
Walking for health, longevity, and mental clarity isn’t just “better than nothing” — it’s one of the most powerful, science-backed tools you’ve been overlooking, and this episode breaks down exactly how to use it.
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That's upwork.com upwork.com friend I'm about to do something I've never done before but have been dreaming about for so long that I can't even remember it not being on my bucket list. I'm taking a three month sabbatical and traveling all across Europe. Different countries, different people joining me at different times. Some solo travel, which sounds dreamy, but it also felt logistically overwhelming. Except it hasn't been because I've used Fora to book pretty much all of it. Hotels, trains, flights, experiences, food, tours, you know, all the really important things that can make or break a trip. And Fora and my amazing Fora advisor made it so I've actually enjoyed the planning part. Fora is a modern travel agency built for people who love to plan travel and help others travel well. Their tech, platform, training and community give you everything you need to turn a passion for travel planning into a full, flexible, meaningful stream of income. 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I mean, how we look has got to be in the top three outdated definitions that we need to take back control over, individually and collectively. For far too long, our bodies and what we do with them have been scrutinized, judged, standardized and socialized. And we've wasted an abnormal amount of time and energy focused on doing whatever diet and whatever exercise happens to be in in an effort to create whatever body society currently deems attractive. Oh, but don't worry, by the way, it'll change once you've invested all of your time, money and sweat equity. Let's take exercise as an example. In my lifetime alone, we're talking jazzercise, taebo, Pilates, running barre, strength training with at least 1 million failed attempts at other things in between all of that. And at some point I decided that if movement didn't leave me drenched, sore and borderline questioning my life choices, that it didn't count. If it wasn't intense, optimized, tracked and miserable, then it wasn't real exercise. I bought into that fully. So walking, please. That's what you did when you were on a rest day, or when you were with your mom, or when you forgot your gym shoes and needed to pretend you still did something. Meanwhile, my body, the one I'm actually living this life in, has always loved walking. The fresh air, the mental clarity, the ideas that show up out of nowhere, the conversations that somehow go deeper when you're side by side instead of face to face. And it turns out the thing I dismissed as not enough might actually be exactly what I need. So my question is this. What if we've been overlooking one of the most powerful, accessible, effective tools for our health and longevity because it doesn't feel impressive enough to post about because it doesn't give us rock hard abs, doesn't need to be timed, or whatever else someone outside of us deems important? What if redefining woman's work also means trusting what actually works for our bodies instead of what we've been told we should do? And what will work so we're getting into all of that today with Dr. Melissa McDowell, doctor of physical therapy, former university faculty in human performance, and a nationally recognized speaker who spent decades studying how movement impacts everything from pain to longevity. She's co author of the book rediscover the most natural way to boost your health and longevity one step at a time. And she's here to challenge what we've been told or haven't been told about walking, from the 10,000 step myth to why your feet might be telling you more about your health than you realize. Melissa, welcome to the show. And I want to start by asking for anyone who, like me, has been conditioned to believe that if it's not hard or intense, that it doesn't count. So what have you learned about the real benefits of walking, and in what ways is it actually effective?
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Thanks for having me, Nicole. I'm so excited to talk about this topic with you and the listeners. Walking has been overlooked for a long time, and you nailed it when you did our introduction today. If we're not getting super sweaty, it's not complicated. You don't have to wear a special outfit. We don't deem an activity as enough. And I think it really is one of those themes that as women, we hear that all the time, you're not enough unless you're doing this. You're not enough unless you're doing that, unless you're frazzled and running around and, you know, getting that VP title or whatever, whatever those those goals may be. So it is. It is this return to a movement that is slow, a movement that is rhythmic, a movement you don't have to learn how to do that. Your body physiologically wants and needs for its optimal health and your longevity. So what's exciting about walking is when you walk, as you mention, your mood changes, your cognitive clarity improves, creativity is shown to improve. We drive a ton of blood flow and all sorts of wonderful hormones to our brains. And our brains wake up and they're like, hey, girl, let's go. It's this way that we can get a reset in our day. And on top of all those mental benefits, there's all kinds of physical health benefits as well. The hot girl walk of 2023 is coming back this year, and what's exciting about it is it is a way to boost your confidence. It is a way to connect with a loved one. And then there's all sorts of musc. Musculoskeletal benefits as well.
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Okay, so what would you say to the person who's like, okay, great. But I need to fill in the blank. I need to go to yoga, I need to strength train, I need to. Is this. I don't know if additive is the right word. That's not my intention. But is this something that we use to balance out other things or is walking our primary, most beneficial movement?
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It's a yes. And so if you're a pickleballer, you're a Pilates gal, you like to tie bow, you want to kickbox, you're a marathon runner. Absolutely, yes. And walk, please. And you can use walking for that recovery day, especially if you are someone who engages in higher intensity activity. But if you're somebody who doesn't do those things, you don't pickleball, you don't crossfit, you don't pilates. It is the activity that you can insert into your lifestyle. Choose it as a radical type of self care and use it to improve how you feel today and how you you'll live tomorrow.
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One of the things you talk about in your book that is very interesting and also freaks me out a little bit is that our feet can predict things like fall risk and even longevity. So what are our feet telling us that we're not paying attention to? And the reason I'm scared by that is because I have not taken very good care of my feet. I wore uncomfortable heels for far too long and I have some feet pain and all of that. So what do we need to know about our feet and what it's telling us about our health?
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So feet are a predictor of your overall health. If you look down at your beautiful bare feet and you see bumps and lumps and red marks and maybe they're numb or tingling, they are trying to tell you a story. And oftentimes that story is, as you mentioned, a result of footwear choices. There's a phenomenal research study that came out in 2018 telling us that over 60% of adults are wearing the wrong size shoe. So my gals out there, if you think You've been an 8 since high school, pre pregnancy, post pregnancy, pre baby, post baby, back and forth, my guess is that more than half of you are no longer an 8. So I would highly recommend getting a professional shoe measurement every year. Because feet change. Even though you stop growing vertically, your feet can lengthen, they can widen, they can shorten, and that is a result of muscle growth or decrease, it's a result of hormones, it can be a result of medications. And so if you take nothing else away from listening, please go get your feet measured and so when we do have feet issues, bumps, lumps, hammer toes, bunions, pain, our feet are telling us things that are early warning signs of other problems. And you did hit the nail on the head. Strength in your foot is a predictor of fall risk, and it also is a predictor of death risk because we know, particularly in women, if you're over 70 and you fall, that really increases death risk. The secret is in your big toe. And so our big toe flexor, the muscle that allows us to push the big toe down into the ground, is this keystone muscle that when we muscle test it, we're able to identify, is your right equal to your left? And are you able to create about 10% of your body weight in force? If you are good to go foot strong, that's amazing. If you have a significant difference right versus left, that can be a warning sign of some imbalances. And if we see individuals who can't press down with that 10% of body weight, it's definitely something that is an early warning sign and we can intervene. There's a ton of exercises. There's all kinds of fun little exercises. We call them movement snacks. Little things you can intersperse throughout the day so you can stop the decline and make that foot strong. We like to say that the movement snacks are like having a personal trainer for your feet.
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Okay, first of all, I love the term movement snacks. I'm stealing that. It's so good.
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Yes.
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And is walking one of the ways that we can strengthen our big toes and our feet?
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So. Absolutely. If you are walking in a healthy shoe. So there's a caveat there, because if you're clomping around in the Jimmy Choos or those horrible Balenciaga things that look like, you know, a monster ate half of your foot, if you're in a narrow toe box, if you're in a high heel, I like to say stilettos are the new smoking. Right. You are putting your foot at a disadvantage. You're reducing your ability to balance and catch yourself if you do stumble and fall. And so walking y trains your feet makes them stronger. But you have to be in a shoe that is healthy for your foot.
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Okay, I want to dive into this shoe conversation. I know you have something in the book that you call the 24 hour foot clock. Before I do, it's fascinating to me, as you were talking about most of us wearing the wrong size, I'm sure. I know I haven't gotten my size checked in a really long time, so I'm going to do that But I'm also quite sure that I wore the wrong size purposely. And I'm thoroughly embarrassed for myself. My 20 something year old, 30 something year old self who thought that my fucking shoe size mattered. Like, I'm like, I wore a five and a half or six because small feet were. I don't even know. And it's like horrifying. I can't even believe that I got duped into this. Size matters in shoe size, I mean, in all of it is stupid, but in shoe size, it's really exceptionally dumb. Anywho, talk to us about the 24 hour foot clock. What does that actually mean? And how should we be thinking differently about what we put on our feet throughout our day?
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Yes. So just like Beyonce, we all have 24 hours a day. You know, I love that saying. It's like, I'm so busy. Well, she's got 24 hours too, right? So if you think of a pie chart, and that's 24 hours. During those 24 hours, a third or more be barefoot, right? So when you're sleeping, most of us are barefoot. If you wear socks during, you know, for temperature at night, it can bring your toes together and your feet don't really have a chance to get into their natural splayed position. And a position of splay is when we can see a little bit of daylight between each of the toes. That means that we've used the muscles in the foot to open up that space. So I would highly recommend, if possible, if temperature allows, sleeping barefoot. So then when we think about that chew clock, if we're talking about, you know, a third or more of our day being sleeping, we're barefoot. If you're at home, be barefoot if you can be. So now we're adding a few more hours, right? Maybe we're pushing up to almost 50% of the day being barefoot. Modern humans leave the house a lot, right? And our environments are hard and they're unsafe. You might be walking in grass. There could be a piece of glass, you know. So I don't recommend running around barefoot in environments that have risk. If you are able to be in a grassy field that is safe and doesn't have debris, if you're close to a beach, those sorts of things, those are awesome opportunities for your feet to have sensory inputs on the bottom of the foot. You've got hundreds of thousands of receptors there that are screaming for information. And then it also strengthens your foot when you're barefoot. So if you can get to around half the day or more without shoes, on that's a huge win. So that's, I would say that's goal number one. Then we assess the rest of your day. We actually interviewed a flight attendant from a major airline that we can't disclose in our book. And we asked her about the uniforms that flight attendants wear. We know that this is not just reserved for flight attendants. This is women and men in many professions that require a specific type of shoe, style of shoe, the military, you know, uniform shoes, those sorts of things. If you're someone who has to wear a certain type of shoe because of your profession, what we want to do is when we think about that 24 hour shoe clock, how many hours were you in that one? You know, are you in that shoe for 8 hours, 10 hours, 12 hours? What can you do to counteract it? If you have to wear what we call a fancy shoe, like a traditional shoe. And then the other part of the shoe clock is if you're able to get into the types of shoes we call functional or minimal. So a functional shoe is going to have a few criteria. It has a wide toe box. It is shaped like a foot. So if you're wearing shoes right now while you're listening to the podcast, maybe some of you are out walking. That's even more bonus points. Go ahead and look down at the toe box of the footwear you're wearing. If it is tapered, it looks like an arrow or a point. That is a narrow toe box. If it's wide and it looks like your, your foot, that's a wide toe box. A wide toe box shoe is a more healthy choice, a healthier choice, and it also is what we call a functional shoe. A functional shoe is a wide toe box. It's got a lower heel to toe drop, meaning there isn't as much difference of the foam below the heel as below the toe and it's going to be less cushioned. So those of you who are wearing mega shoes, and I could list off the brands, and you guys all know them, you know, the super duper cushioned shoe, super giant pillow shoe. Those shoes are taking away the sensory information that you get from the ground you're walking on. They create some instability. And so you want to be careful as you're assessing your 24 hour shoe clock. Are you choosing traditional shoes or are you having to wear a uniform shoe? Can you spend some time in a more functional shoe, which is that wider toe box, lower drop or less cushion and or are you able to go to a minimal shoe? And a minimal shoe is the shoe with a wide toe box, zero drop so your heel and your toe are at the same level. There's no height under your heel and then very little to no cushion. It's a shoe that you could take and you could twist it almost like you're wringing water out of a towel. So that's how you would do the shoe clock. And it's a fun exercise. I'd encourage everybody to try it. Assess your 24 hours, think about, you know, the parts of the pie that you're wearing those shoes throughout the day. And then if you are someone who's required to wear a uniform shoe, then we talk. All right, well, what do you do to counteract that?
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I can't say I'm totally surprised about barefoot, but I am surprised about the less cushion Because I think we think the more cushiony, the softer, the better they feel in the moment, you know, the better they are for our feet. And so I don't want to put brands on blast, but let's do the reverse. Are there any types of shoes that you find to be generally great brands or great shoes? Counting the fact that some of us want or need to be somewhat fashionable when we're out and about? Yes, for sure.
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Yes, absolutely. So some of the brands I like that are considered a more functional shoe, so they have a wide toe box, less of that stack. Right. Your heel isn't super popped up. Ultra Running is a great shoe for walking and running. I love that shoe. That brand is doing a great job, technology and innovation wise. Topo Athletic is another shoe that is kind of same. And these are more sport sport shoes. You wouldn't wear these with a dress by any means. I mean, you might. I wouldn't. You know, it's more of a sporty shoe. And another one is called Notace. N O T A C E. That's another functional shoe. And then when we talk about more minimal shoes, again, the criteria for a minimal shoe, wide toe box, 0 to toe, 0, heel to toe drop, completely flat, minimal cushion and twistable. There's some really fun brands out there. Vivobarefoot is a brand that does an amazing job. They've got everything from street wear to almost like a snow boot to cute shoes. There's a ballerina flat coming out this, this year that I would get your hands on as soon as it drops. That's a brand that I love. I love the brand Wildlings. I'm actually wearing a pair of Wildling shoes right now. They have some really cute kind of street styles. Again, more of a fashion shoe. And there's a brand that's from Mexico that's a sleeper, and it's called O R I G O or Rigo. And they're handmade by artisans in Lyon, and they are absolutely gorgeous shoes. And they are a wide toe box and they're like a women's or men's dress shoe. So you can get a Mary Jane, like some sneakers, some different types of loafers, they do boots. And so those are some that I really think are worth examining and checking out. For those of you who are more budget conscious conscious, get on Amazon and look up Witten. W H I T I N that brand, you can get a pair of functional shoes for 30 bucks and try them out and see how it works into your lifestyle. The biggest thing that we teach in the book is when we have those three criteria or types of shoes. We have traditional shoes, functional shoes, and minimal shoes. You have to earn the right to go down the spectrum. So if you're someone who's been wearing high heels, you've been wearing a super cushioned shoe, you know, like a Brooks, a Hoka, a Nike, those types of traditional shoes. If you want to change to a more functional shoe, you kind of have to go back and forth because if you just go cold turkey, all of your tissue is going to get upset. Then if you go from a functional shoe to a minimal shoe, and you guys maybe remember the five fingers barefoot shoes from years ago, people would get those and they go, I'm going to go run 10 miles in them. And guess where they would end up in the physical therapist and the chiropractor's office. Because your tissue hasn't really adapted and earned the right to go into a minimal shoe. So we talk about moving down that spectrum from traditional to functional, dabbling in minimal, going back to traditional, going back to functional, back and forth until your body kind of tells you what, what's working for you.
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Fascinating stuff. And also one of the few episodes where we just encouraged us all to go shoe shopping. So I'm very excited about that. Okay, my next question is, you say in the book that walking is a key pillar of health on par with things like sleep and nutrition, which I think we talk about a lot and prioritize. So my question is, why is something that's so foundational so historical and we have so much evidence, like we think of the blue zones. None of them are like gym focused or particular exercise. It's all walking and movement.
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Yes.
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Why has something so foundational been so overlooked in your experience?
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So I think walking is overlooked because it's just so obvious and it's right in front of us and it feels like you're not getting much bang for your buck. There's no social media account, there's not a proper hashtag. Nobody has a multi gazillion dollar marketing budget for walking. We have that for running, we have that for pickleball. We have that for CrossFit. We have that for every gym known to man. SoulCycle, Peloton, you name it. Dollars, dollars, dollars, dollar signs. Nobody's putting that behind walking yet. I would say no one's putting that behind walking yet. And so there is a movement coming, I believe. And I think Courtney and I, my co author of the book, we are very much on the front end of the ones like Shouting from the mountaintops hey, come. Come along with us. Let's go do this thing together. And so I do think it's overlooked because we have gotten into that hustle culture and that biohacking culture. What's your whoop score? What's your oura ring say? You know, what's your apple watch telling you when you should menstruate or when you're gonna have sex? Like, it's all just, like, getting a little bit ridiculous. And so I think it's this opportunity to take back something that 98% of the population has access to do. Right. We definitely recognize there are some people who don't walk for various reasons. There's all sorts of other activities they can participate in to help boost their cardiovascular health, connect with their communities. But when we are talking about people who do have the ability to walk, it's that connection, person to person, person to community. It's that activity that is actually easy for most of us. And so it does really reduce some of the participation barrier, because if we want to go play pickleball, Nicole, we need two more people, and we need a bunch of equipment, and we have to book a court, because everybody known to man is pickleballing. If we want to go CrossFit, we need a membership. We need skills. We need to be fearless, because it's kind of terrifying. And so when you think about walking, it's one of those things where it's like, hey, do you want to come with me on a walk? It's an opportunity for connection. It's an opportunity to lift someone else up, to listen to their story, to support them. The rhythmic nature of walking with somebody creates connection on so many different levels, calming our neurologic systems, helping boost that interactivity that we're all seeking right now in challenging times. And I just think that it's right in front of us. We just need to unlock it. We need to be specific and give people a permission slip to do it right. And we also need to give people some guardrails and parameters of how to do it.
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Well, yeah, okay. And I do want to talk about that, because I have a feeling somebody's listening and is like, time out. I'm getting my 10,000 steps. Is 10,000 steps the right. I don't know, ideal, or is it a myth? Like, talk to us about the 10,000 steps. And also, is there an ideal? I don't know if metric is the right word, but something we should be striving toward.
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Yes. Step count. Step count's a fun one to talk about because I love to think of it like a salad bar. There's something for everyone, right? 10,000 steps. It's a myth. Throw it out with last year's music. You were listening to that. You're over the song of the summer 2025. We're not listening to it anymore. 10,000 Steps is a hangover from the 1960s. And it was from a Japanese pedometer marketing campaign that was launched following the Tokyo Olympics. And there was this huge call to action in Japan for health and being well and moving in community. And everyone was really inspired. And a pedometer company, the old school pedometers that have a little ticker and every time you take step it goes click, click, click. A pedometer company named the device a Monco Pay, which is 10,000 step meter. And when you hit 10,000, the thing reset to zero. And that's where it came from. So all of you who are listening, who feel pressure, who feel like that is the benchmark, who feel like if you don't do 10,000, you're failing. I want to unlock this for you. 10,000 steps is a bunch of horseshit. It. So there are no scientific studies that support 10K. There are no studies that say you absolutely have to do all of this in one bite. So let me unpack that for everyone. The absolute basement. If you are sedentary, if you've had a surgery, if you are coming back from injury, if you have been in a terrible car accident, I mean, Courtney, my co author and I were both clinicians. I worked with people with burns, amputations, spinal cord injury, you know, devastating life changing injuries. If you're coming back from not walking for any reason, 2500 is the basement. Please get there. And within our book we have three programs. And the first program is called base and it is for those who are not walking. 2500. 2500 is where you start to unlock health benefit. If you're below 2500, I am telling you, as true as I sit here, your death risk is astronomical. Cardiovascular disease, stroke, cancers, all the, all the death risks that come with depression and anxiety, all the mental health sides of things, suicidality, you name it. If you're under 2500, honey, we've got to figure something out. Now here's the wonderful news. If you're someone who's below 2500 and that's your first benchmark, we can do that by adding micro walks, which are five minutes or 500 steps, you could do that twice a day. You can incrementally work your way up. And I have definitely worked with people who are under 2,500. It is life changing to get them to 2,500.
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So know that's a very important 2,500 every day average.
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Yep, every day. So if you walk 4000 one day and the next day is more sedentary, you're just looking for that average across the week of 2,500.
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Great.
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And if you're, if you're new or returning back to walking after a layoff for a various reason, you can take rest days and do nothing, right? Maybe do some breathing exercises, some foam rolling, something else. But we want to average, we want to average 2,500. Now if you're at 2500 and you'll give me five minutes, 500 steps, I can guarantee you we will reduce your risk of dying. All cause mortality by 7%. So if you go from 2, 500 to 3K, you have just reduced your risk of death by 7%. Massive studies, multi year, multi center, hundreds of thousands of people, excellent science. If anybody wants a copy of the article, send me an email. My website will be attached to all these things. I'm happy to provide it to anyone that wants to read the science big time. A, A plus five star research that absolutely demonstrates adding five, five minutes reduces risk of dying by 7%. But you add a thousand, you're gonna reduce your risk of dying by 15%. So if we can get you up to 3500 steps a day and you're gonna live, let's say the average woman lives to late 70s. I've just added a couple years to your life. A couple years of spending time with your kids, a couple years of spending time with your grandkids, of contributing to society, of walking the dogs. And to me that is just foundational. Our book is being published in the UK as well. And we go over there to London, which is phenomenal. We get to meet with the folks from Penguin Random House who are just amazing women. And they are positioning this as a public health opportunity for us to change the public health in their country with this information. And Courtney and I wrote the book because we wanted to help more people. You know, you can only see so many patients in a day. You can only, you know, teach so many students. And so we really saw this as a way to get that information to a wider audience. Now those of you who have depression and anxiety, currently issues in the family predisposed to it, what have you, if we get you walking 5500, it reduces your depression symptoms. If we get you to 7500, it reduces lifetime risk of developing depression. If you have dementia in the family. Walking 3,800, 3,900. Excuse me. Reduces your lifetime dementia risk by 25%. Walking 9, 800. So here's the. The one that's the closest to 10K. If you're around 9, 800 daily, that reduces risk of dementia by 50%. There's data for cancers, there's data for musculoskeletal, there's data for gut health. We've got. There's like a salad bar. Like, it's like a menu in a restaurant of all of these different step counts. And it's all about finding what works for you.
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I love it because then we can kind of pick from the salad bar and build off of it. And, you know, all of those things are important to me, but I do have dementia in my family, and it scares the shit out of me. And so I literally wrote down 3, 900, and I give myself a, like, something that matters to me, and then I can build from there. Okay, so you mentioned the mental and emotional and the relationship sides of walking, so I would venture a guess that it's done best outdoors and sometimes with people. What are your thoughts on treadmills? Is it better than nothing? Is it. Forget it. Just get outside. What are your thoughts?
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I love a treadmill. And a treadmill is wonderful because it's safe. You know, I travel a ton for work. I've been to all 50 states. I go to various countries. I travel alone a lot. There's times where I don't want to go for a walk in the place that I have been put in a hotel. So a treadmill is something where you are able to control your environment and be very safe. It's also wonderful for people returning from injury surgery. If you have foot pain, knee pain, low back pain, you name it, the belt's cushioned, so it's going to give. It's going to be more forgiving than walking outdoor. So I love a treadmill as a way to get into an outdoor walking program. If you have access to a treadmill. Another thing that's phenomenal about a treadmill, you can stop whenever you want. You know, it's like if you're going on a walk and it starts raining, you're screwed. And so it is. It is one of those things where it has so much utility if you have access to one. In our book, we talk about ways to be good at walking, and this is a Question I get often asked during interviews and things, how do I walk better? How do I know if I'm doing it right? Whatever. Everyone walks differently because we're all different heights, different leg length, different speed. Maybe some of us have differences of limbs, all those sorts of things. One foot's longer than the other, one muscle is weak or what have you. But universally, our goal for every single person who walks is to be efficient, be an efficient walker. So I am a total creeper in airports. If you ever see me in an airport, come say hi, please. But I'm a total creeper because I am busy watching people walk. I am assessing their shoes. And yes, I'm judging you if you're wearing stilettos in an airport, because that is dumb. Same, especially if you're dragging a bag. But I am watching people walk because I'm fascinated by gait. And you can really learn a lot about someone and assess. Are they happy? Are they sad? Are they hustling? Are they slow? Are they carrying a baby? Are they carrying a backpack? Like, what do. What do you learn about somebody watching them walk when they don't realize they're being observed? Right. And you can also see the people who are struggling walking. Maybe they have a little bit of a limp. You see that, like, torso shift. Maybe they're catching one foot. Maybe you can hear a foot that scuffs. That's just an inefficient gait pattern. Doesn't mean it's wrong, but it means there's opportunity to improve. And so we love to teach individuals, especially when we talk about a treadmill. Get on a treadmill walk, do not have music going, and listen to your gait pattern. Does it sound equal? 1, 2, 1, 2. Does it sound imbalance? 1, 2, 1,2, 1, 2. Do you hear a scuff? Do you hear something that sounds not equal side to side? And then treadmills are wonderful for walking drills to boost your efficiency. So in the book, we say walk taller, walk softer, and walk faster as three drills, which are really fun to unpack. And then another one that's amazing on a treadmill is walking backwards. And people are always shocked that we're like, walking backwards. That sounds unsafe. On a treadmill, you can hold onto the handrails. And so it's a great way to introduce walking backwards. Walking backwards. If you are someone who struggles with knee pain or low back pain, There are phenomenal research studies supporting backwards walking as part of your walking in order to start firing muscles in different patterns, emphasizing different muscle control offloading those painful joints, you'll be shocked. If you're someone who struggles with knee pain and you're like, I don't wanna walk, it makes my knees worse. Go ahead and start with forward walking. Switch to backward in a safe environment. Treadmill or you know, walking around a track is actually great backwards cause there's no potholes or you know, things different obstacles and then switch back to forward walking and see how you feel. So I'm a huge fan of a treadmill. I would much rather people walk than don't. And for all those reasons, I just mentioned safety, you know, being able to ramp up playing with drills. I love a treadmill walk.
A
Okay, great. Good to know. Because I think my favorite way of doing it is outside with somebody. But that's not always feasible or reasonable. So good to know there. You mentioned earlier, and I couldn't agree more, that I'm just going to put it all under the biohacking umbrella that it's gotten a little ridiculous. And so for the person listening like me, who sometimes is like I don't have the time or the energy for one more thing. So my question is, any tips on the most realistic, the most approachable, the most helpful ways to start to incorporate to walk, you know, without having it feel like this one more extra thing.
B
Yes, I'm a mom. My daughter is now in college, but I'm a dance mom. So there is glitter and eyelash glue still everywhere in my environment. I wouldn't have it any other way. Those gals out there, you're running kids, you're picking bodies up, you're here, you're there, you're doing all the things when you are waiting for somebody in the drop off line. Soccer, dance, pick up your husband at the airport. Whatever's happening in your life, that's a chance. That's a chance to sneak in a walk. 5 minutes. 5 minutes can change how you're feeling. Creativity reduces your blood pressure, improves your circulation, helps with gut motility. If you're somebody who's struggling with blood, blood sugar, it's an amazing way to assist your pancreas and helping to get blood or sugar out of your blood. So sneak a walk. Just squeeze her right in there. Be brave, be fierce, be unapologetic and take that five minutes for you. The other thing I love is a walk and talk. And so a beautiful, a beautiful activity is to call a loved one while you're walking. If you are in leadership in a business, I challenge all of you listening right now. Give permission to your teams to walk and talk. We don't all need to be sitting in front of Zoom. We, yes, some of us talk about confidential things. That's not an appropriate time to walk and talk. But if you're doing a standup, a team catch up, a shoot, even an interview, you name it, take that person for a walk, see if they can keep up. Maybe it's a nice way to weed out the week, but I would, I would really encourage those of you listening who are in positions of leadership, give permission for walk and talk. So sneak them in. When you're waiting for things drop off, you name it, and then call a loved one and get on the phone with them while you're walking and talking. If you're in a safe environment where you can wear headphones and that sort of thing. And those of you who are in business, I just would love for you to change, change that narrative and give people the permission to walk and talk meetings.
A
You know, I'm so glad that you said that. One of my best friends, almost every time I talk to her, she's out walking.
B
I love it.
A
And almost every time she's out walking, I end up going out walking. Cause I'm like inspired by her breathing heavy. I'm like, I'm not gonna just sit here and not, you know.
B
Right.
A
And I also think of too those under desk treadmills that they have walking pads. Thank you. Walking your dog. I love my dog for so many reasons. But one of the initial reasons we got him was because I was like, that will give me a legitimate reason to get out there. I guess, as you were saying that there are just so many little opportunities. And what I love about walking that I dismissed in the past is that it can be done in five minutes, it can be done here or there, it can be done seven times in one day and then fit in between things. Whereas most of the other exercises that are being thrown in our face on a regular basis, it's like an hour plus, you know, the drive time, plus the getting ready, plus you have to shower after, plus the. And it's like, all right, every day. That's a two hour decision.
B
It's a big commitment, minimum in most
A
cases, and I'm paying somebody and all the things. So thank you for being here for doing this incredible work, for reminding us and reinforcing and having all of the data and the medical research to back it up that movement is movement. And walking is probably the best place for any of us to start. Melissa, thank you. I'm so appreciative of you being here today.
B
It's my pleasure. And I'm. I'm really excited to share what she looks like. This is our beautiful girl. She's launching May 5th. What's fun about the book is there's some special stories of the little Avatars on there. This is my dog who passed away in 2025. So she is being honored on the COVID of the book. Her name was Olive. And then our patient, our person right here that has a prosthetic leg is a client that Dr. Connolly and I shared who was injured in a plane crash. So we have some really special tributes throughout the book. And so I would love to share this work with everyone. As you said at science based, there's 300 research studies in there. There's some really heartwarming patient stories. There's some really funny things that if you're a woman in your 40s, you're gonna be like, is that a nice ice baby reference? Yes, it is. Yeah, it is. So it's. It's lighthearted. It's designed to be something that is just going to inspire you. And I really. I would love to take a walk with everyone listening. So stay tuned.
A
I love that so much. Okay, I'm gonna remind you, the book again is called Walk. For those of you who couldn't see it. It's gorgeous. And you can buy it, of course, on Amazon or wherever it is you buy books. But let's keep local bookstores in business. Better yet, why not walk to your local bookstore and get the book? So again, it's called Walk, and her website is melissamcdowell.com. we'll put the link to that and all the ways to find and follow Melissa in show notes again. Melissa, thank you for being here today.
B
Thanks for having me. It was a pleasure.
A
Okay, friend, here's my takeaway. We've complicated something that was never meant to be complicated. Shocking, I know, because movement isn't just about fitness. It's about function. It's about how we live in our bodies, how we move through our days, how we show up for our lives now and for as long as we're here. And walking, it was never the lesser option. It was the original one, the accessible one, the sustainable one, the one all people in the blue zones have in common. The one that meets you exactly where you are, no matter your age, your stage, or your starting point. So maybe the work isn't to do more, push harder, or chase whatever version of exercise is trending right now. Maybe the work is to come back to what works. To trust what your body has been asking for all along. To stop overlooking the simple things that have the power to change everything. Because taking care of your body in a way that actually supports your life, not just your image that is, is and will always be woman's work.
Podcast: This Is Woman's Work with Nicole Kalil (Airwave Media)
Episode: 407
Date: April 29, 2026
Guest: Dr. Milica McDowell, PT, Human Performance Expert, Author
Main Theme: Redefining women’s health and fitness through the underestimated power of walking.
Nicole Kalil and Dr. Milica McDowell break down pervasive myths about exercise, centering their discussion on walking as an overlooked yet fundamentally powerful tool for health, longevity, mental clarity, and community. With humor, candor, and science-backed insights, they challenge high-intensity fitness culture, explore what our feet can reveal about our health, debunk the 10,000 steps myth, and offer realistic, empowering advice for making movement accessible and sustainable.
Timestamp: 03:20 – 06:12
"If movement didn't leave me drenched, sore and borderline questioning my life choices, that it didn't count. If it wasn't intense, optimized, tracked and miserable, then it wasn't real exercise.... Meanwhile, my body... has always loved walking.... The thing I dismissed as not enough might actually be exactly what I need." — Nicole [04:20]
Timestamp: 06:12 – 08:39
"Walking is a way to boost your confidence, a way to connect with a loved one... there’s all sorts of musculoskeletal benefits as well." — Dr. McDowell [07:33]
Timestamp: 08:06 – 08:39
Timestamp: 08:39 – 13:16
"Strength in your foot is a predictor of fall risk, and it also is a predictor of death risk... The secret is in your big toe." — Dr. McDowell [10:10]
Timestamp: 13:16 – 17:27
Timestamp: 19:10 – 22:38
Timestamp: 22:38 – 25:50
"No one’s putting (money) behind walking yet.... It’s right in front of us. We just need to unlock it." — Dr. McDowell [23:18/25:08]
Timestamp: 25:50 – 31:35
"10,000 steps is a bunch of horseshit.... If you’re under 2,500, honey, we’ve got to figure something out." — Dr. McDowell [26:17/27:17]
Timestamp: 32:17 – 35:51
Timestamp: 35:51 – 39:28
"Squeeze [walking] right in there. Be brave, be fierce, be unapologetic and take that five minutes for you." — Dr. McDowell [36:51]
Timestamp: 39:25 – 41:20
"Movement isn’t just about fitness; it’s about function, how we live in our bodies, how we show up for our lives now and as long as we’re here. Walking was never the lesser option. It was the original." — Nicole [41:20]
Timestamp: 39:51 – 41:18
"It’s lighthearted, science-based... going to inspire you... I would love to take a walk with everyone listening." — Dr. McDowell [40:45]
This episode delivers a potent, accessible reframing of women's fitness—encouraging listeners to ditch perfectionist, all-or-nothing exercise mindsets and rediscover the science, freedom, and profound holistic health benefits of simply walking. With practical guidance, science, and inspiration, Nicole and Dr. McDowell empower women to reclaim movement, longevity, and self-trust.
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“Taking care of your body in a way that actually supports your life—not just your image—that is, is and will always be woman's work.” — Nicole [41:20]