Unhinged & Immoral - Episode: "Can I Get an Encore?"

Release Date: July 18, 2025

In this vibrant and engaging episode of Unhinged & Immoral, hosts Jamila Bell and Mecca Evans delve deep into their unforgettable concert experiences, share heartfelt advice during their interactive segment, and engage with their lively community. Here's a detailed summary capturing all the key moments, insights, and memorable exchanges from the episode.

1. Concert Experiences

A. Beyoncé Concerts

Jamila and Mecca enthusiastically recount their experiences attending Beyoncé's electrifying performances in Atlanta and Houston. They highlight the meticulous production quality, innovative stage setups, and Beyoncé's unparalleled dedication to delivering a flawless show.

• Jamila shares her awe after witnessing Beyoncé's Atlanta show:

  "I have never heard a stadium that loud. We were so loud we could barely hear her sometimes. It was crazy." (01:40)

• Mecca praises the scientific precision behind Beyoncé's concert design:

  "The way she has herself blasted and positioned, she's really got it down to a science." (02:21)

The hosts emphasize Beyoncé's ability to connect with every audience member, ensuring that regardless of seating, everyone enjoys an amazing show.

• Jamila reflects on Beyoncé's attention to detail:

  "She thought about every person sitting there... you are going to see an amazing show." (05:15)

They also delve into the complexities of Beyoncé's security measures, commending Julius—Beyoncé's head of security—for his strategic role in ensuring a safe and seamless concert experience.

B. Other Favorite Concerts

Expanding beyond Beyoncé, Jamila and Mecca reminisce about other concerts that have left a significant impact on them.

• Jill Scott:

  "Jill puts on the show, from the musicianship to also the way she rearranges her music, I really enjoy that." (17:06)

• Kirk Franklin:

  "Kirk Franklin is genuinely, genuinely top 10 artists of all time. He is." (16:00)

• Usher:

  "I accidentally got too fucked up at the Usher concert. That's how happy I was." (45:06)

They appreciate the storytelling, energy, and unique dynamics each artist brings to their performances, highlighting how these experiences have shaped their appreciation for live music.

2. Changes in Concert Culture

Jamila and Mecca discuss the evolving landscape of live performances, noting the decline of traditional encores and increased security measures at major venues.

• Jamila laments the rarity of encores:

  "Artists don't do encores anymore... I would love to experience that." (69:30)

• Mecca concurs, sharing her desire to relive those spontaneous moments of artists returning to the stage:

  "I want to fucking encore." (71:06)

They acknowledge the necessity of heightened security but express nostalgia for the more interactive and unguarded concerts of the past, where fans could engage directly with their favorite artists.

3. "Spin it" Segment: Listener's Relationship Drama

In the interactive segment Spin it, listener Anthony shares a heartfelt dilemma about his open relationship. Anthony, a 26-year-old gay Black man, finds himself developing feelings for a coworker named "Closet," leading him to question the future of his current relationship.

• Anthony's Story Highlights:
  • Feeling unfulfilled in his current relationship despite its longevity and openness.
  • Developing emotional and physical tension with a coworker.
  • Concerns about leaving his boyfriend and pursuing a new connection with Closet.

Hosts' Advice

• Mecca urges Anthony to prioritize his happiness:

  "I think you should leave your boyfriend though." (78:02)

• Jamila emphasizes recognizing when a relationship no longer serves one's well-being:

  "If you feel like they are not compatible... then you are not forced to be with them just because they're nice." (78:02)

Together, they advise Anthony to reflect on his true feelings and make decisions that align with his personal happiness, rather than staying in a relationship out of comfort or obligation.

4. Community Engagement: Listener Comments

The hosts engage with their audience by reading and reacting to listener comments, showcasing the community's vibrant interaction with the show.

• Hotgalmia9393 reflects on a relatable household experience:

  "My mama used to get so mad when I would dry my hands with the towel hanging in the bathroom. Those are for decoration." (93:05)

• Karan09 humorously suggests clipping certain parts of the episode to go viral:

  "This episode was especially unhinged and particularly immoral, but I loved every minute." (93:26)

• Monique Malcolm 11 shares a humorous observation about Beyoncé at the Grammys:

  "I heard my name and looked around like Beyoncé at the Grammys." (93:57)

These interactions illustrate the show's influence and the strong connection Jamila and Mecca have with their listeners.

5. Announcements and Future Plans

Towards the end of the episode, Jamila and Mecca share exciting news about their upcoming events and introduce their new intern, Aria.

• Upcoming Appearances:

  • Speaking at the National Urban League Conference in Ohio.
  • Visiting Los Angeles at the end of July.

• Introducing Aria:

  "She will be doing all the intern things. Super excited to have her join the team." (96:28)

They encourage listeners to support Black American organizations and promote their merchandise, fostering a sense of community and continuous engagement.

Notable Quotes

• "Beyoncé, you put on a hell of a show, girl." — Jamila (04:42)
• "Kirk Franklin is genuinely, genuinely top 10 artists of all time. He is." — Jamila (16:00)
• "I think you should leave your boyfriend though." — Mecca (78:02)

Conclusion

This episode of Unhinged & Immoral offers a rich tapestry of personal anecdotes, in-depth discussions on concert culture, and meaningful advice to listeners navigating their relationships. Jamila Bell and Mecca Evans continue to create a space where pop culture meets genuine conversation, all while fostering a supportive and engaged community.

Stay tuned for more unfiltered fun and insightful discussions every Thursday!