
Nikki’s season of The Traitors has premiered and The Nikki & Brie show is overjoyed to bring you one of her casemates, Gabby Windey! If you’ve watched the first three episodes of this season, you’ll want to listen to this episode and share it in your group texts! Nikki & Gabby hit it off on day one at the castle, and it’s a friendship that’s bound to last a lifetime. From their reaction to seeing Tom Sandoval to their strategies going into the show, the mental gymnastics that a show like The Traitors demands, and who they were keeping an eye on. Gabby also talks about her time on The Bachelor and Bachelorette and how coming out, being her authentic self, why she’s not in a rush to try standup comedy, who she loves to confront, and a cultural shift that’s empowering women in 2025. They connect over their love of Nikki Glaser’s Golden Globes and how putting in the work will pay off, whether it’s on the stage, in front of the camera, or in the ring. Gabby also shares her choice...
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Nikki Bella
Your boyfriend took our money in.
Gabby Wendy
Dicks.
Issa Rae
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Gabby Wendy
How we gonna make $1,500 by 6 be about this?
Issa Rae
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Gabby Wendy
You want a loan, don't do it.
Nikki Bella
I've never seen a credit score this low.
Gabby Wendy
What if we combine our scores?
Issa Rae
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Nikki Bella
First the rent and then Alomo's trying to kill us.
Issa Rae
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Nicole
He showing cheat and steal on the same day.
Gabby Wendy
Alyssa, run.
Nikki Bella
Damn.
Issa Rae
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Nikki Bella
So when everyone's freaking out over Big Rob, I felt bad. I got Big Rob. Or wait, I mean, Bustin Rob. I mean Bustin Rob.
Gabby Wendy
This is the Nicki and Brie Show.
Nikki Bella
All right, everyone, welcome back to the Nicki and Bri Show. And today you're just gonna get me, because my guest, you all can only handle just us two. We couldn't have Bri today. So, as you all heard Bri and I talking on the last episod. Yes, we have Gabby Wendy on the show today.
Gabby Wendy
Hello.
Nikki Bella
Yeah, Gabby. Okay, so obviously there's so much to talk about, and I have to warn you all, there's a lot Gabby and I can't talk about as far as when it comes to traders because you all haven't seen the whole season. So until you see it all, we'll talk.
Gabby Wendy
But you don't want spoilers here.
Nikki Bella
No, you don't. And we don't want to be in trouble for giving you spoilers.
Gabby Wendy
Literally. NDAs. I don't want to be sued.
Nikki Bella
Right. So, yeah, so we're gonna. But we. At least we get to talk about some things. Like, especially, you know, we could start. You and I made a lot of headlines just off the Love it, Love it seven minute sneak peek. That was really fun.
Gabby Wendy
I thought it was so fun. I love, like, I'm always like, most people go on reality tv, like, watching what they say, you know, they're very conscious. But I, like, do the opposite.
Nikki Bella
Yeah. Which I love.
Gabby Wendy
Like, I probably need to Reel it in a little bit. But it's like we're making TV here. I got one chance. But I. It's like Sc scary that they're getting the gossipy moments because we were in like a corner alone, just talking, which I feel like people will see a lot of, but also like iconic. I feel like setting the tone totally right.
Nikki Bella
I mean, good for us that we didn't want to say hi to Tom Sandoval. I don't feel bad. And I just remember when we were, you know, we all of us get to Scotland early and we're doing a lot of stuff before meeting each other. So you're filming things before knowing who's on cast. So they ask you questions, who do you want to see, who you don't want to see? And you don't know anyone there yet. So, yeah, I say Tom Sandoval. And I do remember how some people moved in the room. In my head, I'm like, they kind of moved. Weird. Don't tell me he's here. But I'm like, there's no way he'd be here.
Gabby Wendy
Oh, wow.
Nikki Bella
And I felt like, so Gabby and I were in the same van. So then you're in vans and you get to meet three people before entering the castle. So Gabby was one of them and we connected. And yeah, I. That was one reason I felt like we connected so much is we just, we have no filters and we say whatever, especially you're the best. And you have great one liners. Like, I'm. Bri is like, you no filter. Nikki is always coming out. I'm like, no. Gabby's like, step above me. It's so good.
Gabby Wendy
I'm like, what's everyone scared of?
Nikki Bella
Right?
Gabby Wendy
What's going on here? No, I know. I feel like we hit it off right away. I feel like you're just such like a down bitch, like a real one. And I'm like, okay, I can actually be my most unfiltered with you.
Nikki Bella
Yeah, totally.
Gabby Wendy
And we were scared people.
Nikki Bella
Yeah, it does scare people.
Gabby Wendy
They're like, oh my God, like, you're gonna get me in trouble. I'm like, in trouble. We have free will.
Nikki Bella
Yeah.
Gabby Wendy
What are you going to get in trouble about?
Nikki Bella
Right. And also we're here for a competition. Like, this is kind of how it is. But yeah. So, okay, what were your thoughts when. Because, you know, at least we could talk about this because as of now, everything that's out. So it's the seven minute sneak peek. What were your thoughts, you know, with everyone coming out of the van and everyone that you saw.
Gabby Wendy
I'm still. Still, like, Which. You believe in astrology, right? Yes. Me bringing up astrology, first five seconds.
Nikki Bella
I love it.
Gabby Wendy
Yeah. But I think just like, I'm a Capricorn, and I feel like we kind of sit back and just, like, watch. With any reality TV I've been on, I try and not get too involved. I don't want to form too many opinions because I don't want somebody else projecting on me, like, what terrible time they had and, like, what to do. It's like, okay, I have to do things my own way. And I was probably, like, overwhelmed. I'm like, what the fuck are we doing? Like, a murder mystery? Like, when they first asked me to do Traders, I was like, absolutely not. Like, no way.
Nikki Bella
So you didn't watch before?
Gabby Wendy
I did watch before, only when I said yes, which was, like, a couple months before we started filming. So I'm like, okay, I got a binge. But to be honest, I was probably so high when I was watching it that I just, like, didn't remember anything. Which now I'm like, rewatching series that I was like, wow, this hits different, like, when you're sober.
Nikki Bella
Yeah. Right.
Gabby Wendy
So I was just trying to get through it, just to get, like, a feel for it, you know? It didn't help me out any, because when they were asking, like, who do you not want to see? I'm like, I don't know. Like, I don't know until I know.
Nikki Bella
Right? Yeah.
Gabby Wendy
It's like, I'll come to that information probably, like, I don't know, a weekend. And then I'm like, yeah, I wish I never met you.
Nikki Bella
Yeah. Oh, my God. That's actually a great answer.
Gabby Wendy
Yeah. But I think I was just. I didn't really. I. I was so grateful we had, like, my. Actually, my dad knows you. He remembers you because we rode an elevator together on Dancing with the Star.
Nikki Bella
Oh, yeah.
Gabby Wendy
We. Because you were staying at the AKA he's like, who's Nikki again? I'm like, we rode the elevator with her. He, like, always references you. I know. It's so cute. So it was nice just to have, like, you as a friend. And then knowing you were, like, so down. Like, I felt safe.
Nikki Bella
Yeah.
Gabby Wendy
But everybody. I'm like, who are all these, like, survivor people?
Nikki Bella
Right.
Gabby Wendy
Just, like, I don't know Survivor. I don't know. Big brother.
Nikki Bella
I'm. I was with you in. In the boat. I didn't. In that same boat where I didn't know gamers. So when everyone was freaking out over Big Rob, I felt I. Or wait, I mean Boston, I mean Boston Rum. Big Rob, I was like thinking like, that's his. I don't know.
Gabby Wendy
Anyway, no, he is like, he's basically.
Nikki Bella
He's like, yeah, like big time. Like in that world. Like everyone freaked out when they saw him and it was Bob the Drag Queen. I go, oh, who is that? And he just started laughing so hard and I was like, oh, shoot, like, great. I'm supposed to like, I don't know. But I was the same with like all the gamers and then. Shit, I wish I did my homework actually on the gamers because those are the ones you have to like look out for, right?
Gabby Wendy
Yeah, it was like, I feel like for us coming from our reality tv, we don't even know what the other sector is like of like real whatever gaming challenges, survivors. So I feel like we got a crash course. I'm like, this is not what I signed up for. I'm showing up in a full beat, my hair's done in TV beast in a sick outfit that a stylist planned. And you want me to like do these crazy challenges and like think like a survivor person. Like, this is crazy. But they were great and it was fun.
Nikki Bella
Well, I think that's what makes the traders so entertaining, is you do mix up the gamers. And then I feel like this group is in their own world. The housewives and then reality stars.
Gabby Wendy
Yeah.
Nikki Bella
And we're all in it together and it's like, that's what makes it entertaining because us reality stars and housewives are in our own world and you have the gamers that are just totally messing with us.
Gabby Wendy
Yeah.
Nikki Bella
You know what I mean?
Gabby Wendy
They're like so strategic. I'm like, I couldn't be strategic if I tried. Like, I just, it's just, I like take things as they come. I cannot be one step ahead. But you learn fast. The mental gymnastics gets to you. And now I'm like Olympian level. I'm like back tucking for real.
Nikki Bella
It's. I can't wait till I get to bring you back on.
Gabby Wendy
Yes.
Nikki Bella
And we get a really, like just go in on true thoughts, feelings, things that happen and then that we get to watch. And like, if people say stuff about us, because I know people have said stuff about us, but I can't wait till we really get to go into that because I, I really want to get into the gaming side of it and that mental side of.
Gabby Wendy
Yeah.
Nikki Bella
What I caught on to. And so.
Gabby Wendy
Yeah, yeah, yeah, no, that'll be fun. Yes. Because I also feel like, I wish. You know how Love island, they do, like, five episodes a week. You get to know them so much, and it's like, they probably don't have the budget for that, but next year.
Nikki Bella
Yeah.
Gabby Wendy
I was screaming, like, obviously, their budget got better this year because they were, like, giving us some clothes, and their lighting seems way better. I was screaming about the lighting from the beginning. I'm like, what the. And then seeing, like, the previews, I'm like, oh, my God. Like, their budget actually did give anyways.
Nikki Bella
So they're Emmy winners now.
Gabby Wendy
Yeah.
Nikki Bella
You know.
Gabby Wendy
Yeah. They must have got some cash out, like, out of that, which we appreciate.
Nikki Bella
Like.
Gabby Wendy
But I wish they could air it with the audience not knowing who the traitors are, because from watching the first couple seasons, which grant. I was impaired. I admitted it. But you don't really grasp, like, how confused everybody is. You're, like, watching it back. I'm like, this is so easy. Like, I know exactly what's going on. But, yeah, I feel like if they could do more episodes and do it from a different point of view, the audience would see it a little bit different.
Nikki Bella
Totally. Because I was a big fan of the show. I love it. So when I got the offer, I was like, yeah, I want to, like, try this. See? Can I do this?
Gabby Wendy
Yeah.
Nikki Bella
And then my eyes. Because you're right, as a viewer, I had a different expectation going in, and it was way different. But now I get why I've always loved watching it is like, whoa. No one's produced. They just let you go.
Gabby Wendy
Yeah.
Nikki Bella
Obviously we have moments of stopping and all that, but, like, I. I was like, oh, my gosh. It is totally different when the. What anyone's thinks.
Gabby Wendy
Oh, yeah. Different than anything I've ever done. I mean, like, on Bachelor, everybody knows the producers are heavily involved. They're kind of like your go to also for, like, similar gameplay manipulation, gaslighting that goes into a dating show. You, like, work it out with your producer, but they're not there. I mean, they could. They couldn't even, like, tell us anything. They were basically. I'm. I think, you know, whoever their supes are, they were terrified because they couldn't tell us any. Like, even something unrelated to the show. They're like, we can't talk about it.
Nikki Bella
Yeah.
Gabby Wendy
I'm like, oh, my God, I don't even know you.
Nikki Bella
Yeah, right.
Gabby Wendy
Yeah. But I know it was. I was surprised at how much they always say, like, the game plays itself.
Nikki Bella
Yeah.
Nicole
Nicole, after the London trip that Brian and I took the kids to. We said every year we need to come up with a really fun trip. Where? I don't know, like, a place we get to travel to. And it doesn't always have to be the mountains. London was a really neat experience. We're like, why don't we pick another country? Or we can pick somewhere here in the United States. The kids really haven't been to the east coast, but we were like, let's find one spot and get an Airbnb like we did in London, because it's nice. It's like, it feels like home away from home. And so he and I are starting to look. So you're gonna have to help us, because 2025, it's like one of those things. I feel like with kids, you have to plan a trip six months out, always has to be around school. But I feel like, you know, I always think of New York when I think of the East Coast, But I think there might be some really other neat places, like Vermont. But to find, like, a really fun Airbnb for family just might be the thing for 2025 for the Danielsons.
Nikki Bella
I agree. I mean, it's definitely the way to travel. And what makes it even better is while you're living it up in someone else's home, you can actually host on Airbnb while you're away. So why don't you try putting your house on Airbnb, making some money while you're out there spending some money?
Nicole
You know, I tell Brian this all the time. I feel like we kill it on Airbnb.
Nikki Bella
Yeah, I agree. I mean, think about it. If you host while you're away, it's basically like you're making money while you're spending money.
Nicole
And you know me, that's what I like.
Nikki Bella
I agree. And if the holidays drain your finances, so let's be honest, because they always do, Hosting is a pretty cool and unique way to make some money back. Right.
Nicole
We spent a lot in London, and I would love to see some of.
Nikki Bella
That money back, honestly. So for everyone out there, don't leave money on the table when you travel this year.
Nicole
Okay, so I think Vermont it is, with then maybe my house going up and. And then it'll be evens.
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It is. It's amazing when you miss your home and you crave it. I mean, honestly, there is no better feeling than absolutely loving your home.
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Nikki Bella
Now, is there anything you're worried about that you think when the season airs? Because obviously you have been in the media so much. I mean, you know it from your bachelorette world, your life since. Is there anything like you're worried about, like being back in headlines or anything like that?
Gabby Wendy
I mean. Oh, I never know what's gonna come out of my own mouth even saying here right now. So I'm like. And I. And you do get caught up in the moment. So I'm. I'm afraid about a couple things just kind of just like, talking, but I feel like people know me. It doesn't mean anything. No, but I. Yeah, I don't. People who don't know me from the Bachelor, like on the Bachelor, which I've talked about. So I was raked over the coals for my voice. They're like, why does she talk like that? I'm like, I don't know if I had A TBI when I was younger. I don't know.
Nikki Bella
Great boy.
Gabby Wendy
Thank you. They don't. I think you have a great voice.
Nikki Bella
Oh, well, thank you.
Gabby Wendy
I think they think. And, like, I've even met people in real life that are like, we thought your voice was fake.
Nikki Bella
And I'm like, really? How do I fake a voice?
Gabby Wendy
Like, me, Elizabeth Holmes, trying to be like Steve Jobs. But. But. So I'm, like, already preparing for that, which is just gonna. So annoying. And. But other. Do you read the comments and stuff?
Nikki Bella
No, I haven't.
Gabby Wendy
I don't want to.
Nikki Bella
Yeah. I just. I think especially because I felt what it's like to disconnect and, like, have that kind of world be away from you and, like, how much healthier and happy you are that it's like, I don't even need it. And my therapist I had. She's my life coach, too, and I've had her on the show, and she said something it was, like, a few weeks ago that really stuck so hard with me, and it was like, more people need your message than the trolls on the Internet. Like, you have such a further reach. And I'm like, it's so true. We get so hooked on those few comments.
Gabby Wendy
Right?
Nikki Bella
We're gonna hear it. I mean, especially. I feel like people get very judgy when it comes to game players, like, when they watch these competition shows, whether it's Bachelorette, Love island, the Traitors. So I know there's gonna be a lot of dragging and a lot of, you know, negative. Like, why do they do this? They didn't play. They weren't there. They didn't do. They didn't have to do all the hours we had to do. So I'm like, I'm just not gonna read it because they don't get it.
Gabby Wendy
Yeah. No. That's how I am. I even. Which I maybe. Which I'm not even, like, really afraid, but it's like, anybody who knows me knows I'm a raging feminist. I'm a lesbian. Righteous as. So it's like, anybody that knows me knows that, but. Because I saw somebody posted a story yesterday. She's like, a Survivor fan, and she's like, if you thought so. So, like, didn't like men, Wait till you meet Gabby from the Bachelor. And I'm like, whatever. It's in. Nikki Glaser at the Golden Globes just, like, roasted all of the men. Like, it's 20, 25 people.
Nikki Bella
Yes.
Gabby Wendy
So, but also, our audience is, like, the girlies and the gays.
Nikki Bella
Yeah.
Gabby Wendy
And the They's.
Nikki Bella
Yeah.
Gabby Wendy
So I feel like I'll be in good company. But.
Nikki Bella
You will be.
Gabby Wendy
Yeah. I'm just like, I don't know. I feel we've been on reality TV enough that you just have to, like, back yourself.
Nikki Bella
You do. And you know what? Like, what's made you, though, stand out so, like, from being a bachelorette, then going to dance, you in the stars. It's not every bachelorette gets asked. Not every bachelor. But you're standout because you're just who you are. And now you have. Yeah. You're welcome. A podcast. And then you're asked on the Traders. Not everyone's asked on the Traders. And I know so many people are like, I want to do it. I wish all the things, but because you stay true to yourself whether people like it or not. And I. I'm the same way. It's like, you stand out. You don't want to change that.
Gabby Wendy
No. Yeah. And Robbie's so good about it. I mean, she's been kind of in the industry for like 10 years doing stand up. And people have, like, so many judgments about anyone who's like, public facing, but especially if you're making jokes that you don't like, she's like, just fuck them. And I'm like, yeah, totally. So she's a good, like, cheerleader to have.
Nikki Bella
I love that.
Gabby Wendy
So, yeah, I'm more like. I think I'm prepared this time around, but I haven't been on TV in like two years.
Nikki Bella
Right.
Gabby Wendy
So it's just terrifying watching yourself back in like 4K on a 72 incher. Like, what happened to the smaller TV?
Nikki Bella
Yes. And do you feel like it's gonna be different? And I don't even know how, like, how do I word this? But. Because you haven't been on TV since, like, coming out and, you know, being a lesbian. And my thing is, is why it feels, I think a bigger deal with you than anyone is because you were a bachelorette. Right. And do you feel like there's gonna be anything with that? Because no one's seen you since, which. It's so funny because then people. I love when they go, oh, the same person. Yeah. No. What do you think? I mean, was she, like, growing wings? Like, what? You know what I mean, right?
Gabby Wendy
Yeah. My DNA completely changed.
Nikki Bella
Yeah. Like, it's so wild to me how people can be.
Gabby Wendy
Yeah. I think, if anything, I feel like since I've been dating Robbie and kind of like whatever, explored my sexuality, I feel like I'm just like, more confident.
Nikki Bella
Yeah.
Gabby Wendy
Because I'M it already allows you to be different, and you have to own it. And it's been, like, such a great experience for me, so. Feel like now, this season, more than ever, I'm really leaning into, like, femininity and, like, like, the strength of a woman. I feel like that's, like, a huge I theme.
Nikki Bella
Yes.
Gabby Wendy
I think for this season, because we had really strong women and lots of gays, which is nice. So I feel like, yeah, they'll see a different side of me, but I feel like it's going to be more empowered.
Nikki Bella
Yeah. Oh, I love that.
Gabby Wendy
Under the man's fucking thumb.
Nikki Bella
That's right. And you really. I mean, I. Again, it's like, I have to be careful what I say, but you were definitely like that at round table, for sure, so. And I'm happy people will see that side of you because I was like, yeah, girl. Damn.
Gabby Wendy
Well, I. I don't ever. I don't ever turn down, like, a chance to confront a man.
Nikki Bella
Yeah. And you sure don't.
Gabby Wendy
Yeah. In any kind of a scenario. I'm like, it's not even that I want to, because I'm like. I'm riddled with anxiety, but it's like, it just, like, overcomes me. I'm like, okay, well, something I like. I don't know. It's like Poltergeist. Like, the devil gets ins.
Nikki Bella
And, like, from this season, like, do you have any hopes for it? Like. Like, that it goes like, you know, that it could bring stuff in. By the way, I feel like you need to be on Villain House.
Gabby Wendy
Oh, I'm dead.
Nikki Bella
And not because you're a villain, but because, like, you will call people out, like, and do you know what I mean? I think you would kick so much ass on that show.
Gabby Wendy
Oh, my God. I actually wouldn't say no.
Nikki Bella
Yeah, you need to be on it. I would. Hey, E. And we love you over there. Nbcu. She's the NBCU girl now.
Gabby Wendy
Yes, I am.
Nikki Bella
So come on, Peacock. I would be obsessed. I would actually tune in to watch just to go see Roast all the villains in there.
Gabby Wendy
Yeah.
Nikki Bella
I'm like, oh, my gosh. Okay, we're gonna have to make that happen. But, like, what are hopes for after this and dreams and wants and all.
Gabby Wendy
The things, like, in career, just like, coming from the season.
Nikki Bella
Both.
Gabby Wendy
Both, I think. I guess. I don't know. Yeah. Kind of what we were talking about. I feel like people hopefully will see, like, a different side of me. It's really different. Like, you know, Dancing with the Stars is like, Kind of. It has a big platform, but it's like your interviews are always snipped. You know, you get like a two minute whatever package at the beginning of your dance, and then an interview you're just talking about. Dancing Bachelor is like, still all of your. Whatever you're talking about is really geared towards, like. Like the relationships that you're trying to foster. Like people on my TikTok because I'm so unhinged and deranged, which I love. They're like, where was this personality on the Bachelor? I'm like, there's just really no room for that. Like, I've always been the same person, but I think Traders gives you a little more, like, room to kind of be yourself and see you in a different light. And like, the confrontation aspect of it, it's like, scary as. But it's also like, it doesn't. I'm like, it doesn't have to be personal. I took everything so personal.
Nikki Bella
You did, yes.
Gabby Wendy
Yes. And. But I think it'll, like, serve the show well.
Nikki Bella
Totally well.
Gabby Wendy
But I also think it's like, good practice, like, in normal life, you know, to be able to just like, say what you mean and speak your feelings. So I hope that that part comes out and people see a different side of me. And I'm just like. I'm hoping for a lot of attention, I'll be honest.
Nikki Bella
Well, I think you're gonna get it for sure.
Gabby Wendy
I think we all are. Yeah.
Nikki Bella
Yeah. I feel like I have so much empathy that it made me. We'll see what kind of game player. But I think it has effects when you're playing games. I realize that I easily fall for shit, and I didn't think so.
Gabby Wendy
Yeah.
Nikki Bella
And that is. Was the craziest part of the experience is how easily you can get mind or brainwashed. I was like, what?
Gabby Wendy
Yeah.
Nikki Bella
I'm like, how did I let that happen? But it's because you start to let people in.
Gabby Wendy
Right.
Nikki Bella
Which I. I can't wait to talk about later with you because there's some. And I was like, oh, my goodness.
Gabby Wendy
Yeah.
Nikki Bella
I did not see that coming. And I felt for this person so much.
Gabby Wendy
Yeah. No, I know. You have such a big heart.
Nikki Bella
Yeah.
Gabby Wendy
Which is why I felt, like, so safe with you. And it's nice to have, like, one person. But then it's even like, I know we have to come back and talk about it.
Nikki Bella
I can't wait. There's just so many moments just for memory that I'm like, oh, I just want to dive into so bad and then, though, I know there's going to be so many moments that we just haven't seen yet.
Gabby Wendy
Yeah. I can't wait. I know. It's like I'm nervous to watch myself back, but also, it's like one. You'd never get as much screen time as you want, so also, I'm going to be pissed that I'm not on the TV enough, but. And, like, just to watch everything happen behind the scenes.
Nikki Bella
Yes. Right.
Gabby Wendy
But what are you hoping for, like, out of the season and stuff of.
Nikki Bella
It's, you know, like, the same as you. It's the. There's so much I want to say, but then it'll give away things. So. But, like, seeing me in a different light, and then I think people are going to see things about my personality. There might be an expectation, and then they're going to like, oh, she really is that kind of person. Yeah. Because also, I think a lot of people are going to expect a pro wrestling personality. Like, I'm just walking in as Nikki Bella from 2018, like, in my top villain era.
Gabby Wendy
Yeah.
Nikki Bella
And I'm just gonna be, like, giving people body slams. So I think we're gonna just see something a little different. Even though it's like, you saw this side of me on Total Bellas, but. And you know, and also of just, like, this part in my life life, I guess it'll be the first time people see me as, like, they've seen me as a mom, but with Bri on Total Bells. Right. This is the first thing I've done as a mom, so I think you. You're just softer in that way, personality wise. But then without Bri and being in a gaming environment without her, it was. That was, like, very scary because usually. And even though I had you to lean on for sure. But I think, too, like, people just see different side, you know?
Gabby Wendy
Yeah.
Nikki Bella
So. And that. And just like, I really, truly hope this show kicks so much us. Obviously, I'm competitive, so I'm like, this is gonna be the best season yet, so you all better freaking stream it.
Gabby Wendy
Yeah.
Nikki Bella
And I want it to win Emmys again. And I want, like, a lot of you to just, like, go and crush and get so many amazing things. Like, I really want that because there's so many of you guys are so amazing, and I just want a lot to come from it. You all deserve that. And I. I really hope for that. And I hope. I hope, you know, a lot of us, a lot of you guys get nominations. Just, like, I want traders to go take over new year, new drip start.
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Gabby Wendy
Yeah, yeah. No, and same for you. And like, I don't think anyone doubts it. Who's listening? But like everything you say, so genuine.
Nikki Bella
Yeah.
Gabby Wendy
Oh, like, yeah. Like I. Some people say that and I feel like they'll. They'll say it just to say it.
Nikki Bella
Yeah.
Gabby Wendy
You know, but it's like, I know you really mean it. It's like I was talking to Robbie. Obvious. Like, did you watch the Golden Globes?
Nikki Bella
So I only we. I was flying from Denver.
Gabby Wendy
Oh, okay.
Nikki Bella
So. And I mean, I don't want to say shitty WI fi. I was very fortunate to have WI fi. But yeah, so I was watching everything through the Golden Globes instead, which the Keekleys are crushed.
Gabby Wendy
Like literally crushed. I mean, I feel like obviously just like being a woman, watching her do that. I think she was the first solo woman comedian to host and just like everyone being like, holy shit. Nikki Glaser crushed.
Nikki Bella
Yeah.
Gabby Wendy
And it's just like this. I know. Same. I'm like, oh my God, this is what we can do. Because it's like she's a professional. I watched her clips on Howard Stern. Big fan.
Nikki Bella
Yeah.
Gabby Wendy
And she like, she goes into it. Cuz I'm like, I feel like, what? She's such a natural. She was so composed. It felt like she wasn't trying too hard. But like, then you hear her talk and it's like, holy. She was working out these jokes. She thought about everything, every single thing to make it hit. And I'm like, this is what being a woman is like. We just come prepared. But I was asking Robbie, I'm like, do you think other women comedians are jealous of her? Yeah, I won't say that name. And she's like, no. Like I, you know, in this Instance, you know, I think they'd be really happy for her.
Nikki Bella
I agree.
Gabby Wendy
It's just, like, so rare to hear. But it's also like, I genuinely feel like you're like that too. And, like. And I think, like, it'll just be like that on the season. Like, I feel like we just really lift each other up. It's in for 20, 25.
Nikki Bella
It really is. Like, unity is. It's the theme. It's the thing. Like, we really want it. And that's what I loved about Nikki. It was like, one. How amazing to see a woman do it on her own. The fact that anytime I was a woman, they always had to be two women, not just one, literally. And I love the type of comedy when any of us can get a quick pop or quick laugh when we go so raunchy or so political or so whatever. Right?
Gabby Wendy
Yes.
Nikki Bella
She did it in such a classy way where it's hard to make people laugh in that way. And she did. And she was so entertaining.
Gabby Wendy
Yes.
Nikki Bella
Because sometimes when I watch other open people who do their monologues for show openers, and I'm like, gosh, like, that's so. Like, are there 15 year olds around? Like, oh, they're not listening. And she just did it in a way that I was like, see, that is a good comedian.
Gabby Wendy
Yes. Yeah, she, like, she was so tasteful. She didn't go too hard. She didn't hurt anyone's feelings, like, too much. Like, it was just perfectly curated.
Nikki Bella
Totally.
Gabby Wendy
Like, I thought it was so good.
Nikki Bella
I agree. Was there any of her jokes that stood out to you that you're like, oh, my God, I love that.
Gabby Wendy
Which there was a couple. Robbie and I were, oh, there was one which, like, Robbie did it. And she's like, what did that mean when she was like, in. In five years, we're gonna watch this back and we're gonna.
Nikki Bella
Yes.
Gabby Wendy
Have the moment of, oh, my God, that's before that guy was caught.
Nikki Bella
Yeah, we're. We're like at history right now. And she's like, yeah, it could be a woman. 100%. It won't be. But, like, right, it can be. I was like, yes. That made me laugh so hard. And I loved seeing some of the faces get so uncomfortable.
Gabby Wendy
I know.
Nikki Bella
And I'm like, ooh, do we need to watch out for you? But that was amazing, Bri. And I loved that moment. We were dying.
Gabby Wendy
Me too. And you could tell, like, just, like, some of the discomfort. It's like, because these. They're guilty. Yeah, that's exactly what Brie and I said.
Nikki Bella
We're like, zoom in. That's a guilty face.
Gabby Wendy
Literally. Yeah. It's like, too close to home.
Nikki Bella
Totally.
Gabby Wendy
But it was so good.
Nikki Bella
So good. And I loved the Adam Sandler part. Like, Charlemagne. How good did she do that?
Gabby Wendy
She. I thought she did it better than Adam Sandler.
Nikki Bella
Yeah.
Gabby Wendy
Like, I'm. Like, she sounded more like Adam Sandler than he did.
Nikki Bella
Yeah.
Gabby Wendy
Somehow that.
Nikki Bella
And that was the stuff where I'm like, this is great. Like, everyone's laughing. People are laughing at home. Like, this is a comedy that I just love. Like, eyelashes is a mustache. And, like, you know what I mean? It's just those little things are with Selena's fiance. Like, whoa. So, you know, you got the Gina to give you that one wish. Like, just fun stuff like that that you would, like, laugh out loud there. I liked when in the middle of it, she did the point taking. She's like, okay, so let's see. Like, who.
Gabby Wendy
Yes.
Nikki Bella
Mario Lopez got one. The God, the creator of the universe. Zero.
Gabby Wendy
Literally. Yeah. That is. Everything is so good.
Nikki Bella
So good. And I did love, because Zendaya. I think I always say her name right. Zendaya.
Gabby Wendy
Yeah. Right? Yeah.
Nikki Bella
Her face with that was so cute. I love her. She's so cute.
Gabby Wendy
Oh, my God, she's gorgeous.
Nikki Bella
She's just made to wear clothes. Right. I mean, obviously insanely talented, but God gave her a body of like. So this is how you wear.
Gabby Wendy
Right.
Nikki Bella
Fashion.
Gabby Wendy
Yes. God has favorites.
Nikki Bella
Yeah.
Gabby Wendy
I remember me one time was like, thank God Zendaya is not a model, because nobody else would have work.
Nikki Bella
No one. I mean. Yeah. Thank God she connect.
Gabby Wendy
Right.
Nikki Bella
And was there any. Well, I mean, I guess by, you know, the time this airs far gone. But any other favorite moments from the Golden Globes?
Gabby Wendy
Well, I love Jennifer Coolidge. Did you see her presentation of an award?
Nikki Bella
Yes.
Gabby Wendy
So people are like, it's amazing how much she can make people laugh just by being herself.
Nikki Bella
Yes.
Gabby Wendy
It's like her delivery and her isms. Like, I can't even do it.
Nikki Bella
It's so good.
Gabby Wendy
She always seems a little lost in thought, but then, like, gets it out. Like, and when she was just like. Like I was on a job and, you know, good impression. The man. There's. I was working with a man and he got green juice, you know, but, like, she didn't. And she was like, Billy Bob Thorton got to bring his coyote. And it's like she's like sending a message.
Nikki Bella
I love that.
Gabby Wendy
And me too. I thought she was really good, but I Didn't watch the whole thing. Yeah, I just watched the clips.
Nikki Bella
I mean, it's so good when you watch the clips. I love it. Would you ever do stand?
Gabby Wendy
No, no, no.
Nikki Bella
It's hard.
Gabby Wendy
It's so hard. I mean, like, we were driving around and at the Laugh Factory, just on Sunset. I mean, Robbie does all these clubs. It's like, she'll leave the house at 9pm I'm, like, getting in bed. I have my face, like, my red light mask on. I'm like. Just took my sleeping meds. I'm like, get the fuck out so I can, like, finally go to bed. But I can't imagine leaving to go to work at that time.
Nikki Bella
No.
Gabby Wendy
Just doing the same thing and kind of grinding and. Yeah. We drove by the la, and it's like. I mean, Nikki Glazer is, like, you know, at a level where she's making good money.
Nikki Bella
Yeah.
Gabby Wendy
But before that. And, like, Robbie is. Is, like, touring, and she's, like, getting bigger. But it's like when we met a year and a half ago. And this is for all comedians. They'll do shows for, like, $30.
Nikki Bella
Wow.
Gabby Wendy
30, 50. They're leaving. They're going. They're always like, even just to just open yourself up to that kind of, like, judgment. It's like, if people don't laugh, you must feel like shit about yourself, Right? There's, like, no way you're going home. But it's like, they have the resilience. But, yeah, Nikki Glaser was, like, performing at the Laugh Factory, like, right before the Golden Globes. I'm like, she's still grinding.
Nikki Bella
Yeah.
Gabby Wendy
It's crazy.
Nikki Bella
It's crazy. I hope we see her more and more.
Gabby Wendy
Me, too. You know, I stand.
Nikki Bella
I would love for her to do the Oscars, and I bet she'll be back next year for the Golden Globes. How do you not have her back? Yeah, it was so great. Oh. When she did the musical part, and.
Gabby Wendy
I'm like, oh, my God, is she gonna act like. I feel like sometimes you're, like, kind of cringed out because you're like. You're forcing it. But when she was. This isn't good.
Nikki Bella
She was so good.
Gabby Wendy
So good.
Nikki Bella
Penguin in the membrane or whatever.
Gabby Wendy
He says penguin.
Nikki Bella
Yeah. He's like, how do you say it? That was so good. I thought this. I'm like, she needs to do acting. Like, do the whole Amy Schumer move. But, like, still host for us. But, like.
Gabby Wendy
Yeah, but she's been at it for, like, 20 years.
Nikki Bella
20 years.
Gabby Wendy
I went down A rabbit hole. And she. I forgot, but she was on Dancing with the Stars.
Nicole
Yeah.
Nikki Bella
She danced with glam. I think she was Chrishell's season, right?
Gabby Wendy
Yeah.
Nikki Bella
Yeah.
Gabby Wendy
I saw who she followed and it was like Chrishell and. And stuff. And then I watched an interview of. I watched her dance. Obviously, you can tell she just loves to perform.
Nikki Bella
Oh, yeah.
Gabby Wendy
Because she. And she looks kind of tall, but she did a move where she was just, like, shaking her, like, as much as she could. I'm like. And she got eliminated the first round.
Nikki Bella
Yeah.
Gabby Wendy
It was like they were dying to get me out of there, but she really cared. But I'm like, she's had such a career and only now. But can you imagine? Just like. Because I feel like it was after the Rush roast, like, that was her big break with doing the Netflix roast.
Nikki Bella
And now Tom Brady one.
Gabby Wendy
Right?
Nikki Bella
Yeah.
Gabby Wendy
Yes. It's so. But comedians have to, like, work so hard.
Nikki Bella
So hard for years. Totally. We've had her on the show.
Gabby Wendy
Oh, yeah.
Nikki Bella
And she just was super incredible and like, inspirational, motivating and just like, you know, talked a lot about that stuff and the grind. And so it's crazy of. I mean, I felt like we had her on a year ago and just. Just know her hopes and wants and like when we talked about stuff and of course, Taylor Swift, because, you know, she's a D fan.
Gabby Wendy
Yeah.
Nikki Bella
And now just to see in that short period of time where she's at. And it's truly crazy that when you keep working hard on whatever it is you do, whatever your craft is, I do believe your time comes, like, it. It. It comes like, you know, Ariana, I told her when she was on the show, like, the same thing. Like, no, I don't think anyone realized for how long she trained in theater and dance. And so then all of a sudden, when Dancing with the Stars came and then she crushed and then she moved on and now is doing Broadway now you kind of just look at her as like a Broadway star, you know, But I feel like you prep and then finally your moment comes when it's meant to be, and then you're like, I've been ready for this for so long.
Gabby Wendy
Which.
Nikki Bella
It always feels better that way when you're ready for it and prepared, right?
Gabby Wendy
Yeah. Yeah. If you're not ready, which it's like, I've Even on the Bachelor, which. Not saying I didn' know what was going to happen, but like, four years before, I think I was nominated, but I was. They called me like, whatever the next day, but I was Denver Broncos cheerleader. And I'm like this. I'm living my dream right now. Like, this is what I'm supposed to be. I'm supposed to be a cheerleader and a nurse.
Nikki Bella
Yeah.
Gabby Wendy
And then so it's like, I think also. Yeah. It's okay to pass up things if you're not ready.
Nikki Bella
Right.
Gabby Wendy
Like, I always think that if it's meant to be, it'll come back around.
Nikki Bella
Yes.
Gabby Wendy
Like, timing is everything, but. Yeah, no, know. It's so. It's so inspiring. And to see, like, like, like there's some comments because some of the men obviously just weren't laughing at her because they're so jealous, but it's like, she's gorgeous and she's funny. She's at the top of her career. Men hate to see it.
Nikki Bella
They hate to see it.
Gabby Wendy
And we love to see it.
Nikki Bella
We love it. We're like, go, girl.
Gabby Wendy
Yes.
Nikki Bella
Open that. Kick that door down for us, literally.
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Gabby Wendy
You've had such a career, though. I feel like you're unstoppable.
Nikki Bella
You're so sweet. Thank you. It was fun to be back home the other night because now Monday night Raw is at Netflix, which is so cool. And it's funny because when I went in the crowd, you just get this thing, will they remember? Like, I haven't been in front of the crowd. Like, I've been at backstage at events, but to be in front of the crowd. It's been six years. Like, my last fight against Ronda Rousey for Evolution.
Gabby Wendy
Wow. So then fought against Ronda Rousey. Yeah.
Nikki Bella
Yeah. Thank goodness it wasn't for MMA or ufc. We did the wrestling ring and said. Which was still really hard. Let me tell you. I have never, ever since or before have been slammed that hard in my life.
Gabby Wendy
Oh, My God.
Nikki Bella
And it's just her power with it.
Gabby Wendy
Yeah.
Nikki Bella
She has insane strength. That's why she's Ronda Rousey.
Gabby Wendy
Lift you up with a finger pretty.
Nikki Bella
Much, and it would have the most insane momentum.
Gabby Wendy
Yeah. Such impact.
Nikki Bella
Yeah. Such impact. But she. Yeah, it was such a great experience with her, and. And it was cool because it was the WWE's first pay per View ever, so. And Rhonda and I headlined it and was the main event, so that was like. I mean, I can't believe I got to do that. Right? Like, just your reaction. People always be like, you fought Rhonda Rousey. I'm like, yeah, cool. Yeah. I had some little shorts and I did it full glam.
Gabby Wendy
Great. Literally great.
Nikki Bella
Honestly. But it was so fun to be back in the crowd and. And that they remembered, like, you know, when you get that big reaction, you're like, yay, you remember me?
Gabby Wendy
No, you're an icon.
Nikki Bella
Oh, well, you're sweet. Thank you. And you, too, in your way. You really are. And you're going to be iconic after this series. And I swear, we have to get you into Villain House because I need you to be in there.
Gabby Wendy
No, I'm like, you, too.
Nikki Bella
Yeah. Right. I feel like they're going to be like, she's in the wrong house. She's too nice. Get her out of here. Like you. Because they are, like, top villains in reality tv, but they need someone like you to go in and put them in check. Instead of villains yelling at villains. No. Get someone in there who will put villains in check.
Gabby Wendy
I'm dead.
Nikki Bella
Yeah, Right.
Gabby Wendy
The villain Keeper. I'm the police.
Nikki Bella
Right. Just start talking to nbcu.
Gabby Wendy
Yeah, honestly, that's. I feel like what's fun about Traders is just because, like, you have permission to be an. You have permission to, like, point fingers.
Nikki Bella
Honest.
Gabby Wendy
Yes. And, like, get in fights. And I'm like, okay, well, this is what we're here to do.
Nikki Bella
Right?
Gabby Wendy
Like, I don't have to, like. Totally. I feel like. I mean, I don't really know, but I don't. I don't know if somebody could get a true villain edit on Traders just because it's already worked into the model.
Nikki Bella
Right.
Gabby Wendy
You know, but I can't think of one person who maybe can, honestly. Yeah.
Nikki Bella
Theirs will be in a way of, like, trying to get sympathy, but it's so. Just not it. And it will come off as so. What's the word? Desperate. But, like, not genuine, I guess. And, like, just. I don't know it. Using a platform to try to say poor Me when this is not the place for. We're here to play a game. So put the gloves on and let's just play a game.
Gabby Wendy
Literally.
Nikki Bella
We don't need to say certain things that everyone will see soon enough. And.
Gabby Wendy
Yeah.
Nikki Bella
And I even still tried to stay really nice, but that got hard on me.
Gabby Wendy
Yeah, yeah, no, same.
Nikki Bella
Yeah, I liked it. Cuz I feel like you and Chrishell from the beginning were just like, like total great boundaries with it. And I just remembered like, okay, I'm gonna just be kind to everyone. And then I was just like, yeah, I just need to stay in their boat.
Gabby Wendy
Yeah.
Nikki Bella
Bye, bro. I'm so sorry, but yeah, yeah, I'm so happy I got the confirmation formation of all this. So.
Gabby Wendy
Yeah, yeah, you know. No, I know, I know. Which is like, I feel like it takes a while in any show to kind of like come into your own because. Same. That's some. I'll just avoid.
Nikki Bella
Yeah.
Gabby Wendy
Which doesn't like, do good for tv.
Nikki Bella
Right. But then at least it is good for your soul.
Gabby Wendy
Exactly.
Nikki Bella
That's how I felt.
Gabby Wendy
Avoid.
Nikki Bella
That's what I wanted too. Yeah, yeah, we need it for us.
Gabby Wendy
Yeah, I agree.
Nikki Bella
So before we get into some inspiration affirmation.
Gabby Wendy
Oh, yeah.
Nikki Bella
I want to talk about your podcast real quick. So Long Winded, which is such a great name. Yeah, you know, I like that. So it's on YouTube and all. Pad. Pad. So long winded is on YouTube as well as all podcast platforms. So wherever you guys get your podcast. So what is it about? Just like anything and everything, I think.
Gabby Wendy
Yeah, like I'll definitely touch on anything I sometimes have guests on. It's like half and half, which you have to come on.
Nikki Bella
Yeah, I want to come on.
Gabby Wendy
Yeah, sure. Yeah.
Nikki Bella
But can I wear sunglasses? Like I feel like I have to wear sunglasses.
Gabby Wendy
Yeah, I was almost gonna wear sunglasses today.
Nikki Bella
Oh, you should.
Gabby Wendy
But please. Yes. Yeah, I like to have. I like to have a lot of women on and like, what? There's like definitely like a queer like, undertones just because I'm like. Just not even undertone sometimes. Just in your face. Robbie and I are always screaming about our strap ons.
Nikki Bella
Yeah, girl. Yeah, we might have to bring you back and get details on that.
Gabby Wendy
Yeah, yeah, no, even when we have guests come over, we like love to do a show and tell.
Nikki Bella
Oh my God. No way.
Nicole
Okay.
Gabby Wendy
Yes. Just to like kind of whatever, like kind of normalize it. I had no idea. Well, I knew what a strap on was. I had an idea, but I thought it was just like, I thought it was taboo, and I thought it was, like, you know, for closeted gay dudes, so. But now it's like, okay, it serves a purpose. But anyways. Yeah, just kind of, like, no filter. I talk a lot. Just. I don't know. I feel like we're having a cultural shift, and, like, women are gaining their power. I won't even say back, because we never had it right.
Nikki Bella
I love that it's 100 true.
Gabby Wendy
Yeah. And just, like, kind of my experience, you know, now as, like, a new feminist and a new lesbian and things that I'm, like, interested in. I'll talk a decent amount of shit naturally, like, tell stories, but, yeah. No, overall, I try and, like, keep it light, but sometimes just, like, POV on certain things.
Nikki Bella
Very cool. And when do you drop? Do you. Once a week, Certain days?
Gabby Wendy
Once a week on Thursdays.
Nikki Bella
Nice. All right, everyone, you better check it out. And of course, before we end our episode, we're have Gabby leave us with some inspiration affirmation.
Gabby Wendy
I know Nikki texted me, like, 15 minutes before, and she's like, just so you know, we do this ending segment on Instagram, and I. You're so good. Like, I think what was one of the parts that was surprising to me is how, like, in touch you are. And, like, you. We were, like, in the forest once.
Nikki Bella
And Nikki was like, that sounds funny already. So we were once in the forest.
Gabby Wendy
Yeah. You were, like, looking at me, you're like, can you believe these trees are so old? I was like, oh, my. But it's like.
Nikki Bella
And I was like, right. Like, imagine what they've seen, right? Huh? Yeah.
Gabby Wendy
It's, like, so grounded. So I'm like, of course. But I feel like I'm so cynical, but I'm, like, trying to dig deep on some kind of inspiration, and I feel like you can take this anyway. And so I feel like it's kind of like nothing matters. And you could take it more as, like, a cynical way, which I think is, like, liberating in that nobody really gives a about you. They only give, like, a about themselves. So, like, once you stop caring about what other people think, like, even on a smaller level, I do think it's really freeing, but also in, like, a Buddhist way. Like, however, they. They also say that they do.
Nikki Bella
And, like, how I would take it, like, nothing matter is, like, when I think of thing, like, when things feel really tough, and when I think now, I think we believe. I think we believe differently here, but I'm not sure. And when I think of eternity and, like, where I really Want to be. And when I truly go home, back to God, nothing matters here. Yeah, I can't take anything with me. All I can take is my karma. And how did I treat others? How did. Did I treat God's children? How did I change? Like, what did I learn in this life? What was the wisdom? And how did I leave it better than when I came? And so for me, that's where I take that is nothing here matters. When I. When things have gotten dramatic or even messy in my life, especially as late. I always will remind, actually, I say that none of this matters. So why, like, Nicole, why are you going to give yourself a heart attack over something right when Think of eternity, think of wwjd. Like, that's right.
Gabby Wendy
What would Jesus do?
Nikki Bella
That's where I go.
Gabby Wendy
Yes. And, like, even more topical. It's like, it's hard. I mean, you're going through so much, but even in the public eye, that makes it harder. But it's like, I. Time heals. And, like, especially now, like, with the way we get our news and the way our minds work, like, things pass over so fast, past which I also feel. But I'm the same way. It's like Robbie and I kind of talk about all the time. We're like, what the Is after this? Like, I don't. I'm like, I don't know if I want to be reincarnated, because what if I end up even more anxious and depressed? But also, like, yeah, I genuinely think. And like, people. I recently had somebody close to me pass.
Nikki Bella
Oh, I'm sorry.
Gabby Wendy
Thank you. But it's like, you do a lot of thinking about that, you know, and like, they say when, and it's. And it's also built in, like, as much as you think about it spiritually or like, I know from being a nurse is like, you release a bunch of hormones when you pass. It feels like love. It feels like light. So it's like, that's the last thing we're gonna remember. I think that most people are, like, genuinely good, like, apart from, like, you know, sociopaths and, like, rapists.
Nikki Bella
Yeah.
Gabby Wendy
Like, I think, you know, even if we've. We're all gonna make mistakes. Mistakes. But it's like. Yeah. At the end of the day, it's okay.
Nikki Bella
Yeah. Oh, wow. Why? Well, nothing matters.
Gabby Wendy
Everyone. No, Absolutely nothing.
Nikki Bella
Absolutely nothing. So take that in with you today. Make sure to watch Traders on Thursdays on Peacock. And, you know, you had quite a bit of fan questions, but I held them.
Gabby Wendy
Yeah.
Nikki Bella
Because we're just not Going to do the fans justice. What I'm gonna do is bring you back on so you could really spill the tea because.
Gabby Wendy
Yeah, yeah.
Nikki Bella
Some of the questions, it's just like you can't even fully answer answer it.
Gabby Wendy
Right.
Nikki Bella
So. So we're gonna. I'm saving those questions. And then I know we're gonna get even more. And also, you guys know you could call into at 8:33 Garcia too. And I just, like, we're close. You look close. We'll just go back and forth on each other's shows and let's talk about all this.
Gabby Wendy
Yes.
Nikki Bella
But I'm saving a bunch. And you're just gonna have to come on here and answer a bunch of questions.
Gabby Wendy
Would love.
Nikki Bella
You know, it'll be fun. So. But I wanted to make sure they were done justice because.
Gabby Wendy
Yeah, yeah.
Nikki Bella
We can't halfway spill the tea.
Gabby Wendy
No. And we just can't say anything right now.
Nikki Bella
Now that you're hearing us start to call in and DM the questions. Because you just watched three episodes.
Gabby Wendy
Yeah.
Nikki Bella
As well as us.
Gabby Wendy
Yeah. So I'm going to have to be in, like, a dark room.
Nikki Bella
I know.
Gabby Wendy
I'm like, I'm nervous.
Nikki Bella
I'm nervous, too. I'm going to have to watch with Bri. I just feel like I don't even like watching myself back ever. I have such a hard time, so this is going to be hard for me. And then, like, at least when I did total divas or even total Bellas, like, I kind of knew when people were talking shit about me. And also, we got to watch the episodes before they aired, so I was really prepped when people talked shit about me, I. This. We're just gonna all live in the moment.
Gabby Wendy
I know. I'm like, I wish we got screeners so bad.
Nikki Bella
I know.
Gabby Wendy
I begged my manager ass yesterday. They were like, fuck no. But even just the thought of watching before other people had such an alleviation of stress. So then when they were like, no, I'm like, back square. Nothing matters.
Nikki Bella
Nothing matters. This is a theme. This is what we are going to take with us today.
Gabby Wendy
Right.
Nikki Bella
And all season long. Because that's what we're just going to need. Especially when you see what we had to deal with.
Gabby Wendy
Oh, God.
Nikki Bella
Let me tell you. And a lot of you already saw three episodes of what we had to deal with and what we'll have to continue to deal with. But okay, everyone. So, yes, the Traders season. Three new episodes every Thursday on Peacock. And make sure to tune into Gabby's podcast, long winded on YouTube and wherever you get your podcast and check her out on Instagram and Tick Tock at Gabby, Wendy and Tick Tock. There's no dot.
Gabby Wendy
Yeah, exactly.
Nikki Bella
There's no dot.
Gabby Wendy
And I don't know if I really sold my podcast enough, but just be sure to tune in.
Nikki Bella
Tune in. I mean, I feel like so many people love it, even socially. You gotta check out our socials and it's going to make you want to tune in for sure.
Gabby Wendy
Begging. Thank you.
Nikki Bella
Exactly. Like subscribe, do all the things.
Gabby Wendy
Yeah.
Nikki Bella
Thank you, Gabby, for coming on. That was so fun.
Gabby Wendy
Thank you.
Nikki Bella
Yeah.
Gabby Wendy
Let us have done.
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Podcast Summary: The Nikki & Brie Show – Episode Featuring Gabby Windey: Unfiltered & Unfazed
Podcast Information:
Nikki Bella opens the episode by welcoming listeners back to The Nikki & Brie Show. She introduces Gabby Windey as the special guest for the day, noting the absence of Brie.
Nikki Bella [01:17]: "All right, everyone, welcome back to the Nicki and Brie Show. And today you're just gonna get me, because my guest, you all can only handle just us two."
The conversation delves into Gabby Windey's experiences on the reality TV show Traders. Gabby shares insights about navigating the show, the dynamics between different types of contestants, and her initial reluctance to join.
Gabby Windey [02:17]: "I was like, absolutely not. Like, no way."
Nikki and Gabby discuss their instant connection on the show, attributing it to their unfiltered and genuine interactions. Gabby appreciates Nikki's ability to stay true to herself, fostering a safe environment for open dialogue.
Nikki Bella [03:46]: "Bri is like, you no filter. Nikki is always coming out. I'm like, no."
Gabby reflects on the challenges and surprises of participating in a new reality TV format. She contrasts Traders with her previous experiences on shows like The Bachelor and emphasizes the learning curve involved in adapting to different competitive environments.
Gabby Windey [07:50]: "This is crazy. But they were great and it was fun."
The discussion shifts to the impact of public scrutiny on personal well-being. Both Nikki and Gabby express their strategies for dealing with negative comments and the pressures of being in the public eye. Gabby highlights the importance of self-acceptance and resilience.
Nikki Bella [17:44]: "I'm just not gonna read it because they don't get it."
Gabby shares her journey of self-discovery, including embracing her sexuality and feminism. She talks about how participating in Traders has empowered her to lean into her femininity and confrontational side.
Gabby Windey [20:16]: "I'm more prepared this time around, but I haven't been on TV in like two years."
Towards the end of the episode, Gabby and Nikki engage in an inspirational segment where they share personal affirmations. Gabby discusses philosophical perspectives on life and death, emphasizing the importance of living authentically and learning from experiences.
Gabby Windey [47:18]: "Once you stop caring about what other people think, like, even on a smaller level, I do think it's really freeing."
Nikki Bella [48:58]: "What would Jesus do? That's right."
Nikki hints at future collaborations, including Gabby’s appearance on The Nikki & Brie Show and potential cross-promotion between their respective platforms. They express excitement about continuing to support each other’s endeavors.
Nikki Bella [51:16]: "So we're gonna... I'm saving those questions. And then I know we're gonna get even more."
In this episode of The Nikki & Brie Show, Nikki Bella engages in a candid and heartfelt conversation with Gabby Windey, exploring her journey through reality TV, personal growth, and the challenges of public life. The duo emphasizes the importance of authenticity, resilience, and mutual support, leaving listeners inspired to embrace their true selves.
For those interested in more insights from Gabby Windey, be sure to check out her podcast, Long Winded, available on YouTube and all major podcast platforms.
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