What does startup growth reveal about a founder?

In this episode, Tyler talks with Colin Hodge, startup founder, growth strategist, co-owner of the dating app Down, and author of Outrageous Startup Growth, about the highs and lows of building fast-growing companies and what those experiences teach you about leadership, identity, and resilience.

Colin shares how early viral traction and massive attention created a misleading definition of success, and how that eventually led to burnout, self-doubt, and what Tyler calls a “mirror-shattering moment.” Together, they unpack the emotional side of entrepreneurship, including founder ego, external validation, sustainable growth, authenticity, empathy, and the internal work required to build something meaningful over the long term.

This conversation goes beyond startup tactics. It explores what happens when success becomes part of your identity, why so many founders chase the wrong metrics, and how values, reflection, and user empathy can help leaders grow both healthier companies and healthier lives.

In this episode:

How Colin built and scaled startup products to millions of users
The danger of chasing vanity metrics
What happens when founder identity gets tied to success
Why resilience matters more than hype
How empathy and user psychology drive better growth
The difference between fast growth and sustainable growth
Why significance matters more than external recognition
How founders can keep growing without losing themselves

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