Episode 228: Something's Amiss.. Ft. Kamie Crawford
Release Date: August 7, 2025
Guest: Kamie Crawford
Guest Introduction and Background
Timestamp: 01:31 - 05:24
Morgan Absher warmly welcomes Kamie Crawford to the show, expressing her excitement and admiration for Kamie's journey. Kamie shares her impressive background, detailing her unexpected entry into the pageant world by winning Miss Maryland Teen USA and subsequently Miss Teen USA at the age of 16. She recounts her year in New York, attending events and working with charitable organizations, which she credits for preparing her for life’s challenges.
Notable Quote:
- Kamie Crawford at [04:50]: “And I did that for six years.”
Kamie also discusses her transition into television hosting, including her role on MTV’s Catfish. She highlights the pivotal moment when guest co-hosting opportunities led her to secure a full-time position, illustrating her resilience and adaptability in the media landscape.
Diving into AITA Stories: "I'm Not Pretty Enough"
Timestamp: 14:13 - 23:05
The episode shifts focus to a poignant AITA (Am I the Asshole) post titled “My boyfriend, 36, male, wants to end a one-year relationship because I'm not pretty enough.” The story revolves around a 35-year-old woman whose boyfriend decides to break up with her solely based on her appearance, despite a year of a seemingly strong relationship.
Key Points Discussed:
- The emotional turmoil experienced by the OP (Original Poster) due to her boyfriend's superficial reasoning for the breakup.
- The impact of societal beauty standards and the boyfriend's obsession with external validation from strangers.
Notable Quotes:
- Kamie Crawford at [16:22]: “Fuck him. Who the fuck does he think he is?”
- Morgan Absher at [19:23]: “Do yourself a favor. Cut ties.”
The co-hosts vehemently condemn the boyfriend's behavior, emphasizing the importance of self-worth and rejecting relationships that are contingent solely on physical appearance. They advocate for the OP to prioritize her emotional well-being and move forward without guilt or self-doubt.
Exploring Boundaries in Relationships: "Baby Talk Around Family"
Timestamp: 24:02 - 34:04
The discussion transitions to another AITA post titled “Am I the asshole for asking my girlfriend to stop using baby talk around my family?” Here, a 26-year-old woman requests her 28-year-old boyfriend to curb his girlfriend’s use of exaggerated baby talk in front of family and friends, causing tension in their relationship.
Key Points Discussed:
- The balance between accepting a partner’s quirks and maintaining comfort in social settings.
- The importance of addressing behavior that causes embarrassment or discomfort in front of loved ones.
Notable Quotes:
- Kamie Crawford at [25:26]: “Not the asshole. Yup. Breakup worthy level of incompatibility.”
- Morgan Absher at [32:13]: “You're not wrong, sir. You're not wrong.”
The hosts explore the necessity of setting boundaries in relationships, especially regarding behavior that affects social interactions. They stress that while personal quirks are natural, mutual respect and consideration in various settings are crucial for a healthy partnership.
Challenging Moments: "Driving Out of Control"
Timestamp: 35:33 - 46:49
Another compelling AITA story is introduced: “My boyfriend, 35 male, humiliated me, 31 female, camping with friends. I don't know if I should stay.” The OP describes a distressing incident during a camping trip where her boyfriend exhibited aggressive behavior, including wielding an axe and verbally berating her.
Key Points Discussed:
- Recognition of patterns indicative of abusive behavior, such as stonewalling, criticism, and contempt.
- The importance of identifying toxic behaviors and understanding their long-term implications on emotional well-being.
Notable Quotes:
- Kamie Crawford at [40:51]: “I think you're a hater. And you don't want to be in a relationship with anyone who's in competition with you. You will lose every single time because they will make sure of it.”
- Morgan Absher at [43:08]: “He might be a cancer. Now, upon further review.”
The hosts delve deep into the psychological aspects of abusive relationships, referencing John Gottman’s "Four Horsemen of the Apocalypse" to highlight destructive communication patterns. They encourage listeners to seek professional help and prioritize their safety and happiness over enduring toxic relationships.
Navigating Complex Situations: "Girlfriend’s Sister with Feelings"
Timestamp: 54:52 - 84:38
The final primary story discussed is “My boyfriend's sister told me she has feelings for me and I have no idea what to do.” A 34-year-old woman grapples with her 26-year-old boyfriend’s sister expressing romantic feelings towards her during a family gathering.
Key Points Discussed:
- The intricacies of addressing unwanted romantic advances within a partner’s family.
- The importance of clear communication and setting firm boundaries to maintain relationship integrity and familial harmony.
Notable Quotes:
- Morgan Absher at [80:15]: “You think you're a hater. And you don't want. Let me tell you something from experience, honey. You don't want to be in a relationship with anyone who's in competition with you."
- Kamie Crawford at [83:52]: “We're not alone in our mess.”
The discussion underscores the necessity for the OP to communicate transparently with her boyfriend about the sister’s behavior to prevent future complications. The hosts advise taking decisive action to safeguard her emotional health and the stability of her relationship.
Episode Conclusion: As the episode wraps up, Morgan and Kamie reflect on the intensity and emotional weight of the stories discussed. They reaffirm their commitment to providing honest, supportive advice to listeners navigating complex relationship dynamics.
Final Thoughts: Kamie Crawford at [83:30]: “Something is amiss here.” Morgan Absher at [84:07]: “You crushed it.”
Highlights:
- Authentic Conversations: Kamie brings her wealth of experience in media and relationships, offering insightful perspectives on each story.
- Empowering Advice: The hosts consistently encourage listeners to prioritize their self-worth and make informed decisions in relationships.
- Engaging Dynamics: The chemistry between Morgan and Kamie makes for a compelling and relatable listening experience.
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This episode of Two Hot Takes delves into the murky waters of relationship conflicts, providing listeners with both relatable stories and practical advice. Kamie Crawford’s presence adds depth and authenticity, making this a must-listen for anyone navigating the complexities of love and interpersonal dynamics.