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Sisters, the Year of the Snake is here and I am here to make sure that you do not let this incredible moment on this planet, but most of all your life, your business and.
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Your wealth pass you by.
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On February 11th, 12th and 13th at 12pm Central Time, I'm hosting the global live stream event of the year called the Feminine Wealth Unlock. As thousands of ambitious women just like you from around the globe get gather for the first full moon of the Lunar New Year, making this the most auspicious moment of 2025 to shed what no longer serves you to step into your highest identity so that you can live your purpose and expand your prosperity. The Feminine Wealth Unlock is a three day live activation taking you on a journey of feminine leadership, feminine wisdom and feminine power. All designed to quantum accelerate your abundance. This year I am giving you the exact keys that I've used to scale my multi seven figure businesses, create multi six figure months easily and most of all live in alignment with my feminine truth. This is what I want for you and for all Women and on February 11th, 12th and 13th I am going.
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To help you unlock it for free.
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Register for the Feminine wealth unlock@jessica zweig.com backslash wealth link to sign up is in the show notes.
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Welcome to the Spiritual Hustler Podcast. I'm your host Jessica Zweig, multi seven figure serial entrepreneur, best selling author and branding and business coach. And this is a show where we are redefining the word hustle, reclaiming our true feminine nature of magnetism and putting down the self judgments and shame around loving to work and making a lot.
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Of money at it.
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On this show you're going to learn how to stop hustling and start spiritually hustling. By pressing play, you are now part of a new movement of women who don't hustle for money. We hustle for meaning. We don't hustle from lack. We hustle for love. We don't hustle from survival. We hustle for humanity's thriving. We hustle toward healing the ancestral programming of fear and step into a new understanding of safety in the body.
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To receive this shift isn't going to only heal your life, it's going to make you a whole lot richer too.
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This is the Spiritual Hustler Podcast.
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Well hello my beautiful spiritual Hustlers and welcome back to the podcast here on another installment of the Unlocking series. If you don't know by now, well you should know that this is a podcast where we talk all about the intersection of business and spirituality and how it impacts our divine feminine Power and really who we are here to be as women of this new earth, leading the way and showing up in our full magnetic brilliance to attract more opportunities effortlessly to not hustle in the toxic, masculine, old paradigm way, but to do it in the new paradigm, which is for love, which is with ease, which is for humanity and not just our own personal gain. And I know that I say that and it sounds really great, but a lot of us are still struggling, most of all with our worthiness and imposter syndrome, to make that a reality in the first place. And so today I wanted to talk about unlocking confidence, because this is a question that I have gotten a lot in my career. Like, where does it come from? How do you. How do you show up? You know, I guess in the way that I do. And it's really been a hard thing for me to answer. Much of it has to do honestly with my design. I am a Leo. I am an enneagram7.
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I am an emotional generator.
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I have a just a lot of fire and natural ease standing on a stage, proverbially speaking, and literally. It's just how I'm wired. And I recognize that not everybody is wired that way. And, you know, this has also been a practice for me, of course, but what I wanted to really do today is sort of peel back the layers and get really vulnerable, as I often do on this podcast, and share with my community some things you probably don't know about me and also share some of the things I've seen in my clients, the women that I support that have different but similar struggles with confidence because I haven't aced it, you guys. I still struggle a lot with insecurity and my own bouts of imposter syndrome standing in my worth. Like, it is not a destination. It is a constant practice. And at the same time, there is a. A click in where you just stand in it and you keep going. And I can't necessarily name when that click in happened. It was really a true snowball of growing confidence over time. But getting into the vulnerability here, I think it's really important. I've written about this, my book both be my first book and my second book. The Light work to some degree, but I think it's time to go a little bit deeper on the podcast with you guys. So I grew up in a very, very affluent community outside the city of Chicago in the suburbs. And my parents had lived in Chicago and they moved to this suburb for the education for my brother and I, but we were not affluent at all. My Parents were real self made, modest, hardworking people who kind of came from nothing. And we moved to this Hubbard when I was like 2 years old. And I remember being 5 years old in kindergarten and recognizing right then and there in my, probably my subconscious, but I remember this feeling, in fact, it was conscious that I wasn't going to be popular. There were girls already in my class and majority of these girls came from a lot of, of wealth and privilege and big houses and fancy cars and cute clothes. And I was just not that girl. And as I got older in, you know, middle school and high school, that discrepancy of the popular crowd and me became bigger. And I suffered traumatically and dramatically from bullying. The boys were horrible to me. They would tell me I was as ugly as a dog. They would make fun of my hair, which was curly, and my mom would brush it before school because she didn't know any different. And it would frizz and I would go to school with my frizzy hair. And one day in seventh grade, I was 12, 13 years old, a boy brought a blonde afro wig to school and put it on in the hallway right before class. It sounds so cliche, that like image of all of us at 12 years old in middle school getting our stuff into our lockers before the bell rang at like 8. Well, everyone's in the hallway, you know. And he brought this wig to school and put it on, went up to me and yelled in front of everybody, look, Zweig, I'm you. And everyone laughed. And I couldn't go to class. I left school, my mom came and got me. Cause I was hysterical and couldn't face the day. I had friends, moms be mean to me, reject me for hanging out with their daughter based on what I would wear. I had so many friends over the course of middle school and high school. Drop me, turn on me, you know, start rumors about me. All of those things just collected so deeply. I didn't have my first boyfriend until I was 19 years old. The boys never thought I was pretty or wanted to ask me out. I really didn't have a friend group until senior year of high school. And they were all the theater nerds that, you know. I called us the misfits. We were all the suburban misfits that found each other in the theater department. I like to say that I would love to lose the practice of being myself and playing other characters as an escape. So this just scratching the surface of how I grew up and felt so unconfident. And you look at, I guess My life today and my platform today and my businesses today that don't necessarily trian relate to that past version of me, which really is still very much a part of me. And I was, you know, sharing with one of my dear friends who's also a coach and a guide and a healer for me about confidence. And she asked me, you know, where does it come from? And I said to her in. In this conversation something that never dawned on me before. And I said to her, you know, I didn't have a choice. It was either that or this. And we hear about confidence and how to unlock it and building the muscle, you know, hiring the coaches, finding the communities, feeling really supported in our lives so that we can show up as us. And that's all very valid and very important and necessary. But at the end of the day, it's up to you, babe. It's up to you to step out of the past identity, the afraid one, the worried one, the imposter one, the traumatized, bullied one, and create a different story. Even if you don't necessarily believe in that story, you have to pretend because it's either that more of that or this. This being the story you really want to write, the reality you really want to live the impact, you really want to make the money you really wanna earn, the love you really wanna attract. And I've seen this happen in so many women that I work with. You know, I had a client who, man, I have known this one for going on three years. She actually came to my retreat in 2023, one of my first claim youm Light retreats. And she came to work on her personal brand to really step out from the shadows. You know, she lives in a smaller market. She's in an industry where it's not really celebrated to put yourself out there. It's. It's all around, you know, behind the scenes, do the work. Very B2B, very masculine, very kind of old world. And she is new world. She's a total witch in the most beautiful way. And it took her three years we coached together for her to really put her face out there. She actually asked me in one of my coaching sessions with her and it was such a genuine question. She's like, do you think that I can build a personal brand without ever showing my face?
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And I was honest.
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I was like, no. Then she asks me, can I just maybe do like B roll video of me where I'm not looking at the camera or talking, but just images of me doing things with like text over the reel and I was like, you could, but your audience isn't going to connect to you at all. Like, they're not going to know your voice, they're not going to be able to look into your eyes, they're not going to be able to feel you. And I know this is all on a small screen on our phones, via social media, but it matters. And little by little by little, she was able to take the leap, move through her own fear, pretend, choose this versus that. Because that was keeping her stuck in plateaued revenue, total disenchantment with her business, resentment of her clients, resentment of the market she was in, basically had not given up, but was just at such a standstill because she was standing in her own way. She wasn't believing enough in herself out loud to make a difference, not just in her business, but in her life. And today, that precious client, sister, friend, soul sister of mine is showing her face every fucking day on Instagram. And I leave comments like, every time I see it, I'm like, I am crying for you. This is amazing. I'm just so happy that she decided. And so I want you to really take stock of what is holding you back and how much you have attached to that story. I could have stayed the wallflower. I could have believed that I was ugly. I could have believed that I wasn't cool. And I'm not really sure I'm cool today, but you guys know what I mean. I could have believed that I wasn't smart enough to be an entrepreneur because I had never done it before. I could have believed that I wasn't talented enough because I went on to be an actress and got rejected all the time. I could have believed that I wasn't lovable and kept attracting narcissistic boyfriends. And I got to the point somewhere along the way, probably in my deep seated subconscious mind as much as my conscious mind, that I simply didn't have a choice anymore to stay stuck in that story and that I had to fake it till I made it. That is really the true explanation of my career in many ways, is that I faked it until I did indeed make it. But that fire in my belly that I had when I was younger and, you know, a decade ago is the fire I know you have in your belly. It's the exact same. Even though we have different circumstances and we have different traumas and we have different failures and we have different heartbreaks and we have different parenting. But I believe that you're here listening to my show because you really want to believe in yourself more. Your ability to grow money and wealth, yes, but to really be as fulfilled in your joy and your sense of purpose and your ripple effect and your ease and your flow and your magnetism and all of your feminine power. And we sometimes have to recognize that our feet are being held to the fire. We can stay comfortable or we can act. And it's going to be uncomfortable, but that is where we grow. And the more discomfort you have, yes, the more you grow, but the more you learn to trust yourself, most of all. Because the truth is, you don't die when you put your face on Instagram. People don't tear you down when you decide to quit your job and build the business of your dreams. And if they do, they're not your people. Right? There is a sense of courage that confidence requires that I hope today's episode inspired. And I just close my eyes and I picture a world where all the hurt little girls turned into fucking badass confident women. And what a world that would fucking be. Let's go. Let's ride. All right, my beautiful sisters, I will see you on the next episode of Spiritual Hustle podcast. And until then, have a beautiful week filled with bright light and confidence.
Podcast Summary: The Spiritual Hustler
Episode: Unlocking Confidence: The Secret to Believing In Yourself That No One Is Talking About
Release Date: February 13, 2025
Host: Jessica Zweig
In this compelling episode of The Spiritual Hustler, Jessica Zweig delves deep into the intricacies of building and maintaining self-confidence. Titled "Unlocking Confidence: The Secret to Believing In Yourself That No One Is Talking About," the episode intertwines personal anecdotes with professional insights, offering listeners a transformative perspective on harnessing confidence to propel their personal and professional lives forward.
Jessica begins by vulnerably sharing her tumultuous journey with self-confidence. Growing up in an affluent Chicago suburb, she recounts feelings of inadequacy and exclusion stemming from childhood bullying and societal pressures.
Early Struggles:
"I remember being 5 years old in kindergarten and recognizing right then and there... I wasn't going to be popular." (03:15)
Bullying and Rejection:
"The boys were horrible to me. They would tell me I was as ugly as a dog... I couldn't face the day." (04:30)
These experiences left deep-seated insecurities, making her journey to confidence a continuous and evolving process rather than a fixed destination.
Jessica emphasizes that confidence isn't a one-time achievement but a constant practice. She discusses the concept of "faking it till you make it," highlighting how adopting a confident persona can eventually lead to genuine self-assurance.
Continuous Practice:
"It is not a destination. It is a constant practice." (05:50)
Faking It Till You Make It:
"My true explanation of my career in many ways is that I faked it until I did indeed make it." (07:10)
Jessica underscores the importance of stepping out of one's comfort zone, embracing discomfort as a catalyst for growth, and trusting oneself through the process.
Drawing from her extensive experience as a business coach, Jessica shares transformative stories of her clients who have overcome their confidence barriers.
"Little by little by little, she was able to take the leap, move through her own fear... today, that precious client... is showing her face every fucking day on Instagram." (09:25)
This particular client, who struggled with visibility in a male-dominated industry, exemplifies how confronting fears and embracing vulnerability can lead to remarkable personal and professional breakthroughs.
Jessica outlines actionable strategies for listeners to cultivate and sustain their confidence:
Self-Reflection and Vulnerability:
Acknowledging past traumas and insecurities as the first step towards healing and growth.
Adopting a New Narrative:
Choosing to "pretend" confidence initially, thereby rewiring one's self-perception over time.
Embracing Discomfort:
Recognizing that growth often resides outside of comfort zones and being willing to face challenges head-on.
Building Supportive Communities:
Surrounding oneself with like-minded individuals who foster encouragement and accountability.
"We can stay comfortable or we can act. And it's going to be uncomfortable, but that is where we grow." (10:15)
A significant portion of the episode addresses imposter syndrome and the pervasive struggle with worthiness that many women face in entrepreneurial spaces.
"I still struggle a lot with insecurity and my own bouts of imposter syndrome standing in my worth." (06:45)
Jessica encourages listeners to confront these internal barriers by rewriting their personal narratives and embracing their inherent worthiness.
Aligning with the podcast's overarching theme, Jessica ties confidence to feminine leadership, emphasizing qualities like magnetism, ease, and service to humanity over traditional, toxic masculine paradigms of hustle.
"We hustle for meaning. We don't hustle from lack. We hustle for love." (02:00)
This approach not only fosters individual growth but also contributes to a collective upliftment, advocating for a more compassionate and purpose-driven entrepreneurial environment.
Wrapping up the episode, Jessica paints an inspiring vision of a world where every woman transforms her inner child’s hurt into unshakeable confidence. She urges listeners to take stock of their limiting beliefs and choose growth over stagnation.
"I close my eyes and I picture a world where all the hurt little girls turned into fucking badass confident women. And what a world that would fucking be." (11:55)
Jessica's heartfelt conclusion serves as a powerful motivator for listeners to embark on their own confidence-building journeys, reinforcing that true transformation begins from within.
On Confidence as a Practice:
"It is not a destination. It is a constant practice." (05:50)
On Embracing Vulnerability:
"We hustle for humanity's thriving. We hustle toward healing the ancestral programming of fear and step into a new understanding of safety in the body." (02:15)
On Overcoming Fear:
"People don't tear you down when you decide to quit your job and build the business of your dreams." (10:35)
"Unlocking Confidence" is a profound exploration of the multifaceted nature of self-belief, seamlessly blending Jessica Zweig's personal experiences with actionable coaching insights. The episode serves as both a beacon of hope and a practical guide for women striving to reclaim their confidence and redefine hustle on their own sacred terms.
Listeners are left not only inspired but also equipped with the tools and mindset necessary to transform their insecurities into strengths, fostering a community of empowered spiritual hustlers committed to meaningful and compassionate success.