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Grief isn't just about death — and it doesn't follow a tidy 5-stage timeline. Licensed clinical social worker and grief counselor Tori Geter joins Jason and Kathy to talk about what grief actually looks like in real life: the delayed kind that ambushes you 20 years later, the ambiguous loss of watching a parent fade with Alzheimer's, the disenfranchised grief nobody acknowledges (pets, exes, jobs, mobility, your kid leaving for college, your daughter getting engaged).

In this episode:

Why "just give it time" is terrible advice
Continuing bonds theory and the power of linking objects
Prolonged, delayed, ambiguous, anticipatory, and secondary grief — what they are and why they matter
How grief shows up in a chiropractor's office (and what every healthcare provider should be asking)
Why grief needs to be witnessed to be metabolized
What to actually say — and not say — to a grieving friend

Plus: Kathy's mom, Jason's grandfather's Louisville Slugger above the front door, and a Mad Libs ad that somehow ends with an okapi in a Subaru Outback.

Connect with Tori at https://torigeter.com

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