Chrisley Red Flags

Summary

Two Sons and Me – "Chrisley Red Flags"

Host: Todd Chrisley
Guests: Chase Chrisley, Grayson Chrisley
Date: May 1, 2026

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Episode Overview

This episode of "Two Sons and Me," titled "Chrisley Red Flags," is a classic, unfiltered Chrisley family roundtable. Todd sits down with his sons Chase and Grayson for a candid, lively, and humorous exploration of family boundaries, personal growth, generational differences, and—true to the episode’s title—a lightning round of "red flag" dating scenarios. The banter is honest, sometimes biting, but laced with love and the unmistakable Chrisley wit. Topics range from household habits and privacy to defending family honor and navigating relationships.

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Key Discussion Points & Insights

1. Family Dynamics & House Rules

• Todd's Open-Door Policy: Todd insists he should always have access to his children’s homes, paralleling his kids’ free access to the family house.
  • Quote: "First time I ever come to one of my kid's houses and I can't just walk in, we got a problem." (02:14 – Todd)
• Household Chores & Courtesy: Playful debate over who is the messiest child; Todd accuses Chase of being the least courteous and leaving laundry for others.
  • Chase’s defense: "It's my room." (02:44)
  • Involving their mother over speakerphone to settle the laundry debate turns into a comedic blame game.
• Parental Involvement: Todd is unapologetically involved—sometimes too much, by his sons’ standards.
  • Quote: "I will always have to make sure y’all are doing okay." (16:48 – Todd)

2. Parental Boundaries vs. Intrusiveness

• Privacy vs. Protection: Chase voices frustration over Todd’s degree of involvement, feeling interrogated and at times “body shamed”; Grayson feels less scrutinized.
  • Quote: "I get body shamed. I get interrogated. I get questioned." (07:03 – Chase)
  • Todd connects his “interrogations” to love and concern: "And does that tell you how much I love you?" (07:08)
• Boundaries, Manipulation & ‘Psycho’ Accusations: The humor escalates as Chase accuses Todd of being a “psychopath” who ignores boundaries and is both nosy and manipulative.
  • Quote: "You’re a psychopath. You don’t respect boundaries. You’re nosy, manipulative at times, judgmental…" (09:16 – Chase)
  • Their argument turns on who really needs counseling and prompts Grayson to reflect: "It sounds like he's been holding a lot of this back for a long time." (10:26 – Grayson)
• Judgement and Double Standards: Grayson points out that both Todd and Chase have similar traits, but Chase insists he works to improve himself (e.g., via Bible study).
  • Quote: "I do Bible study." (12:02 – Chase)
  • "But do you think that I am judgmental?" (12:49 – Todd)

3. Accountability & Lying by Omission

• Lying by Omission: Todd pushes Chase about withholding information and whether that constitutes lying.
  • Chase: "If I don't tell you something, that's not lying." (17:34)
  • Todd: "That's lying by omission." (17:54)
  • The discussion teeters into semantics about honesty and family impact.

4. Family Reputation & Loyalty

• Defending Each Other Publicly: A recurring theme is not letting others speak badly about the family.
  • Chase: "I'm slapping the *** out of them." (27:43)
  • Todd, Chase, and Grayson agree they won’t let public or online attacks go unchallenged, especially when it comes to siblings or their mother.
• Calling Out Critics: Todd directly addresses controversial comments made by Nashville radio personality Bobby Bones and another nameless "mediator," promising public confrontation if needed.
  • Quote: “Just know who you’re dealing with, because Nashville’s not that big. ... Meet me privately. We’ll find out if those Pilates have worked.” (33:18 – Todd)
  • Chase: "Bobby Bones, you are a piece of garbage..." (31:49)

5. Handling Negative Comments & Social Media Judgment

• Online Criticism: Todd admits to monitoring online comments and sometimes sending the negative ones to his kids for their own good (which Chase finds annoying).
  • Chase: "I'll have a thousand good comments, and dad will take a screenshot and send me the one negative one." (28:11)
  • Todd’s defense: "I wanted you not to think that you was knocking it out of the park that day…" (28:23)
• Defending Family Name Is Paramount: The Chrisleys reiterate that any attack on one member is an attack on all ("if you say something about somebody, we're all gone." 35:46 – Grayson).

6. Generation Gaps & Upbringing

• On Being “Soft”: Todd prods the boys about their generation’s supposed fragility; the sons mostly agree, but stand up for themselves.
  • Chase: "I feel like most of our generation is soft." (39:20)
• Privileged Upbringing: They address public perceptions that everything was handed to them—Chase clarifies that, despite being on reality TV, he’s supported himself since moving out.
  • Quote: "People think it was all handed to us… We all got paid." (39:35 – Chase)

7. Parenting & Future Plans

• Reflection on Chrisley Parenting: The sons are grateful for the discipline and cultural exposure they received, from table manners to adventurous eating.
  • Quote: "Thank God that my kids won’t act like that, because I know better." (41:52 – Todd)
• Red Flags Game: Todd leads a rapid-fire session about "relationship red flags":
  • Staying friends with exes: All three say “no.” (44:40)
  • Posting relationships online? A bad idea in their position. (45:03)
  • Sharing location with a girlfriend: Acceptable for safety, but problematic if required for trust issues. (45:21)
  • Checking partner’s phone: Universally a red flag. (46:28)
  • Bad texters/responding to others first: A sign of disrespect. (49:51)
  • Overbearing parents in relationships: Chase sees it as a red flag; Todd does not. (51:15 – 51:31)
  • The conversation is filled with mockery about astrological signs, communication habits, and parental interference.

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Notable Quotes & Memorable Moments

• On Parental Involvement:
  "My life is built on making sure that y'all are safe and healthy. ...We’re not healthy." (11:23 – Todd), followed by Chase, "None of us are healthy." (11:30)
• On Chrisley Home Training:
  "I feel like we were exposed to so much... We’re very cultured because of shock [and] we traveled." (42:26 – Chase)
• On Conflict:
  "Love me less." (24:56 – Chase)
  "No, I won’t. I’ll never let you. I’m gonna love you more." (24:57 – Todd)
• Red Flags Game Zinger:
  "Do you think it's a red flag on the first date if someone asks your astrological sign?"
  "I don't know what the hell that is." (48:58 – Chase)
• Classic Chrisley Banter:
  "Your sheep are gone, then." – Chase to Todd when Todd likens himself to a shepherd (23:33)

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Important Timestamps

• [01:28] – The family jumps into their debate about home access and courtesy.
• [04:13] – Todd calls their mother to settle the laundry dispute.
• [09:16] – Chase lists Todd’s "red flags" as a dad.
• [17:54] – Debating whether "lying by omission" is still lying.
• [20:10] – Todd declares he’ll never retire from being in his kids’ business.
• [27:43] – The Chrisleys discuss how they respond to public insults.
• [31:49] – The gloves come off in naming Bobby Bones and calling him out.
• [44:05] – Todd introduces the "Chrisley’s Red Flag Game."
• [45:03 – 51:48] – Dating and relationship red flags segment.
• [42:26 – 43:10] – Reflections on their upbringing, education, and cultural experiences.

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Overall Tone & Takeaways

The episode is packed with classic Chrisley energy: sarcastic, playful, sometimes brutally honest, and frequently self-deprecating. It’s a family not afraid to air (and laugh at) their dirty laundry, call out each other’s flaws (and the world’s), or defend their crew at all costs. The "red flag" theme is a playful through-line, but the real substance is in the window it provides into the Chrisleys’ unguarded love, loyalty, and generational clashes.

For newcomers or fans, this episode is a perfect microcosm of the Chrisley family dynamic: loving, dysfunctional, outrageous, and always entertaining.

Transcript

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[Todd Chrisley]

Welcome to Two Sons and Me, Chase Grayson. Thank you both.

[Chase Chrisley]

Thank you.

[Todd Chrisley]

It's good to see you both. Although I do see you quite often. You're not so much anymore. You've kind of flown the coop.

[Grayson Chrisley]

I come home.

[Chase Chrisley]

I flew.

[Todd Chrisley]

Yeah, you flew, but you just kind of fluttered.

[Chase Chrisley]

No, I. I soared through the sky.

[Todd Chrisley]

So, you know, are you going to

[Chase Chrisley]

be sad when we get to Texas and I'm no longer a roommate?

[Todd Chrisley]

No, I'm not. Because I mean it's. You're supposed to have your own home, you're supposed to live your own life and then I'm just supposed to have a key to it. To your right and your home, right?

[Chase Chrisley]

To both.

[Todd Chrisley]

Yes.

[Chase Chrisley]

Yeah. Okay.

[Grayson Chrisley]

Yikes.

[Todd Chrisley]

First time I ever come to one of my kids houses and I can't just walk in. We got a problem. Because when y' all come home, you don't ring my doorbell, do you? Y' all just come in, right?

[Chase Chrisley]

I ring the doorbell.

[Todd Chrisley]

Only if you're locked out. You are the you out of all of my children are the least courteous.

[Chase Chrisley]

Shut up.

[Todd Chrisley]

The least courteous that is not true.

[Chase Chrisley]

That's not. God, that is not true.

[Todd Chrisley]

You leave your room in a mess.

[Chase Chrisley]

It's my room.

[Todd Chrisley]

You dump the laundry in the floor

[Chase Chrisley]

for your mother to do. No, that's not true. I started my.

[Todd Chrisley]

I'm bringing your mom on this pod.

[Chase Chrisley]

I don't care.

[Todd Chrisley]

I'm bringing her on this.

[Chase Chrisley]

You want to bring. Y' all are all lying. Sex a dump.

[Todd Chrisley]

I'll call your mother, and I'll ask her. Let me see. Because we'll agree that your mother's not going to lie, right?

[Chase Chrisley]

No. She might lie.

[Todd Chrisley]

Oh, here we go.

[Grayson Chrisley]

You forget. He ain't calling about me.

[Chase Chrisley]

Hello?

[Todd Chrisley]

Hey, we're recording right now, but I wanted to ask you something. We're talking about that if I ever have to go to one of my children's homes and I can't just walk in, we got a problem.

[Chase Chrisley]

Yes.

[Todd Chrisley]

And I said, do y' all ring the doorbell when you come to our house? Grayson said, no. Chase says, I do. I said, oh, my God. You are the least courteous of all of the children.

[Chase Chrisley]

Right?

[Todd Chrisley]

And he. And he said, are you kidding me? I said, chase, you don't clean your room. You fill the laundry room floor up with. For your mother to do your laundry. He said, no, that's true.

[Chase Chrisley]

Okay, well, he is hallucinating. Okay, here we go.

[Grayson Chrisley]

Am I not being first?

[Todd Chrisley]

I'm telling you the truth now.

[Chase Chrisley]

I love you, and. But you're.

[Todd Chrisley]

Yeah, you're bad. Yeah, he is like. Like. You're like. He's living in a dorm, right?

[Chase Chrisley]

Yeah.

[Todd Chrisley]

Maybe just, like, a hostel or whatever they call them things y' all go to.

[Grayson Chrisley]

Hel.

[Chase Chrisley]

All right.

[Todd Chrisley]

I love you. Okay, so now who's right?

[Chase Chrisley]

Oh, mama lied for dad.

[Todd Chrisley]

Oh, God. Shut up.

[Chase Chrisley]

Well, it's coming to an end.

[Todd Chrisley]

Yes and no. I'll be fine. Are you gonna be fine? That's the question.

[Chase Chrisley]

Yeah, Chase, I will be fine.

[Todd Chrisley]

Shut up. You are literally an emo.

[Chase Chrisley]

No, I'm not.

[Todd Chrisley]

You are an emojis.

[Chase Chrisley]

I. It doesn't matter what I do. I get questioned and interrogated about every single thing that I do sign.

[Todd Chrisley]

Priors.

[Chase Chrisley]

No. Well, prior.

[Todd Chrisley]

Exactly. Priors.

[Chase Chrisley]

You got priors.

[Todd Chrisley]

I got no priors. You better check with President Trump. I got nothing. I'm clean.

[Chase Chrisley]

That's the last thing I would use to describe you.

[Todd Chrisley]

Claim.

[Chase Chrisley]

Yeah.

[Todd Chrisley]

What are you talking about?

[Chase Chrisley]

You're messy.

[Todd Chrisley]

Dad, I'm not messy. What are you talking about?

[Chase Chrisley]

See, with your relationships.

[Todd Chrisley]

What do you mean?

[Chase Chrisley]

You're messy. You're messy.

[Todd Chrisley]

I don't. Messy. You're messing up six relationships, and every

[Chase Chrisley]

last one of them is messy.

[Todd Chrisley]

Well, literally, it's me having to try to uncover all the lies you're telling me.

[Chase Chrisley]

I'm not telling you any lies.

[Todd Chrisley]

You covering up something or. Savannah. Savannah living a whole fucking three life. Three lives before we find out about the first one. So, yeah, I got to be messy in order to track down the truth. No. So if that's what you want to

[Chase Chrisley]

call that's a lie.

[Todd Chrisley]

So let me ask you something. At what point do you think that my temper is better today than it was when you were growing up?

[Chase Chrisley]

Yes.

[Grayson Chrisley]

Even I think that.

[Todd Chrisley]

Okay, you first. Why? What has changed?

[Chase Chrisley]

I mean, it's still in there. It's definitely still in there, but it's just. I don't know. I think it's just because you've gotten older. Like, you don't stress out about the things that you used to stress out about.

[Todd Chrisley]

Okay.

[Chase Chrisley]

But apparently, according to the last five minutes, you do, so I stress out

[Todd Chrisley]

because you should be taking care of you.

[Chase Chrisley]

I do.

[Todd Chrisley]

I should not be folding your damn dirty underwear. I shouldn't be having to do any of that. Learn to do laundry. You've been taught.

[Chase Chrisley]

You well, whoever did my laundry shrunk one of my shirts. So we're gonna have some problems when we get home.

[Todd Chrisley]

Was it the laundry that shrunk the shirt?

[Chase Chrisley]

It was the person that did the laundry that shrunk.

[Todd Chrisley]

Was it the person that did the laundry that shrunk the shirt? Or did you outgrow the shirt?

[Chase Chrisley]

No, I just got it. Street rap. I get body shamed.

[Grayson Chrisley]

Oh, here we go.

[Chase Chrisley]

No, I get body shamed. I get interrogated. I get questioned.

[Todd Chrisley]

And does that tell you how much I love you?

[Chase Chrisley]

No, it doesn't work for the FBI.

[Todd Chrisley]

No, I don't trust.

[Grayson Chrisley]

If we didn't care, we wouldn't say anything, right?

[Chase Chrisley]

Don't say anything. Stop caring. Stop caring. If you love me to death, hold your breath and die.

[Todd Chrisley]

Do you think that my temper is better today?

[Chase Chrisley]

Yeah.

[Todd Chrisley]

And in what way?

[Grayson Chrisley]

I just feel like little things that used to piss you off don't anymore.

[Todd Chrisley]

I think I have come to a place in my life.

[Chase Chrisley]

You definitely still have moments. Like you yelled at me a couple weeks ago, and I was like, who the. Who does he think he is?

[Todd Chrisley]

Your daddy. That's who. Your daddy. I don't. I'm. I try to be better until people push my button.

[Chase Chrisley]

I don't push your buttons. You. That's what you allow to happen. You're right. You stomp you have full. Shut up.

[Todd Chrisley]

He plays, but he's on my buttons like that damn Tom Hanks in that. On that piano in that damn movie.

[Chase Chrisley]

Oh, yeah. Everyone knows what you're talking about now. What the Better analysis.

[Todd Chrisley]

Toy Story.

[Chase Chrisley]

We don't know what you're talking about. That's my point.

[Todd Chrisley]

What's that movie with Tom Hanks where he's dancing on the piano? Do you know what it was?

[Chase Chrisley]

No. No one knows. Good job. It's concerning.

[Todd Chrisley]

I think everyone.

[Chase Chrisley]

Yeah, everyone. You just want to highlight. You just want to highlight.

[Todd Chrisley]

Yep. What's that con.

[Chase Chrisley]

Big.

[Todd Chrisley]

Big.

[Chase Chrisley]

Yeah. Y' all just want to jump on my. For no reason. Like, for the record, everyone in this family has their own profile that we could jump on in every category. I'm just not jumping on y'. All, but I'm about to start jumping.

[Todd Chrisley]

But I think that we should. I think you should jump on my profile today.

[Chase Chrisley]

I think. Oh, don't worry.

[Todd Chrisley]

Go ahead and jump on my pro. What do you. What is my profile? If you had to watch my care enough.

[Chase Chrisley]

I don't care enough to jump in your. Because I've got my own to take care of.

[Todd Chrisley]

But you just said you was gonna jump in everybody else's profile because y'

[Chase Chrisley]

all are tagging my.

[Todd Chrisley]

We're not tagging you. We're not tagging your. But I want to know what my profile looks like to you.

[Chase Chrisley]

You're a psychopath.

[Todd Chrisley]

I'm a size. That's one thing. I got to have more than that.

[Chase Chrisley]

You're a psychopath. You don't respect boundaries. You're nosy, manipulative at times, judgmental. Me, Hell's going to freeze over. Stop lying.

[Grayson Chrisley]

Do you think judgmental sometimes.

[Todd Chrisley]

Oh, my God. I've never been a kid.

[Chase Chrisley]

But that's the thing. That's where the psychopath comes in. Because you genuinely do not give a. That your behavior is not healthy behavior. And if your therapist tells you it's time to fire that.

[Todd Chrisley]

First of all, I don't have a therapist because I care more about other people.

[Chase Chrisley]

That's another red flag. It's another red flag.

[Todd Chrisley]

That's a weak profile. Where is the part about it is

[Chase Chrisley]

weak on a moral standard? Yes, you are very weak. And low. And. And low. Your gas tank is very low when it comes to being emotionally healthy with the way that you interact with the people that you claim to love.

[Todd Chrisley]

Is that a crock of.

[Grayson Chrisley]

It sounds like he's been holding a lot of this back for a long time.

[Todd Chrisley]

I think so, too.

[Chase Chrisley]

I'VE been quite vocal about it. You guys just ignore it.

[Todd Chrisley]

Well, maybe because all of us, when you say it, we think you're full of.

[Chase Chrisley]

I don't give. That's another trait of the psychopath that goes back to that. So you're just proving my point. You keep circling back, proving how unhealthy we all are because.

[Todd Chrisley]

So what? Would you. Would you like me to give you your profile?

[Chase Chrisley]

I don't need you to. I know who I am.

[Todd Chrisley]

Okay. What would you consider your profile to be? And we'll tell you if it's even close to what we think it is.

[Chase Chrisley]

I don't care what you think because you're a psycho. That's my whole point. I don't give a what your opinion is on my life because it's my life, not your life. And I know that you. You think that you get to like. My life is your life.

[Todd Chrisley]

It is. No, no, it is.

[Chase Chrisley]

No, there's my life. See how the psycho always. He' not doubling down. He's now tripling and quadrupling down.

[Todd Chrisley]

That's right.

[Chase Chrisley]

That's an issue, man. You need counseling.

[Todd Chrisley]

My life is built on making sure that y' all are safe and healthy. And we're not healthy.

[Chase Chrisley]

None of us are healthy.

[Todd Chrisley]

Well, we were trying to get there.

[Chase Chrisley]

No, there goes back to the psycho, back to the judgmental, back to the shaming. Come on, Gray, you got to back me up on this.

[Grayson Chrisley]

I think we're all pretty up.

[Chase Chrisley]

But why.

[Todd Chrisley]

No, don't you even.

[Grayson Chrisley]

Let's. I don't think we have enough time for that.

[Todd Chrisley]

Do you think that he's accurate when

[Chase Chrisley]

he says in all seriousness.

[Grayson Chrisley]

Not all of it.

[Todd Chrisley]

Some of it. Okay, what is it that you think that.

[Grayson Chrisley]

But we all. But the same thing that he's saying. You do. He does.

[Chase Chrisley]

I do not. I've mama does actively work on it to be a better person. I do Bible study.

[Todd Chrisley]

As he said. I do Bible study. I won't know what that church is. So you've now I'm a psycho.

[Grayson Chrisley]

Full blown manipulative.

[Todd Chrisley]

He said manipulative.

[Chase Chrisley]

Yeah, Grayson, double down a little.

[Todd Chrisley]

Manipulative.

[Chase Chrisley]

Judgmental.

[Todd Chrisley]

Judgmental. I've never said. I've never been judgmental. And what else?

[Chase Chrisley]

What else did I say I could be.

[Todd Chrisley]

I could be psychotic Based on what I've gone through in my life. There could be some.

[Chase Chrisley]

Deflect. Deflect.

[Todd Chrisley]

No. Ownership. There could be.

[Chase Chrisley]

That's right.

[Todd Chrisley]

There could be some of that. So do you think that I am judgmental?

[Grayson Chrisley]

You have your moments.

[Todd Chrisley]

Okay? Do you have any, like, examples?

[Chase Chrisley]

I got a list.

[Grayson Chrisley]

I think there's 11 seasons of examples.

[Todd Chrisley]

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[Chase Chrisley]

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[Todd Chrisley]

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[Todd Chrisley]

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[Chase Chrisley]

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[Todd Chrisley]

So now you being shady as hell, too?

[Grayson Chrisley]

Just saying.

[Todd Chrisley]

Some people say that I am judgmental because I'm telling you the truth about.

[Chase Chrisley]

No, but you.

[Todd Chrisley]

Things that you don't obviously have not seen within yourself. So I do point out to people that I care about that that doesn't look right. Or you should think about rationalizing.

[Chase Chrisley]

This is rationalizing toxic behavior.

[Todd Chrisley]

Or you were sitting here trying to minimize responsibility.

[Chase Chrisley]

No, I take toxic behavior. Let me tell you something, you rat bitch. You go back and look at everything I do. Go to Bible study, but you make me flirt with the devil. If you go back and you look at all of our podcasts where y' all have dragged me onto your shows without compensation. I must note and had to. I told my story, and I've taken full ownership in my.

[Todd Chrisley]

Yeah, but you still do things to screw with people every day.

[Chase Chrisley]

I do not.

[Todd Chrisley]

You do like your laundry. That is screwing with people.

[Chase Chrisley]

Well, if Joe's still here, we wouldn't have this issue.

[Todd Chrisley]

Or you could learn to do your laundry.

[Chase Chrisley]

I don't like it. I don't enjoy.

[Todd Chrisley]

We don't like to do yours either.

[Chase Chrisley]

You said you enjoy joy laundry, so I was just giving you something to make you feel happy.

[Todd Chrisley]

Oh, God. Oh, me. That's just not true.

[Chase Chrisley]

It's 100 true.

[Todd Chrisley]

Okay, so then when I say to y', all be careful, I'm getting out of your business. I'm not gonna be anything. What do y' all do?

[Chase Chrisley]

No, please. And you never said that to me.

[Todd Chrisley]

I have said that.

[Chase Chrisley]

No, you haven't. You've never gotten out. You have never gotten out. That's why I wasn't. That's like whenever. Like the. We were going through the investigation and the indictment, it didn't really shock me that much because I felt like I've been investigated for my whole damn life.

[Todd Chrisley]

Well, we've had to investigate you.

[Chase Chrisley]

You don't have to. That's the thing. You can press pause. You can hit stop at the stop sign and turn the around and go home. No, you don't need to be doing it.

[Todd Chrisley]

No, I will always have to make sure y' all are doing okay. Do you feel like that I'm too intrusive into your life?

[Grayson Chrisley]

Not really into mine.

[Chase Chrisley]

Cuz you don't do it to him.

[Todd Chrisley]

Cuz he doesn't give me a reason to.

[Chase Chrisley]

I don't either.

[Todd Chrisley]

Oh, my God.

[Chase Chrisley]

I don't. When I. I have not done anything in a year.

[Todd Chrisley]

A year?

[Grayson Chrisley]

Yeah.

[Todd Chrisley]

Look at. Look at him trying to figure did I really do.

[Chase Chrisley]

No, I haven't done a year. It's been. It's. I'm coming up on a year.

[Todd Chrisley]

Have you lied me about anything in the past? Say m. No, you haven't.

[Grayson Chrisley]

You might as well just tell. Tell the truth.

[Todd Chrisley]

Okay, so the more that you lied to me.

[Chase Chrisley]

I have not lied. If I don't tell you something, that's not lying you. I've never been asked a question where I lied to you about it.

[Grayson Chrisley]

Uhhuh.

[Todd Chrisley]

Well, I actually didn't know to. I asked that question because I thought my son had better sense. But that's not lying.

[Chase Chrisley]

That's you being omission.

[Todd Chrisley]

That's. That's lying by omission.

[Chase Chrisley]

No, it's not.

[Todd Chrisley]

Yes, it is.

[Chase Chrisley]

No, it's not.

[Todd Chrisley]

Do you. Let me ask something. If you do something.

[Chase Chrisley]

I didn't do anything.

[Todd Chrisley]

Let me ask you something. If you're doing something and you know that it's not going to be something that the whole family is going to agree with or that we're going to have an issue with.

[Chase Chrisley]

That's my thing. The whole family doesn't have to agree with it. It's by.

[Todd Chrisley]

If your decision. If your life affects the rest of our family, it would.

[Chase Chrisley]

No, it wouldn't.

[Todd Chrisley]

Do you think that it's lying by omission if you keep doing something that you know is going to have a negative impact on the family?

[Chase Chrisley]

It's not going to have a negative impact. It's not.

[Grayson Chrisley]

I think it depends on.

[Todd Chrisley]

You're right, it's not.

[Grayson Chrisley]

Do I think it depends on what it is?

[Todd Chrisley]

What do you think is a point to where you say, dad, it's too

[Grayson Chrisley]

much like you being too much?

[Todd Chrisley]

Yeah, that. Well, I don't know.

[Grayson Chrisley]

You don't really, like. You don't really pick into mine like you do them.

[Chase Chrisley]

I like.

[Grayson Chrisley]

I will admit in some situations you were too involved, but not really with me.

[Todd Chrisley]

So do you. You being the youngest, you've watched everything that's gone on in front of you. What do you think will be that you will do differently that will keep me out of your business?

[Grayson Chrisley]

I think there's certain things that, like in a relationship that you just don't have to know and.

[Chase Chrisley]

Thank you.

[Grayson Chrisley]

I thought. No, no, I. You didn't let me finish. I blame you and Savannah for that. Because y' all told him too much. That's the issue is y' all want to go back and telling him everything, and then when he says something about it, then don't tell him everything.

[Todd Chrisley]

Yeah, be like grayson, don't tell me.

[Grayson Chrisley]

Well, no, I'm saying, what's the reason that every time you get in a

[Todd Chrisley]

fight, call the stupid.

[Chase Chrisley]

No, I don't do it.

[Grayson Chrisley]

You used to. What's the point? Because you know you're gonna be over it in 20 minutes, so. But he ain't.

[Todd Chrisley]

And they. He acts like that he's going to stay mad at me, and that's just not happening.

[Chase Chrisley]

Keep pushing that button, you'll find out

[Todd Chrisley]

it's just not gonna happen. It's not an option for you to be. To. To be mad at me.

[Chase Chrisley]

It is an option. Psychopath.

[Todd Chrisley]

I am your psychopathic daddy. That is going to always be your daddy. I'm always being your shit until I know you got your shit. I can retire from it. And I'd love to retire from it.

[Chase Chrisley]

Well, consider yourself retired.

[Todd Chrisley]

I'm still full. I am still even more fully engaged now.

[Chase Chrisley]

No, you're not.

[Todd Chrisley]

Do you feel like that your family. Because, I mean, like you've Talked about the dynamics of what the show did and not having any privacy and all that. But do you feel like that I invade your privacy?

[Chase Chrisley]

Yes.

[Grayson Chrisley]

Not with me.

[Todd Chrisley]

He lives with me. And he said, I'm invading his privacy.

[Chase Chrisley]

We said. And that's about to come to an end.

[Todd Chrisley]

I know, but are you going to be able to cope with that?

[Chase Chrisley]

Dad, I swear.

[Todd Chrisley]

And they're on the bed with me, talking to.

[Chase Chrisley]

Getting out of my camp. I'm getting out of my camp.

[Todd Chrisley]

You had a much better camp than what I've had. So you're not gonna have nobody to come and not lay on the bed with and talk to and laugh at memes. So, you know, I'm not gonna do the me. I'm not gonna do the reels with you anymore because you're grown now.

[Chase Chrisley]

You don't respond anyways. You don't want.

[Todd Chrisley]

You don't want to do the real game. So if that's the case, see, then

[Chase Chrisley]

this is the manipulation that I was referring to. So now when you don't cave in and let him walk all over you and trample you like a dead dog on the side of the street and there's cars passing, if you don't let him do that, then he's gonna withdraw, which is toxic and not healthy. He'll withdraw and start taking things that he knows that you enjoy about your relationship. He'll. He'll stop doing that as a form of torture and punishment.

[Todd Chrisley]

So if I take. So if I take the real game from you, that's torture.

[Chase Chrisley]

I just took it from you too, So I took it back.

[Todd Chrisley]

It's gonna be sad one day when the good Lord calls me home and you're left here by yourself. You're gonna be saying, I wish my daddy was in my business.

[Chase Chrisley]

I don't think that's what I say. I will miss him dearly, but I won't miss that part.

[Todd Chrisley]

Oh, you will. You'll be sitting there saying, yep, my poor old daddy, he told me about this shit. He told me it was going to happen. I wish he was here.

[Chase Chrisley]

And there's a thing called manifest thing, and he manifests negative shit for my life.

[Todd Chrisley]

That's not true.

[Chase Chrisley]

Yes, he does. He just speaks bad into my life.

[Todd Chrisley]

That's not true. I pray for you every day, every morning and every night. And I pray for God to get to place a protective edge around you, keep a healing hand on you at all times, to rebuke drugs, alcohol, anger, resentment, jealousy, greed. I re. I want to rebuke all of that. And then I say, God, I'm asking for you to lead him on the path that you would have him to go on.

[Chase Chrisley]

That God wants me to go now. What, Todd?

[Todd Chrisley]

But God talks to me. No, about you. God talks to me about you.

[Chase Chrisley]

Blasphemy. Read the Bible.

[Todd Chrisley]

God talks about you. God says, Todd, that you have a sheep leaving the flock.

[Chase Chrisley]

I'm not. I'm not a sheep.

[Todd Chrisley]

Shepherd him back in. Shepherd him back in. Now I'm the shepherd.

[Chase Chrisley]

No, you're not a shepherd. I don't agree with that. I don't agree with that. Your sheep are gone, then.

[Todd Chrisley]

No, my sheep's not gone.

[Chase Chrisley]

Your sheep are gone.

[Todd Chrisley]

So you have. Now you're trying to say that I create drama, is what you're trying to say.

[Chase Chrisley]

Well, 100. Yes, I would agree with that. Secondly, it's just unnecessary. Just back the. And shut up.

[Todd Chrisley]

Do you think that I create drama?

[Grayson Chrisley]

Not for me.

[Todd Chrisley]

Do you think if we had to say.

[Grayson Chrisley]

He doesn't create drama for me. If I didn't hear, though.

[Todd Chrisley]

If we had to say that there was. Out of all your siblings, who. Who would you say is the most drama causes the most drama now? I'm talking about when I saw your siblings. I'm talking about you and Savannah.

[Grayson Chrisley]

No, I know that's. I don't know.

[Todd Chrisley]

It's.

[Grayson Chrisley]

It's him.

[Chase Chrisley]

I don't stir up with anybody.

[Todd Chrisley]

Chase, you.

[Chase Chrisley]

You know that. If something starts. If someone says something to me and I retaliate.

[Todd Chrisley]

Chase, if someone says motor mouth, we've had enough. If someone says something to you, it's telephone, telegraph, tail chat.

[Chase Chrisley]

I don't tell anybody anymore. I don't even talk to anybody. And still in my business.

[Todd Chrisley]

Because I love you.

[Chase Chrisley]

But love me less.

[Todd Chrisley]

No, I won't. Never let you. I'm gonna love you more.

[Chase Chrisley]

Thank you.

[Todd Chrisley]

I will love you more for the rest of your life. Every day I love you more. Every day I love you more.

[Chase Chrisley]

Do you remember when they came in and gave you an IV at the house when you were dying of sickness? You had the flu.

[Grayson Chrisley]

You are a little dramatic, a little after. Yeah, I've noticed that.

[Todd Chrisley]

I don't want to be stuck. And I'm. I'm afraid of nails.

[Chase Chrisley]

News flash. Nobody believes that.

[Grayson Chrisley]

What, you don't like to get.

[Chase Chrisley]

You got work done.

[Todd Chrisley]

I was unconscious.

[Chase Chrisley]

You get Botox?

[Todd Chrisley]

Yeah, but they numb that.

[Chase Chrisley]

You get numbed for Botox?

[Todd Chrisley]

I do.

[Chase Chrisley]

What a.

[Todd Chrisley]

They rub that cream and stuff on. Speaking of, you could use some. I know.

[Chase Chrisley]

If your forehead moves, your poor.

[Todd Chrisley]

I don't think that I am that dramatic.

[Chase Chrisley]

Oh, my God. Well, you're. This is the going back to the delusion. So we can add delusional on there, too. Let's keep it going.

[Todd Chrisley]

I think that I am very vocal about. Vocal about things that I'm passionate about.

[Chase Chrisley]

Dad, you're. You're vocal about anything. It doesn't matter what it is. You're. You're vocal. Your presence is known and annoyed.

[Todd Chrisley]

Do you feel that way, son? Because you know you're my favorite.

[Chase Chrisley]

I thought you didn't have favorites.

[Todd Chrisley]

I'm sorry I didn't make you hear that.

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[Todd Chrisley]

Does it bother you?

[Chase Chrisley]

Yes, it does.

[Todd Chrisley]

Does it bother you if you hear someone say something negative about your family?

[Chase Chrisley]

Yes, if they say it out loud. I mean, I don't pay attention to. People are like, online. No, I don't read comments.

[Todd Chrisley]

Right. But like, if you weren't. Let's just say you were in a restaurant and someone came up and said something negative.

[Chase Chrisley]

I'm slapping the out of them.

[Grayson Chrisley]

I think we learned what would happen with that.

[Chase Chrisley]

Wow. Yeah. Don't talk about my family. I'll go to jail. Be out in the morning.

[Todd Chrisley]

Well, listen, you are Chris Lee. Well, there was. I mean, this just recently happened.

[Chase Chrisley]

You read all the comments?

[Grayson Chrisley]

He does.

[Todd Chrisley]

I don't read all of them.

[Grayson Chrisley]

No, he does. He sits there in his bed, and I've watched him do it.

[Chase Chrisley]

I'll post something and I'll have a thousand good comments. And then one comment will say, chase is not looking great, and dad will take a screenshot and send me the one. Or if someone's saying something negative

[Todd Chrisley]

because I wanted you not to think that. That you was knocking it out of the park that day with your appearance.

[Chase Chrisley]

I don't even look at the comments, though. So why not just let me live my life and then you would think

[Todd Chrisley]

that that was okay.

[Chase Chrisley]

Is laid up big as a damn walrus with six cats. I don't care what that big says.

[Todd Chrisley]

Speaking of that, I was in the Publix when we had the snowstorm, the ice storm out there with your. At your nanny's house, and this woman was in there and you know, I don't know where stuff is in a grocery store. So your mother's on the phone with me telling me, todd, go to this aisle. It's going to be on this aisle. Look to your left. And this is, I don't know which is worse, me not knowing how to do it or your mother being able to guide me through it.

[Chase Chrisley]

I'm give you some advice. If you just look up, everything's labeled, all the every single aisle. If you look straight up, it tells you exactly what's on that aisle.

[Todd Chrisley]

Well, I don't need to be doing all that. But this woman, I'm on the phone and she comes over and she had on this white jacket that what it was supposed to been white but she clearly has had it so long that it's turned yellow and these ratty ass sweatpants and she's big. And she said, this guy not being

[Chase Chrisley]

judgmental at all over here.

[Todd Chrisley]

I'm describing to you what happened. And so she comes and she goes, you should be in prison. That's what she said to me. And I said, and seeing as how you and I are not going to agree on that, I says my advice to you is you need to become best friends with Ozempic.

[Grayson Chrisley]

Skip a meal, put the fork down and.

[Todd Chrisley]

But who says stuff like that to people and who has the balls to

[Grayson Chrisley]

do that are so, so insecure about themselves. Because if I was big, I'd be mad as hell too.

[Chase Chrisley]

Did you see that real I sent you. It said before you come at me, make sure you're not fat, your family's not broken up, you don't have any mental illnesses and your kids are pretty because if not I'm getting all of them.

[Todd Chrisley]

And you know that we will do that 100. We will do that. Well, you know, because Savannah just finished doing the View and there was. You had a, a ton of great comments and then you had a lot of negative.

[Chase Chrisley]

Yeah.

[Todd Chrisley]

Just because of. People that watch the View are going to lean more left and so they obviously are going to have what their opinions are. But this one, and I'm not going to call you out by name right now, just know you've got my attention. This one so called personality who has a radio show talked about Savannah being on the View. But now he's talked about us as well.

[Grayson Chrisley]

He has, multiple times.

[Todd Chrisley]

But he's talked about us as well. And the irony of it is is that I've been on his show.

[Chase Chrisley]

I know who you're talking about. I hate him.

[Grayson Chrisley]

And you know the craziest part, though, is he'll talk about it. On it. But he has never once had the balls to respond to anybody in the family when they call.

[Chase Chrisley]

Nobody worried about him and that ugly ass little baby. He had no talking about that.

[Grayson Chrisley]

Well, he's not good looking himself, so I'll say it.

[Chase Chrisley]

Bobby Bones, you are a piece of garbage. And you've made a career backpacking off of other people's talent because you didn't have any yourself. So now you're a glorified gossip column.

[Todd Chrisley]

But, you know. So let's talk about that. So while we were away, Bobby Bones, who. I had been on his show because he needed ratings. So I'd been on his show with a guy there named Lunchbox or they called him Lunchbox or whatever, and actually got a letter from him wanting to come and visit me. And I heard that he had been talking shit, which, Bobby, I don't understand that because you have baggage in your own family that you really don't want me to get into, because I could. And then he wants to talk shit about me and your mother, who. He's kissed our ass here in Nashville ever since he's been here. I mean, let's. He had such a up childhood because, yes, I will come for you since you decided to do that. He had such a up childhood that it almost made him to the point where he didn't want to procreate, which is still debatable for you. But he wants to talk shit about everybody else because no one's listening to him.

[Grayson Chrisley]

Yeah, he didn't know what he did until he started talking shit about us.

[Todd Chrisley]

Because he needed to be relevant. He needed to be relevant. But at any rate, just know who you're dealing with, because Nashville's not that big. Nashville's not that big. So I'm home now. Meet me, show up. Have that same energy when you meet me that you had when you was protected, or so you thought. But you got people like Bobby Bonds that did that shit. But this other individual that I'm talking about has built his life off of living in the midst of female chaos. So he wants to. He does everything that a woman does except bleed.

[Grayson Chrisley]

He lived his life being a mediator.

[Todd Chrisley]

There you go.

[Grayson Chrisley]

All he did, that's his entire career is being a mediator.

[Todd Chrisley]

Exactly.

[Grayson Chrisley]

I can sit there and listen just as good as you can, too.

[Todd Chrisley]

And so my thing is, is that he wanted to talk shit about Savannah. Because I just got this message yesterday and I said it to Savannah this morning, and Savannah's like, Daddy, I don't care what he says. Yeah, he is a true non issue. He is a. A lush drunk. And what was the fourth age that meme said? If you're going to talk about my family.

[Chase Chrisley]

Yeah. Make sure. Make sure that you're skinny.

[Todd Chrisley]

He's not skinny.

[Chase Chrisley]

Together.

[Todd Chrisley]

He doesn't have. His kids are pretty and his kids are not pretty.

[Chase Chrisley]

And you make sure your kids are pretty

[Grayson Chrisley]

broken up.

[Chase Chrisley]

Make sure your family's not broken up.

[Todd Chrisley]

I know nothing about his family other than that all of them are unattractive.

[Grayson Chrisley]

Can't be too good if he came from.

[Todd Chrisley]

So you know he does not have attractive parents. He's not attractive. And his children that he has had via surrogate is not attractive. So I'm not going to call you out by name, but you know who you are. But you get messy with my daughter again and I'll talk about how you have your relationships and how much they cost you on Fire Island. So with that being said, we can move on from that because I've kind of addressed those two things. It always fascinates me that people will talk shit.

[Chase Chrisley]

I love how we started this conversation by asking if we get bothered if somebody says something about somebody in our family. And now we just exposed one thing

[Grayson Chrisley]

is if you say something about somebody, we're all gone.

[Todd Chrisley]

Exact. And that's the way it should be.

[Grayson Chrisley]

The only reason Bobby Bones talked shit is because he thought that y' all couldn't defend yourselves.

[Todd Chrisley]

That's exactly right.

[Grayson Chrisley]

And he thought he had a lot of time until he had to worry about it. Well, guess what?

[Todd Chrisley]

Exactly. And no, no one cares about what he says now because he. I'm home. So if he's got something to say, he knows how to get in touch with me. But I want you to meet. I want you to meet me privately. That's what I want you to do. Meet me privately. We'll find out if those Pilates have worked for you. The. It's amazing to me, though, that you have people that will talk this shit, but it's always behind the scenes because at every award show. Kisses my ass.

[Chase Chrisley]

Yeah.

[Todd Chrisley]

At every event that we ran into him. Kisses my ass.

[Grayson Chrisley]

That softball thing we played in Kissed our ass.

[Todd Chrisley]

Exactly. You know, in New York at the Javits center. The other one kisses my ass. So don't do that with me. Don't throw rocks and hide your hands. Come at me directly. I'll have more respect for you.

[Chase Chrisley]

But now it's like we're in a position now to where like we'll Cut you out in public. We don't care.

[Todd Chrisley]

No, I care less today about hurting your feelings.

[Chase Chrisley]

Yeah.

[Todd Chrisley]

Literally, I will head butt you in the middle of a Mexican restaurant. Try me. So I don't give a. About that, but you talk, and I don't. You know, I don't give a. What nobody says about me. Yeah, but say something about one of my kids or my wife. Meet me in that Mexican restaurant. I can show you better than I can tell you.

[Chase Chrisley]

So the answer to the question is yes, if we all will say something or someone saying something about someone in the family.

[Todd Chrisley]

Do you feel that way? Oh, yeah.

[Grayson Chrisley]

Yeah. I've gotten into a few times, but I kind of.

[Chase Chrisley]

I'm kind of the point in my life where, like, I'm not gonna sit here and go back and forth with you like this.

[Todd Chrisley]

Like, I'm just gonna punch you.

[Chase Chrisley]

Yeah. Just come and see me.

[Todd Chrisley]

I'm gonna punch you.

[Chase Chrisley]

Let me see you out.

[Todd Chrisley]

Right.

[Chase Chrisley]

And I'll embarrass you.

[Todd Chrisley]

Let me ask you something. On a scale of 1 to 10, emotionally, how do you. How would you react if your girlfriend

[Chase Chrisley]

broke up with you compared to, like, back in the day?

[Todd Chrisley]

Well, like, right now. We're living right now. Like. Like, one out of ten. How would you. How would you react?

[Chase Chrisley]

I mean, if I was in, like, a serious relationship where I was. Like, I was gonna. It's going to break my heart. I mean, I probably. I would react differently. I mean, I'd probably be very sad.

[Todd Chrisley]

Okay. Grayson.

[Grayson Chrisley]

Yeah.

[Chase Chrisley]

I mean. I mean, there's only one way to roll up, answer it, and get angry and be loud and stuff. Now just be like. Okay, just take it on the chin.

[Todd Chrisley]

What if someone were. I think we've already covered this. But disrespects you in public. I think we already know what.

[Grayson Chrisley]

Slap on them.

[Chase Chrisley]

If it's a male. Yeah.

[Todd Chrisley]

What if someone talked poorly about me?

[Chase Chrisley]

I'm probably slapping the dog out of them.

[Todd Chrisley]

What? How do you feel when someone talks over you when you're telling a story?

[Chase Chrisley]

I'll just stop telling the story and walk away.

[Todd Chrisley]

Oh, okay. You.

[Grayson Chrisley]

I do. I just stopped talking.

[Chase Chrisley]

Yeah.

[Todd Chrisley]

Okay.

[Chase Chrisley]

Now you just lost the privilege to have a conversation.

[Todd Chrisley]

How do you feel when I say

[Chase Chrisley]

you do that to me every day?

[Todd Chrisley]

That's not true. How do you feel when I say that your generation is soft? Soft.

[Chase Chrisley]

I feel like most of our generation is soft.

[Grayson Chrisley]

I think it is, too.

[Todd Chrisley]

Okay. All right, good. All right, good.

[Chase Chrisley]

I'm not one of those people.

[Todd Chrisley]

But how do you feel when people say that everything has been handed to you throughout your life.

[Chase Chrisley]

I mean, I'm not gonna sit here and act like I got it out the mud. Like, but, I mean, I think that is a misconception. People don't realize. Like, from the time we started filming up till now, like, we all got paid.

[Todd Chrisley]

Right.

[Chase Chrisley]

So, like, whenever I moved out, I was living on my own. Like, I was paying for all. I wasn't coming to you, and you weren't funding my lifestyle.

[Todd Chrisley]

Right.

[Chase Chrisley]

And my lifestyle was not one that I should have been doing, but it wasn't like, I was, like, disrespecting you by taking your money and doing.

[Todd Chrisley]

Right, Right. How do you feel when people say that you.

[Grayson Chrisley]

To be honest, I don't really care what they say.

[Chase Chrisley]

Opinions are, like, man, I don't.

[Todd Chrisley]

I don't.

[Chase Chrisley]

Everybody's got one.

[Grayson Chrisley]

Doesn't affect me at all. And if they're saying that, they're just mad that their parents didn't work as hard as mine.

[Todd Chrisley]

So how do you. If you were walking down a sidewalk and you tripped and fell in public, how would you fail?

[Chase Chrisley]

I'd probably laugh at myself.

[Grayson Chrisley]

I played off.

[Chase Chrisley]

Grayson would get worked up a little bit. That's your age, though. When I was your age, if I would have tripped and fallen, I would not have laughed at myself.

[Todd Chrisley]

How do you feel when someone says you're acting like your dad? Depends on.

[Chase Chrisley]

Tell me what I need to change.

[Todd Chrisley]

Okay.

[Grayson Chrisley]

Depends on the context.

[Chase Chrisley]

Yeah, the context. That's what matters.

[Grayson Chrisley]

Are we talking, like, now, dad? Are we talking, like, you just throw a lamp at somebody, dad,

[Chase Chrisley]

I'll throw

[Todd Chrisley]

a lamp that Todd is still there. We're well aware that Todd is still there. I'm not playing with you.

[Grayson Chrisley]

What I was saying earlier is speaking of it still being there. And I've said this to you before, but I see just being around because I was homeschooled, but being around more kids now, I see the way that, like, they talk to their parents, and I'm like, if I ever did that, my dad probably would have ripped my throat out of my neck and down my neck.

[Todd Chrisley]

I said I would have never.

[Grayson Chrisley]

The thought of even saying that would have never even crossed my mind, because I knew he would beat the out of me.

[Todd Chrisley]

Yes, that would been. Have. But, you know, but here's the thing. Your mother and I just had our podcast, Chris, at Confessions, and we were talking about Savannah calling her, like, a couple of weeks ago and said, I just want to tell you how grateful I am that y' all made us mind and that you Taught us proper table manners. Yeah.

[Chase Chrisley]

Proper etiquette.

[Todd Chrisley]

Because being around other people's kids, I now. And I see how they act, I'm like, thank God that my kids won't act like that, because I know better.

[Chase Chrisley]

Yeah.

[Todd Chrisley]

So do you feel that way?

[Chase Chrisley]

For sure.

[Todd Chrisley]

So then it was then that discipline worked, that making sure that y' all were doing the right thing worked, because that spilled over into you.

[Chase Chrisley]

And just making sure we were well educated.

[Todd Chrisley]

Right.

[Chase Chrisley]

I'm very, very thankful for my education.

[Todd Chrisley]

I love that you gray.

[Chase Chrisley]

And, like, I feel like we were exposed to so much.

[Todd Chrisley]

Like, we're very cultured because of shock and because we. We traveled, we made sure that y'.

[Grayson Chrisley]

All.

[Todd Chrisley]

You were never fed off of a child's menu.

[Chase Chrisley]

Yeah. And, like, I see a lot of people that have kids that are, like, really picky. Like, we didn't have that option to be picky.

[Todd Chrisley]

No.

[Chase Chrisley]

And I'm very grateful for that.

[Todd Chrisley]

I never said, okay, you have to pick from the child's menu. I said, get what you want, but whatever you get, you're gonna eat.

[Chase Chrisley]

Yeah.

[Todd Chrisley]

And I think that that's why y' all are such adventurous eaters today, because you were never told. No. Like, y' all eat caviar. I don't do that.

[Grayson Chrisley]

I eat all kinds of stuff.

[Chase Chrisley]

Yeah. I mean, I'll try anything.

[Todd Chrisley]

Yeah. Not me. And, like, Savannah eats escargot.

[Chase Chrisley]

I'm not doing that.

[Grayson Chrisley]

I don't. That's where I draw.

[Todd Chrisley]

I'm not interested in that shit. I can remember growing up in South Carolina. If I saw a snail, I went and put salt on it to kill it. But you guys grew up having. Were exposed to way more than what your mother and I were exposed to. So we wanted to make sure that you had that.

[Chase Chrisley]

Yeah.

[Todd Chrisley]

And, you know, you're 29. I'm hoping when you find the right girl and you get married, you're going to have children. What will be the thing that you do that you will not do with your children, that we have done with you?

[Chase Chrisley]

I don't know. I don't think I can answer that without being in that position, because I think that my mind will change. I think I'll listen more.

[Todd Chrisley]

Okay. What about you

[Grayson Chrisley]

listen and not be so quick to react.

[Chase Chrisley]

Okay.

[Todd Chrisley]

Yeah, because I am quick to react. My trigger is real quick. Let's play. Let's do this. Because I've come up or Aaron came up with this game for us to play, and it's called Chrisley's Red Flag Game. So are you still friends with any of your exes?

[Chase Chrisley]

No,

[Grayson Chrisley]

no, no.

[Todd Chrisley]

See, I'm still friends with all of my friends. My ex wife. Huh.

[Grayson Chrisley]

Not friends with any of mine. I don't like mine. I don't want to be friends.

[Chase Chrisley]

I don't wish mine. My. Any of my exes. Like, let me ask you this. I don't wish anything bad upon them.

[Todd Chrisley]

Let me ask you this. Do you have an ex that you wish you were friends with?

[Chase Chrisley]

No.

[Grayson Chrisley]

No.

[Chase Chrisley]

No. Oh, okay.

[Todd Chrisley]

Do you believe you should be posting your relationship online in our position?

[Chase Chrisley]

No, I don't think so. I don't think it. I mean, I think you can, but I don't think it's, like, important.

[Grayson Chrisley]

I think it opens up to a lot of problems because a lot of

[Chase Chrisley]

people don't are not signing up for

[Grayson Chrisley]

that and a lot of people aren't used to what we're used to.

[Todd Chrisley]

Right. Is it a red flag if you have to share your location with your girlfriend?

[Chase Chrisley]

I don't know. Because I'd share mine so she knows where to send the ambulance.

[Grayson Chrisley]

I don't think it's have to.

[Chase Chrisley]

I think it's more. What happened to I kind of. I would share mine so I don't get lost.

[Todd Chrisley]

Is it a red flag if you are checking your girlfriend's phone? Yeah, that's a red flag.

[Grayson Chrisley]

Yes.

[Todd Chrisley]

Okay. All right.

[Chase Chrisley]

I mean, that's like.

[Todd Chrisley]

I've never done it with my.

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Why.

[Todd Chrisley]

I have never checked my wife's phone. She does not to my knowledge. I don't think she's ever checked mine. She has my password. Because if something's got to be done on my phone, she does it. I just feel like if you've got to shit, you know, if you've got. I do believe in sharing locations for a safety. For us, for a safety thing. But I think that in a regular relationship, I would probably still do it because it's a safety thing. That's the person that you love.

[Grayson Chrisley]

I feel like it's not something worth

[Todd Chrisley]

fighting over, but I think if you

[Chase Chrisley]

have to fight over it, that's a red.

[Grayson Chrisley]

Yeah.

[Todd Chrisley]

Right. And I think that if you have to say, I mean, I have gone

[Chase Chrisley]

through someone's phone for. I mean, I felt like a doing it, but I have done it, but.

[Todd Chrisley]

And that relationship didn't last.

[Chase Chrisley]

Correct.

[Todd Chrisley]

Okay. So that was your sign.

[Chase Chrisley]

Yeah.

[Todd Chrisley]

When you have to start doing that. If I. First of all, that's exhausting work.

[Chase Chrisley]

Yeah. It's teamwork. I'm too. But I was way younger.

[Todd Chrisley]

I'm not doing that shit. No.

[Chase Chrisley]

Yeah. I'm too old.

[Todd Chrisley]

Do you. Are you comfortable with your girlfriends talking to other guys?

[Chase Chrisley]

No.

[Grayson Chrisley]

No.

[Todd Chrisley]

What.

[Chase Chrisley]

What do you mean talking?

[Todd Chrisley]

I'm talking about they have. They have friends or they have people in class that they talk to or whatever. That's different.

[Grayson Chrisley]

I mean, hey, hello is fine, but you ain't going go out to eat with them one on one. Like.

[Todd Chrisley]

Like,

[Grayson Chrisley]

if I went out to eat with a girl one on one, I'd get bitched out.

[Chase Chrisley]

Yeah, I for sure would.

[Grayson Chrisley]

But just because, like, I don't care if you're friends with them or not. I don't give.

[Chase Chrisley]

I. I don't think you should open the door for.

[Todd Chrisley]

I think that the door should stay. The door needs to stay open so you know whether or not she's there for the right reasons.

[Chase Chrisley]

I think the. The red flag is.

[Todd Chrisley]

Wants to do that.

[Grayson Chrisley]

I agree with that. But it's also, you don't. You don't be stupid and throw that situation out there.

[Todd Chrisley]

I just look at it differently. I'm just of the mindset that, listen, if that's where you want to be or straight, it doesn't matter.

[Chase Chrisley]

It does.

[Todd Chrisley]

Okay, well then a straight guy.

[Grayson Chrisley]

Yeah, that actually does matter a lot because, like,

[Chase Chrisley]

I don't think so. But I'm also not going to tell. Strange can and can't do, like, if. If I think that's, like, what I've learned, like, with finding someone, I want to be with someone where I don't have to. Like, I don't want to feel like I need to tell you what to do and what not.

[Todd Chrisley]

There you go.

[Chase Chrisley]

I feel like when you find somebody that naturally is doing, like, the things that you like and acting the way you want, that's when you know.

[Todd Chrisley]

Do you think that it's a red sign?

[Chase Chrisley]

Red flag.

[Todd Chrisley]

I'm sorry. Do you think that it's a red flag if your girlfriend gets mad because you made plans with your friends? Yeah.

[Grayson Chrisley]

You both should be able to hang out with your friends.

[Chase Chrisley]

Okay, I don't want to hang out with my friends. I want to hang out with my little boo.

[Todd Chrisley]

I'm so sick. I can't. Do you think it's a red sign?

[Chase Chrisley]

Red flag? It's red flag.

[Grayson Chrisley]

It's not a red sign.

[Todd Chrisley]

Do you think that it's a red flag on the first date if someone asks you for your astrological sign?

[Grayson Chrisley]

I don't know.

[Chase Chrisley]

What the hell is that it.

[Todd Chrisley]

Oh, my God. And they were like, for Gemini, private education is over.

[Grayson Chrisley]

They don't teach us about that stupid.

[Todd Chrisley]

It's not stupid. It is your sign. What is your sign?

[Chase Chrisley]

Oh, my.

[Grayson Chrisley]

I don't even know. Cuz I don't care.

[Chase Chrisley]

I'm a Gemini.

[Todd Chrisley]

I'm an Aries.

[Grayson Chrisley]

I don't care.

[Todd Chrisley]

No. Leaders.

[Chase Chrisley]

I'm. We're leaders. Geminis.

[Todd Chrisley]

No.

[Chase Chrisley]

Yeah, we are.

[Todd Chrisley]

You're. You're crazy,

[Grayson Chrisley]

you know that? You've always said that.

[Todd Chrisley]

Do you think that it's a red flag if they're a bad texter, but they pay attention to other people? Like they respond to someone else's text before they respond to yours?

[Chase Chrisley]

Yeah.

[Todd Chrisley]

You think it's a bad. That, that's.

[Chase Chrisley]

Yeah.

[Grayson Chrisley]

Yeah.

[Chase Chrisley]

That just shows they're not. That. My thing about responding fast is like. Like communication is a form of respect.

[Todd Chrisley]

Right?

[Chase Chrisley]

There's nobody that's so busy that you can't respond to a text.

[Todd Chrisley]

Do you think that it's a red flag if your girlfriend is talking about your sex life with someone else? One depends on what they're saying.

[Chase Chrisley]

Classless.

[Grayson Chrisley]

They're like, he's laying it down like, I don't care.

[Chase Chrisley]

I just think. I don't think.

[Todd Chrisley]

I think that's just absolutely stupid for a chick to do that because she's advertising to her girls what she has at home, which is leaving the front door open for her girlfriends to start coming in.

[Grayson Chrisley]

You didn't ever do that as a guy?

[Todd Chrisley]

What? Lay it down.

[Grayson Chrisley]

You didn't ever, like, talk about with your friends?

[Todd Chrisley]

Like, we didn't do that. That was not something that we talked about.

[Chase Chrisley]

I just think it's classless.

[Todd Chrisley]

But don't you think that your generation and yours, that y' all talk about sex way too much when it comes to what you're doing? What's kind of cool in yalls generation, Whatever. You don't think that that stuff should be kept more private?

[Chase Chrisley]

I'm not out here talking about it.

[Todd Chrisley]

You talk about eating ass.

[Chase Chrisley]

I do not.

[Todd Chrisley]

We had to learn what tossing salad was.

[Chase Chrisley]

I don't even eat ass

[Todd Chrisley]

right here. Well, do you think.

[Chase Chrisley]

Do you think that it's a red flag when, if I was dating someone and they had an overbearing parent who was constantly in their ear telling them what to do, what not to do, what was acceptable, what was not acceptable? Yes.

[Todd Chrisley]

No, I don't think that.

[Chase Chrisley]

Oh, you lying.

[Todd Chrisley]

No, I don't.

[Chase Chrisley]

On that note, I think that if

[Todd Chrisley]

you're dating someone and her parents care enough about her to be in her ear to point out things, then I'm down with that. Because you know why? Because I'm gonna be in your ear.

[Chase Chrisley]

My ears? I'm gonna cut my ears off.

[Todd Chrisley]

No, I. Me and you and you. Learn sign language.

[Chase Chrisley]

What?

[Todd Chrisley]

Sign language. On that note, folks, good luck and God bless.