
Nikki & Brie are catching up on everything, from holiday adventures and becoming fully invested in the World Cup to parenting dilemmas, modern dating, and why being called a “difficult woman” isn’t the insult people think it is. Plus, a jaw-dropping edition of "AITA?" leaves the twins completely divided. Funny, thoughtful, and full of hot takes… this is the catch-up you don’t want to miss.
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Nikki
What up Nikki?
Bri
How's the mountains?
Nikki
I mean, I can't complain. It's been so gorgeous up here. I see all these heat waves going all over the world, right? We've seen it even affect certain World cup games, but we, crossing my fingers, have not had a heat wave yet up in the mountains. It's probably going to come sometime soon, but we've been blessed with, like, incredible weather. I've been loving it, actually. You want to know something funny? The other day, we got a little rainstorm, and just a little one, like, couple hours kind of made me feel like Florida. Brian and I literally went outside and laid on the. What do you call it? Long chairs, whatever, lawn chairs. And we just laid there and let the rain hit us. And we're like. It just felt so magical. I don't know, there's something about when, like, rain hits your face. Face and you're smelling it, especially in the mountains, you just. I don't know, feels like a refresher.
Bri
You feel alive for sure.
Nikki
How about you? How's the weather been down there in Napa?
Bri
It's been amazing. I have to say. It's. It just always makes me be like, okay, this is why I pay California taxes, why pay California state tax, and why I love NorCal. Like, we're just so blessed with incredible weather. Even I got to see Mom a lot this past weekend, and she just was saying the same. She's just like, the weather is gorgeous up here. I'm like, I know. We are so lucky. And let me tell you, everyone's been out and about wine tasting. Napa Valley has been slammed. Every wine region has been packed. So it's been a lot of fun. And, you know, I have to say, like, think I've spent every Fourth pretty much in Lake Tahoe. Like, I. I can't remember the last time I wasn't up in tahoe for the 4th unless we were traveling for wrestling. But other than that, we've been pretty consistent with, you know, being in tahoe for the 4th and doing it for the first time in Napa Valley. It was so cute and sweet. I kept feeling like I was. What's that show on Netflix? The Magnolia one.
Nikki
Sweet Magnolias.
Bri
Yes. I felt like everything reminded me of that show. Like, even little Fourth of July gatherings I would go to, and the town would have all the tents up and the food trucks and the people and everyone in their, like, cute outfits and how the summer sun was and the kids were running around. And then this was the year that Mateo was like, I want to stay up and see fireworks. And I was like, okay, babe, let's make a fort in the backseat. Because I was like, okay, I'll drive him to Sonoma. Because Napa Valley right now, as you know, there's no fireworks because of fires. But Sonoma has more space where they're not so close to the mountains, right? It's just more open land. So they were still doing their fireworks show, and a lot of the Napa Valley moms were like, you've never seen the Sonoma fireworks show? And I was like, no, I'm always in, like, Tahoe, usually looking at the drone show. But also I realized since the boys have been born, I haven't been up late either to see fireworks unless it's on tv. So they all were telling me, no, this is where you go. It's such a great show. You'll get the best view. So Teo and I made a really cute fort in the back, packed up the car, and then when we got there, I didn't realize Sonoma does a full event like Bri, not just in the town square, in the baseball field. And it was magical, and there were so many people, and I found this good spot. And then Tay was like, well, I want to go in the field where all, you know, everyone's putting their blankets and stuff. So I'm like, okay, let's do it. When the fireworks started, well, one. Poor Remy was like, what is happening? I was holding Remy, and then I also had Mateo on my other arm. And Mateo just looked like. It was just so magical to see him look at those fireworks. And then there was some where he's like, is it gonna hit us? Cause you know how they get so close looking. But he just loved it. But I have to say, I loved it. And it was a really good fireworks show, and we just. It was so much fun. And we didn't get to bed till
Nikki
11pm I mean, that was us because. So it's the first year I had both kids stay up late. Buddy's first time ever seeing fireworks. But Birdie, Brian, one time, I think you were around when Brian got her in the car and went, yes. And they tried.
Bri
I remember that.
Nikki
But just think, they stayed in the car. This is. We were pretty much. Our toes were in the water, and we're sitting on the beach watching it, and it was great. The kids loved it. Buddy was, you know, sitting on my lap real sweetly. I kept thinking, is he gonna fall asleep? But they loved it. But I'm. I mean, for me, it's different experience. I get very overwhelmed with sadness when I See fireworks. I just think about all the wildlife. And, you know, a lot of times, like, mothers will leave their nest and never go back because they freak out. I mean, you have to think. It's not like they're getting like, oh, today's Fourth of July, and we're going to fireworks tonight. So they freak out. And then I was, like, watching some of the fireworks, like, actually, a lot of them burn out in the water. And I'm like, I don't know, but that's fine. That's me. I'm like, weird like that. The kids loved it. We went to bed really late, but we all slept in the next day. Birdie didn't wake up till 9:30am and I was like, whoa. Brian and I were like, I wonder, like, if we should go wake her up. But so it was good. And Fourth of July was really fun. It gets packed in Lake Tahoe, but we had a great day. Like, just a great day. Well, you can't really tell my tan, but. But, yeah, it was a good one. And I feel like now every year, and we'll be staying up for fireworks, but they didn't do the drone show this year. They actually did fireworks. Oh, okay.
Bri
So then that makes me excited for next year because there was a. A lot of the times a part of me was, like, really missing Tahoe because, you know, when you're used to, like, a tradition and. And the smells and the different things. But then I will say it was also really fun being here because, as you know, we've built such a community, so we saw a lot of friends all weekend. Like, Mateo saw a lot of friends all weekend and, you know, friends that you're friends with. And that made it really special. So, you know what? So blessed to have both and whatever next year brings. We're so lucky that we have both options. But it was Sonoma gave me such childhood. Feels like.
Nikki
Like, that's awesome.
Bri
Like, it reminded me of what the 80s and 90s looked like as far as, like, Fourth of July feels. And that was, like, really cool to see just a lot of people with their outfits and their blankets and just walking around and, like, you know what I mean? They're like. And sodas.
Nikki
Yeah. I mean, I even drink White Claw because it's Fourth of July. You drink, like, those.
Bri
I remember being on FaceTime with you and you telling Brian, don't forget the white claw in the. In the ice chest. And I'm like, she just say, white claw?
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Nikki
But what about. Let's talk about the USA soccer team. Really bringing down 4th of July weekend.
Bri
I know I was like can we talk about the other games first? Well, let. Yeah, let's start there.
Nikki
I.
Bri
I mean I. Look, I get it. I'm not a prone. I don't play in the World cup. But personal opinions. I was super embarrassing.
Nikki
But damn, you know what?
Bri
It was actually like everyone. I felt bad for the people in the stadium. I mean who paid off the money they spent?
Nikki
I saw one guy dressed up as George Washington? Yeah. One guy dressed up as George Washington. I'm like, that guy has to leave like that. But I will say this. They didn't. There was some incredible moments, and I honestly feel like I. I really feel like Belgium didn't dominate the whole game. I feel like. What game are you watching? Great moments. Okay, I watched it, but this is my thing. I was like, definitely shocked. Shocked me. But we definitely. Our forwards weren't playing awful. I felt bad for a couple of the players because they were doing great. We had just. Majority of the players. No, we were watching the same one.
Bri
Some of them, even JJ when we were on the family.
Nikki
Too hard. Yeah, I know.
Bri
No, no, no. When you. You're in that position and you're losing four to one like that. But like, even JJ said, like, the players just. It looked like people were touching soccer balls for the first time. Like, Javen, how he was saying, like, that was easy. How they're touching them all.
Nikki
He.
Bri
Boo. That was. I will. And even when the guy thought he hurt his ankle and he kicked the other guy's ankle and look it.
Nikki
I know.
Bri
They're amazing. They're great. It was very sad to lose that way at the end of the fourth of July weekend. But can we just talk about then? The team that blew my mind and I'm praying they go to the finals and they take the World cup now that USA is out. Norway, that Norway versus Brazil game. I have not felt nerves like that towards the end of the game in so long. I couldn't even sit down. I was like, just. I was crazy. Nerves. I was so happy. Can I play? Brie? Everyone's voice.
Nikki
Yeah, but can I just tell you, Norway dominated that game. I was shocked. Brazil barely got shots on goal, but I will say, Norway's goalie crushed at that game. I've never been the type to, like, scan a QR code. I scanned the QR code to vote for him as MVP of that game.
Hiker 1
Well.
Bri
Oh, he for sure is. Well, didn't you see what I put in my IG stories? Offense wins games, but defense wins championships. And it was a photo of him.
Nikki
Vomit.
Bri
Vomit. First of all, Nike made that up for a reason. Because, yeah, babe, defense takes the gold home. Offense gets praised. But let's just remember. Let's remember the USA goalie on Monday. Yeah, defense can lose real bad for you. They want to. Okay, you guys, I have to play this voice note. So my brother is obsessed with Neymar. So when Norway was beating them, and this is so bad, my brother still has not responded to this, and I don't think Mateo and I sent him. Jay, we know you're gonna get mad at this, but, Tayo, what'd we come up with? Neymar's sore loser.
Nikki
I can say Neymar is to put
Bri
loser, because when he started, like, you know, Brie, you remember those times when you're, like, losing the game. You see the clock running out so frustrating. And then when he starts pushing everyone, he was just so frustrated. So Mateo and I started to come up with all these sayings of him being a sore loser, and we sent it to J.J. but I knew, just because I talked to J.J. before the game, that that's his player, his favorite.
Nikki
Oh, that's his favorite player. But I was like, dang. I guess he's like, if I'm gonna lose, I'm gonna lose. Swinging like he was. He definitely got towards the end, very aggressive.
Bri
Wow. Sore loser.
Nikki
But your man Holland did. Yeah, he. He's such a star. It's wild.
Bri
That's. I hope they win the World Cup. I am. Now I'm full Norway. I am so for them. I want them to win. I want that group to do the Viking row when they hold up the World cup trophy. And when they let him hit the drums, the chills all over my body still, when I'll watch it, I still get chills.
Nikki
It's incredible, right? So I showed Brian that with Holland, like, hitting the drums, that whole Viking row. And Brian loved it. I was like, if you were still wrestling, we could get the whole arena doing the Viking row, dude.
Bri
Oh, my gosh. That would be so cool. Even Mateo was on the couch, and then he was sitting out. But we all. We kept doing the Viking row. You know, it was really funny. Is. Did you watch the Australian game before that? Like, poor Australia. I was like, oh, that's sad for them. They get beat bad, but not bad. They lost in PKs, but they. It was. Their team did terrible. Like, I was like, oh, that was a rough loss. All the fans are like, we traveled across the world. I'm just kidding. But that was, like, the look on their face. But Mateo and I kept sending videos to Grayson because, you know, Grayson. WWE Grayson is from Australia. And so he. You know how Mateo. That's one of his favorite teams. So we kept sending him videos. I have to actually show you. It's so cute. And then Grayson would send Mateo back a video. And then we totally thought, okay, Australia will take it. That's fine. Like, they're gonna win the PKs and then I just. Even Mateo's face was like. So then he sent one after. He's like, that's fine. I'll root for us. And then when USA lost, Grayson goes, so now who do we root for? Because this is just bad. Vikings. Isn't that funny?
Nikki
The Vikings. Well, let's talk about the greatest game that people feel like they have seen so far in the World cup is England versus Mexico.
Bri
That was like a World cup final. And I feel so bad for the Mexican people, but that game was incredible. You know, Mexico first. England's really hard on me because I love England a lot because of the game of soccer, and I just. I. I love their players. But that game, I. I felt so bad for Mexico because they played amazing, but damn, that England goalie doesn't even look real. He's so good.
Nikki
I know.
Bri
I mean, well, Kane's good.
Nikki
Even though Mexico was down, how fast they were moving the ball to get in there, all their opportunities. Yeah. I was just like, wow. Like, they didn't give up. They didn't, like, sulk or kind of be, like, bummed. Like, they were like, no, we're winning this to where you almost thought they were going to. But, yeah, that was. That was really incredible. I feel like anyone who, like, wants to be, like, I don't know, like, do I want to watch soccer or not? Go back and watch that game, because you will be blown away. Why people are. Love soccer. Love the game of soccer. Love that game showed.
Bri
So good that forward for Mexico. Why can't I think of his name? But he's so good and so cute, but so good. That's the thing, is there's so many cute soccer players. Yeah, well, like, fun to watch, like, for both ways. Because I'm like, wow, there's so many hotties. We'll start D later when we talk about our dms. We're gonna have to talk about how dramatic, though, they are.
Nikki
I know. I think it's part of the sport. I think, like, you gotta do it.
Bri
Yeah. It's so theatrical.
Nikki
Oh, my gosh. I know. I actually should bring that into the wrestling ring. Get real dramatic like that. That might be good. You know what else I think we should. We should do a reel where we're, like. I don't know, something, like, normal, like, mom life. And then we have a little fall, and we, like, go real crazy. You know what I mean? Totally good, right?
Bri
Oh, first.
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Sure.
Bri
Yeah.
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Holding, like, my shin or something.
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Whoa.
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Nikki
So it was interesting this week we ran into a situation with Birdie, which I'd love to hear actually your thoughts on it and what you would do in this situation because I was a little torn and I went more with what Brian wanted. But you know, Birdie started a camp and when Brian picked her up last night because I was at the beach with some family friends and we got all the kids together. So I was off with Buddy doing that and Brian texts me and he goes, birdie's in tears. We'll talk later. But awful day at camp. And I'm like, oh no. So we, you know, talk to Birdie and literally Brian. And Brian could tell when he walked up, he could, you know, when like a kid's Trying not to cry, but, like, holding it together. And Brian instantly was like, okay, something happened, and gets in the car. And then you just feel so comfortable. Like, it all came out just bawling, crying. But of course, dealt with the mean girl, like, someone who constantly was making fun of her. And so when we were talking last night, she's like, I just don't want to go back to camp. It's like torture. I don't want that girl to make fun of me. She made fun of me the whole time. And I was like, oh, my gosh. And, you know, this was Verdi's first time trying. Like, we had a bad experience a couple years ago with the soccer camp, and. But she pushed through. I'm like, just, can you push through? Like, I get it. Soccer is not your thing. You don't like sports, but maybe you can cheerlead and root everyone on. Which she did. And then they made a cute little award for her, like, best cheerleader of the Week. It was cute. So she finally wanted to try another sport. And so Brian and I were just like. Brian's like, I just feel like Birdie isn't athletic yet. Maybe it will come. So then you're looking at, she's the slowest on the team, then doesn't have the coordination. She's a target to be made fun of. And then the minute one person does it, all these other kids will do it. So I didn't have her go today because, you know, I don't want her to have anxiety. But I also told her, I'm like, bird, your whole life, you're going to deal with a mean person life. There's never a time where mommy felt like it was smooth sailing and someone wasn't giving me a hard time. I'm like, still, at my age, I will deal with mean people. I'm like, I don't want you to feel like every time someone's being mean, we run from the situation. I do feel like sometimes we need to build the confidence and the courage to stand up to our bullies, and even not, we don't have to be mean like them. But even to be like, it's not okay that you speak to me like that. It's not okay that you make fun of me. But she really did not want to do that. And so Brian's like, bri, I really feel like she should stay home. I kind of felt a little different, but I was like, okay, you know, I. I don't want to push her to do it, but, like, what would you do? In that situation, because I kind of feel like you're me, but maybe you're more like Brian. I don't know.
Bri
I would totally be more like Brian in that situation. This is my thing. It's. It's not like, you know, Birdie playing tennis.
Nikki
Like, she.
Bri
She already knows she doesn't really like it, and it's not for her. So, like, why push her to finish out the week when she's. It's not going to move? It's not like she's conquering a bully to do what she loves. Do you know what I mean? She's not at doing art stuff that we know Birdie's amazing at, and she's conquering this one girl for me. And also, like, I feel like we've seen too many stories of people who've pushed their kids, and then their kids start to hide things or it just makes Chris starts to create trauma. And I'm like, why? Why not protect our kids from it? You know what I mean? And so I'm like, more with Brian. Like, I know at least if it was Mateo and he asked. He. If he, like, straight up asked me, like, mom, I don't want to go. Like, I. I would be like, you're not then, no, you don't have to go. Because when they're telling you, it's like they're telling you. Do you know what I mean? They are.
Nikki
But at.
Bri
And let's be honest, Birdie's not the person to, like, go at it with a kid. She's just not. That's not her.
Nikki
Also, I feel like our jobs. And I was telling Brian this after she went to sleep, I go, brian, I also feel like, especially me, who's the woman? And Birdie's a girl. I go. I feel like it's my job to make her stronger, to have her believe in herself and get the courage to feel like she won't put up with that shit. I'm like, I. It kills me because I think to myself, if Birdie ever wanted to go to college or art school or when she leaves our house at 18, I go, it will make me lose sleep at night being like, well, she. Is she strong enough to defend herself? Like, to stand up for herself? Like, there's going to be so many times we're not there, Brian. And there's probably so many times she hasn't told the situations. And I just want to give her all the tools to, like, be brave enough to handle this situation.
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But I feel like there are moments that you. You'll have to give her those tools. And you already have. And I do feel there's times where Birdie has stood up for herself. Like, I feel like she's done that with some girls and boys when she hits a certain point. But I feel like, hey, I suck at sports and I know it. Like, why do I have to be in this situation? And like, those are the times where. That's why I think of Brian. And then I agree with you. But you also have to, like, I think, look at the person. Like, you and I, we were always very strong little girls and women, right? Like, we just were Birdie's. Not that at all. So I feel like you have to look at it differently than how you did things. And I do think there are going to be so many moments, and I've already seen it where you've had those times with her where you push like through school and stuff, where you have her, you teach her to be strong and stick up for herself. But for that. No that kind of thing.
Nikki
Well, yeah, and I have somebody.
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Bri
It's not athletic, but if.
Nikki
Yeah, she wanted to try. She wanted to try. And Brian and I were shocked. She's like, I think I'm ready to try a sport. So I was thinking tennis and golf, which I'm like, perfect sports for you. Well, tennis is a no go. I mean, and like, it kills me just in the sense of, like, I was hoping it would be a good experience for her. But you know, it's funny because I have Buddy, who's the complete opposite. Like, I didn't even tell you this, Nicole, but the other day on the pier, I'm like sitting and you know, like the distance between where we sit at the beach and the pier, and I'm like watching Buddy, and all of a sudden I see him go nose to nose with an 8 year old. And I go to our cousins and I go, is Buddy arguing with a kid right now? And they're like looking, they go, oh, yeah, he's about to fight. And I'm like, do I do something? They're like, well, let's see how it plays out. So the eight year old. So they're nose to nose, and I see him going like this, like. And they're both boys, fists are like this. And I go, oh, my gosh. So the boy pushes Buddy. Buddy swings at him. He like move moves back. So then Buddy runs and then pushes him. And I'm like, what the. So, you know, our cousins were like, wait, wait, wait, let's. They're Boys. And then I see them kind of talk from a distance, and then next
Bri
to scary with the boat right there.
Nikki
But, yeah, well, there wasn't any. Then, you know, he all of a sudden let Buddy, like, then do the stuff with them. They were, like, closer, down by the sand. But that's how I was freaking out. And it took our two guy cousins to be like, bri, because I was about to sprint, like, I didn't know what was happening. And I'm like, next. You know, I don't need Buddy getting in a brawl on the pier. And they're like, no, no. These are boys being boys just to let it. And I'm like, I can't even watch. But the dad was close by. He just kind of. The boy's dad let it go. And then Buddy came over, like, 30 minutes later, and I'm like, did you get a fight in the pier with the boy? He's like, well, he said, I couldn't touch his stuff. And I said, well, I'm not touching it. I'm just looking at minnows. And then he got in my face. So I got in his face, and I'm like, I saw the whole thing, bud. I'm like, next time, just like, it doesn't need to escalate. Just be like, okay, I'm sorry, or something, or walk away from the situation. But that's not Buddy. Like, he's.
Bri
No.
Nikki
I mean, he stands up for himself constantly. I get more worried that it escalates. The way I saw it the other day on the pier, where Birdie's, like, the complete opposite, and it's just wild. Like, they can be the same DNA but completely different kids. It's crazy to me. And you have to parent completely different to each one. It's, like, mind blowing to me.
Bri
Yeah, it is, right? I. This past weekend, I saw Teo stick up for himself a few times. And I just stood back, and I was like, oh, he has it in on, like, he gets pushed around a little bit. They were all chasing these bubbles. Yeah. And he even did it to the point where. And it was an older boy, where they had already had their pushing thing. And I was just sitting back, and then the kid was doing his own thing, bubbles. And Mateo runs by, and I saw him watch.
Nikki
He waited.
Bri
Then he goes run where the boy goes. And he puts his arm like this,
Nikki
and he goes to the back of him.
Bri
And the kid, like, looked like him. Mateo's running, looking at him like, mm. I was like, oh. I mean, like, you just was wanting to get the last of it. And then you were like, yep.
Nikki
Oh, yeah.
Bri
So he has.
Nikki
I mean, that's.
Bri
That, like, made me happy to see, you know what I mean?
Nikki
Right. And if it wasn't for our guy cousins being with me, I would have went over there and. But, you know, they're like, bri, they're boys. This is what they have to do. Like, the language they speak, especially when they're younger, is like, this is how they do it. And you want them to be able to do this. And then he goes. And look at now, they're like, pretty much catching minnows together. He's like, all they needed is what to let each other know where they stand. And he goes, now, like, they're cool. And I'm like, yeah, I. It's just we're not boys. So I'm like, I don't know how this is.
Bri
Yeah, well. And it's like, I understand that part, but sometimes don't you feel like majority of the time, you go and correct it because a parent. Their parents. It's actually not even because of the boys. It's more because of the parents. Do you ever feel that?
Nikki
Yeah.
Bri
Do you know what I mean by that?
Nikki
For sure? You don't want the parents to think you're a bad parent. Like, you don't give a right when
Bri
you're just trying to let them experience.
Nikki
Yeah, right. When I didn't see a parent go over there, I'm like, okay, I can't be like, I'm not going to be the one then in a way. And thank goodness I was talked about back from not going over there. But I agree with you. I feel like a lot of times we do that just so we can, you know, show the parents, like, we care. Like, look at. I discipline my kid. I discipline them. Right? Yeah, I. For sure. I always. I always feel that pressure with Buddy. Never with Birdie, but with Buddy, I'm always like, anxiety. But even, you know, he's just. Yeah, he's so fearless. It was funny because I know I told you this last night, but our family friends that were with us, they're like, buddies. Nicole's kid. And I go, no one's ever said that before. They're like, no, this is Nicole's kid. Like, he's loud. He's so active and fearless. And I'm like, is. Is that how you guys have always seen Nicole? And they're like, yeah. They're like, this is like Nicole energy. And I'm like, that's so interesting, isn't that interesting.
Bri
And when you're.
Nikki
Yeah.
Bri
When you think about. These are people who've known me extremely well since sixth grade. So they would know.
Nikki
No, that's what I was. Once you said it.
Bri
I was like, yeah. I was like, wait. Yeah, I used to be like, super loud.
Nikki
No, obviously.
Bri
Buddy and I play sports. Very similar.
Nikki
Yeah. Austin's like, this is so Nicole. And I'm like, that's crazy. And they're like, birdie is so you and Buddy is so Nicole. But you know what Buddy does. That reminds me.
Bri
Buddy has very much Garcia Colis energy and Birdie's very much Danielson energy.
Nikki
Like, I mean, 100 pure.
Bri
Yeah. And I. And Mateo has a lot of Garcia Colis energy, too.
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Yeah. They actually were saying they can't believe, like, they see like, you know, Artem and Mateo. But they're like, no, there's a lot of Nicole and Mateo. And I'm like, I know. I'm like, we don't hear that all the time. Besides, my mom and I will say it a lot. But they're like, oh, no. When he smiles and stuff, it's Nicole. Yeah, it's me. So I was like, me, me, me. You, you, you, you, you, you.
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Bri
So Bri, I feel like we should talk about another am. I got another story for you now.
Nikki
Let's hear it.
Bri
Am I the for refusing to give a toast at my sister's wedding? Ooh, let's hear this. I want to be clear that I am not making this up. And I wish I was. My sister and I have always been close. Three years apart told each other everything. Her fiance proposed eight months ago and she asked me to be her maid of honor. I said yes without hesitating. Two weeks before the wedding, I found messages on my husband's phone by accident. Not snooping. His phone was on the counter and a preview came up while I was standing there. I picked it up thinking it was nothing. It was my sister. The messages made it very clear this had been going on for at least several months. Oh, I already have chills. One message from her said she felt guilty but could not stop. Another from him said he did not want to hurt anyone. I did not say anything to either of them immediately. I needed a few days to process what I was even looking at. I told my mom who already knew she had found out a month earlier and stayed quiet because she did not want to ruin the wedding. I called my sister and told her I knew. She cried, apologized, and begged me not to say anything until after the wedding. Said she had ended it and wanted to start fresh with her husband. I told her I would not be standing up there giving a toast pretending everything was fine. She is telling everyone I'm trying to ruin her wedding over a misunderstanding. My mom is backing her up. Extended family is now involved. My husband wants to work things out. I have not decided anything yet about my marriage, but I know. But I know I am not giving that toast. Am I the huh? Holy? No, you're the victim and I hate
Nikki
using that word dude because her husband's an ass.
Bri
The mom's the sister's an they're the and gross. Like how gross. I can never in my wildest dreams ever hit On Brian do things with Bryant, like, it makes me want to throw up in a way where I like. Because you. When you look at some, like, family. Do you know what I mean?
Nikki
Right.
Bri
I couldn't. That I. That's like, can't even fathom it. I don't know how you do that to blood related people. People that you're supposed to love unconditionally. And like, let's like, look, sometimes siblings hate each other, but obviously she asked her to be your maid of honor before she knew anything, so they were actually, like, on good terms. And then the fact that the mom knew and goes after the wedding. Why is anyone talking about after the wedding? So after she walks down the aisle and, like, marries someone, then you guys are all gonna, like, say, like, oh, by the way, she's having an affair with this person. This. That is so backwards. No, no, this is what you talk about before the wedding.
Nikki
Right? And earlier we were talking about, like, parenting. That mom's a bad parent. Bad parenting.
Bri
Right, Bad. That should be a new segment.
Nikki
Bad parents, bad parenting. Honestly. But also it tells me too, that there has to be, and I'm not sure some type of dysfunctional relationships in this family to even think something like that's okay. And for a mom to dismiss it like, that there's already dysfunction. And this might be generations of it, but, like, let's stop the wheel now. And like, come on, guys. I mean, this is. That's totally messy. Messy.
Bri
That's so. Well, and honestly, I think it's fine at that point to not have a relationship with your sister to disconnect, because if your sister's gonna do that to
Nikki
you, I would have even gone to
Bri
the wedding and I would have told everyone.
Nikki
I would have told everyone.
Bri
Like, I would have called the fiance and like, so, you know, and then I would have called them my mom, if that was the case. And I've been like, bye, sister, bye, all disconnected husband. Bye, bye, you're out. And that would have been it. And any mutual friends or families that we had, I've been like, so here are my boundaries. I'm not telling you to take sides, but if there's gatherings and these people are there, I won't be there and love to do other gatherings with you guys. And that would be that. Yeah.
Nikki
And I would actually, like, mess with my sister and I can't even say you because it feels gross. I'm gonna pretend I have another sister. But I would be like, so I get to sleep with your husband just to see the reaction because, you know, she would been like, oh, my gosh. No, I wouldn't even. Like, it would have been dramatic.
Bri
Ew. No, I mean, the fact that she even has the audacity to be like, oh, my God, you're. You're trying to ruin my wedding, dude.
Nikki
Like, you already ruined it. Boo.
Bri
They all need therapy, Major.
Nikki
I don't even know if therapy will help.
Bri
Yeah, the. The mom is like, the dm, which. That will lead us into our next segment. What segment? What's in the dm? Because that goes perfectly. Well, Bri has sent me some great ones, but the one that I'm gonna play right now goes perfectly for that. I'm doing my part.
Nikki
I'm doing my part.
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Nikki
I didn't do.
Bri
So the DM is me trying to heal from childhood trauma. And then it goes. That's her therapist, meds, parents. That's that mom right there. I didn't do when her, like, daughters
Nikki
have terrible childhood drama. Yeah. You know which one was a good one I sent you? I think people on our. Our listeners would appreciate. Is the millennial caught up in a Gen Z conversation?
Hiker 2
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Bri
Let's play it like.
Nikki
Oh, that's nice.
Bri
Hi.
Nikki
Hi. Your outfit is eating. Wait, I'm screaming. Wait.
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Nikki
Oh, literally. Wait, it's giving icon. No, because you're giving diva.
Hiker 1
Clock it.
Nikki
Clock it the way I need to know your name. No, because. Same. Okay, let's say it on three. Okay. One, two, three. Page. What? Wait, I'm gagged. That part. Wait. No, because the way I'm obsessed with you. No. And I was like,
Bri
am I just, like, super old or what? Because that's a combo.
Nikki
That is a combo. And can I tell you something? I have watched some of, like, how
Bri
do you even learn that?
Nikki
Interviews with younger people, like, in their 20s. And there are times. Wait, what is. Yeah, Gen Z's. I'm like, what does that mean? And I feel like I'm, like, trying to Google and look it up, and I'll see people in the comments like millennials being like, what are they saying? Like, what does this word mean? What is that? And I'm like, I'm there. I'm in my 40s. I'm there. They all.
Bri
I couldn't even imagine being at a nice dinner, sipping on Dom P, maybe having some caviar and speaking that way, or just, like, attending.
Nikki
Yeah, but they're not doing that. True. Like, they're not going to talk like that. Gosh, I don't think for life.
Bri
Don't they ever watch, like, proper English or, like, listen to Shakespeare or. I don't know. I mean, I used to think sometimes our lingo. Because we use, you know, like, a lot or. And it's more a Valley thing and a Cali thing, and we would have the words rad and whatever, but then you still have conversation with it, and usually those are in moments.
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Nikki
I don't know.
Bri
That was a trip and hilarious.
Nikki
But that's a really, like.
Bri
It's.
Nikki
But I thought it was good because I. I felt like that was my face when I was, like, watching some of these interviews, and, like. And then I just had to stop listening because I'm like, I don't. It almost felt like a foreign language to me. I'm like, I don't get it.
Bri
I'm like, seriously? No. Way over my head. Okay, Bree. So I'm gonna leave this with some inspiration, affirmation. And before I give the quote, everyone, you all need to go see that Airbnb commercial that's been playing for the World Cup. It's just so cool. And they show different cultures that went to different countries and, like, how this. They taught this type of training, and this came out of it or this type of music, and then this music came out of it. And I love how it ended with, yeah, what the world gets is 48 nations meet to play one game. And it just shows the unity, and it gave me chills, and I was like, what a beautiful commercial. So make sure to go check that out. I thought, Bri, this would be an appropriate quote, just, you know, for sometimes when we think about things we say and then we want to edit out some things, or sometimes we air things, and then certain things can make headlines, and then people want to tell us, like, that's not okay. I thought this quote just popped up out of nowhere. And I. I was thinking about a lot of this stuff last night, and then this quote just popped up. And it's for you from your girl who I love to rest in peace, but Jane Goodall. And I was like, this is so briny right now. And I know I sent it to you late last night, but here's the quote. It actually doesn't take much to be considered a difficult woman. That's why there are so many of us. And the quote hit me hard, because sometimes, you know, things we say and we feel like we have to explain. I feel like this is a. It's a lot of women. And it's just so funny how immediately you're considered difficult When I'm like, can we. And you and I will say this. Can we look at the larger picture here. So, because I care about my work, because I want it to be the best, because I want to give my all and I want to give more to a company that pays me or to this company I run, or this as a parent, whatever it is, I'm. I'm considered a difficult woman. I mean, well, so be it. But that. When that popped up, I was like, damn, that's us.
Nikki
That's us. I mean, I feel like a lot of times when I've had strong opinions or when I say certain things and sleep, people consider me like, oh, she's like, bitchy hahaha. Or like, difficult hahaha. Or all these. And it's like, wait, what? No, it's just like we're all granted our own opinions and thoughts and can voice them whenever the f we want. And it doesn't mean you're difficult or even when you have boundaries. Like, I feel like a lot of times when we set boundaries, people think that's difficult. And I've seen people get praised for it. And not that. Like, I want to say, like, you see, men get praised for it, but it's hard not to say it. And I.
Bri
But they do things.
Nikki
But they, yeah, things are slowly changing. They're not. But like, I don't see men make headlines for, like, stupid. It's rare. Like, they have to do some big time to make a headline. But a woman can say one thing and we're a headline or have one thought or whatever. So, yeah, I love that quote. And I don't care. People can call me difficult. People can call me every bad name in the book. I don't care. Because half the time when you're calling me that, it's because I'm someone who has a voice, who stands up for myself and I don't back down. So thank you. That's how I look at it.
Bri
Thank you. Breezer a bitch. Duh. That sounded like very Gen Z, right? Clock it.
Nikki
Yeah, Clock girl. I'm it girl. I'm gagging at what Jane said she nailed. Well, I'm nailed. It would be Brie.
Bri
I'm so gagged. It's like giving Brie era. Clock it, snap it, clap it. Whatever you wanted to say. All right, everyone. I don't know. All right, everyone, please like and subscribe this video. Also, check this episode out on our YouTube channel as well as all of our social media channels. Check out our videos and Also on Sirius XM Stars 109. And we have some great interviews coming up for you next week. So. So check that out. And also, as you guys saw everywhere, we're gonna have a really, really great weekend in New York City. It's going to be Fanatics Fest 18th and 19th. So not only are you going to see the Nikki and Bri show live Sunday, the 19th at Fanatics Fest, so make sure you get your tickets. We're right now fingers crossed we might have one of the most epic guests yet. As well as Saturday, they just announced today, Brie and I, yes, we will be making meet, meet and greet appearances or appearances at Fanatics Fest. So come check out Brie and I Saturday at Fanatics Fest, Nikki and Bri show Sunday at Fanatics Fest.
Nikki
And then everyone, if you're in the New York area, Paige and I have a title match at Saturday night main event at Madison Square Garden. So come check us out for sure. That'll be fun. All right, everyone. Well, you guys have a great week and we will talk to you soon.
Bri
Bye. Bye.
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Episode: Norway, Bullies, & Difficult Women
Date: July 13, 2026
Platform: SiriusXM
In this lively and heartfelt episode, Nikki and Brie Garcia share summer stories and candid conversations about parenting, sibling dynamics, the latest World Cup soccer drama, and social challenges like bullying. As always, their discussion flows from fun Fourth of July traditions, to passionate sports talk, to deeply personal moments about raising kids—and ultimately, to what it means to be called a “difficult woman.” The hosts also dive into a viral “Am I the A**hole?” wedding story, debate parenting approaches to bullies, and wrap up with a rousing, feminist quote for inspiration.
Location & Weather:
Fourth of July Vibes:
“It’s different for me. I get overwhelmed with sadness when I see fireworks. I just think about wildlife... mothers leave their nests and don’t come back.” — Nikki (07:13)
Family Reflections:
USA Team Letdown:
“Some of them… it looked like people were touching soccer balls for the first time.” — Brie (13:03)
Norway: Surprise Fandom & Game Highlights:
“Offense wins games, but defense wins championships.” — Brie (14:25)
“Vomit.” — Nikki, teasingly dismissing the sports cliché (14:33)
Soccer & Community:
England vs. Mexico: Game of the Tournament:
“That England goalie doesn’t even look real. He’s so good.” — Brie (18:44) “If anyone wants to know why people love soccer, go back and watch that game.” — Nikki (18:46–19:25)
Soccer Players Are “Hotties” :
Birdie’s Camp Experience:
“I told her, I don’t want you to feel like every time someone’s being mean, we run… Sometimes we need to build confidence… It’s not okay that you make fun of me.” — Nikki (24:23)
Parenting Philosophy Differences:
“Why push her to finish out the week when it’s not going to move her? … We’ve seen too many stories of parents pushing their kids and it creates trauma.” — Brie (25:05–25:15)
Boys’ Physical Confrontations:
Listener Story:
Key Quotes:
“That mom’s a bad parent. Bad parenting!” — Nikki (39:50)
“No, you’re the victim and I hate even using that word, dude.” — Nikki (38:44)
“If your sister’s gonna do that to you... I would have gone to the wedding and I would have told everyone.” — Brie (40:43)
Reactions & Boundaries:
“It almost felt like a foreign language to me. I don’t get it.” — Nikki (44:38)
“It actually doesn’t take much to be considered a difficult woman. That’s why there are so many of us.” — Jane Goodall (46:06)
“People can call me difficult, every bad name in the book... half the time, it’s because I am someone who has a voice and won’t back down.” — Nikki (47:50)
“I’m so gagged. It’s giving Brie era. Clock it, snap it, clap it…” — Brie (48:46)
On summer in NorCal:
“This is why I pay California state tax!” — Brie (03:25)
On parenting bullies:
“Our jobs, especially me, as the woman, is to make her stronger, to have her believe in herself, and get the courage to feel like she won’t put up with that sh*t.” — Nikki (26:14)
On family traits:
“Buddy has very much Garcia Calis energy and Birdie’s very much Danielson.” — Brie (34:19**)
On generational dysfunction:
“That mom’s a bad parent. Bad parenting.” — Nikki (39:50)
On female assertiveness:
“It actually doesn’t take much to be considered a difficult woman. That’s why there are so many of us.” — (Jane Goodall, quoted by Nikki, 46:06) “People call me difficult—thank you. That’s how I look at it.” — Nikki (47:50)
The episode blends warmth, wit, and raw honesty, giving listeners a window into Nikki and Brie’s family life, their strong stances on parenting and girlpower, and their ability to find humor even in the most challenging stories. Whether you tune in for the pop culture, the affirmations, or to laugh about soccer hotties and Gen Z slang, this episode leaves you both entertained and inspired—to stand your ground, and maybe, to be a “difficult woman” too.