Ezra Sosa: Trusting His Talent - The Squeeze

Transcript

Taylor (0:01)

The following podcast is a dear media production.

Ezra Sosa (0:04)

Oh, yeah, that's the best part. Yeah, yeah, yeah. Wait. This is kind of fierce, but maybe I'm just.

Taylor (0:08)

It's like an erewhon pizza. Like, a good.

Ezra Sosa (0:11)

I'm like, okay, Privilege.

Taylor (0:13)

It's a clean pizza.

Ezra Sosa (0:14)

No, I didn't care at that point.

Taylor (0:15)

Great.

Ezra Sosa (0:16)

Like, full transparency. She's definitely, like, twerking on national television, like on Dancing with the Stars, which probably has never happened before.

Podcast Host (0:23)

How's it gonna be on tour without her?

Taylor (0:27)

I'm gonna miss her.

Ezra Sosa (0:29)

I mean, I taught convicted felon how to d. That definitely came with its battles. So when they were coming for, like, my choreography, I was like, okay, no, Like, I can pull up. Like, I can 100% do this with Anna. I was eliminated first, so you didn't really get to see, like, my choreographic ability. And then they would come up to me and they'd be like, I love your TikToks. I love your social media, which is, like, awesome. But that's not my love. Like, that's not my passion. It's a load of bullet, just like always. Just stay true to who you are. I definitely feel like a lot of people in this industry tend to lose themselves over a job, lose their identity to fit a certain thing. For me, what really helped the most was just allowing space to discover myself. But once I did, really staying true to who that was.

Podcast Host (1:24)

Lemon Drops. The day has officially come.

Taylor (1:27)

Ezra Sosa is on the podcast.

Podcast Host (1:30)

Yes. Cheers, applause. We've had him on before with Riley. We did a fun Christmas episode with them a couple years back. But I'm so excited that I finally got the opportunity to sit down one on one with Ezra and dive into all of the things. In this episode, Ezra reflects on this past season of Dancing with the Stars and how it finally gave him the opportunity to fully showcase his talent for both dance and choreography, including the story behind his freestyle dance and what that piece meant to him personally. He opens up about what it was like partnering with Olympian Jordan Chiles, navigating the intense scrutiny, discord and hate on social media, and the boundaries he's learned to set online to protect his peace. Ezra also shares how he keeps his love for dance alive despite the pressure, what mental health looks like for him while on tour, and the advice older pros gave him that stayed with him. He shares how he stayed grounded in who he is within an industry that often expects you to look, act, and dress a certain way. I cannot wait for you guys to hear this fun little yap. Session that Ezra and I had. He is such a doll, as you all know, and this episode is super special. Hope you enjoy.

Summary

Podcast Summary: The Squeeze

Episode Title: Ezra Sosa: Trusting His Talent
Host: Taylor Lautner
Guest: Ezra Sosa
Release Date: February 4, 2026

Episode Overview

This episode of The Squeeze features Dancing with the Stars pro Ezra Sosa, as he discusses his journey of growth, authenticity, and mental health both on and off the dance floor. Host Taylor Lautner (Tay) invites Ezra to reflect on the most recent season, the personal meaning of his acclaimed freestyle, navigating the pressures of public scrutiny, developing boundaries with social media, and maintaining his identity in a demanding industry. The conversation is open-hearted, energetic, and candid, providing a blend of fun exchanges and deep insights.

Key Discussion Points & Insights

1. Citrus Got Real: Icebreaker Game

[03:32] Ezra participates in the show’s signature icebreaker game. The question:
“If you had to eat one meal every day, what would it be?”
- Ezra’s choice: Pizza (for its never-the-same variety across cities).
- Taylor’s choice: Ramen (if ignoring the consequences!)
- Ezra reflects:
  - “Pizza is universal… tour with JoJo taught me it tastes different everywhere!” (04:05)

2. Proving Himself on DWTS

[05:41–07:10] Ezra reflects on his mindset entering the latest Dancing with the Stars season:
- After not getting to showcase his choreography skills in earlier seasons (eliminated first with Anna), Ezra was determined to finally prove his talent.
- “Going into this past season… I was trying to prove myself not just to my peers but to everyone back home. Everyone knew me for my personality, but not really for my ability to dance.” ([06:47], Ezra Sosa)

3. Partnership with Jordan Chiles

[07:10–08:24] Ezra describes working with Olympic gymnast Jordan Chiles:
- Jordan was intensely focused (“locked in since day one”), but also brought “good vibes” and kept things fun.
- The duo was most successful when they prioritized enjoyment and energy, not just competition.

4. Favorite Dances & The Viral Freestyle

Favorite Performance:
- [08:28] Ezra’s favorite was their jive:
  - “I don’t think I ever got full body chills doing a dance before!”
- Their “Wicked” rumba was the most challenging but rewarding journey.
Behind the Freestyle:
- [09:07–11:25] Inspiration struck when Normani attended the show and wanted to be included if they made the finale.
- Chose songs “Bow Down” (Beyoncé) and “Motivation” (Normani), capturing Jordan’s story and Houston roots.
- The dance went viral, with fans recreating it:
  - “There’s such a surreal experience when you see someone do your freestyle in front of you.” ([11:04], Ezra Sosa)

5. Public Scrutiny & Online Discourse

[18:06–22:11] Ezra and Taylor discuss backlash and negativity on social media:
- Ezra recalls early criticism: “After our week one salsa, people said, ‘That’s not a salsa, Ezra can’t choreograph.’”
- He found strength by accepting that public opinion is inevitable:
  - “Being in the public eye, you are accepting those opinions… the moment I realized that, it gave me ease.” ([19:26], Ezra Sosa)
- The season felt uniquely tough for contestants, with criticism affecting even seasoned pros and celebrities.
- Ezra noticed the negative impact on Jordan (“first time I saw her down”, [22:25]), and learned to set firmer boundaries for mental health.

6. Setting Boundaries & Social Media Detox

[23:00–24:17] Social media became overwhelming:
- Ezra took a full month off posting before the season began, even pausing brand deals:
  - “That's when social media starts feeling like a job… [after tour] I felt the most disconnected from what I love to do, but the most connected to the thing that was, like, super addicting to me—not good for my mental health at all.” ([23:45], Ezra Sosa)
- A month of rest, travel, and renewed focus on dance reconnected him to his craft.

7. Sustaining Passion & Routine

[24:22–27:57]
- The variety of DWTS (new music, choreography weekly) keeps things exciting, versus tour which can feel repetitive.
- On tour, mental health is challenged by exhaustion, lack of sunlight, and monotony.
  - “When I got depressed, I would just be in bed… But I have to sit with myself… [There's] opportunity to explore these cities.” ([27:07], Ezra Sosa)
- Routine becomes a lifeline: running, staying active, connecting with friends are key.

8. Touring, Adrenaline, and Post-Show “Come Down”

[29:23–32:42]
- The post-show transition is hard: “You put so much of your worth into your career… once it’s done, your body goes into fight or flight and doesn’t know what to do.” ([30:07], Ezra Sosa)
- Ezra admits mastery over “the come down” eludes him—finding new projects helps.
- “After GMA, I was like doom scrolling...also part of me just didn’t want to let it go.” ([31:51], Ezra Sosa)

9. Maintaining Identity in a Demanding Industry

[44:11–47:14]
- As a queer performer, Ezra thoughtfully balances masculine and feminine energy:
  - “I’ll only ‘fem it up’ or be really masculine if it calls for it creatively... my job is to be a vessel for what [my partner] wants to do.” ([44:19], Ezra Sosa)
- Staying true to oneself is vital:
  - “A lot of people in this industry tend to lose themselves over a job... what helped me the most was allowing space to discover myself. But once I did, really staying true to who that was.” ([47:04], Ezra Sosa)

10. Advice from Fellow Pros & Support System

[39:49–40:55]
- Ezra relied on advice and support from other pros, notably Whitney Carson, Brit, and Riley.
- “Sometimes you just need to hear that you’re doing a good job, and Riley was always that friend for me.” ([40:54], Ezra Sosa)
- The camaraderie and mentorship on set proved invaluable—especially as this was his first full season as a pro.

11. Rapid-Fire: Lemon 7 Questions

Highlights ([50:09–55:13]):
1. Movie/song describing mental health: ‘Inception’ (“when I leave a huge project I go into existential crisis”)
2. Openness about struggle: Very open—believes in strength through community and shared experiences.
3. Top social follows: Riley Arnold, Jay Shetty, Jennifer Coolidge.
4. Favorite self-care: Self-expression, especially dancing around the kitchen (“the best therapy I have discovered for myself”).
5. Most misunderstood: “How smart I actually am. I’m really good with other people’s energies, getting personality out of them.”
6. Who helps your mental health: His mom—her capacity to change and fully accept him after he came out.
7. One moment to revisit: Being eliminated with Anna—would tell himself “this is just the beginning.”

Notable Quotes & Memorable Moments

On public scrutiny:
“Being in the public eye, you are accepting those opinions… No matter what I do, it will happen.” ([19:26], Ezra Sosa)
On his viral freestyle:
“There’s such a surreal experience when you see someone do your freestyle in front of you. That’s so cool.” ([11:04], Ezra Sosa)
On sustaining passion:
“When I got depressed, I would just be in bed… being in these cities, there is an opportunity… but I’m just choosing to be in bed all day.” ([27:32], Ezra Sosa)
On self-discovery:
“Allowing space to discover myself. But once I did, really staying true to who that was.” ([47:11], Ezra Sosa)
On identity as a performer:
“I’ll only fem it up… or be really masculine if it calls for the creative.” ([44:19], Ezra Sosa)
On his journey:
“If I could go back… I would tell myself this is just the beginning—stay true to who you are.” ([54:47], Ezra Sosa)

Important Timestamps

Citrus Got Real (Icebreaker) & Opening Banter: [03:32–05:41]
Career Motivation & Proving Himself: [05:41–07:10]
Jordan Chiles Partnership: [07:10–08:24]
Favorite Dances & Freestyle Origins: [08:28–11:25]
Coping with Public Discourse: [18:06–22:11]
Social Media Boundaries: [23:00–24:17]
Tour & Mental Health: [24:22–27:57]; [29:23–32:42]
Identity and Performer Dynamics: [44:11–47:14]
Peer Support & Advice: [39:49–40:55]
Lemon 7 Rapid-Fire: [50:09–55:13]

Tone & Language

The tone is candid, vulnerable, and occasionally humorous. Both Tay and Ezra strike a warm, supportive, and energetic dynamic throughout.

Summary

Ezra Sosa’s episode is a window into the highs and lows of pursuing your passion under the scrutiny of the spotlight. He speaks openly about pressure, identity, criticism, resilience, and the importance of remaining true to oneself. The conversation is rich with wisdom for anyone navigating creative industries or balancing mental health against public perception. The closing message: “Stay true to who you are. You’ll be okay.”