Ever feel like your peace of mind is at the mercy of that one difficult coworker or family member? It is possible to shift the focus from the impossible task of fixing others to the transformative work of guarding your own soul through the radical, peace-centered path of Jesus. By choosing to step out of the role of judge and jury, you can discover a steadier way of living where your joy isn't fragile and your identity isn't dictated by how others treat you.

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Responsibility Slide

Not Your Responsibility: their choices, their thoughts, their actions, their anger, bitterness, or resentment, their ability to change, the big picture of their life, the consequences of their choices, when or how God will bring justice, how they respond to you, their relationship with God, and their healing.
Your Responsibility: your attitude, choosing to overcome evil with good, doing what is right, pursuing peace, not repaying evil for evil, how you treat others, even your enemies, trusting God with justice, and leaving room for God to handle it.

God's Wrath

What God's wrath is: God’s settled, consistent opposition to evil. It is the expression of his love when it confronts evil.
What God's wrath is not: emotional volatility, A divine mood swing, or God losing his temper.