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The Spiritual Hustler
Unlocking Magnetism: Healing Your Wealth Wounds to Expand into Overflow
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Welcome to the Spiritual Hustler podcast. I'm your host, Jessica Zweig, multi seven figure serial entrepreneur, best selling author and branding and business coach. And this is a show where we are redefining the word hustle, reclaiming our true feminine nature of magnetism and putting down the self judgments and shame around loving to work and making a lot of money at it. On this show, you're going to learn how to stop hustling and start spiritually hustling. By pressing play, you are now part of a new movement of women who don't hustle for money. We hustle for meaning. We don't hustle from lack. We hustle for love. We don't hustle from survival. We hustle for humanity's thriving. We hustle toward healing the ancestral programming of fear and step into a new understanding of safety in the body to receive this shift isn't going to only heal your life.
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It's going to make you a whole lot richer too.
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This is the Spiritual Hustler podcast.
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Well, hello my beautiful spiritual hustlers and welcome back to the podcast. I am your host, Jess, and I am really super grateful that you are here. I do not take your time, your presence, your energy, your listening for granted. This is a very beautiful space called the podcast world. I listen to so many myself. Sometimes I open up my podcast app. I'm like, which one today? I do have my regulars, of course, but I do know that there are so many options and depending on my mood, I'm like, do I want to listen to spiritual content? Do I want to go deep on business? Am I interested in politics? By the way? That's one of my dirty little secrets. I listen to political podcasts, like a lot. It's how I secretly stay sane. And God, there's so many shows out there that inspire me and help me. And so by you being here, I'm just honored that whether this is a show that you regularly listen to. So if you're not new, welcome back. If you are new, welcome here. I am just beyond grateful for your presence and your time. And so if you're new, not new, maybe you know, maybe you don't know that every Thursday on the podcast we, we drop a little key. It's called the Unlocking series, where each and every week I bring to you a little medicine, little bit of magic, little bit of a message on how I have unlocked some of the stickiest doors in my worth and my confidence in my business, in my relationships, in my body to bring forward more love, more truth, more Authenticity, more power, more confidence. And I think that I'm not alone when I say that one of the biggest locks, the stickiest of the doors, has been around money. I know that if you've been following my journey, that, you know, I have been on this journey of a serial entrepreneur, building three companies, failing my first one, scaling and selling my second one. And I like to say that I'm sustaining my third one and have already reached well over seven figures in less than a year with this business. I scaled my other business to multi seven figures, but I didn't really hit, I guess you could say, my money stride, my abundance unlock until the age of 36. I'm now 43, so most of my life, I had a lot of wounding around wealth. And I think if you've been listening to my show, you know that money is really just a metaphor to worthiness. And in order to really hold the code of worth and wealth, we have to understand what it means to be a magnetic woman. Meaning money attracts to us just by being who we are. And so that sounds really great in theory. It sounds very aspirational. At least it did to me for most of my life. And today I want to unlock that. I want to unlock magnetism and how we can truly heal our wealth wounds so that we can expand not just into a state of security and safety with money, but into a state of overflow. Because I really, truly believe, from the bottom of my soul, I don't even believe it, you guys. I know it. That we came here for prosperity. We came here to live a life of infinite, infinite abundance. And that's not just my Palladian talking. And if you are not new, you definitely know that I'm all about the Pleiadian star system, quantum universe, infinite truth that we are not from this planet, that there are trillions and trillions of planets in this infinite universe that most of us most likely have incarnated on. And we've decided to come to this planet called Earth, to incarnate in these human bodies as spiritual beings, to have this human experience in this place called Earth School, to evolve our consciousness into more love, ultimately to remember that that's the whole game and money and abundance and worth and receptivity is a part of that code. So I don't just come and share this message around money and wealth from that Palladian perspective, but really, as your sister, like, yo, girl, you're here to be wealthy. This is what we are actually up to, so that we can be of service, use our gifts, and get paid for them well, so that we live in peace and show up full so that we can continue to impact the world with our gifts. And so you guys know we're gonna get real. This is not just about making more money, this conversation. It's about becoming the woman who knows how to hold money, honor money, and, yeah, magnetize money with not just her strategy and her tactics and her beautiful marketing plan, but with her entire being. And so we've gotta talk about our wealth wounds. The invisible blocks that are keeping you from the overflow that is your birth rate. It's not the algorithm, you guys on Instagram. It's not the competitive landscape. It's not the clients that don't understand your value. It's something much, much deeper, most likely, that is blocking you from stepping into a woman of overflow. So what is a wealth wound? Where does that even come from? Well, it's not just scarcity, right? Which we feel, most of us at least. Maybe I'll just speak for myself, but so many women I talk to, so many women I coach in my community, the Feminine frequency business school and my retreats and my masterminds and beyond and my friend group, sometimes in, you know, my closest partners and family. Like scarcity is a common reality that we feel in this life called our own. Unique timelines. But really, a lot of it has to do with our inherited trauma over giving, undercharging from a place of deep, deep fear, of stepping out into the light. Because if you are a woman, and you most likely are, if you're listening to my podcast, there's something called the witch wound as well that dates back not that far generations, couple hundred years ago, where we were literally burned at the stake for being seen, for being vocal, for stepping out and using our innate superpowers and sacred intelligence as women. And that has been in many ways rinse and repeating itself into our subconscious for lineages. And maybe you have a fear of being seen as the woman who holds money and luxury or has guilt around being successful. All of this is most likely not yours. Something that you came in with or maybe adopted at a young age, watching how your parents worked with money that you never really alchemized. And much of this has to do with the patterns of our ancestors, patriarchal programming, the religious shame that many of us have inherited for being flashy or gross. You know, this is actually a funny, fun fact. Sidebar. But really relevant to this conversation. For my wedding. My husband and I got married almost 10 and a half years ago, and my dad mom gave us our wedding gift, which was the book called the Millionaire Next Door. Okay, so while I really appreciate aspects of that book, and God bless my amazing father for being the kind of quiet millionaire that he has become, because he has literally saved every single penny he's ever earned and lives in a very modest house and drives modest cars and doesn't take very many vacations and just is going to be 80 years old soon and hasn't really lived, you know, the way that I would want him to live. There's a lot of fear that we have adopted, consciously or unconsciously, for being too much too loud. It's not safe to be those things. And maybe if it had nothing to do with money, growing up, what you witnessed in your parents relationship to money, maybe you were disciplined and reprimanded for just simply being too much as a child. Too loud, too silly, too playful, too energetic, too moody and emotional, too much of anything. All of this is connected to how we show up as embodied, magnetic women today. And so some signs that you're most likely still wounded, still not fully alchemized. And let me tell you, there is no destination on this process. It is a process, but there are clear signs that we can really start to look at with radical self awareness and responsibility that we have some work to do. You know, I think it was Mel Robbins who said on a podcast that, like, we're now at this stage and age where we can't blame our parents anymore for what we involuntarily inherited from them. That's their work to do in this lifetime. And blaming, shaming, holding that consciousness that you were somehow a victim of your circumstances just doesn't serve you, sister. And so to take an honest stock of where you're hustling in your life, in your business, for the money, and not experiencing true peace, it's a choice. It really is. Are you attracting clients that don't make you feel good, that don't really honor your value, that don't pay you on time, that are inconsistent with the way that they treat you as their partner or their teacher or their coach or their service provider, and looking at how that reflects as inconsistency in your bank account? Are you playing small? Are you standing on the sidelines of your life, watching everyone else somehow rise and wondering, why not me? What haven't I cracked? Well, there's nothing that they've cracked that you can't. In fact, the people that you admire simply, I believe, are the ones that realized it was too expensive to stay small. And move through their own discomfort. Because here's the thing, guys, we're always uncomfortable. I frankly have a small tinge of anxiety and like, and annoyance to some degree most of the time when I share anything because I'm like being seen. Do people really care? Yeah, I. You guys care. You're here, you're with me on this journey. I'm no different than anybody. We're all just moving through our own discomfort to some degree so that we can get to the other side of what we really came here for, which is service, impact and joy, not ego. So where are you judging yourself? Where are you judging yourself? Not just around showing up, but raising your prices, holding your value, saying no when it doesn't fit. All of this is yours to unpack and own. And I say that with so much love, sister, because no one can do the work for you. And you can't start getting to the root of your wounding around money until you're simply willing to address how that wound is showing up in your life in the first place. So I want to talk about how we really begin to heal because there are some hacks and I'm not saying that this is something to hack. This is a lifelong journey. I hope that if you are feeling the call to step into any of my programs, I'm actually hosting a beautiful, beautiful three hour high voltage bootcamp called Magnetize to Monetize, where we're going to unpack all of this and more. We also dive deep into worth in my feminine frequency business school. I'm going to leave a link to join the wait list for that. I'll leave a link to sign up for Magnetize to monetize. It's 19. This is content that I'm bringing to the $10,000, $25,000, a hundred thousand dollars clients that I coach. You definitely don't wanna miss this, but for the purposes of this conversation, I want you to start to practice a mantra. Okay? Now this might sound silly, but I say this all the time. Anytime something good happens to me, whether it's a massive client contract that I close or a butterfly flies in front of my face while I'm taking a walk in my neighborhood. Cause I love butterflies and they're my totem. Or I get a refund I wasn't expecting, or I get an email with good news that day, I say to myself, I allow, I receive. Thank you more, please. Say it with me now. I allow, I receive, thank you more please. And it's just this tiny little vibrational shift that moves your Beingness into a state of knowingness that that was coming for you and the universe knew you should expect it. And you open your vessel for more. It's so magical, the power of our thoughts, our words, our beliefs, our visualizations. So it's just a practice I allow, I receive. Thank you. More, please. Now this is on the slightly more deeper side of this practice and how we can begin to heal our wealth wounds. But I want you to begin to really track your triggers. Whenever you feel any contraction around money, which happens to me and so many women I know when you feel that contraction, I just want you to pause and I want you to ask yourself, whose voice is this? But close your eyes, put your hand on your heart, put your other hand on your womb and really listen. Whose voice is this? And if you truly tune in, you will get your answer. And most of the time, it's your mom's. It's an ancestor. It's a version of you in your 20s or 30s or earlier in your career where you got rejected or were handed something you felt you couldn't handle. And maybe you couldn't. But it's not the woman who's standing in that body today. It's a self limiting avatar that is there more than anything to keep you safe and small. But we're doing the big work here in the spiritual hustler community and we know that those beliefs are the lies and you get to choose your own truth. So when you do have that moment contraction around money, you can shift it and you can bring back that mantra, I allow this, I receive this. Thank you. More, please. I'm telling you, sister, it changes everything. Embodiment is another place to look. Wealth doesn't live in your bank account. It lives in your body. Specifically in your root and your sacral chakras. The parts of your body that sit basically at your vagina and your womb space. Your root chakra is your primal sense of safety. And your womb space is, I believe, your, yes, creative portal where we birth the universe, we birth ideas, we birth creativity. It's our juicy pleasure center of truly limitless creation. But it's also our sense and source of trust. Because think about it. If you really trusted life, how much more fun would you have? How much more juicy pleasure would you allow in? How much more would you let go to experience the present moment? For the record, my root chakra and my sacral chakra were completely dead offline black, lights out cached until the age of about 39, 40, I was all solar plexus, heart throat, third eye, crown. It wasn't until I truly understood the power of those two lower chakras and got in my body that I started to feel like the woman who holds money, honors money, receives money, and ultimately magnetizes money with my body. Because magnetism is not about chasing. It's about calibrating. And the more healed you are, the more you attract wealth without effort. So here's what I want to leave you with. Overflow isn't just possible. It's certainly not just some pipe dream. In fact, it's the opposite. Overflow actually becomes inevitable when you heal the parts of you that are still afraid to receive. And most of those parts aren't even yours. They were the inherited beliefs and thought patterns and actual trauma from the people who came before you that didn't have the tools that you have today in this current moment in humanity, with the podcasts that we listen to, the books we read, the communities that we're a part of, the retreats we get to go on, the friends that we get to call in, the plant medicine, the therapy, the breath work, the somatic healing, the astrology, human design. I mean, I think about this all the time. We have so much at our fingertips when it comes to resources that are everywhere. From jumping into a big coaching container if that's in the cards for you, or just watching a video on YouTube for free. This podcast is free. We have so much inevitability to step into our lives if we're simply willing to do the work. You do not have to push this, prove anything, perform anything. You get to attract you get to expand who you are and therefore embody the woman that you really fucking came here to be. That is not just the key to wealth. Here's your little key today. You're welcome. That's the frequency of wealth, and that's the game I'm here to play. Thank you for playing the game with me. I love you all so, so much. And I will see you on the next episode of the Spiritual Hustler podcast. Bye, guys. It.