Judy Blume (5:28)

Thank you all for coming. This is so exciting.

Zibby Owens (5:32)

It's amazing.

Judy Blume (5:33)

I Have to pretend I'm just talking to Zippy.

Zibby Owens (5:35)

Yeah, let's keep doing what we were doing on the couch. We were chatting, and then we kept being like, no, no, let's save that, too. Let's save that. Let's save that. So, Judy, here we are at Temple Emanuel. Why don't we start by talking about your religion, your growing up, your relationship to God, and how you incorporated that into your life.

Judy Blume (5:56)

Yes. Well, that's like, what kind of child I was. So, I mean, if you know the books, you probably know me. And what kind of child I was much like the child in Starring Sally J. Friedman as herself, which is my most autobiographical book. I was imaginative and thinking about it recently. I think a lot of that was because the adults in my life kept secrets. I hated secrets. I still hate secrets. I know you're keeping something from me, Zibby.

Zibby Owens (6:30)

I'm not. I promise. I promise I'll give you anything you want.

Judy Blume (6:33)

Secrets. And so I made up. You know, I was a kid, and it was always like, if the kid walked by the room, the adults stopped. The. The kinder. So I made everything up. And what I made up was sometimes much worse than what it would have been in real life.

Zibby Owens (6:52)

I remember from your documentary, you talked about hearing grownups talking about Nazis and all of that, and you changed it to make up into, you know, fairy tales or something.

Judy Blume (7:03)

Oh, I don't know.

Zibby Owens (7:05)

No, you don't want to talk about it. Okay.

Judy Blume (7:07)

But that's okay. But I. Well, I mean, I. I came from a family. My father had grown up as an Orthodox Jew, and he married my mother, who was Jewish but not religious, and her family didn't keep kosher. And, you know, it was. I think probably my father's mother was not happy about that. I would just tell you I had two grandmothers. One I was very, very close to, that was Nanny Mama. The other I was a little uncomfortable with, that was Grandma Sussman. You just know right away. You know, Grandma's husband didn't really speak English, and Nanny Mama was just fun and accepting. And my brother used to say, nanny is the only one who just loves us unconditionally. He probably didn't use that word, but that's what he meant. And she was. And so my relationship with God was very, very personal. And I think it really started when I was separated from my father because, you know, we. It's a long story. It's a book. But we had to move to Miami beach because my brother was sick. And the doctor said no he can't spend the winter in New Jersey. And so there we were in Miami Beach. But my father, a dentist, had to stay home in New Jersey and work. So I was separated from this parent that I loved more than anyone in the whole world, and he loved me back. And I felt that it was my job. It was such a burden for a nine year old child. I felt it was my job to keep him safe and keep him healthy. His siblings had all died at a very young age, his 40s, and he was now in his 40s. He was approaching the bad year, I think it was 43, when two of his brothers, both dentists, had died. And so for a kid, a little kid like that, you don't share it with anybody. You don't say, guess what I'm doing. But I made bargains with God, and I had certain prayers that I invented that I had to say a certain number of times every day. I had to keep him safe. That was my job.

Zibby Owens (9:43)

So much pressure from you.

Judy Blume (9:45)

I know, but, you know, you were a little kid and today you'd probably.

Zibby Owens (9:50)

Get some medicine for that. You know, I said, today you might just get some medicine for that. Generalized anxiety. Here's a therapist.

Judy Blume (9:58)

Anyway, but then I kept it all inside. I never told anyone, even after, you know, I never told anyone about that I wrote the book because that's what I did. That's how I told people, by writing a book. So.

Zibby Owens (10:15)

But then the worst did end up happening with your father right before your wedding. And I'm so sorry.

Judy Blume (10:21)

Yeah, that was pretty terrible. He was 54. Yeah, it was Ralph. But he's there, he's around.

Zibby Owens (10:31)

His name was Ralph. No, no. Oh, I was like, that's so weird. If that's really true. Talking about forever, obviously, you know, from forever, right? I know.

Judy Blume (10:41)

Don't mix up Ralph with Rudolph.

Zibby Owens (10:43)

Speaking of therapists, we're really gonna have to dive into this.

Judy Blume (10:47)

He was Rudolph. My father was 12. Really? Sussman.

Zibby Owens (10:52)

So you started telling stories to yourself, getting yourself through all of these things. When did you realize you had a gift?

Judy Blume (11:02)

Oh, maybe when the New York Times told me and I said, you. It's like, look at this. Oh, my God, maybe I can really do this. I mean, no.

Zibby Owens (11:15)

So it wasn't a teacher or someone in your life growing up who said, you know what, Judy, you're pretty good at this?

Judy Blume (11:21)

No, you know, creative writing wasn't stressed when I was growing up in school. Am I right? Joanne, pay attention. I have a friend in the audience, and we were friends from the time we were 10. And she's the one with the memory whenever I. I forget and I have to say, what was that thing in Elizabeth that we did in a. Joanne knows. Who was that person? Joanne always knows.

Zibby Owens (11:49)

So Joanne must know. I'm so secret.

Judy Blume (11:52)

For Joanne and our friendship. Yeah.

Zibby Owens (11:55)

Okay, so when, then, is the first time you tried to publish something that you wrote?

Judy Blume (12:01)

Well, so I went to college, and I got a degree in education because my mother told me that's what you have to do in case, God forbid, you ever have to get a job, because, you know, it was a different generation. But I had always played school. I had always liked school and teachers, and I had teachers in the family. And so I really did want to become a teacher. I never did. Don't know if I would have been any good at it.

Zibby Owens (12:29)

But I would argue that you have done a lot of teaching.

Judy Blume (12:32)

But I did. And wait, how did we get here?

Zibby Owens (12:37)

We were talking about Joanne. We were talking about when you first got published. Oh, when you said school for Education.

Judy Blume (12:43)

You said, when did I first send something in? So I had. I married when I was still in college, as we. Many of us did, then had two babies by the time I was 25. And I liked having babies and I liked taking care of babies, but something big was missing in my life, and that was, you know, had all this creative energy locked up. I had to let it out somehow. So I got the idea that I would start writing rhyming. Rhyming picture books, and I would illustrate them. I still draw smiley faces. I'm not an illustrator. I had colored pencils and nice paper, and I put them together with little brass fasteners. And I was going to be the next Dr. Seuss, because my name was Sussman. Very close. And I sent them in to publishers knowing nothing, and they came back with rejection letters. And, you know, the first rejection letter is painful. I went into the closet and I cried. Only that one. And then I was determined, and I said, well, yes, maybe those are no good, but wait till they see what I'm going to do next. And I just kept going and going and going. And I did find a course at NYU in the. You know, whatever it is. What do you call that? School for Continuing Education. And I met a teacher there who encouraged me.

Zibby Owens (14:30)

Yeah, I knew there was a teacher at some point. There's always.

Judy Blume (14:33)

She was so supportive that when that semester ended, I signed up and I took it again. I took the same class again because I didn't want to lose contact with Her. It wasn't that she was a wonderful teacher, but when you find somebody like that who is supportive and encouraging, you just want to keep going. And so I did. And she gave me a rose in class when my first stories were published. She was great.

Zibby Owens (15:08)

That's so amazing.

Judy Blume (15:09)

Oh, my gosh.

Zibby Owens (15:10)

And when did you decide? Not kids. Yes, grownups.

Judy Blume (15:16)

Oh, years and years and years went by, and it wasn't until, you know, so I started. Started. My first book was published, I think in the end of 69. Nobody here was even born then except Joanne and me. And it wasn't until 78, I think that I was like, you know, there's this other side of me. There's. Because I am a woman. I'm not 12 years old. Although all the kids thought I was 12 years old. And I'm not 12 years old. I am a woman and I have a story to tell. And I sat down to write that story. It was very, very tough. It took three months to get a tone that was wifey. And it took me three months to try find the voice that's the most important thing. You know, this was not a first person voice, but this was a woman with a story. And I had fun writing that book. So naughty. When people come into my bookstore now and they say, oh, how about this one? I look at them and I kind of size them up. That one is very, very naughty. And surprisingly, the people who I think definitely should not read this book say, that's the one for me. And I'm talking about women, not kids.

Zibby Owens (16:49)

Wait, what does a woman who doesn't want to read a naughty book look like? What are we wearing? Okay, well, anyway, moving on. Okay, so that was fun.

Judy Blume (17:04)

But then I, you know, I was not finished with kids books. I went right back to it, but four times from 78 until the last one, which was 15 years ago, four times I had stories to tell.

Zibby Owens (17:22)

And along the way, you ended up going through different marriages. Oh, falling in love.

Judy Blume (17:27)

Oh, my goodness, yes.

Zibby Owens (17:31)

Okay, let's have a.

Judy Blume (17:32)

However, you gotta give me some credit, guys, because my guy, my best of 45 years we've been together, is right there in the audience. So, yeah, I made a couple of mistakes. I mean, the first one wasn't a mistake. We were together for 16 years. We had two kids, we had a lot of history, and we stayed friends. And that history carried us through, through all those years that we weren't married, married to different people.

Zibby Owens (18:06)

And what is the secret to staying married for 45 years?

Judy Blume (18:10)

Oh, exhaustion. I mean, who Wants to do that again. No finding. I mean. Oh, what is the secret? The secret? I don't know that there's a secret. The secret is you're just a lot smarter. And, you know, I mean, you can't give us any credit. We moved in together on our second date because you did things like that in the late 70s, you know, I mean, and my kid, you know, I had kids. It was tough. It was like, oh, what is she doing now? She's letting this guy move in. But sometimes it works, and we are very lucky.

Zibby Owens (18:55)

Well, speaking of secrets, I also wanted to know what the secrets are to aging so beautifully. Okay. I mean. Oh.

Judy Blume (19:07)

We shouldn't get credit for that because a lot of that is, you know, who knows what that is? Jeans, luck. Who knows why?

Zibby Owens (19:15)

What is your workout regimen? Let me hear all the details. Skincare and workout.

Judy Blume (19:21)

I used to work out a lot more, but since COVID Since COVID it's different. But I will say that the thing that I think and the thing that I miss the most is tap dancing. I took up tap dancing when I moved to New York with George. So, I don't know, it was around 45, maybe. He's going to change this. 43. 40 something. 1982. 83, okay, 1981. Or two or three. I was walking, since you're all New Yorkers. I was walking past Zabar's and then around the corner on 81st street, maybe, and I looked up and I saw a tap dance class. I could see them tapping. And I had never tapped because, you know, my mother was a Jewish mother in New Jersey, and she said, jewish girls take ballet. So I did. I took ballet, and I loved it because I love to dance. Give me, you know, music, and I'll dance whatever. I have to dance. But tapping, slapping your feet around. And I stayed in that class for five years, I think, and that was before we really moved to Key West. And then there was a guy in Key west who taught the same class in Key west, and I took that until he left. Tap dancing is wonderful. It's great for your spine. It's great for everything.

Zibby Owens (21:01)

You want to do a little bit here?

Judy Blume (21:03)

I'm getting ready.

Zibby Owens (21:04)

I know. I see that.

Judy Blume (21:05)

I'm getting ready.

Zibby Owens (21:05)

I know. Itching to. Itching to get up, and my feet are itchy.

Judy Blume (21:10)

But no, I'm not going to. But I do think that that was just a great time. And I miss that. I miss that. I mean, you know, I've always. I've been active, and I like to Dance. So I used to do jazzercise. Does anybody remember jazzercise? Yes, I liked all that jazzercise stuff. Oh, yes. Ymca. I like that. I used to go to those classes. We lived in New Mexico then. I used to go to those classes in Santa Fe. And yeah, and then I went to a gym. But when Covid came along, George and I, we stopped going to the gym. It just wasn't safe for us. But we never stopped because, you know, we live in Key west and it. The weather's nice and so we never stopped doing the two mile walks every day. And we still do that except when I work at the bookstore those three days a week. I got enough going on at the bookstore. I can't do the walk too.

Zibby Owens (22:13)

So.

Judy Blume (22:14)

Yes, keeping active, right? Just keeping active.

Zibby Owens (22:21)

I walked.

Judy Blume (22:22)

My mother used.

Zibby Owens (22:22)

Here, that's my activity.

Judy Blume (22:24)

Libby, this is for you. My mother used to. To say, make sure you always have younger friends.

Zibby Owens (22:32)

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Zibby Owens (26:20)

Let's talk about bookstore life. So we both own bookstores, which is the greatest joy in the world.

Judy Blume (26:25)

Into Zibby's bookstore.

Zibby Owens (26:27)

Thank you.

Judy Blume (26:27)

In la. In Santa Monica.

Zibby Owens (26:29)

Yeah, yeah, right.

Judy Blume (26:30)

Very sweet bookstore.

Zibby Owens (26:32)

So how do you do your bookstore buying? Are you in charge of buying?

Judy Blume (26:36)

No, no.

Zibby Owens (26:37)

Do you have any input at all?

Judy Blume (26:39)

Yes, but we. Our buyer works for Mitchell Kaplan in his Miami Books and Books. We are an affiliate of that wonderful Books and Books store and. But we're so small that. And he has such a great buyer. She buys for all his stores and for us. And yes. I mean, the lists come and you can say, no, I don't want that book. Or oh, I really get send me five. Or you never know. And a book takes off in your particular store that isn't. We do a Lot of staff, recommendation cards, a lot of them. And it is amazing how well they sell books. Our customers are mainly tourists. They're getting off cruise ships. I always wear a mask. Getting off cruise ships. They're coming for a visit. They're flying down from all over. All over the world, really. And they're buying books. We never knew that the people on those cruise ships read. And now we love them. They do. They come in and they buy books. But, I mean, there's a book that I've been. And I've been hand selling a book called My Darling Boy by John Dufresne. I have never heard of him. There was a wonderful review one Monday in the Times and new books coming on Tuesday. And the book came in and I took it home and I read it and I thought, what a great original voice this guy has. And so I wrote a little card. And because of that, people are buying and reading John Dufresne, who might not now. I've just ordered an earlier book of his called Louisiana Light and Power Company. Do you know that?

Zibby Owens (28:34)

No.

Judy Blume (28:35)

I think it's going to be wonderful, too.

Zibby Owens (28:37)

Maybe after this discussion, it will hit the bestseller list as a result, just of this.

Judy Blume (28:42)

And I met him because I recently spoke at a college in Florida. Forget what college? Fiu. Fiu. Florida International University. And John Dufresne is a professor there. And I said, oh, my God, can I meet this guy? So, you know, we kind of fell into each other's arms. It was very sweet. I met his wife, too.

Zibby Owens (29:06)

I was starting to get a little nervous there.

Judy Blume (29:08)

It's exciting. It's exciting. Exciting. When you find a new book and a writer that you don't know and you're able to then introduce new readers to this writer. You know, we love our bestsellers. I try to read as many as I can. But it's also that wonderful moment of finding somebody new and wonderful.

Zibby Owens (29:34)

It's such a gift to be able to give someone hours of entertainment just from a little suggestion. That is the best talk about why, in the unlikely event, why is this going to be your last book?

Judy Blume (29:47)

Well, I knew that when I was writing it. I really felt it's a very important book to me. People ask me in the store, what is your favorite of your books? And lately I have been telling them. I mean, these are adults, you know, telling them about this book. It's a story that I had inside since I was 14 and my daughter became a commercial airline pilot. And when she read this book, she said, mother, I can't Believe you never told me this story. Why didn't I ever tell. Why was I a writer of fiction for 40 years with an incredible story inside me? And I never forgot it, but I never thought to write it? Or maybe I thought I couldn't write it. Maybe I wasn't ready to write it. I don't know. But it took five years and a lot of research because it takes place in 1951, 1952. Joanne was there. She remembers it all. And it's a complicated book with a lot of characters. When the book was about to come out, I said to my editor, Carol Barron, I said, carol, you know those lists that are in books of characters and who. The family members and little family trees and all of that? I think we should do that. And she said to me, judy, this is not a Russian novel. But that's not the end of the story. A year later, when the paperback was going to come out, Carol called and said, you know that idea you had, I think we should do it now. There are a lot of characters. And it was just. I don't know, I just felt, this is it. I'm going out on this book. I don't want to do this anymore. I can't spend another five years locked up. And then it was like, out of the sky. The next day came this bookstore. I was so lucky because the creative energy was still there. But I really didn't want to write anymore. Suzanne, my agent, is here.

Zibby Owens (32:12)

She's still crying.

Judy Blume (32:13)

It's hard to explain that. No, I really don't want to do that anymore. I have other things I want to do. So. So that's. And because it was so much, you know, going back to what I knew as a kid and what I remembered in the early 50s, people say, how did you know all that? It was like, I was there. But also, I did a lot of research, and so it was an exciting book. I know they had 25 copies out there, so some of you must raise.

Zibby Owens (32:46)

Your hand if you got a copy. You are the lucky, lucky recipient. So now that the writing is over, there has been an uptick in adaptations. Dare God, It's Me, Margaret, which was such an amazing movie and book, of course, but the movie, oh, my gosh.

Judy Blume (33:04)

I loved the movie. I loved it so much. I'm the only writer who ever went out on, like, a tour and said to everybody, that movie is better than my book, because it is. And it's a wonderful movie. And working with that team was like a dream. A dream team.

Zibby Owens (33:25)

And now you've Introduced your work through the movie to a whole new generation.

Judy Blume (33:30)

Which is wonderful, I hope. And now forever is out there.

Zibby Owens (33:33)

Yes.

Judy Blume (33:34)

And that's totally different. And I wasn't involved with that. I'm. You know, a woman came to me and she made a pitch, and we bonded over our blue framed eyeglasses. And she told me what she wanted to do, and I thought it was interesting. I was never going to do forever. I just didn't think it would work for this generation. And she came up with a way. It's Black and it's LA in 2018, and I think it's pretty good. I've seen all eight episodes, and I'm.

Zibby Owens (34:11)

Currently available on Netflix for everybody's viewing enjoyment.

Judy Blume (34:16)

Yeah, I think she did a very interesting job with it, so I am pleased.

Zibby Owens (34:24)

So does this mean there will be other adaptations?

Judy Blume (34:27)

I hope so. I want Summer Sisters. Yeah, I want Summer Sisters. Thank you. Thank you. And I want a musical based on Sally Friedman as herself. Yes. And if they don't do it, I'll do it myself. I'll just tap dance and sing all those songs. Sally in Miami beach in 1948.

Zibby Owens (34:49)

I love it. Suzanne, please get on that. Okay, good. So you're walking two miles a day now you're in the bookstore three days a week. You. You look back at your whole career and you think what I think how.

Judy Blume (35:04)

Lucky I am, and that my book meant something and means something to readers. I mean, what does every writer dream of? First you dream of maybe someday I'll be published. And then you dream, maybe someday someone will read something that I've written. And then you get greedier. You know, maybe someday I'll hear from one of them. And there's someone in this audience who wrote to me when she was 12. She was one of the kids who wrote to me, and we're still friends. I mean, that is special.

Zibby Owens (35:46)

That's amazing. And what's going on with the project at Yale with Beinecke Library and all of the letters that were written to you, which are archived there? Last time we spoke, there was mention of a biography going on. Is that happening?

Judy Blume (36:00)

I don't know. I'm not.

Zibby Owens (36:02)

You don't know. Okay.

Judy Blume (36:05)

Well, I just don't really want that. You know, the documentary was wonderful, and so I didn't want that either.

Zibby Owens (36:15)

And can anyone go to Beinecke Library and read the letters, or do you have to get special permission? Do you know George?

Judy Blume (36:22)

Oh, anyone can go and read the letters. You can't copy them, and you can't take Them out. I think that's what it.

Zibby Owens (36:29)

Has anyone been here to see the letters? Beinecke Library. Okay. We have a field trip coming. Wow. Amazing. When you look back and think about your own advocacy, right? Book banning. You've taken a stance on this early on since your earliest books were banned as well. How do you feel about that, especially in today's world?

Judy Blume (36:51)

So I went through this in the 80s, big time book banning. What's happening today in this country makes that look like, you know, nothing. It is so bad, it is so dangerous. It is so serious. I live in Key west, which we like to pretend isn't in the state of Florida, but we have the same governor and we have the same legislature. And I have librarians come into the store who tell me that they've had to remove all books from the library. The library is now used only for study hall. It's just awful, awful, awful. But there's always the but. But there are some advocacy groups out there that are doing such incredible work, such good work, that I just have to, you know, be thankful for them, work with them, do whatever they ask me to do, kind of. I mean, I take that back. If any of you are in the audience and they're, you know, they're not sitting down, they're working with the, you know, trying to get the bills and state legislatures not to pass. And they just managed to do that with a great. What would have been a horrible bill in Florida, a truly devastating bill. Now, they will be the first to tell you that next year when the legislature meets again, there could be the same bill. There could be a worse bill. I don't know how it could be worse, but everybody needs to be aware of this and take a stand wherever you can. If you can't do anything yourself, join one of these fabulous groups, you know, National Coalition Against Censorship, aabb, Authors Against Book Bans. Penn America is doing a fabulous job. They've even started Penn Florida, because things are so bad there. So, I mean, I'm living right in the middle of almost the worst of it, you know, so far. Bookstores are okay. Nobody's bothering with bookstores.

Zibby Owens (39:13)

Let's keep our fingers crossed. That's.

Judy Blume (39:15)

Let's keep it that way.

Zibby Owens (39:18)

Going back to your role as a mom, you mentioned early on you were a young mom. You were overwhelmed. You were missing this creative outlet. How has your role as a mom informed your writing and your life to date?

Judy Blume (39:34)

I'm a better mom now. I didn't know what I was doing, you know, and I think you Know, dragging the kids through two divorces at 12 and 14 was very tough for them. You can't go back. And the only thing you can do is to say, I'm really sorry, and I am, but our family is a much better, tighter, wonderful family today. For 45 years, we've had George's daughter as such a part of it. So it's just good. We're at a good place.

Zibby Owens (40:16)

So. Yeah, I did see an Instagram thing pop up yesterday that said, the best thing for kids is to have a happy mom. Right. That's the most. There was some statistic, which I can't remember.

Judy Blume (40:28)

Right.

Zibby Owens (40:28)

But you're being a happy mom. Informs.

Judy Blume (40:31)

Yeah, but I was an unhappy mom for a while. Yes. I'm a happy mom now. They're in their 60s now, but it's never too late, you know. But, you know, for 45 years, it's been good stuff.

Zibby Owens (40:47)

At my second wedding, my mom let me borrow this necklace, and as she put it on me, she was like, I got this necklace on my 50th birthday, and maybe one day I'll let you have it. And I was like, mom, I'm in my 40s already. Anyway, you're always a young kid, right? No matter how old you are, you're.

Judy Blume (41:06)

Always a kid inside. That kid is always inside.

Zibby Owens (41:09)

Oh, my gosh. Okay. I know you can't pick favorites, and that, in an unlikely event, is the most powerful because it's your last, but of the books for kids, is there one that stands out to you or that you feel most grateful for or that, I don't know, you have some sort of connection to, aside? Maybe the one you were mentioning earlier about that is the most autobiographical, but.

Judy Blume (41:32)

Oh, Sally. Yeah, well, it's hard. You know, they're like your children, so it's hard to pick a favorite. I always tell people who ask me at the bookstore, it's like, you know, one day it's this one, and one day it's this one. I mean, I'll always be grateful to Fudge. Fudge brought me so many readers. Right? I think there's two Little Fudge readers there. And Margaret, of course, because Margaret brought me everything. I didn't know what I was doing. I truly, truly didn't know what I was doing. I just sat down and I wrote that book. The first book that I wrote from deep inside, just let go. And that's what came out. I had a wonderful editor, the best editor, who supported me and encouraged me, and he was perfect. He was so great. He Worked with me on all of the books from Iggy's House to Forever Iggy's House to Forever we worked on together. We had a lot of laughs over forever. Yes.

Zibby Owens (42:43)

And to aspiring authors out there, do you have advice? Is it just to be authentic and write from your heart? What would you tell the young writer who's like sitting in the front row?

Judy Blume (42:54)

Let's young writers, I would say, say, don't give up. And that determination may be as important as talent because so many talented people give up. And you know, the idea of criticism can be very hard and we have to take it because we get it. You know, I used to take a red pencil and scribble bitch on bad reviews, but I never, but I never, you know, I never told the reviewers that I did. But it's painful. There's no question. And, but you have to, you have to keep going. You have to go. I mean, that's true for any, any creative arts, right? I mean, you can be on stage, you can get a terrible review, you can be anywhere. It's hard. It's hard, but you do it. And for people who want to write, I once had a woman say, I've bought, I don't know, 17 books on how to write. But that's not how you learn to write. You learn to write because you read. You read, read, read. I've never understood kids who say, I don't like to read, but I'm going to be a writer when I grow up. No, you're not. Because it's about reading. And that's how you learn. You learn to write because you read and then you write, write, write, and you throw it away and you get better, you keep going. I mean, that's what I think anyway. I don't know. Love.

Zibby Owens (44:45)

Then, in addition to the book you were recommending earlier, do you have any genres in particular that you love to read or books that you've loved lately?

Judy Blume (44:55)

I'm really bad because there's so many sections in a bookstore and you would think that I would know everything in the middle grade and ya, I know nothing. I know nothing in this. You know, I mean, every now and then I read one of them because I'm reading fiction all the time and there's so little time to read. I find that having a bookstore, I have less time to read. George is incredible because he's always got a book in his ear. He's always listening to one and he's got another one that he's always got like three or four going and he goes through so many books. I know my nonfiction from George and what he tells me. And if he likes a book, he tells me a lot. Do you find that, too?

Zibby Owens (45:56)

I mean, you read whenever you can. Reading is how I relax, like people. My son the other day was like, mom, what do you do in your free time? And I was like, I don't have any free time. And he's like, well, but when you're not working. And I said, well, when I'm not working, I read. And he's like, but that's your work. And I was like, I know. That's why it's so great.

Judy Blume (46:18)

I think. Yeah, I think so.

Zibby Owens (46:20)

Reading is just. You just fit it. You have to fit it in in the spare moments, and I don't know.

Judy Blume (46:25)

You do. Yeah.

Zibby Owens (46:26)

You love it. Could we please give Judy a standing ovation? Yay. Thank you much.

Judy Blume (46:33)

Thank you. Thank you so much, everybody. Thank you so much. Thank you. Thank you for coming and thank you for being such a great audience.

Zibby Owens (46:46)

Thank you for listening to Totally Booked with Zibby, formerly Moms don't have Time to Read Books. If you loved the show, tell a friend, leave a review. Follow me on Instagram ibeowens and spread the word. Thanks so much. Oh, and buy the books.

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