As a teen, I learned about the practice of prayer: simply communicating with God—both talking to Him and listening to Him. One warm afternoon, I decided to embrace the privilege of prayer. I walked down our family’s dirt driveway and ducked into a cluster of trees and vines. Away from my large, bustling family, I’d found a quiet spot to fellowship with Jesus.

Decades later, I recall the intimacy of that time with the Lord, when I prayed for any requests that came to mind—family members, sick people at church, doctors and nurses caring for the ill. With childlike faith, I trusted that God heard me and cared, that my simple prayers connected with the Creator. When I pushed past tree branches and emerged from my little hideaway, I knew I’d spent meaningful time communing with Christ. I also wanted more of it.

In Colossians 4:2, Paul reminds believers, “Devote yourselves to prayer, being watchful and thankful.” Jesus exhorted His disciples to “pray and not give up” in Luke 18:1. I wanted this devotion to prayer, the heartfelt prayer life we read about in James 5—prayer in times of happiness and trouble, sickness and confession. As a new believer in Jesus, I delved into “the prayer offered in faith” that day among leaves and limbs (James 5:15). Throughout my life, God has drawn me into prayer, even when I’ve expressed anger at Him or questioned His love for me.

Whenever God’s love seems uncertain, we can look to Jesus. God came and lived among us. He died on the cross and rose from the grave to forgive us and make us holy, all because He wants to save us and welcome us into a relationship with Himself. As we pray, believing He listens to our prayers with love for His children, our faith in God will be stretched. Yet through our prayers, God grows our faith, and our growing faith results in a rich prayer life. • Allison Wilson Lee

• Can you think of a time you had a desire to talk to God? What was that like?

• Have you been angry with God for not answering prayers in a certain way? Feel free to pour that out to the Lord. He already knows how we feel, yet He invites us to be totally honest as we open our hearts to Him. Remember, He can truly empathize with all our pains and struggles because Jesus experienced life in this broken world alongside us. He sees, He understands, and He cares about our every hurt and sorrow—He even weeps with us. And He promises to wipe away our every tear, and right every wrong, at His return. How could remembering Jesus’s empathy and love for us make it easier for us to be open with Him in prayer?

Devote yourselves to prayer, being watchful and thankful. Colossians 4:2 (NIV)