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The Pace of Grace with Kim Avery
Hosted by Kim Avery · EN
For those who are weary of trying harder and working longer, always leveling up and then doubling down, digging in and then tapping out, this is your set-aside space where we're learning to live and work at the pace of grace.
With practical tools and simple steps, The Pace of Grace is here to help you make the most important part of your life, permeate all of your life.
Your host is Kim Avery, a counselor, coach, spiritual director, and the author of The Prayer Powered Entrepreneur: 31 Days to Building Your Business with Less Stress and More Joy.
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Encore: The Surprise of Slow Productivity
1w ago00:18:32Tap to summarizeWhat if doing less could actually lead to more—more peace, more fruitfulness, more joy? In a world that celebrates hustle, hurry, and high output, slowing down can feel like falling behind. But what if it's actually the path to deep transformation and lasting impact? In this episode, I share the story of a year that felt like a detour but became one of the most fruitful seasons of my life. Along the way, we'll explore surprising research, spiritual truths, and biblical rhythms that invite us to trade burnout for abiding. You'll discover: Why a small town in Pennsylvania held the secret to longer life (and what it has to do with your business) The three principles of Slow Productivity from Cal Newport's latest book What Jesus modeled about doing less—but doing it with purpose and power How my "least productive year" led to the most meaningful work I've ever done Practical reflection questions to help you step off the hamster wheel and into the pace of grace Whether you're in ministry, business, or simply navigating life's demands, this episode offers encouragement and a new vision for what real productivity can look like—slower, deeper, and sweeter. *** 💡Today's Big Idea: The best work takes time—and that's by design ⚡️Today's Small Step: Identify one area where God is inviting you to slow down and lean in. *** LINKS + RESOURCES FROM THIS EPISODE: 📘 The Prayer Powered Entrepreneur 📕 Cal Newport's book Slow Productivity 🌿The Pace of Grace Community 🌿 Slow down. Breathe deep. Grow in grace. Join a community of like-minded believers who are committed to living and working at God's pace—without the hustle, hurry, or overwhelm. Inside, you'll find encouragement, practical tools, and a sacred space to pause, reflect, and realign with what matters most. ✨ Monthly live gatherings ✨ Prayer, support, and connection ✨ Simple practices to nurture your soul No long-term commitment—just a gentle invitation to step into a rhythm of grace. Join today for only $10/month! [www.paceofgrace.com/community] 👍 Follow, rate, and review The Pace of Grace Podcast on Apple or Spotify *** LET'S CONNECT: Find me on Facebook @kavery Find me on Instagram @CoachKimAvery
Transcribe →Encore: What if I Made This Easy?
2w ago00:16:38Tap to summarizeHave you ever felt like life is a never-ending uphill battle, where every task feels like scaling Mount Everest? You're not alone. Recently, I found myself in that very place—both literally and metaphorically—during a sweltering summer hike. In my determination to power through, I ignored the quiet nudge to take it slow and enjoy the journey. The result? A rather embarrassing episode that left me lying flat in the middle of the street, wondering why I hadn't just made it easier on myself. It got me thinking: What if we approached life's challenges with grace instead of grit? What if we made room for rest, let go of the pressure to always achieve more, and listened to that gentle voice asking, "What if you made this easy?" God's grace isn't about doing all the things perfectly. It isn't even about doing all the things; it's about knowing when to give ourselves the space to breathe and take the next step with intention. There's wisdom in that, and today, I'm diving into how we can shift our mindset from striving to thriving by making things easier—not harder. Tune in to discover how to: Tackle one major change at a time to avoid overwhelm. Break big goals into smaller, manageable steps. Focus on progress over perfection. Maintain a sustainable pace for long-term success. Schedule rest and reflection to refresh your spirit. *** 💡Today's Big Idea: When you can, make it easy. ⚡️Today's Small Step: Choose one area of your life, and find one way to make it easy or at least easier. *** LINKS + RESOURCES FROM THIS EPISODE: The Pace of Grace Community: Learn more or join for only $10 a month. No long-term commitment. Follow, rate, and review The Pace of Grace on Apple or Spotify *** LET'S CONNECT: Find me on Facebook @kavery Find me on Instagram @CoachKimAvery
Transcribe →Encore: The Myth of Being Behind: God's Greater Grace
3w ago00:16:30Tap to summarizeIt's a terrible feeling—that sense that you're falling behind while everyone else is moving forward. A friend lands their dream job while you're still figuring things out. Someone gets married while you're still waiting for a date. A colleague expands their reach while you feel like you're standing still. The longer the delay, the louder the inner voice whispers, "You should be further along by now." And with that comes the restlessness, the self-doubt, the temptation to force something just to feel like you're making progress. But what if that feeling is lying to you? What if God's pace for your life is not only different—but better? By listening, you'll: ✔ Identify the "I'm behind" mindset and how it sneaks into your thinking. ✔ Recognize the telltale signs—impatience, envy, striving, or self-doubt—that come with it. ✔ Learn to release self-imposed deadlines and false comparisons. ✔ Discover how delays can be signs of God's greater grace. ✔ Find courage to trust God's pace—even when it doesn't make sense. ✔ Learn to rest in His perfect plan, knowing you are never behind. If you've ever felt stuck in the waiting room of life, wondering if God has forgotten you, this episode will remind you of a deeper truth: You are not behind. God is always on time. *** 💡Today's Big Idea: You are not behind. God is always on time. ⚡️Today's Small Step: Make this into a breath prayer, and practice it throughout each day, so it becomes an anchor place and pace you can return to again and again. Breathe in: I am not behind. Breathe out: God is always on time. *** LINKS + RESOURCES FROM THIS EPISODE: 🎧 God's Greater Grace Podcast Series: Invitation to God's Greater Grace, The Pitfalls of People Pleasing , When Hurry Hurts 🌿The Pace of Grace Community 🌿 Slow down. Breathe deep. Grow in grace. Join a community of like-minded believers who are committed to living and working at God's pace—without the hustle, hurry, or overwhelm. Inside, you'll find encouragement, practical tools, and a sacred space to pause, reflect, and realign with what matters most. ✨ Monthly live gatherings ✨ Prayer, support, and connection ✨ Simple practices to nurture your soul No long-term commitment—just a gentle invitation to step into a rhythm of grace. Join today for only $10/month! [www.paceofgrace.com/community] 👍 Follow, rate, and review The Pace of Grace Podcast on Apple or Spotify *** LET'S CONNECT: Find me on Facebook @kavery Find me on Instagram @CoachKimAvery
Transcribe →Encore: When Hurry Hurts: God's Greater Grace
Jul 1400:14:34Tap to summarizeWhy are we always in such a hurry? It's a question that stopped me in my tracks one day when my daughter asked, "Why?" in response to my go-to phrase, "Hurry up!" Why, indeed? What is all this rushing really costing us? In this episode, we'll explore the hidden toll hurry takes on our lives, relationships, and connection with God—and how we can trade hurry for His pace of grace. You'll discover: How hurry undermines love in our relationships. Five practical steps to recognize, release, and replace hurry with trust. The surprising freedom and joy that come when we let God set the pace. Take a deep breath, slow down, and join us for a fresh perspective on living life differently. Your soul—and your relationships—will thank you. *** 💡Today's Big Idea: Hurry and love don't make a good pair. And love is always the goal. ⚡️Today's Small Step: Take a moment to ask God to show you one way you're trying to solve your problems through hurry. Then, ask Him for His greater grace to slow down and trust Him instead. *** LINKS + RESOURCES FROM THIS EPISODE: The Pace of Grace Community: Learn more or join for only $10 a month. No long-term commitment. Follow, rate, and review The Pace of Grace on Apple or Spotify *** LET'S CONNECT: Find me on Facebook @kavery Find me on Instagram @CoachKimAvery
Transcribe →Encore: Loving the Actual Life You Live
Jul 700:17:51Tap to summarizeAt times, our days can blur together and feel far from the grand dreams we once had. But what if this daily grind—the small, ordinary moments—is exactly where God is at work? What if God is using these moments to shape our hearts and lives in ways we can't yet see? Tune in to discover: How God is at work in your ordinary, daily life. The small, consistent steps that can create lasting impact. Encouragement that heart and faithfulness matter more than big achievements. How surrender to God's plan leads to greater purpose than striving for fame. 💡Today's Big Idea: Outcomes are in God's hands, so I'm free to love the actual life I live. ⚡️Today's Small Step: Live with freedom and joy today no matter how ordinary it may seem. *** LINKS + RESOURCES FROM THIS EPISODE: The Pace of Grace Community: Learn more or join for only $10 a month. No long-term commitment. Follow, rate, and review The Pace of Grace on Apple or Spotify *** LET'S CONNECT: Find me on Facebook @kavery Find men Instagram @CoachKimAvery
Transcribe →I'm Empty, But Everyone Needs Me
Jun 900:17:28Tap to summarizeWhat do you do when you're running on empty, but everyone still needs something from you? This episode explores the quiet tension of being deeply needed and deeply depleted. When you've carried too much for too long, slowing down can feel risky, even irresponsible. But staying depleted has a cost, too, and eventually what looks like faithfulness on the outside begins to erode you from within. This episode is a gentle invitation to stop measuring love by how much you can endure and begin discerning what is actually yours to carry. Because God does not just love the people you serve. He loves you, too. In this episode: Why slowing down can feel risky The hidden cost of staying depleted How to discern what is yours to carry Why stepping back may be an act of trust 💡Today's Big Idea: God doesn't just love the people you serve, He loves you. ⚡️Today's Small Step: Don't rush past this moment. Pause. Write it down. Tell a friend… and then be willing to do whatever God tells you to do. **** LINKS + RESOURCES FROM THIS EPISODE: 🌿The Pace of Grace Community 🌿 Slow down. Breathe deep. Grow in grace. Join a community of like-minded believers who are committed to living and working at God's pace—without the hustle, hurry, or overwhelm. Inside, you'll find encouragement, practical tools, and a sacred space to pause, reflect, and realign with what matters most. ✨ Monthly live gatherings ✨ Prayer, support, and connection ✨ Simple practices to nurture your soul ✨ Sacred Rhythms Study in 2026 No long-term commitment—just a gentle invitation to step into a rhythm of grace. Join today for only $10/month! [www.paceofgrace.com/community] **** LET'S CONNECT: Find me on Facebook@kavery Find me on Instagram @CoachKimAvery
Transcribe →The Speed of Grace
Jun 200:16:58Tap to summarizeWhat if grace has more than one speed? This episode explores the different rhythms of life with God and the grace available for each one. Some seasons ask us to sprint with focus and energy. Some bring us to a full stop. Others move slowly through uncertainty, while many simply ask us to keep showing up with steady faithfulness. The pace may change, but God's grace remains. In this episode: The four different speeds of grace How to discern the pace God is inviting you into Why faithfulness is not measured by speed The grace available for every season 💡Today's Big Idea: The pace may change, but God's grace remains. ⚡️Today's Small Step: Ask God one simple question: What pace are you inviting me into during this season? **** LINKS + RESOURCES FROM THIS EPISODE: ☀️ Practice the Presence of God—50+ Ways to Enjoy God All Day ☀️ If you would like some ideas for ways to live within your God-given limits and still enjoy His presence all day long, download your free guide, Practice the Presence of God—50+ Ways to Enjoy God All Day. It's full of gentle, grace-paced ideas to help you stay connected with Him right in the middle of real life. www.paceofgrace.com/free **** LET'S CONNECT: Find me on Facebook @kavery Find me on Instagram @CoachKimAvery
Transcribe →When Good Things Get Heavy
May 2600:14:18Tap to summarizeWhat if the very strengths that make you effective are also the ones quietly wearing you out? This episode explores how good gifts can become heavy when responsibility turns into over-functioning, discernment into overthinking, and compassion into carrying what was never yours to hold. Even good things can become too much when they grow beyond what your life can sustainably carry. In this episode: Why your strengths can become your strain How to notice what no longer fits Three guardrails for a more sustainable life A gentler way to carry what's yours 💡Today's Big Idea: Guardrails let goodness flourish ⚡️Today's Small Step: Download the simple guide. 7 Life-Giving Questions: A Simple Way to Start Letting Go at paceofgrace.com/free **** LINKS + RESOURCES FROM THIS EPISODE: 7 Life-Giving Questions: A Simple Way to Start Letting Go paceofgrace.com/free 🌿The Pace of Grace Community 🌿 Slow down. Breathe deep. Grow in grace. Join a community of like-minded believers who are committed to living and working at God's pace—without the hustle, hurry, or overwhelm. Inside, you'll find encouragement, practical tools, and a sacred space to pause, reflect, and realign with what matters most. ✨ Monthly live gatherings ✨ Prayer, support, and connection ✨ Simple practices to nurture your soul No long-term commitment—just a gentle invitation to step into a rhythm of grace. Join today for only $10/month! [www.paceofgrace.com/community] 👍 Follow, rate, and review The Pace of Grace Podcast on Apple or Spotify **** LET'S CONNECT: Find me on Facebook @kavery Find me on Instagram @CoachKimAvery
Transcribe →Spiritual Companions: Spiritual Practices Series
May 1900:13:41Tap to summarizeWhat if the very thing you've been trying to handle on your own… was never meant to be carried alone? This episode explores why spiritual companionship isn't a bonus for a few, but a core part of how we're designed to live and walk with God. If you tend to keep things to yourself, push through quietly, or feel unsure how to let others into what's really going on, this conversation offers a different way. You'll learn: Why trying to process everything alone can actually keep you stuck How honest, unfinished conversations create space for God to meet you What neuroscience reveals about why your body needs safe connection A simple, low-pressure way to begin letting someone walk with you If you've been carrying more than you were meant to hold, this episode will gently open the door to something lighter, steadier, and more shared. 💡Today's Big Idea: God often shows up between us, not just within us. ⚡️Today's Small Step: This week, in faith, tell one safe person one true sentence… and notice how God meets you there. **** LINKS + RESOURCES FROM THIS EPISODE: 🌿The Pace of Grace Community 🌿 Slow down. Breathe deep. Grow in grace. Join a community of like-minded believers who are committed to living and working at God's pace—without the hustle, hurry, or overwhelm. Inside, you'll find encouragement, practical tools, and a sacred space to pause, reflect, and realign with what matters most. ✨ Monthly live gatherings ✨ Prayer, support, and connection ✨ Simple practices to nurture your soul No long-term commitment—just a gentle invitation to step into a rhythm of grace. Join today for only $10/month! [www.paceofgrace.com/community] 👍 Follow, rate, and review The Pace of Grace Podcast on Apple or Spotify **** LET'S CONNECT: Find me on Facebook @kavery Find me on Instagram @CoachKimAvery
Transcribe →Taking the Scary First Step
May 1200:13:10Tap to summarizeDo you ever find yourself circling the same decision… thinking, researching, praying… but never actually moving forward? This episode explores why taking the first step with God can feel so difficult, even when you sense His direction clearly. If you've been stuck in overthinking, waiting for certainty, or quietly hoping the nudge will go away, this conversation will help you understand what's really happening beneath the surface. You'll learn: Why your brain resists forward movement when things feel uncertain The hidden difference between needing clarity and avoiding action How God often leads without giving the full picture What it looks like to take one faithful step without feeling ready If you're standing at a decision point and can't seem to move, this episode will help you shift from circling… to stepping. 💡Today's Big Idea: God rarely reveals the whole journey. He invites us to take the first step. ⚡️Today's Small Step: Ask God what the next faithful step might be… and take that step today. **** LINKS + RESOURCES FROM THIS EPISODE: 🌿The Pace of Grace Community 🌿 Slow down. Breathe deep. Grow in grace. Join a community of like-minded believers who are committed to living and working at God's pace—without the hustle, hurry, or overwhelm. Inside, you'll find encouragement, practical tools, and a sacred space to pause, reflect, and realign with what matters most. ✨ Monthly live gatherings ✨ Prayer, support, and connection ✨ Simple practices to nurture your soul No long-term commitment—just a gentle invitation to step into a rhythm of grace. Join today for only $10/month! [www.paceofgrace.com/community] 👍 Follow, rate, and review The Pace of Grace Podcast on Apple or Spotify **** LET'S CONNECT: Find me on Facebook @kavery Find me on Instagram @CoachKimAvery
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