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Vanilla Swingers: Swinger Podcast, Unfiltered AF
Hosted by Kat & Leo · EN
Sexy, uncensored, and unfiltered AF, Vanilla Swingers—a 2025 Best Podcast winner and 2026 AVN Award Nominee—is your bingeworthy swingers podcast for curious couples, ENM newbies, and experienced lifestylers. Join Kat & Leo for a front-row seat to real-life swinging: threesomes, full swaps, soft swaps, orgies, swinger club reviews, and all the spicy chaos in between. This isn’t a how-to. It’s a hold-my-drink kind of ride.
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Ep 92: How Not to F*ck Up a Couple Swap (Don't Do What We Did)
6d ago00:54:17Tap to summarize🌷 In this episode of Vanilla Swingers — Apple’s #1 ranked swinger podcast — we’re breaking down the art of the newbie couple swap and how our Amsterdam adventure went from a swipe on Feeld… to drinks at our apartment… to icebreaker games… to a full-on couple swap flop 😵 👉 We’re sharing the real playbook for a successful newbie couple swap, of which ours was NOT! The texting phase, where to meet, reading the room, when to have the boundary talk, how to lower the awkwardness, and the little mistakes we made so you don’t have to make them yourself. 👉 Plus, it’s Part 2 of our European adventures as we dive into the Amsterdam chapter of Katlandia’s Euro XXX tour. From swiping on Feeld to late-night chemistry, we’re talking about why the apps have completely become our playground - and why traditional swinger clubs just don’t hit the same for us anymore. 🍦 Dive in and enjoy every spoonful of our super candid newbie journey as we go from vanilla…to 69 flavors! Always hilarious, unhinged, bite-size and commercial-free! 🏆 ASN Awards Best Podcast Winner 2025 🥇 AVN Best Adult Podcast Nominee 2026 *~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~* Where else to find Kat & Leo (besides clubs, cruises & events!): 🔥 Website: https://VanillaSwingers.com 🔥 *BRAND NEW* blog page ---> fun links & more! First Couple Swap: Top Do’s & Don’ts for Beginners https://www.vanillaswingers.com/from-drinks-to-play-the-anatomy-of-a-newbie-couple-swap 🔥 CONFUSED on Swinger Lingo? Check out Kat's new Swinger Dictionary https://www.vanillaswingers.com/swinger-glossary-dictionary-lingo/ 🔥 *MAP* FIND LOCAL SWINGERS CLUBS - Check out Kat's new clickable US map to find a club near you! https://www.vanillaswingers.com/the-most-complete-list-of-swinger-clubs-in-the-us/ 🔥 *UPDATED* SWINGER CLUB REVIEWS - *Honest* reviews of dozens of clubs in the US and abroad. https://www.vanillaswingers.com/blog/swinger-club-reviews/ 🔥 *NEW* Spotify Playlist - Sexy Songs: Vanilla Swingers After Dark - Ready to misbehave? 😉 This is the short version of the playlist we vibe to in the bedroom. Press play and let’s get into some trouble! https://open.spotify.com/playlist/4ynpB6sZnhUrLZWWGazLYj 🔥 *NEW* Spotify Epic Playlist - Vanilla Swingers EPIC Playlist - Our go-to rendezvous banger—130+ tracks of pure filthy, flirty, and fire. If this playlist could talk, it would moan. https://open.spotify.com/playlist/3CORn07jtuiPS9fcz0Klxv 🔥 *UPDATED* Check out our HOTEL ROOM Makeover – Peek inside our fave hotel setups and steal every sexy, swingy little detail. https://www.vanillaswingers.com/mood-lighting-and-magic-how-to-set-up-a-swinger-hotel-room/ *~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~* Contact Us! Slide into our DMs... ;-) 💋😘 💌 Email Us: hello@vanillaswingers.com 💌 Instagram: @VanillaSwingers 💌 Facebook: @VanillaSwingers 💌 Message Us: vanillaswingers.com/contact-us
Transcribe →Ep 91: Swinging in Europe - Kat's Gone Wild XXX Edition
2w ago00:59:42Tap to summarize✈️ In this episode of Vanilla Swingers — Apple’s #1 ranked swinger podcast — we’re finally back from Europe… and let’s just say, Katlandia XXX World Tour did not disappoint. 😈 👉 From the canals of Amsterdam to the late-night magic of Paris to the pizza, pasta & gelato of Rome, this trip turned into one of the wildest sexcations we’ve ever had. And YES… it was absolutely raining cute 20-something men. European men, specifically. The kind with charm, confidence, emotional awareness, and enough eye contact to make Kat reconsider citizenship. 👉 Oh, and did we reconnect with our mysterious blast from the past… Italian Edward? 👀 Hmm. Guess you’ll have to listen and see. That and all our tales of European debauchery in this Part 1 adventure of “how is this our life?” memories that only seem to happen somewhere between a Parisian piano bar and a Roman spring night. 🍦 Dive in and enjoy every spoonful of our super candid newbie journey as we go from vanilla…to 69 flavors! Always hilarious, unhinged, bite-size and commercial-free! 🏆 ASN Awards Best Podcast Winner 2025 🥇 AVN Best Adult Podcast Nominee 2026 *~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~* Where else to find Kat & Leo (besides clubs, cruises & events!): 🔥 Website: https://VanillaSwingers.com 🔥 *BRAND NEW* blog page ---> fun links & more! Swinging in Europe vs. America: A Culture Shock in the Best Way https://www.vanillaswingers.com/swinging-in-europe-vs-america-a-culture-shock-in-the-best-way/ 🔥 CONFUSED on Swinger Lingo? Check out Kat's new Swinger Dictionary https://www.vanillaswingers.com/swinger-glossary-dictionary-lingo/ 🔥 *MAP* FIND LOCAL SWINGERS CLUBS - Check out Kat's new clickable US map to find a club near you! https://www.vanillaswingers.com/the-most-complete-list-of-swinger-clubs-in-the-us/ 🔥 *UPDATED* SWINGER CLUB REVIEWS - *Honest* reviews of dozens of clubs in the US and abroad. https://www.vanillaswingers.com/blog/swinger-club-reviews/ 🔥 *NEW* Spotify Playlist - Sexy Songs: Vanilla Swingers After Dark - Ready to misbehave? 😉 This is the short version of the playlist we vibe to in the bedroom. Press play and let’s get into some trouble! https://open.spotify.com/playlist/4ynpB6sZnhUrLZWWGazLYj 🔥 *NEW* Spotify Epic Playlist - Vanilla Swingers EPIC Playlist - Our go-to rendezvous banger—130+ tracks of pure filthy, flirty, and fire. If this playlist could talk, it would moan. https://open.spotify.com/playlist/3CORn07jtuiPS9fcz0Klxv 🔥 *UPDATED* Check out our HOTEL ROOM Makeover – Peek inside our fave hotel setups and steal every sexy, swingy little detail. https://www.vanillaswingers.com/mood-lighting-and-magic-how-to-set-up-a-swinger-hotel-room/ *~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~* Contact Us! Slide into our DMs... ;-) 💋😘 💌 Email Us: hello@vanillaswingers.com 💌 Instagram: @VanillaSwingers 💌 Facebook: @VanillaSwingers 💌 Message Us: vanillaswingers.com/contact-us
Transcribe →Ep 90: Swinger Movies That Totally SUCK (And the Ones We Actually Love)
Apr 2000:51:15Tap to summarize🎬 In this episode of Vanilla Swingers — Apple’s #1 ranked swinger podcast — we’re diving headfirst into the wild, awkward, and occasionally way too real world of swinger movies. 👉 Kat & Leo break down the hits, the “wait…why is this kinda hot?” moments you must watch, rewind and watch again, and the absolute trainwrecks that should’ve stayed in the VHS era. From swinger movies and threesome TV shows that surprisingly get it right to chaotic messes where everything implodes (emotionally, sexually, and occasionally murderously), we’re unpacking what actually feels legit… and what feels wildly out of touch. 👉 PLUS we open up about life post-breakup - the real stuff. The feelings, the processing, the “what the hell now?” moments. It’s raw, a little messy, but very us. Because sometimes the lifestyle isn’t just sexy adventures… it’s navigating real emotions in real time. 👉 And just when you think things are settling? ✈️ We’re Europe-bound… and somehow the universe is already stirring the pot. A blast from the past slides back into our DMs (yes, that Italian… and yes, Kat is grinning). Meanwhile, our unofficial swinger guardian angel Stuart Scott delivers exactly what we didn’t know we needed in the form of a new, dangerously charming Russian connection. Timing? Suspiciously perfect. 👉 Because that’s the thing about this life - the lifestyle giveth, the lifestyle taketh away… and we’re just along for the ride. Win, lose, or beautifully chaotic draw. 🍦 Dive in and enjoy every spoonful of our super candid newbie journey as we go from vanilla…to 69 flavors! Always hilarious, unhinged, bite-size and commercial-free! 🏆 ASN Awards Best Podcast Winner 2025 🥇 AVN Best Adult Podcast Nominee 2026 *~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~* Where else to find Kat & Leo (besides clubs, cruises & events!): 🔥 Website: https://VanillaSwingers.com 🔥 *BRAND NEW* blog page ---> fun links & more! Top Swinger Movies: What to Watch & Where to Find Them https://www.vanillaswingers.com/top-swinger-movies/ 🔥 CONFUSED on Swinger Lingo? Check out Kat's new Swinger Dictionary https://www.vanillaswingers.com/swinger-glossary-dictionary-lingo/ 🔥 *MAP* FIND LOCAL SWINGERS CLUBS - Check out Kat's new clickable US map to find a club near you! https://www.vanillaswingers.com/the-most-complete-list-of-swinger-clubs-in-the-us/ 🔥 *UPDATED* SWINGER CLUB REVIEWS - *Honest* reviews of dozens of clubs in the US and abroad. https://www.vanillaswingers.com/blog/swinger-club-reviews/ 🔥 *NEW* Spotify Playlist - Sexy Songs: Vanilla Swingers After Dark - Ready to misbehave? 😉 This is the short version of the playlist we vibe to in the bedroom. Press play and let’s get into some trouble! https://open.spotify.com/playlist/4ynpB6sZnhUrLZWWGazLYj 🔥 *NEW* Spotify Epic Playlist - Vanilla Swingers EPIC Playlist - Our go-to rendezvous banger—130+ tracks of pure filthy, flirty, and fire. If this playlist could talk, it would moan. https://open.spotify.com/playlist/3CORn07jtuiPS9fcz0Klxv 🔥 *UPDATED* Check out our HOTEL ROOM Makeover – Peek inside our fave hotel setups and steal every sexy, swingy little detail. https://www.vanillaswingers.com/mood-lighting-and-magic-how-to-set-up-a-swinger-hotel-room/ *~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~* Contact Us! Slide into our DMs... ;-) 💋😘 💌 Email Us: hello@vanillaswingers.com 💌 Instagram: @VanillaSwingers 💌 Facebook: @VanillaSwingers 💌 Message Us: vanillaswingers.com/contact-us
Transcribe →Ep 89: Breaking Up Is Hard to Do… Even in the Lifestyle
Apr 800:46:48Tap to summarize💔 In this episode of Vanilla Swingers — Apple’s #1 ranked swinger podcast — we’re saying the quiet part out loud - you can get broken up with in the lifestyle… and yeah, it hits harder than you think. 👉 Kat & Leo dive into the reality of lifestyle “breakups” and share our own story. We unpack what it’s like to be on the receiving end of rejection in a space that’s supposed to be no-strings-attached, and why it still manages to hit your ego (and your feelings) a little harder than expected. 👉 We’re sharing what it actually felt like, what we learned the hard way, and why “NSA” might just be the biggest lie we all tell ourselves. 🍦 Dive in and enjoy every spoonful of our super candid newbie journey as we go from vanilla…to 69 flavors! Always hilarious, unhinged, bite-size and commercial-free! 🏆 ASN Awards Best Podcast Winner 2025 🥇 AVN Best Adult Podcast Nominee 2026 *~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~* Where else to find Kat & Leo (besides clubs, cruises & events!): 🔥 Website: https://VanillaSwingers.com 🔥 *BRAND NEW* blog page ---> fun links & more! Breaking Up Is Hard to Do… Even in the Lifestyle https://www.vanillaswingers.com/breaking-up-in-the-lifestyle/ 🔥 CONFUSED on Swinger Lingo? Check out Kat's new Swinger Dictionary https://www.vanillaswingers.com/swinger-glossary-dictionary-lingo/ 🔥 *MAP* FIND LOCAL SWINGERS CLUBS - Check out Kat's new clickable US map to find a club near you! https://www.vanillaswingers.com/the-most-complete-list-of-swinger-clubs-in-the-us/ 🔥 *UPDATED* SWINGER CLUB REVIEWS - *Honest* reviews of dozens of clubs in the US and abroad. https://www.vanillaswingers.com/blog/swinger-club-reviews/ 🔥 *NEW* Spotify Playlist - Sexy Songs: Vanilla Swingers After Dark - Ready to misbehave? 😉 This is the short version of the playlist we vibe to in the bedroom. Press play and let’s get into some trouble! https://open.spotify.com/playlist/4ynpB6sZnhUrLZWWGazLYj 🔥 *NEW* Spotify Epic Playlist - Vanilla Swingers EPIC Playlist - Our go-to rendezvous banger—130+ tracks of pure filthy, flirty, and fire. If this playlist could talk, it would moan. https://open.spotify.com/playlist/3CORn07jtuiPS9fcz0Klxv 🔥 *UPDATED* Check out our HOTEL ROOM Makeover – Peek inside our fave hotel setups and steal every sexy, swingy little detail. https://www.vanillaswingers.com/mood-lighting-and-magic-how-to-set-up-a-swinger-hotel-room/ *~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~* Contact Us! Slide into our DMs... ;-) 💋😘 💌 Email Us: hello@vanillaswingers.com 💌 Instagram: @VanillaSwingers 💌 Facebook: @VanillaSwingers 💌 Message Us: vanillaswingers.com/contact-us
Transcribe →Ep 88: Vegas for Swingers: To Grandma’s House We Go (Whispers & Red Rooster Review)
Apr 200:58:14Tap to summarize🐓 In this episode of Vanilla Swingers — Apple’s #1 ranked swinger podcast — Kat & Leo set out to see what happens when your slightly unhinged uncle hosts a backyard BBQ… but make it Vegas. Welcome to Red Rooster & Whispers and our continued origin story.... 👉 In Part 1 of our Vegas for Swingers series, we break down 2 of the city’s most down-home, no-frills lifestyle spots. We’re talking low-key vibes, familiar faces, budget-friendly nights, and what it’s really like when the scene feels less “Vegas nightclub” and more “your neighbor’s slightly naughty house party.” If you’ve ever wondered where these spots fit in the Vegas lifestyle spectrum, we’re laying it all out - pros, cons, and who they’re actually perfect for. 👉 And of course, we’re sharing our own experiences navigating these spaces - the unexpected moments, the quirks, and the kind of 'we just did what?!?' chaos that only happens when you mix Vegas with a little bit of… Grandma’s house energy. 🍦 Dive in and enjoy every spoonful of our super candid newbie journey as we go from vanilla…to 69 flavors! Always hilarious, unhinged, bite-size and commercial-free! 🏆 ASN Awards Best Podcast Winner 2025 🥇 AVN Best Adult Podcast Nominee 2026 *~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~* Where else to find Kat & Leo (besides clubs, cruises & events!): 🔥 Website: https://VanillaSwingers.com 🔥 *BRAND NEW* blog page ---> fun links & more! Whispers Las Vegas Review: Swinger Gem or Suburban House Party? https://www.vanillaswingers.com/whispers-las-vegas-review-swinger-gem-or-suburban-house-party/ Red Rooster Vegas Review: A Hot Mess or Just Hot? https://www.vanillaswingers.com/red-rooster-vegas-review-a-hot-mess-or-just-hot/ 🔥 CONFUSED on Swinger Lingo? Check out Kat's new Swinger Dictionary https://www.vanillaswingers.com/swinger-glossary-dictionary-lingo/ 🔥 *MAP* FIND LOCAL SWINGERS CLUBS - Check out Kat's new clickable US map to find a club near you! https://www.vanillaswingers.com/the-most-complete-list-of-swinger-clubs-in-the-us/ 🔥 *UPDATED* SWINGER CLUB REVIEWS - *Honest* reviews of dozens of clubs in the US and abroad. https://www.vanillaswingers.com/blog/swinger-club-reviews/ 🔥 *NEW* Spotify Playlist - Sexy Songs: Vanilla Swingers After Dark - Ready to misbehave? 😉 This is the short version of the playlist we vibe to in the bedroom. Press play and let’s get into some trouble! https://open.spotify.com/playlist/4ynpB6sZnhUrLZWWGazLYj 🔥 *NEW* Spotify Epic Playlist - Vanilla Swingers EPIC Playlist - Our go-to rendezvous banger—130+ tracks of pure filthy, flirty, and fire. If this playlist could talk, it would moan. https://open.spotify.com/playlist/3CORn07jtuiPS9fcz0Klxv 🔥 *UPDATED* Check out our HOTEL ROOM Makeover – Peek inside our fave hotel setups and steal every sexy, swingy little detail. https://www.vanillaswingers.com/mood-lighting-and-magic-how-to-set-up-a-swinger-hotel-room/ *~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~* Contact Us! Slide into our DMs... ;-) 💋😘 💌 Email Us: hello@vanillaswingers.com 💌 Instagram: @VanillaSwingers 💌 Facebook: @VanillaSwingers 💌 Message Us: vanillaswingers.com/contact-us
Transcribe →Ep 87: Katfished! Hook, Line & Sinker - How to Spot Fake Profiles
Mar 1900:52:33Tap to summarize🐱 You ever look at a profile and think… no way this is real? Yeah. We didn’t. In this episode of Vanilla Swingers — Apple’s #1 ranked swinger podcast — we’re saying it out loud - we got catfished, hook, line & sinker. 👉 Kat & Leo dive into one of the most universal (and awkward) experiences in the swinger lifestyle -when a too-good-to-be-true profile turns into a full-blown reality check. We’re talking “recent photos” that aged like milk, creative angles doing Olympic-level work, and that exact moment you realize… this is not who we thought we were meeting. 👉 We break down the different types of lifestyle catfishing, the subtle lies people tell on swinger apps, and how to spot the red flags before you’re stuck making polite small talk over drinks. From hilarious to painfully relatable, this episode is packed with real stories, lessons learned, and a few “we should’ve seen that coming” moments. And yes… we’re sharing our own “oh sh*t” experiences straight from the trenches. 🍦 Dive in and enjoy every spoonful of our super candid newbie journey as we go from vanilla…to 69 flavors! Always hilarious, unhinged, bite-size and commercial-free! 🏆 ASN Awards Best Podcast Winner 2025 🥇 AVN Best Adult Podcast Nominee 2026 *~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~* Where else to find Kat & Leo (besides clubs, cruises & events!): 🔥 Website: https://VanillaSwingers.com 🔥 *BRAND NEW* blog page ---> fun links & more! Katfished! Hook, Line & Sinker - How to Spot Fake Profiles https://www.vanillaswingers.com/catfished-how-to-spot-fake-profiles-on-swinger-dating-apps/ 🔥 CONFUSED on Swinger Lingo? Check out Kat's new Swinger Dictionary https://www.vanillaswingers.com/swinger-glossary-dictionary-lingo/ 🔥 *MAP* FIND LOCAL SWINGERS CLUBS - Check out Kat's new clickable US map to find a club near you! https://www.vanillaswingers.com/the-most-complete-list-of-swinger-clubs-in-the-us/ 🔥 *UPDATED* SWINGER CLUB REVIEWS - *Honest* reviews of dozens of clubs in the US and abroad. https://www.vanillaswingers.com/blog/swinger-club-reviews/ 🔥 *NEW* Spotify Playlist - Sexy Songs: Vanilla Swingers After Dark - Ready to misbehave? 😉 This is the short version of the playlist we vibe to in the bedroom. Press play and let’s get into some trouble! https://open.spotify.com/playlist/4ynpB6sZnhUrLZWWGazLYj 🔥 *NEW* Spotify Epic Playlist - Vanilla Swingers EPIC Playlist - Our go-to rendezvous banger—130+ tracks of pure filthy, flirty, and fire. If this playlist could talk, it would moan. https://open.spotify.com/playlist/3CORn07jtuiPS9fcz0Klxv 🔥 *UPDATED* Check out our HOTEL ROOM Makeover – Peek inside our fave hotel setups and steal every sexy, swingy little detail. https://www.vanillaswingers.com/mood-lighting-and-magic-how-to-set-up-a-swinger-hotel-room/ *~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~* Contact Us! Slide into our DMs... ;-) 💋😘 💌 Email Us: hello@vanillaswingers.com 💌 Instagram: @VanillaSwingers 💌 Facebook: @VanillaSwingers 💌 Message Us: vanillaswingers.com/contact-us
Transcribe →Ep 86: Catching Feels? F*ck Yeah! Why Feelings Are the GOAT of Swinging
Mar 1300:53:46Tap to summarize🥰 In this episode of Vanilla Swingers — Apple’s #1 ranked swinger podcast — we’re poking at the lifestyle rule everyone swears by… and almost nobody actually follows - don’t catch feelings. 👉 Because apparently the plan is to flirt all night, get naked together, share some very enthusiastic orgasms… and then high-five politely and feel absolutely nothing. Sure. Totally how humans work. 👉 Are we really supposed to feel absolutely nothing? We talk about lifestyle crushes, why chemistry, dopamine & oxytocin are a recipe for the feels, and why catching a little spark for your play partners might not be the catastrophe people make it out to be. Sometimes it just means the vibe was really THAT GOOD. 💫🔥 👉 PLUS we catch you up on the latest happenings in Kat & Leo land, where the adventures have been coming in rapid succession. From a spicy MFF encounter to a certain MFM connection that may or may not be sliding back into Kat’s DMs… let’s just say the lifestyle plot continues to thicken. Because sometimes a connection is just too fun not to revisit. 😈💬 🍦 Dive in and enjoy every spoonful of our super candid newbie journey as we go from vanilla…to 69 flavors! Always hilarious, unhinged, bite-size and commercial-free! 🏆 ASN Awards Best Podcast Winner 2025 🥇 AVN Best Adult Podcast Nominee 2026 *~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~* Where else to find Kat & Leo (besides clubs, cruises & events!): 🔥 Website: https://VanillaSwingers.com 🔥 *BRAND NEW* blog page ---> fun links & more! Catching Feels? Why Feelings Are the GOAT of Swinging https://www.vanillaswingers.com/catching-feelings-in-the-lifestyle-is-it-actually-a-problem/ 🔥 CONFUSED on Swinger Lingo? Check out Kat's new Swinger Dictionary https://www.vanillaswingers.com/swinger-glossary-dictionary-lingo/ 🔥 *MAP* FIND LOCAL SWINGERS CLUBS - Check out Kat's new clickable US map to find a club near you! https://www.vanillaswingers.com/the-most-complete-list-of-swinger-clubs-in-the-us/ 🔥 *UPDATED* SWINGER CLUB REVIEWS - *Honest* reviews of dozens of clubs in the US and abroad. https://www.vanillaswingers.com/blog/swinger-club-reviews/ 🔥 *NEW* Spotify Playlist - Sexy Songs: Vanilla Swingers After Dark - Ready to misbehave? 😉 This is the short version of the playlist we vibe to in the bedroom. Press play and let’s get into some trouble! https://open.spotify.com/playlist/4ynpB6sZnhUrLZWWGazLYj 🔥 *NEW* Spotify Epic Playlist - Vanilla Swingers EPIC Playlist - Our go-to rendezvous banger—130+ tracks of pure filthy, flirty, and fire. If this playlist could talk, it would moan. https://open.spotify.com/playlist/3CORn07jtuiPS9fcz0Klxv 🔥 *UPDATED* Check out our HOTEL ROOM Makeover – Peek inside our fave hotel setups and steal every sexy, swingy little detail. https://www.vanillaswingers.com/mood-lighting-and-magic-how-to-set-up-a-swinger-hotel-room/ *~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~* Contact Us! Slide into our DMs... ;-) 💋😘 💌 Email Us: hello@vanillaswingers.com 💌 Instagram: @VanillaSwingers 💌 Facebook: @VanillaSwingers 💌 Message Us: vanillaswingers.com/contact-us
Transcribe →Ep 85: Couple to Throuple - Chasing the Dragon in Vegas
Mar 400:44:42Tap to summarize🎠 In this episode of Vanilla Swingers — Apple’s #1 ranked swinger podcast — we’re diving into the Peacock reality show Couple to Throuple and asking the question - do most couples actually have the emotional intelligence to add a third… or are they just unicorn shopping? 👉 Kat & Leo break down the dynamics we saw on the show - from unicorn hunter couples clearly chasing fantasy MFF scenarios to the rare pair who actually understood what it takes to build real throuple energy. 👉 PLUS we unfold to real life - because while we were watching the show unfold on TV, we were busy having our own very adventurous weekend in Vegas. From mischievous unicorn throuple antics to a sexter-turned-MFM adventure… let’s just say Sin City absolutely delivered. 🍸🎰🎲♠ 👉 PLUS PLUS… a surprise Flight Attendant booty call and a Valentine’s Day Wuthering Heights fantasy with Jacob Elordi and Margot Robbie that had us both swooning and sweating ❤️❤️ 🍦 Dive in and enjoy every spoonful of our super candid newbie journey as we go from vanilla…to 69 flavors! Always hilarious, unhinged, bite-size and commercial-free! 🏆 ASN Awards Best Podcast Winner 2025 🥇 AVN Best Adult Podcast Nominee 2026 *~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~* Where else to find Kat & Leo (besides clubs, cruises & events!): 🔥 Website: https://VanillaSwingers.com 🔥 *BRAND NEW* blog page ---> fun links & more! From Couple to Throuple https://www.vanillaswingers.com/from-couple-to-throuple/ 🔥 CONFUSED on Swinger Lingo? Check out Kat's new Swinger Dictionary https://www.vanillaswingers.com/swinger-glossary-dictionary-lingo/ 🔥 *MAP* FIND LOCAL SWINGERS CLUBS - Check out Kat's new clickable US map to find a club near you! https://www.vanillaswingers.com/the-most-complete-list-of-swinger-clubs-in-the-us/ 🔥 *UPDATED* SWINGER CLUB REVIEWS - *Honest* reviews of dozens of clubs in the US and abroad. https://www.vanillaswingers.com/blog/swinger-club-reviews/ 🔥 *NEW* Spotify Playlist - Sexy Songs: Vanilla Swingers After Dark - Ready to misbehave? 😉 This is the short version of the playlist we vibe to in the bedroom. Press play and let’s get into some trouble! https://open.spotify.com/playlist/4ynpB6sZnhUrLZWWGazLYj 🔥 *NEW* Spotify Epic Playlist - Vanilla Swingers EPIC Playlist - Our go-to rendezvous banger—130+ tracks of pure filthy, flirty, and fire. If this playlist could talk, it would moan. https://open.spotify.com/playlist/3CORn07jtuiPS9fcz0Klxv 🔥 *UPDATED* Check out our HOTEL ROOM Makeover – Peek inside our fave hotel setups and steal every sexy, swingy little detail. https://www.vanillaswingers.com/mood-lighting-and-magic-how-to-set-up-a-swinger-hotel-room/ *~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~* Contact Us! Slide into our DMs... ;-) 💋😘 💌 Email Us: hello@vanillaswingers.com 💌 Instagram: @VanillaSwingers 💌 Facebook: @VanillaSwingers 💌 Message Us: vanillaswingers.com/contact-us
Transcribe →Ep 84: Vetting F*ing Sucks - Why We Hate Swinger Club Velvet Ropes
Feb 1900:49:59Tap to summarize⛔ In this episode of Vanilla Swingers — Apple’s #1 ranked swinger podcast — we’re saying it out loud: We hate vetting. 👉 Safety matters. Obviously. But vetting has drifted into something else - less protection, more preference. Beauty bias, age bias, dress code bias, “vibe” bias… basically club owners playing God with the guest list and calling it “standards.” 👉 And in an egalitarian lifestyle that claims to celebrate every body? Vetting feels like the ultimate contradiction. Plus hear us talk about the first of our Sybian O Chronicles, as we take our newly gifted toy for its first spin. All this and more! 🍦 Dive in and enjoy every spoonful of our super candid newbie journey as we go from vanilla…to 69 flavors! Always hilarious, unhinged, bite-size and commercial-free! 🏆 ASN Awards Best Podcast Winner 2025 🥇 AVN Best Adult Podcast Nominee 2026 *~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~* Where else to find Kat & Leo (besides clubs, cruises & events!): 🔥 Website: https://VanillaSwingers.com 🔥 *BRAND NEW* blog page ---> fun links & more! Vetting F*ing Sucks -Why We Hate Swinger Club Velvet Ropes https://www.vanillaswingers.com/vetting-in-the-lifestyle-who-gets-in-who-gets-judged/ 🔥 CONFUSED on Swinger Lingo? Check out Kat's new Swinger Dictionary https://www.vanillaswingers.com/swinger-glossary-dictionary-lingo/ 🔥 *MAP* FIND LOCAL SWINGERS CLUBS - Check out Kat's new clickable US map to find a club near you! https://www.vanillaswingers.com/the-most-complete-list-of-swinger-clubs-in-the-us/ 🔥 *UPDATED* SWINGER CLUB REVIEWS - *Honest* reviews of dozens of clubs in the US and abroad. https://www.vanillaswingers.com/blog/swinger-club-reviews/ 🔥 *NEW* Spotify Playlist - Sexy Songs: Vanilla Swingers After Dark - Ready to misbehave? 😉 This is the short version of the playlist we vibe to in the bedroom. Press play and let’s get into some trouble! https://open.spotify.com/playlist/4ynpB6sZnhUrLZWWGazLYj 🔥 *NEW* Spotify Epic Playlist - Vanilla Swingers EPIC Playlist - Our go-to rendezvous banger—130+ tracks of pure filthy, flirty, and fire. If this playlist could talk, it would moan. https://open.spotify.com/playlist/3CORn07jtuiPS9fcz0Klxv 🔥 *UPDATED* Check out our HOTEL ROOM Makeover – Peek inside our fave hotel setups and steal every sexy, swingy little detail. https://www.vanillaswingers.com/mood-lighting-and-magic-how-to-set-up-a-swinger-hotel-room/ *~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~* Contact Us! Slide into our DMs... ;-) 💋😘 💌 Email Us: hello@vanillaswingers.com 💌 Instagram: @VanillaSwingers 💌 Facebook: @VanillaSwingers 💌 Message Us: vanillaswingers.com/contact-us
Transcribe →Ep 83: You Up? Lifestyle Sexting Do’s, Don’ts, and WTFs!!
Feb 1201:00:36Tap to summarize💬 Kat loves sexting. Leo... tolerates it. In this episode of Vanilla Swingers — Apple’s #1 ranked swinger podcast — we talk about how sexting started as a total no-go (too intimate, too risky, too "why does this man have direct access to my wife?!") but has turned into one of the hottest parts of our lifestyle toolbox. 👉 We talk about why group sexting is hilarious and hot, why solo DMs need boundaries, and how Leo came around to the idea that sexting isn’t cheating - it’s bespoke porn, personalized smut, and admiration in 4K. 👉 This is for the couples who need a little rule-reset, and the singles who think a dick pic = flirtation (spoiler: it doesn’t). Whether you’re into shared group chats, 4-way fantasy threads, or custom-written smut that makes you feel wanted AF - sexting can be part of the lifestyle. As long as nothing is hidden… and everyone’s getting turned on. 🍦 Dive in and enjoy every spoonful of our super candid newbie journey as we go from vanilla…to 69 flavors! Always hilarious, unhinged, bite-size and commercial-free! 🏆 ASN Awards Best Podcast Winner 2025 🥇 AVN Best Adult Podcast Nominee 2026 *~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~* Where else to find Kat & Leo (besides clubs, cruises & events!): 🔥 Website: https://VanillaSwingers.com 🔥 *BRAND NEW* blog page ---> fun links & more! You Up? Lifestyle Sexting Do’s, Don’ts, and WTFs!! https://www.vanillaswingers.com/you-up-lifestyle-sexting-dos-donts-and-wtfs 🔥 CONFUSED on Swinger Lingo? Check out Kat's new Swinger Dictionary https://www.vanillaswingers.com/swinger-glossary-dictionary-lingo/ 🔥 *MAP* FIND LOCAL SWINGERS CLUBS - Check out Kat's new clickable US map to find a club near you! https://www.vanillaswingers.com/the-most-complete-list-of-swinger-clubs-in-the-us/ 🔥 *UPDATED* SWINGER CLUB REVIEWS - *Honest* reviews of dozens of clubs in the US and abroad. https://www.vanillaswingers.com/blog/swinger-club-reviews/ 🔥 *NEW* Spotify Playlist - Sexy Songs: Vanilla Swingers After Dark - Ready to misbehave? 😉 This is the short version of the playlist we vibe to in the bedroom. Press play and let’s get into some trouble! https://open.spotify.com/playlist/4ynpB6sZnhUrLZWWGazLYj 🔥 *NEW* Spotify Epic Playlist - Vanilla Swingers EPIC Playlist - Our go-to rendezvous banger—130+ tracks of pure filthy, flirty, and fire. If this playlist could talk, it would moan. https://open.spotify.com/playlist/3CORn07jtuiPS9fcz0Klxv 🔥 *UPDATED* Check out our HOTEL ROOM Makeover – Peek inside our fave hotel setups and steal every sexy, swingy little detail. https://www.vanillaswingers.com/mood-lighting-and-magic-how-to-set-up-a-swinger-hotel-room/ *~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~* Contact Us! Slide into our DMs... ;-) 💋😘 💌 Email Us: hello@vanillaswingers.com 💌 Instagram: @VanillaSwingers 💌 Facebook: @VanillaSwingers 💌 Message Us: vanillaswingers.com/contact-us
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