascism, this, you know, propelling this form of toxic masculinity. Why are you so obsessed with men, Jesse Waters? What's all that about? Why are you so obsessed with trans people? Why are you thinking about genitals all the time? Kind of flip the script.

[David Remnick]

So when you look at the guys on and it's almost all guys on Pod Save America, do you look at them as very 2016, very 2008, very Obama, and you've left that behind.

[Jennifer Welch]

I see the situation as being so dire right now that I don't see any of these people as competitors. I see the whole group as people of building a media ecosystem that is pro democracy. And if people that are still stuck in the Obama era need to go listen to Pod Save, I know that they are pro democracy and anti fascist.

[David Remnick]

But you think it's a form of self soothing almost.

[Jennifer Welch]

Yes.

[David Remnick]

Yeah.

[Jennifer Welch]

Yes. I think that they're.

[David Remnick]

And delusional.

[Jennifer Welch]

Yes.

[David Remnick]

And explain that to me, because I would bet if we're being honest with each other, that on public radio, there's a lot of that too.

[Jennifer Welch]

There are some commonalities between the center left and the far right that can no longer be ignored. You can look at the electorate and you can say you're being lied to. These people are lying to you. The center left movement, the Hillary Clintons, the certain people in that media echo chamber are still lying to you because they prioritize corporate interest over the interests of the people. And that is what has left the vacuum for well meaning people to just vote against the status quo. And this has been an evolution for me because I was a very good MSNBC liberal. That's where I got my marching orders. That's where, you know, I felt like I was intellectual and I lived out and I was the most liberal woman in Oklahoma City. And I see the error of my thinking and not thinking even outside of that box.

[David Remnick]

Be specific. What were the errors? Cause I know that you're obviously very, very tough on the likes of Hakeem Jeffries, Chuck Schumer. Give me a sense of what you think their sins are and what distinguishes your politics from, say, the, you know, the more supportive voices that you do hear on Pod Save America or the like.

[Jennifer Welch]

The error of my way was probably voting for Hillary Clinton over Bernie Sanders. There's a condescension to corporate Democratic politics with the very long answers. You probably saw where I asked Cory Booker, do you think Benjamin Netanyahu's a war criminal? It was a yes or no question. It was a very long answer.

[David Remnick]

Here's where I would get into a conversation with you. Some things are yes or no answer, some things aren't. And some things actually are complicated.

[Jennifer Welch]

Agree.

[David Remnick]

Some things do have a complicated history. That's not necessarily both siderism or all the other derisive terms for it. Is that just weakness in your eyes or what?

[Jennifer Welch]

I do think that some answers are more complex, but when you have somebody like Cory Booker who has presented himself to all of us as standing for the marginalized, standing for humanity, standing for civil rights, and you ask him a question about Benjamin Netanyahu, who has a warrant out for his arrest for being a war criminal, and you see that answer being duplicitous. This is very damaging to the Democratic Party.

[David Remnick]

Jennifer Welsh is co host of the podcast I've had it, and we'll continue in a moment.

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[Jennifer Welch]

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[David Remnick]

At Planet Money, we get the story behind the money. To explain how money works, listen on the NPR app or wherever you get your podcasts. This is the New Yorker Radio Hour. I'm David Remnick, and I've been speaking today with the co host of the popular political podcast, I've Had It. Her name is Jennifer Welch. Even if you aren't a regular listener, Welch very well may have popped up on your social media feeds with stinging rebukes of politicians on both sides. Her progressive politics are not unique, but her style and her sense of how to connect with listeners is pretty unapologetic, pretty in your face, and very profane. Where Michelle Obama famously said, when they go low, we go high. Welch says, you want to go low, we're going to go lower. I'll continue my conversation with Jennifer Welch. Joe Rogan is the leading podcaster, not only in this country, but in the world and by a lot.

[Jennifer Welch]

Yeah.

[David Remnick]

And this is a guy who started out not with politics in mind, but rather with UFOs in mind and UFC fighting and suddenly politics and big thinkers and dark web people and started coming to his show, and it became even more important, even more influential. And one of the biggest lingering questions about Kamala Harris wasn't about this policy question or that. It was about why the hell she didn't manage to go on Joe Rogan. Now, I know you don't listen incessantly, but I wonder what your thoughts on Joe Rogan, how you think about him, and what influence it might or might not have on what you do.

[Jennifer Welch]

These voices are out there, everywhere, and on the the right. They have a massive, massive media ecosystem. The Democrats are too structured. They need to go on all of these podcasts. Kamala should have gone on Joe Rogan and allow herself to not be so disciplined. The reason that Joe Rogan and a much smaller podcast, I've had it. Are taking off so much is because this is the way people speak. The news where you're just being reported to, it's kind of aged. It feels somewhat antiquated. We've become more informal in the way that we live. And to combine this with my former profession, I still do it. Interior design. Think about back in the 50s, the kitchen. Your guests never saw it. It was a very formal way of life. And now the kitchen is the nucleus of the house, and everybody hangs out at the island as a culture, we become less and less formal. You see that in architecture and you see that in the way we consume news. So there's this idea that when you're listening to a podcast or two, people having a conversation that you know them and they're right in your ear and it feels intimate versus the presentation of corporate news. What I grew up and I still like it and I still watch it.

[David Remnick]

Do you?

[Jennifer Welch]

Yeah, I do.

[David Remnick]

Do you think the New York Times is a reliable purveyor of news? Because it's certainly the dominant newspaper and probably news gathering organization in this country.

[Jennifer Welch]

I do think they do really good work. There has been some sane washing headlines pertaining to covering what is actually happening right now. That I think is not just a New York Times problem, but a media problem in general. I saw online. Imagine if we covered what was happening in the United States right now, the way we cover what happens in dictatorships in Africa or the Middle East.

[David Remnick]

Outraged in a sense.

[Jennifer Welch]

Right. And it would be more realistic as to what's happened. I think the media has been very complicit because of the corporate ownership of it and it's been the soft sell of this fascism, I'm sure.

[David Remnick]

I agree, if you don't mind my saying so, in the sense I get that critique and I hear it all the time. I'm in corporate media. This week's cover of the New Yorker is Donald Trump amidst lots of explosions, obviously Venezuela drinking from a gigantic barrel of oil and the oil is coming all over him. A more straight up the wazoo political cartoon you couldn't imagine by Barry Blitt. And there it is. And yet I go to one panel discussion after another and get yelled at by one comedian podcast, usually comedian podcasters about the corporate media. And they're the. I don't know if it's as simple as all that.

[Jennifer Welch]

I think you're correct that there are outliers, but it seems like since Fox News there has been a trickle down effect of a weakening of journalistic integrity across the board.

[David Remnick]

You had Rahm Emanuel on.

[Jennifer Welch]

Oh, yeah.

[David Remnick]

Rahm Emanuel is pretty clearly either thinking about or already running for president. And you just let him have it. Let's listen for a second. We were really south on kitchen table issues. We weren't really good about the family room issues.

[Jennifer Welch]

I disagree with you. I disagree with you.

[David Remnick]

Okay. The only room we. The only room we were doing really well was the bathroom. And that's the smallest room in the house.

[Jennifer Welch]

That is such bullshit. That is total bullshit. That is buying into the right wing media narrative. And I'm so sick of Democrats like you selling out and saying this. You know who talks about trans people more than anybody? Maga. Kamala Harris talked about homeownership. She talked about kitchen table issues. Trump's over there droning on about Hannibal Lecter. Are you kidding me? This is.

[David Remnick]

You put it right between his eyes. Why?

[Jennifer Welch]

When I heard him buy into the narrative that the right wing defines the left wing by. By being trans obsessed or bathroom obsessed when they, the right wing, are the people who ran on this for him to placate to that narrative. And when he said it, I didn't know he was going to say it. That was. I felt the adrenaline, like, come up in me. And I have friends in Oklahoma who have trans children. And to go back to what my mother said, nobody in their right mind chooses to wake up and thinks, you know what? Today I'm going to f with the conservatives. I'm going to switch genders, and I'm going to go try to be a D1 tennis player. That's not what this journey is. And for the Democrats, we have to be the party of equality. And even if these maga people don't understand what transgenderism is, that's okay. You don't have to understand it. But we're not going to bully them. We're not going to pick them up and throw them under the bus. And the rights that are available for me need to be readily available for those people. And I would even go a step further. Maybe they need a little bit more love and a little bit less throwing under the bus. So when I hear Democrats do this, it really pisses me off. And that's why the Democrats lose, because average voters sniff that duplicity out.

[David Remnick]

Do you accept the argument that I hate the word, but I'll use it anyway? That wokeness got to a point where it did hurt the Democrats on a whole other range of issues and their efforts to get elected.

[Jennifer Welch]

I accept that what we're going through right now is a backlash from a lot of that. I remember on my Instagram feed, after Kamala Law, somebody wrote, I hate being white. You know, just very histrionic about the whole thing. And I thought, oh, for. For God's sake, this is ridiculous. Of course, you still don't even get the point. On the far left, it can go too far, too woke. Which is why I think we have to go dark woke. Don't get mired down. They call me a wine mom all the time.

[David Remnick]

Yeah, what is that? And why aren't you more pissed about it?

[Jennifer Welch]

So I was interviewed by the aforementioned New York Times, and they asked me. They referred to me as the wine mom. And I definitely was at one point. I remember my kids were really little. I was like, God, I can't go through another day sober. I need to have a few glasses of wine. These kids are a lot, right? So. But between you and me and your listener, I do think it's reductive to refer to me as a wine mom. And I do think you would never refer to Joe Rogan as a wine dad or a whiskey dad. I do think women oftentimes get defined in a parental role where men never do. But here's the difference between being woke and dark woke. Where this comes from is all the people that are pro democracy. I'm not going to pitch a fit and say, quit calling me a wine mom. That's sexist.

[David Remnick]

And you think that would alienate a potential listener?

[Jennifer Welch]

I don't care about alienating listeners as much as I do. Is this helpful?

[David Remnick]

I think part of your show is almost cathartic.

[Jennifer Welch]

That's exactly right.

[David Remnick]

I'm gonna get this off my chest and I tune in. So I hear you doing it with me, so I feel less lonely.

[Jennifer Welch]

That's exactly right. And I also think when you are falling prey to abuse and what this government is doing to us right now is abusing us. We are seeing it every day with ice raids, with God, just Stephen Miller in a news clip as abusive as all get out, right? And we need a sense of community. And I liken it to. My husband is in recovery from opioid addiction. And that was an incredibly painful, isolating, horrible thing that I went through. And I found myself at an Al Anon meeting. I found myself with these group of people who were experiencing the same type of gaslighting and abuse that one suffers from loving an addict. And it depersonalized it for me. It made me realize, oh, what I'm perceiving as I'm not lovable, or if I just did this or if I just did that, then maybe he might be sober. That there is an actual playbook that a lot of addicts do because it's addiction. Similarly, when you get to Ihip News, we're all experiencing this trauma and we're being gaslit and we're being propagandized. And you feel like you're going crazy.

[David Remnick]

Comparing your show to an Al Anon meeting.

[Jennifer Welch]

In a sense, kind of, but in the sense of community that you realize you can go there and go, oh, God, I'm not crazy. And I think a lot of people don't realize how isolated Americans in the middle of the country are.

[David Remnick]

What I worry about is the other thing is exposing people and myself to contrary opinion. Not the same opinion. Am I wrong, too? Sometimes I'll, you know, be at a gathering or whatever it might be, and everybody's saying the same damn thing. That concerns me, too.

[Jennifer Welch]

I see your point. I think that I approach the podcast with, and I mention this a lot with my experience in Oklahoma, which has a Republican super majority. The last time we had a Democratic governor, we were ranked 17th in the country in education. Since we've had a Republican super majority in the state, the governor, the state house, the state senate, and the state supreme Court, we have fallen from 17th in education to 50th in education.

[David Remnick]

No, it's grim. It's grim. Are you getting listened to, though, in Oklahoma?

[Jennifer Welch]

Yes. When I go home and I go to Oklahoma City Thunder games, you wouldn't believe the amount of people in Oklahoma City team. God, they're so good.

[David Remnick]

But they're even better than the Knicks. I love.

[Jennifer Welch]

Oh, yes, the Knicks fans are so salty.

[David Remnick]

Were you too mean to Erica Kirk and was your timing lousy?

[Jennifer Welch]

No.

[David Remnick]

Does it help your cause to call her, particularly in that moment of aftermath, a grifter and a person who weaponizes her gender to demean women?

[Jennifer Welch]

Yes, because that's what she did. If people are out trying to fundraise off of his death and the message that she's sending to women to marry younger breed immediately, it is a very dangerous message. So I double down on that. And I think her message makes women less safe.

[David Remnick]

We've got an election coming up in a year. Who do you like and who do you not like for 2028? How's Gavin Newsom looking to.

[Jennifer Welch]

Okay, Your female listeners will appreciate this, and this is what we get to talk on podcasts, but not corporate moves. He's very easy on the eyeballs, which is a nice component I've had.

[David Remnick]

He looks like a dastardly senator in a movie, doesn't he?

[Jennifer Welch]

The haircut out of central casting. Yeah, I like his fight. I like how he relentlessly trolls Trump. Yeah, I think with the base, he's going to have the same problems that Clinton and Kamala did. Granted, he is a white male, and historically they seem to do better in the electorate than women.

[David Remnick]

That seems to be the history in this American history.

[Jennifer Welch]

Much to my chagrin. But he has time to clean all of this up. But he recently said he opposed a billionaire tax. And I think he's going to have a very hard time if he doesn't really get in the trenches with where the base has moved. And I think that's going to be. What's the most shocking for the Democratic establishment candidates is how much the base has moved away from corporate Dems.

[David Remnick]

So who does that leave you with?

[Jennifer Welch]

I'll tell you, I love Ro Khanna. I don't think he's going to run for office. But somebody who I think can be interesting is JB Pritzker. He's a billionaire and a real one, A real billionaire. He is Jewish, which he has an opportunity to speak to what a lot of people in the Democratic base have issues with, with Palestine. If he can call what is happening a genocide, if he can call Benjamin Netanyahu a war criminal, he would be a credible messenger.

[David Remnick]

Those are litmus tests for you.

[Jennifer Welch]

I hate the word litmus test, but I'm realistic in the sense that I believe that we have to call what we're seeing. Realistically. You cannot gaslight people about it.

[David Remnick]

Would you have called LBJ or Richard Nixon war criminals?

[Jennifer Welch]

Probably. I mean, I think that American foreign policy has been problematic for a long time and I've had a great awakening about this. But as I see what happened with Venezuela, when I saw that they were killing fishermen, I had to be really objective and honest. We didn't really do anything about what George W. Bush did in Abu Ghraib or the CIA black sites, Obama's drone program, remember? I love Obama. I'm super nostalgic by him. But if we are really, to be honest about American foreign policy, these provocations that Trump just did, they're not new.

[David Remnick]

It seems to me that the people that you're looking at are Ro Khanna, aoc, the new mayor of New York. Is that the kind of area you're talking about?

[Jennifer Welch]

Yes, I have.

[David Remnick]

Economic populism from a Democratic view, yes.

[Jennifer Welch]

The last gubernatorial race that we had, we had our governor who was running for a second term. Kevin Stitt, maga, right wing Christian nationalist, says, I dedicate every square inch of the state to my Lord and personal savior, Jesus Christ. And then you had Joy Hoffmeister who ran against him. She was a former Republican, switched to Democrat and she ran as Republican light and Kevin Stitt kicked her ass. And I'm curious when you get these Democrats that can run in red areas the way Andy Beshear did and you get them to run on a populist message, they use Faith to say your faith may tell you to bully those kids, but in Andy Brashear's case, he said, I will not bully these children.

[David Remnick]

Like Tellarico and Texas.

[Jennifer Welch]

Exactly. Can we get people in the Democratic Party that speak more to more Americans? And I think an economic populist message is something that you could see triple Trumpers cross over as we did in the New York City mayoral race. You have 1 in 10 Trumpers voted for Zoron. That's pretty significant.

[David Remnick]

But what I'm asking you, can Oklahoma ever become purple or blue?

[Jennifer Welch]

Maybe I'm an optimist and I'm. But I do think if somebody ran in Oklahoma and went to rural Oklahoma and said, you have been lied to, look at what the Republican super majority got you. Look at what the Republican supermajority got. Harold Ham. Harold Ham is one of the richest Oklahomans, big billionaire oil guy. And I think if they really spoke to people and said, we see you, forgive me.

[David Remnick]

Doesn't your language on your show, does that invite or alienate people who are, as it were, red?

[Jennifer Welch]

If I'm honest, it probably alienates them. But I'm not a politician. I'm not trying to get more.

[David Remnick]

You're not, by the way. You're not running for anything.

[Jennifer Welch]

No. Oh God, no. No.

[David Remnick]

You told Kara Swisher you'd rather make your living on your back than as a politician.

[Jennifer Welch]

I would.

[David Remnick]

That's a pretty good Sherman statement.

[Jennifer Welch]

They need a populist truth teller to go in to these places because here's the problem where the Democrats have messed up. They withdrew from a 50 state strategy. So what you have is an electorate that gets more and more radicalized versus having robust campaigns. And can the Democrats win immediately? No. But look at the seeds that Bernie Sanders planted. I believe during the primary of 2016, Bernie won Oklahoma against Hillary. I know these people and they're earnest and well meaning. They need an off ramp to get off of this Republican Party bullshit lie of trickle down economics, of scapegoating marginalized people, of this massive wealth gap that we have. So if you take somebody who says, I'm going to fight for you, I believe now it might not happen the first election, but there if there was footing in the state of people running based on facts. And for Oklahomans over the course of a couple election cycles, I think you could see change.

[David Remnick]

Jennifer Welch, thank you so much.

[Jennifer Welch]

Thank you.

[David Remnick]

Jennifer Welsh is host of the podcast I've had it along with Angie Sullivan. That's the New Yorker Radio Hour for today. I'm David Remnick, thanks for joining us. We'll see you next time.

[Jennifer Welch]

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[David Remnick]

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