I Lived In A Brothel

Summary

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Podcast Summary: "I Lived In A Brothel"

Podcast: We're All Insane
Host: Devorah Roloff
Guest: Lexi
Date: May 10, 2026

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Episode Overview

This episode features Lexi, an independent escort and entrepreneur, sharing her authentic, unfiltered story of entering and navigating the sex work industry—covering everything from her initial naïveté at a webcam studio to working at legal brothels, becoming an independent escort, and now developing her own business focused on movement and emotional well-being. Lexi offers candid reflections on the realities of sex work, industry stigmas, financial wellness, interpersonal relationships, and personal growth, revealing her resilience, business acumen, and commitment to authenticity.

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Major Discussion Points & Insights

1. How Lexi Entered the Sex Industry (01:23–05:12)

• Lexi started working young (fast food, Massage Envy) before stumbling upon a modeling gig from a Craigslist ad at age 18, which turned out to be a webcam studio.
• Early experiences were marked by innocence and unawareness. She made significant income simply by interacting with viewers fully clothed until she realized the sexual nature of the camming industry.
• Quote:

  “I was so naïve that I still wasn’t aware of what I was doing… then someone asked, ‘Can I see your butthole?’ and it all clicked.”
  (Lexi, 04:20)

2. Coming Out & Taking Power (08:39–11:09)

• Lexi faced doxxing when someone attempted to expose her sex work identity online.
• Instead of hiding, she proactively told her parents and went public, reclaiming agency over her narrative.
• Parental support provided essential stability.
• Quote:

  “Going public with it for me was me taking back my power.”
  (Lexi, 11:09)

3. Shifting into Stripping & Financial Strategy (14:10–21:33)

• With the OnlyFans boom during COVID and subsequent plateau, Lexi auditioned as a stripper—though she admits she had stage fright and was introverted.
• She learned confidence and effective hustling techniques in strip clubs, especially during the pandemic when she excelled despite restrictions.
• Emphasized the importance of seeing sex work as a business and building client rapport.
• Quote:

  “When I enter the strip club, I put my phone away. I’m never sitting in the back… always moving around, introducing myself.”
  (Lexi, 20:16)

4. Boundaries & Safety in Sex Work (21:33–23:49)

• Lexi attributes her lack of negative experiences to solid boundaries, intuition, and honest intentions with clients.
• She distances herself from industry drama and cautions against risky or exploitative behaviors.
• Stresses being a “safe place” for clients.

5. Double Standards in Relationships (24:01–31:59)

• Lexi discusses challenges and contradictions in dating while in the sex industry, highlighting societal double standards on sex work and strip club patronage.
• Partners often want exclusivity from her while still seeking strippers themselves.
• Quote:

  “You don’t want me doing this work… but you want to go and entertain… those same groups of people you tried to dim in me. That’s a double standard.”
  (Lexi, 28:05)

6. Experiences in Legal Brothels (36:09–41:47)

• Lexi details her time working at the Mustang Ranch (Nevada’s legal brothel)—how to audition, the structure of “lockdown” houses, health requirements, themed rooms, pricing, and client negotiations.
• Shares both humorous and bizarre client requests (e.g., watching a man perform autofellatio, facilitating “fashion show nights” for crossdressers).
• Many married clients seek connection more than sex.
• Quote:

  “A lot of the married men that come see us genuinely just want connection… somebody to call them handsome, rub on them, hear them and see them.”
  (Lexi, 41:47)

7. Financial Wellness & Overwork (47:17–51:29)

• Lexi advocates treating sex work as a business—managing income, taxes, and intentions for each shift.
• Warns against letting fast money and constant hustle overshadow self-care.
• Shares a pivotal health scare: a severe staph infection led to hospitalization and near amputation, which forced her to reevaluate her lifestyle and relationships.
• Quote:

  “Money can’t buy happiness… I was just eating, living, breathing, shitting, working. That’s it. My identity revolved around my job… I had to really find myself.”
  (Lexi, ~54:01)

8. Evolving Identity & Rebranding (55:55–62:12)

• Admits the importance of developing hobbies and a life outside of sex work for long-term fulfillment.
• Pivoted to yoga, emotional regulation, and coaching to help others (especially women in her industry) build boundaries and emotional intelligence.

9. Independent Escorting & Business Acumen (67:08–75:17)

• Lexi explains managing her independent escort business: screening clients, prioritizing safety, maintaining discretion, and filtering fits for compatibility.
• She charges high rates to ensure alignment and safety for both parties.
• Describes maintaining agency and enjoyment in her work by being selective.
• Quote:

  “I don’t ever take clients that I don’t want to see… I’m always present, I like to live my life in the present moment.”
  (Lexi, 75:52)

10. Industry Stigma & Community Dynamics (85:29–91:04)

• Discusses the prevalence of “pimps” and her status as a “renegade” (independent).
• Highlights intra-industry stigmas among strippers, escorts, and OnlyFans creators; advocates for unity and mutual support.
• Quote:

  “We’re all here doing the same thing… If anything, we should be building each other up because we are all outcasts in this society.”
  (Lexi, 90:01)

11. Future Plans, Legacy & Personal Boundaries (80:56–84:48)

• Lexi is focused on building her yoga and coaching brand, “Soft Chaos.”
• She has an exit plan for leaving sex work but will not make it public—emphasizing autonomy over her own story.
• Is open about wanting children “maybe not a man,” jaded from what she’s seen in relationships.
• Quote:

  “I’m doing this for me, and I’m on my time… If anything were to make me quit today, it would probably be that aspect of public expectation. I don’t run like that. I’m human, too.”
  (Lexi, 84:25)

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Notable Quotes & Memorable Moments

• “Going public with it for me was me taking back my power.” — Lexi (11:09)
• “Men will always be men… I just work here. They’re gonna come regardless.” — Lexi (25:33)
• “I have an exit plan. And I genuinely love doing what I do so much… I wouldn’t take back anything I’ve done.” — Lexi (82:45)
• “What’s meant for you will always find you. I’m an escort—I don’t fuck in the club… I dance at the club.” — Lexi (90:48)
• “If you don’t like the truth… nobody wants to hear the truth. And that’s—well, look at society today.” — Lexi (60:05)

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Timestamps for Key Segments

| Segment | Timestamps | |--------------------------------------------|---------------| | How Lexi got started | 01:23–05:12 | | Doxxing and going public | 08:39–11:09 | | COVID & OnlyFans/Stripping | 14:10–21:33 | | Club Hustle & Safety | 20:16–23:49 | | Double standards in dating | 24:01–31:59 | | Legal brothel life and client stories | 36:09–41:47 | | Overwork, health crisis, and transformation| 47:17–55:55 | | Business advice for sex workers | 48:29–51:29 | | Identity, hobbies, and coaching | 55:55–62:12 | | Independent escorting—screening & rates | 67:08–75:17 | | Industry unity & stigma | 85:29–91:04 | | Personal boundaries & future plans | 80:56–84:48 |

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Reflections & Themes

• Empowerment & Agency: Lexi’s entire narrative centers on reclaiming power over her story, choices, and boundaries.
• Business & Hustle: She treats sex work with the strategy, planning, and discipline of an entrepreneur—encouraging others not to underestimate its demands.
• Honest Conversations: Openly discusses industry double standards, societal stigma, and intra-community conflicts, calling for more unity and acceptance.
• Radical Authenticity: Lexi refuses to hide, lie, or apologize for her work, emphasizing the importance of self-knowledge and not letting external “noise” impact her self-worth.

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Closing Thoughts

Lexi’s story is a testament to resilience, strategic thinking, and unwavering honesty. Listeners are offered a nuanced, stereotype-breaking look at modern sex work—where self-respect, safety, and personal growth matter as much as the financial rewards. For anyone curious about the behind-the-scenes realities of the industry, her experience provides both hard truths and hopeful inspiration.

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Transcript

[A]

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[B]

Hi, my name is Lexi and I'm an independent escort. And I am now focusing on my new business called Soft Chaos. And it's mostly movement with yoga and emotional regulation with coaching. So I'll tell you guys how I kind of got started. When I was 16, I used to have two jobs. I worked at a lot of fast food industries and my last job was out of Massage Envy. And I got fired from Massage Envy. And during that time period, I was looking for jobs and. And I stumbled upon, like a modeling gig, or so I thought it was a modeling gig. And so when I showed up to the studio, the guy was like, can I see your id? I gave him my id. He made me pick, like, a username. And during that moment, I still wasn't sure. Yeah, like, what I was doing.

[A]

Where did you find it? Just online.

[B]

So actually it was an ad on Craigslist. Yes. And I was like, during that time, I was already kind of modeling and doing photography, like freelance modeling. And so I was like, okay, let's check this out. So I went and checked it out, and at this time, I was 18 years old, and I just remember just like walking in there and I was like, so excited. And he was like, here's your username. We're going to Put you in a room. Here's a laptop. It was a studio, a webcam studio. And I was placed in a room. And I remember, like, logging on to the website, like the campsite. And I still didn't know what I was doing. Like, I was so naive that I still wasn't aware of what I was doing. And then I was kind of just like chatting with the chatters on there. And I was making a lot of money just like talking just like this.

[A]

And was the video on?

[B]

Yes. So the video was on and live. And it was just like my own room that they had in the studio with like a bed and a camera and a computer. And I was just jamming, listening to music, dancing around, having the most fun. And by the end of, like, my four hour shift, I had made probably around $800 for four hours. And I just remember that being so much money to me. I was like, wow, I didn't do anything.

[A]

I just sat there and fully clothed,

[B]

fully clothed, dancing around. And to this moment, I still didn't know what I was doing. So I went home. And then he asked me when I was gonna be back. So I came back. And the next day I came back and I was like online with the chatters and stuff, and somebody asked me, can I see your butthole? And I was like, wait. I was like, holy crap, is this what I'm doing? Like, this is camming. Like, I was like, oh, my goodness, this is.

[A]

Yeah.

[B]

So it all clicked and I was like, wow, I'm so naive because how did I not know that this is me being a webcam model, right? So I went over to the manager, I left my room, and I was like, hey, these people are asking to see my butthole. Like, is that allowed? And he was like, you can do whatever you want in the room as long as you're not drinking or doing drugs. Whatever you want in there, whatever you want to do in there, that's your place to do whatever. And I was kind of like, oh, wow.

[A]

Yeah.

[B]

Okay.

[A]

So in that moment between somebody asking to see your asshole and asking him and him saying, you can do whatever you want, did you have any hesitation or were you kind of just like, okay, I'll do it?

[B]

I had no hesitation. Okay. I was like, wait, I've been making all this money fully clothed, right? What's gonna happen next?

[A]

Yeah, okay.

[B]

And I will say a little backstory. In high school, I was very to myself. I knew a lot of people, but I wasn't very much. So clicked up in groups and I feel like I lost my virginity at 17 years old. And I think me doing this today has kind of surprised a lot of people from my past because they would have never expected this from me.

[A]

Okay.

[B]

Which I find very interesting.

[A]

Yeah, that is interesting. What do you think changed

[B]

growing up? I've always had a strong sense of self, and I think that's why, for the most part, I've always stuck to myself. And for me, it was more so the independence and the freedom that came with the financial aspect of that job and being able to really do everything on my own because it created a sense of stability for me within myself.

[A]

Got it.

[B]

To not have to rely on anyone else.

[A]

That makes sense. And then how many girls were at the studio when you were there at a time?

[B]

There were probably, like, between four to seven girls, sometimes more, sometimes less. But I really enjoyed the aspect of having my own schedule.

[A]

So you could just go whenever you want.

[B]

Right. So every Fridays, I would plan out my cam schedule, send it to the owner, and then I would just come in even if they weren't there. We had, like, access to the building. We could leave whenever. I could stay for however many hours I'd like. I could leave whenever. And to me, that gave me so much freedom to just, like, really graduate high school and then make so much money and save it. Because, like I said, I was working two jobs ever since I was 16 years old, and no matter how hard I worked or for how long I worked, I just wasn't making enough money. I've always been addicted to working, whether that's in the sex industry or not. So I kind of just like, put more effort into this, I guess you

[A]

could say, for a lot of people in this industry, I think they do it. It's financial freedom, you know? And I think that when you. Especially when you're not used to making that kind of money, and then you see how easy it is, and you can do it without working under anyone else, and you make your own hours and you do everything. It's just like. It almost becomes addicting, for sure. On top of you having a strong work ethic, it seems. So that makes sense.

[B]

Absolutely.

[A]

So what happened after they. You talked to the guy and you said, they want to see my asshole? And he was like, you can do whatever you want.

[B]

So I just went in there, and I just ended up doing the whole thing. And I was working there for a while, probably around a year. I remembered just being able to buy what I want and do what I want, and people were starting to Question me. So I started webcamming and I didn't tell anybody. And a lot of people were kind of wondering how I was making all this money.

[A]

And you weren't working any of their jobs, I'm assuming.

[B]

Right. And I kind of kept this on the down low. Like I didn't really want anyone to know. During that time, I remember just like telling people I did graphic designs and stuff like that, which was obviously a lie, but I didn't know how else to say at the time until one day I got doxxed. So as a webcam model, I became super successful. And during that time, somebody from my personal life, to this day, I don't know who it is, decided to get onto my personal Instagram account. And I had an Instagram picture and the caption was, on my worst behavior. I'll never forget this. Like, this is so funny to me. And somebody had made an account with my government name and they decided to choose that. They decided to pick a photo of me from my webcam site as their profile picture. And then they commented under my photo that was captioned on my worst behavior and said, yeah, you are. And I was like, somebody knows somebody knows somebody. Somebody knows somebody. Whoever this is, they know me. Like, you know, and not only that, like, they're really trying to expose the situation at hand. And so during this time, I was living alone and I wasn't living with my parents.

[A]

Were you nervous at all about your parents finding out?

[B]

I want to say just a little bit, and why it was so uncomfortable is because obviously if I wanted to share this with the world, I would share it myself.

[A]

Yeah.

[B]

And I love talking about my own issues and my own ignorance. I'm willing to see my own ignorance in a lot of situations. And I'm not perfect. And it was more so just like, okay, what are we going to do moving forward? How are we. How am I going to, like, move through this without it causing me internal chaos?

[A]

Yeah.

[B]

And for me, the very next day, I just decided to go public with it.

[A]

Okay.

[B]

Going public with it for me was me taking back my power. And once I went, I got the chills. Once I went public with it, I told my parents. They were the first to hear it from me. And from that point, moving forward, I kind of just didn't care. Like, I told my parents that was the case.

[A]

How did they take it?

[B]

My parents? Of course, my dad commends me for my hard work and my work ethic because he's like, at this age, I never had what you had. And it's all because of my career. But at the same time, my parents aren't over the moon jumping for joy either. But they're really proud of me for doing what I want to do and standing 10 toes down with what I do. And they really support me and they love me unconditionally. And that really matters to me because without them giving me that unconditional love and support, that's how a lot of I feel like a lot of women in my industry kind of end up making bad choices. Yeah, it's really important to have a strong support system, and I'm really fortunate to have my support system be my parents.

[A]

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[B]

So I did webcamming for 2018, 2019, and then 2020 came around. Then it was Covid, right? And I remember during 2020, OnlyFans was everyone was Talking about onlyfans. And I was kind of just like, haha. Like, I've been doing onlyfans for a while now and now I'm starting to get tired of doing onlyfans, right. So I was like thinking about it. I'm like, okay, now everyone and their moms want to do onlyfans. And I've been doing this. I'm like, what else can I do? Because I want to kind of do something different. Different now. So I ended up auditioning at a strip club. And before I auditioned, I drove myself to the strip club three times. The first time, the second time, and the third time I drove 30 minutes and I sat in the parking lot.

[A]

And you couldn't go in.

[B]

I couldn't go in.

[A]

Were you just nervous?

[B]

Yeah.

[A]

Right. Because I don't think people realize the difference of. I mean, this whole time you were behind a screen, right? So it's like all in your control, your comfort, you know? And now you're about to, right. Go into a real world situation, right.

[B]

And it's like the webcamming, right. Like I can turn it off, shut it down, you know what I mean? And so, and then again in high school, like, I was really quiet. I'm an introvert, I'm an ambivert. So I'm an introvert, extrovert. But I'm pretty quiet for the most part. And I'm very reserved and I'm very. I like to watch and just stay in my little bubble. I love talking to people. I'm a people pleaser. Because if I wasn't a people pleaser, I wouldn't be successful in this industry. However, I do have really strong boundaries. And so going back to the time where I was just sitting in the car, yeah, I was scared. I was just like, wow, do I know how to talk to men in person? Do I really know how to do this? I'm like, how hard can this be? And so I was watching the girls like get out of their cars walking into the club and I was just so scared because again, doing this type of work, it's always for me. I've always done everything by myself, for myself. I've never had a pimp, I've never had a man control my money. Everything I've done in my life has been for me by myself. And I really value that because it's hard in this industry to find genuine people that will lead you down the right path without wanting anything from you.

[A]

Yeah.

[B]

So I had to kind of take that into consideration and go in there with the sense of, like, okay, I don't know what I'm doing, and I don't know how this works, but I know I'm not going to be able to ask anybody for help.

[A]

Right, because who do you trust?

[B]

Everybody in here is, you know, humans are conditioned to survive, okay? So it's like at the end of the day, they're all worried about themselves. And I walked in there the fourth time and I auditioned, and it was so scary because, again, I also had, like, stage fright. It's weird because I had stage fright, but I also loved performing. I loved performing today. I love being on stage. I love having so much personality and attitude. But it took a while for me to kind of get that part of me out.

[A]

You have to gain the confidence in anything you do, even if you're good at it. It takes, I feel like, a little bit of time to really get into it and be like, okay, I got this. A couple questions first. When you were doing the webcam modeling stuff, how far did that go? Did it get to a point of you were masturbating on camera? Was it always just you? Did you ever have people on the webcam with you?

[B]

Yeah, it was me. I'd do anything on camera. Just for the most part, it was just me. I've had a couple, like, partners join me on some of those, but, yeah, I'd be doing the most. I get a lot of requests. So I started off as a dominatrix, and I got a lot of odd requests to do pegging and small penis humiliation and cuck play and public humiliation and sissification and cross dressing and all those fun good stuff. And I genuinely enjoy the sissies the most because they're so fun. And I started off as a dominatrix from a really young age, and a lot of guys were like, oh, my gosh, how are you so good at this? And I was like, I'm just a born natural, right? That's hilarious.

[A]

Okay, so you did that, and then when you went in to do this audition, walk us through that, what was that like?

[B]

So during the audition, it was just kind of like, I walked in and they put me in this dressing room, and this dressing room was really small, and I just remember seeing, like, all the naked girls, and I was like, oh, my God, I'm here.

[A]

Yeah.

[B]

Like, I was like, I can't believe I'm doing this right now.

[A]

Now, was this a full nude strip club?

[B]

No, just topless.

[A]

Okay.

[B]

So I, like, got changed and then auditioned, and then honestly, I was so Overwhelmed the first day, just from the audition that I definitely auditioned and then went home. And then I came back the next day and was like, okay, now's my time to shine. And I went in, clocked in, got dressed, got on stage, and made so much money and had so much fun. And another thing is, is that during 2020, it was Covid time. So a lot of my friends that were already dancing were like, lexi, this is such the wrong time for you to start dancing, because the clubs are. You're dancing six feet apart. You gotta wear a mask. And I was like, challenge accepted.

[A]

Yeah.

[B]

That's how I am with anything. I'm like, challenge accepted. So I was dancing with a mask on, like, far. Like, you know, so far away from these men, and they were still paying me so much money.

[A]

Yeah.

[B]

I probably made way more money during the pandemic.

[A]

Wow.

[B]

Yeah. And it's amazing.

[A]

You couldn't do lap dances. Right, Right. Okay.

[B]

So that's also why I was like, wait a minute. I'm dancing during the pandemic, and I'm making so much money, and I haven't even really done any dances yet.

[A]

Right.

[B]

So I was like, wow. And meanwhile, all the girls in the club were kind of like, I'm not making any money. I'm not making any money. And I just want to say to all my ladies that are in this industry, I just feel like there's always a way I can walk into an empty club and there be, like, three, four guys, and I will hustle them for their money. Like, there's a way to do things. And for me, when I enter the strip club, I put my phone away. I'm never sitting in the back in the locker room. I'm always moving around. I always introduce myself to people. Hi, how are you? How's your night going? What are you drinking? Oh, can I get you another drink? You know what I mean? I'm gonna go say hi to my other. Right. I'm gonna go say hi to my other friends. I'll be back around. Keyword. You're introducing yourself, and then you're going to be back around. You know what I mean? It gives you an opportunity to say hi, come back around, get to know them a little bit. They're going to be watching you on stage, they're going to be watching you with other people, and nine times out of 10, they're going to want to get a dance from you. And so I just find that it's important to really work in the club if you're going to go into this industry, really have a mindset of a strong mindset and really have strong goals that you're going to follow. You know what I mean?

[A]

Now, have you ever. Two questions. One, have you ever been in a situation in the strip club that made you really uncomfortable?

[B]

No.

[A]

Okay.

[B]

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[A]

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[B]

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[A]

And then second was, have you ever met a guy at the strip club that you were like, I like you? Yes. Okay.

[B]

So I want to say that I am so highly protected and blessed by the universe. And I also have very strong intuition and I've never had a bad experience in the strip club industry and in my, in my escorting industry. And I feel like the reason for that is because I really move with genuine intentions. And I think that's really important because a lot of girls, a lot of the times when you see crazy headlines where it's like this stripper was murdered or killed or whatever, I've heard stories from girls that are working in the club where they're talking about robbing clients or talking about demanding more money from clients or talking about xyz. And to me, that's dangerous. I would never do that. Because now you're a target, right? I'm very upfront. What you, what you're gonna get, what you see is what you're gonna get. You know what I mean? There's never any hidden charges or fees. And I feel like as a provider, as a sex worker, you should be the safe place. And if you're a true sex worker and a true provider, there's no way you're going to try to scam clients, rob them, or do anything of that sort. That's how bad stories happen.

[A]

And then I asked you about if you liked anybody there.

[B]

Oh, if I like the client?

[A]

Yes. Yeah, yeah, yeah.

[B]

Okay. So,

[A]

like, what do you do in that situation?

[B]

This has only happened to me one time and it was so weird because I was working at this club in Tucson, Arizona, and this guy walked in and he was part of like a bachelorette group and I was kind of like, oh, like, what's going on here? So I got to know them all and this one guy was really cute, and he was telling me how he works in Texas and he works at a strip club in Texas. I was like, what? And he was like, yeah. And then he named the strip club, and I was like, no way. Like, I used to dance there. And he's like, well, I don't work there anymore. I work at a different one now. And I was like, wow. Like, small world. And so just from that, I feel like I was already intrigued because I was like, okay, familiar territory. Like, he works at a club, I'm at a club. I'm curious. And so I gave him some dances, and things went good. Things went well. I mean, I was just working. I was just doing my job. You know what I mean? But then I realized I found out that he had a girlfriend anyways, so I was like, oh, farewell, my friend. So it was kind of like there wasn't anything. I mean, I was doing my job, I did my job, and that was that.

[A]

And what are your thoughts around that? Men that have girlfriends or wives, and they're coming to the strip clubs for dances from you guys and attention from you guys personally.

[B]

Unfortunately, men will always be men. And I just feel like I don't really have much of an opinion about it because I'm like, I just work here. Yeah, they're gonna come regardless.

[A]

Have you been in a relationship since being in this industry?

[B]

Yes, I have.

[A]

And how did your boyfriend feel about it? Or boyfriend, girlfriend, partner? Doesn't matter.

[B]

At first it was fine, and then it was, like, not so fine. And for me, I'll never trade my stability for something temporary.

[A]

Makes sense.

[B]

Yeah.

[A]

Do you think, like, if you were in a relationship, would you care if you were a partner, was getting lap dances or going to strip clubs as a sex worker?

[B]

Like, would I care if my partner was doing that? Knowing that I'm a dancer, just in general. Okay. So here's something that I've actually been recently dealing with. So sometimes I'll talk to people or whoever I'm talking to, and I'll kind of just like, feel like how they feel about my job and stuff like that. And sometimes they're like, oh, I wouldn't want my girlfriend doing that. So I'm like, okay, I respect that. If you don't want your girlfriend doing that, then maybe this won't work. You know what's funny is they end up sticking around knowing that I do sex work. And it's always a little bit funnier because I ask them. I'm like, okay, so what's the exact reason why, like you're not comfortable with this. And it's always like, oh, my values. Like I just won't, I don't want my woman doing that. X, Y, Z, X, Y, Z. And then I'm like, okay, well then a few weeks will go by and this same person will be like, hey, I want to go to the strip club.

[A]

Yeah.

[B]

With my friends and have fun.

[A]

Right. So it's like, where's.

[B]

And I'm just like thinking to myself, like, oh, well, that's a double standard. Yeah, that's a double standard. Because you don't want me doing this work. You don't want me to have all eyes on me, but you want to go and entertain or put your attention on those same groups of people that you tried to dim in me. Dim, you know?

[A]

Yeah.

[B]

And it's like, that's a double standard that I don't really know how to feel about that because it's like, well,

[A]

it's difficult because I think it. Then it goes back to what you said before of it being a situation where you're like, why would I even get involved with anybody? Like, I'd rather just keep doing my thing. Keep making money.

[B]

Exactly.

[A]

Because it's difficult. It's hard to find good men. And then when you do, it's like, I'm sure, like, obviously a good man isn't gonna want you to be a sex worker. And then maybe he does, maybe he doesn't do his own thing, but either way, it's like you're giving up your sense of freedom without knowing what the outcome is gonna be. Right.

[B]

For something temporary.

[A]

Yeah.

[B]

And I've been so self sufficient my entire life since the age of 18 that it's like, if you wanna be

[A]

in my life, accept it as is and Right.

[B]

Because it's like I at this point have done so much for me that the only way I want you around me is if you can bring me a peace of mind.

[A]

Yeah.

[B]

I already get love from the streets, so be my piece. You know what I mean? And yeah, because I find that so interesting and I don't even know how to.

[A]

It's hard. It's a, it's a. Interesting topic. Right subject for sure. I don't think anybody. I think people are very quick to judge it and have opinions. But then when you really get down to the nitty gritty of it, it's like most people aren't, aren't saints, you know, they're going to make decisions and, or fall into situations. I feel like, that it's going to completely contradict, right. Their values or things that they say and everything in between. So it's interesting, for sure.

[B]

And it makes me feel bad about myself because it's like you're over here telling me that you don't want to be involved with someone like me, but then you're going to go, and you want to go seek that type of entertainment elsewhere. You know what I mean? It's kind of just like, right, if it. I would be okay with my partner wanting to go to the club if they didn't make it an issue about me. You know what I mean? But now that you're making it an issue about me and you're still wanting to go have. You're trying to, like, double dip and have your cake and eat it too. And I'm just like, not really for that, you know?

[A]

I agree.

[B]

Because then I also feel like it's. You're kind of, like, laughing in my face. Like, I feel like it's insulting. It's insulting to be like, I don't want a female in my life like this, but I'm gonna go. I'm gonna go admire the arts and crafts that women like you provide.

[A]

Right?

[B]

Like, you wanna be in that type of culture. You want to enjoy the beauty of my job, but you don't want me doing it.

[A]

Well, I think, too, for men, I mean, they are. They have big egos. They need that validated a lot of times. And I think, too, they like attention, and it makes them feel good to feel like these women are just all over them. And it's funny to me because I don't think many of them realize, like, at the end of the day, it's your job to do that. So it's just like. Which is interesting too, because they'll make those comments, and somehow being in those environments fuels their ego, yet you guys are just making a dime. You know what I mean? So it's just. It's very interesting to me how many opinions people have around sex work in the industry. And it's. I mean, even with porn, it's like, you wanna people bash it, but everyone watches it.

[B]

Right. And it's. Escorting is the longest profession in history. So it's like it's been around for. For a long time.

[A]

Yeah.

[B]

And it's probably never gonna go away. And what I would suggest for men to do is don't indulge in it.

[A]

Mm.

[B]

That's the only way it's gonna stop. Because these men, these same men that are out Here talking about onlyfans this and onlyfans that. They're the same men that are giving us the opportunity.

[A]

Absolutely.

[B]

To gain from this.

[A]

Yeah.

[B]

And us as women should profit off of this because it's like they're giving us the ability to do so. They're not standing on what they believe in. They're saying one thing, but then they're going behind the screen and they're little porn addicts or whatever else. You know what I mean? It's like, be true to yourself.

[A]

I don't think most of these people know themselves, and I think that's why they dabble in a lot of different things.

[B]

Absolutely. I feel like also the people that target my community, sex workers. I feel like those people also don't have a strong sense of self. Anybody that is going to sit online and judge me for my life.

[A]

Yeah.

[B]

Or for my path or for my walk in this journey.

[A]

Right. It's none of your business.

[B]

It's.

[A]

It doesn't affect you, but it just

[B]

tells me that you don't know yourself.

[A]

Yeah.

[B]

It just.

[A]

It really does because you're wasting your energy on another human.

[B]

Right. I'm happy. I'm healthy. My parents love me. I have a good family. Like my. I'm loved by my parents. Everything is so good. You know? So the people that are sitting online, like, trying to bash me or like try to do xyz, it's like. Like, I truly, genuinely just want to give you guys a big hug.

[A]

Yeah. Right.

[B]

You know?

[A]

Yeah. It's not affecting your page.

[B]

Right. Like, it's not affecting me at all in the slightest. And it actually makes me pity them because I'm like, I hope one day that you're able to find peace in your life so that you aren't so bitter towards random people on the Internet. Because again, we're on the Internet, we don't really all know each other.

[A]

Yeah.

[B]

And a lot of people cultivate this parasocial relationships with multiple people online. And I just think that that could be so dangerous as well.

[A]

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[B]

It was easy to balance. Okay. In I want to say 2021 or 2022, I started working at the Mustang Ranch in Sparks, Nevada.

[A]

Okay, what is that?

[B]

It's a brothel. A legalized brothel in Nevada.

[A]

Wow. Yes.

[B]

So I went there and I worked for a bit. I didn't know what I was doing. This was my first time like being an escort. I was like, what's going on?

[A]

So you this place, when you work, you're working there, you're working there. Okay.

[B]

And this was like a lockdown house. So yeah, run me through it. I'm so curious. So I auditioned, I applied online. They called me back. They will make you buy your Own tickets and stuff to come out.

[A]

What is the audition like?

[B]

Oh, you just, like, submit an application online.

[A]

Okay. So it's not like you don't have to really do anything.

[B]

Right.

[A]

Okay.

[B]

But I will say your application photos must look just like you, because if you show up and you're not who you were in the photos, they will turn your ass right back in the road.

[A]

Okay.

[B]

Yeah.

[A]

So no catfishing, Right.

[B]

So you pick like two weeks that you want to work. And it's a lockdown house. So you get tested for STDs and all that good stuff. You're always supposed to use protection for any services at the ranch. And you would get your own room. It was like a room and board. So you'd get your own room with your own bathroom, and you would get three free meals a day. And the rooms were. They had like a BDSM room. They had a Mediterranean room, a cowboy room. They had all these cool, like, fantasy rooms. And then we had our own rooms, of course.

[A]

And so you lived there for two weeks?

[B]

Yes.

[A]

Okay.

[B]

That was my shift.

[A]

Got it.

[B]

Because once you get tested, you're locked in.

[A]

Ah, okay. So they want you to stay there, Right?

[B]

Because you're tested, you're clean, you're. Even though we're using protection for all services. That's how it was there.

[A]

Okay.

[B]

And so I was just working there, working there, working there. And I was making money, but not going to lie, I had a sugar daddy during this time. So I kind of went to be a little journalist. Like, I was like, what is this? I'm so curious. Like, I don't need to be here. But also, uh huh. What is a legal brothel? I was so intrigued. So I was like, okay, I'm coming to find out. Even though I was like, not. I didn't know what I was doing. I was like, oh my God, what am I doing? Like, it was just so fun trying to figure it out. Because I was like, if I had to be there because I'm single, I don't have kids, if I had to be there, I feel like obviously that would be much different story. But I was like, I'm gonna come find out.

[A]

Right?

[B]

And I ended up leaving there.

[A]

When you were there, are they. Are you picking and choosing what you accept and don't accept? Or do you just kind of what's.

[B]

Whatever comes in? So they would do lineups or walk ins or whatever. And if a guy chooses you, you would go into the negotiation room and negotiate a price and whatever.

[A]

And what. And what he wants and what he wants.

[B]

And if it's like, if it's. If it's a good price for what you want and that's something that you want to do and you agree on it, then you can do it for me. Lexi always gets what she wants, so I would deny a lot of people just because I am low volume today as well. If for me to have a good time with you, I kind of want what I want.

[A]

Yeah.

[B]

If you're gonna try to lowball me,

[A]

where's the incentive?

[B]

Right. It's not gonna be a pleasurable experience for both you and me. So I kind of want what I want so that I can give you the best time too. So I'd walk people out. And the owners weren't too happy about that. And I do remember being like, ain't this my. You know what I mean? Like, I'm confused. Like, why the owner? Cuz I.

[A]

What, what percentage of a cut would they get?

[B]

50%.

[A]

Wow. Wow.

[B]

So when I tell ya that I'm walking people out because a, this doesn't serve me and my energy. Yeah. If you're coming into my room and you're gonna, I don't know, offer me a thousand dollars, I'm gonna have to say no.

[A]

Right. Were you ever asked to do something like crazy?

[B]

Yeah.

[A]

Give me an example.

[B]

I love. This is gonna be scary. Sorry if I'm gonna scare you guys, but like I said, I like when

[A]

people like weird things because it's so fun, it's entertaining.

[B]

I've seen a guy suck his own dick. I was like, hell yeah. How he. And no, you don't have to have your ribs removed to do this because he did not. Was his dick huge? I'm like, I shall do a little demonstration, shall we? He was like. And I was like. And I love watching that shit. Like, I absolutely love watching that. Like, obviously it's not like turning me on. I'm not gonna be like. But I like, I'm intrigued. Like, I'm like there for the moment.

[A]

He just wanted you to watch.

[B]

Yeah.

[A]

Okay. Wow. Oh my God.

[B]

I've had other guys book me and they just want to play dress up. So I have like a box in my room that has a bunch of skirts and dresses and like cute little panties and lingerie and they want to wear it. Yeah. And so we'll do like fashion show nights.

[A]

And the thing is too. It's like, for them, they probably love this because you guys don't know each other and they're able to just do what they're into with no shame.

[B]

And I love that. Like, I love being able to hold space for people that don't seem to be able to, like, fit in anywhere or.

[A]

Cause it's not always sexual. Well, it's like. It's like a sexual fantasy in a different way. It's not like. So people like that, they aren't really there to have sex. They just want to.

[B]

They just want to feel loved and involved. And it's sad because I will say this, A lot of the married men that come see us genuinely just want connection. This podcast is brought to you by Carvana. Selling your car should feel like one less thing on your list. Not one more. With Carvana, it is. Just go to Carvana.com Enter your license plate or vinyl, and get a real offer, down to the penny. No back and forth, no surprises. Just an experience you can trust, like your offer, accept it, schedule pickup, and we'll come to you with a check in hand. Your car, your timeline, your terms. Visit Carvana.com to sell your car today. Carvana pickup fees may apply. They want somebody to call them handsome. They want somebody to rub on them. They want somebody to hear them and see them and comfort them. So.

[A]

And that gets lost a lot.

[B]

And that gets lost a lot in relationships. And it's genuinely sad. Like, it makes me sad when a man is like, hey, I provide. And I'm, like, still getting put into the corner. And a lot of men out there are like that. A lot of women think they're the prize. A lot of women think that they're everything and all. But the truth is, is it's like,

[A]

it has to be balanced and equal. You know, both need to be providing, right?

[B]

Because if you're just taking, taking, taking and taking from this man.

[A]

I mean, I've always said if, like. And I.

[B]

It's.

[A]

It's sad, but it's true. But if you're not going to suck his dick, somebody else will. Not saying that it makes it okay, right?

[B]

But, like, preach.

[A]

It's the reality of it.

[B]

It is. And it's like, you really have to go. It's like, say we're in a relationship. I have a specific. I. I want to go. I have a specific hobby that I like to do, and you have a specific hobby that you like to do. I don't want to do your hobby. But you don't want to do my hobby. It's still important to find balance so that we can both enjoy each other and just give little, little pieces of each other to Just, hey, I know that I don't really like this, but because I love you, I'm gonna do this with you. It doesn't have to be all day, every day, 24 7.

[A]

Yeah.

[B]

But finding that little time with your partner to connect and being able to have open, honest, raw conversations is important. Because if you're not able to do that, they will do that somewhere else.

[A]

Yeah. It's so true. That's wild. Okay, so did you. Did you only do the brothel for two weeks?

[B]

I would. Since I had the sugar daddy, I would just go. I would drop by here. My motto is I never.

[A]

It seems like you'll go with what you do. You can kind of go all over the place. Right. Okay. So even with the strip club, do you have to quit?

[B]

No.

[A]

When you. Okay. So you just kind of are like, I'm going here for a little, but I'll be back.

[B]

I've danced in Texas, Florida, I've danced.

[A]

So wherever you are, you can go into the places that you've already worked. Is that how it is?

[B]

Yeah. Even if you haven't worked there before, you just audition. So I could work here tonight if I wanted to. All I do is bring my outfit and then I bring identification and then I just go to the club. Hey, can I audition? That's how you.

[A]

Okay. And then you can work that night.

[B]

Yeah. Unless you're in, like, Phoenix. Some cities and states do have licensing regulations.

[A]

Okay, so. Or if it's like a bigger place, maybe.

[B]

Well, it depends on the city and the state got it. Because, like, Phoenix, in order to dance, you have to get a dancer's license. So you would go to the town hall, get a license, and then you're able to dance. Cities like Texas or. Yeah, cities in Texas, you don't need to get a license. You just go in and apply. And like, for example, there's always going to be different rules and regulations in any city or state. In Texas, they have this weird rule where even though we're at a topless club, we still wear pasties.

[A]

Okay.

[B]

So you can't really see our nipples still. They're usually spray painted.

[A]

Okay.

[B]

Or we have pasties on. That's like something that is illegal if you don't have.

[A]

Okay.

[B]

In the state of Texas, if you take off your stripper shoes in the club, that's a prostitution charge. That's something that you can do in Arizona.

[A]

Right. I went to. When I was 18, I went to my first strip club and I was so nervous because I had never been. And it Was a fucking hole in the wall. Strip club bully, nude. Like, and that would, like, because I've heard that most of them aren't or some of them aren't. So walking in, I was like, oh my God, like a leg spread, puss out. I was.

[B]

And there was no alcohol probably. Right. Because usually fully nude is no alcohol. There was a bar. Really? Maybe they were serving non alcoholic drinks though.

[A]

Yeah.

[B]

Because fully nude typically is no drinks.

[A]

Okay.

[B]

Yeah. For that reason.

[A]

That's great. You know, it's funny, my boyfriend, his family owns a strip club.

[B]

Really?

[A]

Yeah. So it's like. I mean, I haven't been to theirs, but like, here. Yeah, like, right. Like, I'll go there tonight.

[B]

I'll be at your club, right?

[A]

Yeah, no, I haven't been. But yeah, they've owned it for years and I think now there's a law or there's a rule here where they can't, like the area that it's in now, it's like not the best area, but they can't move it because I don't think there's like something where you can relocate.

[B]

Yeah, there's like a lot of. Yeah, you know what I mean? When it comes to those.

[A]

But it does well, like hearing what they make in a week and I'm like, Right, I get it. Like, it's like, it's. People want to. I know a lot of people will say, like, at what point is like, money can't buy happiness. I agree with all of that. And it's like, at what point is the money more important than the values or the happiness or this, that and the other. But like, what is life if. Like what. And I don't, I don't mean that in like, what is life? But it's like you can't survive without money. Like, so it's. You pick your poison, you know?

[B]

Right. And so I want to talk about how you can't survive without money, but also you can't make more money living in survival mode.

[A]

Yeah, that's true too.

[B]

So a lot of these girls in this industry are making a lot of money. They're really young. They're making a lot of money. Okay. They're like, oh my God, so much money. So much money. So much money. So much money. Have a plan for your money. Know what you're going to the club for. Have intentions before you go.

[A]

Yeah.

[B]

Write a journal as to how much you're spending to be there, how much you're making that night. Make sure you're writing off your taxes and all that good stuff, you know,

[A]

you're treating it as a business. I think some people are kind of just going in like, here's the money,

[B]

you know, and that's what I'm saying. These girls that are like, I'm just going to go audition today. I make so much money, like hehehe ha. Like yes. And this isn't so it's not as easy as it may seem. Like a lot of girls come to me and they're like, lexi, you're so successful. We saw your podcast with Candace Owens, yada, yada yada, and I'm here to tell you guys that none of that came overnight. Like I put blood, sweat and tears into my craft to perfect it.

[A]

Yeah.

[B]

And I did it all alone. And that's why I want to be able to help women that are in my industry or just women in general that need some support. Because I can't fix, save or solve your problems, but I can lead you in the right direction. I am really business orientated. And once you start making so much money, you really have to prioritize your own sense, like your own well being. And what I mean by that is like your mental and your emotional because your physical can only take you so far. I'm not talking about beauty, I'm literally talking about your body. For me, I was neglecting myself while I was hustling so hard. I, at some points in my life, like I would go into one club during day shift, I would work there during the day, I would clock out and I would clock right back into another club for night shift because I knew that this club during the day does well and I knew that this club at night was popping. So I was overworking myself and I was just, I was just doing it, just doing it, just doing it. I had a really good flow doing it because I'm so cutthroat and my dad was in the military, so that's just, I'm programmed to like, to just perfect my craft. I feel like, you know, and so throughout this time I ended up, ended up actually getting staph infection in my knee. And during this time, I think this was the most pivotal moment for me because I was like, okay, money can't buy happiness. But I guess because I was making all this money and I remember, like, I will never forget, I was driving down the road in Texas and I was like, life is so good. I'm making so much money, I'm happy, I'm healthy, like this is everything I asked for and more. And then the Next month. Like, my knee was hot, red, and swollen for no reason. And I was like, what's going on? And so I got taken to the emergency room, and they were like, did you know you have a fever? And I was like, no. They were like, yeah, well, what's going on with your knee? Like, why does it look like that? And my knee looked fine. Like, it was just a regular knee. There was no cuts or abrasions or anything like that. So I was genuinely concerned because I couldn't walk and my leg was stuck like this.

[A]

Okay.

[B]

Like, it was stuck. Like, I couldn't bend it because of the swelling and everything else. And it turns out I had staph infection in my knee, which caused me to be hospitalized for a month.

[A]

Wow. Do you know how you got it?

[B]

So I had a tiny little cut below my knee that got infected, and I went to the doctors for it, and it healed. It could have either came from that that was below my knee or it just from micro tears. Because you can get staph infection from, like, the gym.

[A]

Yeah.

[B]

And if you have the tiniest little tear. We all have micro tears in our skin if you come into contact with it. Like, that's that. You know what I mean? And somehow, some way, like, my knee was dormant, too, because I remember having that little cut. It was, like January 2023. But I went to the hospital in May. So in May, I was like, my knee was fine. All these, like, all these months, it looked like fine. So I was like, what the heck? So I think that it was staph infection, either from the cut or it just somehow seeped into. I also had a lot of fluid built up.

[A]

Okay.

[B]

So I don't know if the staph infection, like, brewed from the fluid that was trapped in my knee.

[A]

Yeah.

[B]

But they ended up having to, like, take out the fluid. And I was hospitalized for a month and on antibiotics. And, like, staph infection is serious. Like, you could die. And not to mention, I forgot the most important part of the story. They wanted to amputate my leg, My left leg. That's how bad the infection was. And at this moment, I was just thinking about how good life was. Like, I was like, oh, my God, everything is so good. And then, boom. Now they're talking about amputating my leg tomorrow, and I have no family with me. Like, I'm by myself in this hospital. And they're like, yeah, you're gonna be going in for surgery tomorrow, and we're gonna have to amputate and da Da, da. And I'm like. And during that time, I realized that I had a lot of friends, a lot of people, a lot of people that I could call and, you know, go to the club with and go here and do this and do xyz. But during my time where I was hospitalized, I lost all my friends. I really found who were my real friends and who weren't my real friends. I realized that a lot of people love being around me and my energy and. But that's all. That's it.

[A]

Yeah. As soon as something goes wrong, they're like, yeah, right.

[B]

Yeah. And so it's so important to find people in your life that pour into you, because when. When you're not feeling the best, like, that's the type of friends you need. And it was just so, like, life changing because I was such an unhappy camper for 30 days, like, being stuck. And, like, my family came through and, like, a few of my friends did, but I had to ultimately like, that. Those 30 days where I was in the hospital, I really had to, Like, I was planning the rebrand. Like, I was like, we can't. Yeah, I can't live like this no more. I can't befriend people like this no more. You will never see me at the clubs just, like, going out to drink with you guys all anymore. I really had to cut a lot of people off and go ghost from a lot of people because I was realizing that, like, I was the one providing in this. In the. In these relationships and these friendships and everything else. And. Cool. You have all these friends that you can go party with and stuff like that, but how many friends are gonna show up for you when you're in the hospital and need you? You know? And I. I think that's when I had my spiritual awakening and was like, wow, like, there's so much more to life than, like, what I've been doing. Like, I've just been hustling every day, all day, going to the club all day. Like, I was like, that's all. I. I was just eating, living, breathing, shitting, working. Like, that's it. My whole identity was revolved around my job. I learned the game and I made it mine. You know what I mean? And so when I was in the hospital, I was like, okay, we gotta start finding hobbies. If you're a sex worker in the industry, I advise you to find hobbies. Go to school. But hobbies is so big because a lot of us will coop ourselves up at home or in hotel rooms and we won't leave for days, and we'll only leave for clients. And that's not healthy. That's not good. Be your balance, right? Have balance. Be your own best friend. Do things that make you happy, and learn more about yourself when you're not busy, when you're not working, when you have slow days. For me, if I'm not making money and I'm like, damn, haven't made money in a week, this sucks. You know what I mean?

[A]

Yeah.

[B]

Instead of being like, this sucks, be like, no. The universe is living literally giving you an opportunity to slow down. What can you do during this time while it's slow?

[A]

Yeah.

[B]

You know, find some hobbies, workout, paint. Like, find something that you're genuinely passionate about. Because for me, I thought it was so embarrassing when people were asking me, hey, Lexi, like, what do you like to do for fun? What do you do? And I was like, work, make money.

[A]

Hustle.

[B]

Duh. And I literally thought that that was so cool. Like, I was like, I'm the coolest person on the planet. Like, all I do is work. And truth be told, that's not cool at all. Like, we're not meant to be put on this planet to just work.

[A]

Right.

[B]

And so I found my hobbies, and I found that I'm very passionate about teaching people yoga.

[A]

Mm.

[B]

I'm really passionate about teaching people about emotional regulation and helping women find boundaries and just feel more comfortable within themselves. Mm. And, yeah, so this year, that's what I was last year. That was my mission to really find myself and find what I enjoyed doing.

[A]

Yeah.

[B]

And kind of step away from that. I'm still in it, but stepping away from that to kind of find me.

[A]

I am sure so many of you can relate to the feeling of just feeling like something is off. Whether it's. No matter what you eat, your stomach just isn't settling. It doesn't feel right. You're exhausted. Midday. That is, like, the biggest thing that I struggle with. And something that I just started to realize is that so much of these off feelings actually tie back to your gut and your gut health, whether it's your digestion or your brain function or your focus or your overall energy levels. And that's why it is so important to really nourish and take care of your gut. And that is why I started taking just thrive probiotics. And it's not one of those probiotics or things that you take that just looks good on paper. It actually is meant to arrive in your gut 100% alive, which is the whole Point. Right. So instead of just hoping that something works, you're actually giving your body a real shot at better digestion, stronger immunity, and just feeling like you are back to your normal self again. And the best part, there is no risk. You can try it and see how you feel. Start your 90 day risk free trial today at just thrive health.com insane and save 20% on your first order. That's just thrive health.com promo code insane. Be the best you with just Thrive. So what year did you do the. It was a podcast with Candace Owens.

[B]

Yeah, I believe it was like two years ago at this point. Huh.

[A]

And I, from what I remember, she would do those podcasts with only fans, models or girls and I guess what, like question them and whatever else, she

[B]

got invited onto a panel where we just so happen to be there.

[A]

Okay.

[B]

And like I said, again, like, I just so happened to be at the right place at the right time.

[A]

How did that make you feel? Like, because I know that she was. I think from what I've seen, it was more like shaming girls in your industry.

[B]

Right, Right. How did it make me feel? It made me feel really good. I have this like really weird thing where like when people are mean to me or try to be mean to me or leave me nasty messages or comments, I kind of get off to it.

[A]

Okay.

[B]

It's like really thrilling for me and it just like motivates me even more. Like, that's my best motivator. So I was like, hell yeah.

[A]

Yeah. Like, did you go back and forth

[B]

with her at all? Yeah.

[A]

Okay.

[B]

And I just like, again, like, you can hate me for. You can hate me. But what I'm saying is like, for the most part, what comes out of my mouth is true. So whether you like to hear it or not, I'm still speaking the truth. So if you don't like the truth, everybody wants to know the truth until they hear the truth and then nobody wants to hear the truth. And that's. Well, look at society today, you know what I mean? So for me it was quite interesting and it got to really pick my brain and it was very. It was good.

[A]

But like, a conversation like that wouldn't make you feel bad about yourself.

[B]

No, not at all. Because like I said, I have a strong sense of self. I know who I am.

[A]

Okay.

[B]

Nobody else can tell me what I am or what I'm not.

[A]

Yeah.

[B]

Because I'm sure there's a lot of

[A]

women and girls that would, you know, just have that conversation with someone that's completely different. Than them and feel like shit about themselves.

[B]

Right.

[A]

Or question everything they're doing or, you know.

[B]

Exactly. And that's. That's normal. Also, I feel like if you know yourself so well and you know what you stand for and you know your values and you know what you believe in, it shouldn't matter what anybody else has to say about you. I know myself. God knows who I am. So your perspective on me is a personal perspective. If that's how you feel about me or if that's how you think about me, then so be it. So it is. So be it. And I'll let you, because it's why when I let you, it gives me back my power.

[A]

Yeah, right. Don't give your energy and power away.

[B]

Right. If I'm gonna be worried about, oh my God, I'm so scared, that automatically takes the power away from my situation and puts it right into their hands.

[A]

Yeah, absolutely. So in 2023, after you got out of the hospital, did you go back to the strip clubs and were you still doing the webcam and leafing? Do you currently still do all of these things?

[B]

So I currently am just doing independent escorting.

[A]

Okay, so where did that, when did that switch happen?

[B]

After I got out of the hospital and did like, my rehabilitation for my knee, I went to the Bunny Ranch and I worked there for a little bit.

[A]

What's that?

[B]

That's another brothel in Moundhouse, Nevada. And I will say I like the Mustang Ranch more just because it was

[A]

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[A]

Yeah.

[B]

Being young and being pretty.

[A]

When people come in there, do they have to get tested, too?

[B]

No.

[A]

So just you guys?

[B]

Just us. But protection is used for everything.

[A]

Even blowjobs?

[B]

Yes.

[A]

Okay.

[B]

For blowjobs? Yes. If I'm going down on a woman, we got dental dams for that as well. Protection is a must, and it's illegal

[A]

if you don't got it. Okay. And the people there you said were questionable?

[B]

Oh, yeah, the girls were questionable. Just because it's like, here, I'm gonna tell you a little, like, little story. Being pretty, young, and successful when you're minding your own business will trigger and quite literally cause a whole lot of chaos for you. And that's okay. But in my experience, I went in there and I was really quiet. And I say to myself, that's how I always am. And I noticed that the longer I was there and the longer I talked to nobody and the longer I stayed in my room, the girls would kind of try to come around. There would be, like, knocking on my door. Hi, we're going to go to the smoke shop. Do you want to come with me? Hi, we're making dinner. Do you want to come make dinner with us? And they were trying to slowly include me, but the welcome was not warm at all. They were trying to haze me out of that house. They were really. They were bullying me. Bullying me. I say that very lightly, but they were really trying to cause issues with me for absolutely no reason. So that's why I made it like, my own personal duty to stay away from these girls during my time there. And I noticed that the longer that they were watching me hustle and the way I was working, they were watching me work. They were watching the way I was making money. They knew I didn't come to fuck around. And they were like, okay, she's gonna last here. Because oftentimes these girls at the ranches will kind of bully you to get you out.

[A]

Okay.

[B]

Because they're like, oh, well, she can't handle it. And she's only going to be able to be here for a little bit, and then she'll be gone. So why even talk to her? Why even give her a warm welcome? Because chances are she's not going to be here in a week or two.

[A]

Yeah.

[B]

That's how a lot of these girls, that's their mindset. We're not going to take the new girl under their wing because she's not even going to survive her last year. So I was like, okay, I don't need nobody to hold my hand. I don't need to sit with you guys to feel whole alone. So I would just do my own thing. But I slowly started to realize that they wanted some of my presence, because when you're quiet and you don't say much, people oftentimes are curious because you become mysterious. And I was just kind of like, no, I'm good. I'm okay.

[A]

Yeah.

[B]

Here and there, I'd be like, all right, let's go smoke, or something like that. But for the most part, I was just watching this pattern.

[A]

How long were you there?

[B]

And I was. I was there for probably, like, less than a year.

[A]

Okay. And you're coming and going, still doing your own thing in between. And then after that is when you

[B]

became an independent escort after the Candace Owens podcast. Okay. Aired. I started doing my own independent stuff. Yes.

[A]

And how is that? Kind of just. You're picking everything yourself. You kind of are your own.

[B]

Yeah. So I have a website. It's littlemisslexi with 2x's.com. and on my website, it tells you everything from the prices, it shows you photos of me, my statistics. And then there's also, like, a contact form where people will fill out the contact form. I require, like, a selfie, an ID, LinkedIn, something to verify you. And then once I receive your email, I review it, and then I'll be in touch.

[A]

And then it's basically whatever people want, once again, whether they just want your company or sexual things or whatever.

[B]

Right.

[A]

Okay. And you approve or deny. Right. And then has that been pretty good for you?

[B]

Yes, it has been. It's been amazing since I left that ranch. I really want to thank Candace. A lot of my fans are like, oh, my God, she was so mean to you, and blah, blah, blah, blah, blah. And I can't believe the way she spoke to you. But in all honesty, guys, you guys have to remember that this is social media. Every one of us is playing a role. We're all playing a part, and that's the role she's playing. And I will never knock her for playing that role. You know what I mean?

[A]

Yeah.

[B]

She said what she had to say. She's in character. She's acting for her part. And I'M going to let her. It doesn't offend me.

[A]

And everybody's allowed to have their own right opinions. I will say, I think that there's a way to have your own opinion and still be open and nice and accepting. That's one thing I've never understood, is how disgusted and grossed out and angry people get when you don't have the same views or same opinions.

[B]

Right.

[A]

Like, it's. It's just interesting to me, like, why can't you disagree but still just be like, good for you?

[B]

And that's the problem with this world. And if you take that and you shine that into multiple different parts of our life in our world today, that's exactly how it is. Us as a united should be united. We should all be here for each other whether we disagree or not. I'm still not gonna hurt you or say mean things to you or leave you for dead. You know what I'm saying? Right. I think that's so important to be able to be so mature, to be like, hey, like, I know we don't believe the same things, but like, right

[A]

people, it's almost like their skin crawls. They can't. They can't even hear it. They. They can't listen without having an opinion. They have to be right. And it's a shame. Okay, so you're doing the escorting now. Do you still have Only fans? Do you do that anymore?

[B]

Yeah, occasionally I'll do the only fans. It just kind of scares me because a lot of my clients that want to see me in person will get on OnlyFans and they're like, I want to see you in XYZ state. And I'm like, you guys are going to get my account taken down. Okay, so.

[A]

Oh, okay.

[B]

So.

[A]

Right, because you can't do meetups.

[B]

Right. So I'm like, me being on Only Fans, I kind of just use that to post sexy photos of me.

[A]

And what about the cam modeling?

[B]

The cam modeling thing? I've kind of. I do. I'm on Sex Panther right now and that's the website I've been using. I don't do it as often as I used to just because I do have a regular client base that I see in person.

[A]

Got it. And are they all over or is it mainly just where you are located?

[B]

It's all over. But I am based in Arizona and I'm a full time student so I prefer to have my clients come see me in Arizona.

[A]

Got it.

[B]

I'm willing to travel if it's worth.

[A]

If it's worth it. Yeah.

[B]

Right.

[A]

And then when you're. So, like, for example, when you are traveling, like, you coming here, are you still finding work?

[B]

Yes.

[A]

Interesting. So how do you promote yourself with that? Or would you do something like a strip club thing where you'd.

[B]

The way I promote it is on Twitter.

[A]

Okay.

[B]

Yeah. And I'll just be like, hey, I'm here.

[A]

Wow, interesting.

[B]

And then also, I have, like, on my website, I have a tour request, so if you want to see me in a specific city, you can go on my website and type in your city. And so then on times like this, like, I'll review the list and be like, who's in Baltimore right now? That's already questioned. And then I'll reach out to them.

[A]

Got it.

[B]

Right. Like, I have a system.

[A]

So, like, have you found anybody yet here?

[B]

Yeah. Wow, that's crazy.

[A]

So you can just go anywhere and just work?

[B]

Yeah.

[A]

Damn, that's wild. Are you comfortable with saying the most that you've made in a month? You don't have to. I'm just asking.

[B]

I'm gonna keep this private for right now.

[A]

Go ahead. Good for you. I mean, I don't care. I just like to. You know, people want. People always want to know. I had another question. Hold on. Let me think. It was that. Okay. Have you ever been in a situation, like a sexual situation that's been, like, really gross, just, like, grossed you out completely?

[B]

I'll tell you this time where I was working at the Mustang Ranch, and we did dick checks there. So it was like. Yeah. Like, literally everyone was like. We called them DCs.

[A]

Okay?

[B]

And everyone's like, what's a DC? And I'm like, it's a dick check. And basically, you go in and, like, you. You take a look and you see all what's going on, make sure it looks good, happy, and healthy. And during this DC check, I had a gentleman. He was hot, too. Like, so hot. I was like, oh, my gosh. Wow, this is gonna be so much fun. I'm getting paid and you're cute. Cool, ma'. Am. He pulled down his trousers and dropped his boxers, and there was shit streaks in his draws.

[A]

Ew.

[B]

Like, we hadn't even made it that far yet.

[A]

Did it stink?

[B]

Ash Trevano, did it stink? Do you know who I'm talking about?

[A]

Oh, God.

[B]

You said, did it stink? Yeah, it stink. So what did you do, girl? I charged him double. I said, I'm gonna need this much more money. And then when we do get to my room, I'm Gonna need you to take a 10, 15 minute shower. That's gonna be taken from your time. Yes, absolutely.

[A]

Okay.

[B]

I just literally put his clothes in a plastic bag and I threw it outside my window, or I threw it outside the door for a second. I had him get in the shower, but I made him enter my room naked. I had him go shower. I made him take a long, hot, steamy shower. I gave him a rag. I will watch you shower, by the way, because I've learned that not a lot of people even know how to shower themselves, basically. So I will sit there like your mother and I will be like, okay, babe, like, let's jump in the shower and then I'll give you a washcloth and I'll give you some soap and I just have conversation with you, but I'm literally watching where you're scrubbing. And if you don't scrub the places I need you to, I will tell you to go scrub that place part again.

[A]

Oh, my God.

[B]

Everybody's got to learn somewhere. So if anything, I'm teaching them.

[A]

Oh, Jesus Christ. See, that's the thing. Like, I. People are just gross. Like, most humans are nasty. So I don't know, like, that's like. I don't know how you do it. I mean, I guess because you make them shower, but like.

[B]

Well, also another thing is, is that my rates are really high.

[A]

Okay. So it kind of gets the nasty ones out.

[B]

It like weaves out the. The suitors that just aren't for me.

[A]

Okay.

[B]

Yeah. Like, I have a lot of high end clients that are so generous, so clean. Okay.

[A]

I have another question. I just thought of most of your clients now with the escorting business. Are a lot of them married?

[B]

Yes.

[A]

Okay. And they just, once again, kind of going back to what we said. They just want that, I guess, attention and love.

[B]

Yeah.

[A]

And connection. Do they ever get nervous about, like people finding out or. That's never really like a discussion. It's just.

[B]

Well, anything with me is always really discreet. Even though I take for verification purposes, like on my contact form, I do require you to send me like, ID or LinkedIn or whatever, or a company website or a business card. I destroy that information immediately after you send it. Okay. It's just for my safety to know who I'm working with.

[A]

Yeah.

[B]

And then privacy, discretion. I advise. Like, I'm all about privacy and discretion. Anything that's being said in my room with me, I don't take out. I value my clients privacy. And I think it's really important to make sure my business stays successful is that I protect.

[A]

I trust you.

[B]

Yeah. I protect my client's privacy when it

[A]

comes to having sex with these people or doing things with them sexually. Do you enjoy, like, do you genuinely enjoy it, would you say? Or is there sometimes where you, like, you kind of feel like you disconnect and it's just business mode?

[B]

There's never been a time where I'm. I'm always present. I like to live my life in the present moment during whatever I'm doing. So if I'm with a client in the present moment, I don't ever take clients that I don't want to see.

[A]

Okay.

[B]

So with that being said, it's like I've never had an experience where I'm like, oh my God, I don't want to do this, but I'm doing it.

[A]

Okay, so you've never like, forced yourself to.

[B]

Right? Correct.

[A]

Okay.

[B]

That's why I think it's important to have good rates.

[A]

Would you consider yourself as more of a hypersexual person?

[B]

No.

[A]

Okay.

[B]

Far from it.

[A]

Actually, I ask because I feel like it does take a certain type of person to be able to be involved with multiple different people sexually because it is an exchange of energy, you know? And like, do you ever feel like your energy is depleted after doing these things with people or even just spending time with them?

[B]

No, because I, like I said, I. I choose the people that I surround myself with.

[A]

Okay.

[B]

And because of that, I'm very comfortable with my choices because I'm not choosing just anybody that, like, I'm not Just. Just because I'm a high end score doesn't mean that I'm accepting every and all bookings that are coming my way. You know what I mean?

[A]

Yeah.

[B]

And so I'm filtering through to make sure we're the right match to make sure that our time together is going to be like. Right. I'm trying to make sure that we're compatible because, yeah, it makes sense. Right? Like, and then for me, it's really easy to just disconnect. It's weird too, because I don't really like being touched.

[A]

So you want to do everything?

[B]

No, like, when I'm with my clients, like, I want to be touched and I want to touch them, but outside of work, I don't like being touched.

[A]

Okay.

[B]

Like, I am not a very affectionate person outside of work. I struggle with that. Both my parents are still together and in my life, but I feel like maybe they didn't give me enough physical touch because I'm just like weirded. Out about it if you're not paying me. I don't know. For my friends, it's kind of hard for me to hug them. I'll do it anyways. But it's like I. I get that like weird feeling.

[A]

Yeah.

[B]

Like it's kind of awkward a little bit for me when I'm out in public and girls want to like touch me or whatever. Like, I don't like that. I'm very much so. Like, keep your hands to yourself.

[A]

Yeah.

[B]

So I feel like a lot of people might think that I'm easy or that I am hypersexual, but it's like the opposite. And I don't know why I struggle with that myself.

[A]

Yeah.

[B]

Because I'm very reserved.

[A]

Okay.

[B]

Yeah.

[A]

And then how long have you been. When you said you're a full time student, is that for what you're doing now with the yoga stuff or.

[B]

Yes.

[A]

Okay. And you've been doing that for what, a year or so?

[B]

Yes. Okay.

[A]

And what is your plan with that? Are you gonna like, do you want to open something up? Would it be virtual? Like what are you.

[B]

Yeah. So I want to do soft. Chaos is about living life and embodying all aspects of yourself. I feel like we all go through chaos and chaotic moments in our life and even though we're going through a lot of chaos, it's still so important to be soft and kind and gentle to yourself and just like move through life with like just gentleness and ease. And so I want to be able to provide a. I think like a virtual type of thing where virtual and in person. I want to do yoga and I also just really want to help people do one on one coaching sessions and like be there for people that need support. Maybe they don't have family or maybe they don't have somebody to like call or whatever. But I just want to be like that safe place and build a community for women to just kind of like thrive without surviving.

[A]

Yeah.

[B]

Or like, you know, without surviving in survival mode. Because I think it's so important.

[A]

How much school do you have left?

[B]

This October will be finished. Oh, congratulations.

[A]

It's amazing.

[B]

But I think I'll be able to start teaching yoga in April.

[A]

Okay, cool. So then would you go to other studios? Is that how that works?

[B]

I'm actually planning on doing some like virtual yoga flows and then I'm also going to do just some pop up yogas.

[A]

Nice.

[B]

I love.

[A]

That's exciting.

[B]

Yeah, I love that.

[A]

So do you feel like now that's more of like a better balance for you doing that and the escorting.

[B]

Yeah. Because right now I'm trying to. So right now I'm like, low volume and I've increased my rates and I'm kind of just trying to maintain the clients that I have. Currently, I am taking new clients, but again, it needs to come with some. A good. A good. Something good. I need it to be good. Please offer me something good. I would love a vacation. But I'm trying to give this new business more time to flourish instead of putting all my attention on that.

[A]

Yeah. Do you ever see yourself completely stopping sex work?

[B]

That's an interesting question. Because one day probably, yes.

[A]

Okay. And do you think that it would be hard for you to make that decision financially?

[B]

Maybe. But I think also I might be done sometime soon.

[A]

Okay.

[B]

When I retire, I don't plan on making a retirement post or announcement. I'm just going to disappear. And I hope that everybody that wants to see me in person decides to book me before that time comes.

[A]

Yeah.

[B]

Yeah.

[A]

Because we don't know when it's going to be.

[B]

We don't know when it's going to be. And how old are you? I'm 25. But I have a really good feeling that.

[A]

Do you. Do you want to be done? And I don't ask that. I want to say this too. Like, I don't ask that. I think a lot of people, when they ask that question, it's like there's like a hidden meaning. You know what I mean? Like, do you want to stop? And like. Because I think there are some people that are built for this life. They can handle it. They're good at it. There's some people that do it and they hate it. They do force themselves and, you know, it is toxic for them. So when I ask that, I guess, like, there's people that love work no matter what that work looks like, and they want to do it until the day they die. And then there's people that like, yeah, I want to stop, you know, And I want to just live a life that has nothing to do with other people or the outside world or social media, because even social media is a huge part of what you do, you know? So, yeah, I guess when I say, like, do you want to stop? I mean just in general, like, the public presence, all of it, as of

[B]

this current moment, I do not wish to stop. However, this won't be a forever thing, and that's in my plan.

[A]

Okay.

[B]

I have an exit plan. And I genuinely love doing what I do so much. Getting into it on accident Was. It's so funny. To me, that story is just hilarious because, like, I was so naive. I didn't know what I was signing myself up for. And I wouldn't have taken any of that back. I don't take back anything I've done. And I feel like now, after doing that podcast with Candace Owens and seeing how viral that went and seeing how many people started to recognize me in public and seeing the change of behavior in my friends and how they were interacting with me from after that was all quite really interesting. It, like, really made me think about so much more all over again because it was like, after that aired, a lot of people were like, oh, I know her. Oh, I know her. I'm friends with her. I know her. And I'm like, stop. You knew me. You've known me in the past. You don't know me today.

[A]

Yeah.

[B]

You haven't even supported me today. But you're so quick to show people, hey, this is no right. And I think that I don't know how to express this. Like, that entitlement that people have with me is a turn off even from, like, my online fan base, because I do this for me and I'm doing this for me, and I'm on my time. This is my life. You're just living in it. And so the more people pressure me to become available for them, the more I go back inward.

[A]

Yeah.

[B]

Because they're expecting and they're. You know what I mean? They're expecting me to be posting here. They're expecting me to be showing up here. I don't run like that. I'm human, too. And if anything were to make me be like, I'm quitting today would probably be like, that aspect. I don't know how else to explain it.

[A]

That makes sense. Do you want a family one day? Do you think

[B]

I'd want some kids,

[A]

but maybe not a man?

[B]

I don't know. It's weird. I, like, know that I want to be a mom.

[A]

Yeah. I also feel like you know too much about how people are in general.

[B]

Yeah. And it's like, I am jaded. You know what I mean? And it's like, I've seen a lot of scary things happen to different people in their marriages and stuff like that. And so I'm kind of just, like, waiting for the right person to come. And when the right person will come, I'll kind of, like, cross that bridge when I get there. Perhaps being in this industry and not having a pimp.

[A]

Yeah.

[B]

Still makes me an outcast in My community.

[A]

Really?

[B]

Yes.

[A]

And why is that?

[B]

Because I think. I think the correct term is I'm a renegade. I don't know. I don't know these terms. I've never had a pimp, so I'm not sure, but.

[A]

So it's more common for women in the sex industry to have a pimp?

[B]

Yes.

[A]

Okay.

[B]

And because I don't. I just don't fit in.

[A]

Yeah.

[B]

Like, because I don't. They can't really with me, and I don't really want to with them either.

[A]

Why do you think people choose to have a pimp?

[B]

My thing is that a lot of these women need. They have no. Like, they need a. They need sense of direction.

[A]

Okay.

[B]

They need somebody to literally hold their hand and say, this is what you're doing. Be here. Do this. Give me this for them. They operate better that way, and you

[A]

just don't need it.

[B]

For me, I know how to manage my own financials, and I don't need somebody telling me to get up out of bed to go do something that I know I need to do.

[A]

Yeah.

[B]

And as a woman, I feel like you are a woman and your client base is a man. Why are you taking advice from a man? Yeah, I'm against the. I'm against that.

[A]

Are there any women pimps?

[B]

Yes, there are. Okay. And so that's something why I want to kind of make my business for women that, like, genuinely need help and guidance. Because you can come to me and ask me all these questions, and I'm just gonna charge you, like, $170 an hour, and we can, like, run it all. You know what I mean? A lot of these people are like, yeah, I'm gonna help you, but you're gonna need to give me all your money. Yeah, I'm gonna help you. Or you're gonna need to give me XYZ with me. I'm like, pay me one time.

[A]

And sometimes pimps want, like, to have sex, too. Right? Okay.

[B]

Yeah. And that's why I'm like, I just want sex. These women to have somebody to go to if they need help from somebody. That's not going to take. I want to be able to help you be successful and independent on your own.

[A]

Yeah.

[B]

You know what I mean? And if I was able. If I'm able to do this for myself and made it this far doing all the legal, like, doing everything by the book, legally and everything, I feel like I could help them. And I don't want them to be able to walk alone in it knowing that there's somebody out there that's willing to, like, hold their hand through it.

[A]

Yeah. Especially somebody more trustworthy.

[B]

Right. Because I don't want to just take, take, take from you. I want to be able to make sure that you're learning and you're applying it. Because I'm not going to be here forever.

[A]

It's crazy. I had a girl on that was. I think she was pimped by her boyfriend. I haven't posted that one yet. That was pretty crazy, too.

[B]

Yeah. I have a lot of friends that are. Their dudes are their pimps. And I'm like, if that makes you happy, go for it again. It's not my life. It's not my story.

[A]

But they're probably pimping out other women too. Right?

[B]

A real pimp would.

[A]

Okay.

[B]

A real pimp would. No, a real pimp would.

[A]

Yeah.

[B]

Because if he's a pimp, but he only just got you, that ain't a real pimp.

[A]

Yeah.

[B]

That's a. An interesting dynamic of a relationship.

[A]

Right.

[B]

And this is all my personal opinion, by the way. Yeah.

[A]

Right. Damn, that's wild.

[B]

Yeah. Yeah. And also another thing I wanted to mention is, like, the stigma between. In my community, between each other.

[A]

Yeah.

[B]

Absolutely disgusting. You have OnlyFan girls complaining about prostitutes and escorts. That's so disgusting. Babe. You're basically prostituting yourself online. Then you have escorts. And you see, since I'm like an escort, an OnlyFans girl and a dancer, I'm all three.

[A]

Yeah.

[B]

And I've done a little bit of porn with a few porn stars, like on the hub, you know, so it's just like, for me, I'm very versatile. I wear many hats in this game. And to see strippers fighting with prostitutes and prostitutes fighting about OnlyFans girls, the prostitutes will be like onlyfans girls or posting their pussy online and yada, yada, yada. And OnlyFans girls are. And she's selling it. And then the stripper girls are like, well, I don't have sex in the club, but she's selling pussy in the club. So that brings down my value in the club. I think it's so funny because it's like we're all here doing the same thing, and if anything, we should be building each other up in this community because we are all outcasts in this society.

[A]

Right.

[B]

And instead of coming together and being united as a whole, you're picking. You're picking each other apart. And I think that that's so disgusting because it's like just. Just be. And for Me, I feel like the women that point fingers and are like, for example, this is a good one. When girls are like, I'm at the strip club and I saw this girl and she's having sex in the strip club. And now she's ruining my chances of making money. Yes. And what I'm hearing is an excuse from you. Because sure, she's selling her pussy for however much of the strip club, but think to yourself, would you want that client, right. To see you? Yes or no? If no, then it's like, baby, you didn't lose out on nothing.

[A]

Yeah.

[B]

What's meant for you will always find you. I'm an escort. I don't fuck in the club. When I go to the club, I dance at the club.

[A]

Right. You're keeping it all separate, Right.

[B]

So it's like, I'm never gonna be like, oh, because she's in the club, I'm not making money.

[A]

Wrong.

[B]

I think that's an excuse. There's always a way to make money. And you don't want those clients that are in the club anyways. Yeah, but that's not gonna mess up your bag. What's gonna mess up your bag is that mentality that you have of, oh, she's ruining it for everyone. She's ruining it for everyone. That, that. That's non. Existent.

[A]

And I'll just always think it's. It's funny that sex work is so shamed upon when the normal people that just work normal jobs are still so involved in that life.

[B]

Right.

[A]

Because like you said, it wouldn't exist if they weren't.

[B]

And it's like, as sex workers, if we walk into a room anywhere, all the civilians are going to be fans. They're always like, so curious about our lifestyle and this and that. And that's so many questions. Like, they're like, oh my God, you're a sex word. And I'm just like, okay, I. I'd admire that. I admire your curiosity, but also, what are you doing to support my kind?

[A]

Yeah.

[B]

And my people? You know what I mean? Because it's like, it's the culture. It's like, you know, yeah.

[A]

It's wild. And I feel like. I mean, obviously I don't think it will ever not be a taboo subject. I think it's always something because for some reason, sex and selling sex and everything in between, it makes people uncomfortable.

[B]

Right.

[A]

Even though everybody does it every day, but it makes people uncomfortable. And I think especially making money off of it, people are very, very quick to judge it. And I think it just goes back to what we said of you. Do you, I do me right. You know, and there should be no anger or hate or bitterness towards it. You can have difference of views and values and opinions and morals and whatever else you say, but that doesn't give you the right to frown upon anyone.

[B]

And I feel like right now with what with everything going on in the world, I feel like it's so important to really realize that because it's like you can have your opinion and it can be different from mine, but the way you voice it and the tone that you use carries your message.

[A]

And also I think the fact that you are still a human with feelings. And I think a lot of people forget that when it comes to this industry. People look down upon you guys. They'll think you're dumb. They'll think that you don't have any value. You don't like, provide anything. You don't have a brain, whatever else. But I like that you also talked about your own values, things that you want to do. You know, the fact that you do have goals. Because I think a lot of people wouldn't think that. And there's. I'm with, like with anything. There's people that wouldn't, you know. But I think it goes to show that you are still somebody, that you have plans, you have strategies, you have ways of doing things and saving your money and other things that you want to, you know, blossom into.

[B]

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