Jesus didn't call his disciples servants. He called them friends. And Stu thinks that matters more for how we do church than most ecclesiology conversations acknowledge.

Joel, Stu and Tim are working through the emerging themes of Stu's PhD — and theme three is an ecclesiology of friendship and intergenerational family. Why friendship is a legitimate theological category, not just a social preference. Why industrialised schooling has trained us to only be friends with people our age, and what we lose when church reproduces that model. Why young people being listened to isn't a nicety but a theological conviction. And why a community built on friendship with Jesus produces friendships that wouldn't otherwise exist.

Plus: the Luddites, a 1958 newspaper article about surfers at Cronulla, e-bikes doing monos, and Jesus beads in the 90s.

Timestamps
00:00 Welcome: Sky Guide and the World Cup
06:00 PhD recap: themes one and two
07:30 Theme three: ecclesiology of friendship and intergenerational family
11:00 The peer group balance: too large and you never grow beyond it, too small and there's loneliness
13:30 Friendship as an ecclesial category
15:00 The metaphors of church: body, family, royal priesthood, and friends
17:30 Why friendship was a powerful category in the 90s: Friends, Seinfeld and Cheers
20:00 The Good Samaritan and who my neighbour is: church as one big friendship group
22:00 The intergenerational revolution: what if Jesus is the basis of friendship, not special interests?
26:00 Industrialised schooling and why friendship defaults to same-age
32:00 Why young people being listened to was disorienting and powerful
38:00 The youth council, the moderating voice and the shock absorber in practice
44:00 E-bikes, surfboards and seeing youth culture with curiosity rather than fear
48:00 Jesus beads, organic evangelism and what happens when young people have voice
51:00 Preview of theme four and the limitation of the Shock Absorber when it institutionalises

Discussed on this episode
Mark Senter III: When God Shows Up
Mark Senter III: Four Views of Youth Ministry

Lev Vygotsky: Zone of proximal development

John Creswell: Qualitative research methodology

James Jasper: Emotional dimensions of social movements

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