Tuesday Talks: Hand Signals, Code Words & Playtime Communication | Episode 98

In this episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, the top-rated podcast about non-monogamy and swinging, Dan and Lacy are back with another Tuesday Talks — answering real listener questions from inside the lifestyle.

This week, they respond to a message from a listener who shares that she and her husband use hand signals during play to communicate. One signal means “I’m having fun,” and another means “It’s time to wrap this up and go.” She wants to know: Do Dan and Lacy use something similar? And is this a common practice in the lifestyle?

Dan and Lacy dive into the idea of secret signals, code words, and subtle check-ins between partners. They discuss why some couples love having a private communication system and how it can create a sense of security. But they also get honest about how these systems can sometimes backfire, leading to confusion, mixed messages, or even hurt feelings if not clearly defined and agreed upon beforehand.

They share their perspective on what actually works, what to think about before implementing secret communication, and why clarity and conversations matter more than clever signals.

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