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Very Good Enough
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Very good is a moving target, but we think you can be a very good (enough) parent if you love your kids and try hard. Join mother of three Jess Hover and preschool teacher Layne Deyling Cherland as we tackle how to understand toddler behavior from THEIR perspective, how to build a non-judgmental community of moms, how to repair our mistakes and have healthy relationships with our partners/kids/selves, plus so much more of what we call "people stuff". We take care of the people who take care of children - moms, dads and everyone else!
From Very Good Mothers Club
Theme by Conner Cherland
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La Fin | How to manage anxiety and a fond farewell
Mar 4, 202500:42:02Tap to summarizeIn the final episode of Very Good Enough, Jess and Layne process some real-time anxiety (this was recorded during the LA fires--you'll hear an air purifier in the background), figure out how to land this plane and let you know what to expect from us in the future. We also talk about how to manage anxiety when the world feels too big by identifying what IS in your power to influence and then doing that really well. When we say that we have LOVED making this podcast for you over the last 2+ years...there aren't words to fully wrap around the feeling. THANK YOU for being in this extended conversation with us. And...we're not disappearing! Make sure you're following us on Instagram so you don't miss what's next:Jess - @jess_hoverLayne - @enquirycoWe don't like good byes so consider this a "See you there!" 🤍
Transcribe →The Unlived Life | Why your CHILDREN need to see you truly live
Feb 25, 202500:39:25Tap to summarizeThis is the second to last episode of this podcast and we are in our feelings about it. BUT before we say goodbye, we have one last Carl Jung quote to unpack with you: "Nothing has a stronger influence psychologically...on their children than the unlived life of the parent." We go pretty deep on how to hear your own desires, what reparenting yourself actually looks like, the brain development behind why your life becomes your child's model for their own...and a ton of other stuff. If there has to be a second-to-last, we're glad it's this one.Note: there is a gentle but audible hum throughout this episode--it's an air purifier, we recorded this during the LA fires.Related Episode: Mothers Not MartyrsJoin Very Good Mothers Club to be a part of our community: https://verygoodmothersclubhouse.com/share/7ah7WID0giU77Bz0?utm_source=manual!Book a 1:1 coaching session with Layne: https://www.enquiryco.com/coachingFind us on Instagram:Jess - @jess_hoverLayne - @enquiryco
Transcribe →The Beginning of The End | Why we feel this podcast is complete
Feb 18, 202500:44:43Tap to summarizeWelcome, dear friends, to the first of three final episodes of Very Good Enough. After a long break, Jess and Layne are back together ready to share what this journey has been like from each of our perspectives and how we independently arrived at the conclusion that, well, it's time to conclude. We recorded these conversations during the height of the fires in LA so you'll hear about our experiences with that in real time. Then we get into how to know when it's time to let something go, how to celebrate the ending of something good, and how to trust your life direction even when you don't totally know where it's taking you.Join Very Good Mothers Club to be a part of our community: https://verygoodmothersclubhouse.com/share/7ah7WID0giU77Bz0?utm_source=manual!Book a 1:1 coaching session with Layne: https://www.enquiryco.com/coachingFind us on Instagram:Jess - @jess_hoverLayne - @enquiryco
Transcribe →BONUS | Reflections on Season 6 (and current life seasons)
Oct 1, 202400:50:12Tap to summarizeJess and Layne take some time to reflect on the conversations we've had with you over the course of this season. While Very Good Enough is on hiatus, you can still find us in REAL LIFE inside the Very Good Mothers Club community and join our live monthly calls (4th Tuesday of every month)! Find Jess at Jessica Hover on Youtube and @jess_hover on Instagram Find Layne @enquiryco on Instagram
Transcribe →Feeling Isolated In Motherhood? You're not alone.
Sep 24, 202400:31:14Tap to summarizeThis episode digs into the isolating world of early parenthood. Jess and Layne explore why connecting with other moms (or literally anyone) is crucial for your mental and physical health and offer practical tips on building your support network. Learn how to combat "must be nice" syndrome--that creeping resentment towards partners or friends who seem to have it easier--and how friendship can help you identify these feelings and transform them into productive conversations about your needs. Whether you're a seasoned mom or new to the game, find out how to create meaningful connections and build community. Share your thoughts or ask a question - verygoodenoughpod@gmail.com Join Very Good Mothers Club to be a part of our community and join our live monthly calls (4th Tuesday of every month): https://verygoodmothersclubhouse.com/share/7ah7WID0giU77Bz0?utm_source=manual! Book a 1:1 coaching session with Layne: https://www.enquiryco.com/coaching Find us on Instagram: Jess - @jess_hover Layne - @enquiryco
Transcribe →It's YOUR Crown | How to make confident parenting decisions
Sep 17, 202400:44:08Tap to summarizeDrawing inspiration from a scene in "The Crown," Jess and Layne explore the idea of stepping into your own authority as a parent and trusting yourself to make choices. Key topics include: Dealing with guilt and second-guessing yourself The importance of flexibility and learning from experiences Communicating confidently with your partner and family members We offer practical advice on how to build confidence in your choices and accept that mistakes are part of the journey. Whether you're struggling with mom guilt, feeling overwhelmed by decision-making, or frozen with anxiety about the future, this episode is a reminder that you're uniquely equipped to wear the crown in your own life and motherhood journey. Share your thoughts or ask a question - verygoodenoughpod@gmail.com Join Very Good Mothers Club to be a part of our community and join our live monthly calls (4th Tuesday of every month): https://verygoodmothersclubhouse.com/share/7ah7WID0giU77Bz0?utm_source=manual! Book a 1:1 coaching session with Layne: https://www.enquiryco.com/coaching Find us on Instagram: Jess - @jess_hover Layne - @enquiryco
Transcribe →The Power of Priority | Time management secrets for busy moms
Sep 10, 202400:56:36Tap to summarizeJess invites Layne's husband, Conner Cherland, into the studio (it's our living room) for a discussion on time management and life balance. Conner's unique perspective as an artist and entrepreneur offers fresh approaches to common challenges faced by busy moms. We talk about: Practical time management strategies when you're overwhelmed How to prioritize your goals (even if your goal is simply "sleep more") How to break down large tasks into manageable steps Embracing imperfection and celebrating small wins Layne and Conner share how they navigate gender roles and work toward equity in their relationship. Conner advocates for dads making sure moms get the time and space they need to de-stimulate and connect with themselves so they can identify what they really want. Conner teaches us how to manage our energy throughout the day, and why sometimes doing less can actually help you achieve more. Share your thoughts or ask a question - verygoodenoughpod@gmail.com Join Very Good Mothers Club to be a part of our community and join our live monthly calls (4th Tuesday of every month): https://verygoodmothersclubhouse.com/share/7ah7WID0giU77Bz0?utm_source=manual! Book a 1:1 coaching session with Layne: https://www.enquiryco.com/coaching Find us on Instagram: Jess - @jess_hover Layne - @enquiryco
Transcribe →We're Different | How to disagree without destroying relationships
Sep 3, 202400:51:54Tap to summarizeWith the upcoming election adding extra tension to our lives, Layne and Jess dig into the challenge of maintaining relationships when core beliefs differ. We discuss: How to maintain relationships when we disagree on parenting styles, politics, or worldviews? Strategies for having meaningful conversations about sensitive topics Navigating family dynamics when personal beliefs evolve over time How to approach differences in parenting choices (e.g., co-sleeping, vaccinations) Dealing with the impact of social media on our perceptions of others Learn how to create understanding, set boundaries when needed, and find common ground even when viewpoints clash. Because at the end of the day, if we all love our kids and try hard, we actually have a lot in common. Share your thoughts or ask a question - verygoodenoughpod@gmail.com Join Very Good Mothers Club to be a part of our community and join our live monthly calls (4th Tuesday of every month): https://verygoodmothersclubhouse.com/share/7ah7WID0giU77Bz0?utm_source=manual! Book a 1:1 coaching session with Layne: https://www.enquiryco.com/coaching Find us on Instagram: Jess - @jess_hover Layne - @enquiryco
Transcribe →BONUS | Answering your questions about "Fear + Force"
Aug 23, 202400:51:42Tap to summarizeYou FLOODED our inbox over the last month with responses to our episode, "Fear + Force | Why we're leaving old school discipline styles behind." This week, Layne digs into your stories and questions. We cover: Is yelling ever ok as a parent? How do I get my toddler to listen? Is spanking child abuse? How to be in charge as the parent while still respecting my child's personhood How to manage power struggles with my toddler My 3-year-old gives me the silent treatment. What should I do? And much more! Huge thank you to everyone who shared their stories and thoughts. Listen to the original "Fear + Force" episode here: https://open.spotify.com/episode/2FcVJJ1VaqsWFyrogKEj8p?si=GAYjpbKURzO_VhtHvLImxg Share your thoughts or ask a question - verygoodenoughpod@gmail.com Join Very Good Mothers Club to be a part of our community and join our live monthly calls (4th Tuesday of every month): https://verygoodmothersclubhouse.com/share/7ah7WID0giU77Bz0?utm_source=manual! Book a 1:1 coaching session with Layne: https://www.enquiryco.com/coaching Find us on Instagram: Jess - @jess_hover Layne - @enquiryco
Transcribe →First Day of Preschool | Expert tips for a smooth transition
Aug 13, 202401:02:56Tap to summarizeIs your little one starting preschool soon? Jess and Layne share their strategies from both the experienced mom and preschool teacher perspectives. Learn how to: Prepare your child (and yourself) emotionally for the first day Handle separation anxiety and tearful goodbyes Communicate effectively with teachers Create a smooth drop-off routine Understand your child's behavior before and after school Use transitional objects to provide comfort Connect with other parents and build your own support network Whether you're feeling excited or anxious about this new chapter, we have you covered with practical strategies, insider knowledge, and empathetic support to make your child's transition to preschool as smooth as possible. More from us about preschool: Youtube video from Jess' channel - https://youtu.be/jYchyCQYtzc?si=sxEiAkWpJIedSBiyS1 E2 His First Hard Thing - https://youtu.be/JCBj8odSbkw?si=EKt1LuzaRp2QI0lCS5 E6 Childcare vs. Mom - https://open.spotify.com/episode/5HrZKzYul8hXKYD894s9dS?si=PrMFXGzcRWSa-YG1-Vj8DwBonus | Pooping at preschool - https://open.spotify.com/episode/23Uayk97l6CAr49NrGmh7y?si=ZkvsizQ4Sau4masvqGEKjgBonus | Is preschool important? - https://open.spotify.com/episode/6048h6fxgUWo2EJoTpgTyD?si=XxJnx0pEQmy49wulYgBFoQ Share your thoughts or ask a question - verygoodenoughpod@gmail.com Join Very Good Mothers Club to be a part of our community and join our live monthly calls (4th Tuesday of every month): https://verygoodmothersclubhouse.com/share/7ah7WID0giU77Bz0?utm_source=manual! Book a 1:1 coaching session with Layne: https://www.enquiryco.com/coaching Find us on Instagram: Jess - @jess_hover Layne - @enquiryco
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