Session 80: Wallows
Podcast: Therapuss with Jake Shane
Release Date: July 3, 2025
1. Episode Introduction
Timestamp: [00:37]
Jake Shane kicks off Session 80 of Therapuss by expressing his excitement about featuring Wallows, marking the first time the show hosts all three members—Dylan, Brayden, and Cole—in the same episode. He highlights their recent Model and More Tour and announces their upcoming performances at Lollapalooza and with My Chemical Romance at Dodger Stadium on July 26th and 27th. Additionally, Jake praises Lorde's new albums, dubbing her work a "manifesto for people in their 20s."
2. Guest Introduction: Wallows
Timestamp: [03:24]
Shane warmly welcomes the members of Wallows, expressing his initial nervousness about hosting all three simultaneously. He congratulates them on reaching a billion streams, saying, “Congrats on a billion streams, by the way” ([03:33]).
3. Band Origins and Early Experiences
Timestamp: [08:39]
The conversation delves into how Dylan and Brayden met during their childhood in Indiana through their parents' involvement in acting. They reminisce about their first encounter at a Cheesecake Factory, bonding over shared interests despite the exhaustion of constant touring.
Notable Quote:
- Dylan: “Mexico's incredible. We love being there... So it's just like. We didn't really sleep at all.” ([04:39])
4. Touring and Performances
Timestamp: [12:37]
Wallows shares memories of attending and performing at iconic venues like Lollapalooza and the House of Blues in Chicago. Dylan recounts their chaotic experience parking their tour bus amidst a major game day at Ohio State, highlighting the unpredictability of their touring life.
Notable Quote:
- Dylan: “And then we were like, this guy's really good. We should... play together.” ([18:28])
5. Acting Ventures and Personal Stories
Timestamp: [14:00]
The band members discuss their acting experiences, with Jake mentioning his role in an ABC show called Betrayal and Dylan reflecting on his involvement in 13 Reasons Why and other projects like Stepfather. They share how these acting roles influenced their musical journey.
Notable Quote:
- Jake: “I was 21 when we put out our first song, so I don't know where time goes.” ([08:24])
6. Formation of Wallows
Timestamp: [46:35]
Shane inquires about the origin of the band's name. Jake explains that it was inspired by a skateboarding game, Tony Hawk's Underground, where Wallows was a famous skate spot in Hawaii. The name was chosen after several other less favored options were considered, symbolizing their start from humble and playful beginnings.
Notable Quote:
- Jake: “We were trying to rename the band we originally called the Fever... and then Wallows popped into the brain because I remembered it from the game.” ([46:35])
7. Musical Influences and Favorite Bands
Timestamp: [49:12]
The discussion shifts to musical tastes, with each member sharing their favorite bands and songs. Jake and Dylan express their admiration for The Beatles, while Brayden credits The Strokes and Kings of Leon as significant influences. They also touch upon their shared love for South Park and its creators, Trey Parker and Matt Stone.
Notable Quote:
- Dylan: “Kings of Leon are a huge one for me. They're three brothers and a cousin, so they're a family band.” ([50:31])
8. Personal Habits and Preferences
Timestamp: [36:39]
The band members delve into their personal habits, such as their preferences in food and beverages. Shane reveals his love for Greek yogurt with honey, whereas Jake mentions enjoying vegetable stir fry. They also discuss their mutual fondness for coffee over tea, sharing their favorite local spots in Los Angeles.
Notable Quote:
- Shane: “My whole life just over a bed of white rice.” ([40:54])
9. Pinch Me Moments and Memorable Experiences
Timestamp: [55:10]
Wallows shares their most significant "pinch me" moments—those experiences that feel surreal and unbelievable. Jake cites being on the podcast as a major milestone, while Dylan recounts attending Coachella for the first time, dealing with technical difficulties, and unexpectedly meeting iconic artists like Morrissey from The Smiths.
Notable Quote:
- Dylan: “Morrissey came to a show we played a couple of years ago... And then the day of the show, they're like, he's coming.” ([58:00])
10. Advice Segment: Tell Me What's Wrong
Timestamp: [64:52]
In the therapy segment, listeners submit personal issues requiring advice. Shane presents two scenarios:
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Friendships Bringing Out the Worst:
- Shane: “I have two friends who I feel bring out the worst in me... What should I do?” ([72:08])
- Advice: Dylan suggests recognizing the harmful dynamics and gradually distancing oneself, while Brayden emphasizes finding activities that attract new, positive friendships.
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Post-Breakup Complications:
- Shane: “I saw my ex at a party... Should I just leave him?” ([73:14])
- Advice: The hosts recommend setting boundaries, such as blocking his number and focusing on personal growth to move forward.
Notable Quotes:
- Jake: “Block his number. Just cold turkey him.” ([76:01])
- Shane: “I'm gonna get sent a lot of Taco Bell.” ([61:02])
11. Closing Remarks
Timestamp: [81:03]
As the episode winds down, Jake summarizes key takeaways from the session:
- Shane discovered his dislike for pizza.
- Dylan acknowledged the deepening of their friendship.
- The group plans to create a Wallows + Therapuss group chat to stay connected.
They conclude with light-hearted banter and a collective sentiment of camaraderie and mutual support.
Notable Quote:
- Jake: “We’re best friends now.” ([81:43])
Key Takeaways
- Wallows shares their journey from childhood friendships to becoming a successful band with notable performances and personal growth.
- The hosts discuss the importance of shared experiences, personal preferences, and overcoming challenges both personally and professionally.
- Through the advice segment, the episode emphasizes self-awareness in relationships and the significance of setting healthy boundaries.
Notable Quotes
- Jake Shane: “My mind is blanking on all memories.” ([12:16])
- Dylan: “We're about to have fond memories of it.” ([11:48])
- Shane: “I think we have a kismet thing with us.” ([41:44])
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