Podcast Summary: Two Hot Takes – “Ugly Hearts…” Ft. Gigi Gorgeous (Ep. 244)

Release Date: November 27, 2025
Host: Morgan Absher
Guest: Gigi Gorgeous

Main Theme

The episode centers on “Ugly Hearts”—people demonstrating hurtful, toxic, or disrespectful behaviors, especially in relationships. Morgan and Gigi dive into real-life Reddit stories and listener write-ins, discussing situations where individuals are dealing with manipulative partners, cruel family members, boundary issues, and other “ugly heart” moments. The tone is candid, irreverent, and supportive—a safe space for venting and hot takes.

Key Discussion Points & Insights

1. Introduction & Gigi Gorgeous’ Background

[01:07] Morgan and Gigi bond over their similar teenage antics (e.g., stealing from malls), cultural snack preferences (ketchup chips!), and Minnesota/Canada lore.
Gigi shares her creative background, growing up in a restrictive, Catholic environment in Toronto and eventually moving to LA for self-expression.

“I just feel like I was made for something else...I still love Canada obviously, but had to travel to Los Angeles for a little bit more.”
— Gigi, [03:55]

2. Ugly Hearts: Relationship Stories from Reddit

a) “Boyfriend Posts Photo of Female Friend (Sarah) Sitting in His Lap”

[08:00]
OP (22F) discovers her boyfriend (28M) took a sexually suggestive photo with his friend Sarah (27F) at a party.
Sarah has a history of making condescending remarks, and the boyfriend gaslights OP when confronted.
Discussion of male-female friendships and emotional boundaries.
Both hosts agree the boyfriend and Sarah’s actions are inappropriate and disrespectful.

“I don’t even do that with my husband in pictures...In a group photo, I’m gonna sit there and straddle him?”
— Morgan, [11:22]

“He’s a loser.”
— Gigi, [11:50]

Resolution: A month later, OP finds out the boyfriend and Sarah are dating. She is validated in breaking up.

“Lesson learned. Trust your gut and choose a partner who respects you...being single is 100 times better than being called crazy for calling out inappropriate behavior.”
— Reddit OP, [16:44]

Insight: Both hosts stress how important it is to trust your gut and not excuse disrespectful patterns.

b) “Am I the Asshole for Going Home After My Husband Dangled Me Over a Parking Garage Edge as a Prank?”

[19:49]
Husband “jokes” by lifting wife over a parking garage edge, terrifying her.
He refuses to see her perspective, accuses her of overreacting, and belittles her trauma.
The hosts are appalled and label the behavior as abusive and dangerous.

“That’s not a joke...to like, off a ledge is a lot.”
— Gigi, [23:50]

“If someone dangled me over the edge...I would just splat real fast.”
— Morgan, [23:14]

OP shares that her husband often “pranks” her with jump scares—behaviors that have escalated.

Insight:

The pranks are not funny; they are about power and boundary testing.
Gigi calls for divorce and even suggests police involvement for safety.

c) “Am I the Asshole for Blowing Up at My Mother-in-Law at a Family Dinner?”

[32:35]
OP’s mother-in-law makes a cruel toast at a pregnancy dinner, saying she’ll be the “only grandma”—since OP’s own mother recently passed.
OP stands up for herself, storms out, and is instantly gaslit by her husband and mother-in-law for being “dramatic.”
Morgan and Gigi praise OP for her courage and slam the husband for not taking his wife’s side.

“I think I’m so proud of you for even standing up in that moment...she needed to hear that in that moment.”
— Gigi, [33:29]

Update: Husband still does not support her. MIL sends a text saying OP’s grief is a burden and she should “move on.”
OP chooses to stay with her sister, questions her marriage, and plans to prioritize her and her baby’s mental health.

“I need an environment where I feel respected and supported, and I don’t feel that way right now. I told my husband that if he wants me back, he needs to show me he can stand up for me. I’m putting myself and my baby first.”
— Reddit OP, [40:32]

Insight:

Gigi and Morgan discuss boundaries, husband’s “mama’s boy” syndrome, and the importance of an ally in your partner.

d) “Am I the Asshole for Not Complimenting My Wife So She Won’t Become Vain?”

[46:42]
Husband refuses to compliment wife, who has recently regained her sense of self and confidence post-motherhood, because “the world already does that.”
He feels threatened by her improving looks and lifestyle.
Both hosts are livid, label the husband deeply insecure, controlling, and toxic.

“You’re a pussy, you’re a bitch...She gave him three kids. She’s hot as hell now. Step up.”
— Gigi, [48:24]

“Your wife is beautiful and you thought she was great even without all the makeup and the new style and the new interests—now that she has all of those things...do you take any interest in her new interest?”
— Reddit comment, [51:59]

Insight:

Controlling or withholding affection is a red flag for emotional abuse.

e) “Am I the Asshole for Walking Out of My Boyfriend’s Birthday After His Dad’s Comment About My Age?”

[60:03]
OP (36F) meets boyfriend’s family for the first time; his dad says she has “10 years of sex kitten left in you.”
Boyfriend laughs with his dad and tells OP not to be so dramatic when she leaves.
Morgan and Gigi find the comment gross, sexist, and demeaning.

“His dad called you a sex kitten...an aging sex kitten. I’m about to actually throw up.”
— Morgan, [63:41], [63:53]

Insight:

The family lacks respect, the boyfriend minimizes OP’s boundaries, and listeners are warned that “the apple doesn’t fall far from the tree.”

f) “Am I Overreacting for Telling My BF I Won’t Be His Free Photographer Anymore—Sent Him a Rate Sheet”

[70:05]
OP’s boyfriend expects her to be his full-time unpaid content creator for his fitness page, escalating from occasional help to a full on “job,” even accepting “payment” on her behalf in pre-workout tubs.
She draws a boundary with a rate sheet; he frames her limits as “unsupportive.”
Hosts support OP’s move and call out the boyfriend’s exploitation.

“He’s abusive. And her—even getting to the point of doing a spreadsheet of costs is a lot...She should have been like, ‘I'm not doing this for you anymore.’”
— Gigi, [73:25]

g) “Am I the Asshole for Telling My Husband He Can't Have His Ex at Our Baby Shower?”

[77:36]
Husband insists his ex, who is part of their friend group, should attend their baby shower. OP is uncomfortable. He calls her insecure and “territorial.”
Morgan and Gigi think the husband’s insistence is suspicious and disrespectful.

“I’d ask him why her presence means more to him than your comfort.”
— Reddit comment, [79:05]

Discussion on exes in friend groups, emotional boundaries, and the right to “just say no” to discomfort in intimate moments.

Notable Quotes & Memorable Moments

[12:20] Gigi: “They need to both be actually hung at the stake.” (on the disrespectful boyfriend and his friend)
[18:34] Gigi: “Your gut is like, ‘maybe this person isn't in love with me. Maybe they are seeing somebody else.’...if it’s your true gut, go with that. Listen to her.”
[28:10] Gigi: “He hates women. He probably hates you. You need to divorce him.” (on the “prank” husband)
[33:53] Morgan: “Unstoppable and enabled. Now your husband, who should have your back, is like ‘oh, well, you... you're overreacting.’”
[46:52] Gigi: “She outgrew you, clearly. She is...that’s life. You grow constantly with a partner. Why are you not trying to grow?”
[63:39] Morgan: “Not the asshole. His dad called you a sex kitten.”
[75:49] Gigi: “Not to be crazy, but know your worth. You are this man's career. You're the whole reason he has content!”
[79:05] Reddit top comment: “Why does her presence mean more to him than your comfort?”

Timestamps for Major Segments

[01:07] — Introduction, growing up, and snack lore
[03:16] — Gigi’s creative background/journey
[08:00] — Story 1: Boyfriend’s inappropriate friend photo
[16:10] — Story 1 update (they’re dating now)
[19:49] — Story 2: The “prank” husband and trauma
[32:35] — Story 3: Cruel mother-in-law toast
[40:32] — Story 3 update: Husband fails to back OP
[46:42] — Story 4: Husband won’t compliment wife
[60:03] — Story 5: Dad’s creepy sex kitten comment
[70:05] — Story 6: The “camera girl” content labor dispute
[77:36] — Story 7: Husband pushes for ex to be at baby shower
[85:28] — Episode wrap; lessons & final thoughts

Conclusion & Takeaways

Theme: Many stories centered on emotionally neglectful, selfish, or outright cruel partners/family—with the “ugly heart” behavior always coming from a place of ego, insecurity, or entitlement.
Hosts’ Tone: Fiercely pro-boundaries, validating to letter writers, and quick to point out red flags, with abundant humor and “hot takes.”
Favorite Advice: Trust your gut, don’t excuse disrespect for “personality,” and expect—and offer—support and kindness in relationships.
Major “ugly heart” red flags discussed: gaslighting, boundary violations, emotional weaponization, unrepentant cruelty, and lack of accountability.

For Listeners Who Haven’t Tuned In:

You’ll enjoy raw, honest discussion about relationship dilemmas and problematic personalities—with plenty of humor and supportive “you deserve better!” energy. Whether you’re here for the drama or looking for clarity on sticky situations, the episode delivers both catharsis and community.

For more stories and updates, check out the Two Hot Takes Instagram, Patreon, or YouTube channel. Gigi Gorgeous can be found across all socials and on her own podcast/vlog.

Podcast Summary: Two Hot Takes – “Ugly Hearts…” Ft. Gigi Gorgeous (Ep. 244)

Release Date: November 27, 2025
Host: Morgan Absher
Guest: Gigi Gorgeous

Main Theme

Key Discussion Points & Insights

1. Introduction & Gigi Gorgeous’ Background

[01:07] Morgan and Gigi bond over their similar teenage antics (e.g., stealing from malls), cultural snack preferences (ketchup chips!), and Minnesota/Canada lore.
Gigi shares her creative background, growing up in a restrictive, Catholic environment in Toronto and eventually moving to LA for self-expression.

“I just feel like I was made for something else...I still love Canada obviously, but had to travel to Los Angeles for a little bit more.”
— Gigi, [03:55]

2. Ugly Hearts: Relationship Stories from Reddit

a) “Boyfriend Posts Photo of Female Friend (Sarah) Sitting in His Lap”

[08:00]
OP (22F) discovers her boyfriend (28M) took a sexually suggestive photo with his friend Sarah (27F) at a party.
Sarah has a history of making condescending remarks, and the boyfriend gaslights OP when confronted.
Discussion of male-female friendships and emotional boundaries.
Both hosts agree the boyfriend and Sarah’s actions are inappropriate and disrespectful.

“I don’t even do that with my husband in pictures...In a group photo, I’m gonna sit there and straddle him?”
— Morgan, [11:22]

“He’s a loser.”
— Gigi, [11:50]

Resolution: A month later, OP finds out the boyfriend and Sarah are dating. She is validated in breaking up.

“Lesson learned. Trust your gut and choose a partner who respects you...being single is 100 times better than being called crazy for calling out inappropriate behavior.”
— Reddit OP, [16:44]

Insight: Both hosts stress how important it is to trust your gut and not excuse disrespectful patterns.

b) “Am I the Asshole for Going Home After My Husband Dangled Me Over a Parking Garage Edge as a Prank?”

[19:49]
Husband “jokes” by lifting wife over a parking garage edge, terrifying her.
He refuses to see her perspective, accuses her of overreacting, and belittles her trauma.
The hosts are appalled and label the behavior as abusive and dangerous.

“That’s not a joke...to like, off a ledge is a lot.”
— Gigi, [23:50]

“If someone dangled me over the edge...I would just splat real fast.”
— Morgan, [23:14]

OP shares that her husband often “pranks” her with jump scares—behaviors that have escalated.

Insight:

The pranks are not funny; they are about power and boundary testing.
Gigi calls for divorce and even suggests police involvement for safety.

c) “Am I the Asshole for Blowing Up at My Mother-in-Law at a Family Dinner?”

[32:35]
OP’s mother-in-law makes a cruel toast at a pregnancy dinner, saying she’ll be the “only grandma”—since OP’s own mother recently passed.
OP stands up for herself, storms out, and is instantly gaslit by her husband and mother-in-law for being “dramatic.”
Morgan and Gigi praise OP for her courage and slam the husband for not taking his wife’s side.

“I think I’m so proud of you for even standing up in that moment...she needed to hear that in that moment.”
— Gigi, [33:29]

Update: Husband still does not support her. MIL sends a text saying OP’s grief is a burden and she should “move on.”
OP chooses to stay with her sister, questions her marriage, and plans to prioritize her and her baby’s mental health.

“I need an environment where I feel respected and supported, and I don’t feel that way right now. I told my husband that if he wants me back, he needs to show me he can stand up for me. I’m putting myself and my baby first.”
— Reddit OP, [40:32]

Insight:

Gigi and Morgan discuss boundaries, husband’s “mama’s boy” syndrome, and the importance of an ally in your partner.

d) “Am I the Asshole for Not Complimenting My Wife So She Won’t Become Vain?”

[46:42]
Husband refuses to compliment wife, who has recently regained her sense of self and confidence post-motherhood, because “the world already does that.”
He feels threatened by her improving looks and lifestyle.
Both hosts are livid, label the husband deeply insecure, controlling, and toxic.

“You’re a pussy, you’re a bitch...She gave him three kids. She’s hot as hell now. Step up.”
— Gigi, [48:24]

“Your wife is beautiful and you thought she was great even without all the makeup and the new style and the new interests—now that she has all of those things...do you take any interest in her new interest?”
— Reddit comment, [51:59]

Insight:

Controlling or withholding affection is a red flag for emotional abuse.

e) “Am I the Asshole for Walking Out of My Boyfriend’s Birthday After His Dad’s Comment About My Age?”

[60:03]
OP (36F) meets boyfriend’s family for the first time; his dad says she has “10 years of sex kitten left in you.”
Boyfriend laughs with his dad and tells OP not to be so dramatic when she leaves.
Morgan and Gigi find the comment gross, sexist, and demeaning.

“His dad called you a sex kitten...an aging sex kitten. I’m about to actually throw up.”
— Morgan, [63:41], [63:53]

Insight:

The family lacks respect, the boyfriend minimizes OP’s boundaries, and listeners are warned that “the apple doesn’t fall far from the tree.”

f) “Am I Overreacting for Telling My BF I Won’t Be His Free Photographer Anymore—Sent Him a Rate Sheet”

[70:05]
OP’s boyfriend expects her to be his full-time unpaid content creator for his fitness page, escalating from occasional help to a full on “job,” even accepting “payment” on her behalf in pre-workout tubs.
She draws a boundary with a rate sheet; he frames her limits as “unsupportive.”
Hosts support OP’s move and call out the boyfriend’s exploitation.

“He’s abusive. And her—even getting to the point of doing a spreadsheet of costs is a lot...She should have been like, ‘I'm not doing this for you anymore.’”
— Gigi, [73:25]

g) “Am I the Asshole for Telling My Husband He Can't Have His Ex at Our Baby Shower?”

[77:36]
Husband insists his ex, who is part of their friend group, should attend their baby shower. OP is uncomfortable. He calls her insecure and “territorial.”
Morgan and Gigi think the husband’s insistence is suspicious and disrespectful.

“I’d ask him why her presence means more to him than your comfort.”
— Reddit comment, [79:05]

Discussion on exes in friend groups, emotional boundaries, and the right to “just say no” to discomfort in intimate moments.

Notable Quotes & Memorable Moments

[12:20] Gigi: “They need to both be actually hung at the stake.” (on the disrespectful boyfriend and his friend)
[18:34] Gigi: “Your gut is like, ‘maybe this person isn't in love with me. Maybe they are seeing somebody else.’...if it’s your true gut, go with that. Listen to her.”
[28:10] Gigi: “He hates women. He probably hates you. You need to divorce him.” (on the “prank” husband)
[33:53] Morgan: “Unstoppable and enabled. Now your husband, who should have your back, is like ‘oh, well, you... you're overreacting.’”
[46:52] Gigi: “She outgrew you, clearly. She is...that’s life. You grow constantly with a partner. Why are you not trying to grow?”
[63:39] Morgan: “Not the asshole. His dad called you a sex kitten.”
[75:49] Gigi: “Not to be crazy, but know your worth. You are this man's career. You're the whole reason he has content!”
[79:05] Reddit top comment: “Why does her presence mean more to him than your comfort?”

Timestamps for Major Segments

[01:07] — Introduction, growing up, and snack lore
[03:16] — Gigi’s creative background/journey
[08:00] — Story 1: Boyfriend’s inappropriate friend photo
[16:10] — Story 1 update (they’re dating now)
[19:49] — Story 2: The “prank” husband and trauma
[32:35] — Story 3: Cruel mother-in-law toast
[40:32] — Story 3 update: Husband fails to back OP
[46:42] — Story 4: Husband won’t compliment wife
[60:03] — Story 5: Dad’s creepy sex kitten comment
[70:05] — Story 6: The “camera girl” content labor dispute
[77:36] — Story 7: Husband pushes for ex to be at baby shower
[85:28] — Episode wrap; lessons & final thoughts

Conclusion & Takeaways

Theme: Many stories centered on emotionally neglectful, selfish, or outright cruel partners/family—with the “ugly heart” behavior always coming from a place of ego, insecurity, or entitlement.
Hosts’ Tone: Fiercely pro-boundaries, validating to letter writers, and quick to point out red flags, with abundant humor and “hot takes.”
Favorite Advice: Trust your gut, don’t excuse disrespect for “personality,” and expect—and offer—support and kindness in relationships.
Major “ugly heart” red flags discussed: gaslighting, boundary violations, emotional weaponization, unrepentant cruelty, and lack of accountability.

For Listeners Who Haven’t Tuned In:

For more stories and updates, check out the Two Hot Takes Instagram, Patreon, or YouTube channel. Gigi Gorgeous can be found across all socials and on her own podcast/vlog.

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Podcast Summary: Two Hot Takes – “Ugly Hearts…” Ft. Gigi Gorgeous (Ep. 244)

Main Theme

Key Discussion Points & Insights

1. Introduction & Gigi Gorgeous’ Background

2. Ugly Hearts: Relationship Stories from Reddit

a) “Boyfriend Posts Photo of Female Friend (Sarah) Sitting in His Lap”

b) “Am I the Asshole for Going Home After My Husband Dangled Me Over a Parking Garage Edge as a Prank?”

c) “Am I the Asshole for Blowing Up at My Mother-in-Law at a Family Dinner?”

d) “Am I the Asshole for Not Complimenting My Wife So She Won’t Become Vain?”

e) “Am I the Asshole for Walking Out of My Boyfriend’s Birthday After His Dad’s Comment About My Age?”

f) “Am I Overreacting for Telling My BF I Won’t Be His Free Photographer Anymore—Sent Him a Rate Sheet”

g) “Am I the Asshole for Telling My Husband He Can't Have His Ex at Our Baby Shower?”

Notable Quotes & Memorable Moments

Timestamps for Major Segments

Conclusion & Takeaways

For Listeners Who Haven’t Tuned In:

Summary

Podcast Summary: Two Hot Takes – “Ugly Hearts…” Ft. Gigi Gorgeous (Ep. 244)

Main Theme

Key Discussion Points & Insights

1. Introduction & Gigi Gorgeous’ Background

2. Ugly Hearts: Relationship Stories from Reddit

a) “Boyfriend Posts Photo of Female Friend (Sarah) Sitting in His Lap”

b) “Am I the Asshole for Going Home After My Husband Dangled Me Over a Parking Garage Edge as a Prank?”

c) “Am I the Asshole for Blowing Up at My Mother-in-Law at a Family Dinner?”

d) “Am I the Asshole for Not Complimenting My Wife So She Won’t Become Vain?”

e) “Am I the Asshole for Walking Out of My Boyfriend’s Birthday After His Dad’s Comment About My Age?”

f) “Am I Overreacting for Telling My BF I Won’t Be His Free Photographer Anymore—Sent Him a Rate Sheet”

g) “Am I the Asshole for Telling My Husband He Can't Have His Ex at Our Baby Shower?”

Notable Quotes & Memorable Moments

Timestamps for Major Segments

Conclusion & Takeaways

For Listeners Who Haven’t Tuned In: