Okay, babe… let's talk about people pleasing, because this episode is me calling myself (and you) all the way out.

For years, I thought being the "chill, supportive, easygoing" partner made me good. But in reality? I was just betraying myself over and over. I wasn't setting boundaries, I was building walls and then wondering why everything exploded when I finally snapped.

I share the story of how I went from spending every damn Saturday house-hunting for someone else's dream home (that I wasn't even living in!) to realising I was overextending myself because I was scared to look "selfish."

In this episode, I break down:

The difference between having boundaries and just having preferences.
Why your energy is sacred (and not everyone deserves access).
How to stop rescuing grown-ass adults and hand their emotional baggage right back to them.
What "proof over promises" really looks like in love and life.
And why the only people pissed about your boundaries are the ones who benefited when you didn't have any.

This is your permission slip to stop apologizing for protecting your peace. You can be kind and firm. You can be soft andstrong. You can be compassionate and say "no."

Stop gaslighting your feelings just to make other people comfortable. If that makes you "too much," so be it.

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Episode 224: Life Lessons from a Recovering People Pleaser