In this episode, Bruce Feiler explores why rituals have been essential to human life for thousands of years—and why they're more important than ever in today's rapidly changing world. Drawing from his new book A Time to Gather, Bruce explains how meaningful rituals can help us navigate grief, celebrate milestones, strengthen relationships, and create a greater sense of connection during life's biggest transitions. Along the way, he and Eric share personal stories of loss, family, and the healing power of gathering with intention.

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Key Takeaways:

Why humans instinctively create rituals during times of change
How personalized rituals are replacing traditional ceremonies
Bruce's five essential life rituals for today's nonlinear lives
How rituals help us process grief and strengthen relationships
The surprising role of the "group keeper" as a peacemaker
A simple framework for creating meaningful rituals of your own

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If you enjoyed this conversation with Bruce Feiler, check out these other episodes:

How to Harness the Power of Rituals with Michael Norton

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