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Jackson Claude
Good morning, girlies. It's the Toast. It's Jackson Claude, and we're your host. It's your favorite show, the Fast 5 things you need to know. We'll start your day off swirly. It's the Toast. I sound amazing. Welcome back to the Toast, Jackson. Friends, Wednesday, hump day. I am joined by Valeria Lipovetsky. Thank you so much for being here.
Valeria Lipovetsky
Thank you for having me and you pronounce my name so well.
Jackson Claude
Thank you. I pronounce everything wrong. Like, as a rule, I don't intend to do it. I just, like, pronounce it how I see it. But your name is very phonetic. It's pronounced the way that it's spelled. That really works for me.
Valeria Lipovetsky
You'll be surprised how many times and how many versions of it I've heard before. So thank you.
Jackson Claude
What do people say?
Valeria Lipovetsky
Valerie. Valerie Potetsky. Like, there's missing words, letters. Like, there's a lot of things I understand.
Jackson Claude
Okay, well, yay. Gold star for me. I finally got it.
Valeria Lipovetsky
It's a good start.
Jackson Claude
I'm so excited that you are here. You are a massive creator. YouTuber, TikToker, Instagrammer, podcaster. I actually first discovered you through your podcast because I feel like everyone has probably seen your face on their feed at some point because your clips, like, go really viral. You also create a lot of viral content. And now you also do the creator method, which is like a online class to teach creators how to become creators.
Valeria Lipovetsky
Yeah, it's like a community that we put together, basically giving all the tools and all the information that I've learned throughout the years. Because I don't know about you, but when I started on social media, it's like, it still is. It feels so lonely and there's no one to talk to and there's no really peers that you can. Hey, how much do you charge for this? Hey, how much did you made here? So we just kind of became that place for a lot of creators and aspiring creators.
Jackson Claude
How long have you been doing the creator method?
Valeria Lipovetsky
It's been a year. So we just celebrated a year of the community kind of coming together, and it's been really rewarding. And, you know, it started as like, oh, it's going to be discourses and whatever, but it actually became much larger than that. It's very much of a members club where they can network, collaborate, ask questions. We're there. We're constantly bringing kind of new people in, in terms of experts in the industry and things like, so just became like a fun little community. Yeah. That's so little.
Jackson Claude
Yeah. No, no. Humble. She's so humble. I want to ask you more about that, but I do want to know more about your genesis into content creation, because I feel like you have a comp. How old are you?
Valeria Lipovetsky
I'm turning 35 in September.
Jackson Claude
You have accomplished so much. Like, you have so many businesses. You have three children, three boys.
Valeria Lipovetsky
Three boys.
Jackson Claude
And how old are they?
Valeria Lipovetsky
12, 10 and 6.
Jackson Claude
I feel like people will be so shocked to hear that who don't know. And I feel like so many people might even follow you and not even real. Yeah, that about you.
Valeria Lipovetsky
Well, I have to say, when I started with social media, motherhood was a huge, like, at the forefront of my content. But as my kids got older, I kind of moved away from it just to give them space.
Jackson Claude
So.
Valeria Lipovetsky
Yeah, you'll be surprised how many people have been following me that don't even know how big the boys are.
Jackson Claude
You know, there's three of them so young and you have a 12 year old. Yeah, that's so crazy. But it's amazing how much you take on and how much you can do. And you're also really transparent about, like, burnout and feeling like you don't give, like you're not doing what you should be doing. And it's so hard. This conversation comes up a lot, obviously, like, as just women in general, but I feel like I've been having it more often of, like, timing and kids and career and, like, when is the right time to put your career a little bit on the back burner? Because things do suffer when you're prioritizing something else.
Valeria Lipovetsky
Yeah. I think the biggest challenge for women is to understand that you can have it all, just not at the same time. So the timeline we're fighting against, a traditional timeline are, you know, biological, biological timeline, and then the opportunities that are out there now for us because you want to, you know, you can. You have access to do everything that you want to do. So it's very disorienting, I have to say.
Jackson Claude
Yeah, it is, but you're crushing it.
Valeria Lipovetsky
Listen, some days are better than others.
Jackson Claude
Yeah. No, no. So how do you go about a typical day? Like, how do you devote how much time you want to do to, like, content creation? Because you also do, in addition to, like, running your business and doing a podcast, which is called Not Alone, which, like, speaks to what you were talking about of the loneliness of content creation. You also create, like, a lot of viral, like, reels. I'm not on TikTok, but I'm sure. It's like TikToky content. Yeah. That stuff that you post on reels. And thank you for posting it on Instagram. For those of us who aren't on.
Valeria Lipovetsky
TikTok, I know I try to be very inclusive when it comes to all the content. How do I run through it? I mean, honestly, I have a team behind me and I think that people don't realize how much support, like, I really over index on support. And that's something that I had to learn the hard way. Speaking of burnout, I feel like I did a classic mistake of most women were like, we just take it more and more upon ourselves and we can do it better than anyone else and let me just figure this out. And I crashed really badly and it was like a big wake up call when my husband Gary was also my business partner, came to me and he's like, there's no novelty in you running yourself to the ground. Like, you're not going to be walking around with metal stars.
Jackson Claude
Right?
Valeria Lipovetsky
And I was like, oh, yeah, metal star. Gold stars, they're metal. And I was like, metal. Oh, medals.
Jackson Claude
Yeah.
Valeria Lipovetsky
God.
Jackson Claude
Okay, Both. They're both words.
Valeria Lipovetsky
The rain today is messing up with my English, so forgive me, but. But yeah. And to me was like, oh, you know what? You are so right. I don't know why I'm doing this. So started really learning how to delegate and, and hire and, you know, reinvesting in the business and it's been, it's been amazing. So I feel like the way my week is built is based on all the kind of aspects of my business and my life. Like Mondays are admin days, you know, Tuesday, content, Wednesday, whatever. I also keep a day for me to just like sit and stare at a wall.
Jackson Claude
Right.
Valeria Lipovetsky
I think that's so important.
Jackson Claude
It is.
Valeria Lipovetsky
I just need to let my thoughts go wild and run free. And that kind of feeds into the creative in me.
Jackson Claude
Yeah, you have to recharge your battery because all of these ideas, like, come from within. But if you're only ever working, then, like, you don't have time for new ideas.
Valeria Lipovetsky
Yeah, I really want to. I want to do less. That's like my new goal in life. I want to do less. I want to really learn the art of just like being.
Jackson Claude
Yeah.
Valeria Lipovetsky
Even yesterday I had a conversation with my husband because I came to him with this like, new crazy idea and he's like, it's not. You're not being practical. I'm like, that's not my fucking job. You're supposed to be practical, right? I need to be free.
Jackson Claude
You're the free spirit and the creative.
Valeria Lipovetsky
Yeah, you don't stop me.
Jackson Claude
Yeah, but that works. So you work with your husband, and he's very much like the facts and figures.
Valeria Lipovetsky
Yes. Very data driven, and it really balances off. And I'm trying in the beginning of my entrepreneurial journey because he has more kind of business background, so he knew how to, you know, really put this together. But for me, I'm a baby entrepreneur. This is my first business. So when I was learning how to build this and navigate my own entrepreneurial personality, I was trying to do similar things to him. Like, I was watching him being like, I need to learn how to do these things. And I've realized that that's not the power of women in leadership. Like, there's obviously certain things that you need to have, you know, practicality, whatever. But part of our strength is really, like, the emotional intelligence and that place of, like, really bringing in the creative, you know, and coming up with this idea. So I've am learning how to make more space for that. That's like my superpower as an entrepreneur.
Jackson Claude
No, that's good. And I feel like that's a lesson that you do have to learn the hard way. And, like, comes over time.
Valeria Lipovetsky
Yeah.
Jackson Claude
Because when you're first starting out, it's like, well, I don't want to do less, I want to do more.
Valeria Lipovetsky
Like, of course, like, you know, that's the Hassa mentality.
Jackson Claude
Yeah. That's a mark of success, too. And, like, you do have to do the most to get to a certain place. And then you can, like, look down from the top of the mountain and be like, okay, what? What do I want to water and, like, focus on.
Valeria Lipovetsky
Yeah, yeah, exactly. So here we are.
Jackson Claude
Here we are. So that's. That's the area you're in.
Valeria Lipovetsky
That's the era I'm in, the do less era. But reap the most amount of benefit.
Jackson Claude
Yeah. No, that's a skill in itself. So it's.
Valeria Lipovetsky
And I feel like I reached that point because the first. Like, I've been doing this for eight years. Okay. And you have to grind. You have to really put in the extra, extra work. You have to go through the burnout. Like, all these steps are part of the process. And I feel like now I reach this point where I'm like, okay, now I can, like, step back a little bit. I have system in place. You know, there's. I know what I'm doing, so I can take a breath now.
Jackson Claude
Yeah. So how did you get Your start.
Valeria Lipovetsky
So for me, started with actually a blog. Well, actually bring. I'll take you a little bit back. I came from modeling. So I started doing modeling at 15, 16 and had the opportunity to travel the world, you know, make money. It was a wonderful experience. Met my husband, got married at 21, and I've realized that I want to start a. I don't want to do modeling anymore. So I asked myself, okay, what am I going to do next? The next thing that was really interesting to me was nutrition. So I went to learn nutrition, and when I finished school, I was like, I'm going to open up an office. Open up an office. Hated seeing people. And I realized early on that I'm not a. Like, one on one person at all. So I have this knowledge. I want to help people. What do I do? I went on social media. I started a blog. It's called the. It was called the Modern Fox, and it was 2017. I would say I did that for a little bit. Realized that it's not challenging at all. Like, didn't really stretch my creativity. So I found YouTube and I was like, okay, this looks really scary, but also fun.
Jackson Claude
Yeah.
Valeria Lipovetsky
So I started there. And it was just in the beginning was nutrition. Then it got into vlogging, then beauty, fashion, you know, naturally kind of seeped into other areas of my life.
Jackson Claude
And did you have a moment where you really, like, growed exponentially or was just, like, slow over time? Was there, like, a platform that you went to that sort of catapulted?
Valeria Lipovetsky
YouTube was my first platform that I really focused on. So it really brought me that really engaged audience that was very invested in my content, and I think that was, like, the best foundation for me. Then I moved to Instagram and kind of learned how to navigate that. But it. It took me years of experimentation. Like, it wasn't this viral. You right off the bat. And the biggest shift happened, I would say, during COVID because we were locked in the house, and I was just. I woke up one morning when they locked everyone in, and I was just like, I have a purpose. I need to use social media to make people feel good. And I just went ham. Like, I don't remember that time because I was filming in my room 24 7.
Jackson Claude
That's such a good use of time.
Valeria Lipovetsky
It was. It was insane. But I truly felt like this is my calling right now. Like, this is how I'm supposed to show up. So I started doing Instagram lives every day. I was doing workouts. I was just living online. It was insane. I look back and I'm like, who was that animal?
Jackson Claude
No, I know, but that's what it takes to, like, get to where you are now.
Valeria Lipovetsky
Yeah, you were. Yeah, I was obsessed.
Jackson Claude
So when did you start your podcast?
Valeria Lipovetsky
So the podcast started about a year, a year and a half ago, and I had a rough start with the podcast. I don't know.
Jackson Claude
What's your thoughts on podcasting?
Valeria Lipovetsky
Well, first of all, if I'm being honest, I walked into this being like, I've been doing social media. I know how to be on camera, like, no problem. And when I sat down, I got humbled so fast because it's a completely different platform, different kind of delivery, and I've realized that I don't know my voice in a long form.
Jackson Claude
Yeah.
Valeria Lipovetsky
Like, I can do a, you know, quick 15 seconds, no problem. But sitting there for an hour, what.
Jackson Claude
Was the format of your show when you started?
Valeria Lipovetsky
The format of my show was very complex because the Virgo in me was like, let's just give so many layers to make it feel so valuable. So it was a guest, and then in between the guests was a monologue. No, I made it so complicated.
Jackson Claude
Yeah.
Valeria Lipovetsky
It was this whole, like, you're in my head type of thing, you know, got. Did not work. And it was also exhausting to do.
Jackson Claude
No, it's a lot of work. And I think a lot of people who are on social media are like, okay, well, duh, I'll do a podcast. I like to talk. I'm on camera. Like, my personality. But then you don't realize it's actually much like. It's almost, like, simpler and more complicated than that.
Valeria Lipovetsky
Oh, yeah.
Jackson Claude
And especially when it comes to the conversation, like, it is meant to just be, like, simple and interesting, and you don't have to be, like, doing the most for an hour.
Valeria Lipovetsky
Yeah. So I am known for doing the most until I realized that if it's not broken, don't fix it. Obviously, there were enough podcasts out there to show me that you just need to come and just have a conversation.
Jackson Claude
Yeah.
Valeria Lipovetsky
To me, it was like, that's not enough. I need more. So I did all that, and I kind of sat with myself listening to these episodes, and I'm like, this is a train wreck. So season two, we pulled back and really went back to basics, but it is a journey, and I have such a newfound respect for podcasters. Like, you guys. Been doing such an amazing job for all these years to really be able to come on and speak in the most, like, open, raw way. It's not so simple as people think. Yeah, because you get into your own head.
Jackson Claude
Yeah, no, it's true. And everyone thinks, like, oh, I could do a podcast and go ahead, try. Like, it's not. It's not so simple. But when you get it right, like, it's really so enjoyable for people and to do it yourself and, like, put that side of yourself out there. I feel like even the way I think about my own social media, it's like I'm most myself on the podcast. Like, I have take my time to say what I'm thinking. I can, like, work through a thought. I don't have to, like, make a statement in 60 seconds and there's just no context. Like, you can tell a story. You can take your time. Like, you could just go on tangents. That's just how my brain is.
Valeria Lipovetsky
But do you feel that was from the beginning or did you build up toward to that?
Jackson Claude
I feel like in the beginning, the podcast, and probably just like you said, the. Like, we were when we started, I was maybe 25, I think, and Claudia would have been 23. And I felt. I feel like the podcast was more a reflection of our, like, social media personality. It's just like, really like. But I think our social medias have changed over the years and being like, more paired back and curated almost. And the podcast has just widened too and just is like, deeper. But that's also a function of us growing up and becoming mothers. And just like, the conversations are deeper. And we were having, like, so much fun in the beginning. And it. It's always been fun and it's always been, like, pretty successful and popular, but I just think, like, the range of it has changed.
Valeria Lipovetsky
Yes. Also, I have to mention, you made such a good point. When you become a mother, like, my kids especially, right. They're 12, 10. They watch what I do, Their friends watch what I do.
Jackson Claude
Oh, really?
Valeria Lipovetsky
So not only am I in my own head, I also have all these children in my head. So whatever I say, I gotta think. Like, is it gonna embarrass my kids? Is this something I'm gonna regret? I hate it.
Jackson Claude
Yeah, that's a tough dynamic. My kids are still really little.
Valeria Lipovetsky
Say all the stuff you have in your head right now because it's gonna become filtered.
Jackson Claude
No. I don't even know what. What would. What will change about what I filter. Like, I can't even predict it, you know?
Valeria Lipovetsky
Yeah.
Jackson Claude
But I'm sure there will be things where I'm like, okay, that's not my favorite. I don't want the Teacher to hear that. Like, I know that's really crazy to think about.
Valeria Lipovetsky
So that's where I'm at. Just, like, all in my own little head.
Jackson Claude
So much going on in your head.
Valeria Lipovetsky
So much going on. But. Yeah, but I wake up every morning being like, okay, go out there and just say what's in your mind.
Jackson Claude
And that's working for you.
Valeria Lipovetsky
Sometimes it's work. Yeah. Sometimes.
Jackson Claude
Yeah. So I'm sure you get this question all the time. Like, what advice would you give to someone who wants to start out? Like, what is your number one piece of advice?
Valeria Lipovetsky
I mean, I think that everyone needs to get very comfortable with having a long experimentation phase, because I think so many people, when they start whatever project you pick up, you kind of assume that you're gonna just get it.
Jackson Claude
Yeah.
Valeria Lipovetsky
And you're missing the most vital aspect of the journey, which is making a fool of yourself, putting out a version of yourself that you're, like, looking back, being like, ah, that's not really me. And then tweaking it.
Jackson Claude
Yeah.
Valeria Lipovetsky
And trying different formats and figuring out. It's a lot of play to see what sticks, even for yourself. It took me many years to find my voice, so. So many people are trying to skip that time.
Jackson Claude
Yeah.
Valeria Lipovetsky
And I always say, like, don't rush to get discovered. Trust me, that's not.
Jackson Claude
You want to figure it out before you get discovered. You don't want to be figuring it out when you have so many eyes on you. But I feel like people are just like, I want the eyeballs.
Valeria Lipovetsky
Because all we see is, like, these people coming out of nowhere. Right. Yeah, but. And some. And listen, there are cases like that, for sure, but for longevity, you want to do the opposite.
Jackson Claude
Yeah. And, like, what advice you have when you started out, do you ever feel like the people who know you, who are, like, watching you, who are, like, I don't know, Facebook friends or just, like, people you went to, like, high school with that are, like, watching you doing content? Like, that's the weirdest dynamic to me.
Valeria Lipovetsky
Oh, my God.
Jackson Claude
That I just sort of have to disassociate and be like, yeah, whatever. That's not me. Like, I gotta do my thing.
Valeria Lipovetsky
Well, that's what also threw me off in the beginning, because it was like, what is me? What is not me? What am I sharing? Because I don't want my neighbor to know these details about me. But I don't mind if strangers know this about me.
Jackson Claude
Right. No. It's so weird how it's like, you feel more comfortable with strangers, but it's like, I wouldn't tell this to my neighbor.
Valeria Lipovetsky
Correct. So there was definitely a lot of figuring out there. But listen, you heard all the remarks, all the like, oh, what you're doing is so cute. And I'm like, yeah.
Jackson Claude
Whoa.
Valeria Lipovetsky
You know, and you just got to soldier on because I did see the bigger vision. Like, I know what I understood what it could be, but for me, it was more like breaking my own, like, limiting beliefs and my own barriers that I set for myself, you know? So those remarks were just like another example of if I'm going to continue to care so much about what people think, I'll never do anything in my life.
Jackson Claude
Right.
Valeria Lipovetsky
Whether it's this or something or open a business, whatever it is that I want to do.
Jackson Claude
Yeah.
Valeria Lipovetsky
So I'm like, this is a project and this is for me. Like, I'm doing this for me.
Jackson Claude
Yeah.
Valeria Lipovetsky
So it has been probably the best. Like, therapy, exposure therapy.
Jackson Claude
Yeah. It's true. Are you, what were you like growing up? Like, were you a shy person or like, very outgoing?
Valeria Lipovetsky
So shy. Like, if I really wanted to be seen. But I also hid at any opportunity that was presented to me to like showcase myself.
Jackson Claude
Yeah.
Valeria Lipovetsky
Always felt like not very gray mouths, you know, like, always felt like not good enough. I don't know where it's coming from.
Jackson Claude
Yeah.
Valeria Lipovetsky
So weird.
Jackson Claude
But then do you still feel shy today or you've like, pushed through it because you have to.
Valeria Lipovetsky
I don't think it's shyness anymore. I think it's sometimes these like, feelings of imposter syndrome. But I have to say, like, now turning 35, it's really starting to shift. Like, I really don't care.
Jackson Claude
Yeah. No, and like, you're so. You're from an outsider's perspective. Like, you're so not the imposter. Like, you're the real deal.
Valeria Lipovetsky
Thank you. Thank you. But I'm sure you wake up some days and you're like, what am I doing? Who cares about this?
Jackson Claude
Yeah.
Valeria Lipovetsky
Like what?
Jackson Claude
No, for sure.
Valeria Lipovetsky
What mark am I living on leaving on this earth? You know, I think about these things. Don't you?
Jackson Claude
I do. But then I also am so busy that it's actually saves me from like a lot of like, doom scrolling reading comments. Like, some days I just, I don't have the time to read all the negative things that people have to say. And it's wonderful. Like, it's better that way.
Valeria Lipovetsky
But do you ever just glance at it and is it alarming for you when there's no negative comments?
Jackson Claude
Interesting. I feel Like, I do glance, Like, I do read probably majority of, like, comments that come through on, like, my own forums. And I just feel like I know what haters will say. So it's like, it's not alarming if they happen to got busy that day and they didn't say it. Like, I. I know they're still lurking.
Valeria Lipovetsky
Like, they're like, they're just busy today.
Jackson Claude
They'll be back, and I'm happy for them because they should get busy. Like, and then maybe they'll move on.
Valeria Lipovetsky
I think I don't have enough haters.
Jackson Claude
Do you have haters?
Valeria Lipovetsky
I think I do, but I feel like mine are too busy to leave comments, and it bothers me.
Jackson Claude
Oh, do you think they're, like, hating, like, in their group chat? Like, they're not, like, hating publicly. They're, like, you know, with their friends hating?
Valeria Lipovetsky
I don't know. Or maybe just with themselves. But I just want them to be part of the community, like, show they're good for engagement.
Jackson Claude
They really are.
Valeria Lipovetsky
I just also think it's a good sign that you are evoking different type of emotion. You know what I mean? It's also. Maybe it's the stage that I'm in, but I've always, like, my whole life, I really wanted to be like. And now I realize that it's. It's like, making me very vanilla operating in that way.
Jackson Claude
Yeah.
Valeria Lipovetsky
So I'm like, okay, I want to make sure that there's enough spice in there so someone will, you know, get motivated to write something.
Jackson Claude
Yeah. No, to, like, have any sort of, like, feeling good, bad. Otherwise, like, it's. It's more interesting that way. I was just talking to another influencer on Monday who came and did the show, and she said the same thing. She said she's, like, almost. She, like, for a while was, like, operating so scared to offend or, like, you know, say something wrong. So she's like, put herself in this box. That's boring. And she's not, like, having the fun that she wants to have. And she's like, I'm not doing that anymore. Like, I'm gonna be me. She's starting a YouTube. Like, she wants to get her voice out there, and I think it's so. Things are so much more interesting that way. I feel like, even as a fan of other influencers, like, I'm a bigger fan when I see really what you're made of. Not when, like, you're on high and everything's good. Like, when times are tough.
Valeria Lipovetsky
Who are you exactly?
Jackson Claude
Yeah.
Valeria Lipovetsky
So time will tell. I'm working on it. Okay.
Jackson Claude
Okay. But it just, you know, I don't think you're vanilla. I think you're crushing it. And I think you are setting a great example for women that you really. That you can, like, be a boss. You can work with your husband, you can work with your family, you can have three kids. And I don't know what's going on in your head, but, like, it looks like things are going well a lot.
Valeria Lipovetsky
There's a lot going on, but all good things. Honestly, at the end of the day, for me, as long as I get to wake up every morning and feel challenged and always kind of feel like there's a certain level of discomfort, that, to me, is a good sign.
Jackson Claude
Yeah.
Valeria Lipovetsky
Like, I don't want to feel too relaxed. You know what I mean? So I'm there.
Jackson Claude
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Valeria Lipovetsky
3.
Jackson Claude
And you are born in Russia, correct?
Valeria Lipovetsky
Yeah.
Jackson Claude
For. And when did you move from Russia?
Valeria Lipovetsky
When I was 2. I left Russia when I was 2.
Jackson Claude
And you moved to Israel?
Valeria Lipovetsky
Yeah.
Jackson Claude
How long did you live in Israel?
Valeria Lipovetsky
Until the age of 20.
Jackson Claude
Oh wow.
Valeria Lipovetsky
Yeah.
Jackson Claude
And that's where you started modeling?
Valeria Lipovetsky
Yes.
Jackson Claude
Oh, cool. I could see you being Ms. Israel.
Valeria Lipovetsky
I was in Ms. Israel, but I. Yeah, I started working in the industry there and then right after I started traveling. My first trip was Paris and then it was Tokyo for a month and a half at 16 by myself. It was amazing.
Jackson Claude
Do you have siblings?
Valeria Lipovetsky
Yes, I have a younger brother and an older brother.
Jackson Claude
Oh, nice. Are you close with them?
Valeria Lipovetsky
Yes.
Jackson Claude
That's so fun. And now you have all boys. I'm from all girls, and now I'm having. So far, I have two sons. I'm expecting a boy, a third boy.
Valeria Lipovetsky
Oh, my God. Welcome to the club.
Jackson Claude
Yeah, no, I'm excited. I'm really excited. But it's been such a change for me. Like, I only grew up with girls. I, like, never met a boy until my husband.
Valeria Lipovetsky
Right. I truly feel like God really gave me exactly what I needed. I wouldn't know what to do with the girl. And I actually have. I'm in awe of my friends that have girls. Like, I think that's a whole other set of skills that I'm not sure that I have.
Jackson Claude
Yeah, no, they say that, like, boys are really physically challenging and you'll be running around a lot, but, like, girls are very mentally challenging, and it's just like, mind games, especially as they get older.
Valeria Lipovetsky
Yeah. I also like the daughter, you know, mother type of dynamic scares me. Like, I have a healthy relationship with my mom.
Jackson Claude
Yeah.
Valeria Lipovetsky
But I've also seen enough of the unhealthy ones, and that's scary.
Jackson Claude
It is really scary. So with boys, there's less of that uncertainty. They love their moms.
Valeria Lipovetsky
Yeah, exactly. And then at some age, it's like the dad comes full force. Like, my husband now is in his full, like, father, you know, disciplinary raising men era for him. So I'm just here. You're chilling my life.
Jackson Claude
Yeah, I love that. What was I. I was just gonna ask you one more question, but it's escaped me, so. Oh, you married your husband young, which you shared, and you talk a lot about that. What are your thoughts on getting married young? So just because we were talking about it yesterday with another co host who got married young. A lot of common themes here this week at Jackson Friends. Yeah.
Valeria Lipovetsky
You pick us, like, for a reason.
Jackson Claude
Well, I picked all of, like, the most premium Miami influencers. But no, these. These topics that come up a lot. Just talking to, like, women, working women, a lot of women who are married. I actually think you're the first guest that I've had since I started this maternity leave that has kids. So, like, that's really a nice window into new conversation for me.
Valeria Lipovetsky
Yes. With marrying young, I mean, it's different kind of. I have a few different point of views here. So I married young, but I also married someone older. So he made, you know, he had his life experience. He did whatever he needed to do when we met and decided to get married. Very rooted, strong foundation. And you need that. To me, like, I. I can't imagine marrying young with someone who's at the same age.
Jackson Claude
Yeah.
Valeria Lipovetsky
Because you are going through so many versions of yourself that I don't think that I'm. Especially for a woman. I don't know if a young man can withstand that because he's on his own, going through his own kind of, you know, process.
Jackson Claude
Yeah.
Valeria Lipovetsky
So there's a lot of things at play here. So I'm happy that I married young, but that he was older.
Jackson Claude
Yeah, no, that's a good point. Because if you're each changing, then the odds that you wind up being both people that want to stay together and love each other still are smaller than if, like, one person is, like, settled, constant, like, knows who they are and, like, you get to figure yourself out.
Valeria Lipovetsky
Yeah. And they also. You don't have certain conversations that are very vital. You know, he.
Jackson Claude
Your older husband is, like, sort of moving the relationship forward, given his knowledge.
Valeria Lipovetsky
Exactly, exactly. So he knew. And I always remind him, I'm like, hey, here's another, like, Valeria Revolution coming. Like, I can feel it.
Jackson Claude
I'm feeling the Valeria Revolution title.
Valeria Lipovetsky
The Valeria revolution is coming. 35 is going to be a shit show for him, and he knows it. And I'm just like, just, you know, be grounded, patient. I'll be back.
Jackson Claude
What do you think 35 is going to be like for you?
Valeria Lipovetsky
So I have. I've been doing this research out there. Every time I sit with women, I always ask them, what age do you remember yourself? Usually older women. Like, what is such a clear vision? And most of them say 35, 36. Like, I don't know what it is, but even for me, when I think about my mother, I remember her at 36.
Jackson Claude
Interesting.
Valeria Lipovetsky
So something happens there.
Jackson Claude
Okay.
Valeria Lipovetsky
And I'm about to find out. So I'll let you. I'll keep you posted.
Jackson Claude
Yeah, keep us posted. And you'll podcast about it and you'll let us know.
Valeria Lipovetsky
Keep you posted. But. But yeah, there's something is happening and I'm very excited for it. So, Gary, brace yourself.
Jackson Claude
Well, you know what they say that you change completely as a person every seven years. And so if that's true, then 35 is the fifth cycle of seven. Like, it's divisible by seven. So, like, you're going through another change.
Valeria Lipovetsky
Yeah.
Jackson Claude
And maybe it's like the big one.
Valeria Lipovetsky
How old are you 32. Did you have a Saturn return at 27?
Jackson Claude
Do you? I only know what that is for music, but I don't know what it means because like Ariana Grande sings about her Saturn coming in. Casey Musgraves. I'm like, oh, the big philosophers. And it's like, oh, the big philosopher. Can you explain to me what it is?
Valeria Lipovetsky
Okay, so I.
Jackson Claude
My Saturn has returned.
Valeria Lipovetsky
That.
Jackson Claude
That's it.
Valeria Lipovetsky
That is the theme song for it as well. I can. This is. I don't have the right maybe explanation, but what I've experienced was that at 27, for me, it started 27, 28. I also had my third at 28. So that was a combination of both hormonally falling apart and healing and then that it just felt like you look around and you're like, who am I? What is this? Where do I belong? Like, just really big questions that kind of catch you out of nowhere. Yeah. And it's very much of a mind game because for me, I was in this position where I'm married, I just had my third child. Like, everything looks amazing, feels good, yet it doesn't. So there's this disconnect to yourself. So it's kind of like a journey of really reevaluating everything you thought about yourself and like finding new definitions.
Jackson Claude
You know what's funny? So I got married when I was 26. So now thinking about like what I was doing at 27, I do think that I had a big, like, shift in my mentality. But at the time, maybe it was because my Saturn returned. At the time, I thought it was because of like my circumstances. Like, that was Covid for me. And it was just like a year of just like figuring out what I think and like how I feel about things. And I felt like I got stronger in, like my sense of self. And I thought it was just because, you know, it was a long year, but maybe because my Saturn returned.
Valeria Lipovetsky
I'm telling you, you're asking big questions, but you're also. You get curious and you're open to exploring.
Jackson Claude
That's when it all started for me. That's my origin story.
Valeria Lipovetsky
There you go. So mine finished at like 32. I had a long one.
Jackson Claude
I feel like I'm still in mine. I do. I feel like I'm on the tail end. But yeah, this all started when I was 27.
Valeria Lipovetsky
I'm telling you, it's fascinating. And then you're going to have a couple of years where you can kind of like chill a little bit.
Jackson Claude
Okay.
Valeria Lipovetsky
And then we Go again, and then.
Jackson Claude
We go again, and. But you don't know what the next Genesis is yet. No, you're about to find out what.
Valeria Lipovetsky
I'm about to find out, and I will share it with the world.
Jackson Claude
Okay. Thank you so much. I'm so excited. No, but it's the best. Apparently, it's the best one.
Valeria Lipovetsky
I don't know. There's some. I heard 50s is really like.
Jackson Claude
Well, the Kardashians say 40s. Your 40s are the best. That's what Kim and Kourtney have said. And, like, now Khloe's 40. Do you watch Kardashians?
Valeria Lipovetsky
No. But you know what I love about Americans? And I mean, I aspire to be an American. We're on green card, so, like, I can't wait to become.
Jackson Claude
Yeah.
Valeria Lipovetsky
To be American. Valeria. But what I really love is the references that you're giving me. You know, like, you're mentioning Saturn Return. Like Ariana Grande is. You know, you're talking about these revolutions. The Kardashians.
Jackson Claude
It's so funny because, like, usually I have so many more references, but because we've just been talking about personal stuff. Like, there's not that many, but, like, in a given show, like, references out my butt. Like, movie quotes, like, I'll just throw them in song starts.
Valeria Lipovetsky
But I love that. I love.
Jackson Claude
Is that an American thing? I'm very American.
Valeria Lipovetsky
I think so. Yeah. But to me, I don't say it as, like, a negative thing. I just. I think it's so easy to digest.
Jackson Claude
Yeah. I don't think of it when I say that. I say it with, I'm proud American. Yeah.
Valeria Lipovetsky
I.
Jackson Claude
You're proud. Aspiring American.
Valeria Lipovetsky
Yes, Proud aspiring American.
Jackson Claude
And Canadian. Israeli. Russian.
Valeria Lipovetsky
Yes.
Jackson Claude
Anywhere else.
Valeria Lipovetsky
A lot of things going on. No wonder I have these.
Jackson Claude
Like, where's been your favorite place to live?
Valeria Lipovetsky
Here. I love America. Like, love America.
Jackson Claude
And I feel like if the immigration office is watching. She loves America.
Valeria Lipovetsky
I love America. Please give me my citizenship. I think that we need to be more vocal about it. Like, obviously, no country is perfect, but.
Jackson Claude
I understand people rag on American a lot, but there's also, like, a lot of really good things that people don't focus on.
Valeria Lipovetsky
Yes. I don't think a freedom like this exists anywhere else in the world.
Jackson Claude
So just air conditioning like this.
Valeria Lipovetsky
Correct.
Jackson Claude
That's.
Valeria Lipovetsky
The air conditioning is really good. Specifically in Florida.
Jackson Claude
Yeah. Well, we've had to. We've really. Actually, I saw another country has really strong air conditioning. Oh, I think it's. Dubai has really good air conditioning.
Valeria Lipovetsky
Have you been?
Jackson Claude
No. Have you?
Valeria Lipovetsky
Yeah. Yeah, it's like. It's like a Vegas, but fancier.
Jackson Claude
Yeah.
Valeria Lipovetsky
Bigger, bolder. That's what it's conditioning.
Jackson Claude
Yeah. And with greater. They say, like, I think the. The bus stops are air conditioned.
Valeria Lipovetsky
Yeah. The order that they have there, I feel like that we need to crack the code there, like, what they're doing there and bring it here, because the order is insane.
Jackson Claude
Well, because I was just watching. Do you know Caroline Stanberry? She's from Real Housewives and she lives in Dubai, but she was saying how there's, like, no crime there. She, like, doesn't ever lock her door. No one does. You could leave a Rolex on a pool lounge and, like, no one would even come to pick it up.
Valeria Lipovetsky
Haram.
Jackson Claude
Yeah. Oh, what's haram about?
Valeria Lipovetsky
So haram means is, like, it's. It's like a crime. You know what I mean? Like steal. Yeah. Like, things that you. There's things that you do that Haram. That. It's like. It's just very. It's against, like, the fate. You're doing something bad, you know, and people are scared of it.
Jackson Claude
This is because they have harsh laws, like, in punishment, but also it's a.
Valeria Lipovetsky
Religious country, and they have, like, values, you know, like, very strong values. Haram is like, a big thing.
Jackson Claude
Yeah.
Valeria Lipovetsky
But then. Yeah, also they kick you out and, like, you can never go in again. So the Probably. The law is also.
Jackson Claude
Yeah. It cuts both ways, but I think it's really good for, like, their crime level.
Valeria Lipovetsky
No, it's. It's. It's wonderful.
Jackson Claude
And then she says when she comes here, she's all of a sudden, like, what. What am I wearing? Like, my bag, you know? Because especially I think she was in New York when she was talking about this Caroline Stanberry, and it's like, yeah, well, yeah, New York is. Is not that.
Valeria Lipovetsky
I know. Yeah, we'll get there one day.
Jackson Claude
One day. Let's see how it goes. But now we're gonna do the fast five stories. I have great Valeria centric stories because I have a feeling that you don't care, like, that much about American celebrities. Yeah. What are your.
Valeria Lipovetsky
I want to care. Okay. Teach me how to care.
Jackson Claude
No, the thing is, you get to a level of caring about celebrities, and it's like this level of invite in enlightenment, and then you, like, don't care because you see them too. You know what I mean? Like, you've seen too much. But that's kind of where this show is at.
Valeria Lipovetsky
Right. That you just you don't care as much, but you know a lot.
Jackson Claude
We know a lot. We care. We care. But then it's like you get to a point with certain people where, like, you just know too much about them and it's not interesting anymore.
Valeria Lipovetsky
So maybe this is a good place for me because, yeah, I don't care, but I also don't know.
Jackson Claude
Yeah, it's like we both don't care, but, like, for completely different reasons.
Valeria Lipovetsky
But I want to care a little bit because I tell you, I've been having certain conversations and people been. I don't know why. This year, everybody's been dropping Gossip Girl references around me. I've never watched it. I don't know what they're talking about.
Jackson Claude
I feel like you would like Gossip Girl. Cause it's very fashion. The writing is good. New York looks amazing. I think you would like it.
Valeria Lipovetsky
Would you make a list for me of, like, an American starter kit?
Jackson Claude
You know what else you need to watch?
Valeria Lipovetsky
What?
Jackson Claude
Desperate Housewives. Have you heard of that?
Valeria Lipovetsky
The reality show?
Jackson Claude
No, no, that's real. I wouldn't make it.
Valeria Lipovetsky
Oh, okay.
Jackson Claude
Desperate Housewives is. It was a scripted show on abc. It aired and like. Oh, yes.
Valeria Lipovetsky
With Eva Longoria.
Jackson Claude
Yeah.
Valeria Lipovetsky
Okay.
Jackson Claude
It's amazing.
Valeria Lipovetsky
Okay, so Gossip Girl and Desperate Housewives.
Jackson Claude
Yeah, I think you'll like that.
Valeria Lipovetsky
I think I can do. But do you think that will make me have relevant conversations today?
Jackson Claude
No. No. Not unless you're hanging out with me and Claudia for relevant conversations today. I'm gonna have to think about that. But I feel like.
Valeria Lipovetsky
Is there a forum that, like, people go on and they're just, you know.
Jackson Claude
What you need to do, like, not to self promote. You need to listen to this show.
Valeria Lipovetsky
Okay.
Jackson Claude
Because we'll give you the news that you need to know, and we'll give you, like, a take on it that you could just regurgitate, even if you're, like, not really invested in the conversation.
Valeria Lipovetsky
Download. Just so you know, Just a download.
Jackson Claude
Like, here's what's going on with Taylor Swift. Here's what's going on with Justin Baldoni and Blake Lively. Have you heard about that one?
Valeria Lipovetsky
Oh, yeah.
Jackson Claude
Okay. Okay.
Valeria Lipovetsky
Against my will, by the way.
Jackson Claude
Same. Yeah, against my will. The Kardashians, we love. And yeah, you'll get, like, the news that you need to know with, like. Like, also, like, a fun spin on it.
Valeria Lipovetsky
Okay, let's go.
Jackson Claude
Even if you listen, like, once a week to the toast, because I find that people who do podcasts don't listen to them. Like myself, I Don't really listen to a lot of other pod unless there's like something like, oh, I tea spill.
Valeria Lipovetsky
Why, why don't you listen to podcasts?
Jackson Claude
Well, a few reasons. One, when I have time to myself to listen to what I want to listen to and not be listening to the Spider man soundtrack, I want to listen to music. I love music and I like. That's how I want to spend time in my car if I have headphones. I don't even own a headphones anymore because when would I be using headphones? I love to listen to music then also, I feel like the podcasts that I would be interested in that, like, cover subjects that I like are maybe similar to this show and I wouldn't want. When you listen to a podcast all the time, you, like, kind of start to talk like the host. Exactly.
Valeria Lipovetsky
I wouldn't want any influence from the outside.
Jackson Claude
Yeah. I wouldn't want to, like, start taking on anyone else's personality or, like, inadvertently or intentionally. So that's another reason. And yeah, because we do this, like, like, we're very much in, like, pop culture. Like, we, like, half my day is devoted to this. Like, I'm kind of good on that.
Valeria Lipovetsky
Yeah.
Jackson Claude
And the second half of the day, like, I'll. I'm with my kids. But, like, if I have free time, like, I, like, prefer to watch TV or read a book. It's just not my medium of choice.
Valeria Lipovetsky
I feel like I don't listen for the same reasons. I don't want to mold myself unconsciously into someone that I like to listen to because I feel like it happens naturally.
Jackson Claude
Yeah.
Valeria Lipovetsky
Yeah. So I stay with you.
Jackson Claude
It does. And it's like a nice thing, but not if you've got to have your own thing going on.
Valeria Lipovetsky
Yeah.
Jackson Claude
So that. But then if there's someone has a guest on, so like an interview where they're like, you know, spilling tea or whatever, I'll like, yeah. For one offs, I'll. I'll listen. If someone's talking about, like, something that their personal life, and I'm like, oh, I'm a fan of them. I would listen. So it just depends.
Valeria Lipovetsky
Okay.
Jackson Claude
Yeah. But that's what I found with most podcasters. So I know it's a tall task for you to listen to this show.
Valeria Lipovetsky
I can do it.
Jackson Claude
But if you're ever. If you're going to a dinner party with, like, people who like, like this stuff and you want to just like, be in the know, hit them with like, one episode of the Toast will catch you up.
Valeria Lipovetsky
I won't be surprised if in my citizenship test, they'll be like, asking questions like that. And I'll be like, well, actually, I'm fully versed in it because of the toast.
Jackson Claude
Well, what's funny is we have a Patreon channel where we do, like, bonus content every month. We do extra five episodes. And we've done the citizenship test as an episode where we, like, both saw if we could pass. So maybe you should listen to that one because we also, like, talk about the answers and maybe there are some good, like, ways to remember the answers. Be like, well, Jackie said this or Claudia said that. So it's a good way to study.
Valeria Lipovetsky
Okay. There weren't any pop cultures questions on the citizenship.
Jackson Claude
Not unless, like, George Washington is a pop culture icon, which I think he is.
Valeria Lipovetsky
I think we should make him one.
Jackson Claude
I think we should. Have you been seeing those AI photos of the founding fathers?
Valeria Lipovetsky
Yeah.
Jackson Claude
Yes. At what they would look like today?
Valeria Lipovetsky
Yes. It's amazing. Like, seriously, have you seen the AI Biblical videos? Obsessed, like, that's. This is a technology and just, like a format I can get behind.
Jackson Claude
I agree. It's like, wake up with me. A day in the life of a coal miner in the 1700s. We're building Pittsburgh.
Valeria Lipovetsky
Yeah. Or like when Moses separated the sea. And people like, he's like, hey, friends, today we are starting the day with, you know, letting my people go.
Jackson Claude
He's like this. He's like, hey, famous. I know you've all been asking. I'm today. I like that, too. I've really been embracing AI because I feel like before it destroys us as a humanity, like, we should enjoy it.
Valeria Lipovetsky
I think it's a state of mind. If you look at all these advancements as something that's threatening your, you know, existence, then I think maybe you're not seeing the potential. I just feel like we need to over index now on things that only humans can do.
Jackson Claude
Yeah. Yeah. Like podcasts. We've asked AI to write, like, an episode of the Toast. Like, can you do one? It's so bad. Which is so good for us.
Valeria Lipovetsky
Okay, that's good.
Jackson Claude
That's good, right?
Valeria Lipovetsky
Yeah.
Jackson Claude
We can't be replaced by robots.
Valeria Lipovetsky
Emotional intelligence is not there yet.
Jackson Claude
Right?
Valeria Lipovetsky
Yet.
Jackson Claude
I don't know. I really can't imagine a world where it would be, like, where I really want to get. They haven't lived like, that makes no sense to me.
Valeria Lipovetsky
Listen, I just want a robot in my house to do all the tasks that. It's just a waste of time for me.
Jackson Claude
I want a neuralink chip in my brain for all the things I, like, think that I need to write down that I forget before I can write them down.
Valeria Lipovetsky
That would be so helpful.
Jackson Claude
They're working on. Elon is working on it. Neural link. Watch the space.
Valeria Lipovetsky
And you put it in your brain.
Jackson Claude
They, like, implant the chip into your brain, which is, like, not my favorite, but the idea that, like, there's something in your brain that can, like, record your thoughts that you want them to record to remind you later or whatever it is.
Valeria Lipovetsky
But do you then worry about them using that information?
Jackson Claude
Yeah, for sure. I would never do it.
Valeria Lipovetsky
Okay, but, like, the idea.
Jackson Claude
But, like, so many times I'm in the shower, I'm like, damn, I need a neural link. I can't write this down. Yeah, you know.
Valeria Lipovetsky
Okay, Elon, get with it.
Jackson Claude
What kind of car do you drive?
Valeria Lipovetsky
It's a Mercedes. It's this truck. What is it called?
Jackson Claude
Oh, the G Wagon.
Valeria Lipovetsky
Yes.
Jackson Claude
Oh, cool.
Valeria Lipovetsky
I know. It's very basic Miami.
Jackson Claude
Is it? Is that the classic Miami car?
Valeria Lipovetsky
I would say so. I see so many of them, which is also nice because it's nothing, like, unique.
Jackson Claude
Yeah.
Valeria Lipovetsky
Yeah.
Jackson Claude
It's a cool car, though.
Valeria Lipovetsky
Yeah. And I have the older model, which I like. I need, like, I want a vintage car.
Jackson Claude
What. What would your next car be, do you think? Like, a little car?
Valeria Lipovetsky
No, it will never be a little car because I am a savage on the road. So I need a big car to make sure everyone sees me and that I'm coming.
Jackson Claude
Where did you learn how to drive?
Valeria Lipovetsky
In Israel. That should explain everything to you.
Jackson Claude
That's so funny. But you're probably a really good driver. Like, aggressive.
Valeria Lipovetsky
I think so.
Jackson Claude
Yeah. It's good to be aggressive.
Valeria Lipovetsky
Like, I have really good reflexes. I'm just like, you know. Yeah. So I feel like I can really navigate the roads well, but I don't think a small car for me would do this world a favor.
Jackson Claude
Okay. Thank you for your service. In your big car, you need a cybertruck, even though that's actually also scary.
Valeria Lipovetsky
Headaches. Being in a Tesla, being in anything that Elon Musk created. I don't know what's going on there is the why. I don't know.
Jackson Claude
EMFs, they say, yes, but I drive a Tesla, and I have my. Like, I am someone who's prone to migraines my whole life, and they don't give me headaches, which is just odd.
Valeria Lipovetsky
Apparently, there's, like, a little switch that you do put, and then it changes the way something operates. I don't Know what it is. And then you don't get headaches. So maybe you did a little.
Jackson Claude
Maybe it's been on that setting.
Valeria Lipovetsky
Yeah, yeah. So.
Jackson Claude
But I've heard that. But Also, like, the EMFs are really only when the car is charging, not when it's on the road. Like, you shouldn't sit in the car when it's charging.
Valeria Lipovetsky
I think for me, at this point, it's a placebo effect. Like, I've decided that Teslas make me nauseous. So that will be it forever for me.
Jackson Claude
Well, I just. They're like, as close as we got to a robot right now is why. Is why I mention it.
Valeria Lipovetsky
South park, do you use all these feature features?
Jackson Claude
No, I only use. I've used self park like, like twice here because I don't know how to parallel park. I've never done self driving. I only learned how to drive when I moved down here, and I got my license two years ago. So driving is just like it. It's a lot for me.
Valeria Lipovetsky
Did you feel like you just. Like a new hole found freedom, Superwoman. There's nothing I can't imagine.
Jackson Claude
You can't even imagine, like, I. So I grew up in the city, like someone. It would have been time to get my license. I never even took lessons or took a test because it's not like I was getting a car. We just, like, you know, used public transit or took taxis or Ubers. And then I lived in the city until I moved here. And there were so many times where, like, it would have been really nice to have my license. Like, in college, I went to college, upstate New York, like, could never drive myself anywhere. But then when we moved down here, I'm like, I have to learn how to drive. Like, I have to be able to just. Even just in an emergency situation. And now I drive.
Valeria Lipovetsky
I'm really proud of you.
Jackson Claude
Thank you so much. It was the biggest thing I've, like, I've ever had. One of the biggest things I've ever had to, like, do and overcome. And it's harder as you get older.
Valeria Lipovetsky
Absolutely. Yeah, absolutely.
Jackson Claude
So you're like the opposite sort of driver as me?
Valeria Lipovetsky
I am the opposite sort of driver. And to me, a lot like, I couldn't wait to get my license because I'm just. I operate from a feeling of, like, people are suppressing me, and I just need all the tools to free myself.
Jackson Claude
Freedom. It's freedom.
Valeria Lipovetsky
Yes. So I am very, like, I'm in awe of you because I can't imagine learning it as like, an adult.
Jackson Claude
Yeah.
Valeria Lipovetsky
You just know too much. You know too many of the dangers. You're scared you have too much to lose. Like when you're 16, 17, just like whatever.
Jackson Claude
You only have like to gain and it's like, get me out of here.
Valeria Lipovetsky
Exactly.
Jackson Claude
Yeah. No, it's so, so true. So I'm glad that. I'm glad I've checked that off my list.
Valeria Lipovetsky
What's next for you on your list?
Jackson Claude
Oh, there's something gardening that's next for me.
Valeria Lipovetsky
That's crazy.
Jackson Claude
I know. But like, I hate buying herbs from the store. I never have the ones that I need when I need them. And the ones that I buy I don't use and they go bad. So I just want to be able to. To pluck them from my garden.
Valeria Lipovetsky
I think you have a romanticized idea of it. I don't think that's how it works.
Jackson Claude
Really. Explain.
Valeria Lipovetsky
I just feel like you go on this journey of gardening and you plant the seeds and they grow a little bit and then it dies and then you feel like a failure. Like it's a much longer process.
Jackson Claude
Oh, well, I do intend to have upkeep, like help with my garden. I won't be starting the garden. I will be hiring someone to build me a full blown garden.
Valeria Lipovetsky
But I do and then come to attend to it.
Jackson Claude
Well, that I want to learn how to attend to it. It you know.
Valeria Lipovetsky
Right.
Jackson Claude
That I do want to know. But no, I'm not going to be like waiting on my seeds.
Valeria Lipovetsky
Got it.
Jackson Claude
There will be someone else's seeds. So it's a little bit flex. Like I'm not going to be starting to garden from the ground up. But like I want to be able to water my garden.
Valeria Lipovetsky
You see, this is what I'm saying. Like America is so great. Like I want.
Jackson Claude
It's like an Israeli. They garden.
Valeria Lipovetsky
Yeah. But they do like the law farm. Yeah. It's like a whole thing. You know, they treat it as like they this art. But here you can dabble.
Jackson Claude
It's true. I dabble.
Valeria Lipovetsky
You dabble in things, you know, what.
Jackson Claude
Do you want to learn how to do?
Valeria Lipovetsky
What do I learn? Oh my God, so many things. I feel like I should be painting.
Jackson Claude
Okay.
Valeria Lipovetsky
I also feel like I should learn how to like take dance classes. Like pole dancing.
Jackson Claude
Ooh.
Valeria Lipovetsky
Yeah. Cuz I feel like it will help with my upper body strength for sure. Yeah. And what else I really wanted to do? What's the one when you go up and like it's open mic. No. How do you call it?
Jackson Claude
Stand up.
Valeria Lipovetsky
Yeah. But improvise like improv.
Jackson Claude
Yes, you should do it.
Valeria Lipovetsky
I'm just really scared. I have to still like build the, the confidence.
Jackson Claude
That to me is the scariest job in the world would be like being a stand up comedian.
Valeria Lipovetsky
I. That's what I said. We had a friend over and he's a stand up comedian. And I just, just looked at him and I'm like, I don't know how you go up there in a place of people that you don't know and you just start telling your jokes and it's quiet and then maybe one cackles. Somebody's like drinking. You can hear them drinking the water. Like there's so many elements that I would just paralyze me. I would run away crying.
Jackson Claude
No, I completely agree. My sister Claudia does stand up and I could like, I'm infinitely impressed by her. She's done like two tours and she's done it like in a really big way. But I could never, I, I just up there alone.
Valeria Lipovetsky
But did she ever have flop? Like she's standing there telling the joke and the audience gives you nothing.
Jackson Claude
But the thing is like, she sort of leapfrogged over that painful period because she started stand up when she had an audience, like a following already. So like, yeah, she would sell tickets to a comedy club and all the people there are like, people who love.
Valeria Lipovetsky
Her and they know what to expect.
Jackson Claude
And they know like her. They know what to expect. Like they're there and it's gonna most likely be good. Cause like they have the same sense of humor and they know what to expect.
Valeria Lipovetsky
So that's a very privileged experience.
Jackson Claude
It's a very privileged experience.
Valeria Lipovetsky
But one day just going on stage in a different, like in just a random bar and just start spitting jokes.
Jackson Claude
No, it's so crazy.
Valeria Lipovetsky
Oh my God. Literally having an out of body experience.
Jackson Claude
No, it's.
Valeria Lipovetsky
So yeah, one day I'll do it and I won't tell anybody and I just go to like a random place and just start impressing. Okay, I'll let you know.
Jackson Claude
Let me know, let me know. Maybe that's at 35. That's what happens at 36. Yes.
Valeria Lipovetsky
I'm gonna come to my family and be like, guys, I decided to change up my career trajectory and become a comedian.
Jackson Claude
But it's actually in line with what you do. Like, if you wanted to be a comedian for real, like you have so many, so many of the platforms that you have, like, would be so great for a comedy career. Like they are the digital space and comedy, like really work nicely go together.
Valeria Lipovetsky
But that's why I'm so passionate about creators and the creator economy in general. Because you can do anything. You know what I mean? I want to be a comedian. I'll be a comedian. I want to do something else. I do something else. I want to start selling candles. I'll do that like you. There's no limits because you build your personal brand and people love you for you.
Jackson Claude
It's so true.
Valeria Lipovetsky
So that's pretty magical.
Jackson Claude
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That happens a lot with like Netflix live content, like the Love Is Blind reunion. Because I don't know why they want.
Valeria Lipovetsky
I watch Love is Blind.
Jackson Claude
You do? That's a good, that's a good American show. That's a good show and that's a really good way to get to know like different cities and the type of people who live in different cities.
Valeria Lipovetsky
I agree. I enjoyed it. I feel like there was enough intellectual tickle there for me to keep watching.
Jackson Claude
That's actually shocking. If you liked that and found it intellectually tickling, you will I have a tickle?
Valeria Lipovetsky
Let's keep it a proportionate because every.
Jackson Claude
Season they like drag out these conversations and the people aren't like the most most interesting. But that's what makes a good candidate for the show.
Valeria Lipovetsky
If you watch the first like just the pods and then the end. To me, that's me watching reality. Like the in between is where they drag it and try to make a storyline but there's no story usually.
Jackson Claude
Oh to me I the pods are really painful to Watch like, I have a cat. You do make.
Valeria Lipovetsky
But I sit there and analyze, like, human behavior. Like, her saying, I have a cat. That. To see her body language and, like, what was her messaging behind the statement? And then seeing the guy responds that this is the tickle that I was looking for.
Jackson Claude
Oh, okay, good.
Valeria Lipovetsky
Yeah, that's good.
Jackson Claude
I like the honeymoon phase. The. The, like, trip to Mexico or whatever where they see each other, and it's like, is it good? Is it bad? That's so painful. And then when they're, like, living in apartments, they drag that out a little bit. But in the beginning, it's kind of interesting.
Valeria Lipovetsky
But what do they do on Love Island? Island.
Jackson Claude
So Love island is really crazy. So they're all in a house. They have, like, five single girls, five single guys. But it's an island. So you can get, like, sent home from the island if you're not making a good connection. And they just. They bring in, like, new people every day. So you really. You want to find a connection where you want the audience to like you, to keep you on. It's as much filmed in real time as a show could be. Like, typically, this episode that would have been premiered tonight, like, they probably shot it three days ago on set. Like, they are there now, and so the audience gets to vote alongside the show. And probably by the end of the show, we'll cycle through, like, 40 or 50 people. But, like, some couples can really, you know, be.
Valeria Lipovetsky
But are there, like, Love island graduates that stay together? Like, is that a thing or not?
Jackson Claude
So glad you asked. Do you know Molly Mae?
Valeria Lipovetsky
Why would I know Molly Mae?
Jackson Claude
I don't know, because she. I feel like of the people you would know, you would know Molly Mae, maybe. Okay, so she is a UK influencer.
Valeria Lipovetsky
Okay. Okay.
Jackson Claude
She came from Love Island. She met her now boyfriend. There was drama recently, but, like, they have a baby together. Tommy Fury. He's the boxer. He fought Jake Paul. You know Jake Paul?
Valeria Lipovetsky
Yes.
Jackson Claude
Yes. Okay.
Valeria Lipovetsky
So, like, the lights turned on.
Jackson Claude
Yes. Molly and Tommy came from Love Island. They've been together ever since, except for last summer. They broke up temporarily, but they have a baby together. She has a fashion line called maybe. She's very. She has a docu series on Amazon Prime. She's, like, incredibly doing the most. Don't expect that from anyone else from Love Island. Everyone else is like, you know, reality tv. Like, I have a podcast. But she is just, like, catapulted. And I. So I thought you might know her. But she did come from Love island uk, which historically is Better and more popular than Love Island. Us. Us has had a hard time getting off the ground, but last season was really popular. And it's like the show of the summer because it's on four nights a week. It's, like, constantly happening.
Valeria Lipovetsky
That's really fascinating.
Jackson Claude
You can't, like, passively watch it. I. And it's a lot of homework for you to start it. You'd have to watch it, like, every night.
Valeria Lipovetsky
Can I watch recap on TikTok? Do you feel like I'll get the hang of it?
Jackson Claude
I think yes.
Valeria Lipovetsky
Okay.
Jackson Claude
I think you could watch recaps on TikTok.
Valeria Lipovetsky
I feel like you should have sent me this, like, as homework before I came here.
Jackson Claude
But I didn't watch it either, so how could I do that?
Valeria Lipovetsky
Because they were 40 minutes late.
Jackson Claude
Because they were 40 minutes late. But if I'm being honest, I. I don't know that I would have gotten around to it. Redheads was really difficult to edit. I do another podcast, a book club podcast. Do you like to read?
Valeria Lipovetsky
I love to read.
Jackson Claude
What kind of books do you like?
Valeria Lipovetsky
I. I like very dense books. It's either like, self improvement or biographies. I love. I do fiction too.
Jackson Claude
Yeah.
Valeria Lipovetsky
I actually picked up my first fantasy book because of, like, peer pressure.
Jackson Claude
Which one? Fourth Wing.
Valeria Lipovetsky
Acotar.
Jackson Claude
It's like, those are the two big ones.
Valeria Lipovetsky
Yes. Okay. So the first, I love Acotar. I didn't love it either, but I gotta tell you, I talked a lot of shit about it on my social media. I finished the first book, committed to it, and I was like, meh. And then I started the second book, and it does get better.
Jackson Claude
That's what people say. It's like, okay, well, you have to wait for the second book. I'm like, I'm not gonna read a whole ass bad book so that it gets better for the second book. Like, if you don't get. So that's kind of.
Valeria Lipovetsky
You gotta be committed.
Jackson Claude
Yeah. I read 50% of the first book, but then I think I went into labor. So then I was just like, and I'm not going back to this book.
Valeria Lipovetsky
Like, I'm a different person.
Jackson Claude
Yes. So. But I wasn't even enjoying it. Cause if it was a book that I loved, I. I would have finished it.
Valeria Lipovetsky
I could finish it in any day, any fantasy books.
Jackson Claude
I read Fourth Wing and you liked it. I loved the first Fourth wing, and I did not like the second one. And so I won't be reading the third one. Like, they've lost me. But that's okay. Because I don't feel like it's necessarily for me. Like I'm. It's for Gen Z and I was enjoying my time there. But if I need to leave, like, you guys still have fun.
Valeria Lipovetsky
Yeah, well, they're having the most amount of fun. That's why I felt the fomo. And I'm like, I'll pick up this book cuz I want to have fun too.
Jackson Claude
And you've written and I didn't have fun either.
Valeria Lipovetsky
But the second book, I'm going through it, it's spicier.
Jackson Claude
Okay. I don't even think I got to any spice in first Acotar.
Valeria Lipovetsky
Cause it was like, no, there was no spice. It was. I was like, is this it? Because this is a fairy popping up at every scene. And I'm just like, enough with the freaking fairies. Like, let's get somewhere. But the second book, it gets there, so we'll see. But fantasy is one that I felt like I need to explore. I'm still not there yet.
Jackson Claude
Yeah, I'm not big on fantasy.
Valeria Lipovetsky
What do you like to read?
Jackson Claude
I like to read historical fiction.
Valeria Lipovetsky
Oh, that's so good.
Jackson Claude
So good. But I got into a place where like, some of it's a little silly and I'm like, I want the true story. Like I want just history, but that's too dense. Like I'm not gonna go and read like Churchill's biography, so. But it's like I read a biography of Churchill's mother and I read the historic. Like I read. I forget the author who wrote it, but it was like her official biography.
Valeria Lipovetsky
The biography of Churchill's mother.
Jackson Claude
Yeah.
Valeria Lipovetsky
Was that so good?
Jackson Claude
It took me a really long time to read it, but I really wanted to get her story. Cause it was a really interesting story. And then I also read the historical fiction book about her. So it was like a girly swirly version of her story. And like, so that would have been an easier way to get it. But I did want to like hear from the primary source, like about her.
Valeria Lipovetsky
There was one that I read. It was about the fictional wife of Jesus. What was the name of that book? That was a great book.
Jackson Claude
Let's find out. It was good. You would recommend such a reading slump.
Valeria Lipovetsky
I know. That's why I picked up the fantasy book.
Jackson Claude
Understood.
Valeria Lipovetsky
But now I'm in a deeper slump.
Jackson Claude
Right, right, right.
Valeria Lipovetsky
It pushed it.
Jackson Claude
And I'm sure you've read like all the classic popular books like Colleen Hoover.
Valeria Lipovetsky
Oh my God. You see, I can't get with that either. Although it's not like it's not my favorite type of literature, but I do have to say it's easier to, like, get through.
Jackson Claude
Yeah. Was the book called the Book of Longings?
Valeria Lipovetsky
Yes.
Jackson Claude
And it was good.
Valeria Lipovetsky
So good.
Jackson Claude
Okay, thanks. Got a new book Rec.
Valeria Lipovetsky
Love it. That one is amazing. But, yeah, I. I love books like this, but there's not a lot of them out there that can really marry, like, both facts and history.
Jackson Claude
Yeah.
Valeria Lipovetsky
And, like, really good storytelling.
Jackson Claude
Yes. Without it, like, being silly or they start to, like, write in a way that's. It's like, people didn't talk like that back. Like, you're really editorializing it, and it's, like, makes it hard to stay in that time and place.
Valeria Lipovetsky
What's the worst book you've read recently?
Jackson Claude
Well, recently, the one that I. We just read for the podcast. It was a good book. I wouldn't say it was a bad book. I just didn't enjoy it. It was too dense. It was like a murder mystery. It was, like, very Agatha Christie, but it was so complicated, so I didn't love that. It was called the Seven and a Half Deaths of Evelyn Hardcastle. That's the. The Redheads book this month. But you should listen to the podcast episode because it was so funny. Like a. Seriously. Almost peed my pants.
Valeria Lipovetsky
That's another thing. The murder mystery thing.
Jackson Claude
Yeah.
Valeria Lipovetsky
A whole industry, a whole world that I found out about probably six months ago.
Jackson Claude
Do you like them?
Valeria Lipovetsky
I never listen to. I'm scared. I don't know where to begin. Like, it's such a completely different space for me. And I also can't really imagine listening in the car about, like, a murder.
Jackson Claude
You listen in the car to both?
Valeria Lipovetsky
Yeah.
Jackson Claude
Yeah. No, that's nice. Yeah. It's hard to, like, you have to, like, be really dialed in.
Valeria Lipovetsky
Yeah. I've been trying to, like, have a tighter bubble around me because there's so many things going on in the world. I'm just like, I need to.
Jackson Claude
Yeah. No, that's also why I like reading history, too, which just sort of gives context.
Valeria Lipovetsky
Okay. So Love Island.
Jackson Claude
So love.
Valeria Lipovetsky
Maybe they'll come out with a great, beautiful book.
Jackson Claude
Book. Well, Molly Mae did write a book, and I did read it.
Valeria Lipovetsky
Was it amazing?
Jackson Claude
No. Cause she's really young, and, like, it was before, like, really, like. It just talked about, like, her rise to fame, but it was, like, there wasn't that much to say, but I think people just wanted to hear from her, like, me. So it wasn't amazing, but it was cute. And it was, like, exactly what you.
Valeria Lipovetsky
Would think, okay, you see where I take conversations. When you sit down with me to.
Jackson Claude
Talk about pop culture, you see where I take conversations? It's literally an hour, and we're not even through the first story.
Valeria Lipovetsky
No, because I don't. I don't know. Okay, next do.
Jackson Claude
That's what I love. A tangent. This show should be. We've said, like, it should be called the Tangent. We don't actually talk about the stories. They're just, like springboards for us to talk about what we want to talk about.
Valeria Lipovetsky
Okay.
Jackson Claude
So don't feel tied down by the stories.
Valeria Lipovetsky
Okay.
Jackson Claude
However, our next story, I did choose because I wanted to get your take because you, in addition to everything I've already said, you're also, like, a guru when it comes to, like, advice and relationships and finances. Like, you just give a lot of good advice. And so this story, I thought would be interesting to get your take on, because billionaire YouTuber Mr. Beast. You know him?
Valeria Lipovetsky
Yes.
Jackson Claude
Confesses he's borrowing money from his mom to pay for his wedding. So he admitted that he's borrowing money from his mom to pay for his upcoming wedding to his fiance, Thea. Despite being worth an estimated $1 billion, the YouTuber responded via X after a fan post described him as the only billionaire under 30 to not have inherited his wealth. He said, I personally have very little money because I reinvest everything. I think this year we'll spend around a quarter of a billion on content. Ironically, I'm actually borrowing money from my mom to pay for my upcoming wedding. Lol. But sure, on paper, the businesses I own are worth a lot.
Valeria Lipovetsky
So that's the first thing that came to mind. He's leveraged, and I think that's such a beautiful lesson for young people to also learn how to build a business. Like, he's still in building mode either, even though it's like, a huge empire.
Jackson Claude
Yeah.
Valeria Lipovetsky
And I love it. I think it's so. So it's like, a humble thing to say, you know, and be open about.
Jackson Claude
So you think that's, like, good finance move to, like, reinvest your money to the point where you can't pay for a wedding?
Valeria Lipovetsky
I think that. Well, I also think it's like a fun little thing. Exactly. To keep him kind of in the. In the news, in the circulation. But, yes, I think that it's so smart of him to continue building and reinvesting into his business. Business. I don't know how much his mother. I hope she'll be okay.
Jackson Claude
Yeah.
Valeria Lipovetsky
How much is this wedding gonna cost?
Jackson Claude
I don't know. I feel like he wouldn't have, like, a really extravagant wedding, but then I could also see it being really extravagant, and then it, like, yielding more content and, like, more business for him. Like, it almost would be like a business moment, in which case he could expense it. I don't know. But I just ate at Mr. Beast's Burger Burgers. There's a. I don't know how many restaurant. I don't know how many restaurants he has, but we were at the American Dream Mall in New Jersey last week, and they had a Mr. Beast burgers. And it was, like, the only place you could get, like, grab and go. So we had some grilled cheeses and it was, like, super cute. I'm a fan of Mr. Beast.
Valeria Lipovetsky
I'm a fan because I think he's doing a lot of really smart moves.
Jackson Claude
I agree. I think he's interesting person to watch, even though I don't watch, like. Do you watch Beast games?
Valeria Lipovetsky
I don't watch any of it. My kids were watching it for a little bit.
Jackson Claude
Like his videos, that demo.
Valeria Lipovetsky
Yes, exactly. And I think it's great and fun. Very interesting type of content. I see the amount of work he puts in there, but I wonder if one day he's just going to, like, turn it off and just disappear.
Jackson Claude
Yeah, I wonder if he could.
Valeria Lipovetsky
Where. Where does it go? You know what I mean?
Jackson Claude
Do your kids ever ask you to, like, use your clout to get them something or, like, get them to meet someone? They're like, you should.
Valeria Lipovetsky
They don't think I'm, like, cool.
Jackson Claude
They're not like, you should have Mr. Beast on the pod.
Valeria Lipovetsky
No, absolutely not.
Jackson Claude
Or, like, get on Mr. Beast PR list.
Valeria Lipovetsky
We were.
Jackson Claude
I'm on Mr. Beast PR list. I give it to my neighbors because they're that age and they. They think I'm the coolest.
Valeria Lipovetsky
No, I still. I don't know what I need to do in order to get my kids to understand how cool I am.
Jackson Claude
Who else are they? Fans. Like the Paul brothers. I feel like you could get a Paul on your podcast.
Valeria Lipovetsky
Well, I'm friends with Nina, who is so lovely.
Jackson Claude
So lovely. I mean, I don't know her. I watch a show. Do you watch their show?
Valeria Lipovetsky
Show, no.
Jackson Claude
So good. You have to watch their show.
Valeria Lipovetsky
It looks like a good show. I think that they are such masters at what they do, that everything that they put out there, they already know. They engineer it.
Jackson Claude
No, they literally changed reality television with that show. Like, Claudia and I are obsessed, and now we're obsessed with Them. Even though we typically wouldn't be their target demo, we love them.
Valeria Lipovetsky
It was such a smart move because they just had the baby, and they're kind of, like, outgrowing the cohort that they built until now. But to your point, they're bringing new people in. Like, you. Like, I need to watch the show. I would watch that.
Jackson Claude
And she's your friend.
Valeria Lipovetsky
Yeah.
Jackson Claude
That's so fun. Because then you could text her and be like, wait, did Greg really say that?
Valeria Lipovetsky
Like, I would.
Jackson Claude
That's always a fun angle. Even though, like, I. We have, like, a lot of reality TV people or we used to have more guests come on the show. And I do separate, like, personal friendships from what I'm watching on tv because.
Valeria Lipovetsky
I'm like, yeah, to me, there's Personas. So I don't. I don't mix.
Jackson Claude
Yeah, but she seems great.
Valeria Lipovetsky
She really is great. Great. So I am all for the Paul reality, but my kids don't watch it.
Jackson Claude
Got it. Okay, cool.
Valeria Lipovetsky
I'm trying to insert, like, geography quizzes type of thing while I can. You know what I mean? I'm like, look at this. This is so cool.
Jackson Claude
That is cool. You know what I subscribe to, I saw on Shark Tank? I don't know if they would like this, but it was this company called History by Mail. And every month they, like, send you, like, a replica of a piece of history, like a document or something really interesting. An interesting piece of, like, American history. Or actually, it wasn't just American. It's global. So, you know, it's for everyone.
Valeria Lipovetsky
Wait, that's a really cool idea.
Jackson Claude
It's a really cool idea.
Valeria Lipovetsky
So you subscribe to that?
Jackson Claude
I subscribe to that. And it comes once a month. My kids are obviously, I did it for me because I love History. But when the documents come, they're like, what's this? And then, like, there's, like, stories and stuff. And so it's really cool.
Valeria Lipovetsky
You see, this is what's cool for me now.
Jackson Claude
Do you watch Shark Tank? That's so American.
Valeria Lipovetsky
My kids love Shark Tank. Actually. They watch it with my husband. Husband. They love it.
Jackson Claude
That is classic.
Valeria Lipovetsky
I have to break it down. That show, I'm so happy that it runs like that is one of the best shows that America produced.
Jackson Claude
I agree. And it's such a good influence on society to show, like, anyone can do this. So many of the people who are. Go on the show now, like, watched the show growing up and were inspired by it. 10 out of 10.
Valeria Lipovetsky
It also shows you how you don't need to come up with some revolutionary idea. Like, I can't even tell. I saw one episode of this doctor that came up with a hiccup straw. I talked about it for a week.
Jackson Claude
Did it help? Hiccups?
Valeria Lipovetsky
Apparently he had a testimony of this girl that came up and said, hey, I hiccup all the time. And when I use the straw, I stop hiccuping. And it's like, $7 on Amazon.
Jackson Claude
I'm getting it.
Valeria Lipovetsky
He's like a legit doctor. The only thing is, that was very, you know, the question was, do you always walk around with a straw in your purse?
Jackson Claude
No. It would be, like, at home, if I have the hiccups while I'm out of the house, like, I'll just deal with it until I get home, and then I'll get my shit straw.
Valeria Lipovetsky
Yeah. So I. You see, I didn't think that a hiccup straw would be a hit. Like, I wouldn't even think to invent something like that.
Jackson Claude
I wouldn't. I don't know if I would invest in it because it seems, like, very.
Valeria Lipovetsky
It's very niche.
Jackson Claude
Niche. But I would buy it.
Valeria Lipovetsky
Right. And this is why we have the American dream.
Jackson Claude
Yeah. Okay, our next story. Speaking of the American dream, Kim Kardashian, she has launched a new skims product that is set to be as viral as the nipple brush bra. They are launching ultimate hips by skims. They're designed with soft foam pads embedded at the hip to form an hourglass figure that accentuates a person's curves. So they're pretty much like shorts that will give you.
Valeria Lipovetsky
Right. To get rid of the hip dips.
Jackson Claude
But, yeah, hit tips, but also, like, bring them out more. So, like, you will look like you have a shape that you don't have.
Valeria Lipovetsky
Right. Optical illusion.
Jackson Claude
An optical illusion. I would, I, I. I would try. I wouldn't want to. Like, that's not my look, but, like, I would want to see how it looks on me. Like, what would I look like?
Valeria Lipovetsky
I feel like it won't complement 90% of people. Like, in my head, I don't see that happening. But did you see the. You mentioned the nipple top, but there's one with. With the piercing I saw. Is that the one you're referring to?
Jackson Claude
There's two. There's one that's a bra that has a nipple on it. So, like, you have nipple, like, when you wear it.
Valeria Lipovetsky
And then there's one, and then there's.
Jackson Claude
Also one with piercings.
Valeria Lipovetsky
The fact.
Jackson Claude
Talk about niche.
Valeria Lipovetsky
The fact that you see you Know, her team saw a gap in the market for it is what blows my mind.
Jackson Claude
Yeah. I think the nipple bra itself has been pretty successful. It's been restocked a couple of times and actually, like, it's found a loyal community of people who have had or have breast cancer and they've lost their nipples. So, like the. It's been great for that community. And I think it's like, it's.
Valeria Lipovetsky
You see, there's an audience for everything.
Jackson Claude
There is the pierced nipple. I just feel like if you want that look, why wouldn't you pierce your nipple?
Valeria Lipovetsky
I guess it's like a commitment that.
Jackson Claude
You don't necessarily a fun thing. Like every once in a while on a night out.
Valeria Lipovetsky
Like, I just think that. Think about it. You go out with that pierced nipple thing and you hook up with somebody. Like, how does that conversation go?
Jackson Claude
Right, right, right.
Valeria Lipovetsky
Where he's like, where.
Jackson Claude
What if he was like, really only interesting. Right. And now he's not interested.
Valeria Lipovetsky
I just think that's very deceiving.
Jackson Claude
False advertising. I mean, same for like, false fit hits.
Valeria Lipovetsky
Like, I wouldn't. I think there's going to be a wave of lawsuits coming from the people that got deceived by these products, from.
Jackson Claude
The people themselves who bought them or got to see.
Valeria Lipovetsky
Oh, like, got deceived by the product.
Jackson Claude
Yeah. But I just feel like we're so. We're so in it now. Like, I think there's fake people, but sure. It's like fake now we have fake hips. Even a padded bra. You could have made that case like 20 years ago if someone's wearing padded bra.
Valeria Lipovetsky
That's so true. I'm. I love the padded butt shorts.
Jackson Claude
You do?
Valeria Lipovetsky
Yeah. That I like because I feel like it's esthetically not the big ones, the, like, very. Just to smooth things out. I'm into that. So you know what, I'm kind of. I understand how people buying into these things.
Jackson Claude
Yeah. And I mean, I don't need wider hips personally, but I could see like a person who would benefit from this. And I guess, you know, she's there to serve.
Valeria Lipovetsky
But it's definitely going to be a phase. Like, we just. I think that we as a society just looking for the next viral thing and then there's some videos, people use it a little bit and then we move on.
Jackson Claude
I do think half of this is marketing and then the other half is like actually catering to, like, mass market audience.
Valeria Lipovetsky
Which is brilliant.
Jackson Claude
Yeah. No, she's doing a great job. Like, I wouldn't, I wouldn't Doubt her. Our next story. Speaking of dating and what you're looking for, Tinder is testing out a new height filter to help people connect more intentionally. So this is going viral because Tinder has been accused of superficiality after testing out a new feature that allows users to screen potential matches based on height. This is part of a broader effort to help people connect more intentionally on Tinder. A rep for the dating platform said the new vetting function is located in the discovery section of the digital romance service and lets you users specify the maximum and minimum heights of their matches. The function will only be available to users who subscribe to Tinder Platinum, a premier subscription tier that starts at 39.99amonth. Along with the new height option, the tier also includes prioritized likes, a specific interest filter, a message before you match function, and more. Gosh, it's a slippery slope.
Valeria Lipovetsky
It really is. Because on one hand I also understand that there's a lot of catfishing out there. And you know, for some people, it really matters. The he matters. Like, what if it's right or wrong? It doesn't matter. That's their preference. But on the other hand, I can't even begin to think how many lost connections. Potential amazing connections.
Jackson Claude
Yeah.
Valeria Lipovetsky
That get lost within all these, like, not really important details.
Jackson Claude
Yeah. And I just feel like, where does it end? You know, if this is like I feel like doing. It's been usually like age, location. Like there have been filters that like, are the set filters that like, we're okay with with. Even though, you know, technically age, it's like you might actually connect with someone a little bit older and you might miss out on that. But I do think this is really limiting. I think people will. It's just. Just like you can like geoengineer like your perfect person. What Sumi could do hair color. I saw people being like, okay, well let's do weight.
Valeria Lipovetsky
That's insane.
Jackson Claude
Could you imagine?
Valeria Lipovetsky
I also, as a mother of boys, I do often worry about how it affects. Affects guys in society because that's not something they can change. For a girl, it doesn't matter your height, really. But for a man, it's such a big pain point. And I love that we had that like, short king kind of, you know, thing trending. Let's keep that going. But that to me is so much more that it's just harmful.
Jackson Claude
It is. I don't think it's productive either. I don't think it's gonna like, yield better relationships. I think it's just gonna encourage people to be superficial when I. I'm personally, like, very, very much. Like, it's about the person. I know everyone says that, but, like, I really believe that, like, I'm not superficial when it comes to love.
Valeria Lipovetsky
I mean, you don't get into a relationship, especially a marriage, and hope to stay married for 30 years.
Jackson Claude
The height and it's like he's five nine and he's not five' 11. Like, the difference of two inches. You're gonna build a life over two inches.
Valeria Lipovetsky
God, I'm so happy I'm married. I can't even imagine dating in today's time and age. Age.
Jackson Claude
Yeah.
Valeria Lipovetsky
I wouldn't do well at all.
Jackson Claude
So you never were on the apps or anything like that?
Valeria Lipovetsky
No, there was no apps.
Jackson Claude
How did you meet your husband?
Valeria Lipovetsky
At a Shabbat dinner.
Jackson Claude
Oh, that's so wholesome. Was it meant for singles or it was just coincidence?
Valeria Lipovetsky
No, it was just coincidence. Just friends of friends. It wasn't, like, right away. Click. It was something that, you know, gradually happened, but it was very natural. And there's no. There was no preferences to take.
Jackson Claude
Yeah.
Valeria Lipovetsky
On or off, because.
Jackson Claude
Would you have thought that you would want to be with someone older?
Valeria Lipovetsky
No.
Jackson Claude
Would you even have his. Have had his age on?
Valeria Lipovetsky
Absolutely not.
Jackson Claude
How old was he when you guys met?
Valeria Lipovetsky
37.
Jackson Claude
Yeah. So you wouldn't have.
Valeria Lipovetsky
That would have been my age range at all.
Jackson Claude
Right.
Valeria Lipovetsky
So that's what I'm saying. There's so many moments that you miss in life because of all these details.
Jackson Claude
Yeah.
Valeria Lipovetsky
How did you meet your husband?
Jackson Claude
We met both through work and also we had matched on a dating app. And so when I started at my new job and I met him, he, like, told me that we had match, but we never went out or anything. I never even saw that we had matched. But it actually just helped move us forward quickly because it's like, oh, we are interested. It was a green light for sure. And so, like, everything happened pretty quickly after that.
Valeria Lipovetsky
If you could build a dating app today, what would you. How would it look like?
Jackson Claude
I actually really like, when I was on Hinge, how it was based was like, it was through your Facebook, and you would only get matched with people, people, for the most part, who you had at least one mutual friend with on Facebook. And I feel like that and then everything else you could do, like, you know, radius and age and whatnot, but I feel like that's a really good way to meet people, because even the people that I know who've met through dating apps, they do know at least one person. In common or they've met before through like network. And I think that's a really good foundation for meeting someone. Someone.
Valeria Lipovetsky
I agree. I love that you're part of a circle that already shows that you guys have some kind of connection, some kind of similarities. You're around, you know, the same people.
Jackson Claude
Yeah. I don't know if Hinge is still like that or what they do now, but when I was on the apps, and I was on a lot of apps, I went on a lot of app dates and I was just like really open. It was definitely like the my preferred app. I just felt like it had the most potential for like a lasting relationship. Not just like a hookup or someone just like, yeah, you could have a good date, but, but like, I have another date tomorrow. Like, who are you?
Valeria Lipovetsky
I love that.
Jackson Claude
Our fifth and final story. A little fashion news. Britney Spears and Balenciaga are collabing. Their debut collection includes hoodies and baseball caps selling for over $1,000. So it's like limited edition Britney Spears merch made by Balenciaga. It's like concert tees sort of thing, hats.
Valeria Lipovetsky
I have that T shirt, by the way.
Jackson Claude
From Balenciaga Saga.
Valeria Lipovetsky
No, from just her merch. I would say from 20 years ago.
Jackson Claude
Oh. So yeah, now they're remaking it for the people who miss it.
Valeria Lipovetsky
I don't. I think everyone should collaborate with her. I want her to make money. Like, please, just whatever, whoever's listening to this, you have a product or an idea, I'm sure she'll jump all over it. Like, go for it. I feel like we need Britney. Just need justice.
Jackson Claude
She does. And she needs endless money so that she doesn't have to worry or dance on online or dance online. But I feel like she doesn't do that for money. I think that hurts. Probably her revenue opportunities. I think she does that for the love of dance.
Valeria Lipovetsky
And I, I, I don't know. I don't know why she does it, but I just want her to be so rich that she can just turn it all off, buy an island, turn it all off and just live her best life.
Jackson Claude
She deserve.
Valeria Lipovetsky
We owe it to her.
Jackson Claude
Yeah. I found this collaboration to be interesting and I don't hate it. Except I do hate Balenciaga. Do you still shop Balenciaga?
Valeria Lipovetsky
No. Okay, sold all. Like, Gary used to have a Balenciaga, all the hoodies. Like, we sold everything.
Jackson Claude
Yeah, that's so funny.
Valeria Lipovetsky
It's not a brand I want to associate with.
Jackson Claude
No, me neither. So even if we wanted to support Britney on This, like, we're not going to support Balenciaga, but however, I do think it's a good move for Britney. Like any.
Valeria Lipovetsky
Yes.
Jackson Claude
And this. And Balenciaga is like a high fashion. And it's a good move for Balenciaga cuz, you know, they need all the help they can get. Even though so many celebrities like still work with them and then are surprised why we don't like them.
Valeria Lipovetsky
But that's. There's always sometimes a disconnect like between fashion world and real world. And a lot of these companies are suffering without us knowing. They just have this like big brand. It looks flashy and successful. I think that's where Balenciaga is at.
Jackson Claude
How are they still in business?
Valeria Lipovetsky
Like, oh my God, they have a machine behind them.
Jackson Claude
I think. Yeah. The other brands that whoever owns Balenciaga, like the other brands that they own, just pay for Balenciaga because they don't want to admit like what a big mistake they made.
Valeria Lipovetsky
But they're gonna bring a creative director that will change it. Like, you just need time with these things. Time does its thing. I actually have to say I was pretty shocked how fast the story, like when they did that hideous campaign, how fast people forgot.
Jackson Claude
I feel like the media moved on and like everyone acts like Beyond Seaga is normal and like celebrities moved on, but the people, that's what I'm saying, have not moved on.
Valeria Lipovetsky
That's what I'm saying. The media did not fool the people. But it was crazy to see how fast the cycle went on. The media.
Jackson Claude
It's true, true. So it's really true. But like when you go to like Saks, like the sail racks are all Balenciaga, like the store within the stores, like it's the only empty one. Like the people were still mad.
Valeria Lipovetsky
I think that today, if you choose to wear Balenciaga, it like showcases your values as a person.
Jackson Claude
Yeah.
Valeria Lipovetsky
And it's a bigger statement than people realize.
Jackson Claude
I think so too. However, I. I never owned that much Balenciaga to.
Valeria Lipovetsky
With.
Jackson Claude
Begin. Begin with. And so I didn't like sell it or sell the things that I had. I never had anything that said Balenciaga. Like, I have the city bags, I don't wear them anymore.
Valeria Lipovetsky
Those are. They belong to a different.
Jackson Claude
And like. Yeah, like he didn't make them. Didn't make.
Valeria Lipovetsky
Exactly.
Jackson Claude
I agree. And I'm just waiting for them to like come back around because I would wear mine again. But I feel like if you owned Balenciaga already, like you could still wear like, that's fine. But like, we don't. When we see you in it, like, we don't know when you judge.
Valeria Lipovetsky
Yeah, I, I judge straight up. So.
Jackson Claude
So those are the fast five stories. You absolutely needed to know them. You absolutely needed to get to know Valeria. Thank you so much for joining us this morning and giving us your time. Where can everyone follow you?
Valeria Lipovetsky
Thank you for enlightening me and I'm so excited to get my news from the Toast every week so I can be with it. I. People can find me at Valeria Lepavetsky on every platform. I'm everywhere.
Jackson Claude
She's such an amazing content creator. Like, give her a follow even though she doesn't need it. She has millions of followers and like, she doesn't need us at all. And so we're glad that you grace.
Valeria Lipovetsky
Us with your so much. And then my podcast. Not alone.
Jackson Claude
When does it drop?
Valeria Lipovetsky
Every week.
Jackson Claude
What days?
Valeria Lipovetsky
Tuesdays.
Jackson Claude
Tuesdays. And you just had Stassi on your podcast. We're big Stacy fans here.
Valeria Lipovetsky
Listen. Stacy is the one that made me realize that I have to learn more about reality tv because she said I fell in love with her. I'm obsessed with her. She is so fun, so upbeat.
Jackson Claude
But just know, like, not everyone is a Stasi. And so like you're starting, but I.
Valeria Lipovetsky
Only want the stasis.
Jackson Claude
Yeah, every, most, most good shows have a stasi. But like, if you think you're gonna go into reality TV and you're gonna meet a million stasis, there's only one Stasi.
Valeria Lipovetsky
So I'm gonna talk with my chat GPT to filter my reality show consumption and only find me the stasis.
Jackson Claude
Okay, you could also start Vanderpump Rules. That's actually a great American show. The show that Stassi got her start on. Yeah, like the early seasons is like peak reality television. So if you want to know like what it's all about.
Valeria Lipovetsky
And they're running a restaurant.
Jackson Claude
They are working in a restaurant. Yes. And in the early days, they really were working there. Like Lisa Vanderpump owns the restaurant and they wanted to give her a show about what goes on in her restaurant. So they, and they. She just happened to have like really interesting people working for her. Now the show's not even on right now, but like now it's like people fake work there just to like film pickup scenes or whatever. But back in the day, like they were really working at the restaurant. That was their full time job. Like they weren't making a lot of money. They were just scraping by and they were just, like, so excited to be on this reality show. They left it all on the show. You have to watch.
Valeria Lipovetsky
I have to watch it. Okay, cool. Gossip Girl, Desperate Housewives, Vendor Pop Rule, and the toast. Thank you so much.
Jackson Claude
Seriously, you're all. You're set for life with those. Thank you, guys for listening. We will see you tomorrow. Love ya. Bye.
Podcast Title: The Toast
Episode: The Valeria Revolution with Valeria Lipovetsky
Hosts: Jackson Claude and Valeria Lipovetsky
Release Date: June 4, 2025
In this engaging episode of "The Toast," hosts Jackson Claude and Valeria Lipovetsky delve into the multifaceted world of content creation, entrepreneurship, and personal growth. Valeria, a renowned YouTuber, TikToker, Instagrammer, and podcaster, shares her journey from modeling to building a thriving online presence. The conversation offers valuable insights into balancing multiple roles, overcoming burnout, and fostering a supportive creator community.
Valeria begins by recounting her early career in modeling, which started at the age of 15. Her modeling stint allowed her to travel extensively, visiting cities like Paris and Tokyo. However, after marrying at 21, Valeria sought a new path beyond modeling. "I started a blog. It was called the Modern Fox, and it was 2017," she explains [09:03]. Realizing that traditional blogging didn't fully tap into her creativity, she transitioned to YouTube, where she initially focused on nutrition before expanding into beauty and fashion.
The COVID-19 pandemic marked a significant turning point for Valeria. "I woke up one morning when they locked everyone in, and I was just like, I have a purpose. I need to use social media to make people feel good," [10:04] she shares. This period saw her ramping up her content creation efforts, engaging in daily Instagram lives, workouts, and constant vlogging, which substantially grew her audience.
Valeria candidly discusses her battle with burnout, a common issue among content creators. "I did a classic mistake of most women: we just take it more and more upon ourselves," [05:21] she admits. Recognizing the unsustainable pace, she turned to her husband Gary, who is also her business partner, for support. This collaboration led her to delegate tasks and hire a supportive team, thereby reinvesting in her business. "Started really learning how to delegate and, and hire and, you know, reinvesting in the business and it's been, it's been amazing," [05:30].
Valeria emphasizes the importance of structuring her week to balance business operations and personal well-being. "The way my week is built is based on all the kind of aspects of my business and my life. Like Mondays are admin days, you know, Tuesday, content, Wednesday, whatever," [06:00]. Additionally, she dedicates a day solely for personal reflection, allowing her creative ideas to flourish. "I keep a day for me to just like sit and stare at a wall. I think that's so important," [06:07].
Valeria introduces her initiative, the Creator Method, which focuses on forming a supportive community for creators. "It's like a community that we put together, basically giving all the tools and all the information that I've learned throughout the years," [01:32] she explains. Celebrating its first anniversary, the Creator Method has evolved into a members' club facilitating networking, collaboration, and access to industry experts. "Constantly bringing kind of new people in, in terms of experts in the industry and things like, so just became like a fun little community," [02:32].
Valeria shares her initial struggles with podcasting, highlighting the differences between social media and long-form audio content. "When I sat down, I got humbled so fast because it's a completely different platform, different kind of delivery," [11:42]. Her first podcast season was overly complex, incorporating monologues and multiple guests, which proved exhausting and ineffective. "Season two, we pulled back and really went back to basics," [12:53]. This experience gave her a newfound respect for seasoned podcasters, acknowledging the nuanced skill required to engage an audience effectively.
Valeria advises new podcasters to embrace a lengthy experimentation phase. "Everyone needs to get very comfortable with having a long experimentation phase, because I think so many people, when they start whatever project you pick up, you kind of assume that you're gonna just get it," [16:13]. Emphasizing patience and authenticity, she cautions against rushing the process before understanding one's unique voice and style. "Don't rush to get discovered. Trust me, that's not," [16:54].
Valeria discusses how motherhood initially influenced her content, with a focus on parenting. As her children grew, she shifted her content to allow them personal space, though her audience remains supportive of her busy family life. "Motherhood was a huge, like, at the forefront of my content. But as my kids got older, I kind of moved away from it just to give them space," [02:59].
Juggling multiple roles, Valeria highlights the societal pressure on women to "have it all," stating, "you can have it all, just not at the same time," [03:45]. She underscores the necessity of a disjointed timeline compared to traditional expectations, allowing women to leverage modern opportunities to fulfill diverse ambitions. "Parts of our strength is really, like, the emotional intelligence and that place of, like, really bringing in the creative," [07:00].
Born in Russia, Valeria moved to Israel at age 2, where she spent her formative years until she was 20. Her multicultural upbringing has influenced her global perspective as a content creator. "I was in Ms. Israel, but I started working in the industry there and then right after I started traveling. My first trip was Paris and then it was Tokyo for a month and a half at 16 by myself," [26:11].
Valeria is close with her siblings, having both younger and older brothers, which has contributed to her supportive and resilient personality. "I have a younger brother and an older brother. Yes," [26:37].
Valeria expresses a desire to embrace a "do less" philosophy to further enhance her productivity and creativity. Moving forward, she aims to refine her ability to focus on what truly matters while reducing unnecessary workload. "I want to do less. I want to really learn the art of just like being," [06:34].
Looking ahead, Valeria discusses her aspirations for learning new skills such as dance classes, including pole dancing for upper body strength, and her interest in stand-up comedy. "I also feel like I should learn how to like take dance classes. Like pole dancing," [49:52]. These pursuits align with her commitment to continuous self-improvement and creative expression.
Valeria Lipovetsky's conversation on "The Toast" episode offers a comprehensive look into the life of a dynamic content creator balancing entrepreneurship, motherhood, and personal growth. From her early days in modeling to building a supportive creator community, Valeria’s journey underscores the importance of delegation, community, and self-care. Her candid reflections on overcoming burnout, the challenges of podcasting, and the evolution of her content provide valuable insights for aspiring creators and entrepreneurs alike.
On Balancing It All:
"The biggest challenge for women is to understand that you can have it all, just not at the same time." [03:45]
On Podcasting:
"Don't rush to get discovered. Trust me, that's not." [16:54]
On Personal Growth:
"I want to do less. I want to really learn the art of just like being." [06:34]
This episode not only highlights Valeria's professional insights but also her personal growth, setting an inspiring example for those navigating the complexities of content creation and entrepreneurship.