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Jesse Macy, Anna, Natasha, Rachel Kelsey Anderson Daisy Kent, Jacqueline Laura Manny Today we're going to be answering some of your most requested questions on relationships, love, and all the fun stuff in between. Period. Dang, that was good. I'm like she memorized that so quick. Doing this ain't doing this. What's your biggest ick? I'll start when they're too needy too quickly. That's ick of that. Bad breath, dude. Bad breath if it hits the nostrils. Wait, do I sexualize men? I was going to say like biceps. I love a good chest. I love shoulders. Shoulders, Shoulders. Are you kiss on the first date? Absolutely. The the breath work. It was like great that he was really into it, but watching him like squirm and yell I was. Oh no, that was spontaneous. I wasn't planning on doing it, but I did it for the plot. What do you Think about sliding into someone's DMs. YOLO. I'll be like, have we really sat down and gone through the entire Los Angeles Rams roster and sent everyone a dm? Shoot your shot. I went to Vegas on my first date, and now I'm engaged to that man. Just go with it. Maybe it's because you don't have kids. Probably. Honestly, clock that ticket. Honestly. Let's clock that tattoo. Let's clock that tv. When life gives you lemons, what do you do with them? Over here at the Squeeze, we talk about it. Hello, Lemon Drops. Welcome back to another episode of the Squeeze. This one is a little different than our normal episodes. I have some friends with me this episode, and we are spilling all of the tea on love, relationships, ourselves, and lots of things. And I have two beautiful humans with me to kick this episode off. If you want to introduce yourselves. Hi, I'm Lexi. I'm Victoria. Happy to be back. I know, right? Thanks for having us back. Yes. Return. Return guests. The reboot. The reboot. It's the Remix the world tour. So we're gonna be put on the spot here with some of these cards Tay has prepared, but I'm gonna give you my all. You're ready. Okay. I guess we can probably start with. Oh, wow. There's actually some good ones on here. And I'm actually surprised that. I'm surprised because I wrote these. Wow, where. Where do I want to start? Maybe let's just start with biggest ick. I feel like that is such. Such, like, the go to question. Being rude to strangers. Oh, being rude to servers. Being rude to servers. Like, yes. It's like a friend for me, too. Out of somewhere. No, it's even. Yes for even when I have friends. It's. Oh, my God, it's bad. Wait, I'm curious. Did you guys work in the service industry? Nursing. Okay, so not service industry. That is a lot of service. I didn't, but my mom did, and she has so many stories about waitressing and, like, things she learned and just a lot of stories. So I think about it. Okay. That is. That is the best biggest ache, though. It's like, oh, no, absolutely not. Because also, I think I heard one time a celebrity would take dates into environments and leave them for, like, 30 minutes to an hour and see how they survived and then how they treated other people and then come back because sometimes they'd find that they treated them differently than they treated, like, just anyone if they didn't know who they were. Interesting. It's really interesting that Is smart strategy. That's a big. That's a big one for me. Find the good eggs. You gotta be. You gotta be nice to everyone. What. What would be maybe the worst date you've ever had if you haven't had a bad one? Maybe like the best date we can go either end of the spectrum wiped up for eight years. I'm like, did I go on a date before Mac? I know, I know. I feel like it's just of like rude to say that I've been. I know. I don't. I don't really think I like, went on that many dates. I feel like maybe you both feel this way with your forever partners. Like anything before my husband, I'm like, that was not real. No. I'm like, I blacked it out. I felt nothing. Like, this is the only relationship I had. I think my worst day was I went to get tacos and I don't think this man said a single word to me. And I kept trying to start a conversation. And then at the end of the night, he went in for a kiss, which I wasn't expecting because it was a horrible day. And it literally, like, I'm not kidding, it was like, like it like actually hurt my head. Like it was like in and out so quick. And then he got in his car and backed into my neighbor's house. So he was probably like so frazzled. Like, secondhand embarrassment. Yes. That was fun. Yeah. And then, and then he ghosted me so. Well, he was, he had to have been like, so embarrassed. I mean, there's nothing embarrassing. Like, I've had plenty of car accidents in my day. So. Bad driver. I wouldn't say bad driver. I would say bad in parking lots. Okay, that's funny. I actually thought of a worst date. The date wasn't bad. It was a Taylor. But the, the experience itself was like, bad. It was comical. I think it was like our six months, like, day diversary dinner. We went to the sushi place that everyone had like raved about. And it was so bad. Taylor and I would like, we're putting it like, we would try it and then we would spit it out in our napkin. We ended up putting it in our napkins and bringing it to the bathroom because we like, felt tired. Taylor and I both get really, like, anxious about like setting things back because someone worked hard and made that and I feel bad. So we just threw it away in the bathroom and then we went home. And did you take turns going to do that? Uh huh. I went to the bathroom. That's sweet of you guys got Mexican food after. So it was. It was. It wasn't like I work. The food was not great. Yeah, the company was nice. Well, the sushi you gave us tonight was incredible. So you guys have redeemed yourselves. Opposite experience. That's funny. What do you think about sliding into someone's DMs? I support it. YOLO. I support it so much. If anything, I feel like I underestimate how, I don't know, nerve wracking that is for my single friends. Because I'll be like, I'll be like, have we really sat down and gone through the entire Los Angeles Rams roster and sent everyone a dm? And my friend's like, I don't think they're like, what if they talk? You know, I'm like, but if they don't shoot your shots, you want to be with the pro athlete. I didn't know that's where that was going. That's hilarious. But then they're like, they're like, it's nerve. I can't. That's awkward. But I guess because I'm like, like I said white for eight years. I have no. I'm so out of the game that I'm like, just text them and say, I'm really interested. Can we go on a date? And they're like, that would be the worst thing I could say. A, that's hot. I think it's hot when someone's like, I know what I want. Like, hey, like, I'll pick you up at 8. And if they don't respond, like, that's on them. You know, like, who knows? Maybe just be delusionally happening. Just be, you know, delusionally happy and just tell yourself that maybe they're seeing someone and it's not public yet and that's why they didn't respond. But also I would just wait for a second story that they post for me to like swipe up on. And, you know, I feel like that's dipping your toe in the water. It's like, I do think, yeah. The follow. Did they follow you back? Are they watching your story? Have they liked. Have they liked anything? I would need to, like, feel like the water is warm before I just sent a dm. Yeah. Because you know what's the worst why when you dm some certain people, you can't unsend it. Oh, some people you can. And then you can only send like a certain amount of care. This has happened where, like, if you're not like, friends with them, you can like send the message. And then you can't, like, send another one. I guess it says they have to, like, approve. And you're like, but my first message doesn't make sense with. I have that all the time. I feel like it's like podcast pitches. And I'm like, wait. I click send by accident. I think it's their settings. Yeah. Yeah. But then I just sit there and I'm like, hopefully they know it's their setting so they're not like, yeah, weirdo. Hopefully. I guess we'll never know. I guess we'll never know. I guess we'll never know. I guess I'll never know. Kissing on the first date, if you're into it, yes. I went to Vegas on my first date, and now I'm engaged to that man. So, you know, just go with it. Did you guys plan to go to Vegas or it, like, happened? No, he. I met him 48 hours prior at a party. I didn't know him. I hadn't talked to him for more than five minutes of the party. He asked me on a date. We went to lunch. He took me out to a cute little lunch spot. And I was like, do you ever just, like, want to do something spontaneous? And he's like, I love spontaneous. Liar. And then I was like, let's flip a coin and let it. And let's flip a coin and choose a place to drive to right now. And it was San Francisco, San Diego, Las Vegas, and I think one other spot, and it didn't land on Vegas, but we were like, we're going to Vegas. And you drove? Yeah, we drove. I feel so nervous about the car ride being really awkward. And so that's what everyone has said. Once I told them the story, I didn't even get that far. No, that didn't even go into my brain for one second. We were just in it, and we talked the whole way there. We, like, didn't hold anything back. We told each other everything. And it's funny because a couple of our friends then tested out the first date trip theory, like the extended first date theory, the coin flip. And it really let them figure things out quickly, you know? Wow. I did not even think about the car ride. No, that's. I probably wouldn't either. And then we'd be in it, and I'd be like, oh, no, I can't let, like, there be a break in the conversation. You know when you have to get to a level with someone, even friends, where you can just be silent and not think about it, that's when you really. It's so great. I love rotting with my friends. Yeah. Silence and friendship is just, like, so nice. Even though I feel like that sounds weird, but it's so nice. You were one of those people that, like, I quickly felt okay being, like, quiet around. I was like, I don't need to perform for her. I feel safe around her. You really are so chill, Tay. Wait, guys, that's so nice. Like, that's, like, the sweetest. Even tonight, hosting such a huge group, you're so, like, composed, and it's like, no big deal, and I admire that. Thanks, guys. Now I'm uncomfortable. That was very sweet. Next question. Next question. Oh, I'm trying to find, like, a good relationship, maybe, like, best advice to a healthy relationship. What do you feel like you've maybe learned or something that you wanted to know, you could have known going into your relationship? Hmm. I would say I'm trying to give, like, a more unique take than I. My usual chick. I would say, like, be wary of the stuff that you've seen in the movies that you think is, like, really passionate, true love that's actually toxic. Like, you shouldn't feel jealous if your partner's hanging out with the opposite sex. They shouldn't be texting you, asking you what you're wearing to the party they're not going to be at. Like, I don't know. I just think when you really trust each other. Yeah. Then you don't need to do that stuff. And I think that you hear people say, like, it's. They, like, when it's, like, chaotic and there's constantly conflict, or, like, you have an argument to then be told that they love you and it's okay. It's like, let's avoid the whole argument and just say, I'm really craving love right now. Like, can you validate me? Can we cuddle, like, instead of starting a fight to then get the thing, you know? Yeah. That's really good. I really like that. I think mine would be, like, learning communication styles, because I feel like once Taylor and I learned that about each other, it was, like, such smooth sailing because we are opposite communicators. And Taylor would always think, like, I was upset at him or, like, he would get frustrated. That, like, I just, like, couldn't, like, talk when he was like, want to talk? And I was like, I don't know. I'm flustered. And now, like, he knows, like, he'll, like, vent to me, and then he'll be like, okay, I'll talk. We'll talk tomorrow about this, I'm like, oh, okay, great. Like it's, it's so much like more healthy and we can, like, we don't get upset at each other. Like, I know how he talks. I know how I talk. So I love that. That would probably be my advice. I know that's huge. Communication styles is huge. I think for me, it was like before the relationship even started working on myself and being like, it's okay to be single. And I was actually excited to have that time to really deep dive because before my current fiance, I dated very like problematic people that caused me a lot of pain and were very narcissistic and some were abusive. And it was something where it took me stopping and being single long enough to actually see that I was dating in a pattern because of my past trauma. And once I recognized that I was able to get a breath of fresh air, breathe a little bit, work on myself a little bit. And then I was able to finally start gravitating towards the right people. Yeah. And actively seek out like a different type of person. Stop attracting the wrong person and be able to see the red flags before it's too late. See, we knew we would get deep for you guys, this trio, we knew it. We knew this is who we are in our core. Victoria and I were like, we're going to be so funny and cute. Like, we tried. Not us. Okay, last question on. On the same kind of note is if you had to recommend one thing that's helped your mental health, what would that be? Should I say mine? Spending less time on the Internet. Yeah. Which I probably shouldn't be saying as someone who creates content for a living, but in doses, you know, you have to, you have to give yourself breaks for sure. And the doom scrolling, especially at night. Yeah, it gets like your brain all crazy. But yeah, I would say therapy. It's a huge privilege that I've been able to go the amount that I go and for the years I've gone, I've gone like on and off depending on the season of life I'm in. But it's really been amazing. And I think if you are able to seek the help, seek it. And even opening up to someone that you love and talking to them just like takes the weight off of your shoulders. So huge. Yeah, those are both really good. I think maybe mine would be just taking that first step in admitting or saying out loud like what you're feeling. Because I feel like it's always not admitting you have a problem, but like admitting, hey, I'm struggling with this. Hey, I'm having these thoughts. Hey, I'm going through this. That first, like, initial thing could be so scary. But then once you say it, you're like, oh wait, this actually, like, isn't as like, scary as, like, I built it up to be in my head. And when you say it out loud, like even to yourself in a journal or to someone that you love and trust, it's like, hey, I'm not like, in this alone. It's like it's out in the world now and it's, it's better. You know what's crazy is I feel like 90% of the time I'm just guessing, but to me it seems like almost 90% of the time it's never as bad as you think it's gonna be. Yeah, people don't respond as bad as you think they will. Things don't turn out as bad as you think they will. 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Let's do it. Let's start with that one. Okay. Mine is hygiene or like, smell. I'm a really big smell. And like teeth. Me too. Cleanliness. Hygiene. That's a good one. Also, we talked about being rude to customer service. That's a big. Yeah, we talk about that a lot, actually. I feel like mine. ABC posted a deleted scene of our show and it was Jordan doing the sound bath. And he was like, the. The breath work. My egg is breath work. Sorry. Yeah. And I was dying and I was like, I think that's my. No, I got a bad ick in that. Yeah, it was like, great that he was really into it, but watching him like Squirm and yell. I was like, oh, no. That would have given me the ick too. I was getting the egg sitting there. I don't know how anyone was getting into it. I was under my blanket laughing the whole time. It was so funny. I think my biggest ick is like mouth sounds. Like loud chewing, loud breathing. I can't handle mukbangs. Like any kind of mouth. Like, sounds like loud chewing with like the mouth. Like chewing gum with your mouth open. I don't know. Okay, I get that. I have a hard time. I think it's called something. It's like a. Like a. No, it is a phobia called like misophonia or something. Of course she knows. I know. I already have a self diagnosed. Okay, let's do the. If you were a cookie. Oh, my favorite cookies are snickerdoodles. I was gonna say I love snickerdoodle. So alike. We're in love. Sorry. So is that both of yours? No. Yeah, it was snickerdoodles or chocolate chip or like Nutella. Are you saying a cookie you like or it's supposed to be a cookie that is you. But like Snickers, right? Because they're like a little. They have a little kick, but they're also. I don't know. Right. I was just gonna say like a pink sugar cookie. No. Oh, you would be the Funfetti stuffed Nutella. Well, that's my favorite. Why though? That was so specific. That's my favorite. But why is she. You just said. I don't know. She's like a party. Maybe because, like, the inside's dark. Gooey on the dark side of me is like. Is that a comp? Is the golden retriever? I don't know. You're a black cat. I am. Jesse's probably like the. What's the most plain cookie? Jesse's the plain sugar. Because she's a child. She likes eating, like, chill like a child. You are the sugar cookie. Corn dog. Dogs. That's me. That is so good. Yeah. Okay. Love language. Oh, I feel like mine's quality time and then touch. Yeah. I feel like mine as I've been married. I like all of them. Yeah. And they're so good at all of them. I love massages. Oh, is that enough language? Is that a legit love language? Yes. Add it to the list. Doing everything. I feel like it's so important, though, to know your partner's love language, because you can be given the way they don't receive and be like. But I'M showing you this, and they don't. And that's hard for marriage. I feel like that was something that was so hard in our marriage is like, because when you don't have the same love language and you don't know how to show it, like, if you didn't grow up with words of affirmation, you don't know how to do that for your partner. I feel like that was a big struggle. I did not grow. And that's Jacob. Yes. And I'm like, I don't. Words of affirmation with her. My. Don't tell me what I want to hear. Show me. That's how you require to take that test when you're dating. I'm not kidding. My husband actually. Well, dig a boys talked about it before when we were dating all the time. It was like a thing. Such a sweetie he is. I love that. He's great. I think mine. I think I had, like, acts of service as I married. I didn't before, but it's like, oh, if you're. Do the laundry, clean the house, like, that means a lot to me because I don't have to do it now. And I feel like. Or like when I'm hungry and I want, like, a gas station snack and Jace will run to the gas station massages and gas station runs. You're adding these to the. They're like. These are actually not true. Actually. Actually, no, it's true. Because I feel back that I want to do it, and then it's, like, so nice when they do it. Yeah, that's so nice. What love language is that service? Okay. Yeah, that's a good one. I think as a wife and a mother, I think anyone would relate to that. Yeah, for sure. Exactly. Celebrity crush. Okay. We talked about this on the way over. Yeah. And we, like, who would we be most Starstruck. Yeah. And we were talking about, like, celebrity crushes. Like, when you're in high school, that's such a big thing. When you're married, it's different. Yeah, but who would you guys choose? Chris Hemsworth. Yeah. You knew immediately. But I feel like that's. It's hard because, like, all the old ones that I used to love, like Channing Tatum and Zach. Yeah. I'm like, I'm not really into right now. Yeah. Like them in 2008. That's fine. Yeah. But I'm talking now. Okay. And I feel like there's not a lot of good new ones. I just thought of mine. I couldn't see Jacob Black. Hello. Mine is okay. James. Who is that? Oh, I love Theo. James. Okay, well, okay. Not him, though. I was gonna say, like, if I was thinking, like, all time, like, my whole life. No, actually, Brad Pitt. I always thought he's. Sorry, what? I don't think he. I think he said, you're showing your age. He's a daddy. No, he has, like, the vibe, like the long hair and fight Club. Okay. Yeah. No, I even watched that because you said he was so hot. What do you mean? I had, like, an eight pack. There's something. And he was, like, tan and, like, has, like, nice. Mine's Chad Montgomery. Oh, that's funny. Johnny Moore. But he was married. I was. There was an article that my husband sent me that was like, Jesse and her ex husband, and it was me and Chad Michael Murray. And I was, like, at a meeting. Wouldn't have gotten divorced, but thank you. I'll take it. How is this a news article that doesn't know who Chad Michael Marie is? Yeah, like, he's pretty established, but. Rps, do you order on a first date? A Diet Coke? Yeah, like a pink. A crispy Diet Coke. I'm a glass of Moscato. You guys are like, what's that? I don't even know what the hell that is. I mean, so gross. When I used to drink, it was not Moscato, whatever that is. That's too fancy. You would have just, like, hard. Mine was vodka. Yeah, she's like, no chaser. Mine was shots, no calories. Okay. I. Would you get matching tattoos with your partner? Yes, I have. That is it. You do this one, and we. We're matching on this. We have a matching tattoo, so we're in love. So this one, I feel like it's, like, not with him the same, but it is because it's for our daughter. So it's like a matching tattoo for our daughter. So cute. I feel like it's because. What, are you doomed when you get matching tattoos? Yeah. Tell them what it is. What does it say? Oh, it says golden. Yeah, it's for a daughter. I have golden on my arm. So, like. And we didn't have matching tattoos. We're in love. Me and Jordan both got. Is it. The side is. Do I have. Show us your. I don't see anything. Wait, we're, like, flashing the camera. Wait, you don't have a tattoo there, Jesse. No, you look. Yes, I do. Wait. Oh, there we go. I'm like, you guys, don't die. I'm like, did your surgeon take it off in your fifth boob? Job. My fifth boob job. Sarah, laser it all. I have it, you guys. It says, so our wedding song is Speechless by Dan and J. Like, our first date was their concert. That is hilarious. So, yeah, we both got this. And his is incursive too, so it's like, girly. I was like, cute. You have a tattoo. I do not have a tattoo. And I was just talking about this earlier. I was like, I don't think I would ever get one. Like, I get bored of my nails after two weeks that I don't think I could do it. But I was telling you, it's really sentimental. Like, tattoos on season one, like, we just. I think once you have. That was spontaneous. I wasn't planning on doing it, but I did it for the plot. I don't know if I would do it, and if I did, maybe behind the. I know it got cut out. Mine made it. You got right at the thing. No, mine's on my front. Yeah, that's kind of there. Yeah, it's tiny. It's like this big. I would do one behind my ear, maybe, but you see that when you pull your hair up. So you still see it. You guys, I got a temporary tattoo the other night, and then I washed my face, and it, like, blurred out. Oh, can you. Okay. Yeah. I was looking. I was literally looking at earlier today at lunch, and I was like, did you get a new neck tatter? Just, like, did not notice it. And, like, why is it blurry? Sharpie, why is so funny? I thought you really got it lasered off. And it was, like, in the process of lasering it. Oh, my gosh. It's so funny. If your love life was a movie, what would the title be? Ooh, Swinging Mormons Knocked Up. No, yours would be Teen Mom. Teen Mom Knocked Up. I don't know. I'm like, why does crazy, stupid love come to me? That's a good one. I like that. That brings us into the next one. What's your favorite movie or TV show? Obviously our favorite TV show is the Secret Lives of Mormon Life. We watch it all the time. Favorite movie? My favorite movie is the Dark Knight. Really? I'm obsessed with Batman. It's, like, my thing. Yeah, that's a good one. She has a thing for Batman. I do. She makes Jordan dress up like Batman. Celebrity Crush. I would die. That's my new Ick. Just kidding. I feel like, ew. Gross. What's been surprisingly challenging for your. You and your relationship. Surprisingly challenging, I think, for me, when I got married, I. I think, like, this is gonna get. I'm get screwed for this one. But I was gonna say like, sex because I had sexual tr and I didn't realize. Like, I thought like when I got married, like, oh, it would be like, great. Like, I was so excited and like, it was like. Then I realized I had like, sexual trauma and I was like, triggered by a lot of things. That took like a couple years actually to fully work through that now. Did you ever go to therapy? For a little bit. And then I got over it. That's my problem. Therapy. I just by myself. I did emdr. Oh, okay. So therapy. Yeah, yeah, therapy. Yeah, yeah, yeah. So I did that and I think it helped, but I think just like over time it's gotten better and like, just learning what your triggers are and like, when you are feeling that to like, be able to stop and like, oh, that's triggering me because before I wouldn't say anything. So I'm like, oh, it's embarrassing. I don't like, say anything. Does your therapist at EMDR teach you to like, replace it with like a positive memory? Yeah. Yeah. Like, I feel like I learned how to like, retrain my brain and like, kind of figure out what triggers me, except force. I was like, I don't know what's going on. Like, I didn't understand it and I had to understand it. I was like, oh, I'm like triggered by this. Like, I didn't realize it. And then I think my hardest part is because I never communicated that to him. So he's like, you hate me. Like for a bit. Like, we talk about like our anger comes in. I think it comes from that because it's like you almost put them as your abuser, like, subconsciously. Yeah. Cuz if you're like, not in the mood, you're like, I don't feel like doing this. You're not saying, like, communicating for women, it's so different than men. Yes, it is. And then they reject it. That was like a. Yeah, our thing too, but it was like they feel rejected. But you're like, I'm not trying to. I don't know. But you're also voicing it to them. Yeah, once I voiced it and he like, under. She's like, oh my gosh. Like, this makes sense. Like, I'm so sorry. And I was like, I know. Well, I probably should have told you earlier. Like, that's my bad. But. But you feel like you've worked through that now. Like, you guys. Yeah. Like, I feel like I don't nearly get triggers as Much. And like, I know what bugs me or like triggers me. So I just learned. And he knows too. So it's like we just work through those things. It's like fine now. It was like the first two years, I would say not like consistently, but like. But the first year or two is hard for any marriage. Yeah. I feel like the first 10 years. Yeah, okay. Seven year itch. That's a thing. Yeah. Like the first 10 years, I'm like, great. But she also had long ass time. Yeah. But I feel like mine was parenting. Like learning how to take your different parenting styles and your different childhoods and upbringings and kind of like make it your own. And you parent this way, you're good cop, I'm bad cop, or vice versa. That was hard. And it's probably when you both have kids too. Yep. Like, Jacob was learning how to be a dad for the first time. Jordan was already a dad. Like, mixing. Yeah. Yeah. He was the good cop, though. So I was like, I'm the bad cop. I feel like we're Both like, we're 50, 50 now. But like he was the good couple, just the fun dad. And I'm like, hey, but he's being mean to me. I feel like toddlers. Which off though? Like, I feel like if I'm ever mean to Haven or if I tell her no, like, my kids know, they'll go to Jason, be like, mom's being. Yes. They play you against each other. Yes. And then if there's something, then they'll come to me and be like, dad's being so mean. And I'm like, oh, no. I am like, what's wrong with you? But then like, Jacob actually always backs me. That's the problem. Jacob backs me. And I'm like, why are you being mean to them? I like it like, so mad. It's like mama bear comes out. Well, speaking of therapy, if you had to recommend one thing that's helped your mental health, what would it be? Therapy. Yeah, therapy. No, therapy is hard. It was hard for me to get into. It is hard. Especially when you grow up not expressing your feelings. It's like going to therapy is so hard. Especially when you have to fight. You have to find a therapist that you like and you're not comfortable. Yes. You have to be comfortable. I'll go into therapy and I'll be so uncomfortable. And just like when I'm uncomfortable, I over share. Yeah. And then I'll go after that therapist and be like, I actually don't like this therapist. And I'm never Gonna go back to them. And I just shared all this for nothing. Yeah. It's hard, but it takes a few sessions to get there too. To where you feel comfortable enough to, like. Yeah. I think that's the hardest part is starting with a new therapist. It's like girls trips. I think hanging out with girlfriends is good too. Oh, my gosh. Anything outside of your marriage and kids and, like, daily routines? I think so. Good. I agree with that. Yeah. Like, having good friends. And I would say, like, I like to, like, if I'm really stressed or anxious, like, to go on, like, a walk and, like, listen to just calm music. Eating. That's good. I was gonna say. And then having time for yourself to, like, ground and. Yes. Even if it's five minutes at the end of your day, like, alone time. I don't think Jesse has ever had five minutes. She doesn't want five minutes. I actually don't know. I'm just saying that because I've heard it. She's like, I'm role playing. Great, guys. Well, thank you for listening to us. Just gab the whole time. Hi there. I'm Anna. I'm Rachel. I'm Natasha. And today we're going to be answering some of your most requested questions on relationships. Oh, my gosh. And dating and mental health. Love. All the things, all the good stuff. Take it away, babe. Okay, if you were a cookie, what cookie would you be? I love cookies. Ooh, ooh. Probably a homemade peanut butter cookie. Oh. But has to be homemade. Has to be homemade. Has to be homemade. Don't ask me why. Okay. I just think they're the best cookie. I love that for you. What about you? Oatmeal raisin, but like a good one. Yeah. Homeowned made nuts. Nuts. I'm a no. Nuts. Yeah. That's good. You're eating. I know, but I don't like the texture of nuts in my cookie. Okay. Would you have, like, little chocolate chips in your oatmeal or. No, just raisins. No, no chocolate chips. Oh. Raisins instead. Raisins are amazing. That's a good. You're not vi. Not agree. I like level chocolate. Like, I think I would be like. Oh, my gosh. I'd either be like a. A chocolate chocolate chip, like a chocolate brownie chocolate chip fudge cookie, or I would be like one of those, like, ones that has the Hershey K the middle of it. I feel like that gives me with it's peanut butter base, but, like, little kiss on the top so it's bust Together? Yeah, with, like, a little kiss on the forehead. Yeah. I love that. Okay, let's see. Oh. Oh. Ooh, Ooh. Worst date ever. She said, I got mini. It was. It wasn't bad. He didn't do anything, like, weird. Well, it was weird. Okay. That's worse than okay. We went on a date, and I kind of knew, like, right off the bat. It wasn't really vibing, But I didn't respond quick enough to say, like, I didn't want to go on the second date. Like, I had made plans, like, oh, yeah, we'll go out again, whatever. And then after, I thought about. I'm like, I don't want to, but I never canceled, so I went on the second date, and the whole time, he was, like, talking about, like, plans for the future and trips with his family, and I was like, whoa, it's moving, like, really fast. No one, like, I'm. This isn't gonna go anywhere. And then at the end of the date, mind you, it was a holiday, so there was, like, a bunch of families at this restaurant, like, all celebrating. And he asked the waiter if he could take a photo of us having dessert. Oh, no. And we're at, like, a super long table, so it was just us, like, leaning in with this waiter, and I was so uncomfortable. And I never saw him after that, so I don't know where that photo lives. Oh, he just has it framed in his kitchen. Yeah. And looks at it daily. Yeah. Yeah. So the two candles. My worst day. Okay. And it's not bad. It's not bad. It's just a little, like, awkward, you know? Yeah. Yeah. I haven't gone on many dates. That's okay. So I feel like. I think the worst one is more of, like. I think I was judging. Judging him a bit more than anything. We. It was a little, like. I feel like it was the same. It was just awkward. We went to. We went for a day date. I don't drink, so I feel like I don't really get to go on. Like, we don't go out ever. And, like, dinner feels like a big commitment. Like, I'm a coffee girl. So, like, we went out to coffee, but he took me to, like, his favorite coffee shop where he knew everybody, and they all knew about me before I got there. Yeah, it was. Yeah. And, like, I got there, and everyone was, like, really gassing him up, and I was kind of like, if you need this many people to convince me that you're a good person, I don't. I don't know how I feel about it, you know? Like, it was just like, everyone, like, knew, and they were like, oh, my God, he's told us about you, and we had never hung out before. No. Yeah. Love bomb. And then, like, also, everyone was like, me. A lot of compliments. I was like, this is nice, but, like, is it just because you want me to stay? Yes. Yeah. Honestly, these are good. Like, these. Because these aren't, like, they're not doing something innately, like, bad. No, exactly. You know what I mean? It's, like, weird. Yeah. And I mean, I have, like. Yeah, I feel like I have, like, bad boy stories of, like, weird stuff boys did. But, like, on a date specifically, like, that would probably be the weirdest. So agree with you. You know, like, boys kind of suck sometimes. But, like, straight men are so scary. No, they. I fear. No, they're so scary. Like, I have to date one, but it's like, no, unfortunately. Exactly. No, I think about that all the time. Anyway, let's see my worst. Both of us having boyfriends. You like your straight man? Yeah, I love my straight man. Let's see my worst day. It's not even that bad, but I was about to graduate nursing school, so I went on a date with this guy, and he knew I was gonna graduate nursing school, and he's like, can I be honest with you? I was like, yeah, what's up? Tell me anything. Tell me you're in love with me. He's like, no, I can't date nurses. And I said, so then why am I on this date? He's like, well, I thought it would be cool, but since you're gonna be a nurse, like, I just don't think it's gonna go far. I was like, can I ask you why? He's like, you guys work too much. Then, like, you guys need a lot of, you know, help when you come home. And I said, oh, yeah? Yeah. The siblings are not gonna work for me. I just sat there, and I just stayed. And he's like, shall we pray? I said, it's giving. You want to be a man who serves his wife but don't want to serve me? Okay, got it. Yeah. Of course I made him pay, and I got extra food, and then I took it home. But I was like, fine, as you should. Oh, but he was so cute. Dang it. That's what I'm saying. Like, cute. He was an engineer. Love an engineer. I'm an engineer. I can say that. Yeah. But anyway, moving on. God bless. Okay, God bless. God bless. I hope the opportunity. Anyway, yeah. Still single to this day. Oh, is he? Yeah. And he's like 34, 35. Oh, awkward. Okay, that's tough. Straight men. Okay, what's your biggest ick? Oh, there's so many. I have a good one. A man who uses the same joke on me as he uses on other women. Oh, that's a new one. Unlocked. Yeah. Can you give me an example? Because I feel like it happened to you. Yes. To be honest, I feel like. I know. Listen, listen. I love my boyfriend with my whole heart. Has he said it? He. He did it. And that's how I know that it was a nick. But it's okay. But we're in love now. I'm getting warm. We're in love now, and it's okay. And it didn't even make me that upset. I just kind of like realized. I'm like, oh, that joke doesn't land with multiple women. This is side note from that. But I get the same joke all the time. When I tell people I'm homeschooled, they always say. They every person say, stop, I'm ready. That explains so much about yourself. I said, dude, I've heard that joke. You think you're funny. I've heard that joke since Mean Girls, bro. No, literally, like, everyone. Anyway. No, I have the same ick. But that's like, if I hear you repeating the same joke to anybody in general, it's like, you know it's funny, so you're trying to get the laugh. Yeah, that gives me the ick. Even though, like, I'm sure I do that. But if I see somebody else doing it. No, A funny story. That's one thing. Telling a funny story multiple times. It's like having a little inside joke and then making it. Everybody's inside joke. Yes. Not acceptable. Yeah, no. Agree. My ick. What's your ick? I don't like when people smack their food. None of that. Got it. Do you like that? Okay, this is a quick yes or no. Okay, ready? Do you kiss on the first date? I don't think I have. Not. Not on, like, an official date. Yeah. Okay. Yeah. No, Love. No. If it's a first date of someone that I've never met. No. If it's a first date with a friend that I've known for, like a minute, I'm like, okay. It's like situation to situation. Like, if it's. If I'm vibing, then yeah, sure. But I. I can't say that I have. No, I haven't either. Okay. Yeah. Love. Look at Us girlies. Do you have any relationship deal breakers? I. Listen, I was just looking. I, like, I would maybe say someone cheating, but I also want to know the context. I can't. Look at me. No, come on. But you can grow. You. Like, I don't. I don't accept that anymore. You know what I mean? I don't think you should accept that. No, no, not anymore. Like, I think, like, the, like, cheating is, like, such a complicated thing where it's like, is it texting? Is like, actually sleeping with someone? Is it emotionally cheating? Like, you know what I mean? I think there's so many layers to it that, like, I feel like I would say that's a deal breaker, but I think it depends on what context. I think a deal breaker for me is you. If a guy who doesn't have his own friends, I don't know why I. I, like, can't do it. I was gonna say mean to his mom. Oh, that. No, that's a good one, too. Mean to his mom. If he's mean to, like, either of his parents. Honestly, I will say this is now a deal breaker of mine. Being with my current boyfriend. I want someone who's, like, about me, you know? Like, I want someone who is just about me, loves me, like, only thinks about me. Because I've been with people where you're, like, begging for their attention. Yeah. It's like. It is the worst feeling. Like, if I'm with you, I don't want to feel like I have to, like, earn your love. Yes. You know what I mean? I love that now that I'm with someone who, like, makes 100% confident and validated, I'm like, oh, that would be a deal breaker. Like, I just. I couldn't. They're going to, like, be there for not the right reasons. Just pumped to it. Okay, guys, I want to ask. I'm going to take pictures of these because I want to sit at dinner and go through them and ask them all. We bring them down. So we don't know about this? No. Okay, I'll let you show you. Did you ever see this thing where it was. Listen, wait, wait, wait. Real quick. Have you seen this thing where you pick a topic for every mile of the race? Really? It's like you run a half marathon and you have 13 topics. You only have one mile it to do. Talk about the topic. Okay, we were doing that. I think that sounds so smart. Okay. So fun. Wait, real quick. What physical attribute are you most attracted to? Ooh. And then we're gonna do Mental health. Mouth and, like, teeth. It's your mouth. Anything. You have nice teeth. I look at all about it. Every person I talk to, I will look at your mouth first. Wait, do I sexualize men? I was gonna say, like, biceps. Oh, that's really good. I love a good. I love a good chest. I love shoulders. Shoulders. Shoulders are. I have a really weird thing for, like, arms, forearms, like, oh, babe, I'm a nurse. I eat that up. You know what I mean? Listen. Okay, wait. Let's focus. If you had to recommend one thing that's helped your mental health, what would it be? Honestly, exercise is really good for me. Like, if I can get outside in fresh air and work out, and it doesn't have to be something, like, strenuous. It can be a walk, whatever. Like, it helps me so much. That's such a good answer. I was literally gonna say therapy. I started going to therapy a year and a half ago. Slay the house down. I've never been better. Like, literally. I feel, like, funny enough post marathon, like, post an exercise. I feel like my, like, brain clicked back in for the first time in a year, and I was like, is this what the world looks like again? Yeah. So, yeah, therapy for sure. For me, it was. I set aside time to do devotion, like, not at church. Like, I have my own time alone with my dog. And we just, like, talk to God. We just, like, talk love. I love that. It just kind of centers me. Whatever you believe. And I feel like taking time to talk to whatever that is. Yeah, it kind of, like, brings you back to, like, what you. Your core is. Agreed. Kind of equilibrium is like, yeah, we can conquer the day. I love that. And running and running and running. The girls are running. Thanks for having me, guys. Welcome to the Squeeze. We are back. I'm Kelsey Anderson. I am Daisy Kent, and we are here reporting live from the Squeeze. Daisy, would you like to go first? Okay. What is your love language? My love language is all the languages. I want them all. That's mine too. I think they're all super important. Yeah. Physical touch. I want you to tell me me how much you love me. I want all of the actions and everything. Yeah. Words of affirmation, all that. I feel like I might know this one. Kiss on the first date. Absolutely. Good for you, girl. My older sister actually told me, though. She said, never kiss a guy on the first date. But why is that? Why do you have to? I feel like if the vibes are right. The vibes are right. Yeah. If the vibes are right, the Vibes are right. I feel like you just need to feel it. It's not necessarily, is it right or is it wrong? It's like, in the moment. If you're feeling it. Yeah. Feel it. And you're feeling it. Yeah. What drink do you order on your first date? I like to be a little classy, so I usually will do, like, a white wine, I think. Yeah. Savvy? Me? Yeah, savvy on blanc. Biggest fashion regret. Biggest what? Fashion regret. Fashion regret. That yellow dress I wore on the Bachelor and everyone said I looked like Big Bird. I thought you looked beautiful. I think yellow is exactly what I was talking about. No, only because of what the Internet said. I. Whenever we were there in the moment, I did not think that was an ugly dress at all. I thought it was. Even looking back, I didn't think it was ugly. I think that the Internet is just crazy. Also, they literally grilled me for wearing. And in the moment, I knew that was a bad idea. But they were comfortable. Yeah. So it is what it is. I loved them. Yeah. I thought they were cute. Would you get matching tattoos with your partner? I think that I would if I was married to them. Yeah. But also, like, I'm not a big tattoo person. At the same time, I think that it would be, like, maybe I'd make him get a tattoo. Yeah. For me. Exactly. Maybe not matching. Just. You get one for me. Yeah. Just in honor of me. How do you feel about pda? I love pda, but sometimes I feel like I get a little awkward about it. How so? Like, I'm like, oh, people are, like, watching. See, I love pda. And I think maybe I'm too much sometimes. But not, like, I'm not trying to make out. Like, I just love, like. Yeah, like, playing. Yes. I love, like, touching around me, like, grabbing my hand. Yeah. Love that. Right? But it won't be, like. Yeah, I'm not trying to, like, make out. I'm thinking of, like, midday in a corner high school. Do you ever see people, like, against the locker? Yes. Leaning over. Everyone's like, oh, my God. Oh, my God, they're crazy. Favorite date. Someone's taking you on. It's definitely Joey. I'm trying to think. I feel like one of my favorite dates that we've had is just being at home and, like, ordering, like, our favorite pizza and Joey. Picking out a movie. Yeah. I think that right now, those little moments of just, like, spending time together and not having a bunch of noise around us are my favorite. Just like the YouTube. You two together? Yes. Exactly. Yeah. Yeah. Oh, I got another one. If you go, have you ever been cheated on? If. So, how did you find out? Yes, I have been. Actually, I was. I forget what grade I was in, but I went on family vacation. High school. Yeah. In high school. With my family. And then got back, and he asked me to prom, and I was like, oh, like my boyfriend. Yeah, obviously, I'll go to prom with you. And then found out, like, a week before prom that he had cheated on me while you were gone on that vacation. Yeah. What did you do? Still went to prom with Kitty. I know. It's like, a week before my high school prom. I should have went with one of my best guy friends. Him and his girlfriend broke up. You should have went with his best friend. Should we go together? But I still went with him. Yeah, but it's okay. You live and you learn. Yeah. Living and you learn. Yeah. Okay. Tell us the story of your first kiss. Oh, my gosh. My first kiss was in junior high, and it was in between periods. And, like, the school that I went to was very small. It's like high school, junior high. Like, all the grades were kind of mixed up, so I was like. I think in, like, eighth grade. And he was, like, a ninth grader. Okay. So, like, super hot. And we were, like, texting, and he was like, do you want to kiss in between periods? And I was like, oh, my God. And so we, like, met at the adrenaline. So nervous. We met this corner, and I was so. And, like, we literally, like, pecked. And I was like. I. I was like, you know, I was very unwell. I had to go to the bathroom. I, like, had to, like, get my breathing in the. No, no. It was just like. I remember I like, hyped it up so much, and then it happened. I was like, oh, that was it, you know? Oh, dude. Yeah, that was it. Mine was traumatizing. What was it my. I think I was in. Was I in ninth or tenth? I think I was in tenth grade. Your first kiss was in tenth grade? Yes, I know. I'm crazy. As an eighth grade, this new guy moved to our school. His. His name is Alex. Shout out Alex. But he was in. Don't tell Thor. But he was in my brother's grade because my brother's only a year older than us, and we were, like, hanging out. And then I remember I was, like, leaving his house, his parents house, and he was, like, going in to hug me, and I was like, okay, I've never been kissed before. I'm like. It was obviously Just gonna be a hug to me. And then he, like, turns to kiss me. And I remember he, like, halfway, like, hit my mouth halfway didn't. And I was like, oh, my God. And then I leave. And then the next day, my brother's at, like, Wednesday night, like, football, talking with all the guys, like, after practice, and I get a call from my brother, and I'm in my car, and my brother's like, hey, I heard you had your first kiss. And I was like. And he missed your face or something. And I just heard a bunch of guys dying, laughing. I was like, oh, my God. Because he. He told everybody. He told everyone. And my brother. Trauma dies. I have a good one for you. Okay. Advice for someone who hasn't found their person yet. I would just say that it's okay to have standards and don't ever let those not be met. That your person's out there. And I think that everyone has different timelines. Yeah. But I would just say be patient and put yourself out there. Yes. You never know who's gonna come walk down the street. You never know who's gonna have a big old ha. No. Okay, wait. I'll ask you one last one. 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And today we're going to be answering some of your most requested questions on relationships, love, and all the fun stuff in between, period. Dang, that was good. I'm like, she memorized that so quick, honey. It's like she's a podcaster. Literally. Literally. Okay, so we have some questions yet. What's your biggest? Ick. I'll start. I have too many. Honestly. When they're too needy, too quickly. Bad breath, dude. Bad breath takes me. And someone could be so attractive. But, baby, if it hits the nostrils. When I watch Love is Blind, that's all I can think. I'm like, what if they fall in love? And when they meet, I don't care about the ugly. You can be ugly. That's how it is. The breath better be correct. Every time they meet, I'm like, what if he has bad breath? I just imagine it. Okay. No, I'll freak out. I'll literally freak out. Laura, if your love life was a movie, what movie would it be? I know it's hard. We can come back to it. We'll come back. What about you? I don't know. I know mine's like Finding Nemo or something. I find. Shit, y' all, it's mugged over here. Yeah. Manny, I love you so much. I just heard what you said. Finding. I'm sorry to sweat. Okay. I'm so sorry. Well, we're going to come back to you. I want you to think about, if your love life was a movie, what movie would it be? I love that. Mr. Mr. Smith. Just kidding. Oh, the fight scene. Like, listen. Yeah, the fight scene was. Yeah, no, it was definitely a fantasy at one point. Okay. No, sorry, go ahead. Okay, so let's see. Mine is going to be what's your love language? Like, what's your one of the five that you're like, Baby, that's the one that'll activate me. I fear I'm all five. Too real. Oh, too real. No, I actually. No, no. My. Your main. Who? What's your one? Quality time. Oh, okay. You like quality. No physical touch. Oh. That you like to get. So you give quality time. Physical touch. Got it. I require physical touch. If Jordan doesn't touch me for like the whole day, that's like our number one. And I guess if he's too busy and I'm too busy and like, we'll lay in bed at night and I'll realize, like, oh, my God, like, he forgot to kiss me or touch me or anything. Like, my love language is like the way he, like rubs my back when we're standing in line or it's holding my hand. Like, if you don't touch me, I'm like, he hates me. Yeah. He's not attracted to me anymore. What about yours? Mine? Yes. Mine is going to be my number one. I think that I need is actually the words of affirmation. Okay. So I think at this point only because I haven't been in like a really, really intense long term relationship, so I think that, that because of that I'll get insecure about things if they're not like, telling me like, oh, I do care about you. I do. Like, that's definitely the most common for guys, though. Yeah, I think. Yeah. Like, if I want to hear that, I just tell him how proud I am of him and how amazing he is. It's like, that's just. I think that's. I'm so proud of you. You want to get married right now. Like, what are you talking about? I don't know what I like, but I. I like to do gift giving or like cooking for someone anytime. I could give somebody something. Okay. So acts of service will be mine. Give. And then probably the one I like to receive is. I don't know. What do I like to receive? For a second I thought you were starting to cry as your voice is cracking out. Oh, my God. Up in here. You. To receive. I feel like I like to receive gifts as well. Well, yeah, acts of service. I like to receive acts of service, but I also like to give up service. You like gifts? Me, too. You like gifts? You're. Honestly. Yeah, I feel like that's. I remember once Laura literally gave me for my birthday. I think it was, like, my 30th birthday. She gave me 30 gifts. Oh, I did. It was 30 gifts for three. I loves the gift giving. That's my love language to everyone outside of Jordan. Like, I give gifts to Jordan, too. But, like, I. Since he's, like, my love partner, I give him different things. Totally. Oh, my. My family and friends. Like, I just love showering. Yes. I think it's also something when you're, like, used to being broke and then you get money. You're like, oh, service. 100%. Totally. I get that. I have more fun giving gifts than I do getting them. Would you get matching tattoos with your partner? Never. No. I want to know. You would, too. This is. I've heard. I've heard this. She wants. She wants a. No regrets. Yeah, I want to know regrets. I already got as a tramp stamp, and I'm going in for two. Just do it. You and Tyler have been together for so long. Honestly, even if we divorce, it's fine. Because we were doing it for so long, it might as well be there. Say at this point, you'd be like, listen, it was like, a memorable moment. Correct. We're together like, a lifetime at this point. So mine. Jess. Okay. My next. Okay, let's see. I have. Oh, this is good. Who is your celebrity crush? And it's okay. Your partner's gonna be fine with this. I don't. Wow. I'm being dead serious. I don't. I'm like, that's really. Yeah, me either. Yeah. I used to have a really big celebrity crush. Like, bad Andrew Garfield. I know. Honestly, I look for Andrew. Yeah, he's cute. Andrew Garfield. Especially in Spider Man. Like, I had a problem. I had a problem when I started dating Jordan. I was like, I gotta tell you something. I'm, like, super obsessed. He was, like, really great. You kind of remind me of him because he dressed as Spider Man. He's like. He's like. He's like, come here, Jacob. You want the upside down kiss? No, that's Toby Maguire. That's Toby. That's Toby. Yeah. Celeb. I know who it is. But you do know who mine is. I hear it's Henry Cavill. Henry Cavill. I feel like that's just, like, so on brand for you. It really is. I feel like it's on brand. The Witcher. If you've ever watched the Witcher, baby, He's correct in that. He's correct. He's corrected everything. Superman. He is the witcher. Everything is too much man for me. Like, that's a big, big man. Girl. That's a lot to take down. Okay. I feel like that's great. No, for me it's lovely. I'm going feel so dainty next to him. I think the. Oh my God. Sir Jaylen hurts. Quarterback for Philadelphia Eagles Alabama. Oh, that's one. I don't know. That kind of shocked me. Jack's like, I have none. I have like a roll of it. Yeah. She's like, I'm very generic though for this one. Brad Pit. I think he's so. Brad Pitt is like perfect. He really. This was perfect. Come on, Brad. There's something. Yeah, there's something different about Brad Pitt because it's like he speaks everyone's language. He does. My great grandma at 102 was thought, oh, he was so handsome before she died. You know what I'm saying? Like all the way down to my nieces. It's like everybody speaks universal. That is a universal language. It is a universal. Let don't get me started. Don't activate. No, sorry. Troy the movie. Yeah, you activating me. The touch is activated. Okay, that's rapid fire. Let's try to like one answer. One word answer. Okay, here we go with a one night stand. Do you sleep over or leave? I've never had a one night stand. Immediately a one night stand. Have you ever had a one night stand? Yes. You have before Tyler? Yes. She's like, no. Last night? No. What do you mean? Like yesterday? Never had a one night stand. Never ever. No. Every single time I slip over because honestly, after afterwards, after the. Okay, you know, you leave, you're out. I have to go because I'm like, baby. Okay, we had our moment. Yeah, you're done. We had our love in a homeless place. Kiss on the first date. If I'm vibing, I would. I would too. And I do life. Sure. Depending on the short. Depending on the vibe. Yeah. Like the last guy, the last guy I was dating, like the one I was seeing recently, we kissed on the first date. Okay. Sounds a good time for me. I think it took me in Jordan probably like nine days to kiss. Really? Oh yeah. Like at least I kind of love that because sometimes I feel like if things are moving too slow, like and like that kind of. Well, I'm like, are we just friends? Yeah, it can feel like that at times. Totally gay on gay thing. It can be like that out of a divorce? Yeah. Time, honey. You're saying like, six months to sleep in the same bed. Correct. That makes a lot of sense. Yeah. I was like, think about that divorce. I'm, like, stiffer for me. Got it. Okay. Sorry. I'm asking questions. You're really bad at rapid fire. I know. I know. Have you ever ghosted anyone? One. You have, obviously. Come on, Manny. I'm like, Manny. Yes, I know. Little hearts for you. I'm sorry. Like, bro, I have. Laura, have you ever ghosted? Never. But I haven't, like, dated for 10 years. You know what I mean? 100. What about you, Jacqueline? You ghosted down? No. I'm so pure. My past literally has two guys in it. Okay. God, you're so good. All right. I have a Chill City belt on, literally, for you. It's lost under that, you guys. Metal, metal under that. She has a metal. To the airport. They stop her everywhere. It's on Jordan's ring. They have a picture of her on the wall. I'm so dead, you guys. Oh, my God. I kissed a lot of boys in high school. I'm proud of you. College. In college. I kissed a lot of boys in college. Did you kiss a girl? Oh, yeah, definitely. I kissed a couple girls. No, I did. Not at all. I really don't like it. I didn't, but, like, I got it out of my system. I got a little fun, kissed some girls, and then my roommates started kissing me a lot. Oh, my God. Yeah. And that was, like, so dramatic. Oh, my God. We already knew this, by the way. We already knew this about jacket. We're like, oh, my God. What the. I think we didn't know. Active listeners, though. Like, if you tell us a story, we're all three gonna give you everything. Oh, no, we are. We are. We are. Wait, have you kissed a girl, Manny? Many. I've actually kissed a lot of girls in high school. And honestly, like, in college, okay, I've kissed a lot of girls, but it was more so, like, for fun. Like, they're drunk and I'm having fun. Like, we'll make out kind of thing. But it's never, like, in a sense, sexual way. And it was just never for you. It's like, fun. No, no, it's fun. It's. It's a different feeling. Same. When I kiss girls, it was always for fun. It's different. It's like a different vibe. There was definitely a party. It was never one on one. And back in that day, I feel like it's different back then. Than it is now. Guys would, like, egg it all. Yes, totally. That's why I think they still do. I think they still do. Yes, they still do. Young. Honestly. Young men are sick. I mean, but that's, like, every night. Like, my friends in high school, we'd, like, all get in the hot tub, like, at the local, like, pool, and we'd all hang out. We'd, like, six of us, and the guys would literally, like, make all the girls make out. Kiss. I was one of those guys, like, kiss. I'm literally like, kiss her. Me just wanting to see gay stuff. I'm like, kiss her. I'm like, are you gay? Are you gay? Kiss her. Oh, my God. Okay, I have a good one. Oh. At least I think it is. Give it. What's the best gift you ever received? What's the best gift you've ever received? Oh, my wedding ring. Period. Definitely my woody. Okay, scratch that. If it wasn't that, I lost that. So that. Yeah, Yeah, I lost mine. Either my cat Peach, or my Super 73. By your bike. Wait, your bike? Like, a bike that you ride? Laura really went the sentimental route. You know what? Laura really went the sentimental. You guys, I honestly am, like, just not, like. I don't. I don't know. I don't know about getting gifts, really. All right, okay. Moving on. Then we can see another good one. Okay, we did. Biggest. Ick. We're not doing that. We need quick ones. We need quick ones. Have you ever been cheated on? I feel like yes. No. Yes, I've been cheated on. I don't know. I never been on. Cheated on in such a bad way. I think I already told you. You told us, and we. It was fierce. It was fierce. It was fierce. Can. Can confirm for all listening. Fiercest as hell. I forgot. One day I will write a book. Yeah, girl, the book. That's gonna be a better chick. You better. Cash. New York Times, bestseller time. Don't give it for free. Don't give it a chapter. I think we do get a chapter. I think you get a chapter. Collector 20. Yeah, I'll get 10. Can you stay friends with your ex? I'm like, no. She said, I did. I did. You did. And it was. And it was fine. Yeah. And it was. It worked. I mean, it didn't because of the fact that, like, he was an addict. But, like, I tried my best all the way up until I couldn't. But yeah, like, we remain friends. Yeah. But I think in order to stay friends with your ex, I. I don't know. I Feel like you have to have, like, a codependent relationship. Yeah. I could never be friends with Jordan. See? Okay. Never. Oh, I see. It's way too much love. There's way. It's. Yeah. It's too far gone. Like, you're too far in, like, to the. You were too far out of that one. Correct. You know what I mean? I feel like we were always friends. Yeah. When we were married, we never felt married. We were just friends the whole time. So it's like, I could remain different feelings with Jordan. I'd be like. Like, I'm. I have. I can't think about it. Yeah. No, I could. Oh, my God. If Jordan, like, John, would call me and talk to me about his new girlfriends, like. Right. And you were fine, and you're fine with it. Talk to him through it. It depends on your relationship. I think she's not gonna like that. Don't fire a coach. Bag buyer. Chanel bat. Oh, wow. I love that. I'm gonna let you talk to Tyler. Yeah. I'm gonna have a. I stay friends with all my situations. Hey. Every situation. I've had friends, friends. I love you, but I've been like. But in the beginning, I can't be friends. I can't. I need a blog. I need a mute. I need, like. I need all that. Yeah, you could. You. Tyler, you couldn't. Oh, I feel like I would. God. You. Honestly, you guys. Would. You guys have been together, like, think, like, if we got divorced, I would still have to call him, like, yeah. Hey, hey, girl. Literally. And become girl. You and Tyler are so cute, though. Like, you're literally, like, best friends. Exactly. Yes. I spend time with you guys. I'm just like, oh, I love it. I. Jordan, I. I was like, I love Laura and Tyler because you can tell that they're just still so in love. Yeah. After all these years. Maybe it's because you don't have kids. Probably. Let's clock that. Like, you guys laugh together. Like, you genuinely giggle. You laugh 100%. If you had to recommend one thing that helped your mental health, what would it be? I don't mind. It's like Prozac. 10 milligrams every day, baby. Well, honesty is appreciated here. Y. Very. Mine is to quit drinking. No alcohol. Oh, I love that. Mine is. You know what? I got a piece of advice in la, and it was the best piece of advice ever. And. Oh, it wasn't in la. It was from, like, self development, but it was like, don't take things personal. And it went into deeply like how personal we take everything, we make it always about us. And like sometimes people don't text you back, sometimes people don't call you pap. Sometimes people aren't interest in working to you, working with you and has nothing to do with you and everything going on with them. And like we want to just take every little thing we possibly can personal. And when I let that go, the freedom I experienced in my life to be a happy person was wild, especially in the industry we're in. So that was just like the. It's like don't take things personal. But if you go deeper into that and like all the different nuances and ways that we do it, it's so fierce on how it controls us and our feelings towards everyone. But if you can just let that go, you will have so much, much freedom. And I think that's part of mental health. Yeah, absolutely. And I, I will say really quickly to rewind to me just very quickly saying to stop drinking. The reason that I say stop drinking, in case the squeeze wants like a little bit of elaboration to that, the reason that I say to stop drinking is because when you complete get completely sober, you are forced to deal with your demons and it's the hardest thing you'll ever do in your entire life. But sobriety is when I finally figured out how to cure my anxiety. Like, nothing else worked. All the therapies that I did, all of you know, working out, everything that I tried, everything, nothing worked until I finally got completely sober. And it wasn't the sobriety that cured my anxiety. It was me having to go through the worst anxiety of my life because I no longer had a crutch and I had to figure out how to work through it by myself. Yeah, I bet you learn how strong you are. Yeah. Everything else paled in comparison. Yes. 100. Yep. That was beautiful. Sickening. Good job, guys. Thanks for joining us. Please note that this episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct or indirect financial interest in products or services referred to in this episode.