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Upfront & Undivided
Hosted by Luke & Dean'na Wantz · EN
Real conversations with a real couple. In our podcast we will talk about and take on a variety of topics including: - Relationships/Marriage - Courting/Dating - Honor - Social Situations - Life - God and Christianity - Sex - Children - and any other random thing we might think of. Tag along and enjoy this ride with us as we open up our hearts and minds to you.
Music: Savour The Moment by Shane Ivers - https://www.silvermansound.com
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Sex In Marriage
4w ago00:47:06Tap to summarizeThis week's episode is about sex. Sex is a gift from God, and He designed it. So, what does having sex look like in your marriage? Are you satisfied with your spouse? There are many things in life and in our marriage that can affect a couple's level of intimacy? If you want to talk about anything that might have been talked about in this episode, feel free to reach out - info@firmfooting.coach.1 Corinthians 7: 5-7 "Do not deprive each other except perhaps by mutual consent and for a time, so that you may devote yourselves to prayer. Then come together again so that Satan will not tempt you because of your lack of self-control. I say this as a concession, not as a command. I wish that all of you were as I am. But each of you has your own gift from God; one has this gift, another has that." (NIV)Have a listen and let us know what you think!Episode 17 - A Touch of IntimacyEpisode 39 - Masturbation and PornEpisode 62 - More Relationship Q&A - Intimacy & SexEpisode 84 - What is Your Love On LanguageEpisode 109 - Take Your VITAMINSHave the best week! Enjoy the journey!
Transcribe →Priorities
Jun 3000:36:54Tap to summarizePriorities. That is the topic of this weeks episode. From learning how to pivot in new seasons to readjusting our focus on what needs to be done today. What can be put on the back burner and what gets to be let go completely? Some days it feels seamless where other days it seems like a cluster. However it may be going right now, it is a process and a journey. Psalm 16: 11 - "You make known to me the path of life; you will fill me with joy in your presence, with eternal pleasures at your right hand." (NIV)Have a listen and let us know what you think.Have the best week! Enjoy the journey!
Transcribe →Foundation Bricks
Jun 200:40:24Tap to summarizeWhen we talk about building our marriage, building a relationship, we start to realize that it takes lots of little steps. Then, those steps start to add up. It is like the bricks that make up a house. No single brick is responsible for the house, but they need to be good bricks to provide a solid foundation and structure to the house.It isn't always fun or glamorous, but it matters, and it adds up.Have a listen, and let us know what you think.Share this with a friend that you think could use some encouragement, or a laugh.Have the best week! Enjoy the journey!
Transcribe →Chaos Theory with Sebastian
May 1900:32:21Tap to summarizeA lot of us do well with structure and schedules, to varying degrees. Listen in as we talk to Sebastian about this topic, and some of his ideas on how to help out parents.Have the best week! Enjoy the journey!
Transcribe →Forgiveness First
Apr 1200:47:21Tap to summarizeWelcome back as we talk about accomplishing things on our list. We are talking about forgiveness on this episode. When we don't walk in forgiveness, we can cause a lot of pain to those around us. How would we walk if we chose to forgive first? What if that was our first thought? God does.Have the best week! Enjoy the journey!
Transcribe →To Be Married, or Not Divorced?
Mar 1201:06:46Tap to summarizeA statement came out in our conversation the other day - "You know, some people are trying to not get divorced, rather than wanting to be married."So what does that look like? What does that sound like? We live in a world where it is acceptable for a marriage to look like roommates sharing a last name and having different lives. How do we break that cycle? We break it by remembering WHY we got married. We encourage each other to grow, together! Not to be identical, but together. Connect with us if you would like to be better with your marriage.Have a listen, and let us know what you think!Have the best week! Enjoy the journey!
Transcribe →Being Accountable
Feb 1700:54:08Tap to summarizeWhen Eve was talking to the snake, Adam was right there with her, listening and watching. Are we helping our spouses stay accountable, are we encouraging them, correcting them, helping them? How do we act, look, speak when we are at our spouse's elbow?Have the best week! Enjoy the journey!
Transcribe →When There's a Hole in Your Ceiling
Jan 2701:01:06Tap to summarizeWelcome to 2026! We are expecting and hoping for great things for all of you this upcoming year! Sometimes life doesn't quite go the way we planned. We get to choose how we react and how we prepare for what may come. When we lean into what God has for us, then we are able to handle it His way. Every day, we get to choose how we think, act, and respond to every situation, whether it's a blessing or a hardship. We want to encourage all of you, and hope for the best in your relationships!Ephesians 5: 21-33Have the best week! Enjoy the journey!
Transcribe →The 2 Become 1
Dec 500:41:43Tap to summarizeWhen two people get married, they get a new identity. That comes with starting a new family, new traditions, and a new culture. It might seem a bit crazy to go against tradition, especially now that it is the Holiday season of Thanksgiving, Christmas, and New Year's. This is what happens though. As a married couple, starting our own family, we had the opportunity to sit and talk about what we wanted our family traditions to look and sound like. We took the good and the bad of our families from growing up, and had a "Keep or Toss" conversation. We learned that those conversations keep happening throughout our marriage, in every season. Our lives will change, and our traditions get to change with them.So what traditions would you like to start, keep, or change in your marriage and family? Have a listen, and let us know what you think.Have the best week! Enjoy the journey!
Transcribe →Who's In Your Corner?
Nov 2000:54:41Tap to summarizeMany of us know that we should be wise and discerning when it comes to allowing people to speak into our lives. It is the same with your marriage. Not everyone we meet should have access and "speaking rights" to our marriage. It is good to have a conversation with God and your spouse about who should be in your corner, and should should just visit your porch. Not everyone will be able to have the same level of trust and love for your marriage as you do.Have a listen as we talk about the people that should be in your corner, the ones that will celebrate with you and hold you accountable. Let us know what you think!Have the best week! Enjoy the journey!
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