Most weeks now I get an email from someone who’s sure they’ve believed a lie their whole life — that the faith holding their family, their friendships, their sense of self together is collapsing, and they don’t know who they are without it. I’ve been that person more than once. So in this essay I want to say the thing I wish someone had said to me: what’s dying might not be your faith. It might just be your idea of what your faith was. Drawing on Whitehead’s four stages of religion — ritual, emotion, belief, rationalization — I make the case that belief-centered Christianity is a late, late development, maybe 200 years old in its current intensity, not 2,000. For most of human history religion was bodies moving together, food shared, the dead remembered. The relationship was never in the certainty. It was always in the meal. If you’re in the panic right now, this one’s for you. Pull up a chair.

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