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Pastor Paul (0:02)
All right. If you got a Bible, go to Genesis 37. Whoo. Come on. We shout for the first scripture in the word of God. Are y' all ready for the word this morning? I have been loving studying the character of Jacob in the Bible. He is a very complicated man. He is the father of 12 sons that came from four different women. He had four different baby mamas. If you thought your relationships and life was dysfunctional and messy, Jacob beats all of us, mostly. And Jacob not only had 12 sons from four different women, but they were all living in the same house. And that's also kind of a recipe for a lot of dysfunction and sibling rivalry and wife rivalry and frustrating. And by the way, God is not, like, supportive of polygamy, okay? God was not making this plan happen. This was man's way of trying to figure out what God wanted to do. But nonetheless, God used even Jacob's mistakes, even the flaws of this family God would work through. I'm so glad God can still work through our flaws. Like, one thing we learn about Jacob is that God uses messy people. And God is not intimidated by your mess or your dysfunctions or your flaws. God can still work in you. God chose Jacob. God chose Israel. Even though he didn't approve of every single decision that Israel and Jacob would do. Still to this day, that does not mean he still has not chosen them. Right. And God chooses you. Even though he doesn't support every single decision you do. God chooses you. I'm so glad God still chooses me even when I don't choose him, that God is still faithful even when I'm faithless, even when Israel would run from God and do things they shouldn't have done, God would still pursue them. And so we've been talking about Jacob and his family tree and his story, and today we're going to pick up on the sibling rivalry between all of the brothers and one specific son. And his name is Joseph. So Genesis 37, verse 1. Jacob lived in the land where his father had stayed, the land of Canaan. And this is the account of Jacob's family line. Joseph, a young man of 17. Any 17 year olds in the house today? Where's the 17 year olds at? Make some noise. Come on. Super pumped about being 17. All right, let me just say this. One thing we learn in Scripture is that God says, do not despise your youth. Do not despise your age. Do not think that God cannot use you at a young age or an old age. God is about to deposit a dream for the nations in a 17 year old God wants to awaken dreams in the young people that will impact the nations. God wants you to have a dream that's bigger than you. Everybody say the dream is bigger than you. And so Joseph starts dreaming. He starts dreaming with God. And I want to title this message. Really, it comes from verse 19. Skip to verse 19. His brothers get really jealous of him, really frustrated with him. And they say in verse 19, here comes that dreamer. And I want to title this message, here comes the dreamer. Everybody say, here comes the dreamer. Nothing makes the devil more mad and more threatened than than when God's people start dreaming with God's heartbeat. People who dare to dream that God has a plan for their life that could impact the world. Joseph starts dreaming with God at age 17. And by the way, all of us in this room should start dreaming with God right now. You don't have to be 17 to start dreaming. You could start dreaming with God when you're 12. You could keep dreaming with God when you're 90. Jacob kept dreaming with God even when he was 100 years old. You're never too old to dream. You're never too young to dream. You're never too poor to dream. You're never too rich to dream. You're never too whatever it is that you would try to say. I can't dream because I didn't come from this kind of family. Stop despising the dream that God wants to build in your life. Proverbs 29:18 says, where there is no vision, no dream, people settle for anything. People cast off restraint. People become complacent when they don't have a dream. What is a dreamer? When they said, here comes the dreamer. A dreamer. The definition of a dreamer is someone who sees something in their heart and moves towards it to make it a reality. Like a dreamer is not just someone who's imagining ideas, it's someone who's moving towards a vision. You get a vision on the inside and you begin to run towards that dream. So Joseph was getting a dream from God. What is a God dream? A dream from God is a dream that can only be achieved with God's help. If you could do it on your own, it's not a God dream. Everybody say this is a God dream. If it's a God dream, it will have God's peace. If it's a God dream, it will honor God's word. When people tell me, dude, I got a God dream and I'm like, okay, tell me what it is. And they're like, God wants me to start a strip club. I'm like, that's not a God dream. Okay? That's not a God. It will honor everybody. Say it will honor God's word. God gave me a dream. I'm gonna sell a bunch of alcohol, get everybody drunk. I'm like, that's not a God dream, okay? A God dream is going to honor God's word. If it's a God dream, it will bring God glory. If it's a dream from God, what we're going to learn from Joseph's dream as the son of Jacob, the dream that God put inside of him was not a dream to bring Joseph glory. It wasn't a dream to make Joseph a multimillionaire and this big success story so he gets all the spotlight. It was all about bringing God glory. It was about pointing people back to God. If it's a God dream, it won't be easy. It's gonna take work. It's gonna take work. It won't be easy. By the way, in scripture, God rebukes the spirit of laziness more than he rebukes drunkenness. Like laziness is on the top of the list of sins. Like God says, listen, if you wanna do something that's going to be worth it, it's gonna take work. And God doesn't reward a lazy, sluggish like, I just wanna sleep all day and play video games and not put any work towards this. The dream from God is going to require work. If it's a God dream, it will need God's help. If it's a God dream, it will need a God team. You're looking at a God team around you right here. Come on. There's no team that's better than the Victory dream team. God's team in this house. God doesn't want us fulfilling our dreams in isolation. God doesn't want us fulfilling our dreams all by ourselves. Self made. No. God wants you to rely on brothers and sisters in Christ that will help you. Iron, sharpening iron. If it's a God dream, it will have God's provision. Something my dad used to say when I was younger is where God guides, he provides. Where God directs, He protects. So when it's a God dream, it's going to have God's provision. But maybe more importantly in this chapter, if it's a God dream, there will be adversity, there will be adversity. Jesus told his disciples in John 16, he said, in this world you will have trouble. I've told you these things because adversity is Coming. Trouble is coming. It's not like when it will. It's not if it will happen, it's when it will. It is inevitable. But take heart. I have overcome the world. Greater is he that lives in you than he that is in this world. So let's pick up on Joseph's dream and the adversity that starts to stir. In verse two, it says Joseph was 17 years old. And immediately Joseph kind of sets off on the wrong foot. He sees his brothers making mistakes and he goes and tells his dad he's a little bit of a tattletale. He's like, dad, you know those other sons of yours, not me, the other ones, they're doing things they shouldn't do. They're getting into trouble. Just thought you should know so you can give them a spanking later on, you know, no more screen time for these siblings. Like, Joseph was a little bit of a tattletale. And so that already kind of stirred up frustration. But then in verse three, it says now Israel. By the way, who's Israel? Jacob. The Bible interchanges the name Israel and Jacob all often like Jacob is. Is who he is in one sentence and Israel is who he is in another sentence. And all this is just to remind you that God loves you on your worst day and your best day. God loves you when you look good, and God loves you when you look rough. God loves you when you got it all together, and God loves you when you don't have anything together. God loves you when you are a mess, and God loves you when you look your best. My daughter loves that song, I'm so blessed. I'm so blessed. And she always sings that one line. On my worst day, I. I'm a child of God and I'm a best day. I don't know the words, but that's the. That's the point right here, is that even when Israel is not living for God, God still loves him. Now it says Israel showed favoritism to Joseph, loved Joseph more than any of his other sons. Let me say something, parents. This is an important moment to remember. We can either stir up the sibling rivalry or we can bring a sense of unity in the family. 1. When we make one child the object of all of our affection, and we go, this is the best child. This is my favorite child. I love this child more than like, Jacob was kind of setting Joseph up to be hated simply by showing him all this love. Not only that, it says that Jacob made an ornate robe for him. One translation says it was made of many colors. A Technicolor. This morning I thought about wearing a rainbow coat to show. But then I was like, that might send mixed signals in the church. Like an Elton John rainbow jacket. So today I got a different kind of jacket. This is my Joseph coat. Here. I'm gonna put this on. Yeah, I'm gonna pop some tags. Oh, my God. $20 in my pocket. Just kidding. But here's the point, okay? Stop wearing church, okay? I can feel the jealousy in the room right now. You're like, why did he get that coat? Why does Joseph get that coat? Why don't I get that coat? I can feel the envy. When the brothers saw that coat and they saw their father's love, they hated him even more. They could not speak a kind word to him. Whose coat is living rent free in your head? Whose car, whose house, whose life, whose girlfriend, whose boyfriend? Whose perfect Instagram profile? With all their perfect pictures and their perfect kids and their perfect smile and their perfect hair and their perfect life? Who is stirring up disdain in your heart? Whose coat is living rent free in your head? Like these brothers, they could not get past not just the coat. It was something about Joseph, this dreamer, this guy. Beware of signs of hatred and betrayal. One thing I've learned by ministering to these guys in prison is that crimes don't start on the outside. Crimes start on the inside. Before these brothers would commit an external crime, they already started to develop hatred on the inside. Before Cain would kill Abel, God looks at Cain and he says, I see you staring at your brother Abel, and I see what's building in your heart. Sin is crouching at the door of your heart, Cain. You don't have to give in to these feelings of hatred towards another person. But I think some of the initial signs, and I think this is important for us to watch out for, is this initial sign of resentment. The second you start resenting somebody, resenting what they have, resenting their coat, resenting their car, resenting their status, resenting them. Resentment is this internal, just disdain towards someone. I just don't like this guy. Don't like this girl. And then secondly, he says they refused to say a kind word. When you can't even say one kind word. Encouragement is free. It doesn't cost you anything. But these brothers, they couldn't say one kind word to Joseph. They were frustrated. Thirdly, they were frustrated with his favor. When you find yourself just getting frustrated, why did they get favor? Why did they get this? Why did they keep having kids? Why did he get married before? Why did she get Married. Why is this hap. Why are they experiencing God's favor? The brothers were frustrated with Joseph's favor. Why does he look like his life is perfect? Why does it look like he never has a bad day? Why does it look like he is so loved and he is so confident? And when someone else's confidence makes you feel. Feel inferior, it's not their fault. It's your fault. When someone's aura just bothers you and you go, man, this feels harsh. This is what happened in the New Testament with the Pharisees towards Jesus. Now, Jesus wasn't wearing this weird coat. I'm gonna take this coat off. This is hot, okay? And I don't mean, like hot like. I mean, it's like, it's very sweaty, okay? But when Jesus started ministering, the Pharisees stared at him and they go, who do you think you are? Who do you think you are, walking in here preaching like this, doing miracles, coming into the temple, the Pharisees hardened their hearts. The brothers of Joseph hardened their hearts. And by the way, Joseph was not perfect. Joseph was flawed just like you and me. We got to be careful that we don't make characters in the Bible out to be perfect. None of them are perfect except Jesus. None of them are the hero in the story except for Jesus. None of us are the heroes in this story. We're all the villains. We're all the ones that need God's mercy. How many y' all are still in need of God's mercy in your life? God's still working on you like you're not the hero of the story. Only Jesus can save us. But in this moment, Joseph represents a shadow, a type of what Jesus is in the New Testament. And the brothers, they hardened their hearts. And the second you hardened your heart against someone, it's only a matter of time. The ultimate act of jealousy and hatred is murder, that jealousy that started brooding on the inside. In verse five, it says, joseph had a dream. Everybody say, Joseph had a dream. And when he told his brothers his dream, they hated him all the more. There was something about the dreams of Joseph that stirred up hatred and jealousy. And he says, listen, brothers, I love Joseph's naivety and a little bit of just immaturity. He's like, listen, Broski's. I had this dream that I had this, like, we were all bringing in the harvest. And my harvest, my sheaf rose to the top, and all of yours bowed down towards mine. What do you think about that, brothers? As he's wearing the coat, the Bible says, The brothers were so like, I'm laughing at Joseph and his mom, like, bro, stop. But he doesn't stop. He has another dream. In verse nine, it says he had another dream. He's like, hey, bros, I know you hate me, but I had another dream. And this time the sun, the moon, and the stars were bowing down to me. And again, you gotta be careful who you share your dream with. Be careful not to cast your pearls before swine. But also be careful not to cast your swine before pearls. Sometimes dreams need to be held on the inside. Sometimes dreams need to be laid at the altar. Sometimes dreams need to be reserved for a select few. Like Joseph is still a Jedi. A young Jedi in training. He's still learning. A lot of people want to be discovered, but few people want to be developed. And what Joseph is going to understand is that dreams need development. Dreams are not always just ready like a microwave, like you put them in for 15 seconds and then it's ready to go. It's going to take time. Everybody say it's going to take time. It's going to take time. And when it's taking time, the room you're sitting in was a dream in my Dad's heart for 20 seconds, years before it was open. 1981, Victory Church started. God gives my dad a dream. And in this dream, it was about one day opening a worship center with thousands of seats and packed altars and a room that would be debt free. And we would build it on a cash basis. And it was this powerful dream. And then it took 26 years for that dream to come to pass. And here's what the Bible says in Proverbs. Hope deferred makes the heart sick. The enemy knows if he can hit you with delay after delay after delay, he can get you to give up on the dream. Today we sit in a room that's not only debt free, but this entire ministry is debt free. We don't owe a penny to the bank on Dream Center Camp Victory, Victory Bible College, Victory Christian School, the church, y'.
