True Crime Obsessed - Episode 424: "Love You to Death: Playbook for Murder"
Introduction
In episode 424 of True Crime Obsessed, titled "Love You to Death: Playbook for Murder", the hosts delve into a harrowing true crime case that intertwines love, obsession, and meticulous planning. This episode unpacks the tragic story of Patrick De La Cerda, his fiance Jessica, and the perpetrator Gregory Bender. Through insightful discussions, the hosts explore the complexities of the case, the investigation process, and the aftermath of the legal proceedings.
Overview of the Case
The episode centers around the brutal murder of Patrick De La Cerda on February 27, 2018, in South Florida. Patrick, a 25-year-old entrepreneur, was found dead on his family's expansive property. The investigation initially left friends and family baffled, as Patrick was perceived as a loving fiance and a respected member of his community.
Key Events and Timeline
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Background of Patrick and Jessica
- Patrick De La Cerda was born on June 4, 1992, in Miami. He was deeply involved in his family's construction business alongside his brother Bryce and father Max.
- In June 2017, Patrick met Jessica Devnani through a dating app. They quickly became engaged after five months of dating, with Jessica describing Patrick as "the extrovert" who complemented her introverted nature. (Timestamp: 12:30)
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Jessica's Past and Gregory Bender's Obsession
- Jessica had a tumultuous eight-year relationship with Gregory Bender, a 42-year-old man who became increasingly obsessive after their breakup. Gregory's behavior escalated from persistent calls and texts to threats, culminating in a restraining order filed by Jessica in December 2017. (Timestamp: 37:00)
- Despite the restraining order, Gregory continued his harassment, violating its terms by calling Jessica on the day of Patrick's murder. (Timestamp: 38:10)
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The Day of the Murder
- On the morning of February 27, 2018, South Florida was the setting for Patrick's tragic demise. Gregory posed as a delivery person to gain access to Patrick's home, taking advantage of the family's gated property designed to deter unwanted visitors. (Timestamp: 44:42)
- Gregory used an AR15 rifle, firing four shots and killing Patrick before attempting to erase evidence by removing camera footage from the property’s surveillance system. (Timestamp: 16:45)
Investigation and Evidence
The investigation into Patrick's murder revealed several critical pieces of evidence linking Gregory Bender to the crime:
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Cell Phone Records: Gregory’s phone location placed him at the scene during the time of the murder. (Timestamp: 34:14)
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Ammunition Traces: Shell casings found at the crime scene matched those found in Gregory’s possession, including a 300 Blackout ammunition type used in assault rifles like the AR15. (Timestamp: 53:26)
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Stalking Notebooks: Authorities discovered multiple notebooks in Gregory’s home detailing his plans to kill Patrick. These notebooks included maps, to-do lists, and strategies to avoid leaving forensic evidence, such as “putting duct tape on the bottom of a second pair of shoes” to prevent leaving footprints. (Timestamp: 54:00)
Notable Quotes
Throughout the episode, the hosts provide poignant insights and reactions to the unfolding case:
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Julie Metavale: “If you’re listening to this, you’re doing a great job.” (Timestamp: 62:52)
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Patrick Hines: “Most murders are committed by people that you know. But having an entire family involved is definitely a rare sight.” (Timestamp: 64:35)
Trial and Legal Proceedings
In May 2021, Gregory Bender faced trial for the first-degree murder of Patrick De La Cerda. The prosecution presented compelling evidence, including:
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Handwritten Murder Plot: The detailed notebooks Gregory kept were pivotal in establishing premeditation.
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Physical Evidence: The matching shell casings and Gregory’s arsenal of firearms found in his home solidified the case against him. (Timestamp: 53:26)
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Restraint Order Violations: Gregory’s repeated breaches of the restraining order underscored his persistent obsession and disregard for legal boundaries. (Timestamp: 39:43)
Despite attempts by the defense to downplay the evidence, such as arguing the absence of live surveillance footage and the alleged accidental nature of Gregory’s calls, the jury found Gregory guilty of first-degree murder. He was subsequently sentenced to life in prison without the possibility of parole. (Timestamp: 61:55)
Conclusions and Reflections
The episode concludes with reflections on the case's profound impact:
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Lack of Closure: While Gregory was convicted, the hosts express frustration over the enduring pain for Jessica and Patrick's family. (Timestamp: 62:24)
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Prevention and Legal Loopholes: The hosts discuss the systemic issues that allowed Gregory to continue his harassment despite legal interventions, questioning why restraining orders do not automatically enforce the surrender of firearms. (Timestamp: 52:06)
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Emotional Toll: Jessica's ordeal highlights the emotional and psychological strain victims of stalking and harassment endure, emphasizing the need for more robust protective measures. (Timestamp: 39:10)
Final Thoughts
"Love You to Death: Playbook for Murder" serves as a stark reminder of how hidden obsessions can lead to unimaginable tragedies. Through engaging storytelling and critical analysis, True Crime Obsessed not only narrates the sequence of events but also prompts listeners to consider the broader implications of such crimes on victims and their loved ones.
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Conclusion
Episode 424 of True Crime Obsessed offers a comprehensive exploration of a meticulously planned murder driven by obsession. By weaving together factual recounting and insightful commentary, the episode sheds light on the complexities of the criminal justice system and the enduring quest for justice and closure among victims' families.
