
After a wild few weeks, Nikki & Brie are back on the mics, just the two of them. And there’s so much to catch up about. From food poisoning and feeling like they had mono to realizing that their 20-year-old recovery days are officially behind them, the twins get real about burnout and listening to your body when it’s screaming “rest.” They also dive into their Valentine’s Day details, why they’re not stressing about Super Bowl landing on February 14 next year, and the sweet and sometimes chaotic magic of motherhood. From Matteo’s whale-watching adventure and Cathay Pacific obsession to Buddy’s umbrella chivalry and Birdie giving up Taylor Swift for Lent, it’s a full family catch-up with an unexpected grammar debate about “fish vs. fishes.” As they reflect on evolution, quiet eras, horsepower energy, and what it means to bloom where you’re planted, Nikki & Brie leave you with a reminder to protect your peace and choose environments that water you instead of run you dry. This episo...
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Nikki
What up, everyone? Welcome back to the Nikki and Bri Show. Hey, Brie.
Bri
What up, Nikki?
Nikki
So we actually, we haven't been on here and really talked since radio row. I know, I mean, that's me. But like we haven't sat.
Bri
We haven't had just us too.
Nikki
Just us two. I mean, and we really didn't have that.
Bri
Yeah. Chaos. I agree. It's been a minute.
Nikki
It's been a minute kind of since actually our Monday night Raw debut.
Bri
I know. I actually feel like people haven't really heard. Well, we talked a little bit. Actually, I don't think we did. Maybe a little bit during super. So much was going on during super bowl week. I don't even remember. I actually feel like it was last year. So to think it was not even two weeks ago.
Nikki
Not even two weeks is bizarre. That's crazy.
Bri
But it took me about a week to recover.
Nikki
Yeah.
Bri
From the madness.
Nikki
Oh, my goodness. I, you know, we're lucky enough that we got two to go home right after super bowl since it was pretty much in our backyards. And that Monday, you know, I played hooky with Mateo because, you know, I was like, okay, Mommy's been gone. We Mommy's been in and out for a while. So we went to one of his favorite spots and I was so tired, but I'm like, no, we're gonna do it. And then I get food poisoning that night. Is food poisoning not just the worst.
Bri
It's the worst.
Nikki
Those deep throbs through your body. So I was already just so jet lagged, so exhausted, toughing it out and then. And it was probably a big part of my body. Just like, I'm done.
Bri
I think at our age, unfortunately, I feel like our bodies tap out when they know it's been too much.
Nikki
And we feel like we Forced you to rest.
Bri
Yeah. Like, we feel like we can go at it like our young 20s. We used to now. Yeah, we can't.
Nikki
No. For sure.
Bri
I can't even. Like I told Brian, I was like, do I have mono? Because I am.
Nikki
Every day.
Bri
I was tired, weird.
Nikki
That's how I felt. And then, like, not kick out being sick, too. And I was eating healthy.
Bri
I was hydrated. Oh, I still was tired. Well, we.
Nikki
I mean, we were. I had a flight of Toronto catch the charter to Saudi. We were in Saudi. And my body just could not sleep in Saudi for some reason. Then we go straight from there to Philly, Philly to New York, New York to San Francisco. Then we do super bowl week and moments. You and I had like four hours, we drove to see the kids, just pick them up from school and hang with them. Going back to San Francisco, I mean, when you think of it, you and I went hard.
Bri
Yeah.
Nikki
And you know, but that's life of entrepreneurs, right?
Bri
That is. It's true. Life of entrepreneurs.
Nikki
Right. You know what I mean? We're doing bitty during the day, parties at night. It's like business, for sure.
Bri
And a lot of people were asking, was Brian excited, the Seahawks one? He was very excited. So he watched the game with the
Nikki
kids and can I just say, I called it.
Bri
I think we all called it. We all knew the Seahawks were going to win.
Nikki
But you, everyone, when they go, oh, a blowout. And I'm like, no, I think it's going to be a blowout. And no one thought it was going to be a blowout. I just was like, no, it's going to be a blowout. And I was so happy to see that. I was.
Bri
I think people were hoping for a good game. I think that's. They were throwing out that energy. That'd be a good game.
Nikki
Okay, but if you called it, Be like I called it. I said.
Bri
I said. Because I been watching the Seahawks closely this past season. I knew if they were going to show up, every player was going to play. No one can beat him. No one in the NFL. I mean, they deserve that super bowl win for sure.
Nikki
Yeah, they do. So, okay, so you feel like you have mono all week, you know, and then we go straight into Valentine's Day weekend. Would you, you know, anything fun, Brian?
Bri
I don't celebrate Valentine's Day.
Nikki
That's so wild.
Bri
I know, because not really to us.
Nikki
You guys, like, are great gift givers to each other. And write cards. I don't know, you just seem like gifts. We wrote cards but meaning, like, thoughtfulness.
Bri
I mean, I gave him a really cute card. He gave me a really cute card. And that's it. That's all we need. This is my thing.
Nikki
I know it's all you need, but, like, you make it about the kids having stuff.
Bri
Like, we'll make it about the kids. Like, we take them to dinner. Lunch. Now, Brian, the day before, he and I are like, oh, let's go have a nice workout and go grab some lunch. And that was really fun. And then Birdie, she really wanted to have her girlfriends over and do a cute little Valentine's Day lunch. So I think I had more fun helping her decorate.
Nikki
Yeah.
Bri
And get into that. And Brian took a buddy out for the day so he wouldn't terrorize the girls. But I don't know, it's. You know, we were laughing because on social media, you'll see, like, people when they're. And this was Brian and I. Yeah. Those first couple Valentine's you have with someone. I mean, you go over and beyond.
Nikki
Yeah.
Bri
I mean, I did even, like, our first Valentine's Day, I did, like, a strip dance for him.
Nikki
You remember that?
Bri
Do you remember? I was, like, super nervous. I think I chugged, like, a glass of red wine.
Nikki
Girl, you get in debris mode and you still do that stripper dance.
Bri
I mean, but this. I wasn't drunk. Yeah, but Brian won't have sex with me if I'm drunk, so I couldn't be drunk and do it so I'd have courage.
Nikki
Yeah.
Bri
And think we're still.
Nikki
Honestly, it. It probably looked better because I wasn't drunk. Yeah.
Bri
But anyways, I'll never forget that. Hearing him coming up the stairs because we were at a hotel and we were at. What's the one in Mission Bay that we love. Oh, my gosh. How'd we just forget it?
Nikki
Totally forgot it. But I know what you're talking about, Nicole.
Bri
How'd we just forget?
Nikki
I don't know. It'll come to us. Just keep going.
Bri
But anyways, so I had the rose petals all over the bed and on the floor, did my thing, so I get it. And I'm not string. No.
Nikki
Yeah.
Bri
Who knows? I probably threw them around, landed on me. But this is my thing, so. So I get going over the top in the beginning, but I don't know. Brian and I have been together, I guess, 15 years, married 11. It's. No, maybe we've been together 14. I don't know. Whatever. It's been a minute, so I guess it's just different. And like, also, I don't.
Nikki
If I was married that long, I wouldn't want it to ever be different. I'd still want gifts.
Bri
Like what? Don't even tell me diamonds. No.
Nikki
Well, I mean, they don't have to be.
Bri
Christmas was just here.
Nikki
Okay, well, you don't have to get me diamonds, but I want flowers. I want effort. I want something.
Bri
I feel like, though, when you're with someone so long, you'll feel different about it.
Nikki
Well, I still want to be thought of.
Bri
He wrote me a beautiful card.
Nikki
Yeah, I mean, and I.
Bri
Do you know what I mean? And I wrote him a really cute one. I found like this one and it was like two. It's like it was a drawing, but like two people on a swing.
Nikki
Yeah.
Bri
And it was like. I don't know. What did it say? Something like, I saw you then, like, and knew it was forever. And I don't know, something like an always. Something was super cute. And I wrote a really nice message inside. And. And for us, he and I. Like, that means a lot. And we always will set him out the night before. Yeah. And so. But you know, with the kids, it's like really cute because they're nosy about the cards. So we always have to write it like kid friendly because they have to
Nikki
read the cards we write. Oh, no.
Bri
Even I swear.
Nikki
Why don't you guys give it to each other when the kids aren't around?
Bri
Well, we had the day before.
Nikki
I would want a naughty card
Bri
girl,
Nikki
because I've been married for 11 years. You wouldn't want a naughty card like,
Bri
what, him right in there and go say what? What would you like to be written
Nikki
like your ass cheeks still look like they do from 10 years ago. And I want he still will walk
Bri
that by and pinch him and lets me know. Like, he's still.
Nikki
I know, but I want. I would want like, Like, I would want my person to write me like a love letter.
Bri
I mean, we had our time the day before on February.
Nikki
Okay, good. I'm happy you guys had sex on
Bri
the 13th, but we went to the gym, we steamed, we saunaed.
Nikki
We had a great dinner calendar book. They made sure to pencil it in at 1:30pm I mean, sometimes you got to. But meaning I would just. I would love a sexy, like, love letter on Valentine's Day Day. Yeah, that's me. But I don't know.
Bri
I don't know. I. It's just, it's. It's different. But I. I will say this. To me, it felt like a really Great weekend.
Nikki
See, that's. That's good.
Bri
It was be like. It was like that nice, good weather where it wasn't, like, you still could have your fireplace on. But we got lucky with the weather. It was just, like, a good weekend and the kids and everything. So I can't complain. I finally kicked out of mono.
Nikki
Yeah.
Bri
So I'm feeling good. But you had a special one with Tay Tang.
Nikki
Yeah. It's cute because, like, Teo and I started this last year where it's kind of just become tradition that you guys
Bri
pick a little trip.
Nikki
Pick a little trip for Valentine's Day weekend. And so this year, we went to Monterey. He's been learning about Wales in school, and, I mean, at first he asked me if we could go to New York, and I was like, no, babe, I'm sorry. And then he's like, how about Orlando? And because of Disney World, by the way, he wants to go to Disney World so bad because his one favorite YouTuber, Ryan, did all the top, I think five hotels in Orlando for Disney World and now and Mateo. Watch that episode on YouTube.
Bri
Oh, geez.
Nikki
Oh, yeah. So now he wants to go experience all of them. But. But I was like, babe, they're just long flights. And he goes, I'm okay with a long flight. And I'm like, well, mommy literally has pretty much traveled the world in two weeks.
Bri
Yeah.
Nikki
And mommy just can't do a long flight right now. But I will drive you anywhere.
Bri
You.
Nikki
You take the day, go to school, get opinions.
Bri
He's like, okay, we'll drive to New York.
Nikki
Yeah.
Bri
Seriously, anywhere.
Nikki
Oh, well, wait till I tell you last night where he wants me to
Bri
take him this weekend, Buddy. Over breakfast was like. So I was thinking this weekend we'd go to Philadelphia. Like, what? No.
Nikki
Like, you got football, so we do Monterey. Like, he's been to the aquarium before with his dad, and it's been a bit. So I knew he would love the aquarium. And then I was like, oh, we could do well watching. This is perfect. And even though blue whales are his favorite, but I'm like, the grow. The grow. The great wells are there now, so that would be really cool to see them before they leave and for sure. So.
Bri
And there's orcas.
Nikki
Yeah. But it's crazy because I'm driving in and I'm like, why is there so
Bri
much traffic when you kept calling me and saying your time just kept going up and up and up? I was like, well, I guess it is, you know, because it's President's Day.
Nikki
Was attached well, then that's what I assume.
Bri
So I think everyone made a big weekend of it. All kids, at least in our. I felt Northern California had Friday off for some reason.
Nikki
Everyone had Friday.
Bri
Why did everyone get Friday off?
Nikki
I don't know. I feel like this happened last year, though, too. But it's cute because we were learning about. He was also learning about George Washington all week, but he kept telling me, no, the first president was Martin Luther King Jr. And because he had recently learned about Martin Luther King Jr. He was getting mixed up. But it was cute because the whole way then he only wanted to watch videos about Martin Luther King Jr. And then was really cute because he told me. He goes, I can't believe that they were not allowed to use the same restrooms. Like, he was so upset. I go, I know, baby. Wasn't that so sad? And it's so good that times have changed. But we had a whole. I mean, that could be a whole other episode of, like, our whole conversations all the way up about Martin Luther King Jr. And then George Washington and then like, well, why does George Washington get to be on the dollar bill and on the quarter? I think it's the quarter and the dollar bill. He learned.
Bri
And how did they pick who went on?
Nikki
Well, he was the first president, so that's why.
Bri
Oh, the dollar bill.
Nikki
Yeah.
Bri
Okay.
Nikki
You know, he was the first.
Bri
Benjamin Franklin got that one Hundy. Why do you get the hundred dollar bill?
Nikki
No, maybe that came along he way after Made America. I learned so much history, like, in the past week and a half, I'm
Bri
like, gosh, I feel you.
Nikki
We end up picking Monterey, and then, you know, we're talking about Wells, and then we see the Goodyear blimp. I mean, there's so much going on, but I just couldn't believe the traffic. But I was like, this is so magical. The ocean, the drive. The Goodyear blimp happened to be in town, Mateo's favorite, and he spotted it miles and miles away. And I go, babe, I don't know. That is a blimp way over there. But I don't know if it's Goodyear blimp. The next day, we got closer to it, and I'm like, oh, my gosh, it's good. Dear Blimp. How did he see that? But so I find out it's the Pro Am when we get into our time, like, AT T's everywhere, all the check in, you know, when you're coming in. No, it's the Pro Am. And then we're of course, at the hotel we're doing stain. Yeah. And you have Travis Kelsey as a headline. You have Rory as a headline.
Bri
Like, is it a celebrity?
Nikki
Well, Pro Am is like top golfers and some celebrities, but like celebrities that know how to golf.
Bri
Right?
Nikki
So they're like, oh yeah, this is. They play at Pebble Beach. They're like, you know. Yeah, pebble beach is like right here. Everyone stays here. And I'm like, so they. That's why.
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That's Fabletics.com twins. So, anyways, we had a magical time. It was a great weekend. We go, well, watching at first, you know, I told you I was going to cancel it. And because of the storm coming in. And I called, and they're like, well, the whales are out. We're gonna only do half the time because of the storm coming in. Your girl got so seasick.
Bri
I knew you would. I told you. I'm like, you see the weather, right? I knew it was going to be choppy out.
Nikki
By the way those wa. Waves out there. I mean, Mateo at one point yelled out, tsunami in everyone's face. But the wave was really big. That was like, coming.
Bri
Yeah, but tsunami's like, obviously.
Nikki
But in his. In his eyes, seeing a wave like that in real life, he's like, tsunami.
Bri
And then you guys were on or medium.
Nikki
I mean, it was big, but the waves started to get really big that when we were going up, you know how it goes. Like this water was coming on the. The. Or the. The nose. So they made people go in the back. And that's when I started praying so hard to God, like, do not. I wasn't gonna go. And then I went, don't let this be a mistake. But we saw six gray whales. They were gorgeous, Their tails in person. A few came really close to the boat. And then we saw a sea otter on our way in. But I was shocked how far the sea otter was out. And then also realized, you know, when we were at the aquarium, we went two days straight, and the importance of sea otters for the ocean and just what we need them in our ecosystem of life. And so it was crazy to, like, learn all about that. And Mateo and I became so obsessed with sea otters after that. But then it felt even more magical, the fact that when we were coming in, they're like, you guys look. And he's just kicking it, holding on some seaweed so far out. And they're like, yeah, they. They are out here like this. No idea about that. The sea otters. So what it is, is they eat sea urchins. They eat a lot of stuff. What's crazy is they don't eat fish. They go. They love oysters. They love, like, a lot of shelled stuff and how they slam them on rocks and how they eat. They love shrimp and then the sea urchins. But why it's important is because sea urchins love to eat. I'm gonna forget the name.
Bri
That's okay.
Nikki
What we need that's underground in the water to breathe. That's getting, like, ruined by climate change.
Bri
Not the.
Nikki
Pretty much, but a type of reef or whatever. So the sea otters. If these sea urchins weren't.
Bri
Wow.
Nikki
To be controlled.
Bri
Professor Nikki, right now. Oh, girl.
Nikki
And when I tell you.
Bri
So, you guys had fun?
Nikki
We had a great time.
Bri
A good time.
Nikki
Mateo didn't want to go last night when I was FaceTiming with him, he's like, mom, can we go to Hong Kong this weekend? And I was like, no. And he would not let it go. And he is on a mission to get on Cafe Pacific to get on that airplane and go to Hong Kong. And he's like, please. And he goes, at least in a few months. And I'm like, I don't know if we could go to Hong Kong in
Bri
a few months, tell him that'll be his golden birthday.
Nikki
I mean, Hong Kong, even Artem was like, mateo, that's really foreign. He goes, that's okay. I wanna. He's obsessed right now with Cafe Pacific Airlines. And I felt bad because he kept bringing it up over the weekend. And I'm like, is that, like a place you eat? And he goes, mom, no. An airline. And then he's sounding it out for me. And so I Google.
Bri
Well, it's Kathy, right?
Nikki
Well, it looks that way, but it's. He's actually right on the pronunciation.
Bri
Yeah, I can't remember. I remember, like, seeing it always. Isn't it, like, C, A, T, A,
Nikki
H, A, Y. Oh, A, Y. So that's the one that mainly flies to Hong Kong and back. That's their airline.
Bri
I say to SFO all the time,
Nikki
I had no idea. And he's looking at that first class, like, that's what I want to fly, girl.
Bri
Work. So we can go, you know? Well, that's good. So Valentine's was great.
Nikki
It was so fun. I just love my little moments with him. He and I just have, like, the older especially he's getting. We just have so much fun together. And I've real. I've realized, like, I love date nights with him. When we go to dinner and our conversations and how we hang out and our drives and now all the questions he asked me. And, like, I'm always, like, just googling, like, yeah, babe, hold down.
Bri
Let me see.
Nikki
And just our moments together. He makes me feel so loved and so happy and that. He kept telling everyone, like, my mom's My Valentine. And, and he's just everyone that came in room service wise or brought our bags up or sat us at the table, he'd give them all big hugs and by the way, to see everyone's face. And he goes, oh, can I just give you another hug?
Bri
So cute.
Nikki
And all their faces. Cuz you know, people come in serious, they'd all couldn't help but smile so big. And he's like, okay, bye, have a nice day. And he just always wanted to give all those people hugs. And it made my heart just so warm. He was just so happy that like, oh, you're bringing me pancakes. Oh, can I give you a hug or anything? Like the boy just has so much love to give. It's so cute.
Bri
I love that it's been cute because, you know, obviously it's been raining here.
Nikki
Yeah.
Bri
And Buddy with his umbrella, when we walk into school, if he sees any of the little girls with no umbrella, he runs up and he holds it for them. And then he's getting drenched in the rain, but I'm like, that's cute, gentleman. And he'll just stare at him with like his smile. And they're like looking back at him like smiling like, thank you, Ben. And then he just doesn't keep staring at them as he's watched. You can tell they're like, I love, you know, little kids are really good at like staring contests. They can just stare at each other for minutes. I mean as adults we can't do that. It's kind of staring like we were in.
Nikki
I was laughing because I, I wanted to just film it for you and send it to you like Bri, it's such boys. But we went to one of the other museums. It's called the. My museum, but it's similar to one we go to in Santa Rosa. That's all the touching, like, you know, all everything's like the explorer, the exploring type of museum, right. And so they have this thing that's a big thing. Like you know, when you put your hand into something, the needles come out like. Oh yeah. So they had a big one.
Bri
Oh gosh.
Nikki
So Mateo is doing it and this boy's doing it. And they both like your hands. And then like the boy like hit his hand away from the other side of the Mateo. So then, then they both are pushing each other's hands so hard, right? Like I see it on both sides. And they both are getting so angry. Then they both start doing their chest. It becomes a chess contest. And then as one, this one voice in the Chest. He's trying to hit Mateo on the other side. So then Mateo comes around and then starts to hit him. I'm like, tay. But. And I go, boys. It's crazy because how he was playing with the girls before.
Bri
And no matter what, even this morning, like, Buddy wasn't listening to me. So I go with my hand.
Nikki
Spider Man.
Bri
No, like, just power to make him, like, listen. And how I was doing it and the noises I was making, and he was like. And he's like, like, almost getting emotional because he thinks I'm gonna control him with my hand and becomes this competitive thing, and he's doing it back to me. And I was just like, where? If I did it to Birdie, she would just, like, look back down at her.
Nikki
Yeah. Oh, that would be me, too.
Bri
You know what I mean?
Nikki
But not looked at me. No to the power. Yeah.
Bri
Come like, as if he needs to block me. And that's becomes a whole. I'm just like. The difference between girls and boys at times is mind blowing. But something. That's funny, talking about Valentine's Day that we kept getting asked at super bowl, which I had no idea. Is that. What do you think about super bowl being on Valentine's Day next year? I'm like, is that, like, a big deal to people? Because I guess I don't care.
Nikki
We love sports, so I think for us, it's not like. But everyone acted like all these. It's gonna, like, end relationships. I'm like, this is so weird. Like, what? Actually, to me, it feels like when there's Valentine's Day during the week and people save their dinners sometimes for the weekend, like, isn't that, like, the same thing? Just do it on another night.
Bri
Do it the day before.
Nikki
Yeah, no, I. I was tripping. I was tripping. But I think it's because. And we've seen it with some.
Bri
It's actually gonna be cool. They're gonna make it cute, I think, by intertwining both. You're gonna see.
Nikki
I think. I don't think they'll care. Maybe.
Bri
So we're just.
Nikki
What. What they're gonna do is they're gonna highlight players that are gonna probably give, like, roses to, like, their wife on the sidelines. They're gonna highlight, like, the pre.
Bri
So who's gonna care is the people who sell things or the restaurants or all the things, because, oh, they'll care because they're like, oh, this a day where we can capitalize right on the holiday.
Nikki
Yeah. Like, is there going to be a proposal? Maybe? Who Knows. I don't know.
Bri
Oh, for sure they're going to showcase that. Oh, does football ever do kiss cam?
Nikki
No, but maybe.
Bri
Super. We'll do a kiss cam. You know, we'll definitely, I bet, see a proposal or something.
Nikki
We'll see something. Yeah. So they'll do something like that, I'm sure. But other than that, I think it'll be normal. I don't know. You and I are just tomboys. So when they we kept getting asked.
Bri
Myself a tomboy, I just don't think.
Nikki
Well, like I feel like you're a girly tomboy like me. I kind of feel like us girls who like are kind can tend to be more casual. But like.
Bri
And we like sports.
Nikki
We love sports. And how we can do things. I feel like tend to be a little more tomboyish.
Bri
For sure. Right?
Nikki
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Bri
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Nikki
Okay, so there was this thing, by the way, I DM'd you. And I also put it my stories. And it was cute. All the responses I got from my girlfriends. Yeah, well, you missed out on this one. And cousins. But I had seen this and it like stopped me in my tracks. So imagine Lana Del Rey's song Young and Beautiful playing.
Bri
Okay, you know that song?
Nikki
Okay, I love that song. So it says every woman hits a phase where she doesn't want parties, people or noise. Just peace and her purpose. It's not depression. It's not antisocial behavior. It's not being boring. It's evolution. At some point, attention feels loud, drama feels heavy. Crowds feel draining. And silence starts to feel powerful. You stop craving validation. You stop needing to be seen. You stop explaining yourself. Peace becomes addictive. You choose early nights, clear boundaries. Smaller circles, bigger goals. Energy shifts. It's the phase where growth gets quiet, where focus replaces noise, where discipline replaces distraction. You're not isolating, you're aligning. Tag the woman who's in her quiet era and leave a 100 if you can resonate well. 100. But then I sent it to you, and I was like, oh, she's really in her quiet era. Because she didn't even.
Bri
I didn't see. See, I've been barely on social media,
Nikki
but by the way, and with the song, like, playing, like, even Kristen, like, we were, like, writing about it. There was a few.
Bri
I love it. I mean, I think that's beautifully written. Who wrote it?
Nikki
And then think of that song plane. So it's on women. Womentain it. Yeah. I can't even say that.
Bri
Well, it's crazy because when I was at raw, someone backstage was like, oh, my gosh, Bri, it's so good to see you. You've been out of it for so long, like, in just your quiet era.
Nikki
Yeah.
Bri
And I was thinking, like, really? I feel like I could get even quieter. Yeah. It felt. It's. The last couple years still felt very busy, but definitely quieter than ever, I guess. Yes. But.
Nikki
Well, it's a different quiet. Like, it was weird because I guess that hit me in ways of. And I put it in your text if you need to look at it. But it was weird because it just kind of hit me in ways where. When I feel certain things, like, is this not being lazy, but am I just exhausted or am I just these things of why I feel to be these ways. Like, it can't just be age. But I like how, you know, it's like. I think what hit me, it's. We always know it's about evolution. But you're like, yeah, like this. I guess super bowl week, like, showed me. We've been doing super bowl weeks for years and years and years. And it was so weird how different this one felt. Like, very.
Bri
Yeah. Exhausting. I was like, oh, this was too much.
Nikki
Yeah.
Bri
I did too much.
Nikki
Yes.
Bri
For sure. I mean, I definitely am someone who listens to my body. So if I feel like I have mono for a week, it's because I'm doing too much. Like, my body, mentally and physically can't keep up. So I have to look at everything, go, what can I cut out? What?
Nikki
You know?
Bri
And that's what I do well.
Nikki
And I think the part of, like, having your evolution, because I think you and I feel this a lot at times with crowds and it. And people be like, but this is this person's about to perform, and we're like, well, we don't care. Like, good. We could go watch it on tv. I don't know. Like, but it's. It's just weird how life just changes, right? It's like, oh, I'd rather just go cuddle my kid and be in bed with him for 10 hours or.
Bri
Yeah, I think that's. Beauty of life is all the different phases we go through beyond.
Nikki
Because I saw someone write, like, how amazing that we have those moments to, like, relive in our minds. Like, we have those moments, like, those fun moments when we think in our 20s and 30s of, like, wow, we did it. Jade actually had said that because she. We were also writing about it, and she had. I mean, when we were in Saudi, she and I connected so much. And, you know, we all connected on the podcast. And I love everything she has to say. She has, like, such a great mind and the way she lives life and her perspective of life and how she is as a mom and then does the WWE thing and then entrepreneur and wife and then. But how she does look at, like, it was neat to hear, like, on times, yeah, we have to feel this way, but then we also have to remember that girl that has to go live and, oh, for sure. Be other ways.
Bri
And so I know that's, I think, why I wanted to make this comeback, because I like my quiet time. I like, you know, my days that are about checking out my fruit trees and my garden beds, being with my chickens and my kids and my husband. But I was, like, craving something a little more.
Nikki
Yeah.
Bri
And so it's why I'm excited to get back in this division when we get back in it, you know, like, I can't wait to be on that consistent.
Nikki
Wait for the perfect moment.
Bri
The perfect moment. We're waiting for it. And so. But to be back in that consistent, like, for me, at least fun, like, in ring, working hard. I love all that.
Nikki
Yeah.
Bri
Just, you know, the training we've been doing, there's, like, always this part of me that, you know, when I'm doing it, it's like my body feels alive and I'm having fun. Is there things that hurts? Absolutely. Like, you know, when Brian was making me do these certain bumps, and I'm like, like, you know, your body just sometimes is like, no, your poor nose. But. Oh, do you think it's. When you bumped your nose yesterday, you bumped your nose really hard. Maybe that's what it was. I just all of a sudden thought, like, you whacked your nose really hard yesterday. Yeah.
Nikki
Because it came out of nowhere.
Bri
You remember?
Nikki
Sorry.
Bri
We're talking about her stuffy, runny, crazy nose.
Nikki
Because I keep feeling like I'm about to sneeze.
Bri
So weird. But anyways, so I. I get. You know, it's interesting. You're gonna feel times when you need something to kind of challenge yourself and wake yourself up. And then there's other times where it's like, nope, I'm gonna say no to a ton of things this year, because I am ready to chill. You know what I mean? Not me. Oh.
Nikki
I was like other people so completely.
Bri
Like, when I had a mom friend be like, this is my year of no. I'm saying no to everything thing.
Nikki
Yeah.
Bri
And that was her year. I think it was last year or the year before. I can't remember. And she loved it. And then it made her want to, like, jump back into it.
Nikki
Well, it is kind of crazy how you're feeling, and I'm feeling the same way. And it being the year, the horse, I feel like we have that, like, horsepower.
Bri
We've always been drawn to horses. Like, if you go in my office, I have all pictures of horses. Like, I've always been drawn to horses.
Nikki
And I just imagine how that them riding in the wind and, like, hear
Bri
the hoofs on the, like, dirt.
Nikki
Yeah, Hooves.
Bri
Hooves. I said a hoof. I guess that's one. But hooves with a V. Yeah, whatever. My kids correct me now when I speak.
Nikki
Okay, you know what I also realized when I was at the aquarium?
Bri
What?
Nikki
They say fishes, and they even write it that way. Here. I corrected Mateo, and then he's like, look at my nose. And then he was like, fish.
Bri
Look at all those fish.
Nikki
It's supposed to be fish. But the aquarium was saying fishes and wrote it out as fishes. I was about to take a photo of it.
Bri
Is it.
Nikki
I don't know, because kept saying fishes. And I corrected him. Like, well, baby, it's actually like, a school of fish. We still say fish. And then all of a sudden, we're doing the sea otter presentation, and they're saying fishes, and they have it written down as fishes.
Bri
I mean, they're legit people. So that's what I said.
Nikki
So I'm like, did somehow we miss this? And did they end up saying, like, hey, guys, I know we've been confusing for centuries, but now we're doing fishes. Did I miss that, or did.
Bri
Is it just you and I?
Nikki
No, but I feel like we've been corrected in the past when we've said Fishes. And it's fish. Yeah.
Bri
You know, I just give up. This is what I like to say. I know. Whether you say tomato, tomato. I know what you're saying.
Nikki
Yeah.
Bri
Tell me a big, squishy, juicy, yummy thing that Italians love to cook with. I know what you're saying.
Nikki
So what? Fish, Fishes. We get it. I get a bunch of them.
Bri
You're talking about cool. A whole lot school of them.
Nikki
Yeah. I mean, I was just, like, sitting there. Like, I feel like with Mateo, I'm relearning everything, and he just. He can't get over the fact how I say egg wrong. I feel like, think about it. He says, I always say with an A.
Bri
And that's what I'm saying. Tomato, tomato. Who cares? When you say egg, we get it.
Nikki
Yeah.
Bri
I mean, Buddy's, like, doing, like, asking me, like, with 56 plus 56.
Nikki
Oh, that's Mateo all the time.
Bri
And especially at night. And I go, mommy's brain's down. Like, shh. Go to sleep. Go to sleep.
Nikki
1.
Bri
Or like, the times tables. Oh.
Nikki
And then when I hit the six, seven, does he do six, seven? Six seven? No. Oh, Mateo's obsessed with six. What's that from? Okay, so Mato kept doing that. I go, do you mean 67? And he goes, what? He goes, no, six, seven. And I don't tripping. Then I. I asked someone, and they go, you don't know about 6 7? So it comes from a song.
Bri
Oh.
Nikki
And then even it's so big with the kids. Huge. That even one of the hockey teams did a six, seven night. Kids night. And they all wore six, seven on their jerseys.
Bri
I've never heard of this.
Nikki
Oh, my gosh. They go, six, seven. I gotta show you. You have to see Mateo doing.
Bri
I'm very happy.
Nikki
He does. Well, mine does. And I love it. It's cute. And so now, anytime, like, it's. I see a six and a seven, I, like, try to beat him two out. And I'm like, well, it was like when my kids.
Bri
Someone played them that crazy frog song. And they're like, the minute I hit play, like, Brian. I look at each other, I go, you guys, we can listen this one time. And I can't ever again.
Nikki
And when you sent it to me, the Mateo just on the first few things is, oh, that's crazy frog. And I'm like, oh, boy, it is awful. Damn near.
Bri
Whenever it does, I can't remember. It's like. But there's, like, a couple, like, 80. I swear, like, aerobic tunes in There, right? I'm kind of like, wait. But it's awful. And I'm like, can we just listen to something?
Nikki
Mateo, all of a sudden, out of nowhere, was like, wanted, keeps asking me to play. What does the fox say?
Bri
That's so weird. That's from so long ago. Right? I know.
Nikki
They're all talking about it, and it's like, how can I play it in the car?
Bri
Viral.
Nikki
I mean, but I feel like adults
Bri
would listen to it, no?
Nikki
Well, yeah. I mean, the guy had to be
Bri
like, he was high. Yeah, right.
Nikki
And then remember how it goes? Like, so.
Bri
Gosh.
Nikki
But do you remember how it starts. Is like the cat goes, meow.
Bri
No, whatever.
Nikki
He goes through animals. And then the elephant goes, no, like. And then he goes.
Bri
But what does the say?
Nikki
Well, I just remember it came out. What were you in high school or college?
Bri
And that's people on drugs. Has to be.
Nikki
Well, that's what I was thought. But now the kids love it and.
Bri
Which is always kind of why kids like it.
Nikki
Oh, for sure. He laughs so hard when the guy's doing all the things.
Bri
Yeah, that makes sense.
Nikki
But in my head, I'm like, oh, boy. I mean, on the way to Monterey, I had to listen to that, like, 10 times. Then once you sent me the frog one, I had to keep listening to that one, which is the other one that the kids.
Bri
Someone played for them that they loved. I had to listen to it one time.
Nikki
I can't remember. He's into the witch.
Bri
Oh, Gucci, Gucci goo. Oh, oh, yeah, baby. Whatever that song was. I'm like, well.
Nikki
And then he likes some of the old school Gaga songs. You know, when she goes, yeah, like those different ones. And so I get why he likes those things. Yeah. And a bad romance he likes, too, but it's one of those. And then, you know, he loves that one Republic song, the Shooting Star. Because of the airplanes. Anything with airplanes. I mean, he told me, he's like, I will be a pilot because I want to go so high in the sky and fly.
Bri
Wow.
Nikki
Yeah. He talks about a pilot.
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Bri
See terms. Lent. Obviously. Nicole and I raised in the Catholic religion and we're Christians, so we will, like, do land. And it's really. I'm just doing devotions every day.
Nikki
Okay.
Bri
I thought more, what should I gain out of these next 40 days? But birdie was the one who, like, really was on us all.
Nikki
Yeah.
Bri
And so she goes, I want to give up regular music and just do Christian music.
Nikki
Yeah.
Bri
And Buddy goes like, we can't listen to our music to school anymore. And I'm like, I guess if Birdie's in the car. And so.
Nikki
That's so cute.
Bri
I know. So he goes, I give up Christian music and you can only listen to my music. I'm like, you can't do that. But yeah.
Nikki
It wasn't that cute.
Bri
A bird.
Nikki
So cute.
Bri
And I'm like, are you sure? No Taylor Swift? Because that girl's been Elizabeth Taylor and Fate of Ophelia or whatever. I mean, that's like on repeat, right?
Nikki
So that was another song Mateo asked me to play. Jesus loves little children.
Bri
Oh, that's cute.
Nikki
Yeah. He really wanted that one.
Bri
I love that.
Nikki
But she's on her swifty break. Hey, that's actually kind of impressive for.
Bri
For Bird. And I got him these cute little Easter devotion books that they can do together. And I help out, and it's actually really cute. And Birdie helps Buddy with it.
Nikki
Yeah.
Bri
Reading some of the scripture. And. And even though Buddy, you know, we just, like, tested his reading, his element, his level of reading is unreal.
Nikki
I need a. Mateo wants to read more and I need to not. I need to put in more effort.
Bri
Yeah. I mean, you know, Brian comes so good. And you both are.
Nikki
Sorry, I was getting. You both are so.
Bri
But. Yeah. And so. But it's really cute how Birdie is.
Nikki
Yeah.
Bri
When she loves to help. Like, she's so good like that. And just with the reading and the writing, it's really cute. But it's been really fun. And Brian and I are doing, like, devotion together too. And that's nice. I don't know. Yeah. I felt like it was needed Couple. Yeah.
Nikki
It's good for.
Bri
Needed. But during these times, I felt like I needed something.
Nikki
Why not? I feel like it makes the relationship stronger. Your faith together stronger. So, real quick, so fish, plural. So the same kind of fish. Yes, fishes for multiple species.
Bri
Oh.
Nikki
So that's probably why they had fishes. Which makes sense.
Bri
Makes sense for an aquarium.
Nikki
Yeah.
Bri
That's so interesting.
Nikki
So interesting.
Bri
I never knew that.
Nikki
Like, trying to teach a kid that. I mean, that's a lot.
Bri
But a kid gets it.
Nikki
No, they do.
Bri
That's what's crazy, cuz.
Nikki
What did we get it so quickly? There was something that goes. Wait, so that means. What was it? Not like sun, but in a way, like their son. And then your son. There was another word that was like that, that Mateo's like, oh. And then it also means this. And I'm like, yeah. And it's different spelling. I can't remember what. Which one it was. But, yeah. Very interesting. Yeah. I need to get on the reading train.
Bri
Well, maybe that's your thing for Lent, actually.
Nikki
I mean, we. I do already read him. Like, we have a lot of Jesus and God books that we read. And I know it could be any type, but, like, I feel like. Because that's teaching him, since he doesn't do, like, Sunday school or anything like that.
Bri
Well, that's the thing. My kids go to Montessori, so that's. So they, you know, they have the atrium and they learn a lot. I mean, it's cute because they come back and they tell me, like, they'll ask me about certain people and I'm like, mommy doesn't know saints. Well, not even saints, but different. Like, you know, especially this time, whether it's disciples or people who came in the path of Jesus, like, they'll ask me these different things, and I'm like, so cute. Yeah. I'm like, you know, I used to know it, but it's crazy.
Nikki
Yeah.
Bri
You know, for some reason, I forget a lot of things. I feel like I don't know.
Nikki
Oh, I'm. That's me. It's. I mean, I guess that's the beauty in having kids is they kind of like, help you sharpen up your brain because, like, you're forced to, like, Google or research it on being like, oh, shoot. What is it?
Bri
Thank goodness we gave up Bella brains. Because, man.
Nikki
Oh, if we were doing that was getting kids, they would be kicking our ass. Right?
Bri
Honestly.
Nikki
Well, Brie is there, you know, as we wrap up. And it's been fun to just catch up. Catch up. I mean, geez.
Bri
And you we're off to work out which her and I are like, oh, I know, because we're so into it.
Nikki
Well, it was just so weird this time around with all the travels, and I think it was because I was in way too many different time zones in such a short amount of time. When I would go to the gym, my body just hurts so bad. So it was the most that I've ever done, like, sauna and cold plunge, because I was like, at least I needed to do something. But even when I'd get on the cardio machine, my body was just too tired.
Bri
Right.
Nikki
So hitting that first workout this week in three weeks, I felt like brand new. I'm like, damn, my muscles.
Bri
Oh, my gosh. I bet.
Nikki
So today, going into today, I'm like. Just like, oh, man. Because. Are you sore? Are you sore from our last workout?
Bri
Beyond.
Nikki
Yeah, me too.
Bri
Beyond, Beyond.
Nikki
But so a lot of, though, exciting things coming up, and so I'm excited. We'll start to dive into that next week on, you know, some of our future episodes. But before we leave, can you hit us with some inspiration, affirmation? Yeah.
Bri
This was actually something I. Because of, like, where I'm at in my life right now and, like, getting into, I always will download quotes to help motivate me, keep me on my path and on track. And I saw this one, I was like, oh, this is a good one to remind me of my environment and, you know, help keep me motivated. But it's Hazel Satia, which I feel like I've used quotes from this person before. But you will bloom effortlessly when you plant yourself in environments which water you instead of run you dry. And I think it just goes off, you know, when Nicole and I come off, like, these crazy weeks of work and we have a week of recovery, sometimes I'm like, what ran me dry and what helped water me and make me grow and bloom more. So I think it's always good to take a step back in situations that you feel, like, completely mentally and physically drained you or mentally and physically, you know, strengthen you. So I thought, that's such a great quote. Do you need to see it? Because I know sometimes you got to read.
Nikki
Yeah, yeah. No, it. It's. It's so true, right? You bloom where you're meant to be at, and that's what you realize. I meant to be here and here. I tried it, but it's not for me.
Bri
And granted, sometimes workouts run me dry, but I do know it's watering me seriously.
Nikki
Well, the thing, though, that's different from a workout is you always feel like you're blooming after for sure.
Bri
I mean, it takes me 10 minutes to get into it and then I'm like, I'm so happy I'm here.
Nikki
And when you think about it, never once when you do a workout do you ever feel negative after ever. You always are on a high.
Bri
Right.
Nikki
It's just that beginning part. It's like.
Bri
Well, it's been a lot of training and all of that lately.
Nikki
So, you know, it's. Your body's just going through it and then through it. It's. It was a hard few weeks mentally and physically on our bodies, so. And then going into that and it's a whole thing.
Bri
But I feel good now. But that your nose.
Nikki
My nose is really.
Bri
Nose is running. I know. I see it.
Nikki
Dripping is covet still thing. Just kidding, guys. Gosh, no. It's. Ever since we got those IVs the other night and I think every night
Bri
is just getting out.
Nikki
Everything's just getting out of me. It. I will say those two weeks were really effing hard on me.
Bri
Well, they're in the past.
Nikki
Yeah, they're in the past. But my body's still trying to recover, which is crazy. That's like a thing that I realized. Hey, girl, what you're gonna have to be careful with in the future is like if you're hitting insane amount of time zones in a week and a half, that might just not be for you. Yeah, that.
Bri
I think your body told you that because you're looking.
Nikki
That's what I'm saying. No, but when you. Well meaning because you hit me with
Bri
the quote about dried out, brand new, dry. Yeah, we get it.
Nikki
We get it.
Bri
All right, everyone. Well, enjoy the last week of February. What? What happened? Happened? How is this the last week of February?
Nikki
Honestly, I feel like we're gonna be prepping for summer.
Bri
Oh, my God. Well, don't forget about spring.
Nikki
I was joking because that really came fast.
Bri
Yeah, Spring is one of my favorite seasons when it comes to gardening.
Nikki
Everything.
Bri
If you have fruit trees, start to feed him a little bit because it is just around the corner that they are going to start.
Nikki
You need to come do my garden beds.
Bri
But yes. So you guys enjoyed the last week of February. You can see videos of today's episode on all our social media platforms. So Instagram, Facebook, Tick tock. I said Facebook. We're on it. And then YouTube as well. And you can get. Catch us on SiriusXM Stars109 and call our hotline 833 Garcia See you too.
Nikki
Yeah.
Bri
All right, we're out of here. Bye everyone.
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Date: February 23, 2026
Hosted by: Nikki & Brie Garcia (SiriusXM)
In this cozy, catch-up episode, Nikki and Brie re-connect after a whirlwind few weeks of travel, family events, and career commitments. They candidly discuss the physical and emotional realities of juggling their personal and professional lives as moms, entrepreneurs, and wrestling personalities. The sisters open up about recovery, evolving priorities, parenting stories, the shifting meaning of holidays, and embracing new phases of life, ending with an inspirational quote about intentionally choosing environments that help you "bloom." If you need a relatable conversation about real-life exhaustion, new traditions, and wholesome family vibes, this episode delivers.
Recap of Super Bowl and Recent Travels:
Nikki & Brie recount their jam-packed schedules—traveling between Saudi Arabia, Toronto, Philly, New York, and San Francisco—all leading up to Super Bowl week.
Physical Toll and Self-Care:
Both reveal the toll this lifestyle takes as they get older, including getting “forced to rest” by their bodies and Nikki’s bout of food poisoning after pushing through.
Brie’s Minimalist Approach:
Brie and her husband Bryan no longer go big for Valentine’s Day, focusing instead on thoughtful cards and celebrating with their kids.
Nikki’s Perspective:
Nikki wants continued romance and would still love flowers and gestures, even in long-term relationships.
Kids Get Center Stage:
Both sisters highlight how Valentine’s becomes more about their children’s joy and memories than big romantic gestures.
Nikki & Mateo’s Monterey Trip:
Nikki shares the story of her new mommy-son Valentine’s tradition—a trip to Monterey packed with whale-watching, learning about sea otters, and cute moments of curiosity.
Cute Kid Moments:
Both share vignettes of their sons being sweet (and competitive), like Buddy sharing his umbrella and Mateo’s obsession with airplanes and being a pilot.
Sibling Differences (Boys vs. Girls):
Lively observations about how boys and girls play, compete, and react differently, demonstrated in hilarious museum anecdotes.
A Viral Quote on Women's Evolution:
Nikki shares a quote about entering a life phase valuing peace, boundaries, and growth over social noise, sparking discussion on how their needs have changed.
Super Bowl on Valentine’s Next Year:
The sisters riff on the drama of these two events coinciding in 2027, finding it funny that people see it as catastrophic.
Pop Culture, Kid’s Music, & Generational Shifts:
The sisters bond over the weird things their kids are picking up—Crazy Frog, “What Does the Fox Say,” viral moments like "6-7," and screen culture.
Learning & Language at Home:
They reflect on learning new things alongside their kids, like why aquariums say “fishes” (it’s for multiple species!) and embracing the never-ending questions of parenthood.
Faith & Lent Traditions:
The sisters discuss giving up things for Lent, with Birdie choosing to listen only to Christian music and whole-family devotionals coming into play.
Affirmation & Reflection:
Body Wisdom & Listening to Yourself:
Candid talk about workouts, travel, jetlag, and respecting limits.
On growing older and forced rest:
"At our age, our bodies tap out when they know it's been too much."
— Brie [02:21]
On Valentine’s Day, relationships, and expectations:
"If I was married that long, I wouldn't want it to ever be different. I'd still want gifts."
— Nikki [06:43]
On special mom-son moments:
"He kept telling everyone, 'My mom's my Valentine.'"
— Nikki [20:07]
On entering a quiet era in life:
"Every woman hits a phase where she doesn’t want parties, people, or noise. Just peace and her purpose...”
— Nikki reading a viral quote [25:51]
On the Super Bowl falling on Valentine’s Day:
"Everyone acted like...it's gonna end relationships. Just do it on another night!"
— Nikki & Brie [22:55, 23:13]
Affirmation about growth:
"You will bloom effortlessly when you plant yourself in environments which water you instead of run you dry."
— Brie quoting Hazel Satia [43:21]
On learning new things with kids:
"With Mateo, I’m relearning everything..."
— Nikki [33:31]
Listen for: Honest sisterly banter, real talk about burnout, hilarious tales of mom life, the wisdom of rest, and motivational mantras to help you reframe what it means to “bloom” in midlife.