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Tim Keller (0:04)
Thanks for joining us on the Gospel in Life podcast. Do you long for unshakable joy in every circumstance? The Bible says that in this world you will weep, but there is a joy that even the deepest grief can't put out. Listen now, as Tim Keller teaches, unhappiness and weeping. After you listen, we invite you to go online to gospelandlife.com and sign up for email updates. Now, here's Today's teaching from Dr. Keller.
Unknown Speaker (0:31)
Foreign but complete psalm that we're going to be looking at tonight. The teachings going to be based on it. It's Psalm 126. That's the whole thing. Doesn't look like much, but it is. Psalm 126. When the Lord brought back the captives to Zion, we were like men who dreamed. Our mouths were filled with laughter, our tongues with songs of joy. Then it was said among the nations, the Lord has done great things for them. The Lord has done great things for us, and we are filled with joy. Restore our fortunes, O Lord. Like streams in the Negev, those who sow in tears will reap with songs of joy. He who goes out weeping, carrying seed to sow, will return with songs of joy, carrying the sheaves with him. This is God's word. Now, by the way, this. This little psalm has never. It's always helped me. It's never filled my soul with glory. It's always made me quiet and reflective and peaceful. And I think that probably the sermon that this produces will not be a high and glorious sermon, but a quiet and reflective and peaceful one. And I hope the same thing will happen in you. What this is so good at, what this has helped me with so much, is, I think in some ways Psalm 126 is a perfect emotional map for a person who believes in God. It's a picture. It's an overview of the emotions, the emotional life that the life of faith brings. The setting doesn't matter. You read this and you say, when did this happen? What is going on? We really don't know. Plenty of people have said, Ah. Verse 1. When the Lord brought back the captives of Zion, we were like ones who dreamed. Our mouths were filled with laughter and they say, ah. That must be in the Old Testament. That's the time in which the exiles, the Jews who had been exiled in Babylon, came back. Well, it doesn't say that. We don't really know. There were a number of places where God gave some kind of great military victory to the Jews when they were overwhelmed. And it looked like everything was lost. And it could have. There could be a number of places. The important thing, therefore, is really not the setting. In some ways, we're glad we don't know when it was. It doesn't say when it was, and it really doesn't matter. The point is, here's a group of people that are remembering a time of deliverance. See, in verses 1, 2, and 3, they're remembering a time of incredible joy, but they're experiencing a time of weeping and sorrow. And the question for us then is not when did this happen? And so on. The issue is, do we handle our times of weeping? Do we understand our times of weeping and sorrow the way they did? Because especially of this great verse, the one who goes out weeping, carrying seed to sow, will return with songs of joy, carrying sheaves with them. In verse 6, those who sow in tears will reap with songs of joy. Here's the question that this psalm raises and that we're going to try to address. Here's the question. It's a lot like a book that Kathy and I have always loved. We've never really read it, but we love the title. And I've got it, and I got it out to look at it and say, I really ought to read this thing. But the title is don't waste your sorrows. Don't waste your sorrows. And you see, it's based very much on a theme in the Bible that we're going to bring out, which is so perfectly, perfectly put in verse five. What are you doing with your tears? What are you doing with your sorrows? They need to be sown. They need to be invested. They need to be planted in a sense, or they need to water. See, the beauty of this is tears are water. Now, water brings life, and water can be channeled and used and deployed in such a way that it brings up fruit and grass and beautiful things. Are you wasting your tears? Are you investing them? You see, tears are water. Are you using them? How are you crying? You're going to weep in this world. You will weep. You will weep. But how are you weeping? And that's the question. Or those. That's several versions of the question, but that's the essential question. Now, as we look at the passage and we look at the Psalm, and we ask ourselves, what does this tell us about weeping? What does this tell us about how we're supposed to address our griefs and our sorrows and so on. I would say it tells us three things. Now, I could put this in an. In a kind of. I Could put these three things in action, step, form. And if I was to do that, I would say it tells us to expect weeping. Expect tears, but expect secondly, new kinds of tears. And then finally it'll say, sow your tears, expect tears, expect new kinds of tears, and sow your tears. But, you know, I'm going to put it in terms of three principles. And if I have the presence of mind, I may come back and put it back in the form of action steps. But let me say there's three principles. First of all, let's look at the first principle. First thing it teaches us. In some ways, it's the most obvious and the simplest. But we better not rush by it. We'll take a minute or two on it. First thing we're told here is that the life of faith is a life of both rejoicing and weeping. I mean, this is maybe obvious, but let's stay here for a second. The life of faith is a life of both of rejoicing and weeping. What does the psalm tell us? The psalm tells us that these people had experienced a tremendous act of deliverance of God. The nations had heard about it, which. That's why we're a little curious. We wish we knew what it was. But God had so shown up. God had so come down. God had so. You know the way the Bible says, he had bared his holy arm, he had shown forth his power and his love for his people. That all the nations, everyone said, boy, their God is God. Remember what Yul Brynner said, You know, Yul Brynner, Pharaoh Ten Commandments, you know, Remember that his God is God and then fade out, Mount Sinai. You remember that? Surely you remember that. But you know, that's what the nations were doing. That's what the nations were saying. They were saying this God is God. So whatever it was that they experienced must have been great. And yet, as great as it is, they're in trouble again. See, verses 1 to 3 is remembering something. And verse 4, 5, and 6 is experiencing the present. Verse 1 through and 3 is something in the past. But now, verse 4, it's right where it says, restore our fortunes. Now, what's the obvious? No matter how much God does for you in this life, it won't get rid of sorrow. No matter how much he has done for you, he doesn't give you unbroken joy. No matter how much you have laughed in the Lord, you will weep. You will weep in some ways, as a matter of fact. Remember I mentioned in the very beginning, this is almost like a perfect map of the Emotional life of a Christian, the emotional life of a believer. Because look, verses 1, 2, 3 is all about joy. Verses 4, 5 and 6 is all about sorrow. In a certain sense, it's telling you that if you are a believer, you're going to have, like everybody else, joy and sorrow. You're not going to have lots and lots and lots of joy and just a little teeny bit of sorrow anymore. No, that's not the way it works. You're going to have joy and sorrow. You're going to be a very even handed life. But what I really love about it is joy reigns in verse 1, 2 and 3, right? And in verse 4, 5 and 6, it's all about tears and about weeping and about the fact that we need our fortunes restored. And yet in the end, joy has the final word. In other words, if you want to see the emotional map, quantitatively, quantitatively, the believer has equal weeping and rejoicing. But qualitatively, even through the weeping, in the end, joy has the final word in your life. See, that is, if you're a new Christian, I want you to know your future. Quantitatively, you'll have as much joy as weeping, as much weeping as joy. Qualitatively, there will be a note of joy that can never be put out. A kind of pilot flame. You know, even when the burner's off, look down in there, it's still burning. It's still burning. So that when the gas does show up, there's a flame again. Look down in your heart, you're a Christian. Even in times of weeping, there's a pilot light of joy. And so there's. In the end, the joy is always the final note. But it doesn't mean that now you're a Christian, now that you're a believer, you know, now it's joy all the time. No first principle is the life of faith is a life of both rejoicing and reaping. Why? Because we follow one who is both a rejoicer and a weeper. We follow one who is both a mourner and a singer. We follow one who, when he decided to begin his ministry, his first miraculous sign to tell us who he was was to create a pile of great wine to make a good party better. Now, when you open a campaign, you're showing people who you really are, you know, recently, did you not see one of the mayoral candidates when she opened her campaign? She made sure instead of being in a lecture hall or something, she was out on a street in the Lower east side. Why this is perfectly and very good. She was trying to. She knew that in her first speech where she was and what she said. She wanted to make sure people saw the essence of what she was about. Great, fine, excellent. Jesus is no different. He first comes out, and he's going to, in his very first sign, show us who he's about. And who is He? What is He? What does he do? He doesn't raise the dead. He doesn't walk on water. He doesn't heal the sick. He throws a party. John, chapter two. The wedding feast at Canaan. Turning water into wine. He throws a party. What does that mean? He is saying, I come to bring festival joy and yet get out of concordance sometime. A concordance. And look up words like weeping, groaning, sighing, moved with pity. And they're all there's so much in the New Testament that describes Jesus emotional life like that. Here's the one who is the great exalter. He's the great singer, the sweet singer. He's the one who throws a party to show you what he's really about. Yet you read through his life, and he's a man of sorrows. He's acquainted with grief. And his own life is a mixture of this great joy and this tremendous sorrow. And it tells us, In Hebrews, chapter 12, it says, why did he go through the sorrow? For the sake of the joy that was set before him. He went to the cross. See, there's the same mixture. So that's the first thing. First principle, life of faith is a life of both rejoicing and weeping. Now, the next principle, second principle, is not as obvious, a little more surprising. And that is the life of faith is a life of greater rejoicing and greater weeping than before. This passage indicates, and the Bible teaches that the life of faith is a life of higher joy and deeper sorrow than you had before. Let me put it in a nutshell. When you become a Christian, you do not become a happier person than you were before. You are that. But more than that, you become both happier and sadder than you were before. The life of faith is a life of greater rejoicing and weeping. Now, for example, look here, right in the passage. Right here in the passage, you can see that one of the reasons why they're weeping so badly in verses 4, 5, and 6 is because of what he's done before. I mean, in this one instance, you can see it. What if they were cynical? What if they really didn't know there was a God? What if they thought life is hard? You know, what if they just believe that basically life stinks. And now things have happened, what would you do? You wouldn't be weeping. You'd say, suck it up. This is life. Don't cry over spilled milk. But they know it's the experience of salvation that makes their weeping a lot greater. And if you read the scripture, you will see over and over. The Bible says that when you become a Christian, you don't only become happier, but also sadder and pretty much at the same time. That's how you know the difference between your emotional life before and after belief, before and after conversion. Now, the joy part let me leave behind. We should know that. That's obvious if you are a Christian. When you become a Christian, you now know something you didn't know before. That God is your God, and that God is in your life. That God loves you and that God accepts you and all that. See, that's obvious. But you're saying. Now wait a minute. What do you mean by saying that the gospel, that faith actually also makes you sadder? Well, in the Old Testament and the New Testament, there's an extremely interesting theme. It comes up several times. Let me just quote you one place where it shows up. But it shows up several times. In Ezekiel, chapter 11, verse 19, God says, I will remove from them their heart of stone and give them a new heart of flesh. He says that. Also in Ezekiel 36, Paul talks about it. He talks about the fact that when the Spirit comes in, it writes the law of God not on the stone, but on the tablets of your heart. It gives you turns. It takes away your heart of stone and turns it into a heart of flesh. Now, what does that mean? It means a lot. But here's one of the things it means. It means that salvation does not just make your heart a happier heart. It does, but it's not all salvation will make your heart more of a heart. It'll not just make it feel happier, it'll make it feel. It'll make it feel more deeply. It'll make you feel and able to feel. It melts your heart. It melts your heart from the ice. It melts your heart from the stone. It makes you sensitive. It makes your heart more of a heart. It's not a heart of stone. The heart before you experience the love of God compared to the heart after. That's the idea. Compared to the heart after. Your heart before was stony. It was less feeling, it was more callous. It was filled with defense mechanisms. It was filled with all sorts of ways in which you kept out things that should make, and did make the only perfect human heart in the history of the world weep. Why was Jesus always weeping? Why do you think he was always crying? Because he was perfect. Because he was more loving than us. Because he was more compassionate than us. Because he was more sensitive to God's heart than us. Because he had higher aspirations for people than we do. And the more perfect you get, the more you're going to weep. It's only natural, you see that. See, for example, look, before you were a Christian, you had moral standards. Of course you did. It may be almost the same moral standards. And many people, when they become Christians, they don't change their moral standards one bit. In fact, in many cases, and here I'm not making a joke, many Christians have. You become a Christian, you may not be any better at those moral standards than you were before at all. You might not even be as good. There's sort of a lack of franticness. In some ways. You may not be quite as good. All right? But here's the difference. Before, when you blow it, when you broke a law, when you told a lie, when you did something like that, you would kick yourself. You'd be mad at yourself, you see, because you broke a rule. After you become a Christian, if you understand the gospel, if you understand now that your relationship with God is not that I'm the subject, he's the king only, or I'm this employee, he's the boss. But I'm the child and he's the Father. And through my great brother, Jesus Christ, at infinite cost, he has brought me into his family. And he loves me with an everlasting love. And he sent his son, and he went at incredible cost to make me holy. Now, when you lie, you haven't just broken a rule, you've broken a heart. You've broken the heart. You're going to weep. You're not just going to kick yourself. Your heart's melted now, see? Or when you look at people around you, before you were a Christian, you had no idea really what people could be. You had no idea what joy they could experience. You had no idea because now you've experienced it, you'll never look at people again the same way. You know what they could be. You know when you see hurting people, what they could be experiencing. And so, like Jesus, you'll be weeping over them in ways you weren't before. You see. You know, Cornelius Planting wrote a really good book on sin. And the name of the book is Sin. And the name of the subtitle of the book is not the way things ought to be. And maybe you think that's pretty obvious, but you know, when you become a Christian, instead of looking around and saying, that's life, that's life, you know, that's people, that's the way things are, you know what that is? That's a way of hardening your heart so you don't care. But now you know what God sees and what God wants and you know what people could be and you know what the world should be. And you're going to weep. Now you see that. So the second principle, and it's a very, very important principle, is that not only is the life of faith a life of both rejoicing and of sorrow, of tears, it's a life of greater rejoicing and it's a life of greater tears. Okay? Do you have a heart like that? Think about that. Is that happening to you? Do you weep more in particular, by the way, guys, in particular, you know, we're taught not to weep. How long have you been a Christian? Do you weep more? That's one good sign that you're really a Christian. Have you gotten over the defense mechanisms? Have you gotten over the hardness of the heart? Now, I'm not trying to leave women out here, but I'm just saying, guys in particular. It's very noticeable in some ways, I would say women, when you become a Christian, you weep new kinds of tears. It's not self pity tears, it's tears of repentance, tears of aspiration for people, tears of service, all the tears of Jesus. But for us guys, in some cases, we're going to start weeping for the first time period. It's a good sign.
