Podcast Summary: Two Hot Takes – Episode 215: Justifiable Crash Out?!
Introduction
In Episode 215 of Two Hot Takes, host Morgan Absher and her co-host Mikayla Oakland delve into a series of compelling Reddit stories, listener submissions, and intriguing internet anecdotes. The episode, titled "Justifiable Crash Out?!", explores the nuances of justifiable versus unjustifiable reactions in various personal and relationship scenarios. Throughout the episode, Morgan and Mikayla engage in lively discussions, offering their perspectives, humorous takes, and heartfelt insights.
Section 1: Episode Kickoff and Theme Introduction [00:00 – 07:00]
The episode begins with Morgan humorously acknowledging technical hiccups during the recording, setting a playful tone. The theme "Justifiable Crash Out" is introduced, inspired by a listener's comment from the previous episode. This theme centers on determining whether certain explosive reactions are warranted based on the context of the situations presented.
Notable Quote:
- Morgan [04:44]: "It fits. It fits. Or does it?"
Section 2: Story 1 – Am I the Asshole for Snapping Over Pregnancy Comments? [07:03 – 18:05]
The first major story originates from the subreddit r/AmItheAsshole, where the original poster (OP) confronts a coworker for making unsolicited comments and physical gestures regarding pregnancy. During an office event, a coworker touched OP’s belly and implied she might be pregnant by saying, "maybe it's because you've got a little bird on the way." OP reacts by snapping, stating, "don't be wishing that kind of bad luck on me."
Discussion Highlights:
- Mikayla [09:04]: "You didn’t even crash out. She didn’t even crash out. She made like one remark that wasn't favorable. Is it a crash?"
- Morgan [09:50]: "This is so justifiable for me. Baby crash out could have crashed out harder."
- The hosts emphasize the inappropriateness of unsolicited physical contact and speculative comments about one’s personal life, especially in a professional setting.
Notable Quotes:
- Morgan [10:14]: "I cannot imagine someone coming up to me, a coworker, and rubbing my belly."
- Mikayla [12:19]: "We don't need to be doing."
Section 3: Recommendations and Advice [18:05 – 30:06]
Morgan provides OP with a thoughtful template to address the situation formally with her boss, coworker, and HR. They discuss the importance of setting clear boundaries and the potential need for professional intervention.
Notable Quote:
- Mikayla [21:58]: "You could say, how would you react if I were to be pregnant right now?"
Section 4: Story 2 – Relationship Struggles Over Boyfriend Tests [30:06 – 46:37]
The second story comes from the Relationship Advice subreddit, where a man grapples with his girlfriend's manipulative "boyfriend tests." These include faking a pregnancy to gauge his reaction, which adds significant strain to their four-month relationship.
Discussion Highlights:
- Morgan [22:04]: "I think that’s really fair."
- Mikayla [30:33]: "We do owe people things. I agree with that, but I don't know in specifically how it relates to this story."
- The hosts critique the unhealthy dynamics of testing a partner’s loyalty and trust through deceitful means, emphasizing the importance of open communication.
Notable Quote:
- Morgan [30:56]: "Kumbaya, my Lord, Kumbaya."
Section 5: Listener Stories and Community Engagement [46:37 – 77:01]
Throughout the episode, Morgan and Mikayla present additional listener-submitted stories from r/AmItheAsshole and other subreddits, each examined under the lens of whether the reactions are justifiable crash outs.
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Titty Latte Story:
- Story: A new mother injects her partner’s coffee with breast milk as a humorous gesture, which becomes excessive and compromises breastfeeding needs.
- Discussion: The hosts find humor in the absurdity while acknowledging the practical concerns around milk supply.
Notable Quote:
- Mikayla [53:31]: "She can do what she wants with that milk."
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Sister's Absence at Wedding Due to Dog’s Death:
- Story: OP chooses not to make her sister her maid of honor after the sister missed her wedding due to her dog's death, leading to emotional fallout.
- Discussion: The conversation touches on grief, unresolved emotions, and the challenges of maintaining family relationships amidst personal disappointments.
Notable Quote:
- Morgan [66:34]: "She's clearly at her wit's end, but no mention of a conversation."
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Mother-in-Law’s Inappropriate OnlyFans Request:
- Story: A mother-in-law sends explicit photos to her son and asks him to subscribe to her OnlyFans, leading to significant family distress.
- Discussion: The hosts discuss the severity of the boundary violations, potential psychological underpinnings, and appropriate responses including legal considerations.
Notable Quote:
- Mikayla [102:32]: "That's just like you. When you locked that dog in that room. You were saying, it's okay if I'm killing it right now."
Section 6: Conclusion and Reflections [77:01 – End]
As the episode wraps up, Morgan and Mikayla reflect on the intense stories discussed, emphasizing the importance of setting boundaries, seeking professional help, and maintaining healthy relationships. They encourage listeners to engage with additional content on their Patreon for further discussions and support.
Notable Quotes:
- Morgan [99:51]: "I think it's one of those stories where it is in the middle, and I think that that can be harder."
- Mikayla [107:01]: "She locked my dog up and abuse them. No."
Final Thoughts
Episode 215 of Two Hot Takes offers a deep dive into the complexities of human emotions and reactions in the face of personal grievances and boundary violations. Through engaging storytelling and insightful commentary, Morgan and Mikayla provide listeners with a nuanced understanding of when a "crash out" is justifiable and how to navigate the aftermath of such intense interpersonal conflicts.
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