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A tsunami alert hits your phone and half the neighborhood panics while the other half fires up a barbecue. That’s how this conversation starts, and it only gets more honest from there. Lynn joins me to talk about what it’s really like chasing modeling in Hawaii while staying grounded through storms, social media noise, and the weird stuff that comes with being visible online.

We get into her path toward cosmetology or aesthetician school and why she wants to pair beauty industry skills like waxing and lashes with a business degree. If you’re building a brand, thinking about entrepreneurship, or trying to create a stable career in the creator economy, her plan is simple and smart: learn a real skill, learn how to run the business, then scale with consistency. We also talk about rejection in modeling and brand collaborations, how she reaches out to companies, what “no” sounds like, and why it shouldn’t shake your confidence when you know there are more opportunities out there.

From there we dig into the social side: relationship boundaries, trust, jealousy, and how she handles DMs and attention without letting it run her life. We also talk body image, confidence, gym culture, and the pressure to look perfect on Instagram, plus practical photography lessons like angles and framing that can instantly improve your content. If you care about self-confidence, modeling advice, influencer marketing, and staying authentic online, you’ll get plenty to take with you.

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• stormy Hawaii weather, power outages and a tsunami warning story
• growing up with police parents and what support looks like at home
• cosmetology and aesthetician goals plus planning a beauty business
• waxing and body hair preferences, funny fails and real talk
• how Lynn gets into modeling through a best friend and brand collabs
• dealing with rejection, discipline and the numbers game of opportunities
• why angles matter in photos and what makes a shoot actually work
• beauty standards, lashes, and the pressure to look perfect
• trust, DMs, jealousy and setting boundaries with social media attention
• cancel culture, online judgment, bullying and outgrowing high school
• confidence versus insecurity, gym culture and approaching people respectfully
You can find me on Instagram or TikTok. They're both the same username. Lynn L-Y-N-N Maria, but replace the I with the one.