Friendships Paradigms: Monogamy and Polyamory and Platonic Partnerships

Patricia discusses the concept of monogamy and polyamory in friendships and platonic partnerships. She explores how the traditional view of monogamy has a hierarchy when one person enters a romantic relationship. Neurodivergent folks often have closer friendships that are more like platonic partnerships. Patricia shares her insights on the importance of defining communication patterns and expectations in friendships. She also reflects on the challenges of permanence and attachment wounds in relationships.

HIGHLIGHTS

Takeaways

The traditional view of monogamy can impact friendships when one person enters a romantic relationship.

Defining communication patterns and expectations in friendships is important for maintaining connection and avoiding attachment wounds.

The challenges of permanence can affect neurodivergent individuals, leading to feelings of disconnection and uncertainty.

Embracing blended parts and honoring individual needs in relationships is essential for creating healthy and fulfilling connections.

Additional Takeaways

Understanding the dynamics of relationships through the lens of attachment theory, particularly in the context of neurodivergent individuals.
Exploring the nuances of polyamory and monogamy in modern society and how they intersect with platonic partnerships.
Unpacking the concept of primary and secondary relationships within the framework of monogamous norms.
Delving into attachment injuries and how they can impact friendships and romantic connections.
Gaining insights into navigating blended parts within relationships and the challenges they may present.
Examining the shifts in relationships when one party enters a new romantic relationship, especially in the context of monogamous views.
Learning about communication patterns and compatibility in friendships and partnerships, particularly in the realm of polyamory.
Discovering strategies for healing attachment wounds and fostering healthier relationships, as discussed in Jessica Fern's book "Polysecure."
Reflecting on the differences in communication styles between individuals and how they can affect relationship dynamics.
Exploring the complexities of non-monogamous relationships and platonic partnerships in the modern world.
Recognizing the importance of self-awareness and open communication in maintaining strong friendships and romantic connections.
Considering the impact of societal norms on relationships and how they influence our perceptions of friendship and partnership.
Embracing the diversity of relationship structures and finding resonance in the experiences shared by individuals navigating polyamory, monogamy, and platonic partnerships.

Sound Bites

"Attachment wounds and the challenges of permanence in relationships"

"Polyamory and platonic partnerships"

"Feeling left behind in a friendship"

Chapters please allow for the addition of the introduction

01:50 Monogamy and Platonic Partnerships

11:48 Defining Communication Patterns

15:24 Feeling Left Behind in Friendships

23:21 Permanence and Limited Communication

26:06 Embracing Blended Parts in Relationships

PODCAST HOST

Patricia was a Licensed Clinical Social Worker for over 17 years, but she is now exclusively providing coaching. She knows what it’s like to feel like an outcast, misfit, and truthteller. Learning about the trait of being a Highly Sensitive Person (HSP), then learning she is AuDHD with a PDA profile and RSD, helped Patricia rewrite her history with a deeper understanding, appreciation, and a sense of self-compassion. She created the podcast Unapologetically Sensitive to help other neurodivergent folks know that they aren’t alone, and that having a brain that is wired differently comes with amazing gifts, and some challenges. Patricia works online globally working individually with people, and she teaches Online Courses for neurodivergent folks that focus on understanding what it means to be a sensitive neurodivergent. Topics covered include: self-care, self-compassion, boundaries, perfectionism, mindfulness, communication, and creating a lifestyle that honors you

LINKS

Polysecure: Attachment, Trauma and Consensual Non-Monogamy by Jessica Fern

Episode 109: The Power of Attachment Styles with Jessica Fern https://unapologeticallysensitive.com/episode-109-the-power-of-attachment-styles-and-the-highly-sensitive-person-hsp-jessica-fern-ms/

Neurodivergent Online Course-- https://unapologeticallysensitive.com/neurodivergent-online-courses/

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