The Summer Blues are Real

Summary

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The Nikki & Brie Show

Episode: The Summer Blues are Real
Date: September 15, 2025
Podcast Host: SiriusXM
Hosts: Nikki & Brie Garcia

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Episode Overview

In this lively, heartfelt episode, Nikki and Brie Garcia dig into the emotional complexities that come with the end of summer and the transition back to school. They candidly discuss family routines, the "summer blues" experienced by both kids and parents, sibling dynamics, parenting challenges, and the importance of kindness and affirmation for children. The episode also features candid storytelling, relatable mom moments, sibling rivalry games, and signature Garcia sister banter—all wrapped in positive, supportive energy.

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Key Discussion Points & Insights

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1. Transition from Summer to Back-to-School Routines

Timestamps: [02:16]–[04:54]

• Nikki and Brie discuss the change in seasons, how the weather impacts their mood, and the switch from "slow summer mornings" to the structure of school routines.
• Both express bittersweet feelings: enjoyment of unstructured summer days versus craving the productivity and personal time that comes when the kids go back to school.
  • Nicole: "Towards the end of the summer I did start to create, like, crave a routine again." [03:11]
  • Nikki: "I did enjoy—this was like my first summer with him where we really really enjoyed later evenings." [03:34]
• Nicole mentions the unrealistic expectations she sets for summer self-care: "You think it's suddenly going to be like a wellness retreat. I didn't do one thing for me." [04:41]
• Both agree that back-to-school brings much-needed "sanity" and the ability to focus on themselves for brief windows.

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2. "Summer Blues" and Emotional Hurdles for Kids

Timestamps: [04:56]–[06:48]; [20:55]–[22:36]

• The sisters notice a phenomenon they dub "summertime blues"—more kids than usual struggling with the transition back to school, with increased levels of tears and separation anxiety.
  • Nicole: "...there was a lot of kids that didn't want to go to school...more kids in tears, more kids like ‘No, Mommy, don't leave.’" [04:58]
• Nikki shares relatable stories about her son Mateo's reluctance to leave home and the struggles of enforcing routines post-summer.
• Nicole recounts Buddy's attempt to negotiate homeschooling—yearning to be with his mom all the time.

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3. Parenting Realness: Struggles, Humor, and Chaos

Timestamps: [06:48]–[17:58]

• The sisters swap hilarious and honest stories about the chaos of school mornings, enforcing personal hygiene on kids, and why children always test boundaries at home versus behaving for others.
  • Nicole: "...the worst he'll be for is you. He's not like that with anyone else..." [08:45]
  • Nikki: "Unconditional love, right? We tend to give people our worst, for sure." [09:10]
• They ponder why their kids ignore parental instructions but listen intently to teachers.
• The daily rollercoaster: bracing for meltdowns about hair-brushing, tooth-brushing, and random acts of defiance (e.g., Buddy opening doors after being firmly told not to, stirring sibling rivalry, and dramatic declarations of "you're the worst!").
• Sibling Dynamics: Nicole and Nikki discuss the battles and deep bonds between their children, relating them to their own sibling history.
  • Nicole: "It's just the fighting is hard. I mean, I look at how you and I used to fight." [18:05]
  • Nikki: "But we loved each other more than the fighting." [18:13]

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4. Kids Say the Darndest Things: Language, Honesty, and Empathy

Timestamps: [11:08]–[20:46]

• Nikki shares stories of Mateo picking up questionable language at school and how she manages her reactions to accidental (and not-so-accidental) cursing.
  • Nikki: "So there'll be moments where he wants my attention, and he'll go, 'what the hell?' And then I'll look, and he'll be sitting there smiling, knowing." [11:24]
• Nicole explains how she cleverly redirects Buddy by making the “F word” mean "fox,” turning would-be profanity into hilarious innocence.
• The sisters reflect on children’s brutal honesty, hilarious logical gaps, and the power of positive reinforcement.

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5. Affirmations, Self-Esteem & Supporting Children’s Mental Health

Timestamps: [48:06]–[51:07]

• The importance of affirming kids and building their self-esteem is front and center.
  • Nicole (quoting Christopher Robin): "You are braver than you believe, stronger than you seem, and smarter than you think." [48:10]
• Nikki talks about doing daily affirmations with Mateo and shares a touching story about him giving himself affirmations in the mirror at school.
  • Nikki: "He was working on his stuff, and...he gets up, he walks over to the mirror, and he goes, 'You did so good. I am so proud of you.'" [49:16]
• The hosts stress the role of parents in fostering kindness and resilience, emphasizing starting these practices young.

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6. Sibling Connection & Garcia Family Bond

Timestamps: [46:18]–[47:17]

• Nikki and Brie lean into their unique twin bond, from FaceTiming multiple times a day to sharing moments of silence while prepping dinner.
  • Nicole: "Do you FaceTime your sibling, like, 100 times a day? We do...and sometimes Nicole and I will just sit on FaceTime as we’re, like, chopping dinner." [46:18]

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7. Fun & Games: Juice Box Geniuses

Timestamps: [41:59]–[45:54]

• The sisters play “Juice Box Geniuses”—a lighthearted quiz of kindergarten-level questions to see who’s the real “brainiac.”
• Friendly (and competitive) banter ensues over who wins, with lots of playful accusations of cheating and nostalgia for when they used to play “Bella Brains.”
  • Game Host: "What are the three primary colors?" Nikki: "Red, blue and yellow." [43:01]
  • Nicole: "So fox off." [46:04]

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8. Advice for Parents: Empathy, Kindness, and World Peace

Timestamps: [51:07]–[52:53]

• The episode rounds off with reflections on world events, teaching kindness, and promoting the value of empathy.
  • Nicole: “What we need more than ever right now is to love each other — to show kindness...all the things we were taught in kindergarten.” [51:07]
  • Nikki: “We don’t have to agree with opinions…but if we can get to a place where that’s okay, I could still know that I can love thy neighbor.” [52:18]

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Notable Quotes & Memorable Moments

• Nikki ([11:24]): "So there'll be moments where he wants my attention, and he'll go, 'what the hell?' And then I'll look, and he'll be sitting there smiling, knowing.”
• Nicole ([18:05]): “It's just the fighting is hard. I mean, I look at how you and I used to fight.”
• Nicole ([48:10]): “You are braver than you believe, stronger than you seem, and smarter than you think.”
• Nikki ([49:16]): “He gets up, he walks over to the mirror, and he goes, 'You did so good. I am so proud of you.' And he's giving himself affirmations in the mirror.”
• Nicole ([51:07]): "What we need more than ever right now is to love each other — to show kindness...all the things we were taught in kindergarten.”

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Segments with Timestamps

• PSL & Cozy Season Banter: [01:57]–[02:16]
• Summer vs. Fall Mom Life: [02:26]–[04:54]
• Kids & the ‘Summer Blues’: [04:56]–[06:48]
• Morning Routine Chaos: [07:07]–[12:28]
• Sibling Squabbles & Love: [16:18]–[19:02]
• Funny Kid Stories (Bad Words & Animal Mix-ups): [11:08]–[15:38]
• Self-Esteem & Affirmations: [48:06]–[51:07]
• Parent Affirmations about Kindness: [51:07]–[52:53]
• Juice Box Geniuses Game: [41:59]–[46:04]

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Closing Inspiration

Nicole: "You are braver than you believe, stronger than you seem, and smarter than you think." [48:10]

A heartfelt reminder for all parents and kids as they head into a new school year—to nurture resilience, self-esteem, and above all, kindness.

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For more episodes, video content, or to connect with the hosts, follow @TheNikkiAndBrieShow across all platforms, or call their hotline at 833-GARCIA2.

Transcript

[Nikki]

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[Bri]

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[Nikki]

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[Bri]

Visit Macy's.com, to learn more.

[Nicole]

Nikki, why is it that every time 4pm comes around, I feel like I'm scrambling to make dinner? It's like I never know what I'm gonna make, what's in my fridge. I feel always lost and confused around dinner time.

[Nikki]

Well, girl, it's because dinner dread is real.

[Nicole]

Oh, my gosh. The idea of cooking a big meal, overwhelming. And you also don't feel like waiting an hour for delivery.

[Nikki]

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[Bri]

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[Nicole]

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[Nikki]

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[Nicole]

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[Nikki]

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[Nicole]

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[Nikki]

What up, everyone?

[Nicole]

Welcome back to the the Nikki and Bri show and all of our episodes, especially today's episode. You can find videos on our YouTube channel.

[Nikki]

Right.

[Nicole]

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[Nikki]

All the things.

[Nicole]

All the things. And you can also call us on our hotline, 833 Garcia 2. We will ask, we will answer your questions and also you can tell us anything you'd like. Educate us. We love that.

[Nikki]

That's right.

[Nicole]

Well, hello, Nikki.

[Nikki]

What up, Breezy?

[Nicole]

Oh, we are back on her couch with our favorite PSLs.

[Nikki]

PSLs, baby.

[Nicole]

My first one of the season.

[Nikki]

Is it? Yeah. I will admit it's my second.

[Nicole]

Oh, man. Now that is fall in a cup.

[Nikki]

Fall in a cup.

[Nicole]

That is delicious.

[Nikki]

I know. Well, it's been feeling like fall weather here as of late Napa, but we're about to hit a warm week that's gonna make us feel we're right back in summer.

[Nicole]

But I know I'll get through it. I got. I'm. I'm loving this weather.

[Nikki]

Me too.

[Nicole]

I like sweater weather. I like to layer up. I'm not ready to go back into the Heat.

[Nikki]

I feel so cozy and cozy. I need that on my days off. And big topic, back to school.

[Nicole]

Back to school, back to school. Which means back to routines, back to a nice schedule, everyone's sanity is back. You know, it's really interesting.

[Nikki]

I always enjoy the summer though.

[Nicole]

Oh, you and I are like that because we like slow mornings, taking our time. We like to have fun with the kids. But Nikki and I thought it'd be really fun to do an episode about back to school and everything going on. But I will say this, I do. Towards the end of the summer I did start to create like crave a routine again.

[Nikki]

Oh for sure.

[Nicole]

Getting the kids back into school, then getting my workouts back on track. Like I, I was almost feeling. Getting a little like stir crazy in a way.

[Nikki]

Totally. Well. And I never really get out of routine because Mateo just summer school or like summer camp, I guess, you know, it's, we tell them camp. It's more like school. So we continue that all through the summer. So for me I kind of feel like it just kind of stays. But I will miss. I did enjoy. This was like my first summer with him where we really enjoyed later evenings and we'd play. We're still doing that. I have to like I've been putting us back in routine of earlier bedtime. But there is something I. And of course I love my slow mornings with him, but I really loved those later evenings with him too. Yeah. Yeah.

[Nicole]

I mean I'll miss the days with kids now. They didn't do, they did some camps which was fun, but we didn't do summer school at all. But you know, it's like we're up in the mountains so it's hiking and swimming and doing a lot of outdoor stuff which is great and they get worn out. But it is going to bed later. But towards the end I was kind of like, you know, oh, I, I need a little me time. Cuz I'm one of those. I'm like, okay, we're going to be in the mountains for the summer, so I'm going to make jam. I'm going to, you know, do my meditation. I'm going to get my workouts in like you think like it's all a sudden going to be like wellness retreat. I didn't do one thing for me.

[Nikki]

Yeah.

[Nicole]

And, and it's because I'm also the person that doesn't wake up before my kids to get it done. My kids are my alarm clock. I can't, you know, so I, I just don't go like I'm not that person. But you know what? We're back to school.

[Nikki]

We are. Which is always a great.

[Nicole]

Yeah. Which I love. You know, one thing I noticed, and the moms and I were talking about this the other day, and I'm curious to know if any of our listeners are going through it, but it really seems like it's like the summertime blues with the kids. I felt like this year more than ever, I realized there was a lot of kids that didn't want to go to school. That kind of like, you saw more kids in tears, more kids like, no, Mommy, don't leave. I felt like more than any year, even with my kids. I mean, Buddy, who usually sprints into school was, like, in the car, like, trying to negotiate with me that he needs to be homeschooled so he can be with me all the time. Oh, I know. I mean, did you see that with Matteo at all?

[Nikki]

Well, I mean, we. Mato's very much like that. Like, even today, there. There's a lot of days he just wants to stay home with mommy and play and, please, I just want to play with my trains. I don't want to go. So he'll ask me. He asks me that a lot. Like, I feel like our kids, if they could have it their way, they'd be with their moms 24 7, doing it all. I mean, even yesterday, how he does all of my errands with me. Like, I had a facial that I couldn't change because my girl, her lit. Her wait list is always so long. So she was cracking up because just like, when I get my eyebrows done, Mato just lays on me and I'll bring his iPad. And he was just. As I'm getting a facial, he's laying on top of me watching.

[Nicole]

You went in and got a facial iPad.

[Nikki]

Well, he would, like, flip around and he'd look like, so what are you doing now? And ask, like, so many questions. Especially because think of hydrafacials.

[Nicole]

Oh, my gosh.

[Nikki]

I was just holding them as he was, like, watching stuff. Did the same thing. Eyebrow threading. Can I get my eyebrows done? But it's. Yeah, I love it. But I'm like, you. The one thing that I like about school routine is I get my workouts in, I get my me time, I get everything done by three o' clock before pickup, and then we get to have our time, you know?

[Nicole]

Yeah, well. And I tell you what, like, when I think of teachers, oh, my gosh, they're like, the greatest blessings to parents.

[Nikki]

I mean, they're beyond.

[Nicole]

Because even when I think about homeschooling my kids, I can't.

[Nikki]

I can't do it.

[Nicole]

I just don't. I have patience. I don't have that kind of patience.

[Nikki]

Yeah.

[Nicole]

And I'm someone, like, I like waking up in the morning. I cook my kids breakfast. I get the vitamins out. I make their lunches, getting them dresses. I will say and feels like sometimes it can be so hard because, like, trying to get Buddy to brush his teeth and wash his face, and then we do his hair. And with Bird, it's just like, sometimes no one listens to me.

[Nikki]

Right.

[Nicole]

But, like, for me, I love that. And then we get in the car, we listen to our songs and dropping them off, and when I get back into my. The car, it's almost like, you know what I mean? It feels so good, even though, like, love my kids to death. But, like, I enjoy dropping them off and knowing that they're going in to.

[Nikki]

Learn well, and they have fun and they're playing and they're doing, you know, they're. They're doing all the things, which is great. They're eating. They're doing it all, you know, And I'm so blessed for the teachers because, like, today I brushed Mateo's hair before he went into school, and that was, like, game over for him. He got so mad at me. But then the teachers, thank goodness they showed him the great ways of brushing hair, and, like, they made it a lesson for him. And then they sent me a text, and it changed his mood. And so I am so blessed for them because it is funny how your kids will listen to, like, teachers differently. Like, okay. Oh, for sure. You know what I mean?

[Nicole]

I'll never forget, you know, because everyone knows, like, all the ups and downs I've had with Buddy and how wild he is, but I remember they were like, listen, the worst he'll be for is you.

[Nikki]

Yeah.

[Nicole]

Like, he. He's not like that with anyone else. Now, granted, he does have his moments where he'll act out, but they're like, he. He's like, you know, when they'll go through his report with me, I'm like, oh, my gosh. Yeah. Wow. Oh, my gosh.

[Nikki]

That's cute.

[Nicole]

Yeah. And they're like, you know, kids are better with other adults and teachers. And so. Which makes me feel good. I want him to give me his worst because it's my son.

[Nikki]

Well, and they. Unconditional love. Right. We tend to give people our worst, for sure.

[Nicole]

But sometimes I'm, like, blown Away. Like, this morning, I said, because we had a guest at our house. I'm like, don't open because we have this, like, kitchen door, so I can.

[Nikki]

Yeah.

[Nicole]

You know, block off from the rest of the house. I go, don't open it, because Winston will run and wake up our guest. What does he do? Opens it and stares me deep into my eyes, letting my soul know that he is doing exactly what I don't want him to do. And he didn't even do it fast. He did it, what felt like in slow motion, slowly opened the door, staring at me, and then kept walking. And then I go, if you're going to your room, you need to do tiptoes. And he just sprints hard.

[Nikki]

Oh, my gosh.

[Nicole]

I literally was like, what? And Brian. We were FaceTiming with Brian, and he was literally like. I go, why? Like, why did he just want to, like, piss me off?

[Nikki]

Yeah.

[Nicole]

Do you know what I mean?

[Nikki]

Yeah.

[Nicole]

I'm like, I just cooked him eggs, cut up some fresh fruit, put out his vitamins. Like, listening to music. Like, we were having a good morning. Like, why did he pretty much have to give me the bird?

[Nikki]

Yeah.

[Nicole]

And just be like, what are you gonna do now? Oh, if we didn't have a guest in the house, I was like, I would have yelled.

[Nikki]

I feel like. Yeah, right. I feel like 5 is been where Matos really likes to test me.

[Nicole]

Girl. I said, terrible twos. I said, like, no, but I see.

[Nikki]

I never had terrible twos or threes. Five, for me, has been the most where he, like, thinks about what I just said, and then he's like, I'm actually not going to listen. I'm going to test her and see what she does. Like, I. I see it.

[Nicole]

Yeah.

[Nikki]

Even when we go out scooting and I'm teaching them about cars and roads and. And he'll test me, and I'm like, it's just crazy, the things that I'm.

[Nicole]

Like, you knew, like.

[Nikki]

You know what I just said? Like, so someone at school taught him, what the hell?

[Nicole]

Oh, wow.

[Nikki]

Oh, yeah.

[Nicole]

Oh, my God.

[Nikki]

So that's school, right? So when he said it, I got shocked. So he saw my reaction, which.

[Nicole]

That's all they want.

[Nikki]

That's all they want. And I said, you can say what the heck, but you cannot say what the hell. So there'll be moments where he wants my attention, and he'll go, what the hell? And then I'll look, and he'll be sitting there smiling, knowing. And then he'll.

[Nicole]

What?

[Nikki]

He picked up on too. And I'm like, I don't know where, but he'll, you know forever. He would always say, oh, my goodness, Remember? And now I'll say, oh, my God. And I go, no, we aren't. We can't say oh my God. So I was like breaking it down to him yesterday, why we don't say God's name in vain. And I'm like, you know, Mateo, it's kind of like the feeling if you were to be like, oh, my mommy. Oh, see how that kind of feels negative. Oh, so guess what?

[Nicole]

Oh, yeah. Now it's all the time.

[Nikki]

Oh, my mommy. Haha. Oh, my mom. So then I go, oh, my Teo. But now he laughs. He thinks it's so funny. But I'm like, okay, as long as he's saying, oh my mommy, not oh my God.

[Nicole]

Nikki, why is it that every time 4pm comes around, I feel like I'm scrambling to make dinner? It's like I never know what I'm gonna make, what's in my fridge. I feel always lost and confused around dinner time.

[Nikki]

Well, girl, it's because dinner dread is real.

[Nicole]

Oh, my gosh. The idea of cooking a big meal, Overwhelming. And you also don't feel like waiting an hour for delivery.

[Nikki]

Well, hey, let Stouffer save the day. Or night.

[Nicole]

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[Nikki]

From lasagna to Mac and cheese to air fryer entrees, Stouffer's has your favorite meal right when you need it.

[Nicole]

And each frozen meal is made with real ingredients and full flavor.

[Nikki]

Cancel the internal dinner debate and solve dinner dread with Stouffer.

[Nicole]

Shop now at your nearest retailer.

[Bri]

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[Nikki]

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[Bri]

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[Nikki]

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[Nicole]

Oh, yeah.

[Nikki]

So now when he wants my attention, he'll, like, sit, say things. Oh. And then another word he picked up.

[Nicole]

What.

[Nikki]

How does he put him? What is he putting in the sentence? Oh, are you me?

[Nicole]

Oh, damn.

[Nikki]

And I go, what?

[Nicole]

That kind of could be something you've said.

[Nikki]

I actually think so. And I go, you cannot say you. You're me. You say, kidding me?

[Nicole]

Yeah.

[Nikki]

And so he'll moments again when he wants my attention. Are you me? And gives me just a big smile.

[Nicole]

Oh, yeah.

[Nikki]

And I'm like, dude, no, no.

[Nicole]

Well, you know what I did is Buddy thinks the F word is fox. And when he'll say fox, I go. And so he just will be like. And I'll be like. And he thinks he's saying a bad word, but he's saying an animal.

[Nikki]

Right.

[Nicole]

So the joke's on him. Yeah, but I'm like, you know, I. It's weird. You give a big reaction to something, and then they will do it and do it.

[Nikki]

Oh, my gosh.

[Nicole]

But. And even Birdie, it's funny because she'll give Buddy a big reaction, and that's all he needs from bird, too.

[Nikki]

Oh, yeah.

[Nicole]

But like, this morning, someone. Okay, we wake up, we're getting to the. Like, to the kitchen. Yeah. So they both, like, want to lay on the couch.

[Nikki]

Yeah.

[Nicole]

And I was like, okay. But they're right next to each other. Out of the whole room. Elbows, shoulders are touching.

[Nikki]

Yeah.

[Nicole]

Don't touch me. Don't touch me. And I'm like, there's a couch, chairs, your bedrooms. Why are you guys right next to each other if you don't want to touch each other? And then they're like, well, I was here first. Like, you know, whoever. I don't know who was there first.

[Nikki]

Yeah.

[Nicole]

But I'm like, oh, my gosh, can you both get up and go figure, find something to do. So Birdie grabs Zingo, and then Buddy starts crying. I wanted Zingo. And I'm like, you didn't, actually. I asked if you wanted a board game, and you told me no.

[Nikki]

Yeah.

[Nicole]

So then he starts to build with these blocks. Then Birdie wants to build. Then I literally was trying not to lose my mind this morning. All while I have a guest.

[Nikki]

Yeah.

[Nicole]

So, you know, I have to. You know, when we have people around.

[Nikki]

You got to keep your cool, keep the smile.

[Nicole]

You'll be like, kens, kids. Really? Where I want to be like, Buddy, Birdie. But, like, I was, like, watching them, and I'm like. And I. Brian on FaceTime, because, you know, he's out of town right now, and he. We're, like, looking at each other, and I'm like, like, I. Why? Like, why everyone? I told him. I go, you guys are making your lives harder right now. Yeah, you're making it. Why? We don't need this. I'm like, let's just start. We started off good. We were all cuddling each other in the bed. And then now. Let's not go to school with this type of, like, you know, whatever.

[Nikki]

Totally.

[Nicole]

Well, energy.

[Nikki]

That's why I'm one and done. I feel like at this age and chaos to have then on top of it all, the sibling fighting.

[Bri]

It's.

[Nikki]

Yeah. I mean, look, but I would. I would have done it, but I was gonna say, obviously.

[Nicole]

And it's more love than.

[Nikki]

Of course.

[Nicole]

It's just the fighting is hard. I mean, I look at how you and I used to fight.

[Nikki]

No, I agree.

[Nicole]

And now we'd fight with jj.

[Nikki]

Yeah. Like, siblings, they get at it.

[Nicole]

But we loved each other more than the fighting.

[Nikki]

Well, it's like Buddy Mateo, how they are with each other than other kids.

[Nicole]

And Buddy, again, full on brothers at soccer practice was like, where's Mateo? And I'm like, he just. He kind of feels this isn't for him this season. And he goes, what? Mateo? You know, he says Mateo's name.

[Nikki]

Yeah.

[Nicole]

And. But yeah, it's like they want to be next to each other. Exactly.

[Nikki]

Who he and birdie are 100.

[Nicole]

I mean, it's like, wow. But then what's cute is, like, the love. The love when they will play together.

[Nikki]

Honestly, I wish Mateo had a sibling like Mateo would. How he plays. Like, he would love to have someone here with him. Always playing.

[Nicole]

Yeah.

[Nikki]

And, like, doing co parenting and, like, two homes It'd be amazing for him to have a sibling to go back and forth with.

[Nicole]

Yeah.

[Nikki]

It was so funny, because the other day, before he was going to sleep, he goes to me, he goes, my grandparents, they like eggs with so much salt. And I'm like, oh, you don't like eggs with a lot of salt in here?

[Nicole]

Gosh, I do. Yuck.

[Nikki]

No. And I'm like, well, actually, eggs are very good for you. And he's like, but not a lot of salt.

[Nicole]

In the world. I mean, granted, like, I don't want it, like, dunked in there, but I love me. My eggs need the sea salt.

[Nikki]

Yeah. Well, he. It's. It's just what I've been loving is, like, the things kids just say. You know what I mean?

[Nicole]

Cutest stuff.

[Nikki]

It's the cutest stuff.

[Nicole]

Like.

[Nikki]

And like, I was telling you, you know, with Mateo, because he'll all of a sudden be like, did you know avocados come from Mexico and this and that. And he just, like, will say, spit some facts towards me where I'm like, it's my fave.

[Nicole]

Well, like, Buddy, he was in a speech class, and he told the teacher, he was like, I want to be homeschooled. I'm bored. And I was like, okay, well, what'd she say back to you? And I'm thinking, like, I bet she hit him with some good, like, inspiration. He, like, looked at me and he goes, she said I'm the worst. Which we know that's not true.

[Nikki]

Yeah.

[Nicole]

Buddy calls everyone the worst. Like, when he's mad at me, he goes, you're the worst mama ever. And I'm always, like, ignoring him when he says that.

[Nikki]

Yeah.

[Nicole]

And then he'll sometimes will go to Birdie and go, am I the worst brother ever? He just will say this, and he'll call Birdie the worst sister. She won't let him in his room. So him saying that, I knew instantly his teacher did not say that.

[Nikki]

Oh, yeah.

[Nicole]

But it's so funny. Like, Brian and I are just like, this kid.

[Nikki]

Yeah.

[Nicole]

Like, you know, it's so weird how different Birdie and Buddy are.

[Nikki]

Yeah.

[Nicole]

Like, Birdie, but, you know, so, so different. But, you know, I got this letter from Birdie the other night. Oh, he's on my pillow.

[Nikki]

I can only imagine.

[Nicole]

And she was like, dear Mama, I just don't feel like I belong. I feel like if I was homeschooled and with you all day, that would be the way for me to go. Sadly, Birdie, I was like, I took a picture and I sent it to Brian.

[Nikki]

And what did he say?

[Nicole]

Well, you know him. He's like, oh, my gosh. Like, then he starts to think. I go to him, brian, I. I'm going to talk to her. Because I had, you know, that event. So she was already asleep. So she woke up the next morning, and I was like, I got your letter. And I go, bird, what is it? And she's like, oh, gosh, I forgot I wrote that. She's like, I was having a moment. And I'm like, well, what was your moment? And, you know, we ended up talking. And it was because she was like, well, the teacher thought I was the one talking in class, and I was just answering someone's question. I'm like, bird, the way Mommy even wants structure in the house. And sometimes, like, bird, you're not listening to me. I just asked you three times to.

[Bri]

Get ready for school.

[Nicole]

I know you don't like being rushed. You know, I'm like, I still love you. You're still one of the greatest kids. Like, yeah, I. So we, like, talked through it, and then now she's good. She's obsessed with school and all her friends. Like, she's living her best life.

[Nikki]

Oh, she's so.

[Nicole]

Even though. Yeah. They started PE today.

[Nikki]

Oh.

[Nicole]

So at breakfast this morning, she's like, we're starting PE and they said we might go two days a week. That seems like a lot of workout, right? It's like, Bird, she's hilarious.

[Nikki]

I love it.

[Nicole]

Oh, my gosh. It's just like, she. And then I look at Buddy, who, before we get to class, he's the kid who's running, sprinting back and forth. Needs to get all this energy out. I'm always, like, looking at him, like, and, you know, I'm the mom screaming in the parking lot. Like, look both ways. Because he just takes off running. He leaves me all the time.

[Nikki]

That's so funny.

[Nicole]

I know. And then sometimes I'm like, buddy, I have your lunch, your water bottle.

[Nikki]

That's so cute.

[Nicole]

Yeah. Which I'd rather have that than, like, you know, oh, my gosh. Not wanting to go into class, but.

[Nikki]

Oh, for sure. You know, what I really love with Mateo is he just loves being outside so much. Like, we literally spend our evenings, which has increased, though here I was, like, rarely drinking, but now I'm finding myself having a glass of wine, like, every other night, because the evenings are so gorgeous here. And Mateo loves to be out there till almost the sun goes down. So I get my glass of wine, we're out There we're scooting, we're going to the park, we're playing. We're just out there and like to have a glass of wine when the weather gets a little chilly. I told you. Like, there's that Pinot Noir that I found that I really was enjoying. So I've been like sitting, sipping that. And it's been one of the first ones where I. It's on day three and I could still get a glass out of it. And it doesn't taste vinegary. Yeah. So one bottle I get. I. And I only do a glass because it's really all I'm in the mood for.

[Nicole]

Right.

[Nikki]

But I just. I love, love that about him. And we've been. And he's. And I know in my head I gotta get all that energy out before we go to bed, but it's been really cute too, because in med, he will also make sure, like, mommy, you need to keep holding me. Mommy, I need you closer on my side. It's really cute because the past few weeks he's been very ultra. I mean, Matteo already. We know mama's boy. But ultra cuddly, ultra loving. Like, all the things I love that. I know. Me too. It's been really cute, but I've just really have been enjoying. Like, I just love our evenings and our mornings. And then it's so nice when you get like the good feedback from school and.

[Nicole]

Oh, it's so good.

[Nikki]

It's just such a great. It's been just such a great time of year. It's back to school, all of it. It's been really, really good. So. Right.

[Nicole]

And the one thing I do realize, boys love their mama's heart. I mean, every morning, love their mom. I wake up to Buddy coming in, cuddles me. He gives me all these kisses on my face. And this is when I get. You're the greatest mama ever. Ever. All in the morning, just.

[Nikki]

Oh, the morning are just so cute. Well, the girl who does my facials, because she has a son too. So she was just like, just going off on like, how similar and just we're like. Boys love their mommy's heart. You know what, though? He did the other night and he thought it was so funny. I was grabbing his pajamas and I turned around and we both. I. I took a shower. He took a bath. You know how, like, we'll do that? Last night I made him take a shower with me because let him play outside too late. And I said, if you don't get in by a certain time, I've told you this. You don't get to take a long bath. You have to take a shower. We still have to make bedtime. So it was a few nights ago. I'm, like, going to grab his pajamas, and I turn and he did a double titty twister. Oh, my God.

[Nicole]

Brain.

[Nikki]

Oh, the shock. The feeling that went through my body. And I was like, mateo, no. And I didn't want to make him upset before bed. I go, baby, you have to understand that is so sensitive for mommy. Mommy's boobies are different than yours. But you do not twist her nipples like that. They're still tender for how hard he did it.

[Nicole]

Yeah, you needed to give, like, that bionic look.

[Nikki]

But why do they like, yeah, the boy? Oh, I couldn't. I mean, I was so shocked. But isn't it funny how they're always still so attached to, like, the boobies, the butt, the like.

[Nicole]

I mean, I'll be cooking dinner, and buddy just runs up and puts his nose in my butt, and I'm always like, hey, out of there. And then he laughs and runs away. And I'm like, what in the world? Yeah, yeah. You always see Brian across room shaking his head. I'm like, you probably did it to your mom. And he's like, I doubt it.

[Nikki]

Like, I'm sure I see boys, like, when I see reals on Instagram and everyone of being with the boy's mom, it's all the same. By the way, how funny was that meme I sent you where it says, if men tell you they're ugly, they're haters. If women tell you they're ugly, they're jealous. If a kid tells you you're ugly, you're ugly.

[Nicole]

Oh, my God, that was so funny.

[Nikki]

I was like, it's so true. Why are kids so honest? When mat hits me with, like, things, I'm like, damn. But he's right because, like, he's just being honest.

[Nicole]

Oh, my gosh. I. I feel like you and I DM each other a lot on the parenting stuff.

[Nikki]

Like, oh, some are like, just crack me up.

[Nicole]

Crack me up. I mean, and it's like a. Kind of nice to know. Like, oh, I'm not the only one.

[Nikki]

100.

[Nicole]

Do you know what I mean? Like, the one where the. It's the second child, but the two boys are sitting at the table, and now the older boy kind of like, jerked the table into the little one and he, like, cries, but then he, like, all sudden smacks the table and then turns kind of. They have him turn into the hedgehog. And then he like. And like takes the older kid out. But I was, that's Buddy. Like, he goes from zero to a thousand. And like, we've been working on his anger issues and he's actually, Brian and I have been impressed and I'll say. And I really actually want to bring her on the podcast. But you know, Brian and I've been.

[Nikki]

Kind of talked about this.

[Nicole]

Yeah. Dr. Becky, we've been using her good inside app. I've been really loving it. It's great, the stuff. But I will say, like, Buddy's anger issues, like, he's been using it. Now he's a little bit of a poor sportsman because he doesn't like losing. So he'll start crying.

[Nikki]

Yeah.

[Nicole]

If he loses. And so we've been working on that. But what really helped is watching when he watches football, like actually and sees these grown men now, the spitting thing, I didn't really like Buddy scene. You know, but you know, all the other stuff. And I'm like, look at Bud. Like it's part of the game. And they know they got next week to go out there and do things different, you know, and he's getting that. So it's like I'm actually, I told Brian, I'm like, I kind of want him to watch more sports and see these athletes, like giving it their all. They don't know the outcome of the game. And some are going to win, some are going to lose. And what they do after, not saying every pro athlete gives maybe the best attitude after, but there's a lot that do.

[Nikki]

Yeah.

[Nicole]

So. And Buddy, like, you know, he sit there and his eyes are glued to the tv so he's going to take all that in. Oh, for when he's watching these guys.

[Bri]

I have so many conversations with my husband where we should take the kids. I mean, I feel like traveling with your kids, they really learn history. They get to see what different cultures look like, different cities, towns, mountains, lakes. Traveling is one of the greatest gifts you can really give your kids. And I'm already looking to see what we should do over winter break. I mean, I know Brian thinks I'm crazy, but that's the fun thing about Airbnb. You can make your wish list. I can start to look at cabins. I can start to see maybe do we want to go somewhere warm and get out of the cold? And there's nothing better when you get a house that you can make warm home cooked meals and sit by a fireplace. And it's actually the perfect time for me to Host my place on Airbnb. I mean, hosting your home on Airbnb is such a smart way to make a little extra income. You can put it towards future travel, home improvement, or that fun splurge item you've been eyeing. And I've done the math. The money that I can make hosting puts my family from coach to business class. And it lets us do a couple fun extra activities while we're away. Finding a little piece of home while you travel always makes a trip special. Your home could be that for someone else. Your home might be worth more than you think. Find out how [e-mail] SL host Nikki Life can get really busy.

[Nikki]

Really busy. I mean, I would say it's been busy for all of us. I know. And sometimes we just need to take.

[Bri]

A breather, sit down, and ask ourselves one very important question.

[Nikki]

What's that, Bri?

[Bri]

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[Nikki]

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[Bri]

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[Nikki]

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[Bri]

I mean, we love making s' mores in my family. So every time I bust out a Hershey bar, my kids start screaming with excitement because they know it's about to be s' more time. So for all of you, shop for Hershey's milk chocolate now at a store.

[Nikki]

Near you found wherever candy is sold. You know, I was laughing. Sorry. I. Your girl's only three hours of sleep. It's. I could not sleep last night.

[Nicole]

That's awful.

[Nikki]

Oh, just laid there. I would go check my phone. I'm like, oh, it's been two hours. It's been three. I'm like, what is going on? Right? I'd. But so I feel like, you know, my throat gets kind of raspy. So Mateo, you know, reheard all the K pop songs.

[Nicole]

Yeah.

[Nikki]

Demon Hunters. What do you think was his favorite?

[Nicole]

Soda pop.

[Nikki]

No. He's so mean. Golden.

[Nicole]

Golden.

[Nikki]

When Mateo listens to things and how he feels things, I'm like, that is my son. Like, I. I knew golden was going to be his favorite, his mommy's, but not. He didn't even know it was my favorite. But how he gets into things, I'm always like. You know, when you just see those things, for sure, it just.

[Nicole]

Oh, my gosh. Yeah.

[Nikki]

I don't know why. When you're talking about Buddy right now, that just reminded me of that so much.

[Nicole]

Yeah, well, I mean, they are. They are apples that fall off our tree. So I look at Buddy and I see a lot of me in him. Birdie. I see a crazy amount of Brian.

[Nikki]

I mean, it's wild.

[Nicole]

You know, like this issue we are having with her right now is she's waking up in the middle of night and reading books.

[Nikki]

Oh, yeah, you were telling me that's crazy.

[Nicole]

And she wants to. All sudden, it's almost 8 o', clock, and I'm like, like, going in there, and I'm like, bird. And I'm like, did you wake up and read? And she's like, I did, and I finished the book. And she'll tell me all about it. And they're chapter books. And I'm like, I don't want to take books out of her room.

[Nikki]

No.

[Nicole]

But at the same time, I'm like, bird, instead of turning on your light and reading, like, you need to figure out a way to get back to sleep. And she's like, but reading helps me get. Get back to sleep. And in her defense, that's true. But that's Brian. Like, Brian will go out to the living room if he can't sleep, and he'll turn on old school wrestling or he'll read a book to get back to sleep. And so I was like, brian, why is it everything Birdie does so you. He's like. So he even says it trips him out.

[Nikki]

Yeah.

[Nicole]

And then we go, what? And Buddy. And I'm like, all right, not all Buddy is Brimo. I mean, you guys, he was like, we're listening to this song in the car, and it's like, got. What song was it? I don't. I can't remember. One of these, like, fun songs. He, like, rips off his shirt and chucks it to the front. And I was.

[Nikki]

By the way, I was on the Phone with you. And you're like, don't take off your shirt. Don't take your shirt, Buddy, why did you take off your shirt? And you hear Birdie, his shirt's off.

[Nicole]

Yeah.

[Nikki]

Like, so I'm thinking in my head, like, how is his shirt off?

[Nicole]

Yeah. Oh, yeah. And just like, woohoo. And like wild. And I'm like, and Brian's the womb, by the way. Since the womb. Because he was wild in my womb. But then I go, I'm so. I'm explaining to Brian about Buddy. I can't remember what song it was. So then Brian, we're FaceTiming, and I'm like, yeah, and I'm talking about the song. So I play the song. What does he do? Jumps up in the air, like, pretty much takes a back bump on the couch. Whips off his shorts and undies, chucks them at me. And then he's like bouncing on the couch. And Brian is like, that's you. Like that. I go, I've never even done that. He's like, that is you. Like your son is you.

[Nikki]

I love it.

[Nicole]

And I was like, thinking to myself, I'm going to be terrified when he's in high school, in college.

[Nikki]

Oh my gosh. Well, Mateo's going to be hanging out with him, so that terrifies me.

[Nicole]

Hopefully Mateo calms him.

[Nikki]

But yeah, like my whole life hating, which grateful made me be extra responsible, but because I had to watch out for you.

[Nicole]

Oh my God.

[Nikki]

Maybe it will be a good thing. Maybe it'll. It will keep Mateo that way. He'll have to be taking care of Buddy.

[Nicole]

Yeah.

[Nikki]

Geez.

[Nicole]

Oh my gosh.

[Nikki]

No.

[Nicole]

I'm gonna really have to educate him on a lot.

[Nikki]

Yeah, it's so funny too, because I think yesterday too, how a few people were like, when they talked to Mateo, like, so, bud, what's going on? And he's like, what? Because they'll just do natural, like calm Buddy or Bud, like to come. And he gets so confused and he's like, I'm Teo. And they're like, huh? And then I'm like, oh, his kids cousin's name Buddy.

[Nicole]

Yeah, so you know, that happens in soccer too. And I really had this moment and I'm not lying. And I was standing there and I was like, was it a mistake? We named our son Buddy? And like, I did it for Brian, if everyone wants to know. I really wanted his name to be Forest. And Silo. I had down too. I did this for Brian. But I did have this, like, come to Jesus moment on the soccer field I'm supposed to be coaching. And people are probably like, is she looking awful? The distance. I'm sure I was. And I'm like, was it? But now you look at my son, he looks like a Buddy.

[Nikki]

He looks like a Buddy.

[Nicole]

And he's gonna be probably.

[Nikki]

He is not a forest at all.

[Nicole]

Which he would be compared to force gun all the time. I know. I didn't think about that.

[Nikki]

Yeah, well, I just.

[Nicole]

Why do you have to ruin everything like that? Sounds cute. You know, girl the force gum. Good for him.

[Nikki]

I mean, he overcame forest is almost cuter now for a girl than a boy, huh?

[Nicole]

I don't know really, But I was just like thinking to myself, like, damn, Brian, like, did we do a disservice to our son? Well, naming him Buddy.

[Nikki]

No, I. I like it because it's Brian's dad.

[Bri]

It's for sure.

[Nicole]

I mean, definitely Buddy is a Buddy. He does look like he's either Buddy.

[Nikki]

Or he's a Dennis. Well, Dennis the Menace.

[Nicole]

He is Dennis the menace. Yeah. 100.

[Nikki]

So, Bri, I feel like. Because, you know, Buddy gave us that really good interruption the other night, you know, constantly reminding us and telling us how I am just so much more smarter than you.

[Nicole]

It was just wild that he even.

[Nikki]

Thinks that, you know, that I just have this incredible intelligence.

[Nicole]

Buddy, Buddy, quick question.

[Bri]

Who's smarter, Dodo or Mama?

[Nicole]

Dodo.

[Bri]

Why is Dodo smarter?

[Nicole]

Because she knows everything.

[Nikki]

No.

[Nicole]

What makes you think that? That everyone has love. No, everyone does have love.

[Nikki]

I thought we could play game. It's called juice box geniuses. Because obviously we should, you know, bring it to Buddy's level in a way. So. Because it's back to school time. And Buddy and Mateo, obviously.

[Nicole]

Wow.

[Nikki]

Kindergarten this year, which is crazy wild.

[Nicole]

Birdie's a third grader.

[Nikki]

This is the last year. Tell all your kids are numbers. Mateo's numbers. It's numbers forever. First, second, all the way up until.

[Nicole]

I mean, it goes fast.

[Nikki]

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[Nicole]

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[Nikki]

So you know, we've, I thought, we thought, we all thought this would be really fun to put this to the test. So we're gonna play a game everyone called Juice Box Geniuses. Which it's a game where we answer kindergarten level questions to see who's the real brainiac of this Beautiful Bella Bonita family.

[Nicole]

You know, I felt like I used to whoop your butt in Bella Brains, but. All right, let's play.

[Nikki]

You did not whip my butt ever in Bella Brains.

[Nicole]

I feel like you definitely. I feel like more opus than me buying you.

[Nikki]

No way, girl. I don't know.

[Nicole]

All right, all right, Juice box. Genius. Let's see.

[Game Host]

Just remember to wait until I read the whole sentence before shouting out your answers.

[Nicole]

So don't cheat.

[Game Host]

Nicole, first question. What do caterpillars turn into butterflies? I think that was a tie. It's like you guys are twins or something.

[Nicole]

And we, like, looked at each other. Like we maybe had to say it as twins. Yeah. Gosh. Our life.

[Game Host]

What are the three primary colors?

[Nikki]

Red, blue and yellow.

[Game Host]

All right, point for Nikki. What country is directly north of the U.S. canada. Oh, I think Bri got that one. What letter comes after K?

[Nicole]

J.

[Game Host]

Okay, another tie. How many sides does a triangle have?

[Nicole]

Three.

[Game Host]

That was really close. I think I'm gonna say that one was a tie. Next question. How many legs does a spider have?

[Nikki]

Six.

[Bri]

Eight.

[Nicole]

Eight.

[Nikki]

But I think when I said it again, I feel like I said eight.

[Nicole]

No, you didn't.

[Nikki]

And I feel like Canada was a tie. But fine.

[Game Host]

Okay, Brie, got that one.

[Nicole]

Look at you, cheating.

[Game Host]

If you had two quarters.

[Nicole]

Wait, what was that?

[Game Host]

You had two quarters. How much money?

[Nikki]

50. 50. I feel like it's cheating.

[Nicole]

50 cents.

[Nikki]

Because you asked again when I didn't even hear it.

[Game Host]

Okay, Brie, got that one. What sound does the letter S make? Okay, another. What is the shape of a ball?

[Nikki]

Circle.

[Game Host]

No, not quite. Something else.

[Nikki]

A spear? No.

[Nicole]

Is that what they call it?

[Game Host]

That's correct.

[Nicole]

Rotan.

[Game Host]

Yes, it is.

[Nikki]

Fear. A spear. Yes.

[Nicole]

Dang. Oh, that makes sense. Fear. And the only reason why I say that is because Vegas.

[Nikki]

Oh, gosh.

[Game Host]

Who was the first U. S. President?

[Nikki]

What? George Washington.

[Game Host]

All right, Nikki got that one. What shape is a stop sign?

[Nicole]

Octagon.

[Nikki]

I said it first.

[Game Host]

Nikki got that one first. How many hours are in a day?

[Nicole]

20, 24. Me.

[Game Host]

Okay, Brie got that one.

[Nikki]

Yeah, because your computer made.

[Nicole]

No, I can't even look at you in your face because I feel like I let you speak before me. I have to, like, look off in the distance.

[Game Host]

What color do you get when you mix red and yellow?

[Nicole]

Orange. No, green. No, orange.

[Nikki]

Orange.

[Nicole]

No, orange. Orange. And, yeah.

[Nikki]

Red and yellow. When you're saying green.

[Nicole]

Yellow. Purple. No, I'm kidding. That's blue and green. No, blue and red.

[Game Host]

Okay, gonna give that one to Nikki. What's the fastest land animal.

[Nicole]

Cheetah.

[Nikki]

Lion.

[Game Host]

It is a cheetah, but we kind.

[Nikki]

Of said G at the same time.

[Nicole]

Oh, you said chi lion.

[Nikki]

No, I did say tally up the score.

[Game Host]

Of course it's a tie.

[Nicole]

Oh, my gosh. Do you. Do we have a tiebreaker?

[Nikki]

Question only. No, we keep it at a tie. Technically, I think I won, but. No, you didn't give it a tie. You the only reason why. This is why I'm gonna say I won.

[Nicole]

So we know Buddy takes after his auntie when it comes to not accepting.

[Nikki]

The only reason I did say Canada and 50 Cent when it was the first president. You looked like a deer and had lights.

[Nicole]

I knew George Washington. This is what happens is sometimes when you talk, I just don't fight you on it.

[Nikki]

So, okay, let's just keep it a tie.

[Nicole]

So fox off.

[Nikki]

Free.

[Nicole]

Actually, inspiration information. Yeah. But really quick before I get into inspiration. Yeah. Because Nicole and I. Super competitive.

[Nikki]

Well, no, me more so.

[Nicole]

Yeah. Well, anyone out there who has a sibling probably knows. Do you FaceTime your sibling? Like, 100 times a day we do. And sometimes Nicole and I will just, like, sit on FaceTime as we're, like, chopping dinner. I don't know. We're those weird twins. Buddy was sitting there.

[Nikki]

I bet you there's so many sisters, moms, and daughters that do it.

[Nicole]

Yeah. So, like, we're on FaceTime, but at this point, we're not chatting because we're kind of maybe chopping up vegetables for dinner. And Buddy, what did Buddy say?

[Nikki]

Dodo, why are you not talking to Mommy? Dodo, Ask her something. Why aren't you talking?

[Nicole]

And he's, like, coloring, and he kept looking, and it's so funny.

[Nikki]

Cuz then I started laughing.

[Nicole]

I go, he's so weirded out that we're on FaceTime, not saying a word to each other.

[Nikki]

And how he said it was so.

[Nicole]

Like, like, he's like. Not like a question.

[Nikki]

It was like, dodo.

[Nicole]

Like, why aren't you talking? Like, say something to Mommy. Like, yeah, confused. Because he could still see them. FaceTime was on. Cracks me up. But you know what? That's what it is like to have a.

[Nikki]

That's right.

[Nicole]

Okay. I thought for today's inspiration affirmation, we, you know, we're talking about going back to school, and I thought, we got to take it back to Christopher.

[Nikki]

Also, you said rotund. Let's just take that back. Okay. And you didn't know spirit. So when we, like, think about things for.

[Nicole]

Dude, you're still, like, freaking out like, you should be a winner or something. Holy moly.

[Nikki]

Okay, so now it hit me with some inspo so I could get out my competitive nature.

[Nicole]

Yeah, how about. That'd be great. Now we know where Buddy gets it. I was telling Nicole the way he sprints back on defense with his tongue out and, like, he doesn't want anyone to score a goal, and, like, he looks so much like Nicole when he does it. I was like, oh, my gosh, he's going to be great at defense.

[Nikki]

I love it. That's good. I'll teach him some things.

[Nicole]

Let's take it back to Christopher Robin, Winnie the Pooh. And I love this quote, actually.

[Nikki]

Isn't it Robbins with an S?

[Nicole]

No.

[Nikki]

Okay.

[Nicole]

But Brian and I actually had this quote on our wedding invitations, and so I've always been obsessed with this quote, but you are braver than you believe, stronger than you seem, and smarter than you think. And I think for all of our kids that are back in school and have those down moments where they're like, you know, Birdie, I get it a lot from. But where they're like, they feel like they're not accepted. School's too hard. Am I good enough? You know, it's this quote. You are braver than you believe, stronger than you seem, and smarter than you think will really help your kids.

[Nikki]

Yeah.

[Nicole]

I mean, it helps me in life.

[Nikki]

Well, and I love it because it's totally. Even though it's a quote, it's actually an incredible affirmation. Quite a few affirmations put together. And I. What. What's cute is I do affirmations with Mateo. So I always say, mateo, repeat after me. We have three I believe in myself. And he'll say it, even though at times he's a little retired. He'll go, I poo pooed myself.

[Nicole]

Oh, that's Buddy.

[Nikki]

Oh, yeah. And then I can do hard things. And then. Oh, what's the third one? Is something about I. I love myself. There's something. I can't think of the third one right now, but the other day. The other day at pickup, his teacher told me. She was. Oh, I have to tell you what Mateo did today. So he was working on his stuff, and he was doing really well, and he did such a great job on his work today. And all of a sudden, he gets up, he walks over to the mirror, and he goes, you did so good. I am so proud of you. And he's giving himself affirmations in the mirror. And she said it made her heart melt, but it made her Want to be like, oh, my goodness, I want to do this with all the kids. More like how Mateo did that and built himself up and was so proud of himself for the work he completed. But I. I feel like that comes a lot of the affirmations I do with him in the house where I make him. We either majority of the time it's in the bathtub, but then I'll also have him go do it in the mirror, and he'll be looking and, like, I can do hard things and, like, all the things. But I think, like, I love that quote. And I think it's so important with their kids that we really give them affirmations. Even at three, whenever they can talk, like, pump them up, make them feel good. Also, I am kind. I am loving. I love all things, like, fill them up with kindness and love, because in, you know, all those things, too, that make them a really good person. So not even. Not only a person that gives them confidence and all those things, the tools they need to be an incredible person. But can you imagine starting now and filling your children up with kindness, with I love others and all that kind of stuff, that. It starts from us.

[Nicole]

It starts from us. You know, a lot that's been going on in the last couple weeks, you know, not only in America and the world. I think the most important thing is to love, like, to show kindness, you know, I think so many times people, you know, want to you to stand up and get angry and fight and all these things. It's like, no, what we need more than ever right now is to love each other, to show kindness to each other, to respect each other, all the things we were taught in kindergarten, all the things that our grandparents, our parents, and even our teachers wanted from us as adults. We got to show that today. And so. And my thoughts and prayers are with so much that has been the violence that has been going on in America and throughout the world. It's like every day when I say my prayers at night, I always pray for world peace. And I think to myself, if I had any superpower in the world, it wouldn't be to fly, be invisible, you know, any of those things, I would do anything to be able to give this planet peace. Oh, world peace. And just love. Love going through every single human.

[Nikki]

Yeah. If I had, honestly, one wish, and how much you would want to use a wish on yourself, but world peace, in a heartbeat, I. I wish we could all live as one together and peace and happiness, you know, especially for our children and the generations to come and the people who take their last breaths here. I wish we could all just see the light and see the beauty that surrounds us and how much more beautiful it is if we all just can learn to live in kindness, love and peace. We don't have to agree with opinions or beliefs, but if we can get to a place where that's okay, I could still know that I can love thy neighbor and for sure, you know, understand what are what they're going through. And that's another thing. I wish we could really help the people that are in need mentally. And I feel like we really have to make that a focus worldwide. Well everyone, thank you so much for an incredible episode. I hope everyone has a great back to school year that this year 2025, 2026 is amazing. And again, make sure to look for videos on the Nikki and Bri shows, IG page, Tick Tock, Facebook and of course Nikki and Brisio is Also in Sirius XM Stars 109 and call us at 833-GARCIA see it too. Hope everyone has a great week. All right, see y' all later.

[Nicole]

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[Bri]

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[Nicole]

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