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To All the Men I've Tolerated Before
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To All The Men I’ve Tolerated Before is your weekly look at everyday misogyny! Host Natalie Katona invites guests on the podcast to chat about their experiences living in a Patriarchal society. The podcast delves into different male tropes the world has had to endure like the sports guy, the toxic boss, or the needy boyfriend. It also allows the guests to delve into how men have affected their comfort levels in the communities they take up space in like the horror genre, professional wrestling, or the military. After the honest, comedic venting, the guest and Natalie will offer up their biggest growth moment from having to tolerate the events they’ve discussed and offer everyone up some great manifestations. Let’s work on a better, inclusive, and safer future for everyone with some radical honesty and less tolerating!
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Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod on Instagram! Make sure to like, subscribe, and review so Natalie can send some good vibes and positive manifestations your way as well!
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2d ago01:06:26Tap to summarizeLynn Harris is the owner and founder of Gold Comedy, the online comedy school, professional network, and content studio where women, non-binary creators, and other “others" build their comedy careers, join a powerful community, and make funny stuff that gets seen on all kinds of stages and screens. Lynn and Natalie will discuss the ways misogyny has affected comedy, why it is important to have diverse voices in the comedy space, how comedy improves empathy for others, and personal anecdotes from their lives as funny women.How to Support TATMITB:Want more TATMITB content? We just revamped all of our tiers on Patreon! Our Patreon is now the one stop shop for written content, the monthly newsletter, social content, bonus episodes, ad-free listening, and more! You can join our free tier or try out a free trial for our paid tiers here.We are also still keeping our Instagram and TikTok accounts active so feel free to follow the show on those as well!Find Lynn and Gold ComedyInstagramExplore Gold ComedyCheck Out the Build and Pitch Any Idea with Ryan Cunningham (Use code GOLD10PERCENTOFF when signing up for class to receive a 10% discount)Book a free comedy consult call with Lynn
Transcribe →Secret Lives of Mormon Wives
1w ago01:34:56Tap to summarizeKristiana, former guest from our episode on the men of Grey’s Anatomy, is back! She is Natalie’s expert on the series The Secret Lives of Mormon Wives and is the perfect choice for discussing all the complexities around the discourse of season 4. Natalie and Kristiana will have a very nuanced conversation about Taylor Frankie Paul and her cancelled season of The Bachelorette. There will also be discussion on why no one wants Dadtok to be a thing as well as why Natalie has such a hard time buying into the show and how she’s constantly worried about what’s being portrayed as “women empowerment”.How to Support TATMITB:Want more TATMITB content? We just revamped all of our tiers on Patreon! Our Patreon is now the one stop shop for written content, the monthly newsletter, social content, bonus episodes, ad-free listening, and more! You can join our free tier or try out a free trial for our paid tiers here.We are also still keeping our Instagram and TikTok accounts active so feel free to follow the show on those as well!Find KristianaPatreonKristiana’s article on SLOMWInstagram
Transcribe →April 2026 Reminders
2w ago00:03:44Tap to summarizeHappy end of the month, Team Tolerator! This is your reminder to head over to our Patreon so you can see all the free bonus content and subscribe to our newsletter. We have a WHOPPER of a Misogyny Roundup this month!Topics include:Christina Koch and her trip to the moonChappell Roan existing and men being mad62 million reasons to be a misandristThe Supreme Court's refusal to ban conversion therapySummer House and ScamandaEveryone should see The DramaProtecting ourselves from men centered peopleAdvice on how to make men more uncomfortableThe only place to find a full trailer of our Misogyny Roundups is over on our free Patreon tier!We are also still keeping our Instagram and TikTok accounts active so feel free to follow the show on those as well!
Transcribe →Still Comfy? Thelma and Louise
3w ago01:39:44Tap to summarizeStill Comfy? is an in-depth look at our favorite comfort shows and movies. After a conversation about the themes presented in the selected show, we then discuss how the show holds up against our Tolerator and Jelly Pops morals and viewpoints. You can watch Still Comfy? on our YouTube Channel How to Support TATMITB:Want more TATMITB content? We just revamped all of our tiers on Patreon! Our Patreon is now the one stop shop for written content, the monthly newsletter, social content, bonus episodes, ad-free listening, and more! You can join our free tier or try out a free trial for our paid tiers here.We are also still keeping our Instagram and TikTok accounts active so feel free to follow the show on those as well!
Transcribe →The Geena Davis Institute
Apr 1601:25:56Tap to summarizeNatalie’s friend, Jessica Toukatly, is on the show today to talk about the important work started by The Geena Davis Institute for Gender and Media. Geena Davis was watching television with her kids one day when she noticed a sharp difference between the amount of lines given to male characters versus the female characters in the show. So she started tallying and collecting data. Jess will go over the ways Geena used her standing in Hollywood to meet with executives to bring light to how little women were being represented in media when it came to their male counterparts. There will also be a discussion on what quality female representation looks like in film, how the institute eventually expanded to collecting data that would represent other marginalized voices’ time on screens, and other women who have pioneered paths forward when it comes to getting women’s stories told. How to Support TATMITB:Want more TATMITB content? We just revamped all of our tiers on Patreon! Our Patreon is now the one stop shop for written content, the monthly newsletter, social content, bonus episodes, ad-free listening, and more! You can join our free tier or try out a free trial for our paid tiers here.We are also still keeping our Instagram and TikTok accounts active so feel free to follow the show on those as well!Find JessicaInstagram
Transcribe →Patriarchy Stress Disorder
Apr 901:05:10Tap to summarizeThe podcast’s guest for today’s episode is Dr. Valerie Rein, the author of the book Patriarchy Stress Disorder: The Invisible Inner Barrier to Women’s Happiness and Fulfillment. Natalie and Dr. Valerie will discuss all the negative effects living in a misogynistic culture has on the body, mind, and heart. There will be talk about how these negative side effects manifest within our everyday lives and the toll they take on our health. There will also be discussion on Dr. Valerie’s work in creating ways for women to heal from the trauma caused by Patriarchy.How to Support TATMITB:Want more TATMITB content? We just revamped all of our tiers on Patreon! Our Patreon is now the one stop shop for written content, the monthly newsletter, social content, bonus episodes, ad-free listening, and more! You can join our free tier or try out a free trial for our paid tiers here.We are also still keeping our Instagram and TikTok accounts active so feel free to follow the show on those as well!Support Dr. Valerie ReinBuy the bookInstagramWebsite
Transcribe →Kesha
Apr 201:00:33Tap to summarizeFriend of the pod, Darcie, is back this week to talk about the one and only Kesha. Natalie and Darcie have been waiting for the right time to talk about Kesha and why they’re such strong supporters of who she is as an artist. After seeing the Tits Out Tour, they knew they had finally personally reached the best time and also Kesha seems to be having her best time as well. Topics of discussion will include Kesha’s reputation in the music industry, her legal battle with Dr. Luke, the healing she has done, and why Kesha is someone to be admired for her strength against adversity and how she inspires hope that you can fight the system, feel beaten by it, but still find your way to peace and happiness.How to Support TATMITB:Want more TATMITB content? We just revamped all of our tiers on Patreon! Our Patreon is now the one stop shop for written content, the monthly newsletter, social content, bonus episodes, ad-free listening, and more! You can join our free tier or try out a free trial for our paid tiers here.We are also still keeping our Instagram and TikTok accounts active so feel free to follow the show on those as well!
Transcribe →March 2026 Reminders
Mar 2600:02:30Tap to summarizeHappy end of the month, Team Tolerator! This is your reminder to head over to our Patreon so you can see all the free bonus content and subscribe to our newsletter. Our bonus episode for this month included the topics:Kristi NoemTimothy ChalametThe women of the OlympicsChelsea Devantez and her film, BasicGetting over disappointmentLove is Blind OhioSecret Lives of Mormon Wives S4The only place to find a full trailer of our Misogyny Roundups is over on our free Patreon tier!
Transcribe →The Godfather
Mar 1901:12:50Tap to summarizeTara Jabbari (Who Was She Podcast) has come prepared to prove to Natalie and the entire Tolerator audience that the Godfather Trilogy is actually a chick flick. Tara will use the films as a way to discuss how masculinity is presented in the films, the strong storylines rooted in the immigrant experience, and how women quietly held power behind the scenes. There will also be some moments where we can all just get a little hot over how good everyone looked in this trilogy.And as a bonus feature, Tara has shared her pitch deck with all the visuals and movie clips that are referenced in the episode! You can find the deck at this link. How to Support TATMITB:Want more TATMITB content? We just revamped all of our tiers on Patreon! Our Patreon is now the one stop shop for written content, the monthly newsletter, social content, bonus episodes, ad-free listening, and more! You can join our free tier or try out a free trial for our paid tiers here.We are also still keeping our Instagram and TikTok accounts active so feel free to follow the show on those as well!Find TaraInstagramWebsiteWho Was She PodcastMedia Maker Spotlight Podcast
Transcribe →Sex and the City
Mar 1201:12:40Tap to summarizeNicky Trendz and Manny Oso from the podcast Bubble Bath Stories are here to chat about Manny’s first official watch through of Sex and the City. Highlights of the conversation will be why Natalie isn’t team any of those men, the dating tropes that each woman fell into during their story arc, the importance of having a group of strong women by your side, and why Carrie should have definitely accepted that check from Mr. Big.How to Support TATMITB:Want more TATMITB content? We just revamped all of our tiers on Patreon! Our Patreon is now the one stop shop for written content, the monthly newsletter, social content, bonus episodes, ad-free listening, and more! You can join our free tier or try out a free trial for our paid tiers here.We are also still keeping our Instagram and TikTok accounts active so feel free to follow the show on those as well!Find Nicky and MannyWebsiteListen to Bubble Bath StoriesNicky’s IGManny’s IGBubble Bath Stories’s IG
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