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The Unapologetic Man Podcast: How to Meet, Attract, and Date More Women
Hosted by Mark Sing · EN
Learn exactly how to talk to girls, how to approach women, how to get a girlfriend, how to get out of the friend zone, how to get a girl's phone number, how to build attraction, how to master the dating apps, and how to have sex with the women you want — all while becoming the most confident, masculine, and powerful version of yourself.
Hosted by Mark Sing, an elite NLP dating coach for men, this show breaks down everything you need to master seduction, attraction, masculine frame, confidence, communication, mindset, inner game, charisma, social skills, flirting, body language, and emotional control.
Whether you're trying to meet women in real life, improve your online dating game, or finally stop being the "nice guy" and start being the man women chase, you'll discover step-by-step strategies to win with dating, relationships, sex, self-development, success, and confidence — without apology.
Each episode delivers powerful insights drawn from NLP (Neuro-Linguistic Programming), psychology, evolutionary biology, and social dynamics, teaching you how to command respect, ignite desire, and live like a high-value man.
If you've ever searched "how to attract women," "how to flirt," "how to be confident," or "how to get girls to like you," you've just found your new favorite podcast.
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3 Advanced Frame Control Mind Hacks That Separate Beta Men From Real Leaders
Jan 600:26:43Tap to summarizeIn this hard-hitting episode of The Unapologetic Man Podcast, host Mark Sing breaks down 3 advanced frame control mind hacks that instantly separate beta men from real leaders in dating, attraction, and life. Frame control isn't a trick, it's the backbone of masculine presence, and most men destroy attraction without even realizing it by reacting emotionally, explaining themselves, or engaging with the wrong frames. In this episode, Mark shows you how high-value men maintain control by choosing what they engage with and what they ignore, using refusal to engage, strategic ignoring, and no response to shut down tests, flip power dynamics, and build attraction without chasing or qualifying themselves. Key Takeaways: - Why frame control is the foundation of attraction. - How refusing to engage instantly raises your perceived value. - Why ignoring attraction-killing tests builds more desire than responding. - How no response over text flips the power dynamic in your favor. Key Timestamps: [00:00:00] – Episode intro and preview [00:00:34] – 2026 message [00:01:48] – Why frame control is everything [00:06:22] – Refuse to engage (RTE) [00:12:10] – Ignore to control the frame (ITC) [00:19:52] – No response (NR) over text [00:22:32] – Advanced texting mind hack [00:26:12] – Episode Outro Connect With Mark: Apply for Mark's 3-Month Coaching Program: https://coachmarksing.com/coaching/ Check Out The Perks Program: https://coachmarksing.com/perks/ Email: CoachMarkSing@Gmail.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/coachmarksing/ Grab Mark's Free Program: The Approach Formula - https://www.CoachMarkSing.com/The-Approach-Formula About The Unapologetic Man Podcast The Unapologetic Man Podcast is your resource for mastering dating, attraction, and relationships from a confident, masculine perspective. Hosted by Mark Sing, this podcast gives men the tools and mindset shifts needed to succeed in their dating lives and build lasting, high-value relationships. #FrameControl #DatingAdviceForMen #MasculineLeadership #AttractionPsychology #ConfidenceWithWomen #UnapologeticMan #SocialDynamics #TextGame #Seduction #DatingMindset
Transcribe →How to Kiss 10+ Chicks This New Year's Eve (And Probably Get Laid Too)
Dec 3000:22:47Tap to summarizeIn this epic throwback episode of The Unapologetic Man Podcast, host Mark Sing lays out a proven New Year's Eve game plan for kissing 10+ women in a single night and setting yourself up for far more than just a midnight smooch. New Year's Eve is one of the highest leverage nights of the year for meeting women, and most guys completely waste it by going in cold, staying stuck in their heads, or waiting for "the right moment." In this episode. Mark breaks down exactly how to prepare your mindset, build momentum from the moment you leave your house, and use simple, confident setups that make kissing multiple women feel natural, easy, and drama free. This is not about gimmicks or tricks. It's about state, delivery, and putting yourself in the flow of the night so attraction happens fast. Key Takeaways: - Why New Year's Eve massively amplifies attraction if you approach the night correctly. - How to warm up socially before you ever step into a bar or club. - Why being the social leader instantly separates you from needy, try hard guys. - The exact line Mark uses to secure multiple New Year's kisses after midnight. Key Timestamps: [00:00:00] – Episode intro and preview [00:02:06] – 3 month coaching program review [00:05:54] – How to prepare your mindset before leaving the house [00:07:09] – Warming up with the open and eject technique [00:11:11] – Being the social hub instead of the guy seeking women [00:13:20] – Lining up the midnight kiss [00:15:34] – The exact phrase to get additional kisses after midnight [00:17:05] – Confidence, delivery, and why this works so consistently [00:22:15] – Episode Outro Connect With Mark: Apply for Mark's 3-Month Coaching Program: https://coachmarksing.com/coaching/ Check Out The Perks Program: https://coachmarksing.com/perks/ Email: CoachMarkSing@Gmail.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/coachmarksing/ Grab Mark's Free Program: The Approach Formula - https://www.CoachMarkSing.com/The-Approach-Formula About The Unapologetic Man Podcast The Unapologetic Man Podcast is your resource for mastering dating, attraction, and relationships from a confident, masculine perspective. Hosted by Mark Sing, this podcast gives men the tools and mindset shifts needed to succeed in their dating lives and build lasting, high-value relationships. #NewYearsEve #DatingAdviceForMen #AttractionPsychology #ConfidenceWithWomen #MasculineMindset #UnapologeticMan #SocialDynamics #ColdApproach #DatingConfidence #Seduction
Transcribe →5 Hidden Rules of Attraction That Might be Why You're Not Finding Success With Women
Oct 1300:23:12Tap to summarizeIn this insightful episode of The Unapologetic Man Podcast, host Mark Sing reveals five hidden rules of attraction that could be silently sabotaging your success with women. Whether you’re struggling to get attention, make a connection, or keep a woman interested, this episode breaks down practical, high-impact strategies you can start using immediately. Mark dives deep into subtle techniques like using eye contact to communicate desire, maintaining emotional strength to command respect, balancing gamey tactics with authenticity, leaving women on a high note, and mastering the power of downward inflection to assert authority. Key Takeaways: - How to use eye contact, facial expressions, and body language to communicate attraction without words. - Why becoming emotionally weak or needy destroys attraction. - The power of following “gamey” techniques with real, authentic interactions to avoid being perceived as a player. - How to always leave women on a high note to increase desire and connection. - Why downward vocal inflection and authority in speech are critical for attraction. Key Timestamps: [00:00:00] – Episode intro and preview [00:01:42] – How eye contact can seduce and dominate attention [00:04:47] – The power of acting distracted and distant [00:05:52] – ‘Assess’ her to get in the power position [00:06:24] – Using facial expressions without words [00:07:54] – Perks Program overview [00:09:35] – The danger of becoming emotionally weak [00:13:35] – Balancing gamey behavior with authentic conversation [00:17:24] – Leaving women on a high note: why it matters [00:18:56] – Using downward inflection to communicate authority [00:21:37] – Episode wrap-up and coaching program invitation Connect With Mark: Apply for Mark's 3-Month Coaching Program: https://coachmarksing.com/coaching/ Check Out The Perks Program: https://coachmarksing.com/perks/ Email: CoachMarkSing@Gmail.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/coachmarksing/ Grab Mark's Free Program: The Approach Formula - https://www.CoachMarkSing.com/The-Approach-Formula About The Unapologetic Man Podcast The Unapologetic Man Podcast is your resource for mastering dating, attraction, and relationships from a confident, masculine perspective. Hosted by Mark Sing, this podcast gives men the tools and mindset shifts needed to succeed in their dating lives and build lasting, high-value relationships. #AttractionRules #GameAndReal #DatingAdvice #Masculinity #ConfidenceForMen #HighValueMan #CommunicationSkills #Seduction #BodyLanguage #MasculineEnergy
Transcribe →My #1 Favorite FRAME CONTROL REVERSAL: Agree & Amplify
Oct 900:21:50Tap to summarizeIn this high-impact episode of The Unapologetic Man Podcast, host Mark Sing discusses one of the most powerful frame control reversals in existence: Agree & Amplify. If you’ve ever been “tested” by a woman—whether she questions your confidence, mocks your shirt, or throws out a cheeky “are you gay?”—this episode teaches you how to flip that energy and instantly regain control of the interaction. Mark explains why frame control is the single most important skill in seduction and reveals how to use Agree & Amplify to disarm her tests with humor, congruence, and masculine ease. Key Takeaways: - Why frame control is the backbone of attraction and masculine energy. - How Agree & Amplify instantly flips her challenge back on her. - Examples of exactly what to say when a woman teases, tests, or questions you. - How mastering frame control turns you into a confident, unshakable man. Key Timestamps: [00:00:00] – Episode intro and preview [00:02:49] – The definition of frame control [00:04:28] – Why Mark’s wearing that stupid shirt [00:05:43] – Frame check examples [00:06:55] – Client story: “You look like you shit manliness” [00:10:32] – What Agree & Amplify looks like in practice [00:12:23] – You can use it on guys too! [00:13:08] – More agree Agree & Amplify examples [00:15:01] – Pay attention to her tone/use social intelligence [00:17:21] – Alternate reversal technique: misinterpret [00:20:20] – Episode wrap up and coaching program invitation Connect With Mark: Apply for Mark's 3-Month Coaching Program: https://coachmarksing.com/coaching/ Check Out The Perks Program: https://coachmarksing.com/perks/ Email: CoachMarkSing@Gmail.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/coachmarksing/ Grab Mark's Free Program: The Approach Formula - https://www.CoachMarkSing.com/The-Approach-Formula About The Unapologetic Man Podcast The Unapologetic Man Podcast is your resource for mastering dating, attraction, and relationships from a confident, masculine perspective. Hosted by Mark Sing, this podcast gives men the tools and mindset shifts needed to succeed in their dating lives and build lasting, high-value relationships. #FrameControl #AgreeAndAmplify #DatingAdvice #Masculinity #ConfidenceForMen #Attraction #HighValueMan #CommunicationSkills #MindsetShift #Seduction
Transcribe →How to Love Yourself Again (And When You do, Women Will Love You, Too)
Oct 600:23:59Tap to summarizeIn this deeply transformative episode of The Unapologetic Man Podcast, host Mark Sing breaks down why learning to love yourself again isn’t just about inner peace—it’s the foundation of real confidence and attraction. Drawing on spiritual philosophy, psychology, and real-life coaching insights, Mark reveals how negative self-talk, old wounds, and other people’s judgments have shaped the way you see yourself—and why it’s time to drop that frame and reclaim your power. This episode guides you through practical mindset shifts, compassion exercises, and even a mirror challenge that will help you reconnect with the powerful soul you’ve always been. Key Takeaways: - Why self-hatred is “other people’s programming” that you’ve been printing on repeat. - How remembering your childhood innocence reveals the truth of who you are. - The spiritual purpose of forgetting who you are—and the power of waking back up. - Why women are drawn to men who unapologetically love themselves. - A mirror exercise to build instant self-respect and break negative self-talk. Key Timestamps: [00:00:00] – Episode intro and preview [00:01:18] – The purpose of life [00:03:29] – Love yourself in spite of your flaws [00:04:56] – How childhood experiences planted the seeds of self-hate [00:06:09] – We’re here to overcome the world [00:08:16] – Near death experiences [00:10:10] – Why you need to love yourself [00:12:20] – You’ve bought into other peoples frame [00:13:45] – You are a powerful creator: shifting belief systems [00:16:21] – You deserve love, stop mistreating yourself [00:19:13] – How NLP can help remove your negative belief systems [00:20:40] – Final thoughts and invitation to coaching Connect With Mark: Apply for Mark's 3-Month Coaching Program: https://coachmarksing.com/coaching/ Check Out The Perks Program: https://coachmarksing.com/perks/ Email: CoachMarkSing@Gmail.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/coachmarksing/ Grab Mark's Free Program: The Approach Formula - https://www.CoachMarkSing.com/The-Approach-Formula About The Unapologetic Man Podcast The Unapologetic Man Podcast is your resource for mastering dating, attraction, and relationships from a confident, masculine perspective. Hosted by Mark Sing, this podcast gives men the tools and mindset shifts needed to succeed in their dating lives and build lasting, high-value relationships. #DatingAdvice #SelfLove #ConfidenceForMen #Masculinity #Attraction #HighValueMan #SelfRespect #HealingJourney #MindsetShift #LoveYourself
Transcribe →YOUR PHONE IS A SWISS ARMY KNIFE FOR DATING | LET ME SHOW YOU HOW TO LEVERAGE IT
Oct 200:25:42Tap to summarizeIn this powerful episode of The Unapologetic Man Podcast, host Mark Sing breaks down how your cell phone—something you already carry in your pocket—is one of the most underrated tools for building attraction and securing dates. While most guys stick to the same boring routine of endless texting, Mark reveals how voice calls, voicemails, and even voice memos can instantly set you apart from the herd. When you learn how to use your phone like the ultimate Swiss Army knife, you’ll fast-track trust, create deeper connections, and boost attraction in ways texting alone never could. Mark shares real examples, attraction-building strategies, and even hilarious voicemail templates that get women calling back and asking you out. Key Takeaways: - Why calling women in 2025–2026 is the ultimate “differentiator” from other guys. - How attraction fades after getting her number—and how to revive it with a phone call. - The “Atomic Trust Method” that builds instant comfort and trust. - Funny voicemail strategies that grab her attention and get guaranteed callbacks. - A voice-deepening exercise to instantly improve how you sound on calls and memos. Key Timestamps: [00:00:00] – Episode intro and preview [00:02:09] – Why calling beats texting in today’s dating landscape [00:04:25] – It’s a competition, you need to stand out! [00:08:04] – Timing strategy: why 6pm calls work best [00:09:45] – What to do if she doesn’t pick up [00:10:29] – How to build attraction on the call [00:11:49] – The “atomic trust” approach, let her feel comfortable [00:13:25] – Use Mark’s templates to secure the date [00:14:41] – Hilarious voicemail templates that get women to call back [00:19:29] – How to leverage voice notes [00:20:16] – Success stories from Mark’s coaching program [00:22:53] – Voice-deepening hack to sound more masculine [00:24:26] – Final thoughts and coaching invitation Connect With Mark: Apply for Mark's 3-Month Coaching Program: https://coachmarksing.com/coaching/ Check Out The Perks Program: https://coachmarksing.com/perks/ Email: CoachMarkSing@Gmail.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/coachmarksing/ Grab Mark's Free Program: The Approach Formula - https://www.CoachMarkSing.com/The-Approach-Formula About The Unapologetic Man Podcast The Unapologetic Man Podcast is your resource for mastering dating, attraction, and relationships from a confident, masculine perspective. Hosted by Mark Sing, this podcast gives men the tools and mindset shifts needed to succeed in their dating lives and build lasting, high-value relationships. #DatingAdvice #PhoneGame #SwissArmyKnife #Masculinity #ConfidenceForMen #OnlineDating #TextGame #HighValueMan #SelfImprovement #VoiceGame
Transcribe →How to Slide into a Girl's DMs on Social Media ... Instagram ... Facebook ... and the Dating Apps
Sep 2900:27:03Tap to summarizeIn this unfiltered episode of The Unapologetic Man Podcast, host Mark Sing reveals the secrets to standing out in a girl’s DMs when she’s getting flooded with hundreds—if not thousands—of thirsty messages every day. Drawing from data collected in his Online Dating Masterclass (over 13,000 tested messages), Mark breaks down the psychology of what actually gets a response and why most men fail before they even hit “send.” From dialing in your profile photos and portraying a high-value lifestyle to crafting witty, curiosity-driven openers that spark replies, Mark gives you proven, field-tested strategies to separate yourself from the herd. Key Takeaways: - Why your photos and follower count matter more than you think. - The importance of “pre-selection” and how to showcase it correctly. - Four powerful DM openers that consistently get replies. - Why being funny and teasing beats compliments every time. - How to avoid looking like every other “thirsty guy” in her inbox. Key Timestamps: [00:00:00] – Episode intro and preview [00:02:21] – Announcement: Mark’s answering questions on Spotify/YouTube! [00:03:38] – Why your online presence matters a LOT in 2025–2026 [00:05:14] – Instagram pictures are your no1 priority [00:06:14] – Pre-selection: why women must see you with other attractive women [00:07:57] – Follower count is important [00:11:59] – Utilize AI tools to maximize your photos [00:13:21] – Four powerful DM openers (tested across 13,000+ messages) [00:18:12] – Student success stories from the coaching program [00:20:08] – Four powerful DM openers continued [00:24:06] – Final thoughts and invitation to apply for coaching Connect With Mark: Apply for Mark's 3-Month Coaching Program: https://coachmarksing.com/coaching/ Check Out The Perks Program: https://coachmarksing.com/perks/ Email: CoachMarkSing@Gmail.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/coachmarksing/ Grab Mark's Free Program: The Approach Formula - https://www.CoachMarkSing.com/The-Approach-Formula About The Unapologetic Man Podcast The Unapologetic Man Podcast is your resource for mastering dating, attraction, and relationships from a confident, masculine perspective. Hosted by Mark Sing, this podcast gives men the tools and mindset shifts needed to succeed in their dating lives and build lasting, high-value relationships. #DatingAdvice #DMGame #InstagramGame #Masculinity #ConfidenceForMen #OnlineDating #TextGame #HighValueMan #SelfImprovement
Transcribe →SEX: How to Last as Long as You Want to (The Premature Ejaculation Eliminator)
Sep 2500:20:23Tap to summarizeIn this brutally honest new episode of The Unapologetic Man Podcast, host Mark Sing tackles one of the most confidence-destroying challenges men face: premature ejaculation. Drawing from his own raw personal experiences, Mark unpacks the psychology behind coming too quickly—what he calls the “second wolf phenomenon”—and reveals how hidden belief systems, shame, and mindset issues are sabotaging your bedroom performance. Mark shares his proven step-by-step strategies to help you last as long as you want, including unconventional but highly effective techniques you can try tonight. This episode gives you the tools to eliminate premature ejaculation and become the guy who can go round after round. Key Takeaways: - Why premature ejaculation destroys your confidence and self-esteem. - The “second wolf phenomenon” and how your lizard brain is working against you. - How hidden belief systems about sex create performance problems. - Why “mental distractions” actually work. - The unconventional masturbation technique that lets you last indefinitely. - Why awareness of your psychology alone can sometimes cure the problem. Key Timestamps: [00:00:00] – Episode intro and preview [00:01:15] – Mark’s personal story of premature ejaculation [00:03:22] – The “second wolf phenomenon” explained [00:05:30] – How personal belief systems about sex sabotage performance [00:07:45] – Awareness alone can (sometimes) be curative [00:09:13] – Practical tips: masturbation, numbing condoms, and mental tricks [00:12:17] – Info on The Sex Masterclass with Kirsten Trammell [00:14:46] – Mark’s unconventional technique to last as long as you want [00:17:49] – Explaining it to your partner and testing it solo first [00:18:46] – Final thoughts, masterclass invitation, and wrap-up Apply for The Sex Masterclass: https://coachmarksing.com/sex-masterclass/ Connect With Mark: Apply for Mark's 3-Month Coaching Program: https://coachmarksing.com/coaching/ Check Out The Perks Program: https://coachmarksing.com/perks/ Email: CoachMarkSing@Gmail.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/coachmarksing/ Grab Mark's Free Program: The Approach Formula - https://www.CoachMarkSing.com/The-Approach-Formula About The Unapologetic Man Podcast The Unapologetic Man Podcast is your resource for mastering dating, attraction, and relationships from a confident, masculine perspective. Hosted by Mark Sing, this podcast gives men the tools and mindset shifts needed to succeed in their dating lives and build lasting, high-value relationships. #DatingAdvice #Masculinity #SexTipsForMen #ConfidenceForMen #PrematureEjaculation #SexualMastery #HighValueMan #SelfImprovement
Transcribe →How to Go Down on a Girl THE RIGHT WAY | Mark's Cunnilingus Masterclass
Sep 2200:28:01Tap to summarizeApply for The Sex Masterclass: https://coachmarksing.com/sex-masterclass/ In this raw and hilarious new episode of The Unapologetic Man Podcast, host Mark Sing takes you deep into one of the most important skills in the bedroom: going down on a woman. With his trademark no-BS delivery, Mark breaks down his personal step-by-step approach to cunnilingus, blending practical technique with psychological insight so you can leave her shaking, screaming, and utterly addicted to you. This episode is packed with actionable tips to transform your oral game. Mark also reveals why foreplay is non-negotiable, and shares why pretending you love it (even if you don’t) is crucial to helping her climax. Key Takeaways: - Learn why her ability to climax is 80% mental. - The importance of anticipation and teasing before you dive in. - Mark’s go-to cunnilingus rhythm that keeps her building toward orgasm. - How to use your lips, tongue, and fingers in perfect sync. - The “hook of doom” method to hit her G-spot and take her over the edge. - Why encouraging her not to come actually helps her climax faster. Key Timestamps: [00:00:00] – Episode intro and preview[00:03:30] – Why cunnilingus makes women addicted to you[00:04:00] – Act like you love it! (even if you don’t)[00:05:07] – The sniff test & knowing when not to go down[00:07:25] – Talk about it first[00:08:57] – Making her feel comfortable[00:11:17] – Building anticipation with foreplay and teasing[00:13:46] – The first lick and rhythm that sets her on fire[00:17:50] – Sex Masterclass invitation[00:19:37] – The lip–tongue technique that makes girls explode[00:20:50] – Syncing tongue and fingers for maximum pleasure[00:23:09] – The “hook of doom” technique and how to find her G-spot[00:25:51] – Final tips, wrap-up, and masterclass details About The Unapologetic Man Podcast The Unapologetic Man Podcast is your resource for mastering dating, attraction, and relationships from a confident, masculine perspective. Hosted by Mark Sing, this podcast gives men the tools and mindset shifts needed to succeed in their dating lives and build lasting, high-value relationships. #DatingAdvice #Masculinity #SexTipsForMen #ConfidenceForMen #Cunnilingus #SexualMastery #HighValueMan #SelfImprovement
Transcribe →My Step by Step Formula to Build SEXUAL TENSION With a Woman (SOOOO GOOD!!!)
Sep 1800:21:10Tap to summarizeApply for The Sex Masterclass: https://coachmarksing.com/sex-masterclass/ In this powerful new episode of The Unapologetic Man Podcast, host Mark Sing lets you behind the curtain of an actual coaching call with his clients—real men investing in themselves and learning how to master attraction. This time, the focus is on one of the most electrifying aspects of game: sexual tension. Mark breaks down his proven, step-by-step formula for sparking sexual tension in the very first conversation. You’ll hear how to recognize signs of attraction, when to make the move, and how to use playful teasing and imaginative scenarios to take a girl from curious to absolutely hooked. With vivid examples—from the “bad kisser” question, to astrology-based routines, to playful “makeup fight” scenarios—you’ll see exactly how to create an irresistible atmosphere that turns sparks into flames. Key Takeaways: - Why you should never hit on a girl until she’s already attracted to you. - The four pillars of attraction: control, value, sexual tension, and qualifying. - Mark’s three most potent ways to build sexual tension on the spot. - Why talking about intimacy—but not acting on it immediately—skyrockets her attraction. - How to confidently steer conversations into playful, sexual territory without being needy. Key Timestamps: [00:00:00] – Episode Preview[00:01:04] – The V cut protocol: attraction first, hit on her after[00:02:29] – Starting the sexual tension process[00:04:13] – Should you make out with girls at the nightclub?[00:05:33] – The “bad kisser” question that sparks instant sexual tension[00:06:29] – Play-fighting routines and astrology banter[00:08:00] – Use roleplaying to hook her emotions[00:10:31] – Mark’s upcoming SEX MASTERCLASS[00:15:09] – Using hobbies and hypo stories to build sexual tension [00:17:57] – Teasing post-fight make up sex to build insane sexual attraction[00:19:22] – Episode wrap up and masterclass details About The Unapologetic Man Podcast The Unapologetic Man Podcast is your resource for mastering dating, attraction, and relationships from a confident, masculine perspective. Hosted by Mark Sing, this podcast gives men the tools and mindset shifts needed to succeed in their dating lives and build lasting, high-value relationships. #DatingAdvice #Masculinity #SexualTension #ConfidenceForMen #AttractionTips #HighValueMan #SelfImprovement
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