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The Renew Your Mind Podcast
Hosted by Renew Your Mind Institute · EN
The Renew Your Mind Podcast, hosted by Diana Swillinger, shares how to examine your thoughts, understand how they influence your emotions, and start managing them to better your relationships, life, and faith. Transform your life by the renewing of your mind.
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I Just Want to Be a Good Person
1w ago00:17:57Tap to summarizePeople pleasing is not always about wanting other people to like you. Sometimes it's about trying to be a good person, a faithful person, a dependable person, or a servant-hearted person. When over-functioning becomes part of your identity, it can be easy to miss the fear, guilt, or pressure driving it. Learn how to recognize the difference between healthy service and self-abandonment so you can care for others without disappearing in the process. Free Classes: www.rympodcast.com
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Life After People Pleasing
2w ago00:20:49Tap to summarizeThe life you've been looking for—more energy, more love, less stress, less frustration, more fulfillment, and more feeling like yourself—is waiting for you on the other side of people pleasing. When your attention, energy, and love finally come home to you, you stop existing as a resource for everyone else and start experiencing your own life more deeply. Relationships become more authentic, your generosity becomes sustainable, and you discover the freedom of letting other people care for you too. You can still be kind, caring, and supportive—you're just finally included in the care. Free Class Sign Up: Embracing the People Pleaser in You at www.rympodcast.com
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Beautiful Traits You've Been Using Against Yourself
3w ago00:14:11Tap to summarizePeople pleasing is often fueled by some of the most beautiful qualities within us: loyalty, kindness, generosity, and a genuine desire to care for others. The problem isn't those traits—it's what happens when fear, guilt, and the need for approval start driving them. When that happens, strengths that once felt life-giving can leave us exhausted, resentful, and disconnected from ourselves. Free Class Sign Up: Embracing the People Pleaser in You at www.rympodcast.com
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The Difference Between Love and People Pleasing
May 2600:19:41Tap to summarizeLove and people pleasing can look very similar on the outside, but internally they are coming from completely different places. Healthy love includes honesty, choice, boundaries, and your humanity too, while people pleasing is often fueled by fear, guilt, pressure, and emotional self-abandonment. This conversation explores how to care deeply for others without disappearing in the process and why saying no does not make you less loving. Healing people pleasing is not about loving less — it's about learning to love from a grounded, truthful, and emotionally healthy place. Never Miss a Free Class with Diana: www.rympodcast.com
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The Exhaustion of Being "The Reliable One"
May 1900:25:12Tap to summarizeBeing "the reliable one" can feel meaningful, but over time it can also become exhausting. When your identity gets wrapped up in always helping, fixing, carrying, and showing up for everyone else, it becomes easy to lose connection with your own needs. This conversation explores the difference between healthy support and chronic over-functioning, and why dependable people still need rest, space, and care too. You can be loving, supportive, and responsible without making yourself responsible for everyone. Weekly Mind Renewal Strategies in "Thinking on a Thursday", sign up at www.rympodcast.com
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The Cost of Not Forgiving
May 1200:22:37Tap to summarizeHolding onto resentment can quietly drain your emotional energy, keep painful memories active, and make it difficult to experience peace in the present. Forgiveness is often misunderstood as approval, trust, or reconciliation, when really it can simply be a way to stop carrying so much emotional suffering every day. This conversation explores why forgiveness feels so hard, why human beings struggle to let go, and how compassion can soften the grip of bitterness without excusing harmful behavior. Healing becomes possible when we stop focusing so much emotional attention on what someone else did and begin returning that attention back to ourselves, our peace, and our future. Receive Mind Renewal Strategies with the Thinking on a Thursday Weekly Email from Diana. Sign up at www.rympodcast.com
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It's Okay If They Don't Understand
May 500:20:47Tap to summarizeMaking decisions for yourself when other people don't understand can be very challenging. But maybe we don't need to explain, and instead we need to start trusting the choices we are making for ourselves. This is about releasing the need for approval and allowing others to have their thoughts while you move forward. You'll walk away with a new way to think about being misunderstood and how embracing it can actually set you free. www.rympodcast.com
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A Painful Christian Marriage – Part 3
Apr 2800:26:34Tap to summarizeIn this final episode, I'm sharing the last part of the interview I did with Melissa Radke for her podcast called The Radke Show, where I finish telling the story of leaving a difficult marriage and what came next. We talk about what it looked like to heal, learn through pain, and start creating a new life one step at a time. You'll hear an honest conversation about faith, freedom, and the belief that God loves the individual more than He loves any institution. This final part is honest, grounded, and a reminder that truth matters. Free Mind Shift Coaching Call and Thinking on a Thursday at www.rympodcast.com Follow Melissa Radke at https://www.youtube.com/@MelissaRadke
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A Painful Christian Marriage – Part 2
Apr 2100:27:46Tap to summarizeIn this deeply personal episode, I'm sharing part two of the interview I did with Melissa Radke for her podcast, where I continue opening up about the difficult marriage I was in and the journey of leaving. I talk about what it looked like to stop using alcohol to cope, and the willingness it took to feel pain instead of avoid it so I could begin to grow. You'll hear the honest moments when clarity started to come, including when I knew the marriage was truly over. This is a raw and meaningful conversation about truth, healing, and choosing a new path.
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A Painful Christian Marriage
Apr 1500:32:31Tap to summarizeIn this deeply personal episode, I'm sharing part one of an interview from The Radke Show where I open up about the difficult marriage I was in and the decision to leave. This is the first time I'm sharing with you that I got divorced during the six years of this podcast, and I talk honestly about the weight of that choice and the fear of what others might think. You'll hear the real, behind-the-scenes moments of what it looked like to wrestle with staying or going. And this part of the story ends with a turning point—when I decided to stop using alcohol to cope and start facing my life head-on.
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