Podcast Summary: Therapuss with Jake Shane — Session 84: HAIM
Introduction
In Session 84 of Therapuss with Jake Shane, the Haim sisters—Alana, Danielle, and Este—join host Jake Shane for an engaging and introspective conversation. The episode delves into their recent tour experiences, the creation of their fourth studio album I Quit, personal anecdotes, and a segment dedicated to relationship advice, maintaining the show's signature blend of humor and deep reflection.
Tour Reflections and Experiences
The Haim sisters kick off the discussion by recounting their exhilarating experiences from their recent tour. Danielle shares her gratitude towards fans and crew, highlighting the transformative journey of conquering stage fright.
Danielle Haim [00:11]: "I only during the meet and greets I would hear people tell me that they made friends and it was just so, so lovely and I'm so grateful."
The conversation shifts to their upcoming I Quit tour, with excitement palpable as they discuss the logistics and emotions tied to live performances post-pandemic.
Alana Haim [07:58]: "She seems like such a babe. It’s such a perfect couple."
Album Creation: I Quit
The sisters delve into the genesis of their album title, I Quit, revealing it as an inside joke inspired by the movie "That Thing You Do!" This title encapsulates their journey of quitting various personal habits and embracing growth.
Alana Haim [47:43]: "We were just like, let's just put it as the file working title. I quit. And then once we were listening, like, finally, when all the songs were done and we were listening back to all the songs, all of the songs had, like, it was like, we were quitting."
They elaborate on the album’s themes, emphasizing stories of quitting negative behaviors to improve their lives, which resonate throughout the tracks.
Este Haim [50:12]: "To me, it's the most cathartic thing to do is to just get it out and write about it, sing about it, talk about it."
Personal Stories and Anecdotes
The sisters share vivid stories from their past, including humorous and chaotic moments from their high school years. They reminisce about sneaking into concerts, showcasing their adventurous spirits and the bonds formed through shared experiences.
Alana Haim [19:00]: "I have a face for it. You're not supposed to be here. Like, even to this day, like, I'm just gonna be fine."
They also discuss their friendships within the music industry, particularly their long-standing relationship with Kesha and their mutual friends, highlighting the supportive network that has influenced their careers.
Este Haim [14:43]: "We've been friends with Kesha since 2004."
Relationship Advice: Tell Me What's Wrong
In the hallmark segment of the show, the Haim sisters tackle submitted relationship dilemmas with compassion and practical advice.
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Managing Social Media Interactions
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Issue: A listener feels hurt by her boyfriend’s frequent likes on bikini and thirst trap photos of other girls.
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Advice: The sisters emphasize the importance of open communication and setting boundaries. They advocate for addressing the issue directly and considering the impact on the relationship.
Alana Haim [62:35]: "It makes me upset. But so I..."
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Navigating Unrequited Love
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Issue: A listener is deeply in love with her sister's best friend but has faced rejection.
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Advice: The sisters suggest leaving the situation if the feelings aren’t reciprocated, emphasizing the importance of respecting both her and the other person’s boundaries.
Este Haim [65:31]: "What are you doing? So if it didn't work, then I think you leave it because they're gonna have to come to you."
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Dealing with Roommate Conflicts
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Issue: A listener discovers her roommate's new partner had an inappropriate encounter in her room.
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Advice: The sisters recommend confronting the roommate to address the disrespectful behavior, ensuring personal boundaries are upheld.
Alana Haim [64:44]: "Confront. Both."
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Maintaining Long-Distance Friendships
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Issue: A listener is moving to college and seeks ways to maintain friendships over long distances.
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Advice: The sisters highlight the significance of regular communication through calls and FaceTiming, as well as planning visits to sustain the connection.
Este Haim [68:31]: "Friendships, romantic relationships, parents. It’s always a long-distance relationship."
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Conclusion
Session 84 of Therapuss with Jake Shane offers listeners an intimate glimpse into the Haim sisters' lives, blending their rich musical journey with personal stories and heartfelt advice. The episode underscores the importance of communication, boundary-setting, and the enduring strength of familial and friendship bonds. As the sisters prepare to embark on their I Quit tour, their enthusiasm and commitment to their craft resonate deeply, leaving listeners inspired and connected.
Notable Quotes
- Danielle Haim [00:11]: "Meeting all of you guys and like making you guys laugh, like hearing you guys laugh in real time was like the greatest gift I could have ever received."
- Alana Haim [47:43]: "We were just like, let's just put it as the file working title. I quit."
- Este Haim [50:12]: "To me, it's the most cathartic thing to do is to just get it out and write about it, sing about it, talk about it."
- Alana Haim [62:35]: "It makes me upset. But so I..."
- Este Haim [68:31]: "Friendships, romantic relationships, parents. It’s always a long-distance relationship."
Final Thoughts
For fans of HAIM or those intrigued by the blend of therapy and pop culture, Session 84 provides a comprehensive and entertaining exploration of the band's dynamics, personal growth, and the universal challenges of maintaining relationships. Whether you're seeking musical inspiration or practical relationship advice, this episode delivers with authenticity and charm.