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To All the Men I've Tolerated Before
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To All The Men I’ve Tolerated Before is your weekly look at everyday misogyny! Host Natalie Katona invites guests on the podcast to chat about their experiences living in a Patriarchal society. The podcast delves into different male tropes the world has had to endure like the sports guy, the toxic boss, or the needy boyfriend. It also allows the guests to delve into how men have affected their comfort levels in the communities they take up space in like the horror genre, professional wrestling, or the military. After the honest, comedic venting, the guest and Natalie will offer up their biggest growth moment from having to tolerate the events they’ve discussed and offer everyone up some great manifestations. Let’s work on a better, inclusive, and safer future for everyone with some radical honesty and less tolerating!
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Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod on Instagram! Make sure to like, subscribe, and review so Natalie can send some good vibes and positive manifestations your way as well!
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Summer Replay: Toxic Masculinity and Male Dating Priviledge
3w ago01:02:39Tap to summarizeEllen Moore, host of The Slut Show with Ellen Moore, is back on the podcast! She opens up about a recent breakup that resulted in a nine page letter detailing how toxic masculinity had given her partner a misconception of what a relationship should be. The women go into how misogyny has created a culture around dating that allows for men to have their privilege leak over into our romantic lives. They talk about the emotional labor women take on within relationships, how toxic masculinity contributes to gender norms in relationships, and urge listeners to remember that everyone should feel cared for and seen during a romantic partnership.How to Support TATMITB:Want more TATMITB content? We just revamped all of our tiers on Patreon! Our Patreon is now the one stop shop for written content, the monthly newsletter, social content, bonus episodes, ad-free listening, and more! You can join our free tier or try out a free trial for our paid tiers here.We are also still keeping our Instagram and TikTok accounts active so feel free to follow the show on those as well!
Transcribe →Summer Replay: Still Comdy? Freaky Friday
4w ago01:07:46Tap to summarizeTo All the Men I’ve Tolerated Before is on summer vacay! In the meantime, we will be posting episodes of our livestream collaboration with Pop Culture Makes Me Jealous. Still Comfy? is an in-depth look at our favorite comfort shows and movies. After a conversation about the themes presented in the selected movie, we discuss how the movie holds up against our Tolerator and Jelly Pops morals and viewpoints. Enjoy our review of Freaky Friday starring Lindsay Lohan and Jamie Lee Curtis!You can watch Still Comfy? By subscribing to the playlist!How to Support TATMITB:Want more TATMITB content? We just revamped all of our tiers on Patreon! Our Patreon is now the one stop shop for written content, the monthly newsletter, social content, bonus episodes, ad-free listening, and more! You can join our free tier or try out a free trial for our paid tiers here.We are also still keeping our Instagram and TikTok accounts active so feel free to follow the show on those as well!
Transcribe →Summer Replay: Romantic Comedies
Jul 901:21:57Tap to summarizeNatalie is joined by Rose and Courtney from Fiction Fixation to talk about a shared favorite topic, movies! The episode will revolve around the idea of romantic comedies and what they do really well and where they miss the mark. Natalie is a known rom com hater and Rose and Courtney are here to have a more nuanced conversation about the genre. All three can agree that a rom com is a hard thing to pull off! They’ll all talk about the favorite rom coms, the tropes they love, the tropes they’re over, and what they hope for the genre in the future. Movies of note will be Anyone But You, The Idea of You, Set It Up, and more!How to Support TATMITB:Want more TATMITB content? We just revamped all of our tiers on Patreon! Our Patreon is now the one stop shop for written content, the monthly newsletter, social content, bonus episodes, ad-free listening, and more! You can join our free tier or try out a free trial for our paid tiers here.We are also still keeping our Instagram and TikTok accounts active so feel free to follow the show on those as well!
Transcribe →Summer Replay: America's Sweethearts and DCC
Jul 201:34:04Tap to summarizeNatalie is joined by her friend Shanaz to get her thoughts straight on the Netflix docu-series, America’s Sweethearts Dallas Cowboy Cheerleaders. After a casual watch of the show, Natalie was convinced that DCC and the series was a great work of women supporting other women and her ideal type of feminism. It took a lot of people, including Shanaz, to get her to watch it again and see the sinister misogyny lurking behind the pretty facade. Shanaz and Natalie will talk about a lack of body diversity, low pay, women being in competition with one another, women being a commodity for men, and other ways misogyny presents itself within DCC.How to Support TATMITB:Want more TATMITB content? We just revamped all of our tiers on Patreon! Our Patreon is now the one stop shop for written content, the monthly newsletter, social content, bonus episodes, ad-free listening, and more! You can join our free tier or try out a free trial for our paid tiers here.We are also still keeping our Instagram and TikTok accounts active so feel free to follow the show on those as well!
Transcribe →June 2026 Reminders
Jun 2500:03:44Tap to summarizeHow to Support TATMITB:Want more TATMITB content? We just revamped all of our tiers on Patreon! Our Patreon is now the one stop shop for written content, the monthly newsletter, social content, bonus episodes, ad-free listening, and more! You can join our free tier or try out a free trial for our paid tiers here.We are also still keeping our Instagram and TikTok accounts active so feel free to follow the show on those as well!
Transcribe →Summer Replay: Still Comfy? The Parent Trap
Jun 1801:05:01Tap to summarizeStill Comfy? is an in-depth look at Julia Washington and Natalie's favorite comfort shows and movies. After a conversation about the themes presented in the selected movie, we discuss how the movie holds up against our Tolerator and Jelly Pops morals and viewpoints. Enjoy our review of the 1998 movie The Parent Trap starring Lindsay Lohan, Dennis Quaid, and Natasha Richardson. Nat and Jules set out to answer the question, what happens when you don't get to go to summer camp?You can watch Still Comfy? By subscribing to the playlist!How to Support TATMITB:Want more TATMITB content? We just revamped all of our tiers on Patreon! Our Patreon is now the one stop shop for written content, the monthly newsletter, social content, bonus episodes, ad-free listening, and more! You can join our free tier or try out a free trial for our paid tiers here.We are also still keeping our Instagram and TikTok accounts active so feel free to follow the show on those as well!Support JuliaShop Her CandlesInstagramPatreon
Transcribe →Summer Replay: Writing Sapphic Horror
Jun 1101:12:01Tap to summarizeAuthor Rae Wilde joins Natalie to have a conversation about her book I Do Not Apologize for My Position on Men and what drew her to writing stories surrounding sapphic women and the horror genre. The two women will delve into the real life horrors that women experience that create inspiration for the fiction they’re both interested in. There will be discussion surrounding heteronormativity, toxic relationships, horror stories, our current trying times, and more!How to Support TATMITB:Want more TATMITB content? We just revamped all of our tiers on Patreon! Our Patreon is now the one stop shop for written content, the monthly newsletter, social content, bonus episodes, ad-free listening, and more! You can join our free tier or try out a free trial for our paid tiers here.We are also still keeping our Instagram and TikTok accounts active so feel free to follow the show on those as well!Find RaeWebsite: https://www.raewilde.com/Instagram: @_rae_wildeTikTok Shop
Transcribe →Summer Replay: Entering Your Rom Com Era
Jun 401:24:09Tap to summarizeTATMITB is on summer break! And nothing screams summertime more than a little summer romance! Julia Washington (Prose and Glow) is back to talk to Natalie about entering her Rom Com Era. Julia has been creating content about dating herself and doing activities that you would find in a standard Rom Com to try and find her ideal relationship. Her and Natalie will discuss how the dating landscape has changed as women’s expectations for relationships and dating have evolved as they do things like de-centering men and honing in on their own independence and power. What will it take for men to catch up to being able to appreciate women who are confident in themselves and their standards? You’ll have to watch Julia’s romantic comedy lifestyle to figure it out!How to Support TATMITB:Want more TATMITB content? We just revamped all of our tiers on Patreon! Our Patreon is now the one stop shop for written content, the monthly newsletter, social content, bonus episodes, ad-free listening, and more! You can join our free tier or try out a free trial for our paid tiers here.We are also still keeping our Instagram and TikTok accounts active so feel free to follow the show on those as well!Support JuliaShop Her CandlesInstagramPatreon
Transcribe →May 2026 Reminders
May 2800:04:11Tap to summarizeTeam Tolerator is on Summer Break! But don't fret, because if you want to have new content on everyday misogyny, the Patreon will still be active and releasing new content! New episodes will resume on our free feeds in September. See you over on Patreon!How to Support TATMITB:Want more TATMITB content? We just revamped all of our tiers on Patreon! Our Patreon is now the one stop shop for written content, the monthly newsletter, social content, bonus episodes, ad-free listening, and more! You can join our free tier or try out a free trial for our paid tiers here.We are also still keeping our Instagram and TikTok accounts active so feel free to follow the show on those as well!
Transcribe →The Movie Her
May 2101:39:04Tap to summarizeAmi Lum and Kana Felix got Natalie all fired up about the movie Her during one of their monthly script clubs. Ami, Kana, and Natalie will discuss the story of Theodore and Samantha and how misogyny plays a role in their relationship. They will also tackle topics like our reality living with AI, how misogyny presents itself in tech, how we’ve changed how we build connections to one another, and our definitions on what makes the love we feel for others real. So watch a movie and then connect with us about all the ways we connected to an unlikely love story.How to Support TATMITB:Want more TATMITB content? We just revamped all of our tiers on Patreon! Our Patreon is now the one stop shop for written content, the monthly newsletter, social content, bonus episodes, ad-free listening, and more! You can join our free tier or try out a free trial for our paid tiers here.We are also still keeping our Instagram and TikTok accounts active so feel free to follow the show on those as well!Find AmiSee available workshops on Break Out SeshFind KanaSee available workshopsSign up for Script ClubInstagram
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