Different jobs. Same boss. Different relationships. Same fight. Different year. Same stuck.

That's not bad luck. That's a pattern.

I've been in Miami with my brother Dave for almost a month and we have been deep in this conversation. Where our patterns come from. Why are they so hard to shake. And what it actually takes to change them.

I get personal in this one. My dad. My mom. My sister. My own stuff I'm working on right now. Because that's what this show is.

If you've ever wondered why you keep ending up in the same place — this one's for you.

3 Things You’ll Take Away:

How to see the pattern you're in. You can't change what you can't see. This episode shows you how to find it.
Why you keep choosing the same thing even when you know better. There's a real reason. And it's not weakness.
What actually breaks a pattern. Not willpower. Real tools you can use starting today.

⏰ Timestamps

(00:00) Why patterns — and why now

(01:00) Dave, Miami, and what we've been working through

(05:00) The train that never goes to Boston

(10:00) Why mindfulness is where everything starts

(11:00) My dad and what I didn't know I inherited

(21:00) When your pattern becomes your identity

(37:00) Codependency, love, and the price we pay to stay

(40:00) Why familiar feels safer than free

(44:00) What actually breaks a pattern

(54:00) The Oreo at 11pm — and what it's really about

(56:00) The doom scrolling pattern we all know is hurting us

(01:11:00) What are you paying to stay right where you are?

(01:13:00) How intuition disrupts patterns you can't see from inside them

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MORE ABOUT ROBYN IVY:

Robyn Ivy sees people for a living.

A trusted coach, intuitive and fierce advocate for tree portals and a creative life, she spent over 20 years as a commercial photographer, honing her powerful skills as a witness.

Host of the Robyn Ivy Podcast, where she discusses how to be more present to our lives and create what’s next with today’s prominent thought leaders, spiritual mentors and creative guides.

Robyn mentors clients 1:1 through transitions, deep growth and meaningful change in a fun and inspiring way. Her workshops, groups and programs offer you insights and practices to live more confidently, creatively and from your truest wisdom.

You will often find her traveling in a camper van, sitting with the trees or capturing the beauty of nature. Raising her now grown sons Rook and Cole is her best work yet.