Morgan (116:46)
Uh huh. That's so cute. I love her. I'm like, are you. I think you're in love with her. Like, why? Are you. Are you by like, could this maybe work? Is she by. You know what? It probably was just the fact that, like, she started realizing that her husband was not the one for her. She probably started falling out of love with him by the time that she found the affair. So she probably looked at it more like pragmatic and more objective than anything. Because otherwise, like, I don't know how somebody gets out of their own way enough to be able to be like, I love his mistress. I know. I'm blown away by like this level of composure and like self awareness and insight. Like, I would not be able to hold on to knowing about my husband's affair for eight months. I know that is a long amount of time. That's kind of crazy actually. Well, that's where I'm like, Are you holding on as long as you are because you actually feel like you have a relationship with her, too, through these messages. Wow. Like, you say you love her. You talk about how smart she is, how she deserves so much more. Like, you're putting this off because you almost have this parasocial relationship with her, maybe, and she. She doesn't even know who you are. When we look at that way, that feels kind of creepy. I know. This is what I'm like. Wait, what? I thought it was really cute, but then when I thought about the time. Eight months. That's a long time. Also, you're letting them date. Like, now. They've been dating a year now. It's getting, like, longer, right? And more serious. And her feelings are more intense where, like, hey, if you would have nipped it in the bud eight months ago, then you wouldn't have hurt her. Like, you would have heard her less. You would have heard her less. Like, you're worried about now. So it's just really interesting. And you'd think at some point before the eight months, maybe six months, maybe four months, maybe two months. I don't know. Like, why did it take eight months? Eight months, huh? I know. Isn't that a doozy? What? Do we have any updates or anything? Oh, no. Oh, no, no, no, no, no, no. I really thought you were gonna give me an update on this one. Nope. The post has been deleted by the person who watched Don't Talk today. Top comment. Make sure you have proof that you two are still married and living together. She may go to denial first. Best of luck, Op. Next comment. Exactly this. There's still a chance she may forgive him and stay with him, so it is worth being ready for that possibility as well. Next comment down. It isn't her job to prove anything to her. Nothing. But I'm Bozo's wife, and I just found out he has been seeing you. I'm not mad at you. I know he lied to you and said we weren't together anymore. Well, I'm about to file for divorce now, so if you still want him, he's all yours. But I thought you had a right to know what kind of man he is. I believe you deserve better. It's the other woman's job to decide what to do with that information. There is zero reason to put any effort into proving anything. OP has enough on her plate right now. Yeah, Op. Go see a lawyer and get your ducks in a row before you tip your hand. Yeah. Ooh. One comment goes. She sounds like a lovely person. That's sort of a catch 22 problem. People see the world through their own filters. She is a good person at heart and so thinks others are. Even your slimy, soon to be ex. I originally found this on an Instagram sub. Reddit Instagram page. Oh my God. Spooky Stars YT. YouTube. I don't know what it stands for. YT, but that's the Instagram page. And on the comments on there, someone goes, cut the husband out of the equation and marry his mistress. There's another comment. Finally, a woman who blames the husband and not the other woman. Yeah, both women sound lovely and I hope they move on from this. What a badass. The op is amazing. Well, that was my initial thought before you. Don't let me. Don't let me influence you. Don't let me. Don't worry about sweetheart. I mean, you don't worry about it. You brought up the eight months and now it's hard to not wonder. But you know, maybe she was saving money. Maybe she's a stay at home mom and needed to pool some resources and you know, get her eggs in a basket. Maybe, you know, there's medical things and she needed his health insurance because of work. We don't know. That's true. There's so many reasons. But it, it was just very impressive to me that she did wait eight months because I would go crazy. I'm like, are you still romantic though? And then like, you would have to be, otherwise he's gonna be like, what's up? Or he doesn't notice because he's getting it elsewhere. And then he's just like, oh well, we had a dead bedroom anyways. Yeah, I know. So. Interesting. Very interesting. Okay, if you want more of that, I'll see you over on Patreon. Other than that, until next time.
